Lub Neej Tsis Pom Tom Ntej. 8/16/2023

[@my2cents54]

I feel so sad for you grandma or auntie. I wish you well and healthy. I hope the next one is someone who loves you deeply and treats you and your kids well. One advice tho, please love yourself as much as you can as you are still worthy in others eyes.

[@meexiongvang3373]

Hmoog txoj cai muaj qees yam zoo thiab tiamsis muaj ntau yam tsi yog txoj cai ncajncees rau hauv lub ntiaj no rau tibneeg siv vim yog txoj cai ntshaws meejmom,ntshaws nyiaj cai limhiam nkaws xwb.tsi yog txoj cai muaj kev HLUB rau tibneeg ntauntau tiam los lawm vim yog lawv tsi muaj kev kawm tej niam,txiv thiaj tsi muaj kev hlub. Nrog koj tus siab tus viv ncau hmoog koj raug quabyuam yuav txiv vim koj niam koj txiv ntshaws nyiaj xwb os me vivncai. Mus ntseeg VAJTSWV mam hlub koj mog.

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Tus me vivncaus aw cas pab koj tu siab rau koj lub neej ua luaj os. Thov kom lwm tiam koj los thov tau ntaub ntawv zoo los tau zoo niam zoo txiv thiab nrhiav tau ib tug txiv hluas2 los hlub koj mog. Peb poj niam tsis txawj koom siab sib hlub tseem Nrog txiv neej muab peb tsim cas tu siab ua luaj. Ua lub ntuj tsaug peb hmoob tsis muaj teb chaws peb cov poj niam hmoob thiaj tsis raug tsim li koj lawm os niam laus aw. My heart breaks for you.❤

[@Xavtauntsejmuagcedagtxhuayam]

Tus thaub Laus khuam hlub koj Tseem koj tsis hlub los Vim koj mos koj taus hos koj los khuam hlub Tus Txiv thaub Laus ko thiab Vim koj Twb paub tias Nws Yog koj Cov me Nyuam Txiv tiag2 koj koj Txhob tawv2 heev li ko Es koj mos Muag Raws Nws li 1tug Tus ces yeej Zoo lawm koj mos Nws nyiam koj Tab Sis koj tawv Dhau koj mas kuv mloog mas kuv cem qhov koj ruam heev Vim koj Twb mag Nws Ua Tag muaj Tsheej pab me Nyuam lawm los koj tsis Siv koj Lub faj chim Poj Niam los Ua Kom Nws hlub koj pheej Ua Kom Nws npau Raws rau Koj Ne kuv mloog xwb kuv Twb xav xyuas khauj tsuav hlau rau koj pob Kub lawm..... hais Tag Nrho Tus Ua txhaum rau koj Lub Neej thiab Ua Phem Tshaj ces Yog koj Niam koj Txiv Vim Lawv muab koj Muag lawm Lawv tsis hlub koj

[@NYC.2019]

The niam tais is so brave. She fought her whole life. So sad. 😢 thank you for sharing your story.

[@khuevang9805]

Zoo heev qhov lub teb chaws ncuav hmoob tau tsiv teb tsaws chaws tsis li ces hmoob tej cai quav dev no yuav caij tsuj hmoob.

[@pkcyang2910]

Wow niam tais aw cas pab koj tu siab ua luaj rau koj lub neej os. Ib tsoom Hmoob, nej khuv2xim lub tebchaws nplog na, yog peb tsis poob tebchaws ces peb ib tsoom ntxhais tseem raug txojkev quab yuam li no mas. Tu siab yug los yuamkev rau ib leej niam leeg txiv siab phem muab koj yug los ua luam xwb os niam tais aw. Thov vajtswv pab kom hnub txojsia tu es Vajtswv coj koj mus nyob qhov chaw tau zoo os mog.

[@MsBL32]

Sold, raped, beaten and tortured, so sad that the culture is so primitive back then, and I blame your parents for being selfish to allow that to happen to their own daughter, so sorry you had to go through this. I hope you find peace.

