Vim Muaj Cov Neej Neeg Thiaj Tsis Tuag. 12/5/21

[@htiafgnoix]

Thank goodness you’re safe now. Your ex does not deserve to be a doctor. He’s a sick monster and needs help. You deserve better. Also, there are a lot of sisters who may share the same story, you are not alone.

[@viengxaen3438]

6k.qiakala

[@iayang1107]

Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas txawm yog li lauv peb cov no ua poj nrauj tau kaum tawm xyoos no peb thiaj li tsi nrhiav txiv neej li lawm vim hais tias yus ntshais tsam lawv tsim yus thiab yus cov me nyuam es yus ntsias tsi taus ntag thiab tiv tsi taus txoj kev taim yus cov mes nyuam lauv tus niam tsev txim hnub no rau tom ntej mas ua xwb thiab cia cov txiv neej no tuag rau yus tes xwb tsi txhob mus tuag lawv tes os tus niam tsev

[@hliyaj1220]

Sister, thank you for sharing your life. Peb ua neeg nyob, yus qhov level nyob li cas ces yus nyob raws li ntawd xwb zoo tshaj. Tej laus txoj lus qhia yus ces yeej tsis poob li. Koj niam lawv yeej koj tag lawm ne. Txiv neej thaum luag muaj nyiaj txawj ntse thiab muaj meej mom lawm ces luag tsuas ntshaw kev ua neej tog nrub nrab lawm xwb. Yog koj yuav txhawb ib tug txiv neej ces txhawb koj tuskheej ua ntej. Thaum koj txawj ntse lawm...yav uas nyob ntawm koj, koj thiaj tuav tau cia ua koj tug. Koj txhawb luag txawj ntse muaj nyiaj ces txhua yam yog luag li xwb, luag yuav muab rov qab hnub twg los tau. The most important thing is that you learned your lesson the hard way. You have become content in life and don't bother for status nor wealth is good. Good luck to you sister.

[@junevang352]

He was a narcissist! He would of never ever changed! I'm just glad you're out of that toxic relationship.

[@shenavang789]

So proud u found the strength to get out of a bad situation sis, so proud of u. May u find love and happiness in your journey, thank u for sharing your story know you’re a hero and will inspire others to do the same. May you are a great story teller and like this story I’m sure u have saved so many lives.

[@npibxyooj1]

Thank you for sharing your story. I don’t think people understand how hard it is to be in a abusive relationship and how much harder it is to leave. I’m glad you were able to finally leave. Your story gives hope to another Hmong lady who thinks it’s impossible otherwise.

[@00ninja00]

Don’t just think this is men to women only. There’s plenty of crazy women out there who control their husbands and is abusive to him and he can’t leave either, you’d be surprised.

[@jenythao2292]

Agree me to

[@myprecious6751]

Don't forget she choosed to stayed with him. She allowed him to abused her. She loved being abused by him. He made her life a living hell but she choosed to keep her mouth shut and not report him or leave him. She's lucky she finally got away before he killed her. Her stupidity is her down fall.

[@npibxyooj1]

that’s so sad you see a vulnerable women this way. I hope you will always be as strong as your words. God bless your heart.

[@myprecious6751]

@@npibxyooj1 trust me I'm not trying to trash her. I know that domestic abuse women/ men they tend to stayed and find reasons to pacified their abuser. I'm mad that she had the means and opportunity to leave him but yet she didn't and then she even went back. It's the Hmong culture that I hate most off. Am glad that she finally left him. I just hope that she'll not rush into another relationship or marriage. These type of women are so desperate for a man. It is okay to be a divorced woman. At least you have peace of mind in your life.

[@laismuas140]

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[@airnasay9158]

Cas kj lub neej yuav zoo li kv thiab o😭😭😭

[@gnavlove]

I'm glad you told your story as a lot of our hmong ppl think marring their daughters off to someone who's highly educated is the best choice ever. They need to be reminded that an abuser comes from every kind of background, not just the uneducated ones. All in all, I'm glad you left him and are safe.

