Koj Tus Tub Twb Tsis Qualify Kuv. 7/13/23

[@kaoxiong6148]

Glade that you seek Christ and found people who will love you and support you, Christ’s family…so glad that you stood up for yourself and acknowledged God’s love for you when you needed Him…👍🤠!

[@jackstar254]

I'm pretty sure God said to respect and forgive your parents. Your parents are the world according to the bible. So much being Christian!

[@Faifferz]

@@jackstar254these people are evil. We rebuke evil

[@mayervang-her9610]

Yes, I give you so much respect and love for speaking up to those old folks. You’re a solid and strong Hmong women.

[@NtxooLis-ot5ib]

V baby Yvonne

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

So happy that you seek Faith in God! Happy for you, sister! Yes, being a Christian is wonderful ❤ Also, so proud that you stood your ground and put those Oldgies in their place!!!

[@mainengvang1314]

Amen sister. More power to you. May God continues blessing and you stay strong.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

Sister, you get the award of the year! I'm so very proud of you for putting and pushing yourself through school and coming out on top to show those in-laws who's top dog. I'm also proud of you for knowing the truth of God's love and not turning back, no matter how much your husband's family begged you. Their fake love and respect for you is nothing compared to God's love. Thank you for standing for the truth and telling his family the truth. I would've been very disappointed in you if you had accepted their offer and went with them. Thanks for sharing your sad but inspiring and satisfying story!

[@Oppo-nm5ou]

,z

[@tvang8]

I’m glad you stood your ground. I cannot stand Hmong people who thinks their person is always the perfect one. They always judge the other person, especially if she’s a female. What makes your son more special when he’s also divorced and also comes with child support

[@nyajloojyaj600]

Bravo… you are right 100 % about our culture and found God’s love , compassion, kindness and grace , Amen…

[@Loves_GodSR]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I applaud this sister's story. It's so sad. But she's so strong. You are an inspiration

[@bbyg559]

"Not there for my struggle, don't be there for my success "

[@kevincvang]

Hell!,, with the Hmong OG culture. God is good and always good! You’re on the right path.

[@koslis6833]

It is not the Hmong culture problems. It is the Hmong people brain have the problems.

[@wisteria4550]

Good job, sister. At first I thought you would be soft that finally his family learn to accept you. I’m glad you stand strong on your ground. People like that don’t deserve you. God loves you.

[@kerlee8898]

Tus sisters aw koj ua yog lawm nawb mog koj niam pog txiv yawg tsis yog saib tsis tau koj ho yeej yog lawm tsis nyiaj koj neej koj tsav tag tag lawv thiaj li ua npaum li ko rau koj nawb av tsi mus tseeg vaj tswv xwb zoo lawm mog txhob rov qab rau koj niam pog txiv yawg lawm naub mog tsawm hnub no koj tsi rov lawm lo yeej tsis noam qhov twg lawm lawv cov cem cem koj ce yog cov yuav npa lawm xwb ntag ho

[@niammeejvaj2980]

But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. Luke 6:27-28 If you are a god child you should know to forgive and it will set you free and find peace. I know they did you wrong but why hold so much anger and grudge when that is not what god Bible tell us. Forgive and let go of the hurt and it will set you free. Just move on with your life✨️🙏❤

[@monkeybanana9269]

No. Not when it comes to betraying one religion belief for another. Glad she didn't forget where her belief stand and not switch over to the old way.

[@prommis208]

Yes, forgive them for what they've done to you but never, never agree to go back to the old ways.. that's the number 1 sin and if that's the only way to stay in good terms with them then move on. Your conscious is clear and God can see through you.

[@Gazalle12]

beautiful story. Glad you have the courage to stand up for the truth and for other women

[@chiaher3962]

Peb hmoob txoj kev cai ces yog dev npua cai xwb thaum lawv yuav poob nyiaj ces lawv lam hais ub hais no xwb thaum lawv yuav tau noj ces lawv mam nav yus xwb hmoob ces ib txwm txhawb tus muaj thiab txhawb tus tuag xwb koj ua yog lawm os I 100% support you sister.

