Anna Clendening - Bare Minimum [Official Video]

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Lyrics:
Don’t even kiss anymore, just say “I love you” cause you think you're supposed to
You're always coming up short, and you got every excuse now don't you
Do you even listen when I speak
Cause I've been telling you just what I need
A little more conversation, a little communication
Why is that so hard to see
You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All you're giving me
Nothing but silence, I’m always trying
I thought you wanted this what happened, you're never there
I used to think you cared, but you've given up
You're giving me the bare, bare minimum
You think I ask for too much, don't want the world I just want you to want me
How come you're so out of touch? We share a bed but I'm still feeling lonely
Do you even listen when I speak
Cause I've been telling you just what I need
A little more conversation, a little communication
Why is that so hard to see
You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All you're giving me
Nothing but silence, I’m always trying
I thought you wanted this what happened, you're never there
I used to think you cared, but you've given up
You're giving me the bare, bare minimum
(You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All you giving me is the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All your giving me is the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All your giving me is the bare, bare, bare minimum)
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[@Blackcoffeeplaylists]

“Do you even listen when I speak” Part hits deep. Not for dating but for the relationship with my mom.

[@katelyntaylor1407]

FELT!!

[@Blackcoffeeplaylists]

@@katelyntaylor1407 fr 💀 I told her something and she goes, do you love me anymore. I just sat there and was like. 😃

[@artisticannaalexson1772]

I remember when she was just making videos talking about her mental health and wanting to make music and to see her now being as big as she is as an artist is just awesome she deserves it

[@naomeepenafiel]

I saw myself in this music video 5 hours ago. Hurts like hell.

[@mandafayeee4234]

This is less than the bare minimum. I know this heartache. When you’re like roommates and just exist because it’s easier than making an effort or starting new. Took me finding someone who loves me how I deserve to show me that the bare minimum is still more than this. ❤

[@2131singer]

my eye caught your comment becuz my name is Amanda Lee technically 😁💕and I'm glad You got the vision of what You were dealing with....so strong that You kept climbing out of it when I know how depleted You were I battled 2Nice people simultaneously I called Narcissists nice people in casual conversations so I was more protected becuz I had read and learned through my researching of the topic before it all became more mainstream in the mental health world and general population of daily verbage spoken....it said that they could not know and if they found out I would be even more toasted than the burnt piece of trash I felt like as I faded and became so jaded pieces of my memory were leaving me and EMDR saved my hippocampus from striking vegetative like state .....but it takes miracles to see and get to the place of knowledge and getting out is a Godly divinity of happenings of the right people the right experts etc. so that is why I started out with a happy You saw what You needed to see and that You are worth more than nothingness You were made to feel and dig out of kind of deal it's awful beyond idk either why or how in the raw bons of a person acting like that to another on purpose and everything just shew anywho I in one of my before the nice people attacking worst pain of my life and felt like trumping hell for sure when I got out so yeah so strong and beautiful we are and then reaching out to help others become thrivers is proof of that heart inside we have that is most beautiful so full of Love despite wreckage and destructive happenings light in the dark hands in the waves taking us under the life boat the coast guard the angel the missing piece of our puzzled pieces making the picture reveal itself so we all can have the love from within ourselves the knowledge to get out the strength to find the will to keep on no matter how much pain and tired we feel and struggle with hope I mean I also learned that maybe each of our abusers who rewired our fragile brains and shredded our hearts was or is different but the victims are the same in how they are broken down in their body make up from emotional to physical that could be why our stories each little something we see from another amazing soul who is hanging on fighting the roughage making a way sharing their story brave so very brave maybe that's why we relate and reply I have been at this for many years now and that's what I see so it reiterates what experts and life coaches shared in info from the get go .....but I during another domestic violence relationship saw how bad things were for me when I was able to catch a glimpse from the outside looking in ...taking the view from let's say extremely loving friends Unconditional and true and saw how they saw me and how beyond sickened they would have been had they seen me at home where I lived with this person for a bit and that's how I caught the real of what was not acceptable at all but I had been coping and dealing with and hiding from work and just so sad but good too.....and prayers I stopped and said share with these people the way to get out and for those out keep us on the go .....meaning going forward none the less of my jumbled possibly words here simply my heart speak no edit just felt seen in my mind and typed I hope You are finding your way to being health happy loved by Yourself and able to Love on a grander scale becuz You allow only the best inside Your World keeping boundaries and staying true to what You know You deserve the best and then some and Thank You for sharing 😊🥰much love please stay safe and keep on keeping on peace out for now