[@misstaytay9694]

The culture is still primitive and sexist. It’s only cause we live in America now so we have adopted American values. If we lived in the motherland today, we would still be sold to old men. Today the women there just voluntarily do it because they want to come here.

[@cheyang911]

Kuv lub neej zoo ib yam lis koj thiab os tus siab tsau yug niam yug txiv tag ib sim neej os😭txawm hai tia ib tug kav ib tug los tsi tau ib paub lis cia lis tsau yuam mu yuav txiv xwb mas tus siab tshaj plaws tag ib sim neej lis os lawv Aw leej twg tsi tsaug ces yeej tsi paub lis os

[@abaoabao9782]

nyob zoo o niam Lau aw cas mloog kj cov neej neeg tag CES ua 6 kv mob2 siab o .cas peb cov poj niam g muaj ib txoj cai li o.😢😢😢😢

[@maihouavue6440]

Peb Hmong pog koob.. pog.. thiab niam tau ib txog kev phem npaub no los ib cov Hmoob txiv neeg los twg Tsis change lub siab phem lis. Nim hnub no Nyob mekas teb los ib cov txiv tsev los tseem cov lis no thiab. Tus siab yug los ua pog niam Hmoob.

[@sibthamnrogdr.b837]

Pab koj tu siab os...Peb txiv neej HMOOB thiab HMOOB culture siab phem heev rau peb cov ntxhais HMOOB zoo nkauj os mog...lwm tiam txhob los ua ntxhais HMOOB lawm os...ua tsaug rau koj zaj dab neeg tuuusiab os

[@yajsua1082]

Cas kuv mloog e kuv yuav quaj thaum pib txog thaum xaus 😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@gaohmoob6816]

Niag txiv siab phem yeej yuav them hauv dab teb tsis txawj tag. Ntuj yeej tsis pab cov niag siab phem qia neeg li ntawd. Txhob quaj lawm mog tus viv ncaus. Zoo siab koj di kiag niag dab ntawd lawm!

[@ntxawmthor-hp3vf]

Cas kuv mloog txoj neej neeg no kuv yuav npau taws ua luaj li ne niag tsov tom txiv neej ko yuav npam yuav tuag tsis tu siav lau xab maim thaum ub mas tej laus yeej tsis hlub me nyuam li os yog kuv mas kuv yeej tsis zoo siab rau niam txiv li os

[@waatchdogs6184]

No way I'll waste my daughter's life like this! I'm so sorry my heart breaks for you 💔

[@pajtsab358]

Pp

[@kaliaxiong9962]

Hlub hlub koj tus me ab tshaj plaws li os...... nrog koj mob siab thiab poob kua muag tshaj plaws li os mog 😔😢😭💔💔

[@meeyang8411]

Zoo siab kawg meskas pab muab cov txiv dev Hmoob uas ib txwm khav lub ntaus thiab ncaws coj mus hlob kav hlau.

[@missysmart8620]

Tus mes niam tais awb cas koj zaj neej neeg nos yuav uas raus kuv chim thiab mob siab tag npaum lios. Nrog koj tus siab os.

[@mavang8366]

Nrog nws tu siab kawg li os, cov niag neeg yuav tau ob peb tug ntawd ces siab yeej phem tshaj li es thiaj li yuav coob 2 tus los mas viv ncaus aw, lwm tiam mam li los tsim nws pauj os mog.

