AN EXIT STRATEGY FROM A NARCISSIST CHAPTER 8 ME MY MINE

[@anapatricia07]

"The goal is never to get even, the goal is to get out." I finally get it Lord.

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

If u try to get even with a narc u r also stooping to their level....no contact is best especially for healing.

[@aneshrathomas]

Right we don’t do folks how they do us, we do BETTER 😌🙌🏾

[@KingdomWoman333]

Vengeance is His says God.

[@KingdomWoman333]

Yes, do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good. God is all good. Put Him first!

[@laurenkidd205]

❤

[@taracarter3902]

My exit from the Narcissist was absolutely Epic! I literally prayed him out of my house after 7 short 😮months of marriage! I felt this man was demon possessed and after relocating out of the marital bedroom I went to work with the help of my spiritual Sister. She came to stay with me for the purpose of supporting me.. We prayed out loud and played praise and worship starting every morning at a high volume starting at 6AM until he left for work by 9am (which got earlier as time went on) When he returned home, we did the same...prayer and praise and worship music loud enough for him hear weather he wanted to or not. We did this daily (all 7days) for two weeks. On day 14 he FLED the home!! I'm talking ran out!!! God is so good!! I was planning to serve him with divorce papers but he left on the very day....but God!! He ended up texting me that he's was going to be at his family's for the weekend and then leaving town for another 2 weeks. Because of his text I knew where he was and he was ultimately served in front of his entire family! Healing is now in progress! Thank you Lord!!

[@khalilahanderson]

The praise and worship didn’t work on mine. He’s a Pastor so he’s used to it. I had to leave instead . Either way, thank God for peace and freedom. Glad you were able to worship your way out.

[@CL-do5eq]

Look at how god set it up. You had a beautiful plan but god make it better. Congratulations and god bless this is a true testimony

[@nathalie8497]

Amen

[@mandy4121]

That is so awesome so happy for you 🎉!!! Praise God! Thank you Lord for this victory.

[@BlackBeauty-yl8uq]

😂😂😂😂Same here. He’s in church many times each week. I am praying for deliverance for my son and I

[@nicolesmith923]

This was really good, I am definitely getting the book! I blocked him for the first time today because I’m tired of the disrespect, accusations, and threats. I am fighting against the fear of what may happen next but I know God did not give me a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and a sound mind. No weapon formed against me or my children will prosper in Jesus name! Amen

[@grace4976]

Left my narc of 13 yrs 1 1/2 yrs ago. It was only by the grace of God I made it out alive 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@Xstravagancedesigns]

Same. Was with mine 13 years....finally free 🙌🏾

[@CC-sy7sr]

I was involved with a narcissist. He was very charming in the beginning. He has mentioned his anger issues. His anger was not an issue because he did not show it to me. It was however, his lies, him playing the victim role, the manipulation and the more I did for him the. ore he wanted. It did not take me too long to leave. After 7 months, I stopped all communication. I saw right through him. I observed, I questioned and I reacted. I warned him but he thought I was playing. I stopped talking to him completely. This was very recent. He kept calling and sending really long text messages. I continue to ignore. First and last time I allow a narcissist into my life.

[@CL-do5eq]

I finally left a dv relationship almost 2 months ago. I started listening to you a year and a half ago. Each video gave me strength. God is my spiritual father, but you and your wife are my spiritual virtual parents. Thank y’all for staying obedient to Gods word. Thank y’all for being intentional about the word because it’s well put together and right on time. I thought God would never want to deal with me again because I converted to what my ex partner wanted religion wise. God is restoring my mind from broken consciousness that you speak of. I pray if not this time around for the New Orleans event that I can make it to the next one when I’m more situated. May God continue to bless you and you entire family and loved ones. ❤

[@Indiscrazyworld]

AMEN

[@Indiscrazyworld]

JESUS LOVES YOU

[@CL-do5eq]

Thank y’all so much 🙏🏽❤️

[@DivinelyPurposed2Grow]

Yes my brother is a narcissist!!! He fits all the characteristics!! I finally decided to detach in 2022! What an emotional roller coaster!! Had to bite my tongue a lot and I felt like I had to walk on eggshells around him. I learned that I have to love him from a distant and pray that God heals him!!

