And she quickly discovers everything men say about dating women is true and awful.

[@BetterBachelor]

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[@ManifestSuccess-vz8gd]

No such thing as a creep... what "Creep" means is "Ugly"

[@libertybelllocks7476]

a 42 had a body count of her age in less than a yr. A hot chick has 100 guaranteed - all of them do.

[@Microphunktv-jb3kj]

First clip ruined my breakfast. The audacity.. That slag (look how she's dressed) , thinks she's deserves a multi-million dollar man? :DDD Titles, arrogant, entitled, probably pretty low iq etc... I bet she doesn't even know what the average salary in america is, and what the world economy is like. That's how out of touch these entitled women are. This is a lesson for aeons , specially for white men. Never again put women on a pedestal. Literally if they keep this up... All their so called "freedoms" , wich they think they have and deserve can be taken away by men with a fingersnap, and will... if they dont change their behaviour. Humanity is in the brink of population and civilization collapse, these feminists will drive women into forced breeding gulag... They prove themselves, why women weren't allowed anywhere near power ,voting and not even attend church in the past... nothing sensible comes out of their mouths mostly... "girl power" , running the world without any sense of logic, in a techological binary world, where everything is about logic.. good luck maintaining that mental asylum america ; ] Sooner or later, this might lead to even civil war in america. But don't sweat it... i don't think those soyboy male feminists have any chance lolo... Neoliberals talk tall, but unplug the internet and switch off the powerplant, they will just have mental breakdown, let alone wage a civil anything lol... Me and my friends used to call these kind of people Online Warriors, when i was a child.

[@blinkybill2198]

Hey BB. May turn into nothing but we have an election (New Zealand) coming up and the current Govt added a dangerous Policy to their Campaign. If a sexual complaint is laid you must prove consent. If successful you are guilty until proven innocent.

[@everyone1liesd459]

So a 43 year old women had sex with 43 men in 50 dates in one year Let's keep that 43 bodies average and start when she is 17 That is 1118 partners by the time she is 43 Imagine paying and going all out for a partner who might have an STI from all the partner's they have had Pair bonding is ruined

[@oddlypositive3602]

If you go to the gym, take care of yourself, dress spiffy, work on game, work on your skills and make a boatload of money you too can have the opportunity to date someone who does none of those things.

[@zakzwijn8410]

💯

[@donaldoehl7690]

Knew a guy that spent all his money on too expensive car and nice clothes. Why? we all asked. Seems he pretended to be rich and was into pump & dump. It worked for him. I wonder why...

[@tgheretford]

Everyone should do these things for self-improvement and not be taken in by the claims that these things are an easy, guaranteed cure for loneliness.

[@guyverjay1289]

😂

[@Weaseldog2001]

@@donaldoehl7690 i live in a blue collar neighborhood. I can afford better, but i didn't see the point in wasting my money on a McMansion. So I got an older house with a gigantic yard for my dogs. My job allows casual dress so I don't look at out place in my neighborhood when I get home. On occasion though, I've visited my local supermarket while wearing a dress shirt, slacks, patent leather shoes and a tie. When I've done that, I've had women follow me up and down the aisles, trying to get noticed. When I'm at that store in casual clothes, I'm invisible.

[@jad1079]

I find it amusing that a 42-year-old woman found 97% of men on Tinder to be unacceptable.

[@bakionigeri6414]

Facts!😂

[@Iron-Bridge]

​@ConontheBinarian😂 Maybe 98%

[@atlaspath5803]

I would ban them on the platforms since they waste people time. Leave them in no mans land and they will wake up.

[@DKTUBS]

Yet she still had more sex partners in a year then many men have in their whole life.

[@Marrtinike19]

in 10 years shell be posting spitefull comments on reddit how bad and picky men are trust me

[@robbyrocksoo]

Woman on tinder: I am looking for a tall, fit man, with money. Other women are yelling: You go girl!. A man on tinder: I am looking for a feminine, fit woman. Other women yell at him: Stop fat shaming women!

[@ragingjaguarknight86]

"If it weren't for double standards, then they wouldn't have any standards."

[@Okunniger_Volker]

When I Netflix and chill I really just sit down and put on Super size me.

[@mooseyman74]

It's amazing the sizes of uniform that employers make today. Which is the opposite of the term uniform.

[@schrodingersmechanic7622]

I just remember seeing pictures from my childhood, you didn't see fat people in them like today. There were some but it was much more rare and God help you if you were obese as a kid in school.

[@mauriciolira4359]

" ... with Money"? Rather: Multi - Millionarie!

[@wpatrickw2012]

Women only get approached by creeps because all of the good guys “respect their boundaries.”

[@EdwardKocialski]

Not always true, women don't only get approached by creeps (Chads), many times, they turn the good guys away because they aren't as suave as the Chads.

[@YourBeingParanoid]

I'm happy to confirm that I get hit on by creeps of both biological sexes. @@EdwardKocialski

[@mr.angelosonassis3069]

Disagree. 'Creep' means a man who is not good-looking. Good-looking men meet no resistance when being awkward or rude. The women laugh and accept it as the chad's 'humor'.

[@mattbritz5066]

The 'good guys' are the ones who use dating profiles who are too scared to talk to women. The guy who approaches gets laid

[@markadler8968]

The level of tolerance these men have for rejection is insane. Also the patience these men must have to swipe right over 40000 times over 2 years is beyond my understanding.

[@Forbidden_0ne]

it's only around 60 a day. They don't have to read a profile until they match and even then, they have an uphill battle.

[@BigBenn2014]

Delete those apps chaps.

[@DivadNoodeldehm-lz2gm]

I'm normal so I gave up years ago. Women/Democrats should be subjected to their own behavior and standards.

[@MrUFCFan12345]

They can reject thousands of men for years. At the end of the day, men with options don't want to settle down with them

[@ZackSNetwork]

@@DivadNoodeldehm-lz2gmFacts

[@Merigold83]

This age-old joke is truer than ever: Two women meet, one says: “My husband became a millionaire because of me.” The other asks: “What was he before?” “Multi-billionaire.” Says the first.

[@jeremijakrstic1968]

Seen a better one: A new store has been opened in New York where women can choose and buy a man. Instructions for using the store are posted at the entrance: - you can enter the store only once, - there are 6 floors, and the characteristics of men increase with each floor, - you can choose any man on the floor or go a floor higher, - once you go higher, you can no longer go back. A woman decides to enter a store to find the one. On the first floor, a sign says: These men have jobs. The woman decides to go higher. On the second floor, a sign says: These men have jobs and love children. The woman, again, decides to go higher. On the third floor, a sign says: These men have jobs, love children, and are very handsome. Wow, thinks the woman, but decides to go higher. On the fourth floor, the posting says: These men have six-figure jobs, they love children, are very handsome, and help with housework. Amazing, thinks the woman, however, with a heavy heart she rejects such an offer and decides to go up to a higher floor. On the fifth floor, there is a sign: These men have seven-figure jobs, they love children, are very handsome, help with housework and are romantic. The woman is tempted to stay on this floor, but decides to go up to the top floor. On the top floor, a sign says: You are a woman number 31 456 012 visiting this floor, there are no men here, this floor exists only to show that women can never be satisfied. Thank you for visiting our store.

[@littlewigglemonster7691]

Lol

[@januszdworak4780]

Hahaha. I heard a different version of this joke, but this one is much better. The version I knew: If you want to be a millionaire, you have to buy an airline. You will become one provided that you are a billionaire.

[@playertherapper]

That's not a joke that's a work of art.

[@karlheber23]

Applying for jobs: - have to meet high standards - interview is free - low chance of success - get money if you succeed Dating - have to meet high standards - interview costs $150 - low chance of success - lose money if you succeed.

[@TechnoMageB5]

Dating: lose money regardless of success.

[@frosty6708]

congratulations, you have a 2nd job with a female boss that is worse than all bosses you had.

[@maninthehills7134]

Dolls are the future

[@cobannie]

@@maninthehills7134 A.I. Girlfriends for conversational companionship are the future... I need to start investing now, because Government and Feminism have destroyed the cohesive Christian Family.

[@donaldoehl7690]

I like what you did there!

[@mannyperez8843]

I lived in Japan for 20 years. This has happened there years ago and now you are seeing the catastrophic results. The government is begging people to mate and have children because of the heavy decline in population. I've moved back to the US 3 years ago and I swear I am seeing the beginning of what I left behind 3 years ago. It's going to be really bad.

[@TonyVallad]

Same thing hapenning in France (can't talk about the rest of Europe but I'm guessing it's similar in most countries) Having the same problem myself...

[@Lupi33z]

I was out today and saw a young couple...the girl had an a... lets say behind, the size of a VW and not in a good way....legs like tree trunks and eczema, a picture of poor health...a 4 at best and the dude was probably at least a 7 and in good shape. I saw them again in the shop and the girl was ordering the guy around. I see this more often than not now.

[@m16dude967]

The problem? Not the men really (with some exceptions but these guys wouldn't do it if it didn't work) but the fact women are not given the filter of common sense on feminism or actively reject the filter for their insanity. At the same time, its going to be the same women crying sexism who are going to want a return to the traditional values they fought against.

[@OPproductions22]

The Panda generation

[@BritishEcho]

Outside of select countries it's becoming a global problem, soon enough Japan won't be alone in rampant population loss (Look at Italy) Honestly it wouldn't surprise me if we lose entire ethnicity's and cultures going forward. UK is having this problem, soon enough we won't even be a primarily English country simply because we ain't having kids, hell people don't even have relationships. And that's not a dig to the other races and cultures here, it's our problem. We are seeing ourselves out.

[@freedomring3022]

Imagine improving yourself for women with a count of 30+

[@JimmyFoxhound]

Right?? That's just so stupid it hurts my brain. Improve yourself for yourself, not a woman who will leave you and take everything.

[@az_3kgt714]

seriously improve yourself for what? definintly should be for yourself at this point and not any woman. They have nothing to offer you.

[@nailinpalin1477]

No hymen no diamond. Non virgins are for practice

[@peopleofearth6250]

Or just watch porn. Fuck self improvement. It's almost always never enough and in the rare instances when it is enough it's not worth it 😆

[@oysterman250]

These days, that’s almost a virgin!

[@tuntitommosille]

It's nice of women to list height and income requirements in their dating profiles. That way men know right away that they're dealing with a superficial gold digger that's best avoided.

[@faethe000]

Men have always had physical standards. You're just bitter than women do too now.

[@vcracing]

Agreed. Clear signal to stay away.

[@stallionstudios]

Yet men are called the superficial ones lol.

[@scarrylarry213]

The gold digger wouldn't ask about height or anything besides money.

[@AndragonLea]

@@scarrylarry213 Gold diggers tend to measure a man entirely on what he can do for or to them. Why settle for a rich guy if you can get a rich, hung, handsome guy? If you're going to blackball people based on superficial criteria, you might as well shop for the top percentile.

[@Ryan-pr7vq]

A friend once said about his ex, "the f*cking I had wasn't worth the f*cking I got" Words to live by.

[@theLandJackal]

Excellent post. I'm stealing that one Bro.

[@anul6801]

Thats my Ex..best sex ever. But she was narsisistic satanist and sociopat.