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Koj niam koj txiv ntshaw nyiaj dhau lawm, nrog koj chim siab kawg li tus niam tsev, yog koj tsis txaus siab ces nco ntsoov cov tsim koj ntawv cov ntsej muag tseg hnub twg koj mus txog Zim Txwv Ntuj (pem ntuj), koj mus zuag zog cov ntsej muag liam tsis hais koj niam koj txiv ntawv coj mus hais plaub nram Tsev Yim Theeb Cai, coj lawv mus txiav caj dab, qhia no rau koj

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

What a very sad life you lived grandma. I’m so sorry that fate has not been kind to you. May this lifetime, you have paid all your karma and the next life will be much better. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@pebyogkeebcagneeghmoob31]

Hmoob txoj dev npua cai ces zoo li no tiag. Tau npaum tav no tiam lawm los hmoob tseem coj txoj dev npua cai zoo li no. Muaj ib hnub twg hmoob txoj dev npua cai no yuav rov tig los khi hmoob cov txiv dev thiab cov niam cov txiv siab phem li hiam tsis hlub tej me nyuam zoo li koj niam koj txiv lawv tsis hlub koj no xwb xwb li nawb😢

[@touyang3403]

Tu siab kawg! Koj mus tau nom phaj tsev neeg. Thiaj ncaws xwb tsis ntaus

[@PH-ThailanD]

siab npaum kom tuag lawm log thov tau mug nyob lub txwm siab phem. ntshaw luag npaum kom tsw yuav log hlub yuav log rwm

[@toojxeebthiabxisvideo7050]

👍👍👍❤

[@MyConfessions]

I'm more mad at the parents and the old man's wives than at the old man himself. Everyone allowed for this to happen to you such at a young age. This is what happen when women allows for men to marry multiple wives and parents are money hungry.

[@BB01138]

I feel so sad for this girl. Stripped of her teenage years. What a miserable life she lived. 😭 What a nasty old husband to torture her all her life, and even having the guts to tell her that he will be a ghost next to her til the end of her life. He deserves all the karma in his afterlife.

[@ktsuyaj]

Cas hlub Koj ua luaj. Zoo qhov peb tuaj nyob rau tebchaw mekas Lawm.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

This type of story make me have more hatred toward our Hmong people

[@maolee8152]

Yeap!!! For me, my disgust is more towards the older Hmong generation!

[@maylo8993]

You mean hmong old men.

[@monkeybanana9269]

The women are no better. Most support such a system too even some of the newer generation. Sad to say.

[@HouaVue-yd6du]

@@monkeybanana9269 agreed. It just isn't the Hmong women. The sad thing about all of this is that many hmoob women sat by watched and allowed this to happen.

[@xongypai3413]

Pab kj tu siab o tus niam tais aw 😭

[@magicalunicorn5853]

This is the meaning of Human trafficking. So sad for this life. Learn from this and never ever do this to a human being. No one should be able to force you to be with someone to sold his 3rd wife.

[@vamntujlaim]

Tus txiv neej hmoob no mas yig ib tug hmoob Ua siab phem tshaj plaws lawm es thov kom peb cov Tseem nyob txhob ua li tus txiv no ntxiv lawm nawb. Kev npaum yuav nrog nraim nws Txawm tias tshawm tiam los nws yuav npam kom kawg.

[@flryprn745]

What a SAD life u had to endure!! You R a strong woman to not commit suicide!! If you have nothing to live for, live for yourself. Love yourself is a great accomplishment!!

[@kevinthomas3539]

Sorry to hear your story of a hard life sweet grandma. I pray that you will experience peace and love moving forward!

[@samlao2489]

Muaj li no thiab los.....siaj man....😊😊

[@lotusvert7024]

Ho ! Uacas koj niam koj txiv lawv yuav ntshaw nyiaj ualuaj li os..

[@mckayxiong2472]

Haha ua tau txiv li no mas thiaj yog tseem2 txiv neej hmoob nawb hehehe

[@nyuamnplaum]

💗💓💗

[@maikayang8311]

Tim koj niam kj txiv ntshaw nyiaj xb os 😢😢😢

[@xeeramirez9461]

Yog tim koj niam thiab koj txiv vim lawv ntshau nyiaj

[@riagianga2886]

Ku ntxub moob txoj cai no heev cov niag ntsej muag txiv neej no ma lim hiam cuag dab xwb

[@Neegsiabzoo2024]

Pab Koj tu siab mog. Tiam no Koj yug los xiam tiam. Better luck next life time😢

[@maithao1139]

OH MY!!!! The physical & emotional abuse this girl had from the old husband, the 2 wives & her own parents/sibling. Breaks my heart!!!

