"Nice Guys" Are a Menace to Society

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[@meismetheanimationthing404]

cool.

[@AnnamarieForcino]

thanks.

[@michelewilson6018]

@@AnnamarieForcino yes.

[@devon-qd3vg]

@@michelewilson6018 ok.

[@claycountydays]

@@devon-qd3vg yep.

[@phoebek-r6782]

facts.

[@theythem6781]

When Satan can’t reach you so he sends “nice guys”

[@crunchylettuce]

Off topic, but I was just looking at you username and thought of something. Wouldn’t it be such a power move to legally change your name to your pronouns?

[@zc7770]

@@crunchylettuce Wait you're onto something

[@sathanas1312]

that actually happened to me no lie. I sold my soul when I was 15, but I didn't think it was real so I didn't do the deed. 1 year later I fell for a guy who I thought was nice who actually turned out to be an abusive piece of shit. I was sitting in my room alone thinking of how scared I was that I actually fell for someone and I heard an evil sounding voice say "gotcha bitch" in my ear. this was in the beginning before I found out he was an abusive piece of shit.

[@AnnamarieForcino]

he only sends them when incels are busy!

[@caelmack]

This made me laugh so hard, but it's also true

[@randomdreamer5429]

nice guys be like : "i treated you like a normal human being, now you owe me"

[@niamhworrell3334]

“I gave u the bare minimum a decent human being should give to another now give me everything”

[@lii7622]

"we talked for 25 minutes why aren't you in love with me yet?"

[@QueenBee-pb6bt]

@Omar It's completely circumstantial and personal. There's a time and a place, another person cannot be ready for a relationship even if they are compatible with you. Now imagine, if they aren't compatible, but the guy just likes the idea of the girl but not her as a person.....

[@snakewithapen5489]

It's almost like they're recognizing the norm is for the majority of dudes to treat women like potential sex objects and not complex humans. But noo they're not going to try and break the cycle of course lol

[@snakewithapen5489]

@Omar well I don't think there's really a 'maximum', short of codependency and a guy letting their entire life revolve around the person they're interested in (that's concerning). Generally at least, it's better to be honest with your intentions and how you feel. Most women enjoy when someone is actually interested in them for multiple reasons, not just doing the bare minimum like a basic friend might do and not showing any actual care about their interests or personality otherwise. (and that the guy who's interested is not making a big deal out of the fact that they aren't only after them for sex, e.g- "I'm so much better than these other guys." That's disingenuous and usually creepy.) Of course it all just comes down to personal compatability and depends on if either party are both ready for a relationship at the time lol.

[@breeexmortis]

"Do women actually orgasm?" I had to sit here and rub my eyes for a solid 3 minutes before I could continue. That was almost the last damn straw 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lvxt5342]

“Does a kick in the balls actually hurt?”

[@avacadotoast5571]

That one put me into critical condition.

[@avamasquerade]

Isn't it sad that some people will never experience making a woman climax though? I mean, maybe they don't deserve to know...

[@Ammy-q4w]

This guy will never find out because no woman would ever let him touch them

[@RustyShackleford051]

It's a myth don't let them fool you!

[@miag5779]

The worst nice guys are ones that the internet hypes up: “ he did the bare minimum it takes to be a morally conscious human being. king! ☺️”

[@beep3242]

Tbh that's more sad than anything, we've gotten so used to guys being awful that we revere the ones that aren't. We need to teach people to have higher standards loll

[@ratstanduser]

@@beep3242 I know right it’s really sad that we’re praising guys for the doing the bare minimum 😞

[@AnnamarieForcino]

the bar is so low for men these days🙄

[@andrewwalker9960]

@@AnnamarieForcino These days? Shiiiiit, it’s always been next to nothing.

[@Nunak91]

What part of the world do you live in? Everywhere I see women say '6 pack, 6 figures, 6 ft'. Set the dating app account as male and then tell me how low are standards for men.

[@beccariley6525]

"Facebook is the Florida of social media" LMAOOOO

[@catnus]

this SENT me

[@shuum44]

I live in Florida and I was like I mean your not wrong Lol

[@beccariley6525]

@@shuum44 hhahhahshshhshdgsg same

[@shuum44]

@@beccariley6525 lol

[@AdventuRyn_]

The accuracy though!

[@KatietheKreator]

genuinely nice people don't brag about how nice they are

[@debanikgoswami4834]

Kinda weird nice guys are hated by both feminist circles and manosphere .

[@thisdyingsoul76]

There is a difference between the "nice guy" and someone who is kind. The nice guy has a motive. He expects his kindness to be rewarded somehow and often seeks validation for his good deeds. He does he does to be liked and wants people to know how much of a good person he is. A kind person just does what he believes is the right thing, even if it's not the popular decision. They also don't care if anyone ever knows about their acts of kindness. Where the "nice guy" will broadcast their good deeds all over social media, the kind guy will do a good deed and be perfectly fine with remaining anonymous and have no expectations of being rewarded for their acts of kindness. Don't lump the guy who is kind in with the "nice guy". After seeing a few videos on this topic, I'm realizing that I am not a nice guy, but a kind guy. Early in my relationship with my wife, she thought I was a nice guy.. and kept waiting for me to reveal my true colors, as she put it. I can remember once, she commented that she was not used to being treated so nice by guys and kept waiting for the other shoe to drop and to see me for who I really was... then after some time she says she realized the person she saw was being genuine with her all along. No hidden agendas. No manipulation. No complete 180 in how I treated her and getting angry when I didn't get what she thought I wanted. Just me being me.

[@Crazyhead432]

@@debanikgoswami4834because people in these circles only pretend to have virtue, while simultaneously dog piling dudes who are trying to be kind and nice to gain the affection of women. Really think about that…I’ve heard ppl say nice guys aren’t attractive because they allow themselves to get walked on. And it’s like “you’re defending people walking all over someone because they’re allowing it? Where’s the criticism for them?” It’s like punishing someone for possible manipulative behavior, because of someone else’s actual manipulative behavior. It doesn’t make any sense.

[@metalmadsen]

But then how will people around you know it? 😅

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

says the person who never interacted with nice people. nice people are not gods, they are same humans like us with ego.

[@greyisnthere]

I would like to mention that a movie that features a Nice Guy but doesn't paint him in a good light is Megamind. Hal Stewart isn't rewarded for his creepy behavior and it's never made to seem as though Roxanne should have given him a chance.

[@meeieio]

That’s one of the things I love about that movie

[@greyisnthere]

@@meeieio same, it's one of my absolute favorites

[@ghostie-8089]

Again mega mind is a cinematic master piece

[@snowpoler]

That movie actually delivered such an important message when it came to that.

