Anniyan (எ) Anxiety - peslama? episode 3

[@live_my_moment_swiftie]

ennaku purithu, i have been in similar situations... i overthink a lot and forget that its just one small mistake but i think abt it so much it becomes huge and huge, and sometimes huge things become very small, bcuz i really dont know how to say this but sometimes huge things become small, it doesnt get the amount of emotion or thought the huge thing actually deserves like but small issues get so much emotion and thoughts.... i dont know if anyone can relate but this happens to me a lot these days... and i worry abt others a lot, what they'll think, if they'll get hurt (bcuz i get hurt very easily), i give too much sometimes to someone who doesnt deserve it but i give too little to someone who deserves the whole world... Some times my frnds say, im very over reacting, and they neglect my emotions and its hurts so much, and ill decide not to talk with them forever, then after time passes ill be like, its not that huge, why did i do tht, why did i think like that...? and i can understand their perspective... but in that moment, it'll be like i just want someone to understand and give some value for my emotions and thoughts... I m just ranting a lot becuz this video is sooo relatable, and now i feel a little better, i know the concept of anxiety... but i till this day, i dint know, i was doing that becuz i was anxious... my anxiety works different it comes randomly sometimes for no real reason but thank you for letting me know that this is Anxiety... love ur videos so much... hope someone or anyone can relate to this... if u read till this... u have grt concentration...

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you so much, idhu actually enaku romba relate aachu, the part where you said big things dont get much attention but small things do. Wow. I feel that is our biggest power and weakness, facing a tsunami like it’s nothing but running away from a small tide. Namma nammaloda emotions kittaye biased ah irukomo ennavo ? Therila but thanks for this comment loved this one

[@tejaswinivenkatesh6102]

Irony here is the whole anxiety in my case comes with loneliness too but this comment section feels like a hug because we’re all in the same boat and I’m not alone. Neeyum naanum ore boat la irukom, pathuklam nu sollren🎀

[@_shitkeel_]

Aama same boat 🚤

[@kv_talks_]

Requesting shakeel to make a podcast on spotify 😭❤

[@rizzwanaaa]

I was like : omg, Naliki test! 30 mins Vdio '!? . Atleast productive procrastination . Lessgoooo

[@_shitkeel_]

Productive procrastination 😭

[@priscatalkies6779]

20:14 literally filled with tears 😢 as a Teenager who is getting exposed to harsh reality 🥺.

[@athira4400]

Romba romba romba azhagana episode ,super aana edit ,everything about this video is so therapeutic

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you so much athi, nee best ☺️

[@harshithabtsarmy2442]

This video heals like it heals something that I thought I couldn't.

[@_shitkeel_]

🥹🥹🥹 touch panreenga ponga.

[@wajihaxxe]

EXAAACT COMMENT

[@unstable.braincells]

shakeel’s pesalama episode + jathin’s nee paartha vizhigal cover = therapy pack😌✌🏼🕊 thank you bros❤️

[@divya_3427]

Thank you broo! Could relate to exam anxiety sooooo well.. being a CA Student.. and facing a professional exam..! But then its okay we got this again! :))

[@rakshnnajp8388]

I gave up singing three years ago just because of anxiety.... The analogy that you gave was soo relatable. The coins kept falling through my fingers when I gave a solo and then I became way too afraid to give it another go. Like I knew I was a good singer and I consistently impressed myself when I used to sing to myself. It just hurt that i couldn't showcase it to other people. When I get back to singing which I will, you'll be one of the reasons.... Thank you for making me understand that "kaalam kaathirukum" 🙏

[@hifriendsuser]

A very great example to explain anxiety. It's really difficult to explain or face our own anxiety issues, but you have really done a great job !!!

[@safiyya1134]

Thanks a lot. As someone who is going through insane number of exams as a final year in school and wanting to get good results. It really leads to anxiety attacks with competitive academic surroundings. Anxiety leads to many careless mistakes. For me, it especially happens in my subjects that I have hardwired in my brain as hard. I might know all the answers but because I keep on saying that I am stupid I end up losing lots of marks. Keep the series on going.

