Lub Neej Nyob Foster Home. 7/26/2022

[@liaxiong8129]

WOW!!! Cov me nyuam aws cas nej zaj me dab neeg ntsuag es yuav tu siab ua luaj li os thov vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau nej 3 me nus muag kom tau lub neeg kaj siab lug xwb mog

[@hmoobsister9534]

What a heartbreaking story! God bless you siblings!

[@TUBNIS]

Omg this is such a sad story😭😭😭. I can't stop my tears

[@lisvaj7375]

These stories pull on my heart strings. Makes me love my kids more. I adopted my daughter out of foster care and I can’t even imagine my life without her. You all made best of your situation. I wish you all the best.

[@pajhnubxiongchannel5246]

Tu siab heev li os,cov mi nus muag aws.,,zoo siab nej sib nrhiav tau lawm os

[@paynicha4458]

Thank you for sharing your story. This story made me tear up a bit. I'm glad you were able to find your younger siblings. stay blessed

[@nhialee1550]

What a strong woman u become. God sent you to be a good soul to make a difference in life cycle n support the unfortunately souls in this world.

[@amazinggrace8136]

Don’t take your foster parents for granted. God bless good foster parents for stepping in to do the jobs of bad parents. It’s not easy being a foster parent!

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu kuv siab tshaj plwas li lawm os 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@ashlyysng9849]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os hmoob aw

[@tusneegzoohlub7724]

This is such a heartbreaking story. Had me in tears. I have 3 kids of my own, 8yrs old, 6yr old and 3yr old. I am an orphan myself. This story breaks my heart so much. I cannot imagine putting my kids in that situation. I am 32yrs old but still yearn for my parents love and support. Sadly they passed away. No matter what happens I will never give up my kids. The only time they will ever be without me is if I am no longer in this world. I don’t understand how people can just leave their kids to foster care, or families.. so sad

[@slor6485]

Some ppl will never understand what orphans been thru. I'm not an orphan but my spouse is and it is so sad and heartbroken to see when his relatives turn him down. I remembered when he wanted to marry me and he went to ask his relatives for help. They turned him down unless he's already got money. My parents didn't make it hard for him when we got married bc they know his situation. He has blood siblings but everybody gotta make a living so we all suffered for a very long time. We both went back to school and now living a good life with our 4 beautiful children. His relatives just started to accept us a couple years ago. Sad that some ppl only want to love and reach out when we're successful. I'm so sorry you lost both your parents at such a young age.

[@tusneegzoohlub7724]

@@slor6485 you are so right. They only acknowledge you when you are successful. My brothers are going through the same thing. Gotta put in more extra work for future help.I’m glad things turned out well for you both. Gotta love ourselves.

[@koumoua2980]

What a sad story🥲 It breaks my heart listening to this story!💔 I’m sure your parents love you and siblings, but sometimes people make bad choices in life. Be thankful for your foster family(parents) that they opened their home for you. You and your siblings are very lucky to live in the USA. If you were lived in Laos, you three probably end up being sold to some rich Hmoob families and making you become slaves as little kids until the day you marry and move out of their lives😭 I grew up in Laos and that’s what happened to me and my sister because dad die and the uncles took us away from my mom and they made us work for them 24/7 from morning until dusk💔 life is never fair😭 God to bless you and your siblings!!!

[@geuher7315]

Wow.... me ntxhais aw koj yog 1 tug me ntxhais muaj lub siab hlub kawg li os.. nrog nej cov me nus muag zoo siab nawb

[@lisathao92]

Tus me niam tsev aw nrog koj tu2 siab thiab lo2 kua muag kawg rau koj txoj neej neeg no os, muaj niam muaj txiv yug los tsis muaj niam muaj txiv nrog luag hu tsis muaj niam muaj txiv hlub, niam thiab txiv ces nim tuag tsis muaj chaw es kom paub tias tsis muaj niam muaj txiv lawm os. Txoj kev ua ntsuag ciaj ces yeej tusiab tshaj plaws nyob rau qab ntuj no tsis muaj ib yam dabtsi yuav los pauv tau li os mog es nrog nej 3 nus zoo siab tias tam sim no nej tau lub zoo nrog luag tsis txom nyem lawm no os.