[@amyeethomas2495]

😢

[@emmatarr3454]

this is me...

[@Jellybean_93]

Same

[@crystalgallegos4536]

Ditto!❤happy you found someone.

[@theunicornsin1144]

I don’t know how men can decide to pursue you, giving you promises and convince you that they’re worth your time and love but end up treating you this way...

[@jameshusentoff2953]

Cause the woman want the perfect chads and don’t give nice guys a chance

[@blazingbreeze7427]

@@jameshusentoff2953 I gave the nice guy a chance. He turned into this after he broke my heart and went for another girl and then my cousin and then all my "friends".. then I took him back because he wanted me back and was sorry for everything he did...then 1 1/2 years later he's distant and then gone again

[@lizmagixmusic]

Mood

[@lizmagixmusic]

@@jameshusentoff2953 "nice" doesn't mean kind. My ex guy was "nice" but gave me worse than bare minimum

[@jameshusentoff2953]

@@lizmagixmusic I’ve been used for free meals more than I can count. Now my first date consist of coffee or a walk around town. Some woman get upset but that date idea though.

[@jonelafilms]

8 years and I had to end it. The most important part of 'communication' is actually comprehension. No matter how much I communicated I was never understood and he was a man of many empty promises.

[@baijeravlogsjeramyjuntado]

True

[@jasminelebel6960]

My nine years

[@emilygriffith6702]

This ^ people say it takes two to argue but it also takes two to communicate

[@Piipii16]

Good Job girl! I hope your happy now again. ❤

[@AmberPerchez]

@@baijeravlogsjeramyjuntado our 14 year marriage ended a few days ago. He doesn’t love me anymore, I knew it but he kept saying he did after telling me he didn’t when we fought.

[@kirkmillerBO84]

Any guy that treats his girl like this don't deserve her.

[@andreah9587]

I’ve been treated like this by every man (and 1 woman) I’ve ever dated, if they weren’t outright abusive. At some point I realized I’m not worth the effort to people and I’ll just never be someone’s first choice. Or I have awful taste in partners. Doesn’t matter, I just quit dating at this point lol. Never trusting anyone again.

[@n0426]

“I don’t want the world i just want you to want me” 😞 That is in FACT absolutely priceless. 💔

[@theunknown5686]

it gets aggravating when some one acts like it's a burden to give the BARE MINIMUM. I've listened to this song repeatedly for like 2 weeks now on loop. I remember I started listening to your songs when i was 14. I'm 21 now they continue to be the most relatable songs.

[@jodie1831]

Im 30 and still have this song on repeat !

[@SKEILLLL]

Less than bare minimum. You have to resuscitate the relationship every time and give them love while they don’t have to return anything. Let you not do 1 thing they want and all hell breaks loose. I know this feeling unfortunately

[@pinkladybugbug3273]

Like walking in egg shells then when you call them out on it they act like you are over reacting and need medication. Yup this single life is nice now.

[@EverythingxBeautiful]

Yup

[@Loveispatient_2024]

The single life is the most happy life.. im married for 1.5 years and my single days were way way more happy than this hell ​@@pinkladybugbug3273

[@UsernameTabyCat]

When you’re too comfortable in a relationship with someone even a friendship or whatnot that you stop pursuing the other person. The drive is lost and you fall out of love very very very quickly.