[@2usa87]

Ntiajteb no txiv Hmoob tsi muaj ib tug twg phem npaum li koj tu txiv li lawm

[@herko311]

Abuser comes in every culture, education level and economic background. Hmong women, do not tolerate your man regardless of his background! Report him to the police!

[@ntxhaisvajkevlomzem7162]

Kuv mas nyiam zoo heev vim kuv xav mloog es xyaum thiab khaws qhov zoo2 coj los xyaum rau yus tus kheej, hos yog qhov qhem tsi zoo ces muab tso pov tseg..xwb..

[@chiayang6649]

Yog koj laj qhia koj lub npe los peb yeej Paub lawm os niam tsuab teev

[@NyNy-zx6lz]

kj hais tau zoo heev o kv lub neej zoo li ko htiab o

[@meethao7245]

Koj niag txiv yog dauv tawj ( Doctor) Yog ib niag dev : dawm taw

[@yuaxiong7482]

Tus siab koj tau tug txiv muaj evil heart, txhob ruam2 Os tus ntxhais yij meem ua kom nws daim dr twb tsis zoo so quav

[@suathoj2001]

Yg lm o tu niam laus aw cov neej neeg no ua raus peb tse taus ho

[@yingxiong6883]

yog tshaj li os tau tus txiv cem taus thiab nyob nrog yus mas tsis tau cem yus mas zoo li nws twb yuav tuag li cem cem yus txaus lawm yus tsis teb los zoo li mob yus ua luaj yog yus ho teb ces ua heev cuag dais coj tub xwb tawm rooj plaws tsis xav rov los tsev kiag li ntshe kuv twb yuav ua li koj thiab zoo qhov koj ua tau lawm os tus Viv ncaus lawv tab tom qhia kom yus ntse xwb vim dhuav kawg nkaus lawm.

[@yeryang5636]

Story like this made me mad n angry at the weak person n forgiving person. I want to listen to stories with strong women who won't take man crap. Man torture and that woman fight until he has nothing left...until he lived under the bridge.

[@amazingvaj2299]

Tus txiv neej DR. Yog ib tug DR deb xwb yog ib tug neeg kawm siab ua Dr. li no yuav tsum txawj xav txawj hais lus

[@lubneejkajsiabmobile5605]

Cas txiv neej txoj kev xav yv zoo ib yam nkaus xwb

[@pounatouxailiya2593]

ໂງ່ແທ້ຊິອົດຢູ່ນຳຜູ່ຊາຍແບບນີ້ເຮັດຍັງ ຊອກຜູ່ໃຫມ່

[@penvue]

Shame on those who are victim blaming. Hope some of you never have to experience the abuse or find yourself in such a situation. It is so much easier said than done, and the damage done onto the victim goes so much deeper than what anyone will ever know. She came out of it Alive, and hopefully she'll heal, learn and live better. 🙏

[@tongallen9231]

Agreed. Sad situation for both women. Glad this sister is strong enough to walk away. Hope the same for the wife.

[@liathao]

Peb mus doctor es peb twb tsis ntseeg doctor tag2 os me niam hluas aw cas koj yuav ntseeg koj tus doctor tag koj lub siab na los

[@korxiong792]

Tsis xav mloog cov neej neeg poj niam ruam2 es tus txiv ua phem npaum no tseem cia tus txiv neej dev ua phem rau nus.

[@AAUclassmate]

Cov mloog neej neeg neej puas ces ntshe tsis txawj mloog neej thiaj puas xwb. Cov neej neeg no yog yus paub mloog no pab tau yus ntshe tuaj, tos kuv tias pab tau yus ntse vim ghov zoo mam khawg los ua neej qhov phem kuj txhob kawm xwb.

