answering tmi girl talk questions *shaving tips, keepin it spicy, friendship breakups*

[@DarkOwlmirage]

The fact that she went from one snack to another and essentially had a full course meal by the end of the video is literally so relatable 😂

[@stephifeoma]

Right 😁

[@biancajc]

Especially when you're on your period... you just get hungry all the time and don't know why! lol 😂

[@maipelon]

I felt seen 😂😂

[@ruthroderick946]

Ohhh gosh😂😂

[@jadaseemungal6310]

Ikr, this was literally a girls night.

[@rebekahmagistrelli494]

Funny first period story: my sister and I were raised by a single father and we are a year and a half apart. It was Easter Sunday, and I was in church when my first period started, so I go to my dad and he asked a family friend for a pad, then when we got home my sister got her first period. So it’s now Sunday night and my dad is freaking out cause we both started out first periods hours apart. He went to the store to get us stuff, but didn’t know what to get so he came home with one of EVERYTHING! Years later he asked me, what wings meant…, apparently that really confused him. Bless his heart!

[@alisecornia4454]

That’s honestly so cute. I love this. ❤️

[@aryl684]

this is so cute.. my heart is melting god bless your wonderful dad

[@Thelilmissbz]

Aww! Your dad is so sweet!

[@kimmiheart]

Awww that's so sweet of your Dad! ♥️

[@stephifeoma]

Omg 😁 What a coincidence!! Haha him buying one of everything and getting confused by the wings sounds so typical 😊 All jokes aside he took care of it and you two 🥰

[@jaelascifo7358]

I think Jess always has this great way of making people feel so comfortable and safe. Thanks for being vulnerable on your channel! You're doing an amazing job navigating the crazy, intense world of the internet

[@goldkehlchen94]

Yes! I feel the same way!

[@gabyydiazm]

loved this! Anyone else feel like Jess is like a big sister giving us life advice? Please do another one! xx

[@thanushree8447]

i agree !!

[@zulekhashabeer133]

Totally, i really love all her videos especially these kind

[@jannestam]

gabe: *takes a bite of jess’ pasta* jess: “careful, it’s hot” gabe: “it’s hot, just like you”

[@aleenaasif4712]

Loved that HAH

[@shanianies5414]

I love how Gabe comes home and knows its a girls night 😂 "Hey Ladies"

[@michaelmal5982]

same lolol 😂

[@BeccaFilipski]

I definitely love these girly chats videos! Makes me feel like you’re my friend and that we’re hanging out. Especially since I feel like I don’t have that many friends anymore and this actually helps! Do more of these kinds of videos please!! Love you Jess!💛

[@jobrofan425]

Just wanted to say, I so appreciate this type of video. It's so refreshing. I'm a fireman's wife and Mama of two young ones, so it's nice to sit down at the end of a long day when my husband is on an overnight shift and just feel like I'm hanging out with a good friend and not alone. Thank you for being you, Jess. You are an absolute light. ❤️

[@lisettemuniz8767]

aww this was so sweet to read, God bless

[@Meghostay]

Fun fact: I put the vibe “out there” by inviting my friend to a LANY concert in 2017. We just celebrated our first wedding anniversary. LANY IS FOR LOVERSSSSSSS

[@angelinemary6119]

That's so cute! Happy belated anniversary! Sending all my love and best wishes❤

[@aatixak]

awwww cutee!! bless ya both

[@natalierene8429]

wait that’s awesome and so crazy that that was the exact reference she used !

[@Itzezyyyy]

I was waiting for her to answer the keeping it spicy question lol it’s in the title and the beginning of the video but I realized she never answered it😂

[@natalieh8023]

@@Itzezyyyy she did actually

[@jasmin-3702]

7:05 Other than Function of Beauty, is there anything you did to help your hair grow? I swear it grew like a foot in a few months 8:02 I really need some tips on how to shave "down there" without getting red bumps + Laser Hair Removal 10:06 How to keep it spicy? My sex drive has been low lately 11:13 As a soon-to-be bride, what is your biggest advice for wedding planning? If you could change anything about your wedding, what would it be? 11:55 Have you ever had a close or best friend turn their back on you? How did you deal with it? My best friend of 10 years cut me off a few years back after telling me she didn't want to label us "best friends" anymore but still wanted to be close, and then she just stopped talking to me and replaced me. It hurt worse than a breakup, and took me a long time to move on from. 12:49 How do you make friends? I have anxiety so I automatically think everyone doesn't like me, and makes it hard to form friendships 13:51 Have you ever struggled with a poor body image?