[@อรอนงค์เเซ่วื่อ]

ชลชลล

[@mouavang3371]

Ua cas nyob ntiaj teb no yuav muaj cov neeg siab phem phem npaum li no thiab os😂😂😂😂

[@lortoulongchannel1060]

Mas tus txiv tau mas zoo nyab karg.

[@TX2MAFAISP]

Nej​ Tiam​ ntawv​ ruam​ dhau​ lawm​ os​ cov​ niam​ cov​ txiv​ ntxhaw​ nyiaj​ dhau​ os​

[@babyanjel1875]

Thov kom koj txiv thiab niam tuag yug dua es txhob muaj ib tug menyuam ntxiv. Thov tus txiv dev siab phem no npam 30 tiam yug rov los ua tsiaj rau ntiaj teb tsim nawb.

[@sydneythao6428]

Cov txiv dev laus zoo li koj tus txiv dev no ces ntxov tuag ntxov dim xwb.

[@tueyang3966]

Lub neej niam hlob niam yau

[@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb]

👧👧

[@phem55]

I guess we are not in your shoes we won’t know how painful it was…nkawm khau tswlwj koj tiv, zoosiab koj los paub Vajtswv os tu vicncaus..

[@triaxiong9835]

That mine mil life. But she able to run from most of her force marriage. She live in farm land to forest for months but still got forced to married a boy who not even married ready but they want to marry her to do their farm work. Still end in divorce.

[@maylo8993]

I hope your husband gets his karma before he dies for treating you like that.

[@chouyang2955]

Neeg ntshaw nyiaj ces zoo li. Yog kuv ces nug tus ntxhais xwb.

[@khuevang9805]

Tus txiv neej ntawm zaj neej neeg no tuag lawm los tsis tau. Tu yog tseem nyob kuv xav tuaj ncaws ib ncaws taw ua ntej nws tuag.

[@兰儿]

hmoob yog ib haiv neeg uas lim hiam ti txha nkaus

[@YiaMb-i5h]

Kv ntxub hmoob txoj cai heev yuav tiam twg hmoob mam paub Tau niaj nhub no los hmoob tseem coj li qub g paub

[@thalee5526]

This is the saddest story, ever! This old man and his two wives deserve to rot in hell!

[@MaivThoj-hh1jp]

kuv mam ntxhub hmoob txoj cais qub tshaj li os tej tug niag yawg laus muaj poj niam tag los tseem mus tham hluas nkauj thiab mus caum luag tej me ntxhai meme ntxhim ntxhub tshaj li os

[@abaoabao9782]

cas kv mloog es Nim ua 6 kv los2 kuas muag o.

[@mikalove5613]

Pab tus siab rau cov laus yav tag lub neej zoo li no kswg😢

[@saykaomee]

Niag thaub laus dab ntxwg nyoog lim hiam. Lwm tiam koj yug los ua huab tais hos nws yuav yug los ua koj qhev es koj mam tsim nws pauj.

[@michaelf2700]

Tus niam tais aw nrog koj tu siab heev li os. Ua cas yuav nkim koj lub neej tag nrho rau niag thaub laus ntawd. Thov kom lub ntuj rau txim rau tag nrho cov niag neeg siab phem hauv koj lub neej os.

[@vwjkajnrigchannel9372]

Vuag cas tu siab ua luaj li os 😭😭😭😭😭

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

What a sad story

[@xaiher9236]

tu viv ncau aw koj yuav tau niag yawg ntxwj nyoog lo ua txiv lawm lawm os koj niag txiv ko nw tsi yog tib neeg nw yog ib dab noj nyoo hau txia xwb os mloog koj zaj dab neeg ko ta ma ntshaj siab lawm hov ntau li os 😂😂😂😂😂💔💔💔💔💔koj niam thiab koj txiv ma ntshaw nyiaj tiag2?

