Zam Kev Rau Koj Yuav Kuv Hluas Nkauj. 5/4/2023

[@mailee7449]

The guy keep saying he's a loyal friend but all I get from his story is him regretting his decision to this day.

[@douamoua7573]

Wow. I bow to this man. He is so loyal to his friend. Even after death he's loyal to not betrayed his best friend not to have emotional connection to his dead friend. By given up the most precious person he love. He is one in a million.

[@svxsbdjnx2550]

Txoj no hai tau tu siab heev li thiab yog ib zaj dab neeg uas zoo rau peb kawm txog txoj kev zoo ntawm kev kwv kev tij thiab kev phooj ywg

[@axee12]

Glad there’s finally a loyal Hmong friendship exist you’re the most expressive friend that everyone wish to have so keep that loyalty bro 😎

[@devang8611]

😊 Ô .mmll

[@Loves_GodSR]

What a loyal friend. You are so good. It's hard to find a loyal friend like you. But sadly you lost the person you love. I hope you gave all that love to your wife and to your children.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

You don’t deserve her because no guts, no glory! If a man wants us - be a man and pursue us! If you don’t, it’s you’re fault that you didn’t have the guts! We women won’t run after you.

[@gracexiong8181]

Totally agree with you sis

[@nyiamnkawgsaiv9748]

You’re the most loyal friend anyone can have.

[@lubsiabzooyang2806]

Wow....! Koj yog 1 tug txiv neej uas muaj lub siab ncaj ncees dawb huv tshaj plaws nyob rau tiam no. Thov kom tswv ntuj foom txoj koob hmoov zoo rau koj lwm tiam os. Yam koj ntshaw222 thiab Yam koj tau plam nyob rau tiam no lawm los koj plam 1 qhov xwb los thov tswv ntuj muab pua22 phav22 Yam rau koj os ♥️ ❤️ 💖 ....

[@MallPeaMallCow]

Money blinded your eyes even when you didn’t have any. What your friend said to you before he left shows his true colors so who needs enemies when you have a best friend like that?

[@waatchdogs6184]

Wished there were more true friends like you in this world. God bless you

[@sauvue7716]

Royalty, integrity, respect, and honesty! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@suyang5511]

You're an honorable man. A true loyal friend.

[@jasonfang6912]

Couldn't agree more!!

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

KOJ TSEEM RUAM2 NKAWG OS!!

[@zoolisxyooj8251]

You are a truly friend and money can not buy.

[@douayang2163]

Ruam tiag yawm txiv koj os hauv nriaj teb no tsis muaj dab tsi txaum yog muaj neeg tuag tag.

[@Springadel7775]

It’s hard to find a true friend like you.

[@kctime3936]

The only person I feel sorry for is his wife that died. She gave this guy her life and children and yet he is in love with someone else. Sad!

[@amazinggrace8136]

My thoughts exactly and people are praising this guy.

[@GniaBXiong8386]

Kwv tij aw, txhob khuv xim koj tus hluas nkauj vim nws lub neej twb nchuav 2 zaug lawm es cia ua phooj ywg zoo dua nawb, txoj kev koj xaiv yog 110%.

[@brucehawj3306]

Kuv thov tsa tes hawm koj TxivNtxawm. Ua koj Yog ib tug txiv neej zoo thaj. ❤

[@vixxrose6013]

A real friend would also want to see you have happiness too. But you’re so called friend is the typical selfish kind he knew you constantly mention in your financial misfortune so he used his material and friendship to bind you to a contract you’d have to die to. If anyone dies, truly loves you and knew you could of benefit from their connections they would certainly give that upper hand to you knowing it would help you rise up. Yet your “friend” continued to bind up your one true opportunity to happiness knowing you had one single upper hand from him that he could not buy. He obviously saw how easily you could get the attention of women and could not handle that and knew he would finally lose to you. Sometimes people like to be your friend so long as they’re not losing. You might of took your friendship seriously but your friend took his wins seriously. Also you shouldn’t have agreed to make an outrageous promise. You literally gave up the opportunity to be with your secret lover 3x. By the third time you should of stood your ground and asked for a blessing to marry his wife since he died. You may gloat in your loyalty and misfortune but you seem to lack in courage/confidence and making sound decisions. I suggest you take these lessons as a way to do things accordingly, value your capabilities and physical leverages. You can choose to have things respectfully if done right. Are you courageous enough to do that.