[@vaniafernandes]

when you mentioned LANY !!!! ugh i lovew you

[@EmmaCaitlain]

I feel the same with making friends. My anxiety always gets in my head straight after hanging out with them wondering if they like me or if I’ve said something wrong, talked too much etc I’ve been journalling about it and consciously working on it too. Thanks for sharing, so relatable x

[@amylubrecht576]

I loved this so much! Thank you for being open and honest with us, even though questions like these can be so personal. It helps to know we're not alone in some of these things. It can be so good for us to talk about them. Please do more videos like this.

[@hanab.]

My sister passed away as a baby a year before me, and I find these “sister-y” videos a lil extra sweet. 💕

[@madelinekouassi9884]

I'm really sorry 💜

[@oliviahaga9126]

whoever wrote the message about struggling to make friends because of their anxiety, i feel you!!! this week has been so difficult because i had drama with two close friends and it was a reminder that i don’t have all that many other friends to lean on. i want to make more friends but small talk and actually meeting people stresses me out and makes me so uncomfortable. i’ll be your friend!!

[@amberj3941]

I actually stopped being friends with someone after 20 years. It was hard to part ways but I communicated that I felt like the way she spoke to me would hurt my feelings. I also let her know after awhile that the constant negativity would feel draining. I wanted to be there for her like I had for years. She was always going through something and I would do my best to help her through it. However once I had a newborn and I was exhausted I couldn’t respond as much or be available for the long phone calls. So she got angry that I wasn’t around as much or free to go out for the night. I was so tired I didn’t even want to go out to be honest. So I found myself making excuses to not go out. I finally got some courage and just let her know that I was in a hard place myself. Taking care of a new baby is exhausting. The expectations she had for me to be the same friend were making me feel guilty. It put so much extra strain on me. I didn’t feel like she was supportive when I needed her back. It started to feel like a one way street friendship. She needed to vent, ok, but I did too sometimes. So I reached a point where I decided to put me and my baby first. I couldn’t deal with the push and pull of her emotions. It actually felt lifting to let that relationship go, I knew it was best for me. I’d been trying to help her for so long. I just couldn’t anymore. It’s been maybe 2 years now. I do miss her at times but I remind myself how much I went through and how much time she took. I just don’t want to go back to that place. It was so hard to cut off I need to let it stay off. But it’s hard on both people I think.

[@aryl684]

I support you so much. I relate a lot tbh, some people make you feel like shit when you’re putting yourself first for the first time. You made the right choice putting you and your baby first. God bless you and your baby xx

[@frenchtoast4630]

I totally get what ur saying but I would reach out just let her know ur still there for her. I know it was hard at times but if you’re that person someone can lean on, it can be a good thing. Try to tell her more of how you feel. You said it’s been two years that’s more than enough time for her to understand what you were feeling. I always think of this verse “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” Galatians6:2. Amber continue to be there for the ones that need you even for the ones who don’t show it back. Because God sees your kind heart ❤️ God bless you :)

[@victorialisa_]

@@frenchtoast4630 sometimes with toxic people if you reach out to them you’ll get sucked back into their world again- I had to cut off my cousin (who I regarded as my best friend for years) because it was a one way street- I felt like I would move mountains for her and bend over backwards but she never gave me the same energy. There is a lot of other things she did and said to me too but it would take too long to explain. I sent a long text to her about how I was feeling and she basically told me that she didn’t see a problem with how she behaves and she thinks I’m overreacting. I know if I were to reach out to her again nothing would change and she would be the same. Some people you just gotta let go and pray for them and wish them the best.

[@amberj3941]

@@aryl684 awe thank you! It was so hard to do any I felt bad, but I knew it was the right decision in my heart it was time to let it go. I think it is hard for the person letting go too. Even though we made the decision it’s not easy.

[@amberj3941]

@@victorialisa_ that’s what I would be most afraid of as well, if I reached out again, as much as I miss the good times… I don’t miss a lot of what the friendship was. I spent so much time explaining how I was feeling before I cut it off. I didn’t want her to feel bad but I wanted her to understand and hopefully it could provide some closure for her. I let her know I care about her and I do hope she has a great life with good people in it. I just didn’t want that to be me in the end. Truthfully I knew it was toxic. My mom had mentioned a few times to me how she was worried because I put so much into that relationship, heck more than my actual relationship with my husband at the time. I still care about her, I just learned to care about me a little more. Becoming a mom made me prioritize what was helping my life and what was hurting it. I’m sorry you had to cut off your cousin, I’m really close with my cousins, more like siblings. I can’t imagine it’s easy but you knew it was better for you in the end.

