Hate his father and step dad at the same time! No words can describe the way they both treated him.
@loobwan39632 жыл бұрын
Nyob zoo os me muam ntsuag nos, nrog koj tu siab kawg nkaus mog thaum kuv mloog ces pib quaj nrog koj, koj thiaj li ua cab ua noog cawm tus me tub thiab li loj hlob, niag dev tuag ntawd phem lim hiam kawg rau koj es kom neb tuag mus, lub ntuj pab neb heev, hnub no koj tej lus hais yog kawg lawm os, cia nws tuag mus zoo dua es cia tus me tub Doctor no hlub koj thiab leej txiv tamsim no zoo dua mus hlub tus tsiaj dev tuag ntawd, mob tus neeg tu tus me nyuam no heev, lim hiam dhau rau koj lawm tsis txhob tig ncaj tus dev ntawd lub ntxa, lub ntuj yeej pab koj kawg nkaus, es koj tsis txhob tuag nawb, ua leej niam zoo rau tus me tub kod kom kawg koj lub neej os mog, nrog neb tu siab heev thiab npaud taws rau thaub dev ntawd heev...vim koj yog neeg zoo es tus menyuam thiaj li nrog luag ciaj neeg os...
@MLove4ever2 жыл бұрын
What a great story and heartfelt!! And I love the intro n ending 🎶 music. It’s definitely your signature brand!!
@anisalee37482 жыл бұрын
I imagine it is not o
@pajvuamvang97112 жыл бұрын
Zoo li mloog tag kho2 siab os🥺😭😭
@mosvaj13852 жыл бұрын
Ku yog koj los kuv yuav tsis pub tus txiv dev no ntsib thiab yuav tu siab yog tus tib no hlub nws
@pangvang40402 жыл бұрын
Cas txaus tu siab ua luaj !
@leexiong57412 жыл бұрын
He was verbally abused by stepfather. He was mentally tortured by biological father. Please, when you love someone please set him/her free. He is a grown man, my goodness.
@gaosayvu65542 жыл бұрын
Ua cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os me vivncaus aw
@ShouaTojsiab2 жыл бұрын
Ua tsaug koj share koj lub neej os tus niam tsev. You are a good mother who was determined to find your son a father but his father rejected him. So proud of both you and your son. His biological father does not deserve to be called a father. Where was he when your son needed him? He think he can just walk into your son’s life and everything will be fine and dandy? SMH
@Yaajmoob2 жыл бұрын
because the father heard that the Son is a DR. The father just needs the son because of his ability to be successful and educated.
@tophatmellon57392 жыл бұрын
This old man did not deserve to be call dad and never deserve for this son to even be claim as his on the funeral service. Ugh. Pist me off.
@gnaynnou2 жыл бұрын
One thing that irritated me about this story: The step dad not allowing the son to date a girl with Bachelor degree. Imagine if your own kids was looked down on bc they only have a "Bachelor" degree, still not good enough. Sheesh.
@mkvang1612 жыл бұрын
I hate it when people use a degree to judge someone cause all it is its just a piece of paper
@suaxiong80342 жыл бұрын
This guy is a doctor n can't decide for himself. I'm lost. How did he graduate.
@flryprn7452 жыл бұрын
These old hmoob ppl R bunch of hypocrites!!! They all practice a cast system, where they think a divorcee is only good enough for another divorcee or an orphan is worthy of another orphan. But a poor girl cannot marry a rich guy and a short girl is not worthy of a tall guy!! Bunch of bull crap!! These OG got judged in their generation but they don’t change, they continue to judge their kids generation!
@brandonblaine75852 жыл бұрын
@@suaxiong8034 you don't know what going on in his life you can't say that. you know the father was the one that disown him if the father says something bad to him, he wouldn't have that bad of karma, but the mother was the one that take care of him his whole life if the mother says bad to him, he going to have a lot of karma in his life you know karma is a bitch
@maryly092 жыл бұрын
Imagine being the ex gf and hearing about it now that yur ex bf didn't marry u bc u only had a BA. Pfff.
What a great story! Love the one who loves you the most, your mom…!