[@creativegemarts]

My mom and brother are narcissistic narcissists as well & learning a lot about them. SMH I’m praying everyday for away out of this toxic household!! 🙏🏽

[@crystalmendoza7216]

Executed in 2022. You are one of the Godly content creators that played a pivotal role in me discarding the discarder. God saw fit to save me. Hallelujah 💯❤️

[@Inga377]

I concur!❤️

[@jayj6832]

I really needed to hear this. Wow. I been in a relationship for 4 years. It’s so different from any relationship I have ever been in. I feel so twisted and mentally stuck. For some reason I just can’t shake this person. I see every single reason why I don’t want to be with him. Yet! I feel so trapped he’s so persistent. When I cut him off I feel so peaceful then he pops back up even if he’s blocked and just begs and lies and lies and lies. I been praying this time and asking God to deliver me from this narcissistic spirit. This person is so delusional and will swear to the highest heavens it’s not really what it looks like. I’m praying so hard against this spirit.

[@creativegemarts]

I pray God makes a way for you to! When your out stay out for Good ! 💕🙏🏽

[@childhoodluv]

I've been involved with my childhood friend. We dated for 3 years broke it off, then reconciled 3 yrs later. Never could get it off the ground with multiple tries. Listening to you Pastor I now know why. He has all the characteristics of a narcissist. Heck had me so confused I was soul searching myself to see was I one as well. I am a child of God, I worship and Praise him daily. I am a believer. How could I allow myself to be hoodwinked this long. All the while I knew something wasn't right, but I couldn't let go. I'm healing, and it's so hard, but I feel so good to be free. Thank You Pastor for all your contributions to our Sisterhood.

[@teresa28ist]

Whatever you do don't go back. Like Pastor said, gain 15 pounds, get in the tub and eat a gallon of ice cream if you have to but don't go back. Cut off all communication!!

[@traceyjones4342]

Wow this is so ironic the same thing happened to me I dated a childhood friend we were involved for over 10.yrs but I was told not to get involved with this

[@traceyjones4342]

Person off and on I knew something was wrong with him I pray he gets help soon there is nothing to hard for God

[@StephaniRoberts]

Wow. I’ve had a podcast about surviving narcissism for about eight years and this is so Sparta on and spiritually uplifting getting your book and sharing this! So glad I caught this tonight. I would love to interview you! It’s The Audacious Life podcast. Thank you!! 💛🙏🏼

[@CL-do5eq]

I pray you get that interview ❤️

[@Theshadythrifter]

It's so funny and ironic I ran across this video, every time the narcissist comes to my house lately I Put Your videos on my TV and he gets so uncomfortable. He will literally begin to glitch or try to start a serious conversation with me while I'm trying to listen to your message lol. ultimately if I don't turn it off he will become so uncomfortable it will cause him to leave! lol I love it and the more I watch you the more the soul tie is being released! Amen, God is good!

[@demigaines5644]

I’m Looking So Forward After 8 Yrs Of Emotional Abuse From My Abuser/The Narcissist I Finally Found The Courage And Strength To Block Delete Disconnect. I Thought I Could Never Do This After Being Severely Trauma Bonded.. 🙏There Is Hope God Saved Me!!! I’m Finally Free. From Belittling Cruel Abuse By A Malignant Narcissist

[@CL-do5eq]

I’m so proud of you ! Me to it’s been about 2 months.

[@avadonadelle2815]

Good for you...🙌🏽 I am divorced 20 months from my narcissistic husband. I had to move out while he was at work. God bless you and wish you the best!!! 🙏🏽✝

[@demigaines5644]

@@avadonadelle2815 Thank you 🙏I’m wishing You The Best To Stay Strong

[@demigaines5644]

@@CL-do5eq I’m Proud Of You To 🙏

[@sdavis6134]

Pastor thank you. I’m new to Houston. I’ve been dealing with a narcissist ex who is also the child of my toddler daughter. He’s leveraged with the court to gain full custody of her because I’ve been running from him in fear of our lives. I have been forced back to Houston to win custody back of my baby. My attorneys encouraged me to stop living in fear of him. Those words “break the grip of fear” really encouraged me today. I will continue to do this spiritual work.