[@N.Ly00]

The friend was not selfish. His friend helped him a lot. The friend even told him to date the girl since the girl didn't like the friend. However, he kept refusing, and that's why the friend married the girl. It's not the friend's fault.

[@heymaiv]

I totally agree. Why would he allow another man to have her and not his best friend when he knew the friend and the wife love each other. Sad his life ended so soon. But honestly, he got what he wanted which was to have her as his wife. They are old now, let them be together before they die. Let them have some moments of happiness before death.

[@suyang5511]

They were so young, making promises as though they would live forever, the friend fully expected to return. If the friend was a soldier and was off to the battlefield knowing he may not return, he would have released his wife to him to take care of her, knowing he took her away from him, whom she loved more. Even after the friend's unexpected death, the smart and practical thing to do would have been to ask his friend for forgiveness and take his friend's young widower to be his wife.

[@zoualee4807]

Heart breaking all around 🥺

[@zouapa5064]

Wow very true friend 💕

[@xengkongxiong6953]

kv mloog tag tus ntxim hlub tshaj yog kj poj niam ntse kj g hlub kj poj niam e nw plawv thiaj nres vim kj pheej hlb tus sab tov

[@scmoon6420]

What a good honest bestie ❤

[@WatchWatchnWatch]

Hard to find a friend like you in this world brother. May God be with you till your last breath. You are a true friendship.

[@kaoxiong6148]

Brother, I admire your loyalty and a promised to your best friend and kept it for all these years and bear all the pains. You earned yourself a royalty and a respect from me. Not too many Hmong men and best friends will ever able to keep a promise to his friend like you did…👍🤠

[@gaosayvu6554]

I hope next life he will be born to be a woman and marry his best friend

[@missysmart8620]

@@gaosayvu6554 lol 🤣🤣🤣!

[@luckypeony345]

@@gaosayvu6554 agree lol 😂😂😂

[@N.Ly00]

It's your own fault. Your friend already told you to date her and gave her to you, but you refused. Nobody stopped you from dating this girl. Your friend was ok with you dating her. Even the girlfriend's parents loved you, and even the girlfriend picked you, but you refused so nobody to blame but you.

[@Nam_MikeMoua]

😢 tu siab heev os

[@hlubforlife]

Best buddies / Blood Brothers MUST shared EVERYTHING! Including......

[@Nploojsiab86]

So sad thanks for a heart warming and heart breaking story:)

[@lortoulongchannel1060]

Ruam dhau

[@amazinggrace8136]

Imagine telling your story about love, faithfulness and commitment and not including your actual wife in there lol.

[@suyang5511]

Include his wife is not relevant. This story is about his love, commitment and loyalty to his friend before he met his wife.

[@amazinggrace8136]

@@suyang5511 did you listen to the story? His “love” for his friends wife definitely goes well after he married his wife, had children etc.

[@houavue7711]

Loyal friends like you, no longer exist.

[@happylifexiong6534]

You are one of a true friend who never your back on your best friend l have a lot of friends who don't respect me when it comes to girls, u r one of a kind......

[@nouxiong3620]

Communication is always the best key/solution for everything and anything.

[@BladDaddy]

BAS Bro.

[@maivayang8389]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ Kev phooj ywg Ib tia tsau muaj ib zaug xwb ua siab ciaj li no thiaj muaj nuj npi os ❤

[@chang3568]

I don't think you're dumb brother. I think u made the right decision. Sounds like your friend really love you so I'm glad you decided to be a good friend.

[@suevang2867]

Zaj neej neeg no ces yog kiag cov movie kauslim uas peb niaj hnub saib2 lawm tiag

[@alexandrinevu4727]

many think that it is honorable for him but I think that if his friend was really a friend who loved him, he would not have said "luckily you are a big brother to me because when a man dies, we do not give the widow to an older brother but to the youngest" which means to me that despite everything, the friend would never want him to be able to marry his widow.

[@NYC.2019]

Loyalty at its finest

[@chakatalee]

You are a true friend. Bless you in all you do brother 🙏...

[@ThamLosZam]

Only the poor will love the rich... you didn't betrayed your friend but he betrayed you....