[@taktak6918]

Nyb zoo tus niam tsev kj zaj Lus ntawm kj tus kheej ua kj zoo siab xa rau niam ntsuab teev hais rau saum huab cua rau peb hnov no mas txawm Li cas Los thov zam txim peb cov mloog thiab nawb ! Raws Li kv xav xwb thiab Li kj hais yog qhov coj zoo raws Li 1 tug niam tsev kj txawm ua 1 tug nkj nrab dhau 1 zaug Lo Lm kj yeej coj zoo raukj tsev neeg niam pog txiv yawg Lm tiam si kj coj yog kj tus txiv zoo Lub ncauj xwb nws Lub siab coj g zoo Li kj siab xav nws muaj Lub siab ywj fab ywj fwj coj niv xaim g zoo ! Nws kawm ua 1 tug thawj kho mob Lo nws Lub siab xeeb ceem coj nruab thiab Lo ua neeg zoo Li no xwb muab hais tias nws g yog neeg ntse ntau seem nws ntse rau seem qauj 2 yuav tsawg tus Lo coj Li no xwb 10 tus Lo g haum Li nawb ! Kj Lub neej faib tawm Lm tshav kj ntuj nco ntsoov txhob tig saib qab Lm cov neeg zoo Li no g txog txij twg Lm os nawb !

[@paweenahanwachira9883]

kawm tas ib tug Dr.coj txawv2 muaj lub siab phem li kom txaug ntxhai dau tsw yog Dr.yog(โรคจิต)

[@yerthao8874]

Vivcaus txhob tu siab os. Koj tus cav kawm tag Dr. Kuv tus mas haujlwm twb tsi xav ua.

[@bluearrow1188]

Cog txiv dev zoo li tus no lab heev rau poj niam xwb yog nws mus ua heev rau ib tus txiv neeg tiag tiag ces nws rauj ntusj lawm

[@MrsYaj-ei2io]

I hate that hmoob people always down grade poj nrauj poj ntsuam. Just because we’re once married, that doesn’t mean we are not worth it. Just because he is a doctor and educated that doesn’t mean he is kind hearted. A degree doesn’t defined a person’s character. I’m so proud of you for getting out of your toxic marriage. No one understands how miserable it is to live in a marriage like that. Your ex is such a sick husband.

[@diannaxiong693]

I'm glad you got out off the bad guy...Be happy and continue your new life sister...Tsi yog DR nws yog yawg dab xwb os.

[@suabcuayaj877]

good thing you got out. if you stay longer he might decide to do insurance claim on you. stay safe and be strong..single life is not too bad...ive been there and survive and been single for 5yrs now...it would be hard for me to have a partner now especially our hmong men...i feel much more free..so i hope you enjoy your freedom too.

[@khouthor2178]

33³3

[@pathor515]

Me niam hluas cas koj thiab kuv zaj dab neeg yog ib zaj xwb mog es yuav ua li cas os ntshe wb yuav nyuab siab ib yam li os thov wb txhob tuag nawb mog tshuav wb cov me nyuam os

[@MsBL32]

Omg, this lady said she got smart from listening to these stories yet she stayed that long. Hello, love yourself woman and never look back. You have totally failed and wasted your life for this man.

[@mileslee6426]

She’s in denial thinking he’s gonna change.. she saw the rich life style and couldn’t let that go.. she could of been rich with Alimony and child support lol

[@Shihtzufun2]

She could have put him in jail and he will lose his dr. License. Not very smart

[@cassidyvue]

@@Shihtzufun2 no, she's smart. She let him live so he can pay child support, just not alimony support. Putting him in jail, she will lose child support too. Plus, he can come out and kill her one day. It's not worth loosing her life. People like him are cold hearted people. They don't care about dying or going to jail. It's best to settle for less and live your own life to the fullest.

[@Shihtzufun2]

@@cassidyvue yea, true. I feel so sorry for her. Praying karma hit him hard soon.