[@hlc5410]

A wise man I know put it in a similar way; "Is the fucking you're getting worth the fucking you're going to get?".

[@eatmoveandbehealthy5068]

explain for the kids who are not native english speakers

[@MrLandslide84]

lmfaaooo. Divorced guy approved. real name ryan too lol

[@twofarg0ne763]

After 2 divorces, I married a woman who was raised in South America. I met her 25+ years ago while taking some college classes at a major university in So CA. Our marriage has been great because she was raised with traditional Hispanic family values that ALWAYS put family first. My two boys from my first marriage tried the dating scenes in Boston and Florida where they went to college. But, by the time they were juniors, they opted to go to Europe to finish their educations. Both have followed in my footsteps. One is married to a beautiful girl from the Netherlands and lives in Amsterdam. The other married a Spanish doctor and lives in Barcelona. My wife and I retired several years ago and live in the south of France, where we are close enough to see them often. Both boys say they'd never marry an American woman because they are too toxic, demanding, entitled, and self-centered.

[@eh1641]

Here is a quote for you. “I don’t like American girls. They are very conceited, you know. In Europe, they are more pleasant.”-Bobby Fischer, Former World Chess Champion

[@BriefcaseWanker]

green card

[@SanDiegoBiz]

Passport

[@ilsryteged2843]

Actually, i live in Nice south of france. As a french guy of the south of france, there is excatly the same problem as the american womens. However, it is only in the south of france, in other regions there isn't this problem. In the end i think it depend if the area is about superficiality or authenticity...

[@Theyorkshirepirlo]

@@SanDiegoBiz the European passports are more valuable than the USA passport so I wouldn’t think so.

[@brad8177]

I’m 43 male, average in every sense of the word: looks, height, money and physique-wise. For most of my life I never had trouble meeting and dating women I considered to be very attractive. That ended five years ago. Now, despite being in the best shape of my life and having more money than ever, not only am I no longer getting attention from women on my level but women I would never consider dating (overweight single moms with septum piercings) are going out of their way to insult me. The world died, everything is broken. Stay frosty guys.

[@ModelJames13]

That's because when a man gets near 40 women become very age prejudiced.

[@anul6801]

Not if he dont look like it. He said best shape ever so I assume he looks better than when he was 37.

[@ModelJames13]

@@anul6801Looking better makes it worse. It's like a wasted gift. The age prejudiced women reject you as soon as they learn your age, even if they think you're hot. Happened to me twice this year. All about the age.

[@genkibob]

Passport time.

[@wh3elson]

Interesting observation, would like to see how prevalent this is. If the wall for women is around 30, looks like the wall is around 40 for men

[@danieldpa8484]

It’s a breakdown of society by design - no families, weak and defenceless people. Depressed and disenfranchised men won’t protect what is left, why should they?!?

[@Yea___]

The great reset

[@scottevans2685]

Women are the most eager soldiers in the Evil Army of Dyscivilization.

[@gtt8428]

Ding Ding Ding

[@14supersonic]

It's all to drive depopulation when you really think about it. They've been trying this for decades...

[@JoeyJoverAgbayani]

the fall of rome. moral degration.

[@LSP2387]

Every man just needs to realize that with modern women, the #1 concern is not how much she likes you, or your looks, or your job, or your money; no, the primary concern is how impressed other women will be that she got you. Like an extravagant engagement ring or an overpriced designer bag, except you're alive.

[@daze507]

It's one of the first thing I noticed when I rentered the dating market in 2015. I drive a fancy car and look quite good and I have been impressed by the insistance of the chicks I met to parade me in front of her friends like a circus animal. That was a new for me as 10 years before wmen would tend to do the opposite, hide you from other wmen if you were high value. To me very little time, less than one year, to understand that the daing market and the male/fmale relationships were completely screwed... And that was in 2015, nowadays I can't imagine what it is.

[@johnsmith-ht3sy]

I experienced this over 25 years ago, they want their friends opinion. I got bored with the same fkn friends opinion, 40 years ago, the friends all said, " Watch him, hes dangerous he will break your heart". Which was true, after going steady for over 2 years, the excitement goes and I fell asleep in their company, which was when they wanted MARRY me.

[@gtt8428]

Exactly and that's what big boy misses in this video, his a simp for real

[@bobc9786]

@@daze507 must be social media.

[@ethosterros9430]

She will never be happy

[@MrGuyBroDude]

I will never date anyone who has kids already under any circumstances ever again. I made that mistake one time and that is all it takes. She had a younger kid that is barely speaking age and after a few years, that little guy was calling me daddy. I was the only father he has ever known. But that isn't my kid. But I loved him like he was my own. But again, he wasn't my kid. When she decided to break it off when I was in the middle of a college class in a damn text message, I come home to an empty house and no fiancé or son. She gets to have the kid and that happiness where I get to have my heart ripped out and tossed aside like trash. But guess what? 90% of women out there have kids because they just prance around not caring and sleeping with anyone they want because they want that life of fun. And now they are realizing that men are realizing that they are worth something and know they can offer more than just a bank account. And most women are HATING that. I am now in my 30s, no kids or family, but have taken my time to find someone that actually values me and hopefully this woman I have in my life is the one. Here is to hoping boys.

[@assplundah]

Sounds a lot like my story mate, good luck going forward.👍💪💪

[@lufasumafalu5069]

stop making up nonsense , you never dated anyone PERIOD

[@MrGuyBroDude]

@@lufasumafalu5069 found the person who need more hugs from mommy

[@JOSEMunoz-tc5rq]

​@@lufasumafalu5069well what do you know we have our first female comment 😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@lufasumafalu5069]

@@JOSEMunoz-tc5rq where ? all commenters here are males ,female dont use internet

[@andrewc318]

Even if you acquire a woman and meet all her requirements that’s only where the real problems begin. It not like “yes I got her problem solved”. Getting a woman in your life is is when the nightmare begins

[@michaeldavid6832]

That's when the costs really begin to rise.

[@fredflintstone8569]

Nailed it.

[@harryharry9602]

Exactly! Work hardest to meet requirements to get a chance to be enṣlaved for the rest of your life!

[@jesuschristislord77733]

💯

[@ZackSNetwork]

@@harryharry9602Or she leaves you and takes all your assets.

[@patrikback739]

I talked to this decidedly avaradge girl the other day about Tinder. Me and her male friend tried telling her about how bad men have it on the aps, explaining women get thousands of potential matches while average men get like 2, and that the odds of finding a good partner were very much in her favor. Her respons was "I'd rather have the two good matches than the thousand bad ones"... Me: "wtf makes you think that the two matches are any good!?"

[@YOUPIMatin123]

Imagine trying to persuade a woman lol

[@patrikback739]

@@YOUPIMatin123 haha I was a bit drunk tbh.

[@Sarkhan69]

average*.

[@patrikback739]

@Sarkhan69 thanks! English isn't my first language, so I tend to do some spelling errors every once in a while.

[@yoba867]

Dating apps are shit deal for women either way. You can get run-through easily, congratulation. Women met thousands of potential matches(and ofc choose best they can) to get pumped and dumped. Its no one wins game.

[@davidcanty7903]

Just legalize prostitution and watch how things shake out.

[@willdegra317]

exactly. in countries where this is legal they don't understand the simping of western men

[@savioblanc]

It will definitely get less desperate for the men in the US. There are a bunch of European countries and one in the South Seas, NZ, that have fully legalised prostitution. The women haven't gotten better but atleast the men do get some relief. But in terms of marriage, relationships and the stopping of societal collapse - no changes.

[@Mendokusai99]

Too true. I live in the Netherlands and I know several attractive, single women who can't find a man because we don't put up with their bullshit and often have better things to do. Red light districts are an easy bike ride away.

[@DKTUBS]

You can get it in every country, worlds oldest occupation.

[@matthewhernandez8342]

Go to a massage parlor, some of them give you “extra service”

[@uroborous01]

I actually had a woman ask me point blank why i’m not taller. Like i decided to be 5 ft 5in. Like i had done this on purpose. Like genetics aren’t a thing that pre determines that. So i told her that yes it was on purpose, and asked if she wanted to know why. She says yes. So i tell her that I’m intentionally short so that when we hug or anything else that involves being face to face, my shortness would enable my face to land between her boobs more easily. She laughed then called me a creep.

[@mateaukalua4426]

😂😂 closer to her feet.

[@Iron-Bridge]

Should have responded with, " Why aren't you smarter?"

[@snorman1911]

But being fat is out of their control of course.

[@mateaukalua4426]

@@Iron-Bridge Being salty when you're short makes them happy. Ignoring them would be the best viable option.

[@Jeff-sp7bg]

I would've responded "why did you decide to be a man?"

[@Xoruam]

"If he lost weight and became more social" Yeah, if he lost weight, changed his personality, found a $100k job, started travelling the world, went to a stand-up comedy, forgot all about his hobbies and learned to only ever talk about things which are socially acceptable for guys to talk about, and basically became a completely different person, while also dedicating his entire existence to becoming the dream-come-true partner and developed a time machine to do all this at the same time, then maybe, _maybe_ he'd have a chance of meeting someone from the bottom half of the top 50%. _Meeting,_ not _dating._ And then he'd hear about how "he's too average" and that "he should be more ambitious". Good luck with that. I'd rather stay worthless, but stay myself. No woman is worth completely rejecting your entire existence.

[@ohjay7612]

Well said

[@lemonacidrounds7293]

You're not worthless! Nobody's worthless. You still help somebody and bring love to them!

[@Anomaly188]

@@lemonacidrounds7293 Name the 'somebody.' You can't because they don't exist.

[@lemonacidrounds7293]

@@Anomaly188 Your family! Grandparents, your mom, dad, sister, brother... They're happy with your existence. Your buddies even if they're 1 or 2.

[@ihavenonameforyou1]

That's why you gotta date oversees before you know what possess all of them there too

[@WINT3R_94]

I think that the 90/10 rule works in reverse also. Trying to find woman that is not feminist, liberal, tripple digit body count, has kids, a boss babe, involved in sex work, only fans, drug addict, in debt, mental disorder, overweight etc.. eliminates 90% off the bat.

[@Jason-gt6ko]

You ain't lying. That's all I seem to encounter. I don't know what this guy's talking about...successful women?!?!

[@gregoryjohnson9733]

I'm not interested in a woman unless they are under 130lbs.

[@Joe-hz1nw]

It’s actually worse than that. No joke maybe 1-2% are actually datable.

[@brandonmusick77]

What percentage of women are truly attractive without caked-on makeup? I'm guessing less than 2%. The few that are attractive are in such high demand that a normal guy has NO chance.

[@samrapheal1828]

@@Joe-hz1nw 99.8% in real time mode.

[@bodazaphfa]

Like she didn’t already know. I’d bet a year’s salary her expectations are equally delusional.

[@andrewc318]

She doesn’t know. That’s the thing. Women are completely clueless about their own nature

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

And despite having the truth she will still refuse to lower them

[@blunt2416]

Until women report the fact that this results in many women sharing the same men sexually, then these articles are meaningless & only meant to make fun of most men.

[@zephyrr108]

@@gg8264 kek

[@DinnerForkTongue]

​@@gg8264 No she's not. She's _quirky._

[@moejjoraisin6005]

I got the sixes. Not interested in dating ANY of these Capitol One commercials. "What's in your wallet?"