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

Me ntxhais you are a good fighter. Hmong traditions is dev npua cai. You fought hard and justice is served. Stand your ground. What you said is true you don't need to go back to have a good life. You are now have a wonderful life.

[@leemai8893]

Thumbs up for standing up for yourself. Good decision sister!

[@simpleemae8065]

Wonderful story. Do not give them credit for torturing your path to success, as if you never had it in you to start with! Also Its not the old tradition, its the people. Twisting/corrupt rules can happen in traditional culture or church. But thats some bs from the OGs. Church/bible has come a long way from excluding people, its overdue for hmong to use tradition righteously too.

[@SierraTango117]

God bless you. May the Lord continue to guide you.

[@pkcyang2910]

Good for you! Stand your ground. They know you are successful now and want to use you only. Dont turn back. God is number 1. He's the creator of all life.

[@thaixyl1767]

Aaàààà1aaaà1

[@7stars2love]

Niam ntsuab teev tsis yog veejtswv os, yog VajTswv no na.

[@chaovang8791]

Thumbs up sister. I'm so happy that you are strong and stand up for yourself. I'm proud of you!

[@Mloogzoo]

Hmoob cov kev cai oh oh oh.... ho ho ho..... no no no....

[@knegirl]

Religious and education does not defied you, it is your personality

[@2usa87]

Hmoob tu cwj pwm phem li xav kom txhob muab coj lo siv lawm, thaum lawv txom nyem tsi suav lawv tabsi thaum lawv zoo neej mam li lee. Qhov no phem tshaj qhov phem lawm, ua li neb ua zoo lawm, pab neeg or txoj kev ntseeg twg hlub yu kawg mu qhov ntawd zoo lawm. Ua tsaug tau neb muab neb lub neej lo qhia rau ntiajteb paub thiab cov Hmoob nkhau2 yuav xaum nawd. Ua tsaug

[@NiaArtemis]

Most satisfying story I’ve heard!

[@paofuyang9670]

Yup, if you can't love me when I'm poor, dont love me when i become a doctor!!! Bye!!!

[@maivang8072]

Koj ua yog lawm nawb tsis Thxob. thimroqab nawb

[@colleenchan9872]

Tsis need need ua leej twg tus nyab li os! Yog koj tus txiv hlub koj ces vajtswv twb qhib qhia kev kaj siab lawm ces nyob qhov ntawv xwb! Nrog koj zoo siab os 😊

[@tweetiebird100]

Wow! Very satisfying to listen to! Good for you for putting your in-law in their place! Kudos to you, sister! Evil in-laws!!

[@palee4760]

I love how you stood your ground

[@sayyang767]

Very good sister you do good job everything you said I am agree 100%. One more thing don’t go back never ever listen what they say.

[@lisvajhuam3553]

Tus me ntxhais koj cov lus yog tshaj plaws tsis vev 1 los kiag kuv OK txhua nqi lus koj hais

[@seelor-logansgrandpa2938]

Koj yeej ua yog lawm so tus ntxhai cov niam pog txiv yawg coj phem npaum li no lawm ces koj mus vajtswv hlub koj zoo tshaj plaw lawm

[@goldeneagle2394]

Some parents really are like that. Happened to me too.. they act like their son is so perfect when really he a yawg nrauj too.

[@bluewhisper5008]

I'm a hluas nkauj never been narried but since I'm only 4'9" 100lbs. She said I'll have kids that can't even climb a pepper plant and I look like a chicken that's about to die. She refused to look at my kids, call me nyab. We paid for my dowry. We've been together for 24 years. My kids are almost 6feet even taller than her son(my husband). I still don't have a wedding but I dont care for one. Ill do an American wedding soon but only inviting people who matters. Now that she's old and nobody wants her especially the nyab she loved so much so she moved in with us and ass kissing me so much. Some days I hate her , but she's still the mother of my husband so ill let her stay here but I don't love her.

