an honest chat. life choices, burnout, mayo clinic, kids... Shadow & Schmooze

[@HeyFinley]

If you do move to Spain, I know the work situation will be different there so I just want to say that I’ll still watch you no matter what content you’re able to create. You’ve built a community here, we aren’t here to just watch you travel, or apply makeup or whatever, we’re here because we’ve become invested in YOU. I hope that takes a bit of the pressure off for you to move to wherever you want!

[@taylorwynn]

aw thank you for this!

[@kimber.bert.]

❤ couldn't agree more!

[@3BeautifulMusketeers]

This!!

[@brookebeamer7666]

Yep, THIS ❤❤❤

[@robbinkamphaus7320]

I agree 💯

[@belindah6554]

I had my children at 39 & 40 & just got my first tattoo at 46. Don't put yourself on the clock, you & others will feel the pressure ❤

[@meldevitt7243]

I got my first tattoo at 41, then a 2nd one at 44 and one this past December to honour my father who passed Dec 13, 2022. To me, a tattoo has to have special meaning. Mine are either quotes or symbols.

[@belindah6554]

@@meldevitt7243 yes agree with you. Mine is Scottish heather which symbolises where my Grandparents ashes lay in Scotland. My next will be to honour my Dad who passed away in 2020. As soon as l got mine l felt they were with me again, I'm sentimental like that so will never tire of it.

[@krista436]

I was in my late 30s when I got my first tattoo! It’s never too late to do it!

[@lisakolker2883]

Not getting a tattoo, but I’m expecting my first child at 40. Obviously everyone’s body is different, but I got pregnant fast and the pregnancy has been super easy and my doctors couldn’t care less that I’m a geriatric pregnancy because so far everything is looking good and going well. I mean there are obvious risks with fertility and complications with age, but it’s not guaranteed that age is going to be a determining factor.

[@meldevitt7243]

@Belinda H totally agree!! We are northern Irish descendants so I have the Celtic Ogham symbol on my wrist for my birthday which is April 13. It just happens to fall under the Alder tree symbol which is my mom's maiden name. I have fire within me in between my shoulder blades....another Aries connection. And on my right inner forearm I have there goes my hero to honour my father. It also happens to be my favourite Foo Fighters song. 😊

[@TheFirstAntarie]

I was your age when I moved out of my country and to Ireland to study for a higher degree. I had felt attracted to Ireland since I was a child and honestly it felt like home to me. I wasn't looking for a relationship, but did find my partner there, then changed careers and moved to the UK for work. I say do it. If Spain suits you, and if Spanish men suit you, you will find a life you love and a relationship. If Spain ends up not suiting you after all, you just need to change course. 30 is young, you have plenty of time. Don't limit yourself.

[@sleighwhite]

Hi! My partner also lives in Northern Ireland and I’m trying to figure out how to get a work visa in the UK. Any tips?

[@TheFirstAntarie]

@@sleighwhite are you a US citizen? I am from Europe, and I moved to the UK before Brexit, so unfortunately I am not sure how things would work with visas. 😕

[@sleighwhite]

Ah, yes I’m from the US. Thank you for replying anyway!

[@efolinsky]

@@sleighwhite going for education vs going for…. Life is a big difference visa wisec

[@bruna5517]

Taylor I'm a nomad myself. Originally from Brazil I've lived in the US, Canada and ended up settled in Ireland. Wherever you move don't go with the thought that you need to stay. Enjoy the place, get to know the culture and if you decide to stay then stay. If you get bored, lonely or if you just want more adventures: just go! Honestly! Don't be afraid to move and regret, you'll learn so much from the experience

[@jmdagger10]

Freeze your eggs. Just take the pressure off. I didn't get married until 38 and had my first baby at 41 and I would have loved to done this so I could have fully enjoyed my thirties without always feeling the pressure of my age. In terms of where you land - yes, your paths will be different but you are the kind of person that can make life happy and full wherever you are!

[@kuwupo]

Tattoo tip that has worked for me: sit on a tattoo idea for at least 6 months to a year. If you still want it then go for it!!

[@hannahkayee831]

Agree!!! I didn't do that and regret every single one lol

[@abbiehartley102]

This is my method too! I love every single one of mine!

[@greaterfleshmachine]

I'm so tickled by this because I did this when I was first getting tattoos, and now that my arms are getting full and my chest is covered and I'm working on other parts of my body - I'm like "yeah that sounds cool. Let's do it." 💀

[@mayravinueza477]

I wasn’t going to comment because everyone has a different opinion. But I want to share my experience. I lived in Florida for 10 years. I really liked it. I had a great group of friends, my kids were born there. We had a pretty nice life. But my husband is Spaniard and every time we would visit Spain, we would say that we were going to retire in a village in the mountains in Spain. Long story short, we moved to Spain. 4 years ago. It was difficult, specially for me, but now I feel more at home. We live close to the sea in Galicia, I have a garden to take care, I grow crops. It’s a very different lifestyle. I love to go to the small business and buy meat, fish, bread. And the cafeterias, the cañas. We don’t regret it at all! Sometimes I will miss target or tjmax and chipotle. 😅 And I do find the Spaniards very attractive. The great thing about Spain is the cultural diversity. You went to Barcelona and it’s so different to Galicia or even the north area of Portugal. And don’t feel pressure you are so young! Good luck in whatever you chose

[@taylorwynn]

Love this. Which other areas do you think would be good to check out for me? I’ve heard good things about valencia?

