Can we help our loved ones to heal from illness, or is it something they can only do for themselves?

People often ask me questions such as: "How can I help my loved one heal?" "I've tried everything to help my loved one heal, what else can I do?" "Is it even possible for me to help them heal, or is that only
something they can do on their own?"
I address this subject of helping loved ones who are going through health challenges, in this video. I share the steps you can take when caring for someone with a health challenge that will not only benefit them, but will benefit you as well. I discuss what is usually going on behind chronic illnesses, or repeated health challenges, and how to address it.
www.anitamoorjani.com

[@gingerly5822]

12:20 ▶️ Don’t put pressure on them to see you‼️ What made them sick is the pressure of trying to live up to everybody else’s expectations 👥👥🥵👥👥 Well said Anita 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Brenda-fn8rx]

Anita, I'm so pleased you told your story in your own voice and didn't change it. My husband and i have both been really impacted and touched by what happened to you. I was diagnosed with brain cancer 2 years ago and so far outliving all the stats. I'm loving my life so much now. Thank you for continuing to speak up and not speak about having to battle against cancer. Helping us to live, laugh, enjoy life and love ourselves and others and the planet!! Great advice. I would love to join you in your Alaskan journey or to Antarctica!!

[@binapatel1118]

Being authentic is wonderful; Even after one's testimony is swept under them. Beautiful testimony..🌺 God bless you for sharing your story and touching lives.🌺

[@sanstar2007]

Your hardships and NDE are the most thought-provoking recollections honestly told by THE kindest person I’ve personally ever seen or heard of. You are amazing, and you are really helping to keep me going right now. Thank you.

[@juliesnyder6705]

I totally agree with you Sandy she speaks the words so many of us( being an empath & having an autoimmune disease)need to hear!!! So caring & just right on point!! She's divinely placed & a Blessing 🌸🙏🌸🙏🌸 Love & Healing & Blessings to us All 💓💖💕💗💛💖💕

[@joselinema]

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[@sawdustadikt979]

It’s been 12 years since losing my mother in law to her second round of cancer. In that experience, despite a very loving family she was surrounded by. I saw those people not have any concept of selflessness or strength. They all were to caught up in their own fear, and projecting their own weaknesses onto her. It was shameful. My response was to hold space for her, see her light and allow that to be, be strong for her to feel free and to be selfless to her needs which weren’t many. When people need you, they need the best you, you can be. It might be the last time you walk or share space with that person, how could you not put your stuff aside for that one, possibly last moment? Thank you for your message and this video, it confirmed my truth in how to handle supporting the people you love in their time of need.

[@bheenachoytooa1604]

Thank you endlessly for helping your mother In law, love from Mauritius April 9th 2023.

[@TofuTeo]

Bless you for this, truly, bless you. It saddens and angers me when people do exactly what you mentioned -- being "caught up in their own fear, and projecting their own weaknesses onto" a sick person, instead of being selfless and strong for them. It breaks my heart. Your mother in law was lucky to have you.

[@deborahhoffman7394]

Thanks for sharing your wisdom. There should be more people like you in this world.

[@rockk973]

This is very powerful video and just what I needed. I am my wife's caregiver battling stage 4 cancer. I've been doing things wrong and I will try to turn my mind around to continue to help her heal. Thank you from the USA.

[@kreyolqueen2279]

You are so inspiring. A friend of mine gifted me ‘Dying To Be Me’. I am so happy to found you here. I was diagnosed in 2016 and choose to heal myself on my own. Meaning, naturally. I have some challenging days. I’m angry, resentful and in fear for my life some days. However, I’ve made a strong decision to live. To find the reason why I’m here. I rub my tumor now and at peace with it. I tell it I love it. I acknowledge it for what it is and I am thankful for this experience. Like I stated. I have some challenges but I know I have a bigger purpose. Thank you, Anita Moorjani.