[@ramisaahmed8531]

I love the how the questions were all so different giving eveyone a chance to relate to something. The friendship part is literally me and it's so relieving and nice to hear that others also feel the same! Thank you Jess for doing this!

[@Megan-kw1bl]

I could never imagine the prettiest girl I've ever seen struggling with a poor body image, but I guess so! It honestly makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone in this struggle.

[@thanaa2614]

I'm eating brownies while trying to get over my break up so glad I've Jess in my life even though she doesn't know I exist❤

[@stephifeoma]

Sending hugs 🤗💗

[@amandabayonet6577]

i know this is so random but it's something that i notice a lot with youtubers and influencers, but the way that Jess introduces her sponsorships is sooooo natural and like a friend genuinely recommending something to a friend that the whole ad passes and i didn't even notice it was sponsorship until Jess thanks the brand and i love it so much

[@Maryam_G]

jess's videos are free therapy. my finals are starting in a week, and i needed this. i love you

[@ms.minion5245]

I am watching this at the middle of the day, but it definitely felt like a girls night. I love you Jess, I would love a part 2! 🤍

[@ellieshirey3790]

This chat had THE BEST VIBES. I’ve never actually truly felt like “I was just hanging out with a friend” with a video until this one, big sis vibes Jess❤️‍🔥🥰

[@kathausmann]

I’m the eldest in my family and this videos make me feel like I have a big sister, thank you Jess🥰❤️

[@DeerghKataria]

Watching your videos never made me feel that I never met you guys. I really respect your authenticity Jess.

[@kristenfoote3860]

Y’all she’s so right about function of beauty. I have a the shampoo and conditioner at my house at home, and I have grocery store shampoo at my college apartment and the DIFFERENCE IS UNREAL

[@adrianajusca8258]

We want more girly chats videos! Love you Jess!🤍

[@hersheys2083]

Jess is actually pregnant in this video and she's expecting her period 😂😂 Recently she mentioned that they found out when she was 4 weeks, so I guess she found out shortly after this videoooo

[@raeha1013]

I love how intimate this q and a was. Jess' personality was really showing off

[@aasthaaggarwal1504]

Jess, you aren't that older to me but you are so mature, it gives a different sense of calm looking at your videos! Hope you get all the love and have peace for yourself too ❤️❤️

[@osnapitzlyn]

it’s my birthday today and i’m so happy that you released a new video 🥺

[@JessConte]

omg happy birthday!!! 💛💛

[@cacatianpearl08]

I’m the eldest between me and my sister and I’m thankful for videos like this, I feel like I have an older sister 😅 thank you so much Jess! 💛

[@JustJill]

Wishing I had a bestie like Jess in my life 💛

[@faith_friend]

U are pretty !

[@JustJill]

@@faith_friend thank you 🥰

[@khroniclesofkoko]

Hey Jess, I was really having a difficult day. Watching this and knowing I am not alone in different things really cheered me up, thank you for being vulnerable to share🧡

[@eimanaser1048]

I can’t get over how comforting you are to watch 💗💗

[@jannestam]

i adore this type of videos, it really felt like a girls night, so special 🥰

[@AnnPinedaVlogs]

I like how you talk like our older sister and give genuine advices although we are on the same age, this video brightens my day.

[@jannestam]

also it’s so precious how you talk about us as “your girls”, it really shows you feel comfortable around us and you care about us, i feel blessed to have these type of girls nights with u :)) 🤍🤍

[@Mollylogia]

Love love love this types of videos❤️ so real and authentic, feels like talking to my best friend. Thank you for being so open with us!

[@e.cynthiaj]

Jess could literally be one of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen 😭 I just can’t stop looking at this beauty

[@breundisyoung1881]

Hi Jess I would definitely like a part 2. Maybe every once and a while can you share your favorite meals to make ?