@pajlisyaj17162 жыл бұрын
Pab kojzoo siab os viv ncaus aw
@musibsim21512 жыл бұрын
Tu siab kawg
@daovang71482 жыл бұрын
Nws twb paub tias tsis nrog koj hlub ces muaj ib hnub nws yuav raws nraim koj tus hluas nraug txoj kev es thiaj ua txuj rov los zoo puas txaj muag ne. Nrog koj zoo siab mog
@kimberleycament82852 жыл бұрын
yuav tau nyb dr lov
@caaspasvang74272 жыл бұрын
Sister aw cov txiv dev zoo li tus qub hluas nraug ntawm ces txhob k txog kiag os, tu siab kawg😢
@maihouavue64402 жыл бұрын
Yog kawg! They just haven’t accept the love yet… when they do… they will know how to give love back. Sounds so much like my story. My daughters grew up not having a father too. I try as much to be both parent. It is depressing… shed so many tears.. the struggles and striving just to provide and support 2 girls. It was hard but now they both are grown adult and married. I waited and I didn’t really look for another marriage. I give all my love to both my daughter’s. Rather for a man. Cos you’ll never know where the 2nd marriage life may take u. For bad or for worst.
@mosvaj13852 жыл бұрын
Cas lub siab yuav dub yuav txia ntshav ua luaj, txawm tsis xav yuav leej niam los kuj coj tus minyuam os pob? Siab nyoos tiag2
@randomdudeicommenthere37432 жыл бұрын
love the one love u & care u only some people don’t reserve it
@SierraTango1172 жыл бұрын
The more you forgive, the more room you make for God's blessings. Peace to you.
@vavang47732 жыл бұрын
What a brave woman you are. I’m proud of you and your son! May your son love you, cherish you and honor you. ❤️🫂❤️🫂❤️🫂❤️
@agentkerxlor95122 жыл бұрын
Zaj no cas yuav tu siab ua luaj! Tus viv ncaus koj ua yog lawm, zoo kawg ua koj tus me tub kawm tau Dr es nws txiv thiaj rov tuaj vam kom nws.
@lilredvang20112 жыл бұрын
I get it that he had disowned his child. As a parent, we shouldn't stop our kids from making a choice: " Either you choose me or your mom/dad." Being the child in between the situation is hard because of madness involved. Yes, ik there will be jealousy, between the parents' other spouse of who raised the child n whatsoever. Just let the kid decide and on what they wanna do. If i put myself in the father's situation, I would want to die knowing that i spent my last breath with my disowned child b4 dying. The least thing a father can do when dying.
@meecha71542 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. It is closure for the son as well as for the father. Everyone at one point makes mistakes. She wants her son to carry her hate towards his father. I would say she is wrong in this. She is the one that makes her son stress over time and will continue to think about it. Shameful and selfish.
@kalinaxiong68712 жыл бұрын
You are a brave women ever, dont ever let him see his father. He no longer a father to abonded both of you
@Loves_GodSR2 жыл бұрын
May you be able to forgive all those that hurt you. And continue to love your mom. She sacrifice so much for you. Forgiving then will release a ton of pressure off of you in many ways. Good luck
@thaoagiong62702 жыл бұрын
Niam ntsuab teev thov koj tso koj zaj qeej ua koj tso nrog dab neeg os
@maivlis11202 жыл бұрын
Ntxim ntxub tshaj li! Thaum yus tus me nyuam me me es twb tsis xav yuav ua cas nim no ho txawj tuaj nrhiav yus tus me nyuam. Nim no nws xav noj koj lub zog xwb os me tub. Ntxim ntxub tiag2 li cov txiv neej liam li no. Tsis tas hlub tsis tas nug moo li lawm os me tub aw. Kav tsij hlub2 koj niam xwb nawb mog. Tsis muaj koj niam ces koj yeej tsis muaj hnub no. Koj 2 tug txiv xuaj dhau lawm ces tsis tas hlub li.
@kong75352 жыл бұрын
I understand the moms pains and suffering. I understand she holds a grudge against her son’s father, but I would never ever use that against my child. My love for my child is unconditional therefore, I’d let my child do what makes him happy. The son has suffered enough. He never received a fathers love so if he wants to be a good son to a father who never loved him, he has that right!
@myprecious67512 жыл бұрын
He doesn't want you. He only wants you now because your doing good and have money and a good life. Non of his other kid's with his wife is good or successful or even of worthy. He refused you and didn't want you. You allowed your husband to tormented your son. But thru it all you raised your son well and you did a great job raising him. Brother you do not owe him anything. He's just a man that lied to your mother and got her pregnant and abandoned you both. Live your life. Love your wife and kid's. Live well. Your stepfather now only wants your success.