[@mileslee6426]

@@Shihtzufun2 yes but did she do it.. NO.. that’s why she don’t deserve any sympathy.. she deserve to be treated the way he treated her.. sometimes females like that kind of treatment lol

[@wendyher6594]

Ntuj aws…ntshai txivneej siab siab nyoos li no kawg li nawb. Txhob nyoo txivneej hlo li os. Hu tais npluaj rau tus txiv thiab qhia qhov tseeb tias nws muab koj ntau thiab tsim koj xub nws mag kaws nkuaj. Cia nws kawm kom tav nws qhov uas tsim neeg nawb. Nws txhob mus ntau lwm tus pojniam ntxiv lawm. Yog nws tseem ntau thiab ces nws raug nyob nkuaj xwb. Cia kom nws poob haujlwm thiab poob daim license kom nws mus ua dev thawj thiab xwb mas.

[@paofuyang9670]

Such a good reminder of what we only see on the outside. People who has not been in a abusive relationship will never know the extent of low self-esteem the abusive imposed on the person they are abusing. Happy you are out of the relationship. Be happy and live your life now.

[@yuamoua4113]

Although it may have taken you many years to leave, I am proud of you for doing so now. It’s never too late to start over! A happy ending doesn’t always have to end with a significant other. Sometimes being alone is the best way to live a wonderful life! One where you can concentrate on focusing on yourself, your health! May God bless you with love, encouragements, strength, and happiness!

[@lesvang5672]

Pp

[@hwmpheejthojofficial9692]

I’m just here to read all the comments everyone sounds so smart but when you’re the one wearing the shoes I doubt you know what to do

[@zoualor559]

I’m glad you escaped a toxic relationship but you should’ve gave him what he deserved for all the bs he put you through.

[@blongvang5006]

Koj ua yog lawm nawb

[@Hmong664]

I love your story.

[@flryprn745]

Lady!! U TOO nice!! When he lay his hands on you, u need call cops n put his azz in jail!! Men don’t learn til they lock up!! N when u sue him for divorce, let him loose his job so he learn. Let him be POOR so he learn!! U still TOO nice!! Get him child support!! He don’t deserve a good life!! Let him be POOR!!

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

Never fall for men who try to cry or died to win your love. Only fake love. He so evil 😈 . Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj tau tawm ntawm Tus dab phem mus lawm.

[@wingcobra]

Poj Hmoob raum Tsis Tsaj koj

[@Loves_GodSR]

Thank you for sharing your story, sister. Many people don't realize how hard it is to leave an abusive relationship. I am so glad you found your strength to leave. May your story give hope to others. May love and happiness come to you.

[@maryly09]

I hope u fight for child support for all your kids and alimony for yourself! Be smart!

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Sisters hmoob, thaum ib tus thaub hem tias nws yuav tuag yog tsis tau koj no na, khiav tiag khiav kom dim. Nws tsis tuag tiam sis yog koj ua siab yuav nws ces koj yuav yog tus tuag. Heard and seen the ending for quite several relationships of that already. Tom ntej nws yuav rov yuav tuag rau tus tshiab qhov tshiab, vim nws paub tias siv tau lub maib ntawv yuam koj. He’s gonna continue using that card on you.

[@liaxiong8129]

Ntshe koj muab nws nyiam dhau lawm es koj thiaj nyob tau

[@bosslady8498]

I’m glad you left him and hopefully for good . Please don’t go back to him and live your life to the fullest. GL to you and wish you the best to find someone truly love you. ♥️

[@cathythao9094]

He’s a monster, he’s not a Dr., he spent all those years in school and he did not learn a damn thing. If I was you I would’ve make sure he loses everything that’s the only way of him paying you back for everything that he have done to you and you supporting him through school.

[@itsmaichee]

Fr!

[@pajlisyaj1716]

Niam txiv txwv thiab yuam tsis tau qhov tseeb yog koj tus kheej xwb yuav thiab tsis yuav los yog koj txiav txim siab,

[@liathao]

Yog kawg

[@liathao]

Wow xav tsis txog tias ib tus doctor es yuav zoo li no xwb os

[@nancyyang9954]

This one is a good one.

[@thedark-_-lord8285]

To this lady- do you live in America? Wtf you don’t speak English? You don’t know the laws in America? Omg I can’t believe this story. Got headache now!!!!! I am so sorry you had to go through this- sometimes u have to take care urself and the kids first. Why do you let this narcissistic txiv dev go free?