[@JaneeMcClain]

I love your hair. Waiting on a tutorial lol . Side note: everyone have a blessed day, God has great plans for you. ❤️

[@kelsey_anna]

i would love a tutorial to! :)

[@withmissprecious]

I thought Jess’s natural hair was curly.. can someone please explain I’m so confused ☹️

[@withmissprecious]

I would love for her to do a tutorial on her soft waves look ❤️

[@camiellebrucal2068]

@@withmissprecious you are right 😊 she just love to straighten them

[@rohithakrishna7960]

Jess this video felt just like we both were sitting beside eachother and having a heart to heart conversations....💖 definitely need more videos like this!! 😁

[@dnguyen6684]

the timing of the video! i've noticed more than one pimple formed over the past few days in different areas of my face and i had a feeling the monthly was coming, it came today. i love woman talks.

[@meredithmitchellhill]

would love another video like this! i appreciate your honesty so much on topics that are often taboo in the Christian community! 💕 love you guys!

[@charlotterose7330]

I also struggle from being anxious about people not liking me. I know that im being irrational but it's difficult to ignore. It sometimes result to me being depressed because I feel like nobody will ever like me.

[@nolakhalid7745]

This video is so girly and it’s beautiful, I love when you feel so connected to KZbinrs , it feels so real and fun

[@theinsistingservant9543]

I love Jess sit down videos / chitchat/ q&a more than any routine... I love hearing her talk and hearing her stories and advices... she has a good heart

[@constalate]

i feel so refreshed when i’m watching your videos. love you and the rest of us in this very lovely community! ✨ 🥺 💛

[@pamelinajackson6191]

this is my comfort video now :)

[@didi493]

Yeah girls night part 2 please! I love how natural and not-scripted it felt; with a lot of thoughts just like a real conversation🤍

[@joannedmello6204]

It's the same for me, I don't want someone to be friends w me if they aren't interested. It hurts a lil or lots depends, but it's better than having a fake or forced to be friends, kinda friendship. Lovely proverb at the end! 😍 You gotta be friendly and kind to everyone you come across

[@rachelg6016]

i love you jess thank you for this, a reminder that you are so loved and that God is always with us

[@erinchildress2950]

jess to milo: “not for you hunny”. 😂 i’m dead LOL

[@Amavelleity]

U calm me so much :( i love ur videos it feels like we’re on ft. i love girl talk

[@inasellysia9975]

This is such a great and enjoyable one! The way you talk and overall it just gives such a relaxing and comfy vibe, no embarrassment and whatsoever! you're doing great I definitely would love to see you make more of these kind of contents ^___^

[@pavlinabockova5696]

Jess, you are such a sweetheart. Thank you for this vlog.

[@notfromplanetearth6367]

I adore you so much Jess. I know you probably read this a lot but everytime I watch a video of yours I feel better. I had really bad anxiety today and this made me feel calm again. I wish a had a friend like you in my life but at least I can watch your videos. Hope you have a good day!

[@nathaliamatsunaga831]

literally feel like you’re a sister specially with videos like this 🥰💞

[@nicolemurphy176]

yes please another girls talk video!! these make me feel comfortable and keep me grounded

[@jessedillow1933]

This is my favorite video you have ever posted!!! Very thankful for how real and genuine you are! You really do feel like a big sister when you sit down and make a video like this. Your heart is beautiful!

[@mishajacobs.2000]

Please do another video like this❤ you gave incredible advice. Thank you Jess!

[@mailynjanesalacup7422]

Feels like just chillin face to face, thank you for sharing :) I love yor related videos please keep doing more. It keeps me motivated.

[@teatime9649]

Long hair girly here! Using a wide tooth comb when your hair is wet and has conditioner really helps with breakage❤️

[@nm_um]

This girl's night chat helped me a lot, love you Jess!!

[@beyoncegonsalves]

I love it! Please do more video like this! Please! Its so relaxing and calming! Please! I literally wished this video never ended🥺

[@emmakhochay1852]

Thank you so much for doing this, I honestly look up to you as an older sister/friend/mentor and whenever you do these kinds of videos I feel as if I’m not alone in a way if that makes sense lol. But your just such a beautiful, kind, women of God so I feel so blessed that I found you on KZbin. I hope you have a good rest of your day :))

[@Elisa_1214]

I like how Jess is/feels/looks more comfortable with us 🥺💕

[@rachaelcase]

Jess always make me smile! She is like the big sister I never had 💛

[@estherkosonen1022]

Same ☺️

[@tiffanyblu156]

“hmm this is a bit bizarre” 😂she’s so cute

[@kulsoomaslam4216]

I've been suffering from severe depression lately. But your videos make me so happy. Grateful for you! ❤️

[@Lea-dv3ob]