@pebtsevxeemthoj33912 жыл бұрын
Agree, he need to love himself, his wife & kids and his mom that’s it.
@nconcokoj10802 жыл бұрын
Cas nyias nim muaj nyias ib zaj kev tu siab li os lawv...
@nraugzoovwj96382 жыл бұрын
Nrog koj zoo Siab thiab tsimnyog tu loj kg li
@chuvang54872 жыл бұрын
Hais txog pojniam & txiv neej yog pojniam tsis muaj tus txiv los pojniam lawv ua tau lawv ib yig xws li teb li chaw hos txiv neej tsis muaj tus niam tsev ces tsis tsheej ib cuab los ib yig, tiam sis pojniam tseev txawj ntse los yeej coj lus tsis tus, pojniam lub siab zoo li daim nplooj nqeeb uas cua ntsawj ces nws vau mus raws cua xwb.
@franckmoua58352 жыл бұрын
tus mi niam ntxawm koj mas yog siab dev koj tseem niaj hnub coj koj tus tub mus cuam tshuam tus neeg ua twb g hlub Koj thiab tus me nyuam. yog kuv mas twb g yuav neb 2 niam tub lawm
@meexiong92922 жыл бұрын
Tus niag txiv Neej quav Dev...ntsej muag ncaj siab khaus ...twb tsis yuav tej me nyuam lawm ...tseem muaj phlus tab kaum Tej me nyuam thiab ...cas tsis paub txaj muag li o
@pajntxivduaj22312 жыл бұрын
Kuv to to koj ib hnub no li os niam ntsuab teev aw
@vtfamily60682 жыл бұрын
Sorry I wouldn’t allow the photo at the funeral either, too painful looking back all those years.
@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb2 жыл бұрын
thaum yu zog loj ce yu tsi lee zog tag ce ho tuaj ua dev tsab zoo
@meeyang84112 жыл бұрын
Most Hmong men in the old days are like this father and step father, treating women with no respect, refusing to acknowledge your own blood, but had the face at the end to reclaim someone you never wanted.
@nouxiong36202 жыл бұрын
Peb cov txiv neej hmoob ma lub siab me me hlub tsis taus yog tsis yog nws thooj tseev yog nws kwv nws tij yeej hlub tsis taus. Kuv tsheeg 99.9% yeej hlub tsis tau, cov .01 % ma yeej hlub tau, yog muaj hmoo thiajli tau cov .01% ua niam thiab txiv.
@2usa872 жыл бұрын
Nyag ua nyag aub lawm xwb lol
@pavang48192 жыл бұрын
Ua li rau Yu's thiab na ib tsoom me viv ncaus
@maryly092 жыл бұрын
Ntsej muag laus tsuas xav tau lub npe tias muaj tub doctor xwb. He only cared for his dr. title, not him.
@bchang2272 жыл бұрын
Cov niag txiv dev no, thaum me tsis kam yuav! Yus coj mus tu tu tu tu loj txim ntxiaj nws tsuas xav qob zog noj, ua tau qaug yus tshaj! Yus poob nyiaj poob ntxiaj, siv zog tu yus tus menyuam loj nws xav ntxias tus menyuam coj mus noj zog! Cov niag txiv dev zoo li ntawv ces tsis hlub los tsis npam!
@PhoHmooAmerica2 жыл бұрын
Kuv twb yuav mus ua qe es koj mam li tso xwb os..tsov tom es
@lisvaj73752 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for your son, why because he’s torn by disappointment of both parents. One parent is in his ear about what he needs to do and one parent who now wants to know him cause he’s older. Please let him make his own decision. You parents are hurting him more then anything.
@jillvang30912 жыл бұрын
Majority of these people in these stories are Dr and nurses lol 😆 do we really have that many hmong Dr?
@maryly092 жыл бұрын
I know! I never knew we have this many hmong drs until i listen to May Vang.
@nouxiong36202 жыл бұрын
Eb…Kuv muaj ob tug tsaub thiab ib tug tub ib tug me ntxhais-cov me nyuam es leej txiv tsis lees yeej txawj txe loj hlob mos nyoos zoo Nkauj zoo nraug muaj peevxwm tshajli tshajli.