[@shelbyanumandla7499]

I lived in Murcia, Spain for a year, and it was wonderful. You can take short trips to Alicante Cartagena or take the train to Barcelona. Murcia is a smaller city but is still big enough to have stuff going on. It was also affordable to live there (at least when I was there). Murcia also has a university, so there are lots of young people. I was there teaching English in a smaller town nearby. The only thing is that you may struggle with the accent if you don’t already know Spanish. 😂

[@agned.8847]

Check out the north of Spain, it's a totally different vibe and it's beautiful!

[@lichamex2006]

@@taylorwynn Valencia is a beautiful city. I would recommend that you visit. I married a Spaniard almost 17 years ago and moved from Houston to Valencia. It was pretty hard at first because I missed my family so much, but it’s my home now. I love your videos 🎉❤🥰🤗

[@HollyG6]

When i studied abroad in Spain, i loved the region of Andalucía, especially Granada and Sevilla. But if i move out of the US, I must be in a coastal town.

[@angelablack7946]

When it comes to having kids in the US I agree with you. Last week my daughter’s school had a scare. A kid had six hit lists. Thankfully a student ratted him out. It is very scary raising kids these days.

[@CowGirlKat8691]

I doubt if I was younger I would have children in this day & age nor would I date!! Too scary indeed.

[@63Lsp]

I'm so so sorry your daughter has to deal with that trauma💜

[@sarahmcalpine2058]

Homeschooling in different forms is mega-on the rise in the US.

[@pepperstep]

That's so scary. I got an email from my daughters school about there being an increase in false threats, and that her school got one. I guess that's happening all over the US, but how can they know what's real and what's not? There's so many warning signs that they seem to ignore

[@EMILY4DAYS]

​@@sarahmcalpine2058I never EVER thought I would homeschool, but right now I'm on the edge with my youngest. This mostly has to do with him having some additional needs, and my local schools just aren't set up for anything besides subpar, standard education. I think our scores continue to show that this is a nationwide issue, and our education system actually is subpar. The violence and scary times is probably the final push. I have one in kindergarten, and one graduating next year.

[@Ferzita05]

Please don’t put a timeline on yourself, it will only create anxiety and pressure. Choose a city/country where you’ll feel safe, have access to the healthcare that you need and that you’ll be able to work on what you like. The rest will fall where it may, you’ll see 🥰

[@jenniferro10]

I wish I could like this more than once

[@stephb3321]

So, so true. I don’t understand the whole “I have to do this by a certain age/time” thing. Life is precious and short. Live in the moment. And this is coming from someone who is a chronic planner.

[@ginabyrd503]

I find it so inspiring the travel and work you do while suffering with migraine! I've dealt with migraine for about 25 years now and I know how hard it can be sometimes to just go about your daily routine. I'm old enough to be your mom lol but I very much look up to you for your perseverance and how you don't let it control your life!

[@mixym9064]

Taylor your my favorite KZbinr! I always feel in a safe zone watching your video, thank you for that! Your hard work doesn’t go unseen.

[@EMILY4DAYS]

She's a comfort watch for me too; definitely a safe-zone! ❤

[@karolina.nojber]

as someone who moved to Madrid a month ago, I have to say - do it! I've been dreaming about living in Madrid for the past 6 years and it's the best decision I could have made even though I still stress a bit about work and haven't really had a chance to meet a lot of people, but just living in Spain made me so much happier and I'd recommend it to anyone who likes Spain as much as you and me do!

[@virgismar]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@roseyp7047]

You really inspire me. I can barely leave my town, let alone travel all over, independently, the way you do. You’re an inspiration to so many people. Keep doing you!!! Whatever you ultimately want in life will happen because you have the courage, intelligence and motivation to make it happen.

[@gretchenzwicker338]

Stillness brings clarity. Your decision will come, be at peace that you don’t know right now, but silence that indecision and the answer will come. You have a long time to have children! Don’t hurry yourself because of time. It will all come I promise you❤

[@KrisMaee]

I don’t feel safe having a family in the US. Between the threats to our reproductive autonomy and health, lack of parental leave and support, and unsafe schools, I don’t feel safe having or raising children here. My partner and I have been talking about moving somewhere else when we get to that step. Edit: it warmed my heart to hear you talk about Philly! I lived there for 5 years before you inspired me to move to Seattle. I still love it so much! ❤

[@BAW47]

Well said 🙌🙌🙌

[@nicknick5968]

If you don’t feel safe in the US, then leave… no one is keeping you here .. people like to bash the country that Puts food in their mouth.. I’m a firm believer if you don’t like it, leave…

[@BAW47]

@@nicknick5968 do ya know what I do like about the US? The first amendment....ya know the right to speak out against your government. Your right to bear arms doesn't supercede every other constitutional right. I will continue to be as vocal as is legally permitted. Many of us do not feel safe bc there are states with very little regulations and people are walking into schools, malls, movie theaters, parades, church's, concerts with semi-automatic weapons and opening fire on innocent people.

