Kuv mloog txoj neej neeg no es kuv quaj kiag lawm os😢😢😢 5:26
@maryly095 ай бұрын
I don't blame you at all. ❤ You deserve love. I hope one day u find the kind of love that u want and deserve. It's easy for people to point fingers at you when they didn't live your life. Wishing you the best. ❤
@seeyang93276 ай бұрын
What a sad story. She feels sad but its her karma. She don't deserve love because when she had it she didn't treasure it. Thanks for sharing
@KathyLee-o7k6 ай бұрын
I agree with you...
@sadysong5 ай бұрын
She deserves love. It isn’t fair to her to be forced to be married to someone she doesn’t want.
@terryher34876 ай бұрын
That’s life in general. You just have to be the best version of yourself in all situations, so that you will not regret later. Even she was forced to marry, she must be the best version of herself at all time.
@TubTxheebCaaj6 ай бұрын
Ua neej nyob yog yus khiav li cas los tsis dim lawm ces yuav tsum tau tig los sis hlub tus yus tsis nyiam kom tsim nyog txoj kev ua txwj nkawm nyob Nplaj Teb. Cov neeg coj li tus poj niam no yuav muaj kev khuv xim loj heev thiab yuav tau kev txom nyem mus rau yav tom ntev.
@1zootxiv3 ай бұрын
Wow! Such a sad story 😢
@tusneegzoohlub77246 ай бұрын
It’s easier for everyone to judge. Imagine being forced to marry and stay married to someone you don’t like. Sad for the both of them they never got to experience real love.
@pkcyang29106 ай бұрын
Why so many people bash on this lady. Imagine youre in her shoes, forced to married someone you dont like at all. Its like being kidnapped, bare children for someone you have no feelings for. I understand her completely. Her life now is bad is because shes older now.
@vikkiexiong1016 ай бұрын
Agreed!
@cindyvang92156 ай бұрын
Just show how much ppl are ignorant and lacking in common sense. These ppl that bash on her are the worst ppl to be around with since they know truth to false and right to wrong.
@leefamily60616 ай бұрын
Agree! If it was the other way around, we all know the husband would marry a niam yau because he doesn't like her. Yet she can't divorce him and marry a txiv yau
@muajtseebhlub26576 ай бұрын
If she did like him no one forced her to remain marry to him. One, only idiots will put themselves to let other know that they are idiot.
@pangpha84196 ай бұрын
Vim koj tsim koj tus txiv es koj thiaj yuav tau tus los tsim koj thiab os viv ncaus aw.
Thanks for sharing your story sister! Such a sad story, a story of a forced married. Only ppl who are in your shoes will understand you. I can feel your sadness and pain. You were married young and were forced to married to a man u don't love. U never had the chance to explore what is bad and good in a man til u got older. Sometimes, it takes a whole lifetime to learn about the good and the bad, and sometimes it only takes a shorter amount of time to learn. Be xtra careful on your next choice or path in the future bc not a lot of men are good. Good luck sister!!!! 😊❤
@xiongvang95846 ай бұрын
Wow smh, koj ces hmoov tag lawn os
@sombunman55516 ай бұрын
Txhob dag 2 koj mam zoo siab kawg koj nrauj tsis tau nws zaum no nws muab koj nrauj kiag tsis los ib sim neej li lawm . Zoo koj siab kawg li os
@shujilor11274 ай бұрын
Hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li mi viv ncau😂😂😂😂
@hmoobqabteb79436 ай бұрын
1. G yog tim koj. Tim koj txiv muab koj muag 6 koj tus txiv. 2. Koj laus2 lawm. G zoo nkauj thiab g hluas lawm ces mus ua neej zoo 2 ces g guarantee!
@pkcyang29106 ай бұрын
Yog kawg
@maryly095 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@kabyaaj61276 ай бұрын
I listen to the whole story, and i cry because i feel very sad for the husband.
@hmoobqabteb79436 ай бұрын
I don't pity og 1975 who forced marriages!