[@ryurc3033]

I'm almost 40, 6'4", fit, and a mobile mechanic. My house is paid for..... I have no debt, and some disposable income. Doesn't matter. People look down on me when I'm covered in dirt and grease. Most women are literally afraid of me. So I don't even try anymore.

[@TheTrainstation]

Fix yourself up a bit brother, by throwing in the towel you are choosing to be alone. A tall fit guy like yourself would be a great catch but you have to put yourself out there. i know its tough

[@conormccue2871]

@@TheTrainstation Choosing to "Be alone" in this day and age is synonymous with choosing to "Be happy, healthy, and wealthy." Stop simping, fool. This man would be up to his eyeballs in debt and much more miserable with an average western woman sharing his home.

[@ST-TV]

@@TheTrainstation The catch is not worth the hunt.

[@tobias6013]

​​@@TheTrainstation You clearly seek some form of validation and or approval from women... I would suggest some PUA (pick-up-artist) content... seems to me it would suit you more.

[@devox3291]

Same. If you act " above- average-normal" in society. But don't look 100% GQ. You are ostracized And not ONLY by women, either. Its amazing how brainwashed people ( mainly women) are . They are lost.

[@jarrod752]

_Women just want a mid guy to call our own..._ She think Henry Cavil is mid because she can't see the bottom 80% of men.

[@az_3kgt714]

imagine the look of dissapointment when women realize he's "only 6'1" tall, And not 6'2" . OMG you're such a dwarf i only date guys 6'2" tall you creep lol.

[@jollypolly1686]

It's probably just a late butthurt comeback at men calling Margot Robbie mid.

[@nocturnaljoe9543]

@@jollypolly1686 Dude, please don't speak for all men. Idk who margot Robbie is and I don't care.

[@tdaye6978]

If she thinks Henry Cavill is mid, she can't see the bottom 99.9% of men

[@popejoeii]

Based

[@SirYeetus]

Women never want to listen until *THE WALL* hits them at the speed of light! 😂

[@tomclark362]

I would argue they never want to listen.

[@Krelian4400]

The Wall is cope

[@SirYeetus]

@@Krelian4400You denying the wall is cope.

[@marky113]

​@@Krelian4400the wall is calling

[@Cyber-Rain]

Like I said before, most of them will not understand or even care until it affects them or their sons.

[@cobra7282]

If you aren't the "full package" just stay away from dating sites/apps. Nothing but misery will come from it. Also, if a woman turns you down and calls you cheap because you offer to do something inexpensive on the first date don't take it personally and be grateful for the bullet dodged.

[@thomasseeley8124]

I'm broke as fuck and haven't really dated in that last 2 years, but before that i was busting hella nuts in random tinder chicks. My bio literally said shit like "i'm really just trying to make out with your mom" and "I collect red flags like pokemon" I don't have a bunch of muscles or a nice car. I would show up to dates in overalls. Dude, you don't have to be the complete package. You can literally be the opposite and still make progress....

[@citylockapolytechnikeyllcc7936]

Girls love Mario, and he is a chubby plumber@@thomasseeley8124

[@Certago]

If you call that progress... Sex is such a small part of life, don't focus on that unless you are a teenager. 😅 Find things that make you happy, have a purpose and do something you are genuinely good at. If you are happy with yourself you might give off the same vibe of a happily married man which makes you very interesting to single women. Funny how that works... Good luck gents, if you can ignore the loud mouths on the Internet, your life will be better but I understand that this is hard to do. If you have a tough time finding your balance, we can talk about it.

[@ghostwarrior1289]

even IF you are "the full package" you should still stay away from dating apps. They are all full of low value women.

[@USSResolute]

The paradox is that I am 6', own my own home, earned a PhD, full head of (graying) hair and I have a career as a chemistry professor, and women still find reasons to reject me. At no point in my life have women cared one whit about my character, morals and work ethic. I am ironically out of their league even while they insist they are out of mine. If you've never met in person, you are not actually intimate. You are being used.

[@deej628]

F em.

[@emzywillrich7243]

I'm 6'4" tall and still fairly good-looking. When I was a young man in my 20's, women hit on me all the time but I believed they just wanted to have a baby by me. However, I stayed focus and got my advanced degree. If you are an intellectual, it is better to find a mate who is one too. There are plenty of fine looking women who are not Barbie Dolls. Caveat: Get a young one though. The older ones may have some real mental baggage their dealing with.

[@asw654]

​@@Cocoisagordonsetter Female academics in STEM are generally rarer. Granted, chemistry is not bad. Something like 60:40 men to women. Far better ratios than engineering and certain sciences, like physics. It can also depend on the school he's in. So since he's a STEM academic, he might need to reach out of his dept and look into other fields for academic women. Problem with these ratios is even the ones that don't seem that bad still come with challenges. E.g. with a 60:40 ratio, you still have many who are already in relationships and when you pair down 20:20 of them, you end up with something like 40:20, a 2-to-1 ratio instead. With all due respect, I think someone like you, a long time married woman, might be too nice to offer much help to someone like him or me. I feel most women like you would have been married much earlier and not representative of the women we meet. Frankly, I don't think most women I see care that much about "character" (too subjective anyway), or morals and work ethic. Those are conservative/traditional values of interest that a lot of modern women just don't care about. I feel many of them consider those things stifling and boring when they just want fun and excitement, and to feel young forever. And to be fair to the women, I'm sure they detect haughtiness from him as he so confidently declares he's out of their league. While my parents were immigrants so they're not representative of American boomers, I believe they were still traditional and conservative enough to think marriage was lifelong and will take seriously family and community/religious commitments and duties. I don't think those exist as much these days. Many women don't care about having children until they're 35+. Hardly any really care about familial duties now. It puts ppl like me in a rough spot as I promised my father on his deathbed that I would raise a family and give him grandkids. I regret considering these so late in my life. I'm at the point where I don't need freedom, independence, etc. I'd give it all away to commit the rest of my life to a woman and kids, and even provide for her any luxuries she needs without any consideration for myself. Unfortunately, while I can easily provide financially (including multiple IVFs for potential 35+ aged wives), I'm just not too charming. I'm like the other guy except shorter and probably kinder and sympathetic towards women, but ime that doesn't exactly help. Anyway, that's where I am, and those are just my two cents.

[@creepybastard3165]

If your an educated man ask your self this. A women dates has a relationship with you becauae you provide things through your finances and she then provides sex as a reward. A prostitute provides sex by you giving her money..... Whats the difference?

[@simontmn]

I'm similar, except 5'8" 50 and balding. Most White women ignore me, lots of pretty east-Asian women are keen on me though. I avoid academics; teachers carers cleaners/housekeepers and Filipina nurses are good prospects.

[@qaszxc12345]

Approaching women is horrible, they reject you and tell everyone trying to embarrass you for there pleasure. Not worth it anymore.

[@tdaye6978]

Approach strangers. Who are they gonna tell? But it's for that reason that I don't date at work or within friend groups. Eventually they will try to turn them all against you and embarrass you. I've seen it literally every time I've seen people date in that situation

[@TheTrainstation]

thats not true brother, and there are just as manay bad men out there. Keep the chin up, it is worth it

[@Colton-wz5sh]

@@TheTrainstationyes it is true, and no theres not as many bad men. Not even close

[@duesaces]

This doesn't happen. I don't know how you approach but they usually just politely tell you that they're not interested or they're in a relationship. Don't normalize this satire. Make respectful approach second nature.

[@strikeforcealpha9343]

I can handle rejection, buddy; I was built for it. What I can't stand is humiliation. Ew, you're a creep. I asked someone out many years ago; she was gorgeous, with big tits, a lovely figure, and funny and intelligent as hell. She was the whole package. So, I mustered up the courage to speak to her, thinking we had a connection. I asked her about our relationship, and she responded with, 'What relationship?' Exactly! I said, 'I'd like to buy you a drink sometime,' and she ghosted me. Later, she told my boss (a male) who found it funny as hell that you don't do that. Well... please enlighten me, love. Because as far as I understand, she's STILL single, ten years later.

[@OldSaltyBear]

54 year old man here. I have had the three sixes since I was in my early 30s. Didn't matter. Every single woman I met, save one, was not wife material. Either she was a gold digger, had too much baggage, wasn't trust worthy or didn't have the adulting skills I considered necessary for a potential wife and mother of our children. All skills I possess myself, mind you. The one exception was convinced by her female friends that she could do better and bounced. I know there are exceptions, but they are few and far between and 99 times out of 100 they did not meet on some app. The women on Tinder are for the streets. Look elsewhere.

[@DonVigaDeFierro]

Nowadays I believe is up to them to prove why they deserve to be with somebody. Most of them are uneducated, boring, full of issues, and can't even cook or clean after themselves... That's without saying they look plain bad with the messed-up dyed hair, piercings and tacky tattoos. I'm glad I am getting over it. They want their space? I'm absolutely giving it to them.

[@Notme-tq4xs]

Women don't have adulting skills. They are your new children with your checkbook if you marry them.

[@kee7678]

Same here...except I'm 55. Rare indeed is the woman who's worthy of marriage today.

[@patrickhodgson361]

Was she really the exemption if she actually would listen and take the advice of her idiot friends? Think about it

[@dblezi]

The best women are taken between 16-23 especially in this post feminst soyciety. An old maid (23+) is not worth it today for a self respecting man. As she has been getting ran through since high school. Exceptions do exist, I had a buddy in church that met his now wife whom was a 25 yo virgin. She stayed at home and had a strong relationship with her father. Since she had no baggage she is able to truly love my friend.

[@davida.taylor8444]

"I'm not putting $160 into a vending machine to see if a girlfriend falls out." What a great line! I feel this about summarizes the dating market from the male perspective bc I'm very concerned about investing in something up front with such a high risk for failure that I just don't take that many chances any more.

[@michaelbutler1557]

I hate vending machines.

[@artawhirler]

"I'm not putting $160 into a vending machine to see if a girlfriend falls out." Best Joker quote ever!! 😅

[@larryrobx]

(continues) "That's like those grab-claw machines -- the success chance on those is like 1%." Joker is an off-the-cuff legend!

[@aspiringadventurer7410]

More like one of those poker machines

[@BLACKAAROW]

For $160 you can get a big booty/titty Latina escort , that’s what I do now lol

[@davidbarr49]

With the economy the way it is, who can afford it?

[@jonathanbrown5747]

I'm 32. When I was in HS almost every girl I knew had a bf in their 20's who drove them everywhere, or was in a band, and they didn't date guys their age unless they came from rich families. My first gf was a liar and had a team of desperate guys constantly offering to do stuff for her through college, then complained that men objectified her. We can't go back from this stuff, I think the well has been poisoned.

[@erroneous6947]

I compare feminism to cancer. No going back without loosing an arm. Figuratively speaking.

[@petebrown6356]

Phones, social media, and dating apps are the reason. They collectively drive narcissism and mental illness. They've destroyed dating. Before dating apps you dated those you came into contact with, now they can search the world by phone. It's not good for anyone, including them.

[@TheMelnTeam]

Altered incentive structures will do it. Doesn't even have to be draconian. I don't anticipate it happening in near-term though.

[@dreamcream3738]

When I was in highschool, every girl was magically a lesbian whenever I tried to make an attempt to date.