[@niamnyiajntxhwvaj9304]

Huag.... yawm txiv aws.... ca txoj kev hlub ntawm phoojywg lo tshaj.. txoj kes hlub ntawm nkauj nraug lo loj ua luaj thiab...

[@mry08independent]

So sad all around for all parties.

[@genalor4795]

Disappointed that this ended very sad. Wish you would have given up and let her in your life.😅 Your friend is dead. Meaning his words is bury with him!

[@Heartsdouna]

It ok u r a good friend to him. Koj Yog Ib tug neeg siab zoo kawg rau koj tug phooj ywg os Yog lwm tug Tshe lawv twb yuav nws tug poj niam lawm. Koj tug phooj ywg los nws kuj siab zoo rau koj vim nws tau dab tsi los nws kuj hlub koj thiab muaj rau koj es koj thiaj cia nws yuav koj tug hlua nkauj. Ua li ko thiaj Yog phooj ywg tiag tiag.

[@heysoniher]

Your friend is gone. Stop torturing yourself and just get with the girl. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@ljvue]

You’re a good friend but your friends wasn’t a good friend. If he was a good friend, he would’ve gladly not intrude on your love interest. And especially when she wanted to be with you. He was wrong and that’s why it bothers you till this day.

[@iamjay1368]

You r a true friend!!

[@botmcg6886]

Tsis yog yus tus ces tseev hlub yeej tsis tau kuv ntseeg ntaw.

[@styvj3466]

It’s okay to love someone you aren’t capable of marrying. His love for her and his friend is genuine. Of course he loves her. But to be a man of his own words. This man sacrificed plenty. Not everyone will know this path unless you walk it. Maybe they are soul mates, but in this life time his tribulations got in the way.

[@fuethao8872]

Koj yog ib tus txiv neej ncaj tau ruam tshaj plaws tsis muaj peev xwm dab tsi thiaj li ntseeg txoj kev cog lus xwb os cov poj niam ib txhia tus txiv twb tsis tau tuag twb mus tham hluas nraug tas li lawm ne

[@ProBowler308]

A real man is a man of his words. Hats off to this man.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Txiv ntxawm ib txhia hais tias koj ruam no tab sis Tsi yog koj ruam yog koj ntse xwb, vim koj cog lus tag rau koj tus phooj ywg lawm yog koj tseem yuav nws tsam neb lub neej yuav Tsi zoo thiab Tsi nto ntsis es tiam no koj txhob tu siab os mog

[@toosay200]

Mob hlwb tag li os. Yog koj ncaj npaum ko ces koj kuj txhob nug2 tus pojniam ko hmoo lawm.

[@koobhkojh1997]

Tsis yog koj ruam yog koj tuav kev ncaj ncees xwb [phooj ywj ntseeg siab mas lis no ho thov kom tiam tshiab koj tau nws nawb txiv ntxawm tiam no neb los ua kev. Zoo them nuj nqis xwb xav li no koj thiaj xav ua neeg os

[@leelaiyah789]

Zoo siab ua koj tsis txeev siab yuav nws tamsi koj tau nrog nws pw tom qab koj yuav nws lawm ces txeev siab lawm lai. Sad for his wife, nws tsis tau nws tus txiv lub siab 100%. Lam yuav yug tau ib tse menyuam los twb tsis tau lub siab.

[@staySTAINED]

Korean drama

[@gaosayvu6554]

Koj tus phooj ywg siab tsis zoo txeeb koj tus hluas nkauj es nws thiaj npam tuag

[@สุเนตรแซ่ยะ]

ทำไมคุณเป็นคนดีมากอย่างนี้

[@gaosayvu6554]

Koj hlub koj tus phooj ywg tshaj koj tus hluas nkauj ces tos hnub tuag koj mam mus thawj ua pojniam es mus yuav koj tus phooj ywg os ❤

[@gracexiong8181]

Ruam npaum ko ces tsum tsis txhob nug2 nws lawm os. Tsis txhob keb ub keb no os awb ruam aws. Ua tsis taus txiv xwb hos...

[@hmoobliscalifornia714]

Prime example of good guys finish last. You’re a weak sauce no matter of your financial status. Be a man!