[@daisyelizabeth5462]

megamind is honestly one of my favourites. i love that movie so much 💛

[@Ivuxoxo]

A guy on tiktok: “hey, women aren’t toys 👍” The comments: “YES 😍” “WE NEED MORE GUYS LIKE YOU 🤩🤩🤩” “YOU ARE LITERALLY PERFECT 😩”

[@radiotelevision2371]

Fr! Human decency, isn’t like a over the top gesture

[@snakewithapen5489]

I mean we do need more dudes like that, but I feel like there are a bunch more boxes one needs to check before they become a 'perfect' guy xd

[@Ivuxoxo]

@@radiotelevision2371 frrr

[@Ivuxoxo]

@@snakewithapen5489 ya but the performative activism is the real problem

[@snakewithapen5489]

@@Ivuxoxo I mean it's different if they genuinely are clueless vs the people who do say that just to get praise (like the nice guys shown) lol

[@creaturenamedalistair]

"the bar was so low it was practically a tripping hazard in hell, and yet here you are, limbo dancing with the devil" - some person on the internet I can't remember the user name of

[@marvin2678]

for women ? yes

[@slimyboixd]

​@@marvin2678 You good fam?

[@jackieandthesheetmetals]

@@marvin2678you’re the guy they’re talking about in this video

[@microcult]

"I bought my v*gina at a pawn shop" LMAOO

[@AnnamarieForcino]

it’s true!

[@peachypanda57]

@@AnnamarieForcino how much did it cost? asking for a friend

[@alexandrarivera2332]

Can I sell my boobs at the pawn shop, their annoying and other women would enjoy them more

[@ihopeyourtriggered2987]

Can I sell my uterus at a pawnshop? I don't need it nor want it and I will happily give it to someone in need of it

[@demonprincess5714]

@@AnnamarieForcino wait wait how much did it cost i want one

[@killanelle]

"if your womb is screaming for children" i'm gonna go throw up real quick anyone wanna join

[@hannahharris8474]

I'll be joining

[@hudaheckru]

Count me in🤢

[@Nunak91]

Not all of you but some of you will sound very different in few years.

[@hudaheckru]

@@Nunak91 Yea after a few years some of our wombs are gonna scream for Mitchell's kids🗿

[@Nunak91]

@@hudaheckru at first not for Mitchell's kids but as time passes maybe even Mitchell's ones.

[@jahipalmer8782]

"well-behaved women" may be the grossest phrase I've heard this week.

[@marvin2678]

simp

[@tyriq_mcgee8280]

That’s incels for you

[@youhavelostankleprivileges5636]

i dont understand how people can think the logic nice guys use in any way sound "how dare she chose a guy with ulterior motives over me, a guy with ulterior motives"

[@jdt3594]

It’s not that nice guys have ulterior motives, it’s that we get sick of constantly being rejected whilst assholes get all the pussy they want. Back when I used to be nice to women (I’m not anymore because they don’t deserve it), I was equally nice to women I didn’t find attractive and wouldn’t sleep with. I was also equally nice to men and I’m a straight guy. You people are dead wrong

[@montymints]

@@jdt3594 *DEEP INHALE* son. My poor sweet baby boy.

[@edukuedd7126]

@@jdt3594 you attract what you are, that's what happens when you value sex so much oh dear

[@Rerizz]

The guy in the replies literally proved this comment's point lmao

[@youhavelostankleprivileges5636]

​@@jdt3594 oh my god

[@TaraMooknee]

your description of Facebook needs to become canon

[@GreysonDerulo-tv3bd]

omg i love your channel

[@idontwantahandlethough]

@@GreysonDerulo-tv3bd it b funy

[@holypancake3233]

Oh gosh! YOUR CHANNEL SO AMAZING! P.S.: When cow will appear in your video?

[@Jimbob6514III]

One of my friends is lesbian and they constantly deal with “nice guys” attempting to convince them that they aren’t lesbian. HOW IS THIS A THING?

[@poopynaomi2993]

Mitchell just wants to tell everyone about his breeding kink.

[@Butterflier00]

Mitchell is Nick Canon???

[@Cloudkirb]

@@Butterflier00 HELP

[@avamasquerade]

Man... Mitch is talking like he's gonna nut into creation about 12 orphans, *at least* ...

[@mitchellnelson6249]

Are you kink-shaming me?? LMAO

[@andreina3581]

the three dislikes are the “nice guys” seeing this video and feeling attacked

[@radiotelevision2371]

They are so nice, that they hate on videos talking about them ^^

[@slevinchannel7589]

@Lenny Boi Noble Xenon and Others cover Nice-Guyz all the time. Check 'em out!

[@slevinchannel7589]

@Lenny Boi And ReddX.

[@CynicalBastard]

Or just, the premise of this video is just more of the same shit you'll see on any given day in America, on any political "side", and it's annoying? You people want perfect...it's not happening so...keep making these videos...that'll do it. That'll change all of you, and your society, into something more amiable.

[@raumarsene9910]

@@CynicalBastard no, we just don't want people who actually respect us and not treat us as an object meant to be won. It would be nice if the bar wasn't in the debts of hell.

[@ShelbyTaylorExists]

I pride myself on *being* the opposite of everything the incel wants in a wo(multiple past partners, girls' nights fairly regularly, no kids, slightly overweight) while *having* everything the incel want (a loving, healthy, long-term relationship with someone who respects me.) It's like a gigantic unintentional middle finger.

[@zeaferjones1404]

Why do you hate virgin men and how would you know what they want. Your boyfriend is the one who suffers not virgins

[@swampdonkey4919]

You're proud of being overweight? Having no kids makes you more desirable to incels.

[@brownvoltaire2722]

we will tale your word for it and hey divorce does happen so fingers crossed

[@ChibuikeNwume-hq5yn]

Peak hating I respect

[@ewoz2161]

awww i love how “positive masculinity” is basically just being anti-woman !!

[@hervaina966]

Don't you mean toxic masulinity? Like being agressive, super possessive and stuff?

[@keo22]

I think you mean toxic masculinity

[@Fl0rales]

@@hervaina966 i think thats why its in quotes it is toxic masculinity but many people who support it call it positive because thats the way they want it

[@kodo_meow]

@@hervaina966 I think toxic masculinity is also dong things to make themselves appear as little gay as possible too

[@butternutyeeetsbanana.-.5389]

@@kodo_meow it’s like they don’t want woman and they want nothing but men…so yeah basically, an angry dude that won’t come out of the closet and needs to take it out on woman lol!

[@shochre6497]

"Sorry, that must have been my uterus" I'm dying lol

[@cricketandgraham8644]

@@slevinchannel7589 bruh what

[@sophitiaofhyrule]

I was friends with a nice guy. I thought he was awesome until he showed his true colors, and man was he ugly on the inside. He would brag about how he doesn't beat or r*pe women, as if that was impressive somehow. That's the least of what he did though, that guy was genuinely scary. It's a massive relief I don't go to that school anymore.