[@kaylifeisajourney1384]

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[@connievelez5478]

I have learned so much living with narcissists. What you are teaching is exactly what and how Holy Spirit has brought me out of these relationships. What I learned through all this God is God, and HE will take care of this child. I love the intimate relationship I have developed with GOD. Yes, Bishop, these people actually die. God is not mocked.

[@avadonadelle2815]

Amen!!! God protected me as well while I was in a toxic marriage. I am 20 months free from the toxicity...thank You, God 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 God bless you and I wish you the best!!! 🙏🏽✝

[@leonablack3516]

You cannot save these personalities or fix them . Get out and stay out. You will heal and rise like a Phoenix out of the ashes.

[@Juniperberry1]

I’m running to go buy this book. I declare this day I am set free!!!

[@Samara077]

Thank you Pastor ; I’m not gonna lie these teachings have helped me so much ; but in a practical way, it helped me to ignore and get out !!! .

[@amyd1754]

Hi everyone! Going through it with divorce after 30 years, heartbreaking 😢

[@warrior4christ902]

You are stronger than you think! Don’t lose your hope or your faith. God has your back. I wasn’t in my marriage too long but God protected and kept me through all the lying and cheating. God made a way of escape for meI had to leave while he went to work. Thank God for freedom and peace! God bless you and I pray it works out for you. 🙏🏽❤️😊

[@kayfleming5180]

Freedom & Peace are on the other side. ❤ Prayers for your healing journey. 🙏🏽

[@fabienneflorestal1052]

In Jesus name I declare total and complete emotional restoration over your life ✨🙏🏽 God got you sis🌹

[@monicasoyombo3360]

Joshua 1:9 You are more than a conqueror friend. God is with you.

[@bravefaery135]

I wish you all the best

[@heathermixson1265]

Glory to God, praises and a HALLELUJAH!!!! May God's face always shine upon you, Pastor Blakes .....thank you !!!!!!!!!!

[@chantellhudson2546]

This Book is such a BLESSING

[@andreawinton6797]

Powerful teaching thank you PASTOR BLAKES

[@denisecieslinski9476]

How exactly do you deal with someone intentionally playing mind games and intentionally inflicting emotional distress on you and making one so confused that they don't know what's up or down any longer and getting revenge on another?? This has really emotionally taken a toll!!!

[@glammaspeaks3861]

Thank you virtual Unc RC and aunt Lisa for this great message

[@HisaLight2mypath]

They hold back the majority of their abuse until they realise that you're too smart and they cannot use you then they start being verbally abusive right out of blue And it gets the worst from there on

[@Theshadythrifter]

This is where I'm at now with my 4 year narc. he knows i'm wrapping it up and no longer want him, he's pulling out all of his punches! lol

[@truebelieverinthelord7823]

God bless you! Thank you for this message!🙏🏽❤️

[@mynameis1975]

May God bless you for every millisecond of your life among us, that of your Wife, your Family and all those you care about. I am so grateful to God to have found your advice in your books, your videos, your words I have been literally gripped to in my worst moments.They have been my very personal support to exit a much dangerous situation safely with my daughter and I am now sharing everything with other people I know in similar situations. Narcissists are life threatening individuals but if we gain and retain wisdom we can win over them and also grow mentally and spiritually.Thank You😊

[@connievelez5478]

Thank you so much, Bishop. This is amazing truth. It's helping many to get out of such destructive relationships.

[@ZOELIFE23-365]

YESSS PASTOR, I NEED TO KNOW THIS...GOOD MEDICINE!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH

[@reyna2187]

I’ve only been in this “relationship” for about 7 months and there have been so many red flags that I chose to ignore. Now I sit here and all I can think is RUN. Thank you for this.

[@karenhawk5778]

Thank you so much!! Your wise words are needed medicine to this weary soul!

[@pamelaleake4898]

Your amazing especially how u use scripture thank u

[@monicasoyombo3360]

Inexplicably angry....,.facts....they are plagued with the spirit of Laviathan!! Thank you Lord for you deliverance.