@lnchannel11866 ай бұрын
You didn’t feel sorry for the wife??? She was sold into marriage! She never had a choice
@monkeybanana92696 ай бұрын
These type of men are no true victim. If you know straight out someone doesn't like you, why would you still marry them? You are asking for it and here is the consequence- a life filled with resentment and bitterness. Honestly, do you really think love can be forced? The kids ought to be ashamed of themselves too blaming their mother when she is a victim in many ways including by her parents and a system that failed her. What a mess up!!!
@siavang56376 ай бұрын
Tus niam tsev no ces lub neej piam tag ib sim los twb yog tim nws niam thiab nws txiv moo. Kuv tsis feel sorry rau tus txiv tsev. Vim nws yeej txaus siab los nyob lub neej li ntawd ne. Pab tsis tau. Qhuab yuam ib tug neeg los ua txij nkawm mas yuam kev deb thiab txhaum loj heev . Kev hlub yuam tsis tau. Kom peb tau taub. Tus niam tsev no lub neej ces nrog nws khuv xim nws ib tiam neej yug los tsis tsim nyog kiag li. @@monkeybanana9269
@lnchannel11866 ай бұрын
@@monkeybanana9269 amen! I agree with what you’re saying!!! This woman was sold to a random stranger to save her family and forced to stay with him for the rest of her life without her consent. She lived a sad life
@lnchannel11866 ай бұрын
If he was sold into marriage like you, he would’ve married multiple wives. It’s not your fault. You never loved him. No one can blame you. So unless we’ve been in her shoes, we can’t blame her. We get tochoose who we love. She didn’t.
@isarili7476 ай бұрын
Yes, but he never married another girl . If he doesn't want to have life with her, he already dumps to marry another lady. But now she has learned her lessons that there are not many good men out there . Hmoob tias nim no mam khuvxim ces lig dhau
@lnchannel11866 ай бұрын
@@isarili747 I understand. But he was not sold to marry her. When a woman doesn’t have a h choice, it makes her angry and bitter. And as women we need to empower eachother instead of putting eachother down. He was not a bad person. And neither was she. If your daughter was 13 or 14 and sold off to some random stranger and forced to become his wife for her entire life, how would she feel???? It’s easy for you to judge her. But put yourself or your daughter in her shoes
@pkcyang29106 ай бұрын
@@lnchannel1186 I agree with you on this
@maryly095 ай бұрын
@@isarili747 he never married another woman or cheat on her bc he was ugly and knew he couldn't get any other woman. Even if he wanted to, which I'm sure he wants to bc she was horrible to him, he wouldn't be able to get another woman. That's why he chained her down and refused to let her go no matter how much she hated him or how badly she treated him bc he knew if he lets her go he won't be able to find another woman. He's humble, but humble bc of his physical appearance. I don't think he truly loves her, but he tolerated her bc he knew he couldn't find another woman only.
@nalychannel4456 ай бұрын
Txawm yog li no kuv thiaj hlub2 kuv txiv os
@kuvtsisxavlikojxav6 ай бұрын
Tus vivncaus, cas pab koj tu siab ua luaj rau koj lub neej os. Ua ib sim neej nyob, peb txhua tus yug los ua ib tug ntxhais yeej ntshaw tus uas peb nyiam peb hlub os. Pab hlub tias koj ua neej nyob rau qhov chaw uas koj tsis muaj txojkev xaiv. Txhob tu tu siab rau koj lub neej thiab os mog. Yav dhau los ces yog kev kawm rau koj rau peb lawm xwb. Es ua Ib siab, naghmo hloov tsis tau lawm, tabsis yog tseem muaj txojsia nyob tagkis, hloov lub siab lub ntsws. Es pib dua tagkis mus xwb. Zam txim rau yus tus kheej, koj twb los lees tej kev uas koj tsis zoo lawm, ces forgive yourself and take one day at a time and learn from your past. Thank you for sharing your life story with us kom peb kawm tau ntawm koj os.
@ItsYou26 ай бұрын
These kids should try to understand your situation and put themselves in your shoes....smh
@Karena3126 ай бұрын
Sister, don’t blame yourself so much too. It’s easy for us to judge you until we wear your shoes.
@dustywind066 ай бұрын
Hmong women back in the days did not have a voice. Imagined being forced to marry someone you dont like and your own family refusing to help you. You have no support and no foundations to help you. This lady felt helpless and had so much resentment because she was forced to live a life she didnt choose. No matter how much the other person loves you, if your heart isnt in it, its not in it. I witness my moms suffering and i know how this woman felt.