[@ka-zouachang5267]

Yog kawg, cov poj niam hmoob xa tau neej zoo uas yuav tom ntej ces yuav tsum muab peev xawm es uas kom tau li lawm haiv poj niam. Thaum ib tug txiv neej tau uas phem thiab txaum cais lawm, yuav tsum txob pab2 lawv dim ntawm txoj cais. Txiv neej thiaj yuav paub kev cais hos

[@ntaubxyooj481]

Koj Niag txiv ko tsi yog kawm tag Dr os kawg rag Dr dev xwb os niam hluas aw

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Tub hluas hmoob yuav yuav taus tus poj niam uas dhau txiv dua los and/or nrog me nyuam txog thaum kawg es tsis tsim tsis thwm ntshe tsuas muaj 1 tug ntawm million tus xwb. Cov tub hluas ntawv lawv tiv cov poj nrab vim lawv vam thaj yooj yim siv. Lawv tsis lam siab nej rau nqi, twb tsis hais txog tus muaj degree status na. Tus thauj khib nyiab xwb los tsis ntev lawv yeej yuav tig los siv lub hluas nraug khaws poj nrab maib los tom nej, vim lawv yog txiv neej hmoob. Yog neej yuav npaj hlub nrog tub hluas es nej dhau txiv dua los lawm, ces hla kom dhau tub hmoob. Vim rau lawv, nej tsuas yog chaw tiag taw thiab ntaub so taw. Vim lawv lub npe tub hluas lawv yeej tsis txo los fwm nej.

[@godness7770]

I am so glad you realized how abusive and bad he was to you and that you were strong enough to listen to the stories and listen to your heart and let him go. I'm proud of you and no one should never go through this kind of abused. Especially if they think they got the Dr tile or big names. You should know that don't matter. I'm glad you left him and I wish you the very best!

[@mosvaj1385]

Koj hais yog heev nrhiav tus zoo li tus dab no xwb tsis nyuaj tabsis nrhiav tus zoo mas nyuaj os.

[@somman9639]

Cas twb yog poj nrauj los lawm ais ho tsis muaj peev xwm maj thaum i twb nrauj los lawm nev .

[@pajthao4813]

Koj twb hais tias koj hniaj hnub mloog neej neeg no ua cas zoo li koj tsis nre li koj hais es koj yuav nyob ntev ua luaj li ruam thiaj nyob rau ib tug neeg tsis hlub yus tsim ntev npaum no

[@maykerlo7026]

So happy for you sister. I went through an abusive marriage too, but can't even imagine what you went through. I do know that feeling you have of freedom and kajsiab. It's the best feeling ever. Like you went through he'll and back. You are now stringer than ever. Stay strong and love yourself. ❤

[@neejkhuamsiabyang2944]

Kuv los ib yam thiab txij hnub nws tuag mus kuv nyob kaj siab dua tsis muaj ib tug txiv los tsis tuag muaj mas tej tsam zoo li txoj sia yuav tu.los hos to tsis tau li os .

[@happyyyone]

I can't believe her husband has a dr degree. He sounds like a regular hmong guy with a HS diploma. Lol

[@a2dazgod539]

30 seconds into the story I could already tell that everything is your fault. Because of your lack of self-esteem, people treat you the way you are being treated. Never let anybody treat you the way your husband treat you. Have self-respect for yourself. you have free choice to leave those who hurt you. Stay away from abusive relationship stay away from dishonest people stay away from gamblers, drugies, drinkers and smokers and your life will be all right

[@hmongremark2686]

Cov club zoo li no tsuas zoo rau cov txiv neej liam thiab poj niam liam ntawm peb cov Hmoob xwb. Koj tus txiv yog ib tug Medical Dr. los nws tsuas ntse rau nws txoj kev kawm xwb, tab sis nws tseem ruam heev vim nws yug los ruam. Yog nws tsis muaj kev kawm txawj ntse, nws yog tus ruam tshaj plaws hauv nws pawg kwv tij.