[@donaldpump3021]

Same here and with neet prep and stuff my shit is deteriorating at an alarming rate 🥲

[@_shitkeel_]

I hope it gets better for you sister 💙

[@SankarKal28]

Asalam walaikum....Thank you so much shakeel ❤️....i just felt like I'm seeing myself on you.... And I'm so happy to see you that , you have grown up well by analysing your self... This video just turned into a kinda motivation video man...keep posting those kinds of videos ❤️✨

[@live_my_moment_swiftie]

Bro i swear..... i was very good at math, when i was young, this year, im in 10th and now suddenly maths is hard and i cant accept it... everyone was asking doubts to me, and this year, i started asking doubts to other classmates and it was very hard to accept at first, very hard, i felt like a failure... lost interest completely in maths, physics etc... AND this is soo relatable.... Thank you... for telling me im not alone...

[@_shitkeel_]

Aww friend listen to me, you still got in you, you can make mistakes here and there, set back a little but never fail. You got this… and you shouldn’t feel bad for asking doubt to friends… you are not a failure. You got this!!

[@unstable.braincells]

this comment section is so wholesome❤ i just love to read others feelings and thiughts💫

[@prathikshanandhini7301]

Thanks for this video !!! I can relate to this very much. Overthinking and anxiety literally sucks, and thanks for people who really understand this. For people who thinks or judge others try to be kind, because we never know what the other fellowmate is going through. It takes much courage to face such situations ❤

[@wajihaxxe]

literally cried when you said " keeladhn iruku" felt it hard babe🥹

[@miriamancy]

much needed. Always keeping in mind that "It's okay to be dumb".

[@anbunambi5402]

Please please do a podcast. This whole “pesalama?” series and listening to you speak feels like a hug. Its so relatable 🥹🥹😭😭😭🤧🤧🤧🤧. Please please!1

[@_shitkeel_]

@@anbunambi5402 i would love to do a good one. So, will do a good one when i am able to

[@rohinimaharajan4955]

U dud it broooooo.... We alll willl somedayyyy....... Time will wait🥺❤😌

[@ShanmugaPriya-c3x]

Shakeel indha episode nejama super❤👌 Matha episodes la enaku relate aachu naanum feel pannen..But idhula I feel like I learned something (atleast a little) about anxiety and how it feels.Indha unaku oru hug🫂lysm❤

[@_shitkeel_]

Thanks friend ❤️

[@ShanmugaPriya-c3x]

​@_shitkeel_ Welcome friend❤

[@poojaramesh10]

Okay ... after watching this video I think YOU need hugs , dude you'll be OKAY !! Sending hugs and hope you find PEACE in you ^_^

[@zh.hasnaa]

I’m so glad you made this video. It’s oddly comforting to know that someone else out there feels the same way. My anxiety often makes me run away from opportunities. Deep down, I know I’m capable, but when I stumble at the first step, my mind starts chanting that I’ve made the wrong decision. That fear makes me back out before I even try. I’m terrified of failure, to the point where I’m scared to even attempt. To anyone else who feels the same way, It’s okay to fail. Just try, because if you don’t, you’ll never know what could have been.

[@_shitkeel_]

ITS OKAY TO FAIL, THE CHANCES OF YOU FAILING AGAIN IS ACTUALLY LESS. DONT STOP. ITS OKAY

[@dynamic_spirit_17]

Literally got silent bro after watching this video, like someone is speaking like my reflection and healing my inner me 💫🌒

[@banupriyam4565]

Literally cried when you said "Sometimes kaalam kaathu irukum"😭😭 A big hug bro🫂😭 Thank you so much bro!

[@_shitkeel_]

Kaalam kaathirukkum 💙

[@haaripriyarajakumar7128]

therapy ngggaaaaa u and ur voice 'peslama'😫 and on a side note, jathin and u define the cutest and most realistic friendship

[@anousha3641]

That anger and guilt part is so so so true man, the women who is just rude to people isn't me that's someone else. The truth is I actually don't remeber anything after the anger that hits in a situation and the reaction I have gave them.