[@ไปรยาsae]

💔😭😭😭😭😭😢 very sad story

[@trishhome1367]

So sad...I wish and hope all these foster kids find love.

[@pajlee3167]

Kohj hai yog kawg lawm os

[@nyajloojyaj600]

Ua cas yuav Hais tau tu siab ua luaj. It is very heartbreaking story , can’t hold back my tears…

[@universbestlife6960]

💔😭💔

[@N.Ly00]

Shame on the parents and shame on the uncle and aunt. As an aunt, I can never, ever throw out my nieces and nephews and not love them like my own no matter how my husband hates them.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Wonder what happen to the “clan.” No Hmong ties there. It’s already sad their parents are losers but their uncle saying - it ok for you all to be homeless. Humanless heart.

[@Mai1nOnly]

🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@kaciewanh1986]

Sooo...sad 💔💔💔but happy ending you found each other ❤❤❤

[@maivxeemthoj2344]

Kv pab like rau koj lawm o

[@pajthao4813]

Nrog nej tu siab os mog pab me nus muag ntsuag no yus twb tsis tuag mam sib hlub xwb mog

[@suelo617]

Lub neej ntsuag ciaj li no tu siab tshaj plaws li os tus mi ntxhais

[@xeexiong6908]

Koj zaj neej neeg no ua rau kuv lub kua muag poob vim txoj kev ntsuag ciaj thiab ntsuag tuag lo tu siab ib yam li os tus sister 😭😭😭😭

[@colleenchan9872]

Forgive your parents and be thankful to the care taker…nej mas lucky tshaj plaws

[@paullor1398]

Lub neej tham tau tu siab kawg thov kom nej lub tsuas zoo mus ib txhis

[@samnamnayuhsanikhon-samoox5745]

Finally a story that isn’t about adultery

[@maithao7757]

I agree!

[@onlygod5667]

Forreals!

[@XiongGuy777]

🤣

[@monicaxyooj905]

Wow! That's really sad beginning but I'm glad you reunited with your family again ❤️. Thank you for sharing your story and I learned a lot from you.

[@beyamvwj4881]

Lol my husband says the same 😂

[@user-lx5yp8kx2s]

It is good thing that your uncle let you go to foster homes. Your life maybe worse living with your Uncles's family and your parent's. Hmong orphans are in worse situation such as physical and mentally abuse. I understand that you lost your parents and you then also loss your sibling to a different foster home and the miss for your family members but in the other hand you each in a home that provide enough foods, clothing and worm home to go to. Thanks to the court system for watch out for orphans kids.

[@MaiProject2024]

I agreed. It could mess orphan in the heads so bad that they have no self esteem and confidence.

[@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb]

txau hlub kawg

[@musibsim2151]

Sad story😭😭💔💔

[@NrogkuvMloog]

What a sad story. My heart breaks for you and your siblings. I'm glad you guys found eachother.

[@koslis6833]

You 3 kids are the winner of your family. Your dad and mom are the looser and they are not the good model parents for your kids. Congratulation you 3 kids got good life God bless.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister kuv zoo siab hais tias koj tseem nco txog koj roj ntsha hmoob zoo kawg hlub koj tus nus thiab niam hluas nawv mog, zoo phem los niam txiv muab tau ib zaug ntshav rau koj es koj thiab muab hnub no ces lawv need los hlub nawv mog

[@nouvue6672]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@hlileeyang8183]

God bless you with love always!