[@brendaharvey2016]

Hey, it's a lesson we all need to learn. Love yourself more. No matter who rejects you. Self care

[@Chihuahuahuahuahuahua]

If you feel like this…..know it’s time to leave.

[@emmatarr3454]

how..

[@ashleys7943]

I am...

[@GenXBeeKind]

💯🙏✌️💫

[@Regal1]

And the minute you find someone who gives you everything you deserve, they can't STAND it

[@katelyntaylor1407]

“We share a bed ,but i still feel lonely .” Damn 🖤

[@Tinyprincessss]

Past 4 years of this for me. Still stuck in it… can’t leave. Don’t have a car, job, or money… and they only do something for you when they think they can get that one thing from you

[@lotoyadavis]

Yes, you can leave,. I did even feeling like I couldn't. Trust me, its worth it.

[@ariyarobertson20]

It’s scary sorry other people go through this to 😔

[@christinamarynicolemusic]

Anna writes alot about all the different types of trouble/problems in her relationships and I can relate.

[@neelyohara8317]

Everything she's doing in this music video, I've been there. So I really felt that and this could occur for many reasons, many narcissistic partners will treat you this way, it's emotional abuse. They could also be experiencing some mental health issues of their own like depression and choosing not to open up about it. When you're on the receiving end though it feels extremely hurtful and invalidating.

[@kimberlywinkler6906]

Definitely can relate

[@ItsHillarie]

It’s been 5 years living like this…..At first I blamed our move. Our lives are better than ever as for our children and careers….But we have simply became room Mates. I have tried and tried to talk to him….I have spent 12 years with him. And not a single one has been easy. I can’t believe he got all my 20’s and is working into my 30’s….I just know this can’t be the rest of my life

[@BlueJeepJay]

I feel the same way and it hurts so much

[@BajaRosie]

LEAVE!!! find ur person, lifes too short to be unhappy!!!

[@Ninibaby1]

Leave ma’am.

[@yeahno.2698]

This hurt to read for you and because I am so scared of this and terrified that it's what we are slowly becoming

[@haliecomo]

As someone who's been in this situation, but add to it every form of abuse, it never gets better, only worse!! Dont stay for your kids, they may not like it at first, but when they see you happy again, it's 1000% worth it!! YOLO!!!

[@tinzzz7]

if someone in your life is like this... make them your ex, and go onto the NEXT. the thought I had after the video ended, was that I wouldn't have stayed. I would've left. if they don't appreciate you, when the going gets tough; they don't deserve you, when it gets good.

[@samacetra]

I just discovered this lovely lady and man, this is exactly what I’ve been going through every night. It’s the loneliest feeling and in my situation I can’t just walk away. It causes anxiety attacks and bad depression, so I really hope those that can get help to know their value, get it. The rest of us aren’t counted out, it’s just a harder road to self-love and freedom, but it will happen. I hope. ❤

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

Hi hun are things getting better?

[@leilaearl]

Stay Strong❤

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

@@leilaearl hi

[@loveobviously]

This is how I feel right now . Ugh, this song is such a vibe

[@sanaaselby4403]

I hope you get out of that situation or find someone who gives you 100 times more than the bare minimum

[@chibiSORAchibiL]

Feeling like this also

[@nyalltimothy]

:)

[@jasperlucasscottkendall2115]

I just showed my sister this girl.. she's in an abusive relationship and I'm trying to help her out through music bc music had always been there n now I make music n ik it means about to her I hope it does

[@zombioric5890]

👏DUMP👏HIS👏ASS👏

[@drake1763]

My ex didn’t see me for 7+ months… always excuses why she “couldn’t”. Then always talked about “you don’t love me” when i begged constantly for time, connection, affection, to be missed, to be loved.

[@brysonregister9096]

Men go through it too! Women can be assholes too! Maybe even more so then men!

[@jamiehale3984]

Whoa….. going through that right now…. Why can’t he just admit it

[@kaileyb2000]

Bro it went from love songs to i cant stop listening to heart broken songs i litterally cant get over this guy who cant give me the bare minimum but he promised me so many things you think you know someone after 8 years im currently separating myself from him... But hes the prize right? At least thats how he likes to think of himself and not listen to me :( anna please keep the song writing up ive listened to your songs for years!