[@ThePulse2x]

He had to say that because oftentimes women reward guys with bad behavior with sex or relationship🤷‍♂️

[@Gabry4777]

​@@ThePulse2xah yes, what woman wouldn't sleep with a guy who bears her or... r*pe her (so she rewards him sexually for having sex with her without her permission). And by your logic he said thise things to not get laid.

[@captainhowlerwilson508]

Yeah. I have been recently talking to someone who seems to fit all this criteria, and I have a serious feeling that he has problems inside.

[@sarb05]

Anyone who does something for you expecting something in return automatically makes them not nice.

[@Melly16yr10]

exactly

[@Gleowyn]

Depends on what that something is and / or if some compensation was discussed beforehand. But expecting something without saying you want compensation before doing the thing is scummy.

[@stephanietanner9509]

Agreed the whole general idea of being nice is doing it selflessly

[@Phantasmen]

Thats such a bs Statement removed from this context

[@ThePulse2x]

Like going out with a guy and expected him to pay for your food😃

[@prettymaryk8394]

women literally can't do anything without someone saying something stupid about it

[@bee458]

Literally the other day I was with my friends and I said something about musical theatre cause I like it and my friend's little brother was just like "Musical theatre, is that what girls are into nowadays?" and I just said "I don't know I like it." and he was very much trying to stereotype everything we did and talked about as something cringey that girls do and guys don't kinda trying to separate himself from anything that could be considered feminine.

[@wayln2591]

@@bee458 this shows that even younger boys are taught sexism. This is why so many teen boys rapists and shooters. Wish people educated boys better.

[@slevinchannel7589]

But grammar?

[@winstonmarlowe5254]

@@wayln2591 Yes, not wanting to be considered feminine is why men rape and murder. Very astute.

[@I.D.I.O.C.R.A.C.Y.]

Oh, stop. At this point, a woman could take a shit in the middle of the street and a vocal group would be screaming it was stunning and brave and how it's an important milestone in dismantling the patriarchy. One errant comment doesn't indicate a trend. Multiple events under the same banner indicate a trend.

[@thatguy3903]

20:45 Kyle here just admitted to literally not being able to pleasure ANY women. Not even waterboarding could get that damning of information out of me

[@rubyxaruby]

The nice guy in How I met Your Mother isn't Marshall, it's Ted. Marshall is a genuinely nice person, whereas Ted is a needy whiny nice guy who thinks the world owes him for basic human decency.

[@invernessfan3017]

Nice people should win. Evil bullies should lose. There is nothing wrong with expecting people to be nice to nice people.

[@mysterygamer2793]

@@invernessfan3017 they should, but that doesn’t mean they have to. And just because you’re “better” the some doesn’t mean you’re “good”.

[@rafal2959]

@@mysterygamer2793 yes, no one is legally required to be nice to a person that is nice to them, no shit. But if someone is genuinely trying to be nice to you and you mistreat them...you are a scumbag.

[@KellieValentine]

I was thinking this! Marshall is such a lovely character and Ted is a massive pain in the ass.

[@kitkatboard]

@@KellieValentine Marshall should have been the main character

[@romansrevenge1711]

let’s not forget bo burnham playing the “nice guy” in promising young woman

[@j.a.sinclair5932]

I honestly didn't even register that he was a "nice guy" lmaooo

[@radiotelevision2371]

Bo burnham is a king 👑

[@daisyelizabeth5462]

promising young woman has its problems but i love that movie so much, i want the disc 😔

[@louisemiller7584]

Yes!

[@Theratietwobyfour]

I like his music

[@ChloeRaine-jn4wu]

“I do know that drake is creepy” this aged PHENOMENALY

[@isa.be11e]

their just like “i treated you like a human being, so are you gonna come over to my place now..? orr???”

[@Naomi-wo8dz]

“-or am I going to need to kidnap you?”

[@enonoka]

"Ugh, how DARE you refuse to date me when I held the door open for you!!1!1!"

[@thesilkportfolio]

Things this video helped me realize that I love: 1. Sterilized intimacy 2. A charcuterie of d 3. Weekends with the gals 4. Not having a Facebook account 5. Not being a well behaved woman

[@slevinchannel7589]

Yeah, ok, the Opinion of some KZbinr is nice and good, and that random Wikipedia Page is also a nice Source, but if anyone wants to really dive into the Psychology, then i recommend 'The Take' and how deconstructs, dissects and analyses many tropes, including Nice-Guys, Asia-Fetish, and Nice-Guys-with-Asia-Fetish.

[@magnarcreed3801]

@@slevinchannel7589 Your comment feels a bit random. Helpful hit random.

[@slevinchannel7589]

@@magnarcreed3801 Did you mean 'Helpful but random'? Did you misspell?

[@mr.x2567]

@Ungabunga.44Found the incel

[@pot8oenthusiast]

I was in a love triangle once. I liked another girl and we hung out a lot, and then a fuckin nice guy wedged himself into the situation. He ended up pushing her away from me with his guilt trips, pathological lies, and sexual harassment. He was nice to her, so apparently that gave him grounds to treat her poorly, and then turn around and manipulate me into leaving everything alone. We were always in a weird situation where the girl I like expected me to be his friend, and I was trying my hardest to be sincere and polite, but it eventually became too much. We all ended up distancing ourselves from one another after the nice guy went and lied to her about me and told her that I said some really sexually explicit stuff about her that I never said or would even think of saying. She was too emotionally confused to sort out the situation, though she understood that he was lying. I was too upset and hurt to stay. And well the nice guy finally moved on after he realized he wasn't welcome. A real shame that was. Oh yeah he also said some homophobic stuff to me :')

[@captainhowlerwilson508]

I am so sorry to hear about that. I hope you and that girl can reconcile and I hope that lying shithead of a “nice guy” never gets what he wants.

[@pot8oenthusiast]

@@captainhowlerwilson508 Hey, it's been some many years and I've honestly mostly forgotten about it. Life is fine right now and I used to be a much angrier person. I'm a little embarrassed that I came into a KZbin comment section to vent about all that stuff when I was still upset about it. Nevertheless, I appreciate your words. Haven't spoken to either of these people in more than three years. Life goes on and I can only hope that things keep looking up.

[@yolandaponkers1581]

Nice guys will angrily turn on you like nothing you’ve ever seen. Amazing how quickly, “You’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen” becomes, “Fine, you’re ugly, anyway.”

[@invernessfan3017]

It is evil to fancy evil men. It is not feminist o hate people for being nice, It is not feminist to hate nice people. It is not feminist to support bullies, rapists and wife beaters.

[@j.c.2240]

@@invernessfan3017 ???

[@fangirl3086]

@@invernessfan3017 And it isn't feminist to submit to the first guy that is "nice".