[@Yajsuab]

Qhov koj ua ntawm koj yeej yog qhov yog lawm vim tias thaum ntej lawm twb tsis leej txais koj es thaum lawv paub tias lawv yuav tauj zoo no ces lawv mam lis paub tias muaj yus. Koj tsis tsuas lawv nqis thiab txawm lawv foom los yeej tsis raug koj vim lawv twb ua tsis yog lawm. Tej niag laus ntawv ces tsuas paub muab lawv lub meem mom tias lawv yog niam yog txiv cov los quab yuam kom yus ua raws lis lawv nyiam. You did nothing wrong, and I'm glad you stood your ground.

[@neenee763]

What a great story, remind of my marriage my inlaws werent willing let me become their daughter inlaw because i wasnt good looking to match their son. Till this day im greatful for my life with my husband and the future we built, i dont care about the culture marriage to acknowledge us that we are a couple.

[@EmTsu24]

Mine didn’t want me as their nyab because I’m short but my husband loves me and still married me, protect me and stand up for me.

[@neenee763]

@@EmTsu24 omg same being short and not good enough, im glad your hubby stand up for you ❤️

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Yes I understand you...if I was you I would do the same things..you not wrong ..did the right things

[@billythao152]

Good for you.. let this be a lesson learned to all the women out there. Have pride in yourself, and don't give in.

[@keith23615]

I like this story

[@วัฒนาบัญชณิภา]

lub caij no cov poj niam los yog cov ntxhai ntse tuaj lawm feem coob cov ntxhais kawm ntawv tshaj lij dua cov tub hmoob tej laus cov dev npua cai yuav tau muab tshem tawm los siv neeg cai txhob siv fwj chim los tswj thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem thaum lawv mus saj tau vaj tswv li suab thaj lawm ces lawv tsis kam thim rov qab lawm ov hais tau zoo rau cov hmoob laus kawm kawg li mas

[@baovang6691]

I'm happy for you and your success. It's was all an excuse from your husband's family bcos they didn't like you that's all. It have nothing to do with the tradition. But i believe that you are a child of God that's why your path lead you to Him. So forgive them and move on. You are a child of God. Blessings to you and your family.

[@PandYThao]

This story is so funny to me. It reminds me of my own where in my first marriage, my parents were using the traditional ways/relatives to obtain my dowry then when I wanted to divorce the traditional way, all of a sudden, I didn’t exist. Then I met my husband now and what do you know, my parents are there again trying to collect another dowry the traditional way. I’m like whatever with these OGs, I’m so done with them. 🙄

[@Taumliab]

This story sounds like you made it religious. Let you know that it's not religion. It's the person, the families ONLY!!

[@boummesanxayyang9023]

li cas los yuav tau sib zam txim mog koj twb yeej yuav lawv tus tub lawm tiag thiab ces yuav tau zam txim tau lawv thiab ua qhov zoo xwb mog

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

Amen!

[@brendayangvang9756]

Tos ler g nyiam koj los koj yeej phem.nev me viv ncaus k9j ua heev zog ler

[@vkaotxia7779]

Cov niag niam pog txiv yawg lub hlwb ruam 2tseem nyob 1950 neb txhob mus khes nws li tsis muaj kev npam li mog hmoob lub siab lim hiam xwb

[@Karena312]

Never heard that the person that go talk to a divorced’s parents has to be a divorcee themselves. This is the first time I’ve heard of this. These in laws are observes.

[@tweetiebird100]

Just a load of crock! No such a thing ever existed!

[@lisvaj7375]

Yep this is true stupid traditional in Hmong weddings, it must be a divorced Mekong to go be the Mekong for a divorced bride.

[@PM-oe5mk]

No such thing. It was just the excuse the guy's parents used to prevent the marriage from happening. These in-laws are a real piece of work and they have zero shame: first they make up a lie, then later when the dil is successful and they want to be a part of that success, they act like everything is hunky-dory and the dil should now come be a part of their family. Outrageous and shameful behaviors!