[@lotuschang8008]

This story makes me cry

[@itsmaichee]

I’m so happy you were able to find your family! ❤️

[@mlooglomzem]

I couldn’t stop crying. This is so sad for you and your siblings 🥺🥺

[@yangmoua3735]

Hmoob os hmoob aw cas peb ho xav tias tseem yuav muaj lwm tiam thiab na kuv xav yog tag tiam no lawm ces ntse yuav tsis muaj ab tsi lawm os

[@chailee6256]

May God bless you all Amen.

[@jessicayang5522]

What a sad story how can u create your kids & leave them alone this story makes me cry alot i dont like listening to this kind of story

[@dervue279]

Such a sad story. Had me tearing up. Sorry that you and your siblings had to go through that life. I’m happy you were able to reunite together.

[@kaoxiong6148]

Such a heart broken story😩…! As a father I would never abandon my kids regardless of any situation…

[@magicalunicorn5853]

I know. I can’t understand this. Abandoning your only child.

[@bliaxiong9563]

It’s so sad. To all men and women in this world, if you can not take care and love children don’t have them in to suffer,it’s not fair for them.

[@mosvaj1385]

Tu siab heev. Zoo siab uas nej cov nus muag rov los sib nrhiav tau es nej nco ntsoov tias nej koom roj koom ntshav es nej sib hlub xwb mog.

[@PM-oe5mk]

This is what happens when parents are selfish and do hard drugs and become addicts. The ones who suffer the most are the children. Thank goodness you live in the U.S. and have the foster care system to help you and your siblings. Hmong people put so much importance and weight on their clan and yet where was her father's clan when these kids needed a home? Stories like this tell me this clan thing is worthless, because the clan didn't take care of its own. If not for the foster care system these kids would have become homeless.

[@maimoua1371]

Xum xaiv foster care parents instead of choosing drugs addiction parents or step evil parents .foster homes they're following the rules .God bless you all siblings

[@MissPeachie]

I know right. Being with good foster parents is better than living with toxic biological parents.

[@mormoi1082]

God bless you! To live long with your siblings. Glad they overturned Roe vs. Wade.

[@nkaujntse5196]

Zoo siab nej cov nus muag rov sib nrhiav tau. Cas niam muaj cov niam txiv tsis txawj ua niam ua txiv zoo lis no thiab. Yus ua niam ua txiv khwv tsuas yus cov mes nyuam muaj chaws nyob kom txhob ntsaws luag los mes nyuam tsis txawj sib hlub. Sad.

[@MissPeachie]

On the bright side, growing up with decent foster parents made you who you are today. If you guys grew up in that toxic environment with your druggie parents, you might not be where you are. Everything happens for a reason.

[@maivlis1120]

Wow! What a sad story! Thank you for sharing your story sis. I am so happy that you've a successful life and have become a stronger woman.

[@zhangthor912]

Thank you for sharing your story. It’s very touching and informative. I hope everyone can hear it and be lift up.

[@mayalee2400]

I would love to adopt children like this into my life, but the city expectations is so crucial, and asking for too much, so I give up..but if anyone need to give their children away or can't care for their children anymore, give them to me....

[@redfish3204]

Lady, those of us that have no one are call "DOG" in this life time. Especially Hmong relatives; they wait for us to give up and fail; they are happy when bad things happen to us; they smile when they see us struggle. When we refuse to die or give up; they hate us because their life enjoyment is to see us fail but can't because somehow GOD isn't giving them the satisfaction. If you are a fellow "DOG" in this world; know that you are not alone; we struggle along with you everyday; know that there are millions of us around you and haven't given up. GOD isn't done with you yet; don't give anyone the satisfaction in seeing your fail, make those haters regret they bet against us by staying alive and doing well. Love you fellow "DOG" take care.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Thank you for your story sister. There’s more and more Hmong children in foster care, many with learning disabilities and autism. Hmong parents need to stop having kids if they are on drugs or cannot produce kids that are normal. This is very sad 😞but you took your environment and made a life for yourself. You can do it all by yourself and therefore can do anything! Your parents were so selfish and only thought of themselves.