[@bonnieikamas1201]

Are you still working through your illness?❤️🙏🌹

[@tlotus3032]

"I came back from dying to change a paradigm!" You don't hear that every day. I really hope they are true to your beautiful story. You have inspired soo many of us. God/dess speed and much love! So excited about this!!

[@bridgetc.marinaccio8024]

A gift to the universe! Imagine a world where we could better understand and respect different cultures? Gentleness and honesty ❤️

[@Neelam9559]

I just love listening to you! You are soooo genuine. God bless!

[@gca3532]

You have a golden aura! I've seen them all my life

[@perlarabena1047]

Omg 😱 a movie..I can’t wait

[@et1016]

You are a gift to our world!! 😘

[@waelsaleh9382]

I went to my mom grave yard during night hours but I couldn't find it. But l heard knocking on stone and I looked down and was mom grave . What you make of it.

[@binapatel1118]

❤So true..❤

[@juliejeannenadeau]

Thank you so much Anita and Danny. I’m always inspired when listening to you Anita. I can feel my life becoming lighter.

[@hempelsofa3810]

This Video is a treasure chest … Thank you very much! Greetings from Pansdorf, Germany!

[@redpoppy7230]

So right Anita, to honour our loved ones boundaries especially when they're sick. My beloved cat was very ill n went into hiding, when I was trying to get him to the vet. It was only when my son arrived n asked me to leave because Tom was worried about ME?, I felt so much love from this beautiful intuitive animal. I stopped crying n left immediately n Tom came out from hiding n walked to the car with my son. Just a week later I had to make the decision to put Tom to sleep n not being with him traumatized me no end. Listening to you has lessened my brain from bursting with deep regret since 2009. Thank YOU Anita, for YOUR RETURN n sharing your acute wisdom n flowing love n please say hello to Danny x

[@Reincarnation111]

Hi there, i can feel your profound love for Tom just by reading your post. I love my cat Sheldon the same way. God bless you and RIP Tom. Love 'n hugs!

[@donnalamping2243]

I really enjoy you telling all of us your story. Thank you Anita

[@archangelfollower8181]

You are sooo genuine and KIND!! Just love love love u Anita💖 i swear i can see a large bright white aura surrounding you!!!!! Thank u for ur gifts from Texas!!

[@chaosdream21]

As an editor and publisher it grinds my gears when I hear of other editors and publishers who just give such bad, unqualified advice to vulnerable authors. Im glad you didn't listen to that original editor, Anita, because she was so clearly wrong.

[@gingerly5822]

32:23 ▶️ Focus on what they can do & love them through it 💞 If you can’t do that then don’t be around them ✌🏼

[@normacord9740]

IThank you Anita ! I so needed to hear this at this time . My mother is very ill and so many emotions and guilt of not being able to help her enough ! I understand now that what I do as long it’s for Love is all good 😊

[@muireannin09]

I’m just tired of the financial struggle. I have so much to give. I love life when I’m out in Nature, or have the freedom to do what I want every day. But the endless struggle to pay bills, mortgages, kids education has deadened my zest for life.

[@tildus5]

@Knock Out And you know the funny and phony thing aobut it that rich people do this for the same reasons: they do not want to be in a vegetative state of being.

[@millie7637]

Omg I’m crying so hard thank you Anita you’re definitely a world saver I appreciate you I’m so glad meeting you and I love you 🥰

[@elizfoley4178]

Anita, this is some of the most beautiful and true insight I have ever had the privilege of hearing. I thank you for being you and sharing. Thank you so much.

[@starbrightinfinity3329]

I am living with an illness that has now caused additional health issues and I have been asking myself why did I agree to live this life? What is the point of this pain? The first part of this video felt like I was sitting right in front of you at the very moment of you recording. What you shared resonated on such a level that I’m left overwhelmed. It definitely leaves me really thinking about the parts of myself I have ignored and sacrificed for others or even thoughts that didn’t belong to me. I’m so grateful this video found it’s way to me.