@17maukabtsab6 ай бұрын
I actually feel bad for this couple. The husband did force himself on her and she had to bare so much at such a young age. Depression carried out for so many years for both of them, so you can’t blame her for showing no love for him as she was suffering too. She was so desperate for love that jumped on love when she finally received it. I hope she finds it in herself to just learn to love herself.
@maiherojj5 ай бұрын
It's sad that she was sold, she is the victim and i feel for that. But this story sounds more like regret. She regrets never loving her husband. Regardless of how they ended up married, she only remembers how much she hated her husband no matter how nice or how much he loved her. Because he felt guilty for forcing her to marry and stay in the marriage, he did not expect her to love him. He was the one always doing everything in the marriage. I mean yes, she was robbed of her freedom to chose someone she loved, but the fact that she hated someone who has treated her with love she now regrets. 😢 She shouldn't punish herself so much, but i think it's because she dinally realized that no one woild treat her as good as her first husband.
Nej cov poj ntsuam muaj nyiaj ceevfaj txhob muab nyiaj rau yawg nrauj pom & paub txog. Vim lawv pluag2 ntshaw2 koj pob nyiaj xwb. Hnub twg koj nyiaj tag ces koj tsis muaj nqis rau lawv. Nej txhob mloog2 lawv dag ntxias, kavtsij mloog xovxwm txog neeg siab phem ntxias kaus nej nyiaj.
@yuxianlee28646 ай бұрын
So sad mus yuav tus yus tsis hlub tsis nyiam mas laj laj ua neej tseem nws hlub yus li tsis muaj nqis😢😢. Pab koj tu siab kawg thiab pa hlub nws kawg vim nws tau cev tsis tau lub siab tu siab tas ib neej😢😢. Nyias tu nyias siab vim tsis tau tus hlub raws siab xav ua neej nrog kua muag tas tiam😢.
@sylavue59776 ай бұрын
Wow that's the truth, we only change for the one we love. Sad story
@songvang13096 ай бұрын
This story made me miss my dad. 😢
@cheexiong16346 ай бұрын
Such a sad story.. we cannot judge as we are not in her shoes or his.
@xaiher92366 ай бұрын
hahaha 👏👏👏👏👏 nyuam qhov ntxim li ko xwb koj twb zoo2 siab tia lub ntuj nim muab tau ib tug txiv raw2 koj lub siab ntshaw koj nyiam2 rau koj lawm no ne twb tau tu raw nkau li koj lub siab nyiam siab ntshaw lawm ca tsi uv tiag naj es tseem muab nrauj lawm thiab maj 😄😄😄😄😄
@bradyoung14776 ай бұрын
Lady, you don't know what you have until it is gone.
@xayxiong10616 ай бұрын
Exactly
@maryly095 ай бұрын
As if any of us do. No one knows what the future is and what's gonna happen.
@himalayansalt48586 ай бұрын
Feel sorry for you. I understand that no matter how much they love you, if you don't love them you'll never see their love.
@Rydrsv6 ай бұрын
She was traded like a piece of property for a deal, raped, kidnapped, forced to live the rest of her life with a man who did not think twice about her feelings. She is the victim.
@cindyvang92156 ай бұрын
Amen!
@MariaBaokaliaCha6 ай бұрын
I agree.
@sadysong5 ай бұрын
I agree! People may say she is reaping the karma but I beg differ.
@maryly095 ай бұрын
@@sadysongagree. I don't think it's karma, but more like making bad decisions and encounter horrible people in her life like we all do. Each and every one of us has encountered someone bad or evil at some point. Is it our karma then?
@maryly095 ай бұрын
When she said he tried to have s3x with her and she refused, but eventually just lay there like a dead lifeless person for him to do his business. Come on!!!!! How could anyone not feel bad for her and still aaid these mean things to her! She got forced to marry him when she was only 13!
@simvang71016 ай бұрын
Yog lawm, koj ces lwm tiam los tseem yuav npam koj os mog.