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Blame your parents for their bad habits. Please don't go back to your parents. Learn from your experience and move forward. Foster care better your life and made you the person you are today.

[@xabayvue7944]

Sad sad story..... My heart goes out to you and your siblings 💔

[@chermoua4167]

At least abandoning kids in this country don’t have been beaten like the third world country

[@monkeybanana9269]

That's for sure. But the ironic part is- it's never the outsiders that abuse them but their closest blood kins.

[@yengyang9564]

Thov qhia cov foster parents thiab

[@MsBL32]

So sad, I hope that you find peace and love always, something that you deserve so much. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Spxculinary]

So glad you guys found each other. 🙏❤️

[@Loves_GodSR]

Your story broke my heart. I'm so sorry for what you guys bag to go through. May you be able to focus on the NOW and enjoy every minute with one another.

[@kerlee7536]

Ua neeg nyob tus neeg xav ua zoo No meter how their parent are lawv yeej choose ua tus neeg yeej tsis xaiv ua neeg phem Los sis ua phem

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Sister, your story is very sad but what you went through made you strong. Foster care is not bad, Foster care provides a safe home that allows your parents to resolve conflicts and learn healthy skills so you can safely return home but Your parents are bad parents. they neglected you guys

[@7stars2love]

Sad story. Don't forget your foster parents, without them you and your siblings won't have a place to live, think about even your uncle not willing to take care of you, but foster parents were. They're the most important person in your life, not your mom or dad or your family.

[@tzlove6281]

Sad stories 😢

[@greentortoise4629]

Some parents doesn’t deserve kids.

[@TubTxheebCaaj]

So glad you’re doing well and found each other. Forgive your parents and do forget the care taker parents. If your birth parents took care you, you won’t grow up to be successful.

[@oraleholmes7543]

I heard this story a couple years ago already

[@gigisong81]

so sad there are so many of these young hmong kids and teens homeless bc of stupid parents. my mom ran into one during a short temp job she did. a lady talk so much shit bout him bc he stays with her. her son brought him to come stay with them. both his parents didn't want him. I wonder to this day where he is. it was just a one day temp n my mom shared her lunch with him n spoke to him. that's also a time my dad had cancer n there wasn't a way to help. the met only during lunch n she never saw him again. I hope he's found better living situations 😭

[@maryly09]

So sad for these kids in foster homes. If people can't love and protect their kids, then they shouldn't bring these children to the world to suffer.

[@MissPeachie]

Agree. Sadly, these people only know how to spread their legs, not how it be parents.

[@tonga71]

The uncle is weak and heartless just like his sister and bil. If I was the uncle I would give wife the ultimatum to divorce her if she doesn’t love the 3 nieces and nephew. In this country, orphan or foster kids have their money to feed them. They just need guardians and a place of warmth.

[@yuamoua4113]

I am so sorry for your childhood. You’ve lost so much and endure so much pain at such a young age. No children should ever have to experience such heartbreak. I am glad that God continued to watch over you and your siblings and made sure you were all well provided, had a roof over your head, food on the table. Although your foster parents would have never been able to take your parents place, I’m happy to hear that they were good to you all. I’m happy to hear that you guys found each other. May god bless you all and help you three build a relationship that you longed for for many many years! May he continue to provide for you all, give you comfort, peace, and bless you all with happiness from here on out! Please do not dwell on your past and enjoy each other’s company for 50+ more years to come! God bless you all!

[@ductuandt2291]

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[@MiYa-lf4hw]

I just saw a post on FB Hmong lady looking her her kids that were in foster homes a long time ago 😢

[@MissPeachie]

She was probably only looking for her kids because she needed a home.

[@Eureka21567]

There’s a story floating around on KZbin and Facebook of a mother and daughter looking for her children/siblings who fell into the foster care system. Weird thing is, that mother on KZbin also has zero teeth…. Anyways, I will never understand the parents who don’t put their children first. No matter the circumstances of a marriage, the children should always come first! We need to protect and love our children!