[@KrisMaee]

@@nicknick5968 clearly you missed the part where I literally said we were planning on it

[@xposetruth5681]

What a joke. You will see how much you will miss youre real freedoms and autonomy living in America. It’s always privileged white girls who whine about America. You have NO IDEA how good we have it. Unbelievably naive.

[@Reluctant.Idealist]

I love this community. I’m also feeling a bit anxious about my life path- but seeing all the comments and hearing about your journey is so encouraging. Thank you for your dedication!

[@jessbailey1]

I love seeing you traveling. I have multiple autoimmune conditions, migraines and a new heart condition 🤪. Seeing you travel has made me a little braver to want to venture out of the US. Thank you for being willing and sharing your life with us. I know it's a lot of work ❤️

[@noneofurbusiness5223]

@ Jess Bailey How do you handle being tired? I often sleep 22/24 hrs! 3 autoimmune diseases, & other stuff, so tired of being sick & tired 😫

[@jessbailey1]

@@noneofurbusiness5223 I'm sorry you're dealing with health issues as well. It's so hard 💔. I also deal with chronic fatigue issues that come from auto immune. . I try to take naps when I can but don't always get the opportunity. Having a good medication routine from my rheumatologist and neuromuscular Dr have really helped. Getting on top of it and contacting my Drs when I have a health flare as well is beneficial. If you don't have a good team of doctors behind you I would start there. With autoimmune conditions it's often not a one size fits all med regimen. Hang in there it can get better. I have had times where I was sleeping for huge amounts out of 24 hours and was completely exhausted. Also if you've not been checked for sleep apnea I would explore that too. Praying for you and best wishes.

[@klynn1192]

Hi Taylor! I have been watching your videos for 10 years and by far my favorite KZbinr! I’m also 30 and can relate with how you’re feeling about starting a family and picking a life. Thanks for being so open with us! 💗🫶🏻

[@allison_may]

Both of my parents have gone to Mayo in Rochester for cancer. My mom has been in remission from Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma for 10 years and my dad is around 6 months from colon cancer. I strongly believe they’re both alive today from the care they received. I’m always blown away by the thoroughness that they provide. So happy you advocated for yourself and are getting things figured out. ❤️

[@HannahBMann]

The feeling that you're overthinking your decision about where to live isn't crazy--you're super self aware. I wish there was an easy way for you to decide, but that's the journey. So happy to hear you enjoy YT as much as you do because it's crazy time consuming. xo

[@tiffanysadlertlc]

Definitely a huge blessing to be able to have access to health care especially being able to get multiple opinions. I hope you get the best care. Wishing you an abundance of health!

[@legalpuppy8602]

I love your content. You don't seem like you would be "real" but you so are. I love that you talk about your grama and parents and friends on top of all of the travel, make-up, products, etc. Your content/personality rocks.

[@chocolatechip410]

Baby I’ve been watching you for years and seen so much growth it’s so… refreshing to see. Your on your own timeline so don’t think you have to rush or put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Whatever and whenever something is supposed to happen it will☀️🤍🤍

[@charlottemullican2160]

I met my husband at 21 and was married at 23, but because of medical reasons, didn’t have our first child until I was 39. I would say that everything happens in your life in the time it is meant to happen. I know that is hard to hear….I heard it a billion times throughout the years I was struggling with infertility, but it is true. Looking back, I am so thankful for the time I had before being a mother and I feel like I can appreciate motherhood more now than I would have when I was younger. The other thing I would say is, I know the US has its issues and don’t disagree that it can be scary and discouraging to see all of the problems….however, family is so important especially when you bring kids in the world. It’s not impossible to do it without family, but raising kids is so much easier when you have your family around to help. Love your videos and I don’t normally comment, but wanted to offer encouragement!! ❤❤❤

[@kelliemarie6078]

Honestly thanks for talking so good about Philly. I’ve lived here my whole life and I truly love this city. It’s easy to just be smart about your surroundings.

[@mackenziesanssouci9840]

I have been suffering for months with back and shoulder pain. Because of you sharing your self advocacy I have kept at it. I don’t have answers yet but I have people working with me who are kind, caring and compassionate. I don’t feel alone. That is a huge step for me thank you for sharing your journey

[@Tralalalauren]

I feel 100% less stressed about daily news since I've moved to the EU. It's crazy. I get asked about healthcare all the time from my Dutch friends and family, and whenever I tell them about just basic healthcare things, they just stare at me in horror.

[@20thcenturyrelic]

Tell them this story: I'm single and was without insurance because of a layoff from the middle of 2012 through the middle of 2013. I lived in fear of a major health problem. I live in a large urban county in Texas where there's a major public hospital. In case of a major health problem, I would have had no option except to go to that hospital and wait my turn for treatment. Also, since I wouldn't have qualified as indigent in Texas, I would have been burdened with medical debt for the rest of my life. Thank goodness for Obamacare. You can get insurance as an individual with a preexisting condition(s) now although it's expensive. It's better than nothing. I might add that a few years ago, a well known restaurateur in Dallas died in the waiting area in the emergency room of the public hospital. He didn't have insurance.