[@maimoua1371]

Ab lawv aw puas yog thaum ub Es nkauj iab muab bitter apple 🍎 6 nraug 00noj Es thiaj muaj lub cursed los txog tiam no Es txiv neej hmong thiaj tsim2 poj niam hmong tag baum no .so sad tus me niam tais cas yuav g tsim nyog koj yug los ua 1 tug me ntxhais zoo nkauj li os

[@MSMAIYANG]

So angry with this niam tais. Tu siab thiab ncim siab ua luaj!

[@chiliayang5832]

Pab koj tu siab kawg li os yom 😢

[@boybb8256]

Nyb zo os niam laus

[@tsawbhawj9543]

Ruam ua Lauj muab tuag xwb pob yog Laws yuam ce tuag tiag Los pob

[@neejntsuagnochannel5028]

Zoo heev li o

[@shuyingvang8970]

Your case fall into the golden rule. The one who has money make the rules.

[@nyiamnkawgsaiv9748]

I’m wondering if the silver bars are counterfeit. Lol

[@kaciewanh1986]

Vidncaus, pab koj tusiab kawg li uas yug los xiam tiam. Twb tuaj txog USA ces nrauj kiag, tsis quav ntsej lawv hais, mus rau nomtswv Meskas xwb.

[@UejejekeHehejrjke]

Nej liam hiam heev muab nej tus mi nyuam lom tuag hlub heev

[@taxiong7086]

Cov nyiag hmoob nplog yeej ib Txwm ntshaw thaub laub hmoob nyiaj.

[@tsawbhawj9543]

Thawm nws phem yus tig ua zoo ce nrhiaj Los muab tuag tag nws tsev ntawv Los pob

[@sadysong]

Makes me so sad how corrupted people can be. It’s so sad.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

It’s Hmong people

[@pahouayang1063]

This story is so sick

[@khuevang9805]

Tej niag laus thaum ub mas taub hau loj tas2. Quav dev tiag nim no kuv saib mas tsis muaj ib tug ntse li. Tos Nom Pov yog tus ntse tshaj plaws.

[@nancymoua4982]

Ua cas koj twb tsi xav yuav koj niag thaub laus cas thaum lawv khias koj tsi cias lawv khiav lawv. yus nyob yus kom puv hlis yuav ua cas mam ua.

[@nkaujmoobleeg]

Koj nam koj txiv pluag dlhu hwv lawm ces kawg muab koj muag 10 choj nyaj xwb. So sorry for miserable life.😢

[@hmoobmekas2567]

Cas mus txog hos tsis muab tshuaj lom pab niam txiv DEV LAUS ko tuag kom tag xwb nas

[@gaosayvu6554]

Yog nyob teb chaws Mekas no mas koj niag txiv thiab nws ob niag pojniam yeeg mag kaw jail tib si qhov lawv 3 leeg muab koj quab yuam mas txhaum tuag nthi li os, cov niag niam txiv dev ntawv mas yuav tsum npam ob peb tiam pauj li nawb

[@payang6882]

Twb Nyob meskas lawm es ua cas ko tseem tso koj tus me ntxhais rau lawv na yus txog twg ces coj nrog yus hos

[@itsmaichee]

This is soooo sad. Life was really sad back in the day. Everytime I hear these stories, I’m so grateful to be born during my time and being where I am. Makes you realize the privilege you have compared to some 😭. Wish you happiness sister.

[@bvang8370]

Hmoob sells their daughters and this case is a great example. Do you know Hmong's word for marriage? It's "yuav" as in "yuav pojniam". What does the word "yuav" mean? It means "to buy". So Hmong buy their wives. If the man buys, the girl's parents sell.