[@nevlinanevlina1259]

I was filled with full of tears , anixety isn't one thing but it's multiple things made up into one man no one can explain it this much better, i too know the power of anxiety and i do hurt my loved ones avangala hurt pani ena hurt pani romba kolara irukum pothu I just realised that" Just because ur pain is valid doesn't mean your behaviour is justified" ipovaraikum i used to say this to me when things get wrong , and thank god my loved ones also didn't let me go, they holded me and said it's okay , And for you too Shakeel it's ok to be not good always that's absolutely alright unnaku theriyathu ithu yaaru yaaruku evolo theva padum nu here after whenever get anxious and feel down im going to watch this Thank you so much for the video man ❣️✨💕

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you so much, i saw so much of myself reading this. I hope things better for you or more like you get better at things 💙💙

[@Elefragem]

25:09 "na yen ipdi" yea happens all the time and ends with tears 🥲 K silra porukaporen 👍

[@_shitkeel_]

VAANGA ELLA SILRA PORUKALAM 🪙🪙🪙

[@IshaEvelyn]

Watching this on my birthday is a different vibe 😎😎

[@madhumitaa7524]

oru vithathulaa.... naaa manasu laa vachii lock pannirnthaa ellamee unleash pannirukingaa... I srslyy feel like crying after seeing your podcast...I feel freee now.... I request you to make more of theseee... ethooo oru mind relief kedaikuthu... manasu laa irukuraa weight koranchaa mathiri irukuu...(im not exaggerating) I've watched all your podcasts... it gives me a clarity with confidence which nothing else gave me... THANKYOUUU.... you're healingg peoplee.... 💗♥︎

[@_shitkeel_]

Okay will make more

[@angelina-zf6tm]

One of the best video from shakeel💟

[@hifriendsuser]

Somebody is keeping up their words, by posting regularly 👏👏

[@JezeelaNaleem]

Shakeel to be honest onnuda pesalama is a such a big therapy for me and pesalama after longgg time… thank you da 🥹🫂✨

[@hajira_shahnaz]

You seriously shot everything out which I'm keep burying it inside me:),I don't think so I'll never have this guts to break all these things and come out of it but i hope it does X:)

[@Nira_nx]

I'm crying and greech .....u made me stronger

[@bruce._.waynekatraman]

this episode is going to be forever close to my heart. anxiety naala evlo uravugal, vaaipugal ezhandhurkennu enaku theriyum. evlovo time ezhandhurken by re-doing things again and again. my soul felt tired at one point(still does) and that paired with anxiety just makes me wanna give up on life as a whole, like this is some kinda video game and I can quit and restart life. Unfortunately, it does not work that way. Chinna vayasula evlo per enna talented, smart, creative, azhagunu kooptutu, ippa pala varshama adha oru vaati kooda kekadha kaaranam anxiety and neraya mental health problems dhaannu nenaikirapa azhugaya varudhu aana azhudhu enna payan, epdi veliya varradhunu therila. idhunala en mela enaku kovam. adha en parents, friends mela kaatuven. ippa adhu romba thappunu theriyum. aana appo vazhkaye veruthu vazha aasa illadhapa andha thappu perusa therila. apram oru sila per kitta avanga nalladhukaga naaney pesama vittuten. some ppl still chose to stay. eternally grateful for these hoomans. edho oru podha kuzhila vizhundhu ezhunchika try panni panni, thirumba thirumba saruki vizhura maari iruku. aana en mela na vekkadha nambikaiya en friends oru sila per vekkiranga. enakum kadavul enna kaivitra matarunu en manasula edho oru moolaila hope iruku. en parentsku prove panni kaati avangala proud aakuvennu nambika iruku. pala aspectsla en vazhkaiyum naanum adi vangi irundhalum, im clinging onto that dear hope to slowly come back stronger. I might be behind my peers but thats okay. oru naal vazhkai nenachi pakadha alavuku nalla vidhama maarumnu nambika iruku. adhuku na ippathula irundhu enna nambi efforts pottu andha naaluku thayar aaganum. nee yaar petha pullayo therila pa. aana you are the therapist and brother I never had🫂❤nee eppamey nallarukanum, adha naa sandhoshama dhoorathula irundhu paakanum.

[@_shitkeel_]

naa idha paduchu aludhuten da dei 😭😭😭😭 oru nee mela varuva, adha naanu paapen, apo enta vandhu sollu, nee indha comment pannanu! ❤️❤️❤️ CLING ON TO THAT HOPE! I WANT TO SEE YOU WINNNNNNNN

[@bruce._.waynekatraman]

@@_shitkeel_ achacho sorryyy kalelaye azha vechitaney😭this means a whole lot to me esp coming from you🫂❤ kandipa andha naal varum, apa vandhu solren unta. nerla paaka vaipu kedacha briyani vaangi tharen (adhukulla samaika kathukutta senji tharen)😋

[@kavya9528]