[@johnkeane1419]

Not even if they are rich.

[@carllong8954]

She isn't looking for a man with morals because he might expect her to have them too.

[@johnames6430]

yup, that's also why so many of them date black guys now, most black guys with low education, criminal record, and low IQ can't criticize her

[@riomyself2438]

The best comment on the thread 👌 👏

[@adolfgerhardhermann5952]

Cannot buy Porsche with moral.

[@bobc9786]

I think a man with morals makes them feel bad about themselves, so they will try to destroy that man subconsciously.

[@Colton-wz5sh]

@@adolfgerhardhermann5952buy*

[@aeronothis5420]

The 6 / 6/ 6 rule is garbage. They want more than that. I'm 6'1 make about a quarter mil a year, slightly above average endowment. Own my home, 2 cars, and have a great job. I've got some chub but not a ton, I still have to use every hole on a belt. No matches from real women for months before I gave up. Every match I got was "here's my snap" "hey I need x money" or would immediately unmatch before I could even reply. I used to think I would at least be a 6 but after apps I felt like I was a 1 or a 2. DON'T USE DATING APPS. Just go overseas and see how much better women will treat you there.

[@raspiankiado]

6 inches is not average. Jesus christ, if 6 inches was average, the world's population would be genetically modified at birth. If you're talking average, take out the extremes. Extremely short, and extremely long. The aaverage mathematically is one thing, the typical size of existing parts, is not 6 inches.

[@cramsa]

I once knew an escort who had 2 kids, and was getting RAN THOUGH CONSTANTLY, she wouldn't date a man if he made less than six figures... let that sink in.

[@twinturbo3461]

Escorts are not dating material, whether you earn 5 figures, 6 figures, or 7 figures. They will suck your bank account dry because of the mentality they have and where they come from.

[@MidlifeRenaissanceMan]

She’s cheaper as a subscription service than to pay for a perpetual license

[@nayanvaishnavvv]

Who would want to date an escort / prostitute at the first place 😂😂. I wouldn't want my wife or gf to be a prostitute , staying single is billion times better than having escort girl

[@OLDPEDOJOE]

@@nayanvaishnavvv You don't wife them up or make them your gf, I'm dating an escort and she takes *me* out to dinner lol

[@michealrcnicholson9342]

Funny she was left with the kids and hasnt managed to tie down 6 of 6 dudes who used her for what she readily put out there! One day she'll look back and wonder "what the heck went wrong"?.

[@frea2191]

Im a happily married woman for about about 24 years now... my husband and i have 3 kids, 2boys 1 girl. My oldest son showed us a few videos of your content and we started watching it on our own afterwards. My sons intention was to show us how dating is today and that we should keep an eye on his sister (15) wich just started dating this year... Sadly enough his worries werent for nothing... she broke up with her first bf because "he didnt pay enough attention to her". I asked her ex what happend... he said, that he was anoyed how glued she was to her phone, so he stoped texting alltogether and only talked to her irl. I took my daughter phone away and they were back together after a week... fkn hell has this world become... 😮‍💨

[@man-observing-world]

Good for your son, I’m seeing a lot of young men becoming wise to the world while girls are living in fantasy land. My 19 year old sister is currently failing big time with forming a healthy appropriate relationship at her age. Her biggest issues seem to be looking in all the wrong places while ignoring the regular guys her age.

[@Joe-hz1nw]

Make sure your daughter understands that she can always casually date men that are far better on paper than that will actually date her seriously, and getting passed around by men will really hurt her.

[@CarbideSC]

There's no reason for a 15 year old to date to be honest, they're just going to learn bad habits and there is no possibility of marriage at that age.

[@rogerm3708]

Settling down with a woman now is knowing you weren't her 1st, 2nd, 17th or even 33rd choice

[@Milner62]

still, it's all for nought as you may do your part to correct your daughter`s bad habits but that doesn't change the fact that other parents aren't doing the same thing, so the world is just flooding with girls like how your daughter was acting. Thats the only way how that can happen, I have no desire to try for relationships anymore as my first interactions was in middle school where the girls were doing the usual bully spiel and it just got worse from there as they grew up without parenting and got worse and worse. Hell, middle school was when all the girls were drooling over wedding magazines that we all know the parents bought setting up their dream wedding and daydreaming and now we have a bunch of women that is more concerned with the wedding than the actual marriage and the contract that it is.

[@kevinmccallister1343]

Time to serve these HIGHLY spoiled entitled brats some humble pie gents. All you gotta do is be strong enough to walk away from them and leave them to their cold dark little worlds - alone. Simple. Been doing it for a decade already and never going back.

[@HubertGeorge]

Men will never do this enmass. Men's willingness to sleep with women much less attractive than themselves is why we are where we are.

[@jesuschristislord77733]

Simps ruin everything in every aspect of life.

[@jesuschristislord77733]

@@declan-kr5if USA is setting itself up for Weimar solutions.

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

In college, a girl asked me out for coffee. I wasn't interested so I politely told her I had a girlfriend back in my own home country (this was a fib just to let her down easy). She then found my Instagram and tried to tell my friend list that I was cheating on my girlfriend because I tried to R her (my clasdmate). She also tried to tell other women at school that I was a creep who was stalking her. So even if you try to peacefully walk away, they will try to ruin your life for no reason other than their egos are hurt. BTW I got that girl expelled for what she did and she had to pay me 11k USD in damages. Or more accurately, her dad paid me. She was a senior and I was a freshman and I think it just made her feel really embarrassed that I said no to her.

[@jesuschristislord77733]

@@sergeipohkerova7211 toxic holepeople

[@yoabnay]

Last girl I went out with had anxiety problems, I told her it was ok and at some point she went totally mute and let me know that she had a panic outbreak. I let her know it was ok and waited silently with her until it was over we each went our way and everything was cool. Few nights later she texted me a bunch crazy stuff about how she loved me and I was different then that I was a piece of shit and that she thought I was different, the next day she apologized and told me she had some pills and that she also was drunk. Previous girl suddenly blocked me and the I realized she had gotten married 2 days latter. At this point I stopped dating out of self respect and dignity. It not worth the effort.

[@michaelbutler1557]

60 year old man here. That’s an old trick mate. The ‘going mute’ freezing trick. Don’t fall for it.

[@jcdentoid]

@@michaelbutler1557 What's the idea behind the trick? The premise? What's the goal?

[@NomdePlume337]

On the topic of women wanting to be approached more, it used to be that the worst thing that could happen if you approached a woman is that she could say no, now the worst thing is that you could lose your job, be defamed, and possibly even face legal repercussions depending on how she’s feeling

[@worscohli]

exactly

[@fuzzypanda1684]

1000% bro, I say this same thing all the time. The days of "just go talk to her, what's the worst that could happen?" are long over.

[@Swordfish393]

I work at a FAANG-level company and just this month had to do the annual "behave yourself" training, which basically boiled down to "don't ask out people at work, oh yeah and don't be racist". So because tinder and online dating more broadly is a hellhole, if you're a guy who works 10+hrs a day, and you're not allowed to even flirt with anyone at work, and you still need to go to the gym, I'm not sure where & when you're expected to meet anyone.

[@Max_Da_G]

@@Swordfish393 Facts. People can't even take a joke these days, never mind realize that someone uses a hyperbole in the conversation. I worked with tradies all my life and we don't mix our words. But I was already reported to HR over a silly comment and nearly got sacked. If it wasn't for my boss who is an Englishman with 0 filter and the Business Development Manager (also an Englishman without a filter), I'd have been gone.

[@Vampire_born_in_2006]

only if you live in a big "liberal" city, don't be crazy.

[@madmarduk1936]

Most women have no idea what 6 feet tall looks like. I’ve tested it. I’m just over 5’11 and I’ve asked women how tall they think that I am. I didn’t get a single response that was under 6’2. Women demand this stuff because they are told that they should and not because of what actually attracts them.

[@sideburnsandwich1119]

Ditto. Even working with guys who are 6'4"- if that guy isn't standing right next to you, some women still can't remember who is taller. They perceive us in a completey different way to how we view the world. It seems that, as long as you project some sort of positive or commanding presence through confidence, they'll see you as a giant- given that you are taller than them to begin with of course. Objectively short guys are still in for a rough ride.

[@Max_Da_G]

I'm 6ft 2 and it doesn't mean anything. In fact I was asked to stop standing over by a 5ft 1 chick at work. And that's when I'm in good mood.

[@matthewcaron3319]

So, the old joke about women's poor depth perception still holds... (For those that don't know the joke, it's because guys lie about the size of their trouser snake, so women's idea of scale is off)

[@CymbalMonkey]

That's just women basically admitting they are retarded though. Who wants to date someone who cannot think for themselves?! Nowadays, too many people rely on other people's thoughts.

[@shumagorath1751]

@@matthewcaron3319 women are actually just objectively bad with spacial awareness, its been tested many many times. they have never really evolved the need, unlike men who do cause having bad spatial skills means death.

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

It's easy for them to cosplay as a man and play dressup and have a bit of fun, but they will NEVER understand the nonstop pressure a man is under from puberty until death. Basically a man knows that in every dangerous situation in life, he is expendable and expected to be so. He is conditioned from an early age to understand that he isn't as intrinsically valuable as women and girls, and thus he has to spend his whole life in a futile effort to be worthy of even a fraction of the joy and serenity of life that they get just for being born. A man, is like working all day long, stressed, long commute home, and once you get there you get a lecture on why you're toxic, from people whose food, shelter, health, and entire existence are funded by your blood. And if you finally say no, I don't want this, I'm going to bow out and not get in anyone's way but I'm going to do my own thing, YOU are again accused of being toxic, because how dare you think there's more to your life than being a minstrel step n fetchit for people who hate you.

[@coolnut99]

"...but (women) will NEVER understand the nonstop pressure a man is under from puberty until death." Remember Norah Vincent.

[@BWatskins]

Women can try and play men all they want but at the end if they ever find it too tough they can just jump back to being women. Men don't have such luxury

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

@@coolnut99 She barely endured 18 months and asked to be deleted. Men can never leave the Torture-Simulator.

[@DaMaster012]

Atlas is moments away from shrugging.

[@dubbula]

100%

[@chriss-nf1bd]

Look up the comedy routine called "The husband and wife store" Says al you need to know about women. Ask Al Bundy about women. He says "I don't have to understand women. women understand women and they hate each other."

[@cpgravenor]

By walking away from these whacko women, I own two homes, two passports, three pensions, and happy as a pig rolling in mud, and I gained all that from being single.

[@lilfairycupcake]

they are all costly, and a pain.

[@TheTrainstation]

Unfortunateley the world is missing 5 kids you could have had. Maybe its not too late brother, there are so many loveley ladies in the world

[@klopcodez]

Now that you have all these things they will want to be interested all over a sudden and I suppose love you.....and push you to marry them fast, seen it a lot of times

[@jers7590]

I'm working on it brother! 51 n I'm getting there, want to hit the eject button at 58. Been single for years now, weird how much more money I have even though I no longer am part of a dual income household...like how the hell does that add up??

[@lilfairycupcake]

@@klopcodez marriage is the ultimate goal to make you her slave, then destroy you in divorce court. I've had no less than 8 marriage proposals from these 304s since my divorce, no thanks.