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Good Morning Bishop & Lady Blakes! INVALUABLE & THANK U Sir! 👍🏽🙏🏽. Wisdom that leads to an Exit! Hallelujah

[@DonovanBernardHamilton]

Thank you for this Bishop. 🙏🏽

[@cee1164]

Always pray to God to guide you on this journey to free yourself (for those who are truly ready to do so) because, as Pastor Blakes stated, this here is spiritual warfare. 🙏

[@yvonneforeman2966]

I appreciate this message, I'm going to use it for my good in the name of Jesus 🙂🙏

[@mariono244]

Thank you my spiritual father. I had a chance encounter with the narcissist ex and was overcome with emotion, seeking closure and understanding as to why I cared for him. But you have rejuvenated my spirit and reminded me to keep going. I have ordered the book - God will give me the closure here

[@BrotherToby85]

CONFIRMATION!!!! Such a great teaching and book! My ex wife is a covert narcissist and though we have two kids, I've become more educated in this matter with more wisdom over the past 2.5yrs. The insulation was what helped keep me spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally. Thank You Jesus!

[@madewithpssn]

“It’s hard to control emotions caused by excruciating pain” I cried at that part .. it’s crazy how someone who claims to love you would make a game out of how you feel. And now you have to turn into someone cold to win the game, who actually wants to do that

[@PrincessLisa2U]

I dated a narcissist a few years ago. It literally almost killed me. Once I broke free, I never looked back. He still trying to contact me even though he's now married ... insult to injury he got married immediately after I left him...

[@charlenasmith8561]

That's a victory! You are free sis.❤ Unfortunately,that person was involved during that terrible relationship and was love bombed by the narcissist. She is a victim now,pray that she escapes regardless.

[@gi4y]

Needed this

[@kimberlyowens723]

Good word

[@dragonmom495]

Forcing my life forward. Trying to get through all the anger at the abuse and the complete disregard from him. And then he gaslights me and blames me for being angry and cries victim to his new circle. Its really hard. I know God's got this, and, its really hard.

[@terrikelly2762]

Thank you so much😊

[@ruthkaunda3343]

Thank you God😭🙌🏾

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Bishop Blakes thank you for your ministry and videos I have discarded the malignant narc I’m still currently married too I plan on filing for divorce have gone no contact blocked him on everything won’t hear from me no more.

[@JustDarling-f1x]

Hi again Bishop, I truly would like your opinion, I have a short email thread I’d like to share with you and have your honest insight on…..also I want to ask can a narcissist be delivered from these many demons and is it possible to interceded on there behalf to be delivered?

[@msanders5206]

If he wants to b the discarder..let him think it's his idea, hang up the phone, turn ur fav music on & praise God for answering ur prayers!🎉😊 living ur best life IS ur sweet revenge.

[@kizzyrock]

Amazing 👏🏽 👏🏽

[@JustDarling-f1x]

Dear Bishop, is there a possible way to receive counseling with you? I really need help I am a young mother and expecting a second baby within a month and I truly need advice, help, insight all of thee above.

[@evabartlett7196]

💯 Amen.......🙏😀🙏🩸💯

[@terrymassie7656]

I'M FREE, HALLELUJAH!!

[@ckl5801]

Amen!!!

[@leonablack3516]

Once you get them out of your life , then you must get them out of your head, because thinking of them can make you go back. Thoughts should be how toxic they are and not of that nice guy you thought they were. Get out and stay out , cut them off , run .

[@weireffie29]

Thanks for Truth...

[@TruthPrevails30]

It is hard for me to move in silence because the narc husband constantly monitors me. He puts key loggers on my devices to learn my every move.

[@EttaPhillips-us2lu]

They just crazy hell

[@willieknows2708]

Thanks🙏😀💦🤲🌎. Four Yrs Free. Still Vengeful.

[@QUEENTEQUILA]

❤ Queen tequila was here

[@EttaPhillips-us2lu]

I dont never want to be around a man like this never again. But i wasnt around with this but a short time but i new something wasnt right how they act and the things they would say to me in there texts turn things around that i wasnt saying say were is all this mess coming from. I think i am going nuts with this mess and thats not what i am saying to this man. But never again for me be to myself for now on

[@sharniapaul7411]

3 years he finally got blessed with a new kidney and i got met at the hospital by another woman imhurting but day2 no contact it hurts!!! I can't believe he did me like that but i am moving forward

[@destiny2572]

Does anyone know who the artist of the intro song is? I’m sitting here listening to it with tears in my eyes. It is healing & I would like to listen to it on a regular basis. Thanks & God bless all who have been victims of narcissist abuse. May we all escape & find healing. ❤👑

[@touniatownseljennings70]

Dave hollister

[@touniatownseljennings70]

Dave hollister

[@nomusandhlovu4710]

If the nassisist is your child how one break through, couse my mother is suffering with his 54 years son who doesn't work want to stay with her and when he's drunk he sear at her all the time. And he can't even apologize. She is tired but cannot let him go find his own place.