[@luxinfinity73]

Dear, you are not alone. I have been pretty much bed ridden for the past three years. At first, all I could think about was how to end my life. However, after hysterical crisis where I destroyed whatever I could put my hands on. But I also kept talking to the Divine, chanting mantras and suddenly a few insights about my real being became clear. I am not what I thought but my negative thinking patterns caused by deep depression created my disease as a consequence. I am healing now and no longer willing to play games with people. My time is very precious and I only do what I love. I used to be very anxious about everything now I am learning to let go because the Divine Intelligence knows how to heal me completely. We only need to relax and enjoy the ride. God bless you!

[@teresamanyosa]

Dear Anita, thank you for all your videos. This one is really meaningful to me because a 4-year-old in the family is going through chemotherapy again and as you say, it all comes down to fighting. Gosh it is so hard to see a little one get sick. Your insights do help us make sense of te "whole picture". So grateful to learn from you. Much love from Barcelona (Spain) 🙏✨😘

[@soundtherapy4082]

Little children pick up energies very easily and can develop cancers, usually it clears if the parents realize it’s coming from them and work on themselves

[@mananasordia5702]

Thank you, Anita!!! I LOVE watching your videos, they are so inspirational! I am so lucky that I discovered you in 2011 when the interview wit Lilou Mace was published. I consider you as a great Healer and Teacher and have learned so much from you. Please accept my gratitude and love.

[@pixiepup8]

You really get it Anita. Thank you for being alive and sharing your messege. I Love You

[@coolwater55]

I so appreciate your insights, Anita. My Aunty so wanted to live, but at the end days, her grand daughter in law and I sat vigil in hospital. The grand daughter in law oit of love attended a hospice session on dying. Unfortunately, she was determined to say over and over to my Aunt that she could die now. That it was ok to go. It would have been ok if it was once or twice..but it became a tragic plea. When in fact Aunty would pass when it was her time. I felt the same as you, Anita. Just love the person. She was very good to her in all ways. Wipe their brow, talk normal..say prayers is usually nice..listen to soft music. Aunty departed 30 days after the tragic accident of her son who drowned on Mother's day last year. Sadly, the daughter in law..my second cousin'swife lost her own mom before the year was out. She is young to have lost 3 important family members in 3 months. She..my Aunty was a strong woman...I miss her very much. We had 6 family and extended family losses in one year... Last year..it was a challenging one. I am comforted to hear your story Anita and encouraged about the souls of our dearly departed being in a better place. . Love from Canada.

[@michelaiovino9881]

When I started to read your book I realized I had always thought like that but at the same time I thought I was wrong. I'm very happy to have come across you. Thank you Anita!

[@milangraner2256]

Beloved Anita My name is Milan and the only word I want to say is Thank You 🙏 Thank you from Czech Republic 🌺

[@ekkie50]

Gosh Anita, when you said we should motivate a loved one who is ill, my thoughts went straight to my sister. Her two daughters are beautiful and doing well in life, but she is still feeling the guilt of falling short with respect to them, for some reason or other. Some time ago I lovingly urged her to let them go and have them lead their own lives, so that she can move on with her own life and fulfill her own needs. She's my little sister and i love her. She's doing so well in life and it's time for her to start realizing that.

[@nonnayabusiness7528]

You amaze me. I stayed til the last breath of my partner of 47 years. I treated him no different, ignored the illness and honored his wishes to see no one . Thank you for making me feel better about it . Your insight gives me new meaning to live. I'm so glad the unconditional love continues. Would love to have coffee or tea one day. 💜

[@mars1783]

Thanks so much!!! My Mom and I are healing from my psychotic break, and I'm feeling some guilt over how I treated her in that phase. She's getting older and I want to enjoy time with her, so I greatly appreciate this topic. I am much less angry now, and love life again. Great advice on how to make things better and inspire her to love life, too!!! I love you guys!!! Have a great week, everyone!!!