[@leefamily6061]

Sister I'm so happy you finally got out of that abusive relationship. Don't ever go back. Best wishes to you

[@douayang2163]

Dr, Sayao ces yog tus no

[@yupatcha316]

Txij li thaum kv nov cov neej neeg tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej liam li kj tug li os. Ua cas kj yuav nrog nyob ntev ua luaj li os. Khuv sim kj lub caij heev zoo qhov kj tawm los lawm. Nrog kj zoo siab kaws li nawb.

[@youwatchme3631]

Uacas kuv tseem Yaum kuv poj niam tuaj mloog

[@morchang2578]

So proud of you sis I'm same like you b4 and now i fond a person that loves me just be happy and stay beautiful 😍 💗 💖

[@huabcualee6346]

Twb yog ib tug Dr. diam es cas siab phem ua luaj!

[@brendayangvang9756]

Neb 2 leeg zoo ib yam sub as

[@pajrosedawb8047]

You stayed because you want the name. But a guy like that is worthless. Glad you learned to love yourself.

[@balormisss9400]

Niam lau koj mas ruam dhau lawm koj yuav uv kom tuag tso lo

[@nangvang6241]

His lost. He lost a good woman bc with her support he got his career and save his career. Thank goodness your out of that life. Everyone wants a good healthy, stable and secured marriage. But no matter what know your worth and fight for your worth. No one deserves to be abused and be iin a abusive marriage. Your life, your worth and your children is most important.

[@maylee9765]

Hmong ppl os smh money is not the answer love, trust loyalty,communication I agree with this lady good men yes is hard to find but it’s ok staying single

[@Unic0rnsfur]

What bothered me listening to your story is how you let him slide with everything just because he's Dr. Why do we put such respect towards ppl with high education? Their degree doesn't mean 💩

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

People say, it’s easier said than done, but no. If you listen to this lady, she just chose to endure rather than escape. Sounds like she enjoyed the kind attention treatment. She said he locked her up and kept her away, but she went to work. She said he didn’t let her talk to people, but she had phones. That sounds likes years of him treated her like that and she said nothing. Don’t sound like he prisoned her. She probably would rather keep niam doctor status, even refused to divorce when he asked her to. Even after he forged their divorce, she was still yielding just to keep him. I guess all that was worth being niam doctor for a while, for her. poj nrauj nrog me nyuam tau txiv hluas nraug doctor must be a top notch status. We never really what people truly want. Glad she escaped before get killed. God bless her.

[@mosvaj1385]

Yeej muaj ib co niag txiv neej Hmoob liam2 thiab qias2 neeg . Qhov no tsis yog peb keeb kwm . Qhov no yog lawv tuaj noj Nyav qav ntau dhau lawm thiab tuaj xyaum Nyav thaj ntau dhau lawm xwb es lawv thiaj xav siv lwm tus tabsis lawv ntshai tsam npam lawv es lawv lub hlwb quaj lawm es lawv thiaj ua tau siab loj cia nej ua li lawv ua kom txhob npam lawv os. Normal man will not let his wife sleep with another man .

[@hmongsiabzoo]

You’re too nice, I would have sued him so he loses everything. He doesn’t deserve you. He’s a fraudulent person.

[@chuvang5487]

Niag poj ruam koj xum tiv qws thiab ncaws taw vim koj ntshaw lub npe niam Dr, qhov koj raug tsim txom npaum li cas koj nco nws npaum li ntawd vim yog koj txojkev ruam nkaus xwb, koj yog neeg ruam lub siab thiaj li muag rau ib tug Dr txiv dev ntawd, cas koj yuav nrauj nws thiab thaum nws muab koj ntaus nqaij ntuag ntshav nrog koj tsis ua kom Dr nkag nkuaj koj mam li nrauj nws thaum ntawd nws lub koob npe Dr thiaj li yuav nrov ncha ma lov ? Nws yim ua phem npaum li cas rau koj ces nws lub txim yim nyhav mus npaum li ntawd xwb, nco qab ntsoov tias lub ntuj yawm saub tsis tig ko diav rau nej pojniam hmoob pes tsawg tiam ntxiv lawm, tuaj txog luag ntuj lawm yuav tau siv raws li luag txuj, tuaj txog luag teb lawm yuav tau siv raws li luag txoj cai, cov me txiv neej hmoob uas nyiam2 siv hlob nom phaj lub maib ces nej twb muaj cov dablaug teeb liab teeb ntsuab nej yuav mus ntshai nws ua tus dabtsi ? Hmoob twb muaj ib sob lus haistias, tawv nyuj qhuav ces yuav cia rau txiv dev kaws, tus txiv neej hmoob khav theeb no ces yuav tsum cia rau tej mab sua muab nws ncaws.