[@Bean126]

thank you! my relationship in 2019 needed this song but with the healed 2022 mindset i have now ❤❤

[@jennifermichaels6481]

I am thinking the same thing for myself.

[@TammyAnderson-n7l]

Too many times I’ve been surviving trauma trying so hard to break the chains of generational curses forget love

[@MissMYOBsag]

I like this , she definitely ate these lyrics

[@meredithfisk1910]

Love yourself the most and if someone doesn’t complete you then show them the door

[@jamettemannix5468]

Just found this song and this is how I'm feeling now been in a relationship almost 10 years and this is exactly what's happening 💔 😢

[@Ikkasnyyd]

Same here, but we also share a child together.

[@TheCentralPlaza]

You’re so good Anna! I remember back when you dated Tretzy you had stopped making videos for so long, you literally have one of the best voices I’ve ever heard ❤

[@Tess.of.all.trades]

Feel like this was literally written straight out of my thoughts when I was with my ex. Wow 💯

[@SaravanjaSteele]

Great song. Makes me so incredibly grateful, yet again, that I have a man who loves me and shows it.

[@elsadeshmukh97]

I can feel the same heartache right now in me so bad, it feels like killing so hard inside. It's like a sharp knife wounds

[@haileysanders6706]

Been feeling like this for far too long 😢 thanks for sharing your talents with the world!❤

[@zombioric5890]

👏DUMP👏HIS👏ASS👏

[@haileysanders6706]

@@zombioric5890 I did!! 🙌

[@PhantomTreasure]

When you just want the one person you love to love you

[@SPQRTejano]

That is unrealistic. it would be like me getting upset that Carolina Bang doesn't love me.

[@thatbtch5857]

​​@@SPQRTejano are you in a relationship with Carolina Bang? No? Then sit down, that isn't comparable.

[@DeadMelody]

@@SPQRTejano true, being in a relationship is the exact same as crushing over a celebrity 100%

[@TrustNobody89]

😒😔

[@RKlove88]

Boy, I've felt this so many times I can't even keep count anymore

[@Jennifer0187]

Damn this pretty much sums up my marriage... I call it getting bread crumbs though, cuz damn I'd think it was my lucky day if I ever got just the bare minimum, at the very least.

[@nickyxann]

I needed to see and hear this😢💔

[@mistyrenaud2322]

its scary how exact this video is, and the words

[@Pure.Freaking.Meredith]

I just found you. I have been writing songs about the abuse I lived with for years. This song makes me cry in a big beautiful release kind of way. If someone ever feels like for something I wrote then it will all be worth it.

[@zacharyagan3842]

One of my favorite artists out now. I needed to hear this song

[@Jezze7]

Just let go because this whole year broke me completely

[@tianarussin7374]

Some how i found a song to describe the past 2 years of my life perfectly

[@Tinyprincessss]

Past 4 of mine

[@kiffanimahan9553]

It's definitely a vibe I'm feeling for life rn ..

[@GenXBeeKind]

Definitely 💯

[@jenniferharris7625]

You have one of the most impressive voices I've heard for a long time. Always wished I could sing, but since I can't it makes me appreciate those we'll can, so much more❤

[@Kayla-lq4ys]

Im going through this now and my heart aches so bad

[@steveyarbrough6217]

Sometimes we ask for forgiveness we admit our wrongs. Any relationship that struggles financially ends with bitterness. But there's always two sides to a story both must be willing to try stop stabbing each other in the backs. Let's pick up and put back in equally. Then you can restore each other. What says later on in life that both learn and pick up the pieces and become the best ever..

[@steveyarbrough6217]

@Alexis Elliott

[@steveyarbrough6217]

@Alexis Bowman

[@steveyarbrough6217]

I wont put your other last name out their. Just keep your head up and always know I'm a friend in the end..