@tongher89122 жыл бұрын
Vwm tiag li neeg ntiaj teb tej neej yog kuv yog tus tub ces kuv tsis care paub txog tej tug neeg lim hiam ntawd vim u yog nws tawb phev seem xwb
@TrusCheng47972 жыл бұрын
Sister aw luag tej laus twb hais tias me nyuam tsaub yog neeg tsim txiaj tshaj cov muaj niam muaj txiv no hos
@shouavang31652 жыл бұрын
yog leej twg muaj ib pab tub mas nco ntsoov qhia rau cov tub kom ceev faj zoo zoo os yog tsi xav yuav tus hlua nkauj ntawd ces tsi txhob pub kom muaj me nyuam nawb tsam tus tub tsi yuav ces luag twb tau nws li txwv feej tag lawm os ces yus tus tub mus ua lub neej los tsi zoo tsi kav ntev li nawb
@choualee30912 жыл бұрын
Viv ncaus koj lub siab loj thiab tawv txaus tab txawm lawv tsis hlub koj tus me tub los txog thaum kawg koj tso cai rau nws rov mus ua txoj zoo rau tus neeg tau ntxeev siab rau koj, kuv nrog koj zoo siab tias koj tau ib tug me tub tsim txiaj mog.
@mosvaj13852 жыл бұрын
Thaum koj tus minyuam no me2 es nws hais tias Tab txawm koj yuav ciaj nom ciaj tsw los nws tus yuav koj ua nws ib tug minyuam na? Es tsis tsim nyog feel sorry rau nws, yeej tsis npam li os
@cindyskenderovic68062 жыл бұрын
What a shame, you never want to claim your child at first, then when he is successful you want to claim him as yours. Saib dej ua ntu saib neeg ua plu, never judge the book by it's cover.
@pavang48192 жыл бұрын
Ntuj os ntuj es Yu's tus hluas nraug twb tsis yuav Yu's los cas Yu's niam Yu's txiv yuav us
@myyearmouanoutoua69082 жыл бұрын
koj los ..koj kuj tsim txom koj me nyuam lub siab mob kiag thiab ..koj kuj phem kawg thiab
@hl66152 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. What a ridiculous man and He was irresponsible man. Ua tau yuav tsi tau. He deserves a karma. The son should careless about this man who abandoned his mother and him .
@maimoua13712 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej hmong muaj 1 feem lam tuaj dag tshiam poj niam kom nws tus niag yob loj relief xwb yeej g paub txog tiad nws tus menyuam txom nyem baum cas thaum nws g lees tus menyuam .they both the biological and steps fathers no deserve the love from their lost son they both mean evils hearts
@pajlisyaj17162 жыл бұрын
Es nws yug tsis muaj tub los ua cas kom nws cov tub kho nws xwb vim thaum ub nws twb hais tias yuav ciaj nom ciaj tsw ciaj huab tais los nws tsis yuav no nev tej Lus no ua twg lawm
@kaciewanh19862 жыл бұрын
Cas yuav npam niag ntsej dev ntawd tsawg ua luaj? Xav kom txhob yug tau 1 tug menyuam ciaj sia.
@doogvang2 жыл бұрын
This is stupid. Lawv twb tsi Lees yus thaum yus baby thaum yus txim txiaj es yuav tuag hos los yuav yus lub koob, kuv xav ma ruam zog lawm.
@shouavang31652 жыл бұрын
oh hais rau tus niam tsev tias kom nws tsi txhob tu siab tsi txhob chim chim siab os nws twb tau tus hlua nraug tom li txwv feej lawm os es nws tus tub thiaj li kawm tau ntawv tiav doctor thiab thiaj tau lub neej zoo lawm peb ua neej nyob es yog peb ib tus ntxhais muaj hlua nraug me nyuam es hlua nraug tsi kam yuav yus tus ntxhais los kav liam nawb vim tias tus hlua nraug twb muab nws li txwv feej tas rau yus tus ntxhais lawm ces yus tus ntxhais tau ev lub npe tias muaj nyuam tsaub no tab si yog nawb yog yus tus ntxhais twb tau tus hlua nraug li txwv feej tag lawm os ces tus hlua nraug txawm mus ua lub neej tom ntej los tsi kav ntev os lub neej yuav puas mus xwb
@thatasainboy13462 жыл бұрын
tus me niam tsev aw cabstubsiab ua luai li osblub neej
@peterthao42352 жыл бұрын
Cas koj ho tsis kam yuav kuv
@neejtusiab75802 жыл бұрын
Koj nyob qhov tws os niam laus aw qhia rau kuv paub es kuv yuav sau kuv zaj dab neeg rau koj tham os
@neejtusiab75802 жыл бұрын
Thov koj tus fasebook os
@pajlisyaj17162 жыл бұрын
Ua cas txiv tshiab phem ua luaj koj tseem yuav thiab teb chaws no tsis muaj txiv lawm los muaj nom tswv pab na vim li cas koj ho tseem yuav thaum ib xyoos tom qab tsis zoo ces tso pov tseg xwb los pob
@MoneyThao2 жыл бұрын
please put your commercial at the end
@maabsuavyaaj65302 жыл бұрын
No one would listen to it then
@MoneyThao2 жыл бұрын
@@maabsuavyaaj6530 we want to hear the story right away not listen to commercial
@paolor29562 жыл бұрын
Koj tus tub tsis to taub xwb, thaum luag tuag lawm los luag yeej tsis tseg koob hmoov rau yus. Luag ua neeg nyob los luag yeej tsis hlub yus tsis pab yus.