[@erink17]

I love the way your content has changed since you started traveling! 🧡

[@BAW47]

GIRL!!!! PREACH 🙌🙌🙌 there are so many things that need fixed and unfortunately i am losing hope that we are going to see any real change in the near future. We need common sense gun laws. Schools, concerts, malls, movie theaters, churches....we have had more mass shootings in 2023 (all with legally purchased firearms) than Canada has had since becoming a country. Getting off my soap box now 😬 No matter where you go your life is going to be spectacular ❤ thank you for all of your hard work and dedication

[@63Lsp]

I don't think it's far off to think you *may* be making a big life decision each place you go. But in an exciting way! Really happy for you about a two-week Mayo appt.- great neurologists who are *actual* headache specialists. As you well know, there's no magic bullet. Took me decades to figure that out. Thanks for talking about it (w/balance). You are helping normalize life w chronic illness which millions of us are living with.💜from Bend

[@mayaprice7074]

Hi Taylor! x I think that there are multiple paths to take in life and not one of them will be wrong. You will meet someone great wherever you are. My default thinking is 'what if it all goes wrong?' but I am trying to approach life changes with 'what if it is the most amazing thing?' or 'what if it is the best decision I have ever made?' - that takes the pressure off! Anyway, thanks for another great video! I have been here for 5 years and counting! xx

[@April7120]

You look absolutely flawless in this video. Happiness just radiates. Jordan and family agrees with you. Thanks for sharing.

[@laurak96]

Just wanted to share in the off chance it’s helpful for you Taylor…about 14 years ago, I did the 2 weeks at Mayo Clinic in Phoenix/Scottsdale for migraines. It was exhausting and somewhat disappointing when they couldn’t find the cause 😢 However, they were very thorough and ruled out A LOT of conditions, so I still say it was definitely worth it. A year or two after my Mayo Clinic visit, I moved out here and the low humidity of the desert helps quite a bit. Over time, doctors here have helped me get answers and treatment. Like Taylor, I don’t wanna share too much 😉 Shout out to the other chronic pain sufferers out there! Sending you all love 🤍🤍🤍

[@AveMaria-js9bu]

Taylor, I am so impressed by your work ethic. Even though you have chronic health issues, as I do too. You are truly out there doing it all and not letting it stop you. Your parents must be so proud of you. I wait for your updates and videos. You seem to be so grounded and someone I look up to. I also wanted to ask if you might come out with a new hoodie or tee shirt. I loved the brushes but my daughter stole them from me. Keep up the incredible work and I pray that you are able to find a great doctor. A doctor who will be able to truly help you will be free from pain! Love you, Taylor! 🥰

[@BigTexy5]

I used to live in Okinawa and when my sister came to visit she got sick and had to see a local doctor. She got an in-person appointment the same week and got antibiotics for about $80 total. It was soooo easy and cheap. I couldn’t believe the difference between the US and the Okinawa medical prices.

[@audreycovington7654]

I’m kind of stuck in the same situation you were talking about, that I’m at the age I need to plant roots and plan on being there for the rest of my life. I finally just decided, make the move that feels right at the time and if it doesn’t work out it doesn’t work out, but I won’t know until I try. As hard as it is, and it does suck but I’d rather worry about my current happiness than possibly maybe being happy later on down the road.

[@leakindt653]

As someone with OCD, I actually don't follow or really believe in "listen to your gut"! For me, gut means anxiety and that's no way to make decisions! Instead, I make big (and even small) decisions based on values. I have literally ranked them by what is most important to me.. family, money, adventure, work, etc. It gets more nuanced than those big categories but you get the gist. Of course, that list is malleable based on how my life is going and what I learn about myself along the way; it just offers a direction to move forward and removes fear to ensure I'm making decisions based on what I do want to happen, not on what I'm afraid might happen. Anyway, just a different perspective that has helped me with over-thinking and finding more peace in life.

[@Mar-velousMarlenak8]

Taylor, live where your heart feels happy. That is the first step. If you love where you are it would make literally everything so much easier. You absolutely will make the right decision for your future and your happiness.

[@Patti-1962]

As one of your older subscribers, no choice is permanent~ My husband and I picked up and moved "home," quitting jobs etc. Mainly because it was where we wanted to raise our kids. As for the Mayo Clinic, I have several friends who have not had great experiences there. But they don't regret going because so many issues were ruled out. I hope you are doing well. I go with my gut/intuition when making big decisions!

[@noneofurbusiness5223]

@ Patti 1962 Could you describe what was bad? I was pretty healthy till 7-8 yrs menopausal. Then 💩 hit the fan.