[@Foolsjoker]

The reality is that a number of places are ONLY hiring women for management roles because it looks good. I used to work at a place and I remember sitting with the leaving manager (we were looking at the list of applications), and she only chose candidates with female names. If I pointed out a person with a male name, I just got 'that's not what we are looking for'. You wonder why men aren't doing as well? State approved, public approved sexism. Edited for clarity.

[@Rossen42]

I worked at a place where they had a rule, that if they had a man and a woman apply for the same job and they had the same experience the company had to hire the woman. No consideration if personality or anything, they was so terrified of getting sued that they only would consider a man if he had a way better CV then the woman.

[@augustcanyon3438]

@@Rossen42 and that;s just one of the little ways how society crumbles

[@respectdawildo_danjones508]

They give masssive tax breaks to those as well, companies owned by women, Ect, they’ve incentivized everything unconstitutional and forced the hand to hand over any and all wealth to women smh

[@1978garfield]

@@Rossen42 I worked a job, not a high prestige job mind you. They kept all the applications on file. Corporate said they could only hire white men if no minorities or women applied. FWIW I had a few black coworkers but they were all men. My guess is none of the women who applied could pass the physical.

[@lufasumafalu5069]

you never worked real job kid , go home

[@TheWombat2012]

It’s a weird world. Years ago many people met their girlfriends or wives at work. I met a girl where I was working, and pursued her, I asked her out many times, flirted with her, touched hands while we were doing small tasks together at work, etc. Eventually she agreed to go out, and now nearly forty years later, we’re still together. If I did all that these days, I’d have been dragged into HR or fir3d or MeToo’d to death. It’s very different these days.

[@AyaWetts]

This is really true... I know someone who was let go from work, and I found out one of my other co-workers complained about him and got him fired. She told me "he was looking at me like a creep for weeks, then he asked me out... so gross, I turned him in" .... I didn't want to get in an argument, so dropped it, but I thought... wtf is wrong with you, he was a nice guy, if you didn't like him, just say no thanks and go on... there was nothing creepy about him except she is the type who only wants, and still thinks she will get, 6'2" millionaire Chads.

[@rklewis2]

I met my wife at work.

[@sceptic2061]

what AyeWetts said. Most of the stuff you wrote is sexual harassment now unless it is "consensual." The problem is HOW THE FUCK would we know if it is consensual?! Get a Notarized agreement in three copies?!

[@dragorn3212]

The corporations and politicians want to make European race a minority so they can replace them all with cheap third world labor and underdeveloped political understanding. They are making it as hard as possible for men to find spouses and even for sought after men to have kids. They don't care how miserable and invalidated men are becasue they are also the ultimate simps when it comes to catering to women.

[@bakedstreetyt]

Not true in the slightest

[@kentfrawley6586]

Imagine improving yourself for someone who could care less to begin with.

[@elemar5]

*couldn't.

[@andrewevans7992]

@@elemar5whatever.. we still got what he was talking about

[@elemar5]

Good for you, but I like people to make sense.@@andrewevans7992

[@zacharysilver911]

@@andrewevans7992Naw fuck that. I’m tired of people fucking up this phrase.

[@cladgreenhero5576]

“I’m worth more than a cup of coffee 🙄” Me: “Prove it.”

[@andycollins7215]

And what is he worth?

[@rationalfox7736]

​@@andycollins7215whatever he makes.

[@ironclad4451]

His bank account

[@cygnusprime6728]

If these women keep up their shenanigans, they're going to turn gen z into the most cold hearted playboys in history.

[@gilbertgurule5395]

Fuk yes

[@naezjinra]

It's odd to me that everyone knows the online dating game is rigged but they still play it. It's worse than cold approaches and those odds are 400 to 1.

[@beansmayne4581]

Bro people play slot machines, lotto , stock market.... and that shit is all rigged

[@atomicgun2491]

Bruh, cold approach is the shit. I have like 30% success rate. It breaks the habit and women cant swipe left when you are in their face.

[@zephyrr108]

people are lazy. they can download an app and pretend to be in the dating market in 1 minute.

[@lionheart6699]

Cuz they still desperate for the kitty 🐈

[@arthouston7361]

@@lionheart6699 Online dating……why don’t I just go stick my head in a wood chipper instead? Why in the world would you want to play a game of paintball, where everyone else is using live ammo?

[@jugulartara4388]

No joke. I had a 5`2 woman tell me I did not meet her height requirement when I am 5`7. Women consider me short. Go figure.

[@mpa8336]

Give thanks to your creator, that you got away without damage.

[@thevoicewithin9845]

I'm 5'11 and got called short by some of the girls at work a few weeks ago. One of whom must be close to 5ft on the nose... I wish women being this difficult was secluded to America just like so many other strange societal things but no, it's getting extremely bad here in Scotland and has been for a few years. I'm 5'11, dark haired, I'd say good looking, athletic build and earn above average salary. Yet, I haven't come close to getting a date in over 2 years, even longer for sex! Best of it is, the only girls who pay any attention are the older women I work with who somehow know what I get paid and are not attractive to me in the slightest... The younger 'fit' girls think me at 32 is too old and cause I have a beard and have been single for so long, I'm creepy and probably desperate. They also said I don't earn anywhere near enough money to support them - this all came from one of the nicer women I get on really well with. She was trying to tell them to stop being stupid to which they said what do you know, you're old and been married longer than we've been alive! Amanda genuinely told me, if that's what guys have to deal with, leave Scotland or just accept you're better off single and without wee bitches like them in your life lol She's right though, women here fucking suck and I'm genuinely sick and tired of them. I overheard two women at work talking and one said that if a guy doesn't make over 10k per month after tax she's not interested... You are literally NEVER going to find someone on the kind of money in Scotland! Even the CEO of our company doesn't make that much... Idiots, the lot of them. Wtf are they thinking!?

[@TheMusicmak3r]

@@thevoicewithin9845lol

[@Forza400]

Im starting to think woman see a direct relation between a mans length, the length of their 3rd leg and the length of the final number of their paycheck...

[@armadillotoe]

Hold your hand several inches above her head, and tell her she has to be this tall to go on THIS ride.

[@Dfgbuiiyyyybb]

I remember a friend of mine said this once: “it’s only creepy if she doesn’t find you attractive” And it’s so true 😂😂😂😂

[@SeanPowell-p4v]

Yes, the truth! If a woman is attracted to you her body and ears are yours for the taking. If she’s not attracted, don’t even try to make conversation, because you are a pathetic creep.

[@one8s7n]

The moment you start working out for women is the moment you fail. You need to do it for your health and because its your body. The discipline it takes to train your body trains your mind.

[@slthbob]

Adulting is a skillset... puberty ends at 26... do the math

[@MidlifeRenaissanceMan]

Boomer here. Happily married. Been together 18 years. I am so lucky I found my keeper when I did. I suggest that a 21 year old person is a 3 year old adult. When you hit 30, you’re a 12 year old adult….entering the high school of hard knocks. It kind of makes sense when you look back in hindsight. What am I doing here ? I have a teenager and I am seriously concerned as to what he is up against

[@mirceastroescu]

Yeah, that is really sad to start working out for women which they bother even less than men to work out and they are the symbol of beauty, lol. Funny times!

[@Exxeron-ob3tv]

If you don't do it for you, it's only a matter of time before you won't do it for her, and she will make you pay for it.

[@arcadiosincero]

Yes, I tell this to everybody. Work out for yourself, not for somebody else. Workout because you want to improve yourself, and make a better you. This goes for both men and women.

[@benprins8240]

Yes women's expectations are way to high and unrealistic. I've given up. I'm just focusing on enjoying my life, appreciating the little things and working on my goals.😊😊 As a 40 year old single man, never married, never will I follow my rules, like being alone and love the no attitude, complaining and bs. Thanks Joker 😊

[@holographicfrog1503]

What do you think living means?

[@benprins8240]

@@holographicfrog1503 to me living means enjoying your life, focusing on your goals, interests, being happy and having simplicity. You?

[@487shawntower4]

I will give you the advice that I gave my younger male family , become a passport bro, look elsewhere , do not rush and even if you do not want a wife or do not find one you at least had good trips! both my nephews now have there first born from there WIVES! Western women unfit to be wives or mothers REALITY!

[@zephyrr108]

@@benprins8240the world is just sad cause there are no friends. Im almost 40 and I just wished I had a dude friend to go camping, play games, etc. otherwise Im good.

[@benprins8240]

@@zephyrr108 I totally agree

[@markwhite6782]

Jordan Pederson had it right when he said, "The biggest lie ever told to woman was that her career is the most important thing in her life." I work with a bunch of them, they are very attractive, about 25-30 years old with masters degrees, 6 digits in debt from college and their career only allows them a rent payment on an small apartment, a car payment, student loan payment and cloths and groceries. They will never own a home, never be financially secure and will die alone without children. But they are optimistic for that 6'2" nuerosergeon to ask them out at any time. I alwayts wonder if, when the day comes that they are 45, single and have nothing, including that nice body or that career they sacrificed for, if they will then realize they screwed up?

[@noahbrown4388]

Nope. A woman’s ability to eschew responsibility is never ending.

[@SaanMigwell]

They will get all of those things. They will just get them from men, and in seven years we will be hearing from those men, and they will try and tell other men not to do it, and then those men will say "It's tough guys, you just gotta keep at, I found one and she is the right one." Then in seven years those guys will be telling the newer guys, "don't do it, she is not the one no matter what you think." And those guys will "Nahh, it just takes a while, they are out there I found one." Then in seven years..........

[@Toshinben]

IIRC, female self-deletion ramps up in their 40s-50s. Some of them realize the position they put themselves in.

[@Milner62]

they will realize it but they wont accept it nor will they take responsibility for it. it is those women that will realize that men arent giving them attention and when they are 40-45-50 years old you can be an average joe show a little attention and get a night of fun with her and then send her on her merry way like she should be.

[@seventhsun1982]

I'm presuming a bachelor tax will bail them out in the next decade. So Blue Team can win a few election cycles from the soon-to-be wildly prolific post-wall hoeflation voterbase sector.

[@BenStenson]

This what happens when you protect one group of humans, all of their lives, and they don’t get to struggle in life

[@chrisl8277]

Feminism: the ultimate gaslighting champion next to classism and racism

[@dpeagles]

👍👍👍

[@zephyrr108]

yep!!!

[@RextheRebel]

Nah, classicism is absolutely real and absolutely a problem that needs to be addressed. Hell, it's largely responsible for feminism.

[@erick_falker]

I also see it as a trojan horse. In the outside, it's equality and fairness between sexes, but inside, it's male demonizing and female supremacy.

[@timtbone8187]

Classism is defined as prejudice against or in favor of a party belonging to a particular group? That’s heavily a thing.

[@thebatman8895]

Even with rejecting 98% of men, she still hooked up with a new guy almost every week for the entire year. 43 guys in 52 weeks.

[@RedClover1987]

Cumtainer

[@20thcenturyboy85]

Yes and she is undoubtedly proud of herself! -Silly girl! LOL

[@davestang5454]

It's like a herd out in the desert and finding the one "watering hole" around for miles. Nothing to envy. Imagine how foul that watering hole has become by the time you find it.