[@daphenernorwood]

Dr. Ramani is a great resource on you tube as well regarding narcissistic abuse relating to adult children. God bless.

[@RomamticDreamer]

My mother is one

[@NatashaRenee12]

This was great 😢

[@mommyandmir]

❤

[@JWtheeffect]

Is this helpful if my Dad is a narcissist?

[@naturalgirldiy]

Yes. At least for me it has helped in understanding the traits and behaviours. I have a bad record of attracting very manipulative partners and I came to realise it is rooted in the disfunctional and controlling relationship I have with my Dad. The Bishops teachings have helped me understand the traits and behaviours from a biblical perspective. Unfortunately I live with my Dad who is now elderly but things have gotten worse. I'm working on an exit.

[@Raashida1000]

Got away from mines. It was so relieving. It was so bad until he forced me out my home all along making way for the one he was in conversation the whole time we were married. He did her in too. She got what she deserved. I told her

[@sharniapaul7411]

Did he do her the same way?

[@khayanora9974]

My main question is how do you deliver yourself from some narcissistic traits because you are brought up by a narcissist🙉

[@DD-iq8tq]

Pastor would u consider uploading on spotify? I cant listen while i drive in Australia as we cant use youtube and drive.

[@BlackBeauty-yl8uq]

I screen record and listen audio style while driving 😊

[@DD-iq8tq]

@@BlackBeauty-yl8uq how?

[@RomamticDreamer]

I need to exit my mother she is definitely a narc

[@RomamticDreamer]

Something is wrong with a narc .. it’s like they can’t stop doing the things they do

[@kanjagkollaeller]

Morning, could you please skip the long intro and keep it at the end? ❤ 05:50

[@ckl5801]

I think the intro is way to long. The new song is anointed though 🎉

[@EttaPhillips-us2lu]

These poeple need god in there life it is just too much mess gping on out here now. All these mess up poeple out here in this world it is so sad all this going on. Now. I just be hearing too much mess now. It makes you just stay away from poeple now. Stay to yourself you be better off these times now just too many mess up folks out here now they really need help for real

[@RomamticDreamer]

They need help

[@Estherwendy450]

I watched your video on effects of narcissistic abuse. I was deeply moved because I suffered this. Please advice on how to recover and regain oneself.

[@monicasoyombo3360]

Thank you so much for sharing this information with us! It is so appreciated. When i am free and my finances are also free, i will definitely buy the book. 🙏🏾

[@karriValentine-no9vn]

They say that your the same person that you speak of .

[@hadi_h7917]

🤎✨

[@natalietolmaire2195]

Wisdom is too high for a fool!

[@OnPointWithIt]

These guys do carry a sexual demon spirit. My ex would want sex all the time and I became addicted to him. His sex was so good that looked pass the red flags. Today, he’s using females because I broke his heart. Looking back, he’s used me in many ways.

[@lisamorning2007]

I'm desperate! I'm the 4th wife 15 yrs. I filed. Out of our account. Next day, till NOW, I have NO ACCESS to funds.

[@Poppi_Weasel]

need better drama lessons

[@narcshatetheylovemenhtlm3627]

You’re Always on point Bishop. Thank you for the refresher 🙌🏽🙌🏽☝🏽

[@ZOELIFE23-365]

I LIKE EVERYTHING YOU SAID, ESPECIALLY THE "DRIVE BACK TO YOUR LIFE"I LIKE TO DRIVE FAST SO THAT.... RIGHT THERE, I WILL BE DOING AWAY FROM THE NARC... 😆GOD BLESS YOU BISHOP AND THANK YOU THIS HELPED ALOT🥰😇

[@BrittanyDaJeaan]

I pray God restores you on every level!! @amyd1754