[@catspawgardner3213]

They get pissed because the girl they want won't give them a chance. "Hey dude, she doesn't owe you anything & it doesn't matter if you've known her since you guys were kids. You can't force a girl to like you so get over it."

[@hottea9826]

what i thought positive masculinity was: "hey bro ur ass lookin fine" "thanks man but not as fine as your smile" what actually is:

[@ZumbieVe]

That made me laugh thank you 🙏

[@kenos911]

I thought it was masculinity but positive

[@wilburwilliams36]

Nah, the first is what it actually is. A lot of people get it twisted. Remember, those who say the dumbest things are usually the loudest.

[@Montesama314]

"Ayo, but I could get so many women pregnant-" "WOAH, Mitchell, we don't need you talking about your balls again!"

[@caranook]

Ladykillers, by Lush is one of my favourite songs and it’s about ‘nice guys’. It’s held up so well, it’s about a girl getting hit on at a bar and trying to reject said nice guy. He is talking about how he’s better than most guys because he thinks women are better than men, his sensitive soul and he’s slowly trying to bring sex into the conversation. It really worth a listen, the lyrics are really good and it’s just a good song overall!

[@eyesonjoely]

I don’t know why I found “Mitchell, we wanna learn more about you, NOT your ballsack” so freaking funny 😂 12:44

[@bobfruck]

it's because it's comedy gold, honey

[@mewow3556]

off topic i love your pfp. Tillys great

[@djb1zarre_kompatime]

Bc it is funny

[@eyesonjoely]

@@djb1zarre_kompatime it so is

[@kayleecaca]

"facebook is the Florida of social media" that is the best way to describe it😭

[@graeson3317]

So many guys get frustrated the second they find out I cant have kids. I'm very open about the fact i still want to be a mom but i would have to be a foster/adoptive mom.

[@jittercritter]

I’m sorry to hear that. I don’t understand the stigma against adopting… so many kids out there need a good home, and yet so many people who openly want kids refuse to adopt. Like I get it’s a personal choice and blood is important to some people but it’s sad. I hope if you chose to adopt you and your kid(s) have a great life together!

[@graeson3317]

@@jittercritter I myself had a pretty bad childhood so it definitely pushed me to be a foster/adoptive mom because I want to be the mom that I wish I had

[@kitkatty52211]

@@jittercritter I think a lot of the problems with adopting stem from the system itself and the idea of a savior complex. Queer couples struggle a lot with getting accepted into the adoption or fostering system, while white couples will adopt or foster a black kid because they want to colonize them basically. Then these kids will get "returned" like they are a pet. It's really bad, but that's precisely why I want to buy an old mall or school or something and turn it into a safe fostering place for kids when I get older.

[@Ifmdvjgoo]

"alrighty well hello sinners, how are ya ?" Ears : blessed 💛👄💛

[@CureSmileful]

not for too long

[@kodo_meow]

@@CureSmileful lol ikr

[@radiotelevision2371]

I LOVE HOW ROSS FROM FRIENDS IS IN THE THUMBNAIL! Fr tho- I feel like these are the type of people who not only like ross, but *aspire* to be ross. If you like Ross then like.. maybe don’t talk to me.

[@shuum44]

I only like Ross cause in danganronpa, he’s a meme So I wouldn’t say like him I would just say he is in some weird memes

[@mandypandy9587]

He always made me feel uncomfortable and I could never explain to people why, now I know, big ol creep vibes

[@radiotelevision2371]

@@mandypandy9587 For me “WE WERE ON BREAK!” Was the straw that broke the camel’s back

[@lapotato6620]

@@radiotelevision2371 I also hated how he was pushing for a relationship with his EX WIFE and as she was a LESBIAN and said no to him several times.

[@radiotelevision2371]

@@lapotato6620 EXACTLY!! Like no is no. He acts as if he’s a random bystander when stuff in his life goes wrong. Like he has 4+ failed serious relationships, that’s not a random happening!

[@smartgoose9535]

one time i was cat called (even though i'm male) and i ignored them and he said "is it because i'm ugly?" he was trying to make me feel bad for him, so i continued to ignore him.

[@lezley8465]

He holds open the door for you and expects you to treat him like a God

[@ThePulse2x]

No just with respect

[@passionate_possum_pal]

@@ThePulse2x you left over 40 comments on this video alone, triggered much?

[@madestin7293]

@@ThePulse2x definitely people should treat others with respect. The problem is some people say "respect" and actually mean "you should agree with everything I say etc"

[@Coty_Lee]

When the nice guy gets tired of being mistreated, that's when society should be afraid. Because that's when he'll make an edgy statement with a joker picture and then get back to doing nothing.

[@ThePulse2x]

Yeah laugh it up make fun of the nice guy and y'all wonder why they're becoming killers🙄

[@ryanshreds]

@@ThePulse2x if they’re “becoming killers” then they weren’t nice in the first place

[@ThePulse2x]

@@ryanshreds human nature doesn't work that way if you're desperate or hopeless enough even the "nicest person" you know are capable of anything

[@Cloudkirb]

@@ThePulse2x the guy ain't even nice bro. Are you one or something??

[@GigaDonk99]

@@ThePulse2x They turn themselves into killers.

[@robinchesterfield42]

10:36 "Thrifted Vaginas" is totally the name of my new all-female polka band.

[@randomisonline]

6:50 MGTOW is an acronym that officially means "Men Going Their Own Way", and ironically, the group is not about men going their own way. It's a really about a bunch of men whining that no one will date them, wondering why women won't "submit to them", and blaming women for all their problems in life. Simply put, they're (usually) less violent incels.

[@skantewarrior109]

Ur wrong there a incel branch

[@randomisonline]

@@skantewarrior109 How am I wrong? I compared them to incels in my comment didn't I?

[@randomisonline]

@@skantewarrior109 I mean, they're very similar to incels, but they're technically a separate group. I'm not expert, but from what I understand that's the case.

[@skantewarrior109]

@@randomisonline separate however pure inceldom

[@randomisonline]

@@skantewarrior109 Yes, that's what I said.

[@Aspoonz]

NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING Being nice doesn't mean that because you are nice the world owes you something for being nice. Sorry if that didn't make sense

[@Nunak91]

Exactly, that's why some guys learn to be assholes, it's easier and more beneficial short term :)

[@Lucifer_333]

@@Nunak91 that doesn't mean you need to be an ass to everyone especial women

[@Nunak91]

@@Lucifer_333 'especially women'? They're somehow entitled to be treated better? Being an asshole is only beneficial shorterm.