@thatasainboy13462 жыл бұрын
yog kawg os me niam tsev aw
@nkaujseelee49052 жыл бұрын
Your biological father don’t deserve you.. don’t be sad… think that your dad had die long time ago…koj txiv ces yuav ciaj yuav tuag los tsis tsim Nyog koj hlub nws .. nws ntshaw koj vim koj ciaj nom ciaj tsw. Nws cov me nyuam tsis tsim txiaj es nws thiaj ntshaw koj..Yog nws cov me nyuam tsim Txiaj ces nws twb tsis paub koj lawm Os me tub es tu siab nrho nawb
@beevveil22402 жыл бұрын
Ugh yog koj Tus tub tsis yog doctor ces nws yeej tsis care li nas omg hmong old people
@solomoua55202 жыл бұрын
The step dad just love him because he has a good job with big money. There is no love with the step dad and ur son so stop saying be a smart lady 😌
@puasntseegthiab10512 жыл бұрын
The husband is such a loser, had his son not been successful he would never acknowledge him as his son. The step-father, what a loser too. Only because the son is successful xav noj zog lawm ces hos uas zoo. Cov txiv tshiab noam tshiab nej cov uas phem rau mes nyuam thaum lawv tseem yaus nwj yeej xav tsis tcog tias nej yuav noj lawv zog thaum laus li thiab. Nej uas phem phem thaum lawv yaus tab sis thaum loj tiav zog ces nej hos tias nej hlub hlub kawg li. Es nej tsis txaj muag rau bej tus kheej los? Thiv cov niam tshiab txiv tshiab hlub mes nyuam uas twb tos thiab vam nej txoj kev hlub thiab mas.
@seethoj20822 жыл бұрын
Koj txwv koj tus tub mas tsis yog lawm. Koj uali ko ces koj rau koj tus tub muaj kev nyuaj siab xwb. Koj twb qhia txhua yam rau koj tus tub tag lawm los thaum nwd twb paub tias nwd txiv tsis yuav nws los nws tseem muaj lub siab hlub tshua txog nws txiv ces kuj cia koj tus tus hlub los tsis uali cas vim yog luag txiv ib zaug lawm. Yog koj txwv koj tus tub ces koj yog ib tug poj niam tsis zoo thiab laiv.
@mayvang18332 жыл бұрын
OMG!! Niam tais koj hais tias kom ib tug saib tau ib tug cas koj tus txiv ho tsis pub koj tus tub Doctor yuav nws tus nqub hluas nkauj es tau daim bachelor xwb nab. Qhov ntawv nej twb saib tsis taus nws thiab. That is soooo annoying!!!
Lol your husband have no right to judge your son's gf just bc she only got her BA. He never love your son. He only accept your son now because he turn out to be a doc. Your ex bf, he have lot of nerves to contact your son after all those years he rejected you two. Human are so greedy when it come to good reputation. Woman, your ex bf is not right. Dont let his saying make you sound low. You push your son higher, because you're a supportive mom!!! You didnt need that piece of sh*t to raise your son right. The only thing you should thank him is not marry you. If he had marry you, you would be his doormat wife. Everything happen, is not because he did the right thing by giving you your son lol. He also have his chance, but he didnt care about you guys at the times. Your son should never reply back to that sperm dad. He dont deserve any respect, especially when he is in his death bed.