[@tswvlor9877]

You meant absurd, right?

[@pliayang783]

Kuv xav tias yog cov neeg muaj hlwb xav ces twb cia li txaj muag es twb tsis hais dab tsis cia li tias zoo siab rau neb sib2 hlub mus lawm yav tom ntej xwb. Cov neeg tsis muaj kev xav ces rua hais kom zoo nws siab xwb. May the lord our god bless you two and continue living for yourself not for others.

[@maimoua1371]

Wow tsuas muaj lub teb chaws meskas tswj es cov ntxhais or poj nrauj thiab muaj lub neej xwb . Very proud of your woman keep loving God but forgive them

[@susannelor7216]

Sister, first of all, they didn’t want you because they made-up a rule saying that only the divorce guy can come and do your wedding. That’s a shitty rules and I’ve never heard it, that’s why your father in law got karma. My advice to you is don’t be there nyab and don’t call them mother and father in law. And be a good rode model to the old and young generations so they don’t do the same thing to pog nrauj. I think that in the past, I’ve heard a lot of neej neeg about these stories and at the end, the nyab had to take care of the old mom and father in law, you be the one that gets the karma. But listening to your story, it brightens my day at the end. You are my rode model

[@missysmart8620]

Koj pab kwv tij koj tsis nyiam koj es lawv lam uas phem2 raus koj xwb os. Don't give in to them. Stand your ground and that's ok if they get all piss at you. Enough is enough.

[@zoolikuv]

This lady needs to humble down a bit. I understand you're angry, but just have them dismissed and move on. No need to bla-bla-bla!

[@thongxiong4038]

Agreed! She must have not learn from God the part of forgiveness!

[@zeegobntawmvajtswvluspovth9600]

Zoo qhov ko j tsis this os, vajtswv yog tus zoo tshaj os

[@lukemoua9027]

Txhob thab2 cov hmoob no lawm xwb mas lawv tsuas ntsawg koj thaum koj ua neej zoo .

[@Maiangelthao]

You did the right things sister, don’t listen to them

[@NiaArtemis]

I am proud of you!

[@GniaBXiong8386]

Sister, kuv tsis yog ib tug thawj coj, tab sis kuv kuj tau coj dua kuv cuab kwv tij los lawm, Zaj Tshoob, Txiv Xaiv, Vaj Lug Kub los kuv yeej kawm hu tib si, kuv kuj tau ua Mej Koob, Kav Xwm, Txiv Xaiv pab rau cov ntseeg Vaj Tswv thiab cov teev Xwm Kab huv tib si. "Qhov hais tias ua tsis tau mej koob rau cov yawg nrauj yawg ntsuag yog los ntawm tus tib muaj kev ntxub ntxaug lub qhov ncauj xwb.

[@ryochinsama1]

You 101% right sis. Kick them negative people to the curb. No matter their status. You gave them chance already.

[@nkaujsuabzoo9126]

Hais koj Kom nyhav ntag vim lawv ntxub2 peb cov uas yog poj nrauj ntag

[@zeegobntawmvajtswvluspovth9600]

Tus sister aw...yog tias koj tseem this rov qab mus ua li lawv kev cai thiab ces yog koj kev ntseeg tseem tsawg heev

[@TheEvilTwinCG2]

I’m not a Christian but I’ve been to other Christian family funerals and it’s sad. It gets really pack when it’s about lunch time, and then they all pack the food and leave and it’s empty again.

[@Faifferz]

It’s because Christian’s don’t do 24/7 at the home. They do service and eat, go back home or go back to cook, then come back.

[@maihouavue6440]

Hais yog kawg tus sister! Facts hurts!

[@maiher5334]

Just tell the story! Gosh!

[@nalaher3022]

Thank you for saying it. May has changed her style to more of a lecture, and we don't listen as much as we used to.

[@ntxoovntxoo8413]

I would have cut ties with the in-law if I were you. No need to spend time and energy on ppl who want to disrespect you when you need them to fulfill their parent duties.