[@Idk_anymore_1239]

@@Nunak91 you need some WAP brother 😂

[@Idk_anymore_1239]

@@Nunak91 I used to be an ass and all it does is fill your heart with regret,be nice to people with no end goal no matter what. Try to be the person that you would want in your life. No one is entitled to anything. Change your mindset and be better tomorrow

[@KL-ki8db]

Thank you so much for also acknowledging the existence of “nice girls”. Any person of any demographic can become toxic. Also on a side note for the “nice people” who get “brutally friendzoned”, I honestly believe most people don’t understand the importance and value of having friendships just as much as relationships.

[@alexxhansen8133]

frrrr, people always care more about romantic relationships :/

[@onyxmeliodas4114]

“Nice guys finish last”. Yes, for a reason:)

[@c_amo]

as they should

[@AnnamarieForcino]

exactly!

[@mpsam2967]

As Maya Chamerlain said, "No, no they don't"

[@ast.4049]

*""Nice Guys" finish last"

[@mpsam2967]

@@ast.4049 What I was referring to that "Nice Guys" dont finish the race at all. Or even more realistically, dont fucking parcipitate in it. My bad

[@LePetitDoll]

'While my heart goes out to the victim, I don't feel at all sorry for her _goes on a tangent on why she deserved it_ ' Where the hell did your heart go then?

[@im_skibidi_sigma]

down the toilet😭(joke :D)

[@jennifergriel861]

6:02 trans woman here to offer a unique experience! My experience before I transitioned with the few friendships I actually managed to have with guys was that they were all very surface level, just talking about stuff we we’re mutually interested in or activities we were doing. It wasn’t until I came out and transitioned that I started getting any sort of emotional closeness from the new friendships I was making with women (this time in college). I’ve seen this sentiment echoed in other places online where it’s just the way men are socialized from a young age that they don’t expect to put emotional work into what they consider just a “friendship”. They only expect that from a relationship or partner. And so the construct breaks down when women are socialized to give that kind of intimacy to ordinary friends. The solution? Teach your sons that it’s ok to be intimate with your bros. And nice guys are still assholes. But now I know where this particular problem is coming from. No idea how to fix the rest of their problems though.

[@indiesigi7807]

Yet all the research indicates male friendships are much stronger and more stable than female ones.

[@jennifergriel861]

@@indiesigi7807 what research?

[@indiesigi7807]

@@jennifergriel861 there's plenty, google it...

[@peachypineapples502]

Am i the only one thats weirded out by Olivia Rodrigo dating her 25 year old producer? She is literally freshly eighteen

[@Me-vn3gz]

yess, it happens a lot in hollywood and the music industry that it normalizes grooming

[@happiflowrr]

Not the only one; that’s scary af poor girl

[@kagaminefever]

It's so screwed up and it happens with almost every teenager in the entertainment industry

[@alicemadness999]

Hillary Duff typebeat

[@prada4bratz]

Jay z and Beyonce too 😭

[@lamb2004]

another example of a “nice guy” character is riley finn from buffy the vampire slayer. he felt so threatened with buffy being more powerful and wanted to be her saviour when she said many times that she didn’t need his help.

[@slevinchannel7589]

Grammar though?

[@1ndiasmusic]

I know this was ages ago but Xander was the biggest nice guy. He gets shitty every time Buffy dates someone else or when she wasn't into him. Leaves Anya at the alter and then expects to still be dating, losing his shit when she sleeps with Spike. Constantly looks down on everyone else, blames Buffy for getting cheated on because she didn't make Riley feel needed. He didn't tell Buffy about Willow's plan to re-ensoul Angel because he was jealous. Fetishised Willow and Tara's relationship. Biggest POS, although Riley fights for that crown.

[@ryanzod6986]

​@1ndiasmusic Xander was nothing but bad writing. I could of written a better ark for him. The writers just made him an asshole with no depth.

[@heyyou2539]

My mom got me when she was 38 and my brother when she was 40. My brother and I are healthy and happy. My mom concentrated on her career and now she is able to offer us a good lifestyle. I am grateful

[@Oleander2116]

No one: nice guys: *stalking women and degrading them* how they think women will react: damn that's hot how they actually react: wtf get away from me

[@radiotelevision2371]

This is the problem when people watch “You” and act like it’s pickup artistry

[@ddjsoyenby]

"why are you doing these things mike?!" "i'm such a nice guy" "no you're an insane v10l3nt stalker get away from me"

[@slevinchannel7589]

Noble Xenon and Others cover Nice-Guyz all the time. Check 'em out!

[@Ollie_the_Possum]

Then "Nice guys" Get mad when we defend ourselves 🙄

[@cheeseconnoisseur8192]

I like how in the first joker meme, loses is misspelled. Because clearly the most intimidating thing on this earth is a spelling mistake

[@dessertcactus]

This video happened to come into my feed and helped me get through a really bad mental health episode without it getting worse. Your demeanor and voice are so upbeat. Love your videos

[@katheryn2337]

for Men Going Their Own Way, they sure do have their heads in womens' business lmao

[@LilMissTravelPants]

They need to go their own way FARTHER away

[@katheryn2337]

that’s what I’m saying!!!

[@wayln2591]

Also notice how it should be "their" but in that Facebook group they wrote "there"...no matter what kinda men, they always gonna mess up basic words. 😂😂😂😂

[@Will.Flavell]

They watch a lot of Sandman videos believing they are superior because they don’t pay child support and alimony so getting rich with money becomes their goal just to shove it in other people’s faces just to make themselves feel better but they are still envious.

[@sonyvalencia]

@@LilMissTravelPants 😆🤭

[@sydkleinholz5791]

well behaved women ✍🏻 don’t ✍🏻 go ✍🏻 to ✍🏻 vineyards ✍🏻

[@AnnamarieForcino]

thank u sydney i’m glad you’re taking notes

[@wayln2591]

Me planning to have my own vineyard-🤓🤓

[@The_strawberryqueen]

Ross being in the thumbnail makes so much sense

[@christmasitto1884]

I'm actually learning from this. Also, thanks for the rape topic warning.

[@AnnamarieForcino]

of course 🤍

[@DiamantisHell]

We love a cultured duck

[@gh0stgarbage]

It worries me when I see minors on TikTok praising nice guys when they see an interaction-bait post where someone says “obviously immoral thing is bad, actually”, then the comments go wild patting the poster on the back. It makes me feel like their standards are going to be underground when they’re adults. :’))

[@blehblehblehdracula]

How is a man on TINDER looking for someone who hasn’t ever been with another human being. It’s. Tinder.

[@allison1989]

"I be nice give me 🐱 now!!!!!!!!! 😡😡😡😡" - every nice guy ever

[@invernessfan3017]

Wrong. Every nice person tries to be nice to help other people. You are cynical and want to punish good people. You come up with a warped logic to hate people for being nice. Nice people should win.