@@bruce._.waynekatraman my life. Apdiye. (I'm not saying nee paatha struggles ellam naa paathuten nu) but, yeah. It just relates as a whole. Right from those unspoken trauma, silent expectations of myself and others on me and that chinna hope edho oru moolai la... I want to see you win. I want to see everybody here win. Hope I do too :)

[@bruce._.waynekatraman]

@@kavya9528 I just read your other comment and my oh my. I could relate with you on a whole other level. en padipu mandhamayirchu even tho ik my full potential. I used to be a topper and ippa complete opposite due to various problems and I too am desperately trying to come back up. Thank you so much for sharing this comment, makes me feel seen and gives me hope that I am not alone. I too want to see you win! We all will win. Namma jechitom maaranu solla oru naal varum 🥹🫂❤ Much love and strength to you sis!

[@kavya9528]

@@bruce._.waynekatraman we got this stranger bestfriend 🫶🏼💪🏻💗

[@Saroaster17]

This exactly reminds me of myself and inaiki tha therithu ithu Nala tha na apdi behave panirkaen nu.

[@deluluisthesolulu921]

Gurl same

[@suhaasuhaa625]

Bruh spoke everything people go through and opened people's mind. I'm really glad I have figured this as soon as I can illana I would've still had anxiety. Trust me you can't live life normally and it's always stressful.

[@Anishwari]

Omg, fr tho, no one can relate to me harder than this!

[@rith_21]

aww shakeel man, i totally feel you. i definitely think it gets better with time, but it remains a task to regulate emotions for sure (at least for me). there's a lot of tips to help ground ourselves when we're anxious about something, i've been thinking maybe we could give that a try hehe. i could tell how difficult this was for you to talk about, and i only wish you love and healing. everything's gonna be alright, remember to go easy on yourself. take care. 🥺

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you so much this was very endearing

[@safia5803]

Peslama episode venum😭😭

[@_shitkeel_]

Panlammm

[@rajalakshmia8689]

Much needed Video Shakeel.. I've been going through mixed emotions for past one month where I truly disliked me and my behaviour.. but this made me realise what I've been through.. Thanks for this soul touching video❤

[@Be_ur_self_111]

Finnaly my thalaivan vantan✨️✨️ channel nu onnu irukunu niyabakam vanthu video pottathuku nandri😂✨️🤍

[@tejaashree1572]

i am grateful for being shakeel’s subscriber. i love you shakeel. thank you for having the courage to make this video.

[@unknownmysterious4746]

Background set up and lighting is sprr Shakeel ✨✨..!! This is to be spoken right now for many .!! To be understand by many ..!! Thanks to take this Topic . You explained this so well and gud !! ❤️✨

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you so much

[@thaaranisenthilkumar7166]

People who dont have anxiety will never understand this. Cried my eyes out for inside out2 movie because it came closed to understanding what i am going through since childhood, and after that this video comes second in understanding what literally goes through in my mind every single second

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you, that movie was something else

[@safia5803]

Shakeel thank you soo much for this😭🥹i will collect all my coins 💗 bring myself back always felt like home with all your peslama episodes 🌸🥹the narration shakeel top-notch 💗👏🏼as always felt home 🌸😭thanks

[@reiyaa1071]

its so real when you said that it's okay to be bad once in while at things you have always been good at doing -that there's no pressure that you always have to be good i only recently realised and this video made me accept it oh and the quote really hit hard with your apt explanation i almost teared up

[@ghayathiri]

Unga video parkumbothu thondriyathu : elarukum oru problem varum but athunaala namba anxiety avom...then konja naal aprm cha ithuka anxiety anom nu thonum 😄 Life has to move on whatever happens ❤ Accept with smile 😊...Tq for this video frd 🎉

[@subasrisathasivam]

This video reaches right person at right time🥹 thank you so much shakeel..💗

[@seleneselene5187]

edhachum relaxing aana video podra romba naal aachu video va inum kaano as a girl indha Oorla nadakra incidents ah nenach bayama irku nan unna adha pathi pesu nu solala aana enaku bayama irku I just want to get over the fear ,so edhachum video podra shakeel happy aa

[@Diem-i4s]

I always ends up crying dude and I'm really trying to overcome it by pulling myself together to get my work done ...you conveyed it so well...💫

[@safia5803]

Watching this at 3 am💗🥹going to sleep peacefully ❤

[@h_tejashwini.1012]

Finally someone spoken about what we actually go through.........🫠❣️

[@rakshanasrinivassan5151]