@hmoob-usalauj39346 ай бұрын
He only wants your money. You deserve your second husband. Two evils are meant to be together. Don’t regret your choice.
@meelor74126 ай бұрын
21:44 this woman deserves what she wants. Always remember some handsome man have black heart. Karma caught up on her for real. Feel so sad for the husband that she don't love him..😢😢😢😢
@lnchannel11866 ай бұрын
First off, we must remember that she never chose her first husband. She was sold into marriage, we can’t blame her for feeling how she feels. Women never had a right back in the day.
@maryly095 ай бұрын
Would u have married him and loved him then if u think she was so horrible and didn't deserve his love? Quit blaming her when you're not even in her shoes.
@maryly095 ай бұрын
Also, if u said she deserved what she got, then the same goes to the husband too. He deserved that treatment from her for forcing her to marry him and chained her all those yrs.
@hlub77636 ай бұрын
Until you have worn her shoes stop making negative comments about her. You don't know what it's like to be married to an abusive monster.
Tus niam tseb aw.....kuv xav tias txawm li cas los koj yeej tsis dim thiab nrauj tsis tau lawm ces ntshe qhov zoo tshaj kawg tau ua ib siab lam hlub nws kom tag tiam no lawm xwb os.....mloog yeej hlub koj tias koj tau tus txiv tsis raws siab xav, ho hlub koj tus txiv tias cas koj ho yuav ua tau siab phem ua luaj tsis pab hlub nws me2 thiab es kom nws ho txhob tu2 siab tuag kiag los nws tsis qhia koj na.
@dejntshiabhawj82246 ай бұрын
Koj twb nrhiav tus ua koj hlub es ces yeej meem hlub tiag hlub tiag ntav.
@kaoxiong61486 ай бұрын
You can only reap what you sow in life…a good person will not fall to do good all his/her life. With that being sad, she’s not a good person either…she’s been selfish and not thinking about what his father did to save her whole family from being killed crossing the Mekong River…😩!
@isarili7476 ай бұрын
Poj ntsuam tsis mob vim koj twb tsis hlub nws nes, ces hnub no tus koj uv2 ua rau koj mob tshuav tuag ces koj paub tau tias koj tsis hlub koj tus txiv uas tuag koj txiv mob siab npaum li koj ntag mas . Hnub no koj mam paub ces lig2 lawm os
@nagxyoojchannel91606 ай бұрын
Neeg tsis sawm zoo tiag li os yom, cas yus yuav ntshaw tej tus txiv zoo2 hlub2 yus ua luaj, pog no npam lawm xwb vim nws tsim nws tus txiv xub thawj heev dhau.
@meegarden34626 ай бұрын
Koj raug yuam xwb, koj tsis muaj kev txhaum. TAB SIS, Yog koj lub siab txawj ras, tias nws yuav koj los nws twb hlub hlub koj es koj ua ib siab tig los hlub nws vim txoj kev zoo, ces koj tau zoo ntxov nawb. Nws twb sov siab zoo siab hauv lub neej ib zaug. Poj hmoob aw, Koj siab tawv dhau lawm os, koj yeej tsis muab koj txoj kev hlub rau nws li. Nws muab kev hlub kev zoo rau koj tag nrho nws lub neej los tsis yeej koj lub siab hnub no koj thiaj xav txog lig.
@bliavangify5 ай бұрын
Tim koj txiv xwb os! Vim koj txiv muaj koj muag tuag kiag rau koj tus txiv lawm ne!
@koumoua29806 ай бұрын
I totally understand where this woman is coming from. She was sold and forced to marry someone she didn’t like. I feel sorry for her. At the same time, I do feel for the husband as well. She never loved him, they had wonderful children together and their children loved their dad, but their mom was tutoring their dad through out their lives. Feel sorry for him. To bad for them both.💔😢
@SouaChang-v5q6 ай бұрын
Me viv ncaus tsis muaj hnub es koj yuav tau ib tug zoo li koj niam nkauj txhav qaib nraug txhav noog lawm nawb
@pajthao48136 ай бұрын
Txog koj zeeg quaj thiab ua siab ntev2 uv ok
@yangher66656 ай бұрын
Koj tus txiv uas zoo twb yog ib sab qhov muag tsi zoo es nws thiaj txo fwj chim hlub koj heev tab sis koj tsi sawm zoo yog nws lub qhov muag Pom kev ces koj yeej paub txiv nej siab Phem
@nraugzoovwj96386 ай бұрын
Dont blame your husband. He loved you dearly no matter how much you hate him. He was willing to sacrifice his life for you, hoping someday you would make it fair in returning some loves but only a wish. Now you found someone you love, but he doesnt love you. You still forgive him because you love him. Now you experience exactly what your previous x had went through. I feel bad for those heartless people.. only realize it when it's already too late..