[@Patti-1962]

@@noneofurbusiness5223 One friend had Lupus, and she wasn’t given much hope or treatment options. I just think she was expecting a “miracle.” I think with autoimmune diseases there is just not much they can do. But if you have many symptoms and no diagnosis, then going would be a good idea. At least they can rule out what it is not. I have found great information looking at clinical trials. One of my diseases was pudendal nerve entrapment and neuropathy. I did the research myself, and by looking up my symptoms and lots of reading I figured out the diagnosis. It’s rare, so there was on one doctor in the US who could do the surgery. My husband and I flew to Houston, TX. And spent 3 weeks while I had the surgery. Thank goodness we had family to stay with! I keep a notebook with all my medical findings and results. I’m so sorry you are unwell. There are so many new diseases these days. I hope you can get some answers!!

[@noneofurbusiness5223]

@Patti 1962 Thank you for reply. I know my diagnoses. Being this tired sucks.

[@Patti-1962]

@@noneofurbusiness5223 I know. When people say, "Yeah, I get tired a lot too," like they get it. They have NO idea how bad it feels!

[@Ceeayejayy]

Thanks for speaking even briefly on shootings in the US and the other issues we have here. Not many influencers I follow even want to touch on those topics even slightly. Regarding shootings though, I saw someone online recently from another country compare our mass shootings to suicide bombings and I’ll never be able to think about gun violence in this country the same way again. It’s so horrific how normal we’ve let this become.

[@jxc3527]

I'm a substitute teacher, and the first thing I check in a new classroom is if there are any windows, and where would I place kids in an active shooter situation. It's automatic, without thinking, when I enter a new classroom.

[@carolinegaudet8309]

I went to Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN back in February, and I absolutely cannot say enough great things about it. The teams all worked together so well, and the campus is massive but still walkable, since it’s all connected with skywalks and tunnels. I’m so grateful I went. Side note: if you do go to that location, you’ve got to eat at Chester’s. We were eating there pretty much every day lol

[@nb0907]

I work here at Mayo in Rochester in the lab. Mayo Clinic inside and out is so fantastically different. For example, in just the labs in Rochester we have over 4,500 employees and we all work collaboratively together. When covid hit we were able to design a lab test, validate it, and offer it in 3 weeks...3 weeks!! At one point in the pandemic we were doing 40,000 tests a day for patients all over the world. The power of collaborative medicine on both a large scale and an individual patient scale is truly astounding. And you're totally right about Chester's! Order a dessert or 2 to split with family. Chester's chocolate cake fixes every bad day.

[@TheUkuleleFool]

So glad you talked about the amount of time KZbin takes. As a fellow creator, this segment really resonated with me. You wanted advice about how to figure out where to live. From my 62-year-old perspective, it boils down to logistics and safety. So much of daily life is logistics, particularly when you have little ones that depend on you. How easy and safe is it for you to get them the best schooling you can afford? What does that schooling look like? Ask the same question about the best medical care for both you and your family. How easy is it to make healthy life choices? Then look at giving them interaction with nature, other cultures, and mental stimulation in general. Lastly, but maybe the most important - community. Kids that grew up around kids that had goals (music, art, writing, dance, sports, faith) and community aspirations (giving back, helping others, making the world better) almost always become flourishing members of society.

[@kamimiles4628]

My significant other and I have really been contemplating moving to another country due to these same reasons I’d love to see you do more videos on this topic!!

[@karincope3019]

Taylor you are wise beyond your years , an amazing person, I have been following you for years and very much enjoy, learn and relate to so much that you post,do. Take care 🌸 and know that you are making a difference and help us in ways you aren’t aware and alway bring a smile to my soul . Karin from BC Canada.

[@aidak3341]

I can totally relate to what you said about moving 🥺 there is so much pressure about wondering if that’s the right choice and choosing the right life path so that you look back and don’t regret it.

[@kimberleylewis8822]

Thank you for discussing having kids and getting help for them because of health, it hardly ever gets talked about and it's something I would love to know more about for myself but can't find anyone that actually does, especially in the UK

[@EMILY4DAYS]

You're so level-headed, and such a breath of fresh air! I am excited to see what & where you choose to go next. I agree about the reality of living in the US; I am dealing with quite a bit of grief about it, actually. It negatively affects me, and I would welcome a break from the harsh reality and fear. Having children here is why we can't up and take a break right now, but that's also *why* this weighs so heavily on my heart. I absolutely never realized it was/would be like this- I was seriously blinded and didn't understand. I've also gotten way more introspective, emotionally intelligent, and kind of radicalized as I've gotten older, at least in terms of human and civil rights issues. Maybe a lot of people are like this, but I wish I would have known more about myself and the world before I made such huge, permanent decisions in my life! Yes, even with tattoos! 😅

[@boobookitty21]

Taylor, I just wanted to tell you that you are such a positive influence on people younger and older alike. You're so insightful and thoughtful in the decisions you make for yourself. I have no doubts you'll figure out what country/city your heart and head can live peacefully together and you can truly flourish in your new happy place. 🩷

[@einalemainesra]

good for you for understanding the importance of having boundaries between your personal life and your job. I think you hit the nail on the head about that being how you can keep doing your job for a long time. having healthy boundaries. that is what helps prevent burnout for sure.