Pls do more of this peslama series. Just love the way we're able to relate to you♥️

[@Cupcakedxoxo]

Woah...found someone with same braincell as me. Thank you for making this man ❤

[@RukaiyaBanu-es5xz]

This video was so relatable!! I literally saw a reflection of myself! I have been through similar situations. All these days I was unaware that it is anxiety. But I've been through this, I was unable to express these feelings to anyone. I am grateful for the people who helped me when I felt anxious. Same I also overthink, and express it through anger unconsciously. I get sudden palpitations, my body shivers and I get really nervous. After I watched this I understood that we need to take control of our emotions. I really felt understood when I watched this video ❤

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank youuuu

[@souns101]

I loved the way you said you'd accept criticisms and even take it down if these sorta topics are too misleading. It set the tone for what you talked later, I really appreciate that. That being said, the content itself was nice as well, keep posting such stuff 🙌

[@Suvegai]

Thank you so much shakeel... Bcoz I was not able to understand why my friends are reacting over small things emotionally... They shout at me and they come and talk with me the next day like nothing happened ! I used to think a lot but I couldn't understand how they feel.... But now I came to know how they feel 🙂

[@_shitkeel_]

it’s hard from the other side man, engala vida neenga dha paavam

[@Aishu___1125]

​@@_shitkeel_ soo true 💯 Naanga paavam pa

[@narmadhadevink08]

Very relatable. You just put it all out with the right words. Thank you. Felt like a therapy🫂💙✨

[@wajihaxxe]

Basically man understood the concept mental health and beautifully represent the anxiety by a cute hand full of coin story - adadaa shakeel, damn beautiful (would love to hear this again nd again). HOPE YOU DEAL THE BEST WITH YOU ANXIETY AND BE MORE OF IN YOUR CONTROL- AAMEEN

[@ShanmugaPriya-c3x]

Would believe that i actually lost track of time watching this??This usually happens ONLY when I really really focus and enjoy things❤

[@Freeball27]

First impression is important and you got mine ☺️❤️ The way u conveyed the context in this content is excellent ....i didn't know wat ur posting r wat ur channel is about...but i knew i would watch each nd every videos👍🏻

[@yuvasri2966]

I ugly cried , bro speak my heart I exactly had same situation like this but i never realised that i just have to try again and again. Every time anxiety hits i run i turndown everything everyone I became invisible so that no one sees how vulnerable iam . Thank you ❤️seriously watching this video was so healing

[@cynthiasa4525]

Right video at the right time thank you.

[@devabharathi8951]

So relatable shakeel... I think i was in need of this without being aware.. Thankyou so much... Romba real ah irukeenga... Thankyou.. Feeling good❤🌟 you are rocking

[@MokshitaS--G]

More than a creator talking, it felt like my future self telling me ~it is gonna get better~. I've been living with my anxiety, and I've had a few attacks in school, I hated myself for that for a long time. This was the most relatable video I've watched, you can't imagine how important it is to express these emotions. I really can't thank you enough..

[@nixshax]

Man always post whenever I'm being depressed 💃💃thaink you for thr pesalama epi shakeel you had always heal meeee! ❤

[@refishak]

I have been waiting for this video for a very long time and I totally loved it ❤

[@rameshbabukika8344-m1z]

Thank you shakeel for this video..Much needed words..felt like a warm hug❤

[@MahaRju]

Mine started when I came to 11 std. I was the school topper in 10th std and used to get prizes for my artwork.ppl had high expectations for me but I couldn’t cope up because of the vast syllabus and I scored only 91 percent in board exams. That’s when these “I have to” “I must” ilana Naa waste antha maari thoughts vanthu (in 12th) padikira apo exams apo boards apo high anxiety will kick in🫠finished schooling now but still Im trying to control it like I got to a mindset where it doesn’t matter what ppl think take your time Do your studies and hobbies for yourself calmly composedly it doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad . Just do it Another instance where I needed to speak a few words about some competition in front of 100 unknown people my voice broke out a lot I was shaking like hell ,I was okay with the shaking but I didn’t like when ppl noticed my voice and told me,I felt bad there. I prepared well next time and spoke 2 times on stage in front of even more people without breaking. Anger issues uhm irunthuchu like sometime ago then I apologised to my friends about everything then prachanai solved 4months back one main exam olunga panla, I was like avlothaan mudinchu and instead of studying for the next exam I kept on crying for a day.then I pulled myself back together (silarai ah porukunen)😭. Thankssss for this video