[@nkaujhmoob9056]

Hom nyab no mas zoo thaum nws txom nyem mas thiaj los thov koj xwb os, hnub twg tus nyab muaj nyiaj ces hnub ntawv ntag lau koj yuav ntsib dab naw😊

[@tweetiebird100]

😢😢😢yus rov qab haus yus khob tshuaj mas yeej daw thiab iab tsha j plaws lis os lawv. Nco ntsoov cia mog...yus twb xub xub ua phem rau luag lawm yus tseem cai thiab? Pab tsis tau lawm mog.😢

[@youwatchme3631]

I'm tired of our people attitude.

[@nkaujhmb]

I can't listen to this story...cas tus poj niam no ua niam ua luaj. I wouldn't say you're strong but stubborn and siab me. I kind of feel sorry for your in-laws. I can see why they don't want their son to marry you!!

[@maylo8993]

I'm glad you are a strong woman but one thing I would of have done if I was you, I would of never married their son and I would of making him pay child support and never married him he is nothing, why pay for yourself and he just get you free. Love a strong woman like you was just hoping you not married their son, due to them being so rude and mean to mistreat you.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

"Would have/would've "

[@nouyang3166]

If u didn't got your PhD, his family wouldn't have accepted you.

[@victoriaherr3551]

Feel so bad for the husband. The title is super offensive. If the wife sees her husband as such a loser, how can she love and respect him as her husband? The main focus of her story is how much of a loser her husband is and how his parents should have thanked her for being with such a loser. Everything else was fillers.

[@xyoojmeelauj7355]

Qhov tseem ceeb ces yog vim lawv tsis nyiam koj xwb os..es nrog koj tus siab rau tsev neeg siab tsis zoo

[@jackieyunan4899]

Stay single, you'll be happier..

[@kaofoilee987]

Nkauj nrab Aw Koj ces phim tus thaub kov xwb os 😊

[@pajyeebyaj1179]

Sister, they never wanted you, but the moment they hear you got your Doctor's that's when they know you and want you. That's why they come for you. If you didn't get your doctor's, they still wouldn't know you!

[@tiachang-sn5ic]

Good job 👏

[@meexiong9961]

Yog lawv twb tsis kees koj ...txhob ntshaw lub niag neej lwj siab o poj hmoob....Cas tseem yuav nkim koj li nyiaj mus rau tus niag niam pog thmxiv yawg ntxim ntxub li ntawd thiab na lo

[@greenladylalaland4222]

Some Hmoob patents only cares when the children are successful and have money 💰 🤑. Then they accept and take you in . Parents always think that they are right ✅️ 🙄

[@baoyang6565]

Proud of you standing your ground sister.

[@yajliabcuam5609]

May koj puas txaus siab rau koj zaj no thiab puas yog koj xav rhuav koj tus kheej txoj cai thiab naj tos kuv hais li los vim koj tus kheej yog ib leej niam ntawm koj cov tub thiab txhob rhuav222 yus li hmoob txoj cai nawv

[@simvang7101]

Koj puas yog neeg zoo thiab? Thaum hnov koj zaj neej neeg lawm. Yeej nrog koj tu siab. Yog koj twb yog ib tug Dr lawm txob muab tej yam no los tham 2 lawm os mog

[@Faifferz]

Shoulda told them they have to find a doctor to help with the wedding too 😂😂 since they couldn’t find a divorcee

[@tshuxeng5267]

cov ko tsis yog hmoob, lawv yog lawv ib Co neeg nkhaus2 xwb os.