[@danip3270]

🔥 Again, Taylor! I ordered the Goodal Vit C serum, and I’m incredibly impressed. I’ve bought high end and drug store brands, and haven’t found one that showed such a quick improvement. At 50, it’s been a real struggle recently to figure out how to deal with such finicky skin these days. And the Nyx Born to Glow? 2 for 2! As someone who still has CYO in my vault 🤫, but happily spends what’s needed for good foundation, I’m again shocked. I’ve already purchased 4 more, just in case 😄. And as a long time viewer, I’m here for any long term commitment you might want to make with international living. You’re still incredibly young and I feel a year in Scotland or Spain is the next reasonable and logical step. And medically, it’s only a flight home. And with setting down roots, you may find it helps with your stress, anxiety, and health.

[@sarahhill8388]

Taylor: First, thanks so much for your videos. They’re always a bright spot in my day. And, second (secondly?), I was 35..almost 36 when I got married. There was always a voice inside reminding me of my age and that I was single..haha! But, it was weaker than my desire to do what I wanted and what fulfilled me in my career, surroundings, lifestyle, etc. So, when I finally met my husband, I met him on my own chosen path , not one that theoretically would have introduced me to “suitors” earlier. I know there are better words to convey my point. But, basically, you need to do you so that when you meet the lucky one, he will meet the most “you” you.😊 thanks again.

[@emilyl6746]

Loved your comment. I'm about to turn 34 and am often the only single one in my various circles (work, law school, etc. ) at this point I can objectively say it's not me. I just think timing plays a huge role in meeting your person. I feel like I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing and there's not much more I can do. I've learned to tune out the outside noise but still feel a little pressure.

[@rachh1350]

I’m 34 and planning to move from the UK to Australia. You’re never too old to move! Life’s too short not to take risks ❤

[@Samanthalw]

I'm 31 now too, in my final year of psychology (yay me), then onto honours/masters to be a clinical psychologist and the one overall message I've learnt from my experience and education is to take the freaking risks and trust your intuition (there's a lovely theory called the happenstance). You've managed to take risks and follow your heart and things have turned out. Yes, there's complications, but you've overcome many obstacles in the past. Keep doing you Taylor. I've been following you from the start and never seen you as happy and authentically yourself than you are now.

[@maddiejamesxo]

I'm from SoCal and have lived in Philly for the last 8 years. I have met my best girlfriends here. I love it here so much and this city is still so underrated. I'm glad to see you enjoyed it and even consider moving here! You should! Also, almost everyone has a dog or cat and are so friendly and easy to meet. Best of luck to you and whatever path you take will be a great choice!! xoxo

[@jann3443]

As a "parental devil's advocate", I say when you're ready to settle down, stay close to where your parents live (unless they would move to wherever you chose to live!). You don't have to be in the same city or even the same state, but close. When you have children, being close to grandparents is so important, not just for them but also for your parents and you! Grandparents are the best babysitters!!

[@Michelle-pd2fr]

Been following u for years and ur still super relatable and humble ❤

[@wt30001]

Balance is something most everyone struggles with…I see the stress in my adult children. Really enjoy your vlogs.

[@joythomas6834]

The Rochester Mayo is amazing! My mother-in-law went in March. It was the best thing ever for her. What an amazing concept to have all doctors on the same page!

[@DanielaCabrona]

You’re doing great, Taylor! Thanks for always sharing the honest truth.

[@illbeyourwendy]

Taylor one of my American friends moved to Mexico and met her husband who is from Austria who was also living in Mexico at that time, they have now lived in the US and Germany! You never know who you’re going to meet and where it could lead! follow your heart!

[@megkranerrr]

100% support the idea of you coming to ATL! I moved here a few years ago and absolutely love it! So many cute burbs and areas to explore & lots to do! It’s walkable (in some areas) and has a little bit for everyone

[@JamiesonReads]

My husband and I took our first trip together to Philly because we are both Revolutionary war nerds, and we LOVED it so much.

[@danniellequal8120]

Having spent a lot of time at Mayo- Rochester for my own health and many family members I cannot say enough positive things! Hearing you talk about your process to get scheduled there is a good reminder of how fortunate we are to live only 1.5 hours away❤ I would highly recommend staying at Brentwood Inn & Suites! It’s connected to the main campus via underground tunnel which is super convenient. If you’re looking for any other suggestions let me know!

[@hannahkayee831]

Rochester Mayo was amazing for me only because I got rushed by ambulance from my town 2 hours away... every single nurse was so great. The team of doctors and specialists visit with you multiple times a day.

[@coffeeandtrex3344]

I went to Philly a couple of years ago, and I agree, it's totally underrated!

[@bri-aunnarau8303]

To your life question advice, you just never know lol... I met my husband (we live in Minnesota), we sold almost everything we had and moved to Alaska, then we moved back after 9 months because it didn't work out.... basically you could move somewhere, and you can always move back 😊 I struggled with feeling like a failure for a little bit (because we thought we would be there forever/said bye to tons of people), but then realized we went there on a mission, completed the mission, and then we moved back and had a beautiful son, and now are buying a house. You just never know til you try. And we will never regret going.