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you for sharing this story. Remember you are not alone in this neraya peru go through the same thing so it is fine. We can all recover beautifully and have our heart and mind in control

[@janaviprakash7935]

Shakeel this is me first time commenting on a video. I have been battling anxiety for a quite of a time now.And the surprising part was I never knew until I had it in my college for the first time finding hard to breathe while body going numb. Whatever you had said is what I have also thought off, like all of the sudden and on how to get control over those emotions .Infact I find it difficult to even understand the cause of these attacks.Though it might not help me as of now but this video has helped me write about this for the first time.Thank you

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you so much for this comment, if you feel like it is actually affecting you try talking about it to people who care for you and ask for help. If help from loved does not make an impact, try therapy. i hope you get well soon 🌷

[@janaviprakash7935]

@@_shitkeel_ ❤️

[@astencarol]

Anxiety ah silra kooda panna comparison..great!!🙌

[@_shitkeel_]

Hehe thanks

[@rakshnnajp8388]

Just got into you bro, and I couldn't help but binge watch your channel. Keep going! 💪

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank youuuu

[@Vidhula_kalyan]

As a 17 year old, so far Ive been hurting a lot of people around n used my emotions as an excuse but now after watching this I need to be responsible about wtever I do when I'm anxious. Thank you for such a wholesome video. I needed this ❤

[@_shitkeel_]

just because we are sad or mad it does not mean we can make others sad or mad, glad that you understood that

[@astencarol]

You've got it dude👍 Thanks again bro..!!❤️

[@shabnassettaigal2001]

im basically you :) i have gone through same situation and you said everything. Glad :)

[@kutty30315]

Most most waited for Pesalama series... Literally my thoughts are exactly coming out from you in this series. Past 2 episodes also I posted the same comment (same mentality)... my most fav Pesalama... Antha 17:38-17:48 was really true For that unexpected attitude of mine my real character was hide under that and they decide my character just by that, which hurts me lot, but me analysis when they scold me Are they in angry / sad/any other problem. You are correct..that we should not show our bad mood to the other who is literally not knowing that we are in bad mood but...But they should know what we are going through and how we are feeling inside , if we shouting with them afterwards we can explain to them why I shouted that day but the opponent of us should not judge our character for that...That is not a healthy way. Especially thiz got tears and at the end of video I figure out how to over come these kind of stuff "ellarum perfect illa we are human thappu panni kathuko"..that one sentence i got at the video end. Thanks Do more content like this..👍🏻

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you so much 💙

[@priscatalkies6779]

Requesting Shakeel to do a Bookshelf tour ......🥺🙏🏼

[@vasblessing]

Wow i needed this to pick myself up❤...also off topic but blue is definitely ur color

[@_shitkeel_]

I know that 💙☝🏻

[@ssahana_13]

I finally had the time to watch this!😭✨I recently had my orientation for CA too, where my anxiety got the best of me. We had to do a lot of public speaking. During my school days I used to do a lot of things on stage. I can't remember how I felt during that time. But its been long since I got on stage or speak in front of people. I stayed at home for my online courses for probably like a year. I literally forgot how to talk to fellow people. My social anxiety was at its peak. I also have some nervous problem like hand tremors because of anxiety. I had to take medicines for over a month to keep in in control, though my hands still shake when my anxiety gets bad. My exams pretty much flopped, because of me tho. I was literally nauseous before one of my exams. So during orientation, though there were only 37 people, who (kinda older than me) were mature and also very sweet, I was not able to communicate freely or without awkwardness. I thought I would do it because of my previous experiences, but my anxiety wouldn't let me. It was a literal nightmare when my turn to speak comes. I couldn't speak what I planned to speak, I couldn't stand in one place and whoo! it was tough. And speaking on spot was literal torture. And the worst part is, everybody says you did a good job, I literally want to fight them. Cause only I know what happened. Also the negative self talk thing, I do that a lot too. I would go on and on about how bad I'm at doing things, how I procrastinate a lot, how I'm barely living my life. I think the worst things thrown at me was actually said by me, which is just sad .I would probably seek therapy for my issues hopefully🤞🏼 And Thanks to you Shakeel for talking about this. It was sooo relatable. I actually needed to hear this. "We forget that the coins are still on the ground" Yes. But to pick it up and to start it all over again, you need courage. If we can't do it by ourselves its okay to ask for help! It was still you who did it! Its is all you! I know its tough to arrive at the stage where you accept it. But if we get there, it'll all be worth it! I'm too trying to get there!🥺✨ We'll be Fine Line!!! We'll be alright!!✨