[@ky7518]

Thaub! Tsis txhob tuaj qw2 os. Tsis tim leej twg tim yus xwb 😅

[@ItsYou2]

Coj li cas nas, tu pojniam kos twb mus yuav txiv dua lawm. Laws twb muab nws los hu ua tu txiv #2 dab qhuas lawm nes...technically its no longer your friend wife in hmong spirit word. But also wow to you staying loyal....

[@baoyang5686]

Your loss. Your friend already gave her to you and ask for you to ahead and married her if you really like her but you decided to let your friends have her.

[@symonher6457]

More like a script movies story

[@msmaix808]

His friend took advantage of him. Lol. Being loyal makes you lose everything. Smh

[@jackstar254]

You should've married her. Promises are only for the living.

[@sikoo8425]

tus hluas nkauj ko hmoov hlob heev li yos koj yuav ces koj tuas lawm os txhob khuv xim

[@kvang1045]

Idk what kind of friend tell his friend to not date a girl bc he also like the girl. Not a good friend in that matter i think. Yes the dead friend loves and care for you but refuses you to be with a girl who you share a mutual love with. Instead he wants her all to himself. Not much of a good friend and now youre living life with regret. Well so much for that drama, i hope it was worth it. Now just love your wife(assuming you have a wife due to the age in your story)and stop seev seev txog nws.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Thaub, pog twb tsis yog koj hluas nkauj sav. Tsuas sib ntsia sib nyiam xwb koj twb tsis tau tham nws ua koj tus hluas nkauj los hos. Cas pab txaj muag ua luaj lau

[@fuemoua8345]

thaub aw tus ntawv twb tuag lawm ces yuav tau los mas cas yuav txhav ua luaj

[@MeeKaZKT]

The title is misleading because2. ,,e , ,, ❤🎉❤❤❤❤ she was never your girlfriend. You guys like each other but I guess you don't like her as much as you claimed. She never liked your friend so I don't know what gave you two the right to give her to one or the other. You are a good friend who kept a promise but your friend passed away so idk why you are still keeping a promise even when HE literally call dibs on her just cause he was richer. If you were rich like your friend I bet you'd fight for the girl you like.

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

It’s not loyalty it’s he did not love and value her enough like his bestie.

[@oraleholmes1263]

I dont understand some dudes, if the girl dont like you what good does that do if you like her lol

[@pajlis5886]

Kuv xav tias thaum nej coj lus koj tus phoojywg tsis nco qab xav tias yog muaj ib hnub tsis muaj nws lawm, tus yuav hlub tau nws tus poj niam yog koj. Lwm tus yuav tsis hlub li koj hlub. Thiab kuv xav tias yog nws hais tau hnub no rau koj ntshe nws yuav hais kom koj yuav thiab hlub vim nws hlub tsis tau lawm.

[@goldeneagle2394]

Ntuj aw neeg laus tag li ko es hais tias nyiam nyiam hlub hlub tabsis tsis kam yuav ces yog tsis hlub los ma! Cas es tseem yuav tuaj piav rau tug niag xiam ntsev ua luaj os. Nyias laus nyias tag lawm txhob hais tias nyiam thiab nco no nawb. Hais ntau txaj muag 😂

[@Mloogzoo]

Koj xav yuam kev lawm os phooj ywg. If I die, I want my wife to find happiness with someone I trust.

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Cas ho muaj tej zaj dab neeg zoo li no thiab o yom .

[@maryly09]

It's good that u didn't pursued her. If u did, u would have guilty conscience all your life.

[@vangasaurus2702]

This guy took the phrase “bros before hoes” literally. But seriously, this dude put his buddy on a pedestal, and worshipped him like some sort deity. I think he believed his buddy had some sort of power, watching him closely, making sure he didn’t bang his wife. Kind of sad.

[@KueVue]

agreed O_O He degraded himself too much.

[@kcy805]

You don't understand when you are not poor. When your are soooo poor that you only have your eyes and other people respect you like one of their kinship then you'd also worship the ground they walked on. Respect people, respect😊

[@Nomkaubljs]

KOJ siab zoo tab sis ruam heev puas yog?xav saib puas yog

[@sikoo8425]

yos koj tus phooj yws tsi yuav tej zaum nws twb tsi tuas thiab

[@meevue7346]

Yog koj tus phooj ywg tsis yuav tus hluas nkauj ntawv ntshe nws twb tsis tuag.