@cindyvang92156 ай бұрын
No, you forget that she didn't force the new guy to marry her. He wanted her as much as she wanted him too, but he's just an a$$hole. She got unlucky with picking new spouse, so that's her only fault. Get it right.
@maryly095 ай бұрын
We never know how our partners would turn out. It's a 50/50 chance they'll turn out to love us wholeheartedly or they don't. In her case, her new lover didn't love her truly. It's not karma. I'm sure u have relationships where the other partner didn't love u wholeheartedly too. Would u say it's your karma too then?
@khouathao42136 ай бұрын
Poj niam tsis sawm tau zoo ces zoo li koj ko mas
@SunnyVue-g5x6 ай бұрын
Ntuj aw koj mas ntshe zoo siab li zoo siab xwb los ho
@khotsev6 ай бұрын
Tus muam aw. Lig lawm os. Koj tsis nyiam cas koj tsis nrauj thaum tseem hlua2. Ua ib siab os mog.
@cindyvang92156 ай бұрын
You didn't listen well. She couldn't devoice or else she would get disown. Common shit hmong put on the women to force them for things they never agree to.
@aleelee12295 ай бұрын
Dev yeej tsis sawm zoo ces yog koj.
@thestoryofmylife69796 ай бұрын
I tried so hard not to cry. But so sad. 😭
@PajKubLee6 ай бұрын
Ua rau kuv puab hlub kuv tu txiv tuaj zog lawm os
@jackieyunan48992 ай бұрын
Noob poj nrauj ces zoo li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
@baylaoyang4456 ай бұрын
Txob tusiab os hmoob niag niam tsev . Tej laus ib txwm piv lus hais tias . Pua xum noj xua dev xum noj quav no os mog .
@ncouazooxwbya15526 ай бұрын
Vuag!!! Tus niam tsev, thaum ub koj hais tias koj niam koj txiv yuam koj yuav tus txiv, tab sis twb tuaj nyob teb chaws America for so long es koj twb paub tias koj tsis hlub nws why divorce him, let him go!! You never humbled yourself and accept the reality of marriage to him. So sorry for him of dying from broken hearted because of unloved from the wrong woman that he devoted his life for so long!!😢😢. You may had been happier that he was dead, the reason why his children’s crying so hard because they knew, saw their mother behavior was tortures their father ever since😢😢. May him rest in peace!❤️
@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb6 ай бұрын
😭🥰
@maitongvue53976 ай бұрын
Haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim ces yog li no tiag niam qhuav haum xwb koj twb nyiam nyob lub neej zoo li no ces koj thiaj tau lawm tiag
@hzhmobile46666 ай бұрын
Kuv tshai tsam zoo li no e kuv thiaj li hlub2 kuv tu txiv ua zij kuv lo yua xwb
@xisha8736 ай бұрын
Xav txog Lig dhau lawm os
@darinsaesong9006 ай бұрын
Tsam no mam paub ces lig rau koj dhau lawm os niam tai
@kaciewanh19866 ай бұрын
Your children and other people can't blame on you all. Because you have no love, no feeling no life with him that's why.
@YingVangSha6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@pahouaxiong61426 ай бұрын
Koj txiv yeej xaiv tsis yuam kev rau koj. Koj tus siab thiab khuv xim koj tus txiv ab tsis nas? Nws tuag lawm ces koj tau lub npe zoo lawm los más? Zaum no ces yog koj zeeg, ib leeg yeej yuav tau quaj, raug tsim uas ntej yuav tso lub ntiaj teb no tseg.
@hlubtushlubkuv98816 ай бұрын
Tej laus 1 txwm hais tias heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim no ces yog zoo li no los mas tus me niam tsev aws.