[@karincope3019]

My dad was an architect so I have a great appreciation for buildings, the ones you showed in Philly looks beautiful. I would love to go to the south to see the history in their architecture. My mom says Spain and Italy were amazing for that .

[@melissawagers5139]

Don’t stress about the unforeseen future ❤ you’re doing excellent you’re young smart and gorgeous ❤ I started a family at a young age so it’s not so frazzling

[@sharonaliza8984]

Go with your gut! I played it safe, and now I wish I wouldn’t have. You really are still young. Don’t live your life around the future. Nothing is permanent.

[@imlovingtheday]

I work with Mayo, currently in Rochester but I also worked in Scottsdale and I’m so happy you were able to get in. I’m biased to Rochester because I grew up here and the campus is so beautiful and huge. Either campus you choose you’ll be taken care of- providers consult between campuses for specialties when needed too. Best of luck with everything!!

[@jenniferford2067]

I think you make your life work as it happens to you. We moved 6 years ago with the plan for it to be a permanent move because I don’t like change. Covid changed how my whole family feels about our area, but we are working through it rather than start over somewhere else. Every place will have its challenges and you have to choose what matters most to you. I think Spain sounds like a great fit for you and I will certainly still watch whatever videos you put out. There are a lot of content creators making it work with big brands in Europe and it will help that you have so many loyal subscribers.

[@AllyTheGreat14]

Love listening to a shadow and schmooze while I’m at work!

[@cindylou1108]

I tried the Kiss lashes; I was able to use them. That’s the first I’ve ever been able to use. I did wear overnight. Thanks for your tip on those.

[@kkdkoolkat2]

As a mom of two, who had difficult deliveries with both and a difficult pregnancy with one, I would be closer to family before starting a family. It’s so important for kids to have close relationships with their grandparents, and it’s been a godsend to have family to help.

[@amberovermyer2654]

I've been married and have 3 children so I feel comfortable speaking on this. Something I wish gets told to women more often and normalized more, don't rush. Make decisions on your terms and your terms only. Only you know what's best for you. Live your joy and passions and then once you do decide to settle down and have a family they will be better for it. Because you are happy and content and ready to share yourself. P.s our country is a whole hot mess and our quality of life sucks, your subscribers will still watch if you leave the country. Thank you for your content ❤

[@cassiepoorman268]

You could always ask the brands you work with often and find out how they would feel about you moving and how that might effect your sponsorships. I think you’re a hard working and inspiring woman and you will figure it out no matter what you choose. Follow your gut. ❤

[@jwies-5]

Wherever you move to it should be a place of course with healthcare you need, but I say to have an exit strategy just in case the place doesn't work out in the long run. Don't be like me and stay someplace for 15+ years when it's not totally the vibe you are looking for - if it comes to that point, or earlier. I'm making it work the best that I can but it's not an ideal way to live. I pray every day to be able to do the best I can in my situation. It could help to have some family where you end up choosing to live as well. It's felt to me for a long time that you could be my little sister. I'd never steer you wrong. You have my support. Lots of love.

[@Foxbayb89]

I love that y’all ended up loving Philly. It’s one of my favorite cities. The food is so good. Philly’s Chinatown is amazing! There’s some sketch areas in Philly but when it’s good it’s good.

[@megangallaher4011]

I’ve followed you for years and I’m excited for your next adventure! When you know you know!

[@elizabethalyn]

My high school Spanish teacher moved to Spain when she turned 30. She got involved in the community, met her now husband, and had some kids after a few years with him, all by around age 36. I have several friends who are close to 40 starting over with spouses and having babies because that's just how life went for them. Anything is possible!

[@jennifervanwinkle9781]

I love the lashes. I wear them 4-5 days at a time. The spiky ones are my favorite

[@hubertron]

I know it’s hard, but don’t feel too much pressure just from your age. You are still very young and you have plenty of time. Go where you feel the best and can make community

[@monkey92ag]

aww, we will watch you, WHEREVER you live!! and can't wait to see the video on beauty treatments! yay!!

[@morganellabean]

"choosing between lives" is EXACTLY where I'm at right now. I went to Portugal last year to scope it out for potentially moving there and I'm so torn on making the move. I love the European way of life and would love to spend a few years there but I also have some long-term goals that I want to start working on sooner than later that I wouldn't do in a different country because ultimately I think I'd come back to the US at some point. But I've always been a believer in doing what 'feels' right and I always get the sense that Spain is right for you when you talk about it or when you're there. Also, while it's not impossible to live internationally with a partner/kids, it does become more complicated so I definitely think you should do it sooner than later if that's what your heart is asking. For reference, I'm 35 and in the same boat so you've got time, my friend!

[@chrissybacon8430]

My honest opinion on the topic of choosing where to live and a life path, is, it doesn't matter where you choose to live. You don't have to make a decision for the rest of your life on the next move. You have options. I will tell you, as someone who has lived away from family for a long time, you eventually feel very pulled to be near loved ones as they age. Very difficult to be away when health issues start with parents, etc. Don't be afraid to make a choice, it isn't set in stone. You won't make a mistake because you can change your mind.