[@michikoobaachan]

Thank God I found you!thank you Anita I need this because I have Young newly wed Son become sick Now he is going thrugh DIaLySIS for Life so thank you !I Love you and God bless

[@user-pc7tx7mo5b]

日本語訳に感謝します。とても嬉しいです。何度も見させて頂きます。

[@josettepouilloux4407]

I'm very pleased to find you this morning! 😊😍

[@angelineong8261]

Hi, Anita. I am from Malaysia. When I read through your story, I have found my inner love that I have seek for so long. Thank you so much for you being here.

[@devonseamoor]

Thank you for a genuine session, Anita. I'm so happy for you that a movie is created based on your first book and that your lifestory remains authentic in it. The question here is a subject close to my heart and I'm exploring, learning, how to be with sick and unconscious people around me. What I experienc in my life, while being with people with low self-esteem, is that they use my presence as a means to compare themselves, projecting an image on me of being someone who knows and does better. They tell me how bad they feel about themselves, while they're in shame and suffering from past experiences. In a way, it seems that they love their suffering and in a martyr-style way they've got to chew on it as long as it offers satisfaction to their pain body. The unconsciousness or lack of self-empowerment prevents such a person from letting go of the suffering, for it's the alternative for not being able to ground themselves in feeling good, improve circumstances and enthusiasm, for being alive. In such circumstances I can't be in equality and resonance, with such a person and I have to distance myself without arguing, in respect.

[@gingerly5822]

15:00 ▶️ Your ONLY job is to love them through it 💝 Love them “unconditionally” where they are right now⚠️ Thanks Anita 💝

[@pierscross]

Thank you so much Anita for your beautiful wisdom. I am just reading your first book at the moment. It has brought me great insight as my wife had a near death experience and uses a similar language to you. I feel I know her a lot better now and understand where she is coming from. Blessings to you, Piers x

[@InfiniteLoveLightGratitude]

This video is extremely full of precious wisdoms. Thank you so much Anita & Danny.. sending infinite LOVE

[@carolanderson4139]

Thank you so much for taking the time to share these wonderful tips on being there for our loved ones! Hugs!!

[@jenniferludwig2487]

Yes Truth Should Always Be Told They should make a series of NDE So Many people like myself have Witnessed it No ones Saying much Movies Books etc.

[@sandbar3000]

F the American market! I'm an American woman and I honor you as a woman that is Hindu. We need more people like you on this Earth. Hindu Buddhism it doesn't matter what it is not everyone in America has to be a Christian. Not everyone in America has to be a follower of Jesus. Bless you dear soul for telling your story as it was in truth. I bless you. I have been led to you. A friend of mine told me to listen to your videos. I have been blessed by you. Thank God you didn't follow that other person. Thank God you didn't want to change your story to make people in America feel more comfortable with the Evangelical view of life. You are special you are one-of-a-kind and I thank you for telling your story as it is

[@lynette1231]

Wow what clear concise advice - It helped me to understand soo much of what I am experiencing right now and to drop the guilt of not wanting to see people.. and finding joy in life again and having forgotten what it is to being a well person and doubting one's alternative choices when people want one to follow the so called 'experts' advice and being afraid of following one's own feelings that 'cancer isn't in the body but in the consciousness' as I've intuited. Thank you dear Anita for helping me to understand and feel alright about what I'm going through at the moment!

[@followyourbliss973]

Thank you for sharing your positive message! Hopefully you will always continue your mission to help people!

[@daisysmile7845]

Good on you for standing your ground with your story. Too many people want to change people at any cost for the big bucks. Too many sell themselves out and if you let them, anyone of us can be subjected to exploitation. I believe in standing by my beliefs with integrity. Be you and thank you for that.

[@estelalopez148]

Sounds great Alaska Anita! .thank you for what you do and thank you for you.much love

[@loriknight979]

This was amazing Anita, covered so much!! Thank you so much and God Bless You!

[@BarbaraMerryGeng]

Power 🌞 Talk, thank you for giving me a banquet of ideas to feast & delight ✨❤️💚💫

[@meerasingh7069]

Thank you,Anitaji.We love you!!