[@mysterygamer2793]

@@invernessfan3017 you are literally in Everyone’s comments. That is obviously not what they said

[@ThePulse2x]

@@mysterygamer2793 nope he's right !! for some reason it became cool for women to bash guys for being nice and wonder why they run into so many fuckboys🙄

[@Frankie-wc6tg]

The last one made me SO MAD like this guy just assumes the woman was being shallow, then says that’s justification for being r@ped??! Omg dude maybe your attitude is a big reason why ppl don’t wanna date you

[@amc-world3956]

No it’s cause he is not good looking. Even if he says that but looks like a model will have a gf.

[@nyxskip]

wow that wine pun... really embracing your role as the female version of kurtis conner

[@rat3015]

Hate the idea of a "pre-owned vagina" as if their vagina has ever belonged to anyone but the person whose body it is a part of

[@softiejace]

i just don't understand what guys are hoping for when they write a dating profile that insults women who read it

[@peezieforestem5078]

It's simple, they do not consider it insulting. They are looking to find people with similar values, same as everyone else.

[@moyazhao4676]

Tbh, I hate how people judge people for caring about appearances. Like yeah, it's the human nature, some people would want to date an individual they find attractive, it doesn't mean their 'sluts' or horrible people.

[@stephanietanner9509]

Agreed

[@ananaspryde5687]

You whats so funny to me? Those nice guys care alot about the appearence of women. They have the absurdest standards for how they want their Partner to look, but at the same time they will call women "shallow" for caring how their sexual partners look. Its ok if they do it but women should just accept any man who asks for sex its absurd

[@lu-__-]

fr. if youre respectful about it and dont bully other people for how they look, its totally normal to have preferences for a date or a hookup

[@slevinchannel7589]

Yeah, ok, the Opinion of some KZbinr is nice and good, and that random Wikipedia Page is also a nice Source, but if anyone wants to really dive into the Psychology, then i recommend 'The Take' and how deconstructs, dissects and analyses many tropes, including Nice-Guys, Asia-Fetish, and Nice-Guys-with-Asia-Fetish.

[@fruitybee7199]

Completely agree on a second note your profile pick so great

[@valentine3519]

"That boy bad news he a menace to society"

[@isa.be11e]

OMG I LOVE YOUR PFP I LOVE ANGIE SM

[@oceanwxves6608]

THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT OF LMAO

[@bigchungusstarscream7319]

Hello enby Angie :)

[@randompersonontheinternet5183]

@Valentine I love your profile picture!!

[@valentine3519]

@@randompersonontheinternet5183 oh thank you

[@emilyjohn2034]

The weird sperm guys profile started out so good with the first sentence and then went so bad so quick. Like a profile talking about getting a cute farm house together and raising some animals and kids is nice, and then immediately hits us with the “being a mother like you should be” and then goes on about his sperm like sir you were so close

[@korilynnadams4729]

In HIMYM, Marshall is actually a good dude, Ted is the "nice guy"

[@kyylecrandall]

OOOOO I LOVE The new background. And also the title is absolutely correct. The title. Just alone.

[@invernessfan3017]

People who support evil are evil. It is evil to hate hate people for being nice. It is not feminist of profound or original for supporting evil men. It is cowardly and weak minded to support evil.

[@kyylecrandall]

@@invernessfan3017 uh nice guys are not actually nice. They are rather creepy actually. Like it doesn’t literally mean Nice Guy. Its a joke lol

[@pnastysavage5510]

"Facebook is the florida of social media" I'm dyin here !

[@beccariley6525]

I'm loving the quality😩🙏

[@ratstanduser]

Same

[@AnnamarieForcino]

thank u bestie!!!

[@beccariley6525]

@@AnnamarieForcino you are so welcome😝❤

[@adriannadivine5909]

Drake is 100% a nice guy he professed his love for Rihanna publicly and when she didn’t date him he collabed with Chris brown

[@ThePulse2x]

Nope he just realized he had to respect himself because she obviously didn't respect him or how he feels and his beef with Chris Brown was based on her

[@adriannadivine5909]

@@ThePulse2x yeah because Chris Brown beat her which should cause any sane person to not like them. He collabed with her abuser because he was butt hurt. Cry me a river

[@ThePulse2x]

@@adriannadivine5909 she also collaborated with him🤷before he did

[@ahzora8017]

@@adriannadivine5909didn’t Rihanna beat him too? So it’s bad for a man to hit a women but it’s ok for a woman to do the same

[@amc-world3956]

@@adriannadivine5909even now Chris brown has girls defending him and tell me how the nice guys are wrong?

[@AzureSiniy]

Honestly I couldn't even be mad by that midroll ad joke, you genuinely planned it out so well.

[@fantasticbeck3938]

wait, Marshall isn't the "nice guy" on How I Met Your Mother... he's a genuinely nice guy. TED is the "nice guy"

[@ihatestupidpplk3417]

Omg...ur so right👁👄👁

[@annarengela2198]

yep

[@daisiemunro2835]

thank you!!! i was gonna say that

[@athenasuperheldin1017]

Was just gonna say that too! Marshall is actually a genuinely good guy!

[@uhhidk73]

So true!!

[@emmad7299]

That one guy from the video: “her uterus will give out if she waits that long” My mom who had me at 40: *REAL SHIT?*

[@Catsclaw-ru6zw]

She should've told him "Hey since when is my womb any of your business? If you want to pop out babies now in your 20s then go find a girl to do that with I know what I want when I want get lost creep." This guy obviously had his sights one her in particular but got blasted when she said she wants to wait to have kids.

[@peachypanda57]

okay ngl the guy at 11:30 ALMOST had the right idea when he was like “aren’t you sick of men & the boss hitting on you?” but then he instantly reverted to gross misogyny w/ the yearning for a family

[@alissajohnson6481]

IMO Ted is the “nice guy” in HIMYM!

[@meeieio]

Yeah marshal is cool, ted is the nice guy,

[@gabyrunner4life]

Literally searching the comments to see if someone else said this!!! Ted is the jerk not Marshall!

[@korilynnadams4729]

💯💯💯

[@guardedheart7855]

Honestly, it’s crazy because he was painted as such a good guy and tbh I think Barney behaved better than him.

[@johnwalker1058]

In HIMYM, Ted is the "Nice Guy TM," while Marshall is an actual, genuine nice guy.

[@plushdragonteddy]

19:55 "it's rare that a relationship ends because one party is TOO respectful" i did once have a boyfriend who requested that i make decisions for him without consulting him bc that's what he liked, and i straight up did not know how to make myself do that. i thought it was a kink thing, my therapist said it was because he basically wanted me to be a surrogate mom for him gdfjkdhfg (which sadly does check out with the rest of his behavior)

[@peezieforestem5078]

But have you considered that it might be a problem of you not being able to make decisions on your own?