[@souaxiong5982]

Me aws lawv dag xwb lawv twb tsi kam tuaj ua qhov rai rau peb ne peb twb nyob MN thiab tsuas yog nyob zos me xwb lawv twb tsi kam tuaj os dag xwb 😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@maipha8560]

This lady is too passionate. Just be grateful for the lesson they have taught you so you don't follow their paths. There's nothing wrong with the culture and traditions. The problem lies upon your husband's parents and not the culture or traditions. Blame it on them please! You're 18 years old and can make your own decisions. No need to add or include toxic and cruel people like your husband's family in your life. Your husband is also 18 years old, let him make his own decisions. He should know whats right from wrong. You owe no one nothing, life is too short, do what makes you happy. Tell your husband parents that you've already learned your lesson, now its time for them to learn theirs.

[@niammeejvaj2980]

Amen🙏❤

[@amazinggrace8136]

Why are you still going grudge to things that doesn’t even matter? You shouldn’t go back bc you have seen the truth that you are a sinner and in need of a savior. Everything else/traditions is man made and means nothing. That should be the only reason why you can’t go back, Not how they treated you. It’s sounds like if you could go back in time and they took you in, you would accept it VS knowing Jesus now. Check your salvation and be born again. Forgive them and move on with your life.

[@yuxianlee2864]

Hmong tsis hlub hmong ces zoo ko ma. Kev Cai qub Los twb tsis paub sib hlub li nyias ua nyias thaj nyias hlub nyiaj cov xwb. Vaj tswv hlub txhua leej txhua tus tsis xaiv tias koj zoo li cas. Tu siab kawv vim kev Cai qub tsis paub hlub neeg li😢.

[@geuher7315]

Amee to this story

[@chouyang2955]

Es yog li ntawv lawv tus tub ho yog yawg nrauj maj.

[@baovwj352]

Viv ncaus kj twb tsis yog lawv tus nyab tsis pab los yeej tsis npam li os koj niag txiv ko yeej tsis hlub koj li sav tseem kom koj muab nyiaj mus them kj txiv xwb nws tsuas siv kj xwb os

[@judysaykao-lee7336]

Religion has nothing to do with it. It the greedy of hmong people' s putting down on a divorce woman. So, stand on your ground. If they look down on your previous life.

[@jackstar254]

-_- the reason you accept your in-laws invitation to become their families daughter-in-law is because you have no idea what is going to happen in the future. If your husband dies, your son will have no where to go, and that is thanks to your high ass ego.

[@pyang6075]

This story annoys me 😅 in laws like that, it’s better off without them. They just gonna bring you down and such a burden

[@greenladylalaland4222]

Everything you emphasized is correct.

[@kevkawmkevpaub6189]

This story is a good example of how educated people become ignorant and get ripped off by the church. This woman said Jesus didn't discriminate, but what she didn't know is that Jesus called her a "dog". She will be ripped off for the rest of her life, because her knowledge she worked so hard for doesn't set her free.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

Oh really? How is it that Jesus called her a dog? Please explain. 🤣 you're ridiculous!

[@jackstar254]

@@MonaLisa-de4cp Jesus say to forgive. Let your in-laws marry you, but continue to go to church. Only people with egos so big can act so big to her own children's grandparents. STFU and let your parents marry you into the family. Your child has their blood.

[@PhengYang-x8z]

Kwv, koj qhov nqi Advertise/khaus xab nas txhob yuav kim kim, tsuas yuav li lwm tus KZbinr xwb es peb cov kwv tij thiaj xav tuaj kom koj Advertise mas

[@geyang2562]

Who cares what anybody says! Live your life the best you can make it! Just listen to what they said, making excuses, “hmoob lub qhov ncauj hais xwb, tsis muaj dab tsi li!” Exactly right, hmoob lub qhov ncauj xav hais li cas thaum yus txom nyem thiab thaum luag tsis xav yuav yus ces lawv hais li cas los tau!

[@tweetiebird100]

This is a perfect example of " a sword with double edges!" Ib rab riam 2sab ntse ces yog li no tiag lawv. Yog tus niam pog txiv yawg no tiag.

[@hlyvang5707]

So he is a divorcee and she is a divorcee , but he’s too good for her?? Lmaol he ain’t any better

[@fuemoua8345]

xwm kab dab qhuas quav dev yog dab ntxwg nyoog xwb