[@pattyc4582]

I like the fact that you stayed strong on your truth. You nationality should not matter for your story. In the US we respect you as a person and your story needs to be heard to help others. Thank you for staying firm on your feelings about your truth.

[@matinalarsson4149]

Thank you for all your love and wisdom Anita ❤

[@mawareunnehir9578]

We are here to love. Thank you Anita !

[@BeautyLilya]

16:10 Take care of yourself. Absolutely love this I needed that ❤️ Thanks Anita 🙏🏼

[@invzamora]

Thank you Anita. Muchas Gracias!

[@laetitiamaine8162]

Thank you so much for your wonderful advice. I love your videos also because your english is so clear. Very easy to understand. I am French but living in Rishikesh India ☺

[@TheScorpionlady45]

Stay yourself, never change! Thank you for sharing with us all. I'm from Oklahoma.

[@jacquelinerivera8157]

Hi Anita...Thank you and I love you. Thank you for sharing your story and bring more strength to love myself, charge our own battery, and enjoy life. I hope I get to meet you one day if you ever come to New York.

[@lawrence5121]

We just cannot thank you enough Anita ! The information we hear are awe inspiring and simply clear. It gives us HOPE ! You convey it without any technical jargons. My God bless your loving and caring spirit . Thank you, thank you and thank you Anita.

[@monicaancuta9723]

Thank you for all your love and your wisdom.Thank you!Monica Ancuta

[@rashidashabazz7319]

When WE are HAPPY....WE ARE IN SPIRITUAL ALIGNMENT. BEAUTIFUL and SOOOOOO well said OUR BELOVED EARTH ANGEL aka ANITA MOORJANI.. BLESSINGS BEAUTIFUL 😍🤗😘💯‼ such an overall POWERFUL and INSPIRING video ......ETERNAL GRATITUDE.🙏💚😇 When.I first heard your interview on London Real/ BRIAN ROSE where YOU discussed YOUR movie, several years ago. I tell. everyone about YOUR SPECTACULAR movie.....CONGRATULATIONS1🤩 on the MILLIONS more than YOU ARE INSPIRING 🙏💚😇

[@gilbertchoy3738]

Hi Anita, I just saw this video. Deeply appreciate it as usual. I'm a Hongkonger currently living in Beijing. I have been a huge fan since "Dying to be Me", and have both of your books both the physical copies and audibles. Please keep me in mind if you're coming to Beijing or Shanghai. Many grateful thanks! You're an inspiration!

[@productorbrand8455]

You are amazing and thank you for sharing your experience 💖. Peace and Love

[@rcardoosuna6491]

I'm glad I found you. I am happy to hear from you and your great and fantastic messages.

[@christinenewland386]

Awesome news about your movie Anita!!! The world has a lot to learn from you. My husband has non-Hodgekins Lymphoma and I am hoping he can heal himself with your guidance.

[@andreabobbette825]

I love you. Thank you for standing your ground . I appreciate you.

[@marapoisson]

Heyy just listening 🎧 to this. Please keep doing what you are doing. Thank you so much for your love. I always thought an awaken person or worthy whatever I was looking for to be someone else like Tony Robbins or those big intimidating guys. You and Elkhart tolle and Luis hay made me believe that being a Woman, an empath nd psychic and Eckhart from just being himself in a bench became not only successful but happy and in a loving relationship. You have no idea how much I want that your channel grows

[@gulnarbamji4284]

Thank you. This Is such an eye opener. Bless you

[@llm8268]

Thank you Anita for sharing such a beautiful and inspiring video. So many truths are spoken and so genuine. As always this talk is very helpful. Thank you also to Danny.

[@JaiSequoia]

So authentic and powerfully loving. Thank you! I will watch for the movie

[@johnsellaroli7818]

I was so blessed by this! Thank you so much!

[@cindyparker9289]

This was so much more than what i was expecting. Thankyou!!