[@shai_town_]

What I find kinda funny (not really), is that they use the joker as their mascot/symbol. Like ah yes your such a nice guy, matter of fact your so nice that you’ll use an abusive, insane, murder clown as your symbol of “positive masculinity”!! Such a nice man!! /sarcasm

[@milkak6823]

See the thing is the Joker (at least from tdk) has this aura of "I get what I want and will fuck up everyone standing in my way" and Nice Guys try imitating him without.... you know having any of the qualities that make the Joker so interesting and fearsome. Like not even the Joker fangirls would settle for a Nice Guy and I think that's the funniest thing ever.

[@anniemcclory5364]

Ross is such a creep. He is such a hypocrite towards Rachel (even before the whole “we were on a break” debacle) throughout the duration of all their relationships together. He body shames Monica about how she used to be fat. He has admitted that in high school he was attracted to an elderly librarian and actually acted on that attraction. He seemingly forgets or just neglects the fact that he has a son. He is incredibly condescending to Carol and Susan. I could go, but Ross upsets me so much that I can’t stomach thinking about him any longer. 🤮✌️

[@invernessfan3017]

Nonsense. Ross is a good guy. If you hate him then you have issues.

[@mysterygamer2793]

@@invernessfan3017 how is he a good guy though? Examples

[@strangeandinteresting]

@@invernessfan3017 Holy shit, dude, you're on so many comment threads on this video. Are you, like... Okay? Are you having a rough day? Why are you here?

[@winstonmarlowe5254]

What's wrong with liking GILFs?

[@nigelft]

Quite honestly, the only two characters I could stand from 'Friends', was Joey, and Phoebe. The rest ... way too insular, annoying, and, at times, narcissistic.

[@rilleygriffin]

I LOVE this video and the comment section under it. It’s like an itch being scratched for me bc no one talks about the hypocrisy. thank you, all 😭

[@murrenkelly3866]

I had an old friend from high school come to me after he went to college and tell me “I have only had shitty girlfriends since you wouldn’t go to prom with me. You were my last chance to be with a decent girl so unless you’ll be with me I’m just gonna be stuck with more toxic relationships.” From what he said his past relationships definitely weren’t the healthiest but I was so shocked that he would pin that on ME. We hadn’t even talked for like 2 years.

[@Clader80]

What’s that say again? Oh yeah it’s "Like a compass needle that’s points north, a man’s accusing finger always finds a woman, always".

[@Sarella333]

My parents were 37! It took IVF, but they ended up with twins! But wow man. You're right. Women can't get pregnant after 30. My mum must be a liar.

[@eldron29-a54]

... My family breaks records. XD my great grandmother had her last child when she was 60 or so.

[@darkshadowrule2952]

Fertility treatments actually boost the chances of having twins by a lot, so it's really kinda cool intervention did that for your parents.

[@Sarella333]

@@darkshadowrule2952 It is cool, I agree. They always wanted a boy and a girl. Without the medical assistance, they would have been lucky if they got one child. Maybe never would have had one. Now they have my brother and myself. Science is insanely helpful!

[@joyiswhatIwantedtofeel]

My ex coworker from forever ago got pregnant, with no problem, at almost 40

[@virginiaf4117]

Yeah my mom had me at 48 lmao some people are delusional

[@fruitybee7199]

So I'm friends with this guy and he got mad at me because he said we've been friends and he waited for 3 years for me to turn straight

[@cheebuu3360]

THE AD PLANCEMENT JOKE WAS SO CLEVER

[@AnnamarieForcino]

THANK YOU BESTIE

[@rats_in_a_PACK]

ikr not enough people are talking about it

[@HyperspaceGalaxy]

I didn't get an ad cuz premium lol

[@ashleybensler4425]

Regarding the part about a niceguy saying 30 is too old to have kids, my mom had me at 34 and had 0 complications. And that was 21 years ago when medical technology was even less advanced!

[@daniellej5605]

Totally agree my mum was 32 and no complications either!

[@teastainsonmyteeth]

yeah, my mom had kids at 31, 33 and 36 and we’re all okay!

[@twoghostsinacornfeild]

I was born 2 months before my mum's 40th birthday and there were no complications at all, and it was her first (and only) pregnancy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@reezis1619]

Do you know how statistics work?

[@peezieforestem5078]

Anecdotal experience cannot be used to disprove statistics. A guy I know survived a horrific car crash with no injuries. What now? Does that prove that car crashes are actually safe? I hope you see that it doesn't. Similarly, your mom having no complications doesn't disprove that the risk of complications increases with age. Your life is your own, and you are free to make your own choices. If you're willing to accept the higher risk, or just don't want to have kids in general, that's on you. But do not convince yourself and others that there is no increased risk, you're doing a disservice to everyone.

[@sora_senpai2957]

And this is why I hate The Notebook. Everyone says it's a classic but the guy is so so so creepy towards this girl, but people apparently hate guys like this until their hot 🙄

[@marycatherine5424]

Men treating us as less than human beings is the reason why many women's standards are so low and many women fall for the 'nice guy'. It's the reason why many women do not realise their self worth and do not realise that they are worth more than basic human decency and a few well placed nice words from a man. But when women break free of this illusion the 'nice guys' feel attacked because it's not easy to take advantage of someone who has come to know what she's worth and there are no low standards for you to use to climb into her life.

[@cinemathequerouge317]

???? I have never had nor have had any friends who have regretted "falling for a Nice Guy," I have fallen for MANY a Bad Boy. When I got older, I RAISED my standards and started trying to get a Nice Guy!

[@marycatherine5424]

@@cinemathequerouge317 Did you miss the whole video? A 'nice guy' does not mean someone who is just a nice person. It means someone who is only nice to you because they expect something from you in return, not because it's just right to be nice to a person. And many of these 'nice guys' can get mad and violent when they don't get what they think you owed them just because they were 'nice' to you. But it's good that you raised your standards because you deserve the best guy in the world.👏🏾

[@cinemathequerouge317]

@@marycatherine5424 Hi. Yes, I did see the entire video. I do understand her argument, but I think she's labouring under some false assumptions. Imagine you and I work at the same firm. We have the same job title & responsibilities. You come to work on time, follow the rules, work diligently, take a short lunch, help others, stay late, etc. I come to work 2 hours late daily, take a 3 hour lunch, barely turn in any work, don't help in the office, and leave early. The boss praises you and constantly complains about me. He says you are the ideal employee and I'm a slacker. When promotion time comes, the boss promotes me and not you, even though you did everything you were supposed to do and I did nothing. Would you say that you were"entitled" or that you had "ulterior motives" and you were really a bad person? No, you'd be justifiably upset (and probably would have grounds for a lawsuit). THAT is how these guys feel. I have interviewed hundreds of men for a project and this is what they complain about. They get upset when we tell them we want one thing, but choose something else. Men have the most rubbish self help when it comes to dating, so these guys are tired, frustrated and just want to date. They're tired of rejection and being lied to. Hey, I'm angry about the lies they told us about getting an education. I can imagine these guys are randy as hell and frustrated to the nth degree. Are there some guys that are just toxic? Sure. Most of them are the Bad Boys, but I'm sure you could fine a Nice guy that could use some therapy. By the way, I'm too old for this dating nonsense now. I'm just sharing my insight with those of you who still have a chance. Thanks for saying I deserve a good man. I can smile now as I get back to work. Lol

[@nikithaminaj2567]

@@cinemathequerouge317 not you comparing something so humane and social like dating to a literal job, like if you're gonna treat relationships like a job with a definite aim then obviously you'll be disappointed, I don't think we show our "goofy" side in the jobs, we pretend to be professionals for a very obvious ulterior motive reason that everyone is aware of, but you can't justify dating with that analogy lmao, anyway have a great day tho!