I wasn't feeling my best this morning and thought that I would just really love to watch something positive and comfortable, opened youtube and the first video recommended was this one ❤ how perfect... thank you Jess for the positivity and kindness you spread ❤ One important thing regarding honey in tea: Honey should not be heated above 40° Celsius, because it loses all its vitamins and becomes the same as normal sugar. Keeping in mind, that a single bee has to fly the distance of the whole world to produce one spoon of honey, I think it would be so much nicer if we don't put honey in our hot drinks. So instead maybe use agave, rice sirup or stevia, it's just as healthy :) Hope you don't take this as rude, it came from a place of love ❤

[@aatixak]

OMGGG I NEED A PART 2 OF THISSSS!! JESS, just wanted to say ore power to you gurl

[@hasandiii1361]

Girls night is definitely fun! I just think that you can be an amazing friend! You have this way of sounding so calm and making people feel comfortable and happy. Love you xx

[@jessicamecham7981]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS VIDEO! i haven't had a girls night in so long because I've been extremely busy with school and this made me feel so comfy and warm. Please make this a regular thing i love this idea!

[@maria1100]

i am the 700th comment! but that aside... Jess thank you so much. Ive been watching you and Gabe on your channel for YEARS and finally came around to this. i dont have friends, but i felt really connected to you and every other girl watching. please lets do this again!!!

[@atlas8251]

Love these videos!! Thank you so much for being genuine and open and honest.

[@tabithapearl]

this was so cosy and fun! would definitely enjoy watching more such vids if you choose to do 'em, anyways love you Jess!

[@juliaanna8203]

omg I loved the concept of this whole video :) It really did feel like having a girl's night! So good!

[@shonamcbride6200]

I loved this video!! Thank you so much Jess for the girls night 💕✨

[@breanamartinez368]

The is was lowkey ASMR...like super relaxing! Loved it!!!

[@elaineyixuan]

Definitely need another girls talk video like this!!!!! Jess you are so gentle and soft spoken,I feel so comfortable by just listening you talk and giving advise. 🤍

[@goldenlightforever2]

I love this girl chat! I don't have an older sister and I don't really talk to my best friends that much because we're all studying in different places. This felt so comfy, cozy, and just simply lovely 😊💕

[@luna1584]

I love these types of videos! Definitely need another one, it’s so refreshing to feel like you’re just hanging out chatting with your friend, or sister. Love you Jess 💛

[@AlexWolfenB]

I watch all your videos, but most of the time I watch when I feel down or stressed because your voice and energy is so relaxing. I would like to have a friend like you in real life. And yes, I vote for another video like this one.

[@the_magic_lamp]

I started using function of beauty after seeing jess use it..i love it..it helped my hair alot. My hair looks so healthy than before.

[@mmv3505]

I would love another one, I love hanging with you and watching your videos. You really make everyone feel comfy and safe. You really are a gem, Jess.

[@Jess-3]

Jess I’m literally sat here eating snacks because it’s my time as well. Posting of this video is perfect💓

[@jacelynho]

rly love these girl talk videos feels like a real girls night hehe love u jess x side note: thought it was cute how your sweater and your scrunchie colours match ◡̈

[@pituniloveu]

Jess is so sweet... You make everything so easy and comfy

[@sarahlittle4650]

As someone who has only grown up with brothers I love these videos. I’ve recently found a good group of girl friends and hanging out with them or watching videos like these makes me feel like I have big sisters to get advice from.

[@emelisebond8785]

Jess a adore these videos! It's so nice to put on in the background and just feel supported. Your voice is so pure. I feel like were Aussie sisters

[@Seethakaruppiah]

I really need more of this type of videos. I hope we will get a jess podcast in the future where we can talk about any girl stuffs in a more in depth conversation.

[@jonahcecilia]

Hey Jess!! I totally love this girls night type video

[@__alex__k]

Loved it!! Please do more videos like that 😍 I really felt like I was having a conversation with my best friend 🥺 the atmosphere, your soft calming voice and the fact that we have exactly the same point of view ❤️❤️ it’s a yes for me haha

[@lorna2226]

oh my goodness jess please do more of these. i enjoyed every second of it

[@joannealex5248]

Jess you're like a big sister that i always wanted❤️ Thank you for being soo precious

[@june3048]

Definitely one of my all time favorite videos from Jess!! Please do another one! 💗

[@marcelarose644]

I’m so in for a second part 💕 loved it

[@lillybourney]

YAYY GIRLS NIGHT 💛💛💛please do more of this. it was sooo funn