@pahouayang10636 ай бұрын
Muaj tseeb tias lub ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj txivneej txawj hlub pojniam menyuam lawm os tamsim no na.
@CouaYang-fw8fq6 ай бұрын
You had a wonderful loving, loyal husband but you didn’t want him. So sad. 😢
@TheMrjxiong6 ай бұрын
Grass is not greener on the other side. Grass is greener where you water it.
@NtsibYaj6 ай бұрын
Cas hais tau los kua muag ua luaj li os
@yonglor81826 ай бұрын
xum yuav tus hlub yus tsis xum yuav tham hluas nkauj os tus viv ncaus aw peb mas hlub hlub koj tus txiv qub li koj puas xav tias mob nws thiab os viv ncaus aw
@MaivvwjThoj6 ай бұрын
Nim qhuav ntxim xb kj nas haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim
@Lucasgaming102136 ай бұрын
Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb. Koj twb tau txoj kev koj xav2 tau lawm
@caaspasvang74276 ай бұрын
Thov kom tus thaub no tsi txhob tig rov saib tus poj niam rov tom qab so sad i feel so bad for this guy😢😢
@VaitnamAng6 ай бұрын
Poj niam siab phêm nyuam qhuav phim xb o
@chongx5426 ай бұрын
I understand her. I was forced to marry my husband in the USA but I was not as bad as her, I learn to love him as time pass by, but deep inside still hurt.
@maivlauj-hv8sp6 ай бұрын
me niam laus aw tus yeej yog tu tuag lawm xwb os
@PH-ThailanD6 ай бұрын
😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢
@Justin-q4w6d6 ай бұрын
Your late husband said: that’s what you get hoooooo 😂😂😂
@chouyang29556 ай бұрын
Vim koj tshuav lawv nqi xwb os.
@boonmelyang24806 ай бұрын
Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim
@jasminexiong36036 ай бұрын
Me Viv ncaus tsam no kj twb tau tus kj hlub2 thiab nyiam cas ho tsis ua siab ntev li thaum kj hais rau kj tus txiv. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb..
@CampingFever6 ай бұрын
Love it when karma catches up with you
@xaiher92366 ай бұрын
Cov menyuam quaj po muag ntwb nti tab si koj ma luag ntxwb ntxi 😁😁😁😁
@alexlee18756 ай бұрын
Twb hais rau nej cov pob ntseg tias kom tseg kiag yawg nrauj thiab poj nrauj lawv yg neeg dag ntxias nyiaj xwb no ne.
@pajyeeblaujchannel15196 ай бұрын
Mam UV twb tau tus koj nyiam nyiam ne uv tsis tuag
@BeaSong-d3g6 ай бұрын
U dont appreciate what u have in front of u....this what u get. God is teaching u a lesson that love isnt perfect as u want. Love is never guaranteed. Stop complaining.
@caaspasvang74276 ай бұрын
Sister koj tsim ib tus neeg mob siab ces yuav Muaj lwm tus tsim koj mob siab thiab os nawv, I didn’t feel any sorry for you that was you deserve for it
@touyang34036 ай бұрын
Lej twb tawm tas, mam mus yuav, thiaj rov los kab paus qhuav ces thooj li no-
@hawjpaogeeable6 ай бұрын
Good. 😂
@xeeramirez94616 ай бұрын
After listening to this story this lady blam everything to her husband I think she pure evil she got to much love now she going to find what is no love is like
@toosay2006 ай бұрын
Ua cas koj tsis muaj koj niag txiv Dev rhov npe tom bank account thaum nws muaj koj $20k naw? Tab tom phim xwb.
@chuvang54876 ай бұрын
Niag neej tsis sawm zoo ces tsim nyog tau ris txojkev npam li ko tiag ! koj yuav hais dabtsi li ko tias hauv ntiajteb no yeej tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej zoo es koj ne koj puas yog neeg zoo thiab ? hais lus yuav tsum saib zaub rau ntsev thiab ma ? thaum koj tsim lwm tus cuag li luag tsis yog neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws hnub no koj ho raug lwm tus tsim koj cas koj ho txawj txeem thiab tu siab.