[@tinsleyka]

My feelings in a song. Anna, you always hit right where it hurts 🤕 in a good way. I feel so heard in your songs. I find pieces of my soul in this.........

[@user-um9wf6gv2u]

Dump him no stick

[@BabyWick351]

💜🤟💜🤟💜

[@user-um9wf6gv2u]

If my man genuinely brushes off my cuddles and turns away DATS A WRAP!!!

[@taylorarmour5509]

This is exactly how I feel right now with the relationship I'm in at this moment

[@annaclendening]

I love you! 💕

[@taylorarmour5509]

@@annaclendening I love you and your music 🖤

[@SPQRTejano]

Have you worked towards improving yourself?

[@ayshrsaleh5381]

Same here

[@taylorarmour5509]

@@SPQRTejano Yes day by day but sometimes inner demons come into play in my mind and those are harder days but the answer is yes I have. Thanks for asking. Some times you have to take two steps forward to take one step back to realize when reality all sets in you have to move forward to move on that's life in general.

[@bozsipali4074]

Take Her up to the best charts please All around the world! 💓

[@ParadoxDemon]

You can communicate all you want but comprehension is what you need. 😕

[@EverythingxBeautiful]

This

[@CoryWilson-n1m]

I’ve been saying this for years, you can communicate until you can’t breathe but if they’re not comprehending it’s going nowhere, anyone can listen but are they actually learning ? U don’t thing people understand that it’s not you vs each other it’s us vs the problem and the point of communication is to explain from each other’s perspective so you can learn to understand one another, communicate might be the key but keys go to locks and that lock is comprehension if you can’t find either one well to put it simply that relationship is fucked

[@lougreen7770]

& you got every excuse now don’t you! Damn that hits…💯

[@GenXBeeKind]

💯

[@toruthegreat6473]

A song that tells a tale of my life for past 10 yesrs

[@Scarrgh]

For 10 years have either one of you tried to fix it?

[@zombioric5890]

👏DUMP👏HIS👏ASS👏

[@nissyk666]

Leave them. Just walk away. It ain't worth the emotional hurt.

[@vivianaxmacher4058]

I love love love your music! Finally!

[@emilysin9853]

Underrated artist♥️

[@BabyWick351]

💜🤟💜🤟💜

[@bbell9407]

This is hard…going on 13 years together, married 3, 2 kids. I use to always be the one to leave. I haven’t left in 7 years…there is someone that wants to love me and gives me so much in just the few minutes we get to see each other after work on the weekends…how do I leave now? Why do I have to be the one to always fall into the same pattern of not being happy…

[@samriddhisachdeva9799]

Lyrics: Don't even kiss anymore Just say, "I love you, " 'cause you think you're supposed to You're always coming up short And you got every excuse now, don't you? Do you even listen when I speak? 'Cause I've been telling you just what I need A little more conversation, a little communication Why is that so hard to see? You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Nothing but silence, I'm always trying I thought you wanted this What happened? You're never there I used to think you cared But you've given up You're giving me the bare, bare minimum You think I ask for too much Don't want the world, I just want you to want me How come you're so out of touch? We share a bed, but I'm still feeling lonely Do you even listen when I speak? 'Cause I've been telling you just what I need A little more conversation, a little communication Why is that so hard to see? You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Nothing but silence, I'm always trying I thought you wanted this What happened? You're never there I used to think you cared But you've given up You're giving me the bare, bare minimum You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Is the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Is the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Is the bare, bare, bare minimum

[@baijeravlogsjeramyjuntado]

Love it

[@brandistagnolia3658]

2:11

[@EverythingxBeautiful]

Thank you

[@zozodabozo]

This is the saddest song with banger beats

[@shannonyohe6296]

That made me fall into tears

[@Devilbxby420]

I really like the song! ..The vid is honestly how my bf treats me and when I try to stick up for myself all I get is I don’t wanna hear it.. sh*t sucks but I guess it is what it is

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

Nope they don't want to hear it because they know they are the problem freaken narcissistic jerks 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@rosaj.a.4750]

The same thing that I m living right now... and I need to get it out...