[@puppi68]

Thanks for talking about school shootings and shootings in general. Love you and your channel

[@michellegallegos8749]

I previously worked at Mayo. 100% benefits the patient to have teams working collaboratively.

[@mynameistakari]

I moved from California to Pa and I LOVE PHILLY. I’ve met so many amazing people there and it’s so close to so many things. I honestly didn’t know how much Pennsylvanian would grow on me.

[@prettynsleepy1073]

❤❤ your my favorite person to watch on KZbin. Sending peace, healing and love

[@juanitalissa]

Do what YOU want to do and the rest will follow! I moved 5 times between 4 states across the US after having my daughter. Now I found the right job and place for me. Not everything has to be preplanned. My happiness=her happiness. 😊 And I’m an hour north of Philly and love it here!!

[@lindatannock]

I know you're getting older Taylor, but if your heart is with moving to Spain, just do it! Don't let fear stop you. Never regret a decision. You don't want to look back in the future and regret not moving. Do these things while you're still single with no ties! I travelled and worked abroad for years, and i don't regret any of it, in fact i want back out of the UK and to live in Europe again. I'm much happier there. I'm working on potentially moving in the near future. Do it! 😘💜🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@staceymunoz]

Yessss love getting ready for work with Taylor Wynn

[@veronicalandaverde4480]

My family and I are moving to Spain this summer and we are so excited! The first time we went, it felt like home & now we’re finally doing it! Excited to see where life takes you and watch your journey 😊

[@virgismar]

Spain is amazing, so much to discover

[@erica.explores]

As someone who moved to Europe when I was 30: 100% do it. I actually moved for better access to healthcare, because I have type-1 diabetes and there’s a massive insulin crisis in the US. In Germany where I live now, my 3-month insulin supply costs 10€ with the public insurance, in the US it was $60 with insurance-that alone was a huge difference for me, but the biggest factor was access and affordability of medical technology like insulin pumps and continuous glucose monitors. In the US I was denied coverage for a CGM because I “wasn’t sick enough.” I also had to pay a /lot/ of money (thousands of dollars) for my insulin pump. In Germany I was immediately approved for both and they are COMPLETELY FREE. It was, hands down, the best decision I ever made for my health and quality of life. I know you struggle with chronic illness, too, so I think it’s important to really consider healthcare in your choice.

[@erica.explores]

Also: I took a huge pay cut moving to Europe too, I make about half what I did in the US. But it was worth it, and when you factor in cost of living differences and healthcare costs, I actually have more disposable income after taxes and bills than I did in the US which is WILD.

[@AMC0909]

I’m in Philly and moved here from DC 10 years ago. It all really depends on the neighborhood regarding making friends, things to do, safety, etc. I LOVE my hood and have grown to absolutely love Philly. There’s a huge sense of community and pride throughout the entire city, and you’re close to so much, like you said. Dating…. Suck. I can’t put it any other way. 😂 Happy to give you more details! I also travel internationally and often end up going to Newark to catch direct flights. I don’t travel internationally nearly as often as you, but I love our airport.

[@JenniferOlin]

I’m from the Philly area, have lived in the city and the burbs. The Philly airport is an American Airline hub, so I have rarely had to go to Newark or JFK; but then again, I don’t travel as much as Taylor. I love that Philly is one of the few walkable cities in the US. My sister lives in Atlanta and I considered moving there after a divorce. At heart, I am at Northeast girl; also I could never deal with Atlanta traffic. I plan to retire in Portugal.

[@jessbailey1]

You seem happiest in Spain. You've said there are lots of other tourists there which means you might meet someone else who loves to travel. Go where you're happy. Brands love you they will make it work I'm guessing.

[@cathyl3526]

Appreciate the Philly love! I was born and raised there. Not only is it an easy trip to NYC, but also DC, the beach and the mountains. The one thing is the unsafe neighborhoods look so bad, that when i moved to Buffalo, I couldn't recognize the bad neighborhoods because they don't look that bad.

[@maloojisloves6586]

Regarding oversharing: when I was super young and just starting to use the internet, I read this incredible piece of advice: Only post on the internet what you would be comfortable displaying on the roof of your house. I have followed this advice for over 20 years now and I have not regretted a single picture, post, or comment I have put out there. I was able to imagine the scale of visibility of my online footprint from a very young age and it has helped me tremendously. ❤M

[@keely_cn8924]

I went to Philadelphia like 10 years ago for two weeks and I loved it. I really want to go back.

[@deannabarral3910]

I lived in Philly for 6 years and I still think it's one of the most magical places it's where I met my husband. We used to take the SEPTA bus to roxborough beautiful town with row homes that were built in the late 1800s cobblestone roads it's ❤️

[@krisd.6463]

Moving to a place is choosing a life path…you’re not overthinking it. It is a big life change and pressure…pick a place that you love that fits your long term goals. Spain is wonderful! You’ll take a pay cut but you won’t have to pay for healthcare and your quality of life will be so much better than the US. Love the journey…maybe you’ll fall in love and that will help solidify your decision 🥰