[@wbzajnpausuavher752]

Tsis yog ruam koj yog tus neeg siab zoo xwb

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Txhob tu siab vim koj tsis muaj peev xwm. Koj tus Phooj ywg twb kom koj yuav tab sis koj muab koj txoj kev phooj ywg saib loj tshaj tus poj niam uas koj hlub ces pab tsis tau lawm. Tab txawm koj pluag los tus hluas nkauj twb nyiam thiab xum yuav koj txaus siab ua kom koj tus Phooj ywg zoo siab xwb ces txawm koj yuav tau tus hluas nkauj no los ntshe koj yuav tiv thaiv tsis tau nws. Koj txoj kev ruam ces kawg khuv xim tag tiam. txoj hmoo twb txog koj tab sis koj tsis txais tos ces txhob seev seev.

[@myoutlaws]

Bro code level 9999

[@mlee6092]

Bro, you never fought for yourself. Your friend, on the other hand, manipulated you at every turn to take your girl from you. You're a fool. You still didn't take her after your friend died. He manipulated you from the grave by saying he's your younger bro. Omg, you need to learn to fight for yourself. Koj xiav tiam tag nrho lawm os.

[@PM-oe5mk]

You can be praised for your integrity, but at the same time you are a fool. You had a chance with her when your friend realized that the girl likes you way more than him and he gave you the go ahead, but you declined because you were poor. You are the biggest fool in this friendship of yours. Your friend was selfish to ask you to never have a relationship with this girl in this lifetime, no matter what, and you agreed to a life sentence regarding this issue so you need to just let go of your yearning for this woman---you gave up your right to fulfill that yearning so move on.

[@Nonotme888]

Interesting! Could his friend’s fate change if he didn’t marry the girl? Only the universe will know....

[@shenglee7110]

This is the true definition of bros before hoes.

[@tobiasboon346]

Listening to this fool's story is frustrating. Dude your friend is dead. He dont care or cant care anymore. You lived a life longing for someone because you made a stupid promise. You may be a loyal friend but a very stupid one. If he was really your best friend, he would've wanted you to be happy with his wife when he died.

[@siavang7870]

Yawm txiv koj coj tsis tau tus hluas nkauj mus rau koj tus phooj ywg os vim nws twb mus yuav txiv lawm nws twb mus ua dua ib xeem ces koj coj tsis tau nws li koj tsuas nros koj ruam ces txhob tos lwm tiam lawm tej zaum tus hluas nkauj twb chim rau koj lawm ces ntshe nws yuav lov pos los tsuab kOM txhob ntsib koj lawm los tsis paub li koj ces ntshe caum tsaug tiam los tsis ntsib li lauj vim tiam no koj twb nco ntsoov es twb tsis tau li es nyias tseem muaj nyias lub neej lawm thiab ces ntshe koj yuav caum tsis tau koj tus hluas nkauj li lawm lauj koj ho tsis kam yuav ces hnub twg koj Tuag los ham tsis mus caum koj tus poj niam xwb yus tsis kam yuav nws ces cia lwm tiam nws mam mus nrhiav kOM tau tus neeg hlub nws rau tiam tshiab xwb es txhob mus thaiv nws hau kev cia nws nyob ywj pheej thiab muab Xav los koj tus hluas nkauj mob tshaj koj vim raug koj dag thiab tseem muab nws saib zoo Yam li ib yam khoom thaum Xav yuav ces yuav thaum tsis Xav yuav ces muab pov thoob khib nyiab Xwb yog tus hluas nkauj no txawj Xav ces tsis nco koj thiab tsis khuv xim koj lawm

[@dgfg200]

Kj hlb kj tu phj ywg ca kj ho g hlb nw tu poj nm tam nw o

[@solomoua5520]

This story sound like you are very very jealous that your friend marry his girlfriend that you love and she never love you 😂 Look like you try to get her back but she doesn’t want so you reverse the story line 🤭

[@2tuam]

Your next wife next lifetime is on him.

[@kalvinhawj1359]

All I say is ruam tiag2. Kaj tsij zov koj tus phoojywg lub npe es ruam mus ib txhis li koj tus hluas nkauj hais. I agree with her 100%. Remain royalty to your friend only if he was alive, but when he had passed you had the right to marry her. Stupid all around.

[@maiherojj]

I don't get it... seems like she wasn't even his girlfriend. It was just a girl they both liked. 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️