[@angeloneal8061]

I'm so glad you are here Anna ❤️ ;

[@annaclendening]

I'm so glad YOU are here. 💕💕💕

[@crazygirlval5871]

This song speaks to so many people ❤

[@GenXBeeKind]

❤

[@Zelda-Ness]

“We share a bed but I’m still feeling lonely” EXACTLY what I’m dealing with right now. Currently laying in bed next to boyfriend of 3 years both separately on our phone while my cat cuddles me. When I try to cuddle him, I get pushed away. When I try to talk to him, it’s like he’s annoyed. We don’t even kiss anymore unless I initiate but when I point out to him how I feel, I’m the bad guy

[@nisifranklin2927]

This song is amazing and she amazing singer and I love this song and I love all her another songs and I can listen to her songs all the time

[@crystalwoody3090]

Oh dam so true girl !!! Love this song

[@dazedconfused2998]

My husband gives me less then the bare minimum. I'm pregnant. I feel like I'm breaking inside. 😢 So many of your songs I feel a connection to.

[@tinzzz7]

you deserve the world. always remember that. if he's not giving you that, there's someone else more than willing to. know your worth

[@vlr7368]

Please try to leave for a better life. You deserve better. You and your baby deserve the world.

[@thecat174]

Have you tried talking through your problems?

[@iangoodberlet3886]

Love languages🙏🏽

[@yewneek82]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You deserve better & so does your baby. Stay around people who love you and want nothing but the best for you. ❤❤ put YOU first!!

[@myasylem8642]

This hits home right now 😞

[@briredrose]

Every song is always so good. I love music videos

[@mariducasse126]

This says everything I didn't even realize I'm feeling.

[@chrispuglisi3936]

This is such a beautiful song absolutely love your voice first time hearing it ❤️

[@marycarry_]

so many people are single searching for the one and end up like this :) i also live this and... idk

[@sabocikotic7632]

So good - music and everything else

[@Kristylynnlong]

My heart hurts so bad!

[@labodesa]

Half of my marriage looked like this. I was so alone, the bed was so cold, I loved him with all I was and all I had. He lost, not me. It still hurts, but I'll survive.

[@martina-dd6vb]

Im sorry youve been through that, you deserve better❤

[@Froshow]

NOTHING WILL FEEL WORSE than how bad you feel right now if this d what to are in the relationship so leave because it can't feel anymore hurtful than you staying to be treated like this♥️

[@shannonwatson9716]

Amen

[@youresoquiet]

The perspective of the fan is wild 😂

[@andrearobinson7861]

This one hit hard

[@markbuttell1476]

Ya goes both ways

[@lolo64286]

Damn if this doesn't hit home right now! 😭💔

[@TheNovaMuse]

0:25 oooh thats why they call them throw pillows. got it

[@chrispuglisi8171]

I love this song so much

[@whitneyleigh3975]

I feel this

[@itsmaribell1415]

this is why I broke up with my last ex even though he was such a great guy...he refused to work on his communication skills and 2 yrs in I realized I'd be happier alone than staying with him and feeling alone

[@jasmine165]

So proud of you and your progress ♡

[@kirakyouji1021]

This is the song that's reminded me not to go back and that I deserve more

[@SL-ip5kc]

I've never related to a song more in my life

[@TheFridge1313]

Love this song

[@charliezangel77]

You never miss!

[@neanea_stk5376]

Wow this soo cool 💗💗

[@ier_xx]

I love this thank you ♥♥

[@c5d53g2e]

I felt this. 💙

[@0aubrea0]

Transparent vibes.

[@danielwebb2264]

Works both ways

[@gabriellalewis5214]

Oh waw that's how I feel

[@ExploreWithEthan]

I love this .

[@maryadkins5071]

Was me and my ex so glad I've found someone who gives me more