[@maga-hat709]

i know so many girls who are doing that 43 guys in one month. That's the brutal reality of today's world with all these hook-up apps. It's the endless smorgasbord of D for chicks.

[@jpmnky]

Sounds about right.

[@BigBenn2014]

Why are so many men subsidising dating app prices for women who out earn them and won’t date them? Delete those apps chaps.

[@nickstar717]

yes non compliance will fix these problems in the dating market, however too may men are thirsty

[@MrGamman3yt]

What about my 42 only fans subscriptions and 12 twich subs for asmr? They will miss me, and maybe starve.

[@Toshinben]

Fill the apps with red pill content 'till we get banned.

[@Milner62]

@@nickstar717 same with OF, why are they paying for porn when so many women out there make porn and post it for free.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

​@MrGamman3yt it's called Lonelyfans for a reason.

[@deweywallace6314]

In the year 2000, I worked at a large bank. A good-looking woman was constantly flirting with me, so I asked her out on a date. She reported me as sexually harassing her. Once HR figured the whole thing out and dropped the entire incident, she started chasing me, trying to get me to date her. She was a total loon, and I would have nothing to do with her.

[@lukewood2662]

I meet all physical requirements, and just landed an above average contract. You know what I didn't find? A woman with most traits I want.

[@Joe-hz1nw]

You can’t because you’re not in the top 2-3%. There are maybe 1-2% of women that are fit, feminine, cooperative, not liberal, not a feminist, childless, no divorces, 20’s (fertility). There simply aren’t any brotha, other than being able to f**k them its completely pointless.

[@jeepinintexas6215]

@@ConontheBinarian a new meaning to the term "globalism"

[@darthairborne3460]

It tough, especially when you are the 6s. You end up with scrubs coming up to you thinking they are 10s that flip out when you reject them.

[@billywashere6965]

It's quite amazing the hubris on display when a land-whale or ham planet believes they deserve a dude who is a 6 or a 7.@@darthairborne3460

[@alexfowler9785]

​@@darthairborne3460I've heard stories like that from some high value men, and one high value friend I have. I assume the level of delusion is high in those women

[@80sriceman]

My son is 16,.in high school. He says it aint looking good out there. All the girls think they are "princesses" and think they deserve the world handed to them.

[@Anomaly188]

Tell him to give them a hand right across their stuck up faces.

[@jaxonwoods8181]

My condolences to your son and any other dude in HS or college right now. If it's bad for me as a Millennial, I can't even imagine how it is for Zoomers and Gen Alpha dudes.

[@Mugen_FB317]

@@jaxonwoods8181I’m in College and the way girls act is making it disgusting to date them

[@M0viLover]

Yup. I've seen *more* than a few f3male Tik Tokers *demanding* that their BFs pay for: 1) their nails / hair, 2) babysitter, 3) Uber, 4) *rent* (!), etc.

[@brandtcarroll9316]

Get ready to coach him through depression and show him how to live a fulfilling life alone. Modern women are a liability for the most part that offer nothing but pain.

[@PageofLegend]

Hold strong guys, what is currently going on with women demanding these insane standards is not sustainable; something is going to break before too long. This whole shebang is going to collapse under its own weight.

[@pc_suffering6941]

I cope the same way dude, we can only hope

[@chomp5558]

Im scared we will be to old whem the recovery starts. At least young boys get to not suffer

[@dagoelius]

The only thing that will collapse will be the human population of western societies.

[@christopher6337]

Things can go on longer than you think.

[@Ubreakable-lr2dk]

@@chomp5558 I found a good one took me some time but yeah was quiet a hassle to shape that ho but it was worth it

[@scottsommer9843]

Ask a man how much money he makes is like asking a girl what her body count is. Same energy, yet women want to believe their question is legit while questioning them is sexist.

[@NightMotorcyclist]

Another woman pretending to know what's going on when in reality she's only scratching the surface but she will still be treated as a scholar for it while men who have been going in depth are ignored/ dismissed.

[@ST-TV]

Just the top level is too much for 99% of women.

[@dragorn3212]

@@ST-TV 99% of women couldn't last 3 days as a man before losing their minds. How do i know this? probably from the fact that despite having everything 1000 times easier than men they still cry easily and feel oppressed when its the opposite

[@livinggood1747]

As a single 28 year old guy making $115k per year, I work as a Software Engineer and do alright for myself.. but I’m 5’ 6” 😅… I’ve completely checked out a long time ago. I’ve not been with a woman in almost 7 years now… The juice is just not worth the squeeze. I’m currently investing with the hopes of moving overseas in the coming years. I rather not play this game to protect my mental health..

[@nauscakes1868]

I saw something that would make most of these guys cry. I'm spending a few weeks in Romania to visit my long-distance partner (this isn't about that though). One thing I noticed is just how many whole families are running around. Fathers everywhere! I checked into my hotel at around 11 PM, and I went to take a quick run to the local grocery store to stock up on food, and there was a father playing nerf-gun wars with his 6-8 year old son in the parking lot. It's 11pm on a Tuesday night, and there's families out having fun. Young couples holding hands on park benches. I have to admit ignorance. As an American, I thought Romania would be kinda scary, but when you see women walking alone. Little 5 year old kids playing on their push-scooters, and more hand-holding than I've seen in a decade in a few days -- it feels so freaking surreal. I went to a local mall the next day, and there was a live-action performance of Paw Patrol characters. Actors in the suits. And there were kids screaming and cheering. Fathers holding their children on their shoulders to see better. I saw a guy teaching his daughter how to feed pigeons outside at a park. --- Now to get into the shallow part. Romanian women are good looking. MOST people are skinny or have a fit build. And I've never seen so many women in dresses. I forgot how attractive they actually looked on a healthy person. I didn't meet my Romanian partner intentionally. I didn't seek her out because she was foreign. We met out of happenstance. Completely unrelated. But I'm starting to think those folks going over-seas might be onto something.

[@LordNelsonkm]

Except you bring those women back here and the poison can sink in by osmosis. Man Talk channel is Romanian and he's got several videos on this. The Romanian divorce courts don't mess around over there, but those courts/laws don't apply here. That's something the Passport Bros don't always consider. Two years here, them bam, see ya, I'm monkey branching. It a culture problem.

[@Menorahdude]

@@LordNelsonkm All these guys going overseas for women haven't learned a damn thing. Men are truly hopeless.

[@Bronze_Age_Sea_Person]

@@LordNelsonkmThat's the thing passport bros must cast aside from their minds: Don expect the american way of life while living in Philippines or Romania. You are being too greedy. It's the Filipino and Romanian way of life that made their women attractive, so don't bring your american poison towards them and expect them to keep being a good Filipino or Romanian. Also, we've got to look how much of a passport bro's success is due to women's hypergamy as well. I really want to see the Filipino men's perspective on things. Why are their women prefering some white american from overseas, capable of spending thousands of dollars in a travel to the other side of the globe, than a hard-working but poor Filipino guy, working his ass of to make ends meet? It's almost as if... Hypergamy is inherent of a women's nature, and just happens this hypergamy got too "overfed" in America?

[@lemonacidrounds7293]

@@Bronze_Age_Sea_Person Already watched Filipino girls point of view and why's like that. According to them, the Filipino guys don't like them. Women there are having a hard time taking a partner and they're not demanding or entitled or anything like American women. That's why they're trying to get American men who are on the run from United States.

[@trashcan2088]

What you saw was a snapshot of America's PAST. It's what America USED to be, before big brother corporates got involved in society.

[@michaelsantangelo6192]

I'm always blown away by how picky women are about height. They don't just want a man who is taller than them. He has to TOWER over them. I'm 6'2" and good looking. I get ZERO attention from girls taller than 5'9". The girls who like me are always like a foot shorter than I am. I once dated a model. She would always say she loved how I was WAY taller than her. It's weird.

[@mateaukalua4426]

Yep I see men towering over women all the time and most guys aren't even that tall. But the guys with those women are always 6'0 or more easily usually way over 6'0.

[@Hawtload]

those women literally want to date their dad

[@andrewevans7992]

Im couple inches higher and its honestly cringe how women obsess with height

[@lufasumafalu5069]

look in the mirror kid, you want super model wife who make samwich for you everytime you yell in midst of your call of duty session

[@terrelldurocher3330]

I am 5 foot 8 inches in height, a 4 foot 9 girl said i was too short, i asked why she wanted a mountain.

[@joez203]

You will never be good enough for her. There is always someone "better" out there. The minute she finds someone who has one dollar more than you have, she's outa here. Lose your job? Get injured and you're laid up for months? She's outa here. A "cuter" guy chats her up on facebook? Yeah. You can't keep her in the lifestyle she's accustomed to? You don't "excite" her anymore? Gone. As is your house and your money. But it's even worse than that. Even after she lands that "perfect" guy-rich, ripped, movie star handsome, accomplished, etc-she STILL isn't satisfied and keeps her options open. She STILL has a constant "for sale" sign around her neck-think the million selfies she has on her dozen social media profiles. Of course, she will angrily deny it, but keeping her options open is what that's all about. A perfect illustration of this point is that Giselle just divorced Tom Brady. Tom Brady is NOT an average guy with an average life and an average job like all of us are. He is an exceptional guy. A superstar. He's the best ever at what he does. He leads an exciting life-hangs with athletes and rock stars, and vacations on a different continent every month. He is worth millions and has a great job that pays him millions more. He's professional athlete healthy. He's also good looking, seems like a good dad, and an overall good guy. Yet, HE...Tom effing Brady!...is still not good enough. Even HE had some broad divorce him. The point of this story is that you will never be good enough for her. NO MAN is ever good enough for her. Women are never satisfied. Ever.

[@erikhermansen3431]

The orifice of avarice.

[@BWatskins]

Like a based man said "Harry, please...look at her. You think a woman like that sniffing around because she likes your personality?...Your mother was beautiful too, they're all beautiful...until they're snarling after your trust fund like a pack of ravening wolves" No matter how handsome, how powerful, how good and exciting you are its all just fleeting until they get new sensations too pursue. If Tom Brady can't keep a women imagine us poor sods with women who think they deserve the world when they are barely six with makeup

[@hotdog9262]

ironically with your tom brady example you showed the same mentality as the women you loathe

[@joejones4172]

@@hotdog9262 How so?

[@hotdog9262]

@@joejones4172 you list tons of sporting achievements and materialistic resources linked to the guy as to why she should be still be with him. don`t know them at all obviously, but maybe she would have stuck around with the original `nobody` tom brady

[@Endymion766]

Modern women want a man who spends 3 hours a day in the gym, 10 hours at work, 4 hours entertaining them, 2 hours on an interesting hobby, hopefully they let him sleep for 8 hours, free time is zero hours, 2 hours helping with housework, 1 hour cooking, which comes out to 30 hours a day. So if there's a planet that has 30 hour days, the men they want might be there.

[@dragorn3212]

Dont forget the 10 hours of making her jealous using other women, and constantly adding status and value to your social media so that it competes with all the local blue checkmarks that she spends her time obsessing over

[@dabarnhoorn]

2 hours on an intersesting hobby that you'll never be able to get because she'll want you to do something that involves her

[@deadbeef576]

Problem is, all this effort just to get a chance, not a guarrantee for a good woman. And if you have one speck on your shining armor, she is just gonna go for the other guys. Meanwhile she doesnt have to offer anything.