[@niapeeples9047]

So glad your story will be shared through film. And bravo for standing by the power of the TRUE story. Having been in the entertainment industry for forty years, I know how difficult that can be as well as how deeply truth is needed. Bless you❣️

[@LoveBeyondStars]

Love your book and can’t wait for the movie! I’m giving your book to my sister for her birthday!

[@marysmyth8288]

Thank you Anita for your insights , with God’s Peace ☮️ an Blessings Mary Canada 🇨🇦

[@Ricardopapa-fw7yo]

My first time watching Anita, Thank You so much! I needed your message. 🎇✝️ From SoCal. USA.

[@lynette1231]

Gosh could your story be more dynamic than the authentic version.. I would want no other!

[@marinarosa8599]

You are awesome!!! Thank you for your wonderful work ❤❤❤

[@maryjoe58]

Hi Anita from Corvallis Oregon! I love you! Your story is amazing! I've bought several of your books and gave a couple away. I listen to your KZbin each week. God bless you and your Boo always!!

[@cleonnedezilva1881]

I desperately want to feel the peace you experienced

[@rickvanderkam101]

@@cleonnedezilva1881 Your comment touched me Cleonne. I'm holding you in my heart to feel that peace. I'm seeking it as well. May we both feel deep, loving peace.

[@rickvanderkam101]

This is actually Gina, not Rick who just responded to you. Just so you know.

[@marycollins8215]

Thank you. I am catching up on your channel, have loved your interviews on Gaia and other channels.

[@tammyjboudreaux2836]

I am always baffled how one person thinks he/she knows the wants of the "american market" or any "public market." i call huey phooey on that. I feel so grateful that you continued your path and found Hay House.. much love to you and your "boo"

[@skdhawan1960]

S K Dhawan from Chandigarh, India .I keep watching your videos,have learned a lot from your experience

[@nancybassett4413]

I’m happy for You Anita, I think you and Danny are both wonderful!

[@evelinedubbers4156]

Love you for doing this💓 Thank you

[@Borboleta1212]

This information is so valuable. Thank you so much Anita!! 💚💚🥰🥰

[@divinaflamingarrow9556]

Thank you Anita! Love !

[@riaali1]

I'm a new listener/follower... your topics resonates with me at so many levels

[@5891irhs]

Hi Anita, huge fan and love all of your videos! My mom suffers from early onset of Parkinson's disease. At this point, she has severe tremors, and is dependent on others for most of her mobility/movements. How can I help her feel mentally OK, and keep her spirit alive in the process?

[@veronicamagallanez9501]

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[@nancymacpherson7345]

Just keep on loving her. NM

[@juliesnyder6705]

Hi Anita ❣ this Video is 3 years old but WOW, Such a Great Needed one THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR what you are doing( I've also seen 2 other videos you did about a month ago)!!! I'm an Empath & I have an autoimmune disease & also they're very sick people in my family! So Thanks Again God Bless you & your Family 💕 🌸💗🌸💕

[@jayanidissanayake6496]

World is beautiful because of people like you.

[@Design111]

PRICELESS advice!!!🙏❤️🙏😘

[@sunstarsmoon]

I can't wait to see the imagery they will use to show your experience on the other side. I hope they get this movie right. Recent movies about this subject have fallen way short with bad direction, acting and production. I tried, I really did, but Heaven is For Real was terrible, The Shack was okay, Miracles From Heaven was nearly excruciating to watch. Is this still a Ridley Scott film? There's hope!

[@marcierenee15]

I love her SO MUCH and share her wisdom with all my clients. I'm listening 3 years later- did the Alaskan cruise happen?

[@elainem2902]

Beautiful advice, Thank You 💚

[@jotaylor1106]

Thank you, wonderful!

[@spqr701]

Anita, You are an Angel. A gift from God to humanity.. Bless you......

[@marinarosa8599]

Thank you for sharing your wonderful experiences ❤ 🌞👍

[@lha2424]

You are really beautiful soul and gift to our world. Your words make me cry and feel loved. I feel like you gave me much love.

[@Nancyplee]

Thank you for sharing ‘your’ story 💖