[@fuemoua8345]

tus neeg uas txaus siab hlo muab yus tus txwj nkawm coj mus sib pauv nrog lwm tus pw ces yog dev xwb mog zoo qhov koj rauj lawm,

[@YajM4evea]

Ok Maxwell Thao.

[@xaihlub34]

cas tsis cia nws tuag nws thaum tsis pub yuav. ntshe twb tsis muaj ib niag dev liam no nyob ntiaj teb.

[@xaiher9236]

tu txiv neej hmoob ko txawv tshaj txhau tu li lo yog yeej muaj tej tu zoo li ko thiab lo lawv tsi piav es yu tsi paub xwb

[@heysoniher]

This is abuse and he should be in jail! We need to educate our women to be independent and value themselves. Learn the laws of this country and use them when needed. When your life is in on the line only you can save yourself!

[@waatchdogs6184]

Oh hon you deserve better. No one deserves to get abused. He's a sad soul needs help. Sick mind evil heart. love yourself love your son. I wish you well. Don't be anyone boxing bag. Happy you found the strength and courage to leave.

[@maitongvue5397]

Viv ncaus cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj yog ib tug txiv dev siab phem npaum no lawm nrauj kiag thiab foob Kom nws poob txhua yam kiag xwb mas cas koj tseem txuag nws thiab no

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

Hope not all dr like him otherwise I don’t want to go see doctor anymore cause I hate fake people.

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

I don’t know. Maybe it’s just me, I don’t really sympathize for this woman. You aloud this to happen for so long. Hmoob women that uses the excuse of saving the kids/face/family whatever ever your excuses is, you aloud it!.. No one’s fault.

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

I not sure how to handle this kind os abusive man. Is sad for this lady to be in this relationship but once, twice and third time and still be with him.

[@msxeevang9418]

Cas koj ho tsis foob nws kom nws poob hauj lwm thiab os viv ncaus aw koj mas yog ruam los yog siab zoo li lau

[@Llis3322]

Now THIS is what I call an "inspirational story"

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Hopefully story like this open up eyes for many hmoob pojniam to not be as dumb, not be so desperate just to have a married woman status.

[@myprecious6751]

I wouldn't say that...its more of stupidity not inspirational. Anyone who chooses to stayed with abuser day after day, months after months and years after years and continued to allowed him to abused her is a sucker for punishment and abused

[@hmoobxwb7119]

Your husband is smart but not wise Never want a Hmong doctor husband, Just soo prideful cocky husband

[@tubsuavvaj2959]

Cov muam nej hais lus meskas nkaus xwb es hais tsis paub li os hi...

[@lisavail5712]

I don’t understand this woman his controlling you but he’s not always home so when his not home then get yourself & your children out get to your family oh my gosh can’t believe this woman why kept staying all that time!

[@jenythao2292]

Sister when i listen o your story i do get sick end tired for my husband 1 day I leave to

[@koumoua2980]

Tus niam tsev, you don’t live in Laos, You live in the United States and you still let that loser physically and verbally abused you for that long? In this country everyone knows that there’s a lot of help out there. Your ex- is an evil person and he doesn’t deserve to be a doctor at all. You should have put that f…,. Loser in jail a long time ago! But, I’m so glad that you finally have the strength to let that loser go and have a happy life now!👏