[@Cov930]

Spot on

[@neonxrunner7820]

So true. Damn... I think about this every single day. Im from Brazil and in here, its the same, its everywhere. All that effort for a maybe of a chance. And before even starting, we know the odds are against us. The worst of it all is that they still demand a traditional man, while their waaaaay far from traditional woman. Zero accountability. I commented this on a video of another content creator. This is a paradox. It's over.

[@robertmaybeth3434]

...the amount of work, effort, and expense required for a man just to merely get laid, is utterly insane. The payoff is usually momentary and is hardly worth all that effort, aggravation and expense. To usually wind up right back where you where when you started with all of it, anyway.

[@gschaaf713]

its a rigged game bro

[@mig1017]

Hell you could even text her at the wrong time, or use one word she doesn't like and it's armageddon.

[@willie9899]

Investor here. As soon as a woman starts wanting financial numbers, I leave. Id rather be single than date a girl who only want my money (what's the name for a female you have to buy again?). The dating scene is miserable for a lot of us anymore

[@2377miller]

You know what caused this... Social media and simp men inflating these girl's egos.

[@nayrtnartsipacify]

that and freely available pornography.

[@DavidsSanity]

Fr

[@torch_fire9218]

I don't think it was simp men so much as other women. Women's circles is plagued by feminist dogma which tells them they are all perfect and a 10/10, which they all repeat to each other.

[@vikingnorsefitness5727]

BINGO IT IS THE BETA SIMPS! You cannot point the blame in any other direction. Until the Beta simps die out, you can expect everything to get worse

[@thealienelite]

​@@torch_fire9218nah simps ruin everything bc they inflate the women's ego

[@rmedal4594]

All this debauchery and complete lack of family orientated choices is going to lead to a very strange societal collapse.

[@man-observing-world]

Yes, this is the underlying issue, playing with social anthrax has consequences.

[@jeffsmith8197]

And I still wouldn't miss it for the world. When all these girls and women are thrown to the wolves it's going to be spectacular! 5 will get you 20 all of them will try to play the 'I'm a nice girl' card after the collapse and you know what will fk that up? Their tattoos and holes left from piercings. LOL! They'll stand out as the 304s they are and always will be.

[@selohcin]

It already has. We don't have to wait; it's already here!

[@Milner62]

Time to sit back and enjoy the collapse it's a coming shit show I've been waiting 20 years to see.

[@brianpieroth6670]

Embrace the decline

[@DaisukeFlamedramon]

If someone you are dating says "need a baby sitter" Run. Run like your life depends on it, because it does.

[@Brandelwyn]

What if shes a widow?

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

@@Brandelwyn Completely different kind of animal, while You *_still_* have to face her son's wrath about not being his dad and her daughter's accusations about something "inappropriate" as soon as she understands what kind of power she has in her -vajayjay- hands that way.

[@respectdawildo_danjones508]

@@Brandelwynwell that would be different but she shouldn’t be telling YOU that YOU need to get a babysitter, prob best to just dip out at that point, it’s already a headache bc her kids aren’t his problem and it will only get worse

[@immortalgaiden]

could you explain what you mean by this?

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

@@immortalgaiden I'll try for now: "dating" is for adult people. If she happens to have children that are not fathered by her dating acquaintance, these are not, at all, not in the slightest whiff of it _his_ problem and shouldn't *_become_* his problem, either. If she can not make time for the new dating acquaintance because she might have her background sh*tshow not well enough organized to actually be free for him without a babysitter _he pays for_ she better ain't "dating", at all, but be a mother and period. That "babysitter"-entitlement is about as imbecile as the "Uber me!" or any "fly-me-out!"- entitlements are. She wants to date? She has to make time and be free for him no matter what. Most men, out of sane reason, _still_ won't want to date a single mom of two or three, which is a solid decision, but getting as far away as possible from an "I need a babysitter to date You!" -girl- woman is some of the most basic advice any man can be bestowed with.

[@jdestef]

I'm fairly confident many women on the apps aren't participating. They want to see the swipes on them but have no good-faith intention of meeting or dating anyone.

[@twinturbo3461]

As I watch this and every reiteration of it, one thing remains constant. Her: Must be at least 6' tall, earn six figure income, have 6 pack abs.... Also her: 5'2", 170lbs, 3 kids, low income.

[@rielaxault]

xD

[@damocles5047]

Bro you don't know shit, she is a prize man..

[@stephenmartin8331]

And she's got $50,000 in debt

[@LonerWolf1224]

Don't date losers (women), the answer is simple as that.. but good luck finding a winner..

[@BradahMoki-sm7nd]

I think he said no longer a 6 pack it’s an 8pack+ now!😮😂

[@kurt6410]

Your average woman today has more options than a dime piece had 30 years ago

[@michaeldavid6832]

Just for segx. For rlationships, not so much.

[@mikerotchburns42069]

@@michaeldavid6832they tend to only care about relationships 30+ after they realize the clock is coming for them

[@gschaaf713]

we really need to ban dating apps and social media before society collapses.

[@Toshinben]

@@gschaaf713 Joke's on you. It's already doomed. Birth rate took a dump by 2019, THEN we were stuck inside for a few years. Solitary changes you. Even when you get out, you're still in.

[@pp-bb6jj]

Actually they don't. They have it for 10-15 years. Then they don't anymore.

[@causalitymastered]

Selfishness and arrogance come from abundance. Selflessness and humility come from scarcity. The abundance of this country turned people selfish and arrogant. That's why the passport bros movement is the way to go.

[@prismsolo]

My sentiments exactly.

[@jean-louislalonde6070]

The major economic crisis that is upon us will have many women eat humble pie.

[@zephyrr108]

Yep. Truth is the west is too cosy, specially America. It made people think they are hot shit. they arent.

[@brawndothethirstmutilator9848]

Hypergamy is international. You can’t escape female nature with a passport, don’t kid yourself.

[@causalitymastered]

@@JC-kv1vn The exceptions don't make the rule. The majority does.

[@NateTheScot]

ShoeOnHead blocks people for anything and everything lol. I retweeted a direct quote from someone she was spreading misinformation about, who was addressing the misinformation and asking people to stop spreading it since it wasn't true and it was hurtful to her that people would keep saying it, and that was enough for shoe to block me since she had also been spreading the misinformation and she didn't like being directly shown to be wrong xD

[@liberatumplox625]

Yep, sounds like the sort of thing a filthy commie would do.

[@codywarhawk7099]

She's a liberal, what do you expect? Lmao.

[@wizzle0979]

talking to a female coworker she went out to the bar. Obviously simps bought her drinks, one super super saiyan wrote his number on a $10 bill. I asked her if she respected these men, or if she would give these men a chance. She said no, they have no chance. Stop offering to buy random chicks drinks and make them earn your attention.

[@MadsterV]

Why would anyone do this for a stranger? like.... "send her a drink"? There's only one acceptable case and that's when you have her attention and you get to sit next to her and have a conversation over said drink. She gets a free drink, you get her undivided attention for a while. That's how it should go.

[@bengraham5699]

Simps thinking with gifts and being "nice" they can get a woman into bed. Wrong! They would be better off just saving the money and instead buy hookers with it 😇

[@Crabchann]

Lmao super saiyan

[@BriefcaseWanker]

were the men even good looking?

[@grinchmobb42079]

The simp tricks are fuckin everything up. As long as there's lames willing to throw money at these yamps. Things are only going to get worse.

[@Guildofarcanelore]

Women don’t become the breadwinner in a marriage. Your money is her money and her money is also her money.

[@sirc1446]

Hell no.

[@prettyboyjeremy]

At that point I'd rather just live in a cardboard box

[@carlasghost656]

My ex. While we were together she worked intermittently. I had two jobs when we split up. I couldn't tell you how much she made at any of her jobs because I never saw a pay stub. My money our money, her money was her money. Didn't make that mistake a second time.

[@richardw3347]

her money will be my money. hehe, joking aside what happened to equality.

[@Milner62]

@@carlasghost656, yep rule of thumb for men is prenup and separate bank accounts with one join account you each put a fair share into for paying of bills.

[@AtillaTheHung1]

I'm so thankful that I stopped caring about what women think about 12 years ago. It makes life so much easier and I have no problem telling women the truth at all times which really gets them fired up. I love it!

[@adriantapia6199]

I can relate bro

[@jlecampana]

What do you usually tell them to get them fired up?

[@AtillaTheHung1]

@@jlecampana Just the truth.

[@briandexter5762]

If you work in corporate that’s a no no

[@cranetrucker1298]

Same here, the power of not caring🤣

[@wavion2]

I remember when I first played the game Skyrim, back in the day, and laughing at the marriage aspect where you put on an amulet to let strangers know you're ready for marriage. And now, a little over a decade later, I'm thinking that'd be kind of nice. Not necessarily for marriage, but an Amulet of "Hey, you can flirt with me without losing your job" might be really helpful.

[@Chrysaetos11]

''It's settled then. Brief as life can be in Skyrim, at least we'll have each other''

[@codywarhawk7099]

A woman could wear an amulet or whatever as a signal, I still wouldn't dare make any moves. I'm not stupid. Why risk it?

[@notforwantoftrying1]

Sounds like a nice idea, but in reality 0% of women would wear it. They would still expect to be approached without it though, but ONLY by Chad. It would function no differently from a dating app, except there is no "swipe left" option in real life - why would a hypergamous woman ever go for that option? Furthermore, women would never want to make it explicit that they are looking for sex, it implies that they are desperate and don't already have a large number of chad orbiters around them, something that should be impossible if they are the great catch that they think they are. This is why they never ever make the first move, they are terrified of ever showing interest first due to the possibility of getting rejected, even though there is NO risk to rejection for a woman. Even with dating apps, they can rationalize it by saying "i was just on there to chat and never intended to meet anyone".

[@jesuschristislord77733]

RIP western civilization

[@a-dutch-z7351]

That was the goal of feminism.

[@jesuschristislord77733]

@@a-dutch-z7351 which itself is merely but one tentacle of communism.

[@paulatreides4274]

@@a-dutch-z7351 Feminism is Marxism in a dress. Its just like going on a date with a high end transgender that fools you until the clothes come off. If we don't equate the two as one and the same which they are anyway you will never get rid of them.

[@bobbruce4135]

In retrospect, that's a good thing. We just happen to be in the phase when it's happening so it's no fun. If all stopped procreation, eternal peace could be achieved.

[@ZackSNetwork]

@@bobbruce4135You sound like the WEF lmao.

[@douglasfoley2060]

I got great advice for that young guy. One, you’re not missing anything. TRUST ME!!! Two, work on yourself and don’t give any women any attention at all. Finally three, if you wanna have some spicy fun. Just find a working a woman. They’re everywhere. Cause that’s all you’re doing in a relationship anyway, paying for it.

[@dustysmoke4996]

Main difference is, a hooker can't take you for everything you've got, and force you to pay her thousands for the rest of your life... for nothing.

[@oysterman250]

In the long run, working women are a LOT cheaper than the full-time girlfriend.

[@nopejhonson958]

as a not young guy... how do you find a 'working woman'

[@AAAskeet]

I think he means a hooker

[@Toshinben]

@@nopejhonson958Problem for me is, how do you find one that isn't a cop?