[@cinemathequerouge317]

@@nikithaminaj2567 I would think a job to be more humane than dating. I can scarcely be considered by anyone to be a proponent of jobs or "work culture" but it is more fair and humane than dating. At the very least, some level of order can be forced on the situation. If untreated fairly, one could complain to the human resources department or worse case scenario, to various government agencies, licensing bodies, or other regulatory entities.

[@nadirimyers6643]

A “nice” girl is definitely different from a “nice” guy Can’t wait to see the other video too

[@ddjsoyenby]

yeah and they are rarer (not saying entitled t0x1c women do not exist they do)

[@Therezumee92]

I think Tara Mooknee (I hope I wrote it right) made a great video on ''pick me'' girls. Which literally are ''nice guys'' in female form. Because men blame and take it out on women, but women tend to blame rejection on other women and attack them.

[@ThePulse2x]

Women reward guys with bad behavior with sex or a relationship they wouldn't give either a shot

[@mags44love32]

HOW TF DID I GET AN AD WHEN SHE SAID I WOULD WTF

[@be1812]

This is why I appreciated that Andie didn't end up with Ducky in Pretty In Pink, I didn't want to have the movie feed into "He's nice and your friend, so you owe him your romantic love" trope.

[@studiosandi]

Can't stand bullies.

[@johnwalker1058]

Nice Guys TM: "I treated her like a human being and all I ask is that she give me a chance in return!" Me: *clears throat* AHEM! "Sir, if you were only nice to the girl/woman because you thought it might make her want to go out with you or have sex with you, YOU ARE NOT NICE! You did not treat her like a human being, you treated her like a human vending machine! You can't just insert kindness deed tokens and expect dates or sex to fall out."

[@stephanietanner9509]

Exactly being nice doesn't involve an ulterior motive!

[@slevinchannel7589]

@@stephanietanner9509 Yeah, ok, the Opinion of some KZbinr is nice and good, and that random Wikipedia Page is also a nice Source, but if anyone wants to really dive into the Psychology, then i recommend 'The Take' and how deconstructs, dissects and analyses many tropes, including Nice-Guys, Asia-Fetish, and Nice-Guys-with-Asia-Fetish.

[@slevinchannel7589]

Noble Xenon and Others cover Nice-Guyz all the time. Check 'em out!

[@ThePulse2x]

Guys feel this way because women reward guys with bad behavior with sex or a relationship and basically see them treat women like sex toys so they think if they just treat her like a human being maybe they will have a chance

[@xbluebirdx]

A great analogy

[@cromchychipdip5982]

I got an ad like two seconds before you said one was going to play. What a coincidence!

[@origamisteve]

I've watched r/niceguy videos on here before but I like how you do a deep dive and really break it apart and explain "nice guys." Very interesting to listen to.

[@izzybitsyspider03]

I called my friend a nice guy and he is ignoring me now but I only did it so he could become aware of it lmao I am so blunt sometimes

[@ThePulse2x]

It's funny how being a nice guy is a bad thing these days too women🤦‍♂️ cuz it's already hard when your guy friends make fun of you for being nice and respectful to women and now women shit on them also. No wonder why girls date a bunch of fuckboys🤷

[@nova3530onyt]

Taking into consideration that you were friends with him. It would've been more appropriate to have had a conversation with him abt it because you care rather than call him that outright. I totally understand him ignoring you because that's kinda toxic behavior. But I certainly hope he now understands and doesn't become one. Your intentions were pure buuut that was kinda dumb no lie.

[@izzybitsyspider03]

@nova3530onyt this was 3 years ago, and I have no regrets. That guy was a huge creep. He no longer is in contact with me or our other friend. Me using the phrase "nice guy" was actually very kind. You think THAT'S toxic?! lmaooo. I thought men weren't supposed to be sensitive...

[@nova3530onyt]

heyo, my comment disappeared. So hopefully I'll condense my reply and they won't delete it. Sorry if my replies are kinda long also. I'm seriously happy that you have distanced yourself from someone who was a creep. That's disturbing and scary fr. Regardless of what I say it ended up good for you. You're safe. And that's good. What I meant was toxic was assuming a friend was a nice guy and hinting at it. I did something similar and now I wish I hadn't. We're no more friends and it sucks. People can't read minds and take hints because it could mean a plethora of things. Generally thinking the worst. What if in your case they were genuinely your friend and wasnt a nice guy. You could've hurt a good person's feelings assuming they were and in that regard it's highly understandable if they ignore you. I didn't mean my comment to be negative or something. It just felt weird reading your comment and I wanted to point that out. Kinda like what you did with your friend in a way. With regards to the last part. I honestly have no response. I don't stereotype genders.

[@Lucifer_333]

"the devil shivers when the nice guy loses his temper" yeah he shivers from laughter.

[@gracegrace9074]

Nice guys deserve a nice punch in the face. After meeting a nice guy, I have realized how , truly, disgusting they are.They have no respect for women opinion , they are manipulative ,as hell. they just want their own benefit without realizing how they are destroying the other person's mental wellbeing. They gaslight you ,they try to make everyone believe that they are genuinely good.

[@ThePulse2x]

🤦 meanwhile the guys with bad behavior women reward with sex or relationship have no respect for women and treat them like human sex toys but somehow being a nice guy is a bad thing🤦‍♂️

[@bryanpittman7540]

​@@ThePulse2xso true

[@Juststayhopeful]

@@ThePulse2x hypocrite women

[@muzikdude1188]

Women: Where are all the nice guys? Also women: Nice guys are disgusting and deserve to be punched in the face.

[@dantan1249]

@@ThePulse2xtbh I think people’s fascination with all these categories is that by virtue of them not being in them they are somehow better. A girl that was done wrong and suffered negative consequences doesn’t have to endure the accountability. A guy that treats women wrong doesn’t have to feel bad about it because at least he’s “honest” and not “nice”. It is just self allowance.