[@pkcyang2910]

So true

[@hmongamelikas6683]

Sorry your dad brother and cousin sold you off, hmong culture does not represent what you just said please check your facts before stating such accusations against the hmong community

[@xiongandcheng]

​@hmongamelikas6683, can you explain what it means if not to sell or buy ?

[@hmongamelikas6683]

@xiongandcheng yuav ua li Cas nej thiaj li tau Taub, yuav txhais li Cas nes. Yuav los sis sawm mus ua peb neeg tsis txhais hais tias peb mus yuav nws yam li tus tsiaj. Ib tug tsiaj peb mus khom nqi hauj ces coj los yug los sis tua. Yuav los sis saw ib tug nce neeg mus ua lub neej yaj los kib txoob nploog kom nto ntuj nqhag kom nto lub ntsi niam txiv kom kav ib txhiab mus ib txhis. Hmoob ua muaj txheej txheem muaj kev ua raws kev Cai, mekas ua "wedding" muaj kev Cai xib fwb tuaj mus hais lus, hmoob muaj mej koob tuaj mus hais lus. Cov ntxhais ua tsis paub kev Cai tiam sis pej los mus muab txhais hais tias hmoob phem heev tiam sis nws hais nws tsev neeg xwb kuv tsev neeg tsis phem li nws tsev, kuv cov muam mus ua neej xwb tsis yog kuv muab kuv tus muam muag rau lawv yog tias pauv tau ces kuv tus nkauj tus muam yuav nrog peb nyob kom mus ib txhis tiam sis yog kev mus ua neej xwb, yuav tsum kom tus yawm yij hlub yog tsis hlub lawm ces xa tuaj rau kuv ua nus ua niam txiv. Ua ntej nej yuav muab los txhais rau ntiaj teb nco ntsoov tiam koj tsuas hais koj tsev neeg xwb kuv tsev neeg yeej zoo xwb qhov phem los tseem kho qhov zoo tseem muaj khaws tseg nawb. Amen

[@HYa-z9n]

Yuav, does mean buy, but it can also mean keep, take, accept, or going to like ... Yuav noj, yuav Hnav, yuav hais, yuav mus, yuav saib, yuav tseg, yuav cia, yuav siv, yuav ntxhuav etc...

[@周会宁]

😢

[@hmoobmekas2567]

Cas tseem yuav hlub niag kas tsaub ko thiab yog kuv mas xya tawm plaws los xwb muab tso plhuavrau qhov cos tuav nphaws nphawv kom niag kas tsaub ko lwj mos nyoos kom tag xwb ho

[@larryxiong9558]

Vim yog yus ruam yus xav nyob mag rws xwb ho tsi khiav thiab ces tiv qws xwb muaj kev zoo taug yus tsi taug yog mag qw tsi tau txaus xwb o

[@blueberrysmilie1]

She was sold and bought as an animal and treated like one. First and second wives will have karma for playing a part in torturing another women.

[@greenrose-ix6uw]

This is very heavy heart broken 😢

[@ZooYeejYaj-is9hq]

yug los xiam tiam

[@caaspasvang7427]

So sad 😭😭

[@EmchahnejHoa]

Kuv xav muab kv lub nj rau koj pab kuv tham og niam ntsuab teev kj puag kam pab kuv tham

[@tinaxanit]

people are stll doing this today... so sad

[@chuvang5487]

Yog thaum tus twg los tsis nyiam tsis hlub koj ces tig rov qab mus soj ntsuam xyuas koj tus kheej thiab koj lub neej seb koj yog hom neeg zoo li cas ? koj lub siab thiab tus cwj pwm koj coj li cas ? peb ua neeg nyob yog tsis sib haum 1 tim 1 ces tej zaum yog tim luag, hos yog tsis haum nrog tus 2 lawm ces tej zaum yog 50/50 tab sis yog dhau txog 3 tug rov yav sauv lawm ces yog tim yus 90/100 lawm.

[@bliaxiong9563]

Cas koj tsis nrauj thaum nws ntau koj tom church es Meka hus police rau nws mas.