[@respectdawildo_danjones508]

Of COURSE they think we lie about it, what else is new…

[@cro-magnoncarol4017]

It's projection at its finest...

[@StupidAnon-gn8ih]

No, they know we're telling the truth, they just don't care. They want what they want and they will do anything to get it.

[@Toshinben]

When your standard is lying through your teeth, the idea that someone else might be telling the truth is unthinkable.

[@John_Wood_]

@@Toshinben 100

[@michaelrobinson9643]

I used to find dates easy to get - say 10yrs ago online dating - which bypassed my apprehension about approaching women in a pub/club etc. Due to my upbringing I had very low self esteem - which just drove me to be the most capable man in any crowd. So by the time i'm hitting 30 I'm now a Dr, post-grad quals coming out my ass, a Military Officer who is fit and healthy with a confident ease toward life. Not the "Hot guy" but handsome and by the time I'm 35 I'm in the top 5% of guys. I mention all of that for one reason - to anchor my remarks about how fucking horrible dating is now. Two things that have grown in the 10 years since: 1. A lot of work on myself. 2. The list of shit women want from a guy. What has decreased: 1. What she brings to the table or even suggests she can (in too many cases) 2. my belief that I am still able to find a life companion who will be at my level.

[@Evilwhisperrs]

Pretty sad and pathetic how we gotta do all this work just to talk to the opposite gender shows how far gone we are as a society. And the only reason I say this because it shouldn’t have to take all that grind just to talk to a woman because this society has forgotten what love is

[@lilfairycupcake]

easier to just ignore them.

[@EricSoulliage]

That really just USA specific , I don't find it true in Europe or asia

[@gorkyd7912]

The men think this is some horrible thing happening to them specifically. In reality, both men and women no longer see value in relationships and this is how they respond: they both raise their standards to unrealistic points.

[@Evilwhisperrs]

@@lilfairycupcake yeah definitely I’ve been getting rejected left and right and it’s starting making me depressed and affecting my ego so imma just focus on me getting money and doing better for myself and yeah ofc going to the gym so I can healthy

[@Evilwhisperrs]

@@EricSoulliage that’s because America is spoiled and don’t discipline their citizens very well which is why America is the way it is now because USA have been getting away with shit far too long and the reason why your country is more traditional because different cultures where marriages and relationships are taught how to respect men and women unlike the USA

[@eleveneleven572]

Speaking as a 68 year old guy I'm a spectator to this. As i grew up women would approach men in subtle ways, snd sometimes not so subtle. We often knew a woman socially or at work and got to know them before any attraction. But now the dating scene is on line. Women have turned it into a shopping mall...and you know how annoying women are when shopping. Men need to just not play. Why set yourself up for humiliation. Concentrate on making yourself better and enjoying life. Don't do dating sites. Try to meet real women organically. If not possible then chill. Let it go. It's not as if marriage is great for men....50% divorce and 25% miserable !

[@noahbrown4388]

50% divorced and 25% miserable. That about sums it up! 😅

[@Darkstar-ux5yo]

75% L

[@prashanthb6521]

You said it right sir, Women have turned all this into a shopping mall !

[@SartorialisticSavage65]

Thank you, O.G. So true It wasn't this bad in the 2000s. But now it is. I turn heads every day. But they're too scared to make it make sense so they don't. 😊

[@Dylan-qb8br]

Well said. The only winning move is not to play. Let them approach you.

[@andrewvo8395]

I was out on a date recently with a hot chick. We were talking about love languages and she said gifts was one of her love languages. And I said I’m the type that buys stuff for my GF that I know she needs, like her fav cereal, she’s out of shampoo, fav lotion or if I know she’s running low on toilet paper I’ll pick some up. But I’m not the type to spend crazy money on fancy purses or vacations because I feel like I’m paying for her love. Immediately I noticed her demeanor changed. I could tell she labeled me as cheap even though I have a high net worth (she doesn’t know). She blocked me after the date. I feel grateful when they show me early on who they are.

[@comicrandomness3289]

You aren't cheap. You sound more simple. Buy the necessities and not the wants. Simple is not cheap and if women think that then they are not the one for you.

[@bigdaddyd7674]

Is leave her with the bill. And say I'm not your daddy

[@mickethegoblin7167]

Anyone who says that 'gifts' are her love language should be an immediate red flag.

[@martindixon54]

It's crazy how easily people (and especially women) confuse wanting something and needing something. A prime example is the laundry list of gifts most people have on their Christmas list. Very rarely is there anything on their list that they actually need, it's always consumer crap that adds nothing of value to their lives.

[@1594simonsays]

parasites

[@jmfs3497]

My mom ran off with her college professor when I was four years old. She giggled and called me sensitive when I tried to simply talk about how it affected my life. My dad remarried when I was 6 or 7. His new wife had OCPD or CPTSD and she screamed at us nearly every day of the week. I'm honest. I'm in therapy for my own CPTSD. I worked and saved and bought my own house. I'm putting myself through school simply because I LOVE learning and growing. I know the patriarchy exists, and SA and all that, but even among my close women friends who make 30% more than I do, I have to hear about the patriarchy and how I have it so well and women deserve to take out every micro/macro aggression on me because I'm a man. Every offense by women is "the only way a woman can fight back against the patriarchy". I don't think I've ever dated a woman that isn't looking for a father figure. It's no wonder there is a huge transgenderism movement now. Men go through live with zero love for them. We are treated like we need to pay a fee to simply want to get to know a person that flirted with us. I'm getting no call backs because I AM the one that turned down sex on the first date. The last woman aggressively flirted with me for 7 months and I could never get a word out of her about her intent. I asked her out and she got upset, even though she admitted she led me on. I backed off, with a burning pit where my heart was, and 6 weeks later she is essentially stalking me. We very briefly had a few dates then, and almost every conversation she would casually drop insults in about my friends. It really hurt, so I told her, and she got upset that I was somehow oppressing her. I walked by so many red flags, thinking I was just being patient. I feel so burnt out after all that. This woman is in her freaking late 40s and she still acts like a teenager. My body count is like 10 people over 30 years, almost everyone one of them a long term relationship. I think literally one of them was a one-night-stand and it wasn't even fun.

[@WWLinkMasterX]

"The Patriarchy" exists in countries like Saudi Arabia, India, and China. It hasn't existed in western countries for decades.

[@Jeff-sp7bg]

What are u talking about

[@danielread8549]

Patriarchy does NOT exist...

[@Lenny_Hondo]

Put the wine down.

[@zacharysilver911]

The patriarchy is only upheld by women

[@creepyrobsta5509]

Most men have no problem improving and bettering ourselves, but if the opposite gender does no work on herself than that is a bad deal!

[@25Soupy]

Totally, according to women all men have to step up their game. yet men have to accept a 300lbs single mother.

[@ryans3795]

Yes, for me, there are things that don't make much sense to focus on single than in a relationship. I tend to want to work for the person in a good relationship, rather than try and work for someone else who may or may not even want me or be worth it.

[@oldschoolsteve5116]

That also makes it not worth it

[@madaz13bbp]

It's probably not even that hard for women. Most guys just want her to maintain her value from when she was 18 or so. Anything (other than education, career, money etc) beyond that is definitely a bonus.

[@creepyrobsta5509]

@@madaz13bbp Sadly it often comes down to just being nicer, and dont become the size of a house. Very small good deeds are usually reciprocated.

[@ThatGrumpyITGuy]

It don’t matter. I’m 6’s. Decent looking. No Ferrari but, got a few decent vehicles. All the wahmen I meet are married, getting divorced and excited they hit the payday or single moms. Not even worth it. The pool is gross.

[@bigdaddyd7674]

The pool is a toxic radioactive sludge

[@erroneous6947]

The dating pool if full of baby poop and vomit.

[@dwightmanne]

If Henry Cavill is mid.... Who's above average? Sheet. I know I'm invisible to most women but gaddam.

[@az_3kgt714]

For real. If he's mid these 304's done lost their damn minds.

[@runeingebretsen8378]

Even elon musk is divorced,let that sink in.

[@franklin519]

No sheet! They don't come much better than that.

[@Turanic1]

Henry mid 😂😂😂

[@erroneous6947]

The same women who think Henry Cavill is mid think they’re 10’s.

[@thehillbillyhermit7681]

I've said and believed for years that social media ruined dating and I'll continue believing it.

[@BiggieTrismegistus]

It's ruined plenty of women period. Heavy use of social media by women can turn them into vulnerable narcissists or at least people who exhibit the traits of a vulnerable narcissist.

[@GadgetNerdvana]

Dude...social media destroyed the entire world. You'll see.

[@anotherperspective6247]

If they find out from your friend circle that you have money in their late 30s their demands drop rapidly and all of a sudden you the guy who wasn't ever good enough for them becomes a real target --don't ever be the guy to bail them out. Don't think for a minute they aren't scheming their next move as their options dry up and the carousel is no longer an option they are always looking to level up and you become the level up in their fertility twilight. But they will resent you for all eternity for having to settle and will likely ruin you financially after they get what they want (resources & a kid).

[@adriantapia6199]

Facts

[@erroneous6947]

Women see men as pack mules and worker drones at best.

[@bobc9786]

Makes me really wonder if the whole game is even worth it at all. And it really casts doubts about ever finding a good woman for a partner. I am 31.

[@BIgBass255]

30 years ago, I had a friend ,who was an older gentleman, who was dying at the time. I told him I was having a hard time understanding women, could he give me his best advice so I wouldn't waste my precious time, constantly chasing them , trying to prove to them how great a person I was.He asked me to come closer and he whispered to me in his last breath, " Leave them alone ".

[@ephemeral5298]

@@hardcoreac it certainly seems like gay men have it easier lmfao. i hardly hear about them having problems.

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

@@ephemeral5298 Oh they have a whole set of problems of their own.

[@ephemeral5298]

@@moralityisnotsubjective5 aside from looks of disdain from homophobes? Do they have their own different type of drama that i don't know about? I only know from what my brother says and it just seems like its other people that make it worse for being gay and not the gay people themselves.

[@R14-m4z]

sodomite lover and NAMBLA subscriber detected.

[@moralityisnotsubjective5]

@@ephemeral5298 Curiously domestic abuse is actually higher among the LGBT community than it is among straight people. It is in fact often ignored because it's not politically convenient to notice it. No one really seems to care when a man beats a man or a woman beats a woman. They don't even care when a woman beats a man. They only care when a man beats a woman.

[@Hegotsomesauce]

At 29, I got a house, two trucks, and physically fit….let me tell you brother…it ain’t worth loosing NONE of that for these women here and now. Get a passport and have fun. Feminist killed marriage and the meaning of “partner” we good now 🤙

[@Notme-tq4xs]

yep

[@Goodman849]

Greetings from the Philippines

[@Hegotsomesauce]

@@Goodman849 everyone says Philippines but I had a blast in South America. I gotta go there next and see what’s up!

[@colepeltier8472]

CIA killed marriage. Satanic globalists in our government killed marriage. Feminists are just sheep like any one else.

[@redstealth9683]

​​@@Hegotsomesaucewhat do you do for a living, if you don't mind me asking? Because if you're 29 with a house and two trucks, then that's a path I need to consider. Edit: Grammar fixed.