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank you for this comment, the last few lines were really endearing

[@ssahana_13]

@@_shitkeel_ Really loved the video man! This one is close to my heart! It was very comforting to hear you talk about this! Thanks to youuu Shakeel🥺🙌🏼✨

[@musicalaura6197]

i honestly thought u forgot about pesalama but so glad ur uploading this🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺ilysm tc 💝

[@Iam_najiya]

I literally teared up.. This pesalama means a lot to me..✨ And that hug🥺 Yeah! I will try to pick my coins which is in the ground and grow more stronger than before You deserve a hug too.. 🫂For you bro~

[@_shitkeel_]

Yes you can always pick them up

[@smrxthi]

reason i love shakeel = he gets me and posts at the right time😭😭😭 man just ❤

[@punithaserii2672]

yayyy, someone posted!

[@Vidhyarthy-r8v]

Much needed video 💓😌

[@xd_sampreethe_-6824]

I was genuinely so stressed, thinking and wondering sm, when this popped up for me...serious I felt like crying...ennaku eppo shit maadhri irruko correct ah varinga...ennaku anxiety oru mosamana demon..eppoma overthinking eppoma stressed...I'm better a little but konjum naal ah I've felt worried again...and ennaku enna panradhu nu therila...thanks Anna, somehow u always make me feel better

[@Pavithra-ii7zr]

Ayeee chello vandhuruchu😋🌷

[@Lost_kiddo]

Much needed❤

[@harshithabtsarmy2442]

Saving this video for nyt cause nyt time la 'peslama?' ketutu apdiye thoonga nalla irukum🌜

[@kavya9528]

Naanum. ps: my name is Harshitha too. This is just my fake account

[@kripss15]

​@@kavya9528😂👺

[@Aishu___1125]

I appreciate the efforts u put to bring this peslama in the best way possible This content was good and the background was comforting....✨🖤🦋

[@_shitkeel_]

!There is a reason why peslma is done in video format 🩷

[@Sar_sam486]

Havin Anxiety,Bein the eldest, Bein able to find the perfect solution fr other's problems,bottlin up feelings nd watchin this made me cry

[@rithikakaran45]

For real 🫂

[@shaimaubaid2681]

Literally this video is my life the maths part is quite relatable it is not lyk i hate maths but it was a nightmare for me..... I too had same experience abt public speaking i was gud at public speaking but one day i messed it up i felt judged really it felt like i am melting down even after so many years that situation makes me anxious and coincidentally tommarow i have a presentation😂thank u shakeel feel like i found my male version😂

[@_shitkeel_]

Thank youuuuu

[@ssahana_13]

Bro I literally have my online semester in an hour😭 But I'll watch it after at night while chilling😁 And the topic is just🥺🙌🏼✨

[@ameliadeu3714]

Yessss😭😭 i waited for thisss

[@tamizhselvi8616]

Inside out 2 end la i freaking cried shakeell. That anxiety scene 🤧

[@_shitkeel_]

same sis same

[@tamizhselvi8616]

​@@_shitkeel_ I was convinced Inside Out 2 is NOT a children's movie. It is for young adults who doesn't know how to take good care of their emotions.

[@baskaranramaswamy7862]

Soooo goood🥲❤️ THANKS

[@ritikasuresh5512]

I really needed this rn 🤧 thanks!

[@kimkathija-nq9yx]

Anxiety is one of my biggest enemy first time nan oru chinna school meeting la en teachers and classmates munadi paadum bothu en kaal nadungunathu iruke.. literally nan inga song ah rasichi pattidu irukaen en kaal mattum dance adidu iruku and some of my classmates noticed it and make fun of me but the good thing is ipo vara nan evolo competition ponalum en anxiety athe mari than iruku but mudinjidicha alavu en singing la nan sothapala enala mudinjcha tha panirukaen

[@_shitkeel_]

This is sooo sweet and relatable, enakum ipo varaikum enga stage la pesnaalu kaal aadum, but naa pesradha nirutha maaten. Kashtangal pazhagidum 💙