[@douayang2163]

Very sad Hmong storied!!!! Father, Mother > Sayao.

[@nkaujnagvaj]

Zoo heev l ios

[@ShouaTojsiab]

What a sad story….my heart aches for children living your life situation. I’m happy to hear you and your siblings survived, live productive lives, and found each other again. May God bless you all.

[@phuongnhi4330]

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[@maiyiamoua9569]

So courageous of you to share your story. Hopefully it will enlighten those who hears this amazing story. Glad you found happily ever after. God bless!!

[@chiatxiablaujchannel]

Cas koj tham tau tu siab kawg li os py

[@pebstories]

So sad. 😢

[@xaiher9236]

tu me ntxhai aw koj niam thiab koj txiv nkawd ce to nkawd tsi hlub nej lo nkawd tsi yog ntshaw nej lo yog ntshaw me nyuam nkawd tsua yog sib ua kom nkawd zoo nyob xwb es cia li muaj nej lawm xwb os

[@gaosayvu6554]

Nrog nej cov nus muag tu siab uas nej niam thiab txiv tau tso nej pov tseg , tab sis yog nkawv tsis tso nej tseg ntshai nej haj yam yuav tsis zoo li nov thiab os vim tias nkawv ua tsis tau zoo niam zoo txiv rau nej

[@pajntaubxyooj7690]

😭😭😭

[@maolee8152]

Wow! I’m so… ecstatic for the women and man you and your siblings have become! Inspite of the terrible ordeal you guys went through, you bloomed anyway into amazing people! Best wishes and love it!

[@yangmoua3735]

Tau mloog thib ib lawm lau hmoob Australia

[@hmoobmekas2567]

Hnov nej pab nus muag zaj no kuj nrog nej tu siab kawg tab si vim li cas nej tseem niaj hnub pab nyiaj rau nej niam mus yuav yeeb tshuaj haus txog 100, 100, 1,000.00 nyiaj thiab ces txhai tau tias nej yeej xyab thiab Liam ib yam

[@gaosayvu6554]

Yus niam yus txiv ces yuav tau hlub thiab mas, kawg lawv ua tsis tau zoo lawm ne

[@myself.kuvxwb8406]

I want to know who these awful parents are.OMG. such horrible parents to the very end. No matter what excuses they have, it does not give them the right to abandon three small kids.

[@tusneegzoohlub7724]

And to add on, your parents never cared enough to come back and fight for you guys. they don’t deserve your love.

[@mainengvang1314]

😢

[@chakatalee]

Very sad indeed...

[@chasingthedragontail8760]

My coworkers wife said there are so many Hmong foster children that needs adoption in st paul

[@MissPeachie]

Really? Man, I must be living under a rock.

[@chasingthedragontail8760]

@@MissPeachie i'm just stating this statement since all these "passionate listeners" expressed their emotions towards family separation.. lol.. She works with foster care system (i think that's what it's called) and have to place these kids with miskas.

[@kiavang7887]

Cas koj es ib lo lus muab hais ob peb zaug thiab hais mus hais qhov niag qub xwb

[@Hmoob11112]

If anyone has any information, can you tell me the hmong foster care agency's name and/or where to possibly adopt hmong kids in Minnesota/Wisconsin? Thanks in advance

[@MissPeachie]

I don’t believe there’s one but I could be wrong. Hmong kids are most likely mixed in with other race in the foster system.

[@pajdawb2081]

You can check in with CASA (court appointed special advocates) programs in WI and MN. Usually they will have information for people who want to foster and possibly adopt.

[@oraleholmes7543]

This is what happens when the man wears the dress in the relationship omg that’s your sister kids man be a man dude damm

[@menkaujntsesmenraugnoog6718]

Puas muaj information on yuav adopt cov mi nyuam no li cas thov qhia

[@hlubkojforever1901]

They abandoned you guys so no need to visit them anymore

[@vuevang5634]

Hope you guys don’t walk the way your parents