answering your juicy questions... honest Q&A

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[@aleenaasif4712]

I love the way you’ve kept makaiah’s privacy on social media, if I were famous I think I’d do the exact same, showing her from the side and maybe from time to time showing her face but mostly just the side and more focus on me than her. So refreshing seeing a youtuber not using their kids for views and not striving to be a family channel lol you’re doing great Jess!!

[@JessConte]

I really appreciate that 🫶

[@nataliejk27]

Agree!!

[@Kayla-hw2dq]

I so agree! It’s so good to see💗

[@erinnunez1638]

I agree! Please keep her private. ❤

[@hopejurgens2821]

I'm with you 💯 on this

[@janessamellroy9565]

I hate that everyone thinks shorts are better I love the good ol classic KZbin videos /vlogs so thank you guys for still doing them ❤

[@twin12008]

here are the tabs: 0:14 what kind of engagement ring would you want now? 1:04 how painful was going #2 after having makaiah? 1:37 are periods more painful after birth? 1:57 do you shave or wax down under? 2:24 what do you use for birth control? 3:16 how do you make friends in your late 20s other than through social media? 4:41 what do you recommend to someone who wants to "be you" on insta or yt? 6:25 advice on distancing/cutting off friends without it being awkward? 7:19 will we ever get to see makaiah's face? 8:37 breastfeeding- hard, in public? 10:27 do you or gabe drink alcohol? 11:37 why arent you vlogging more? 12:49 would you ever get botox? aging? 13:57 what's on your "to be read"? 14:56 how did you find * *it* * after having makaiah? hope this helped!!!

[@Amandal37]

Nothing but respect to you for keeping your baby girl protected from online media. When the time is right or you’re comfortable, you’ll know. And it’s okay if that time never really comes. Love you Jess ❤

[@kenyam3862]

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[@kenyam3862]

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[@zmiem9556]

I think you and Gabe are doing really well with how you protect Makaiah. There’s a lot of creeps out there 🥺

[@courtneynchurch]

“Be the friend you want in life” GREAT advice✨

[@peacefulhideaway]

❤

[@v_cluckie97]

I think it’s the right call not to show her face, if I was her I’d really appreciate that when I got older. Also, people online can be so awful and although most of your followers want to see her face for sweet and loving reasons, not everyone online is safe. I think it’s totally possible to show your family life and integrate her into vlogs without showing her face!

[@JessConte]

Trying my best to do that - thank you. I appreciate that 💛

[@SimplyBrit._.]

The different changes in background throughout the video was pretty cute Jess! Happy Sunday 😊💕

[@JessConte]

Thank you!!! 🥰🥰

[@carenjoice594]

You're like a big sister to me ❤ I think you've established a really good relationship with your followers that we'd watch whatever you post on youtube. We know that it's always worth watching. ❤ Even if it's unplanned, it's always fun just hanging out with you guys.😊

[@JessConte]

That’s soooo kind 🥹

[@carenjoice594]

@@JessConte #conteam for lyfff 💗 have a happy Sunday, Jess!

[@tamaranr22]

The way your vlogs calm my anxiety when I’m having a rough day (even when struggling as a content creator myself), literally put your vlogs as a background sound and take a min for myself to enjoy that moment, so yes again thank you for doing what you do and let us be part of your life 🥰🤍

[@hannar6041]

Please don’t let other content creators impact what you and Gabe are comfortable with. You guys are just trying to do right by your daughter who doesn’t have a voice yet to express if she wants to “star” in y’all’s vlogs and Instagram posts. Love and respect to you 🥰🥰🥰

[@pjay9576]

wasn’t having a very good day, but glad to have a new video to watch before i fall asleep! your videos just spreads so much serenity and calmness! it’s addictive! 💛

[@crystalgagnon8252]

I needed girl talk today. Thank youuuu for posting and being so honest and humble!!! ❤🎉

[@savinab2530]

I honestly look forward to your vids every time. They’re just so peaceful to me, even just q&a’s like this🥰

[@yanna1379]

watching you is such a breath of fresh air. you inspire me jess! ❤️

[@jeanettenielsen8427]

Hi Jess, wanted to let you know that I'm loving the slightly longer videos of 15-20 mins instead of 10 ^^ Simply can't get enough of you ;) hehe ^^

[@seyioba29]

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[@laine4822]

I love you being so honest with us! Happy Sunday Jess, Gabe and Makaiah 🥰

[@nataliejk27]

I LOVE that you are protecting Makaiah and not showing her. It’s very respectable that you are willing to sacrifice some parts of your work for her. I enjoy the fun videos you guys are doing instead of the daily vlogs. So glad you are following your instinct as parents ❤

[@devynpugh33]

I love the way that you share your family life! It seems so cozy and warm to me. I think it is so respectable of you guys to just do what is right for you. Keep doing you!

[@isabellalacy9901]

Hey Jess! I just wanted to say that you are such an inspiration to me and I am so obsessed with your content! You are are such a breath of fresh air and a ray of sunshine! Thank you for always being so supportive and vulnerable with us! Ilysm and I hope you have a beautiful day!

[@hbaca74]

I love watching you guys grow into parenthood! I think you and I had the same due date : July 21st and it was so nice to go through pregnancy with you! My baby boy is 7 months now and I will be starting content as well. You guys have motivated me to also keep him mostly offline

[@mimiyee28]

Love these chill vlogs! Although we don’t get to see Makaiah’s face a lot, I respect how you guys are protecting her privacy

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[@jessicaallen1754]

I love how often Makaiah is shown, it's like you guys get to respect her privacy without never putting a camera on her! I think so many viewers feel like because you share so much that it's owed but it's 100% not like that. I love that we get to see her without a camera being put directly in her face:) Even if that's what you guys wanted to do(become a family channel) you guys know what's best for your family! I love that being respectful towards your daughter is your top priority and as viewers that appreciate you guys we want nothing but respect for her as well:)

[@kayrahb2730]

Changing backgrounds where you stopped to answer the questions throughout your day was really refreshing! Have a great week

[@andreareyes7080]

Thank you for being so open & honest with us Jess 💗 love you & your little family 💕💕💕

[@Celeste_Hernandez17]

I loved how authentic this video was, your videos are the best Jess🫶🏼

[@tamaranr22]

Vlog on Sunday is my favorite thing, so relaxing and nice 🥰 always love how transparent you are with everything 🥰

[@megan_1]

I needed this friend chat today, thank you Jess ❤ & I love that advice about being the kind of friend you want to have in life!

[@strafka_]

It's always so good to start a week with a vlog from you! Also this girls talk was what I needed ♡

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[@theintrovertedextrovert]

Thanks for being so honest with us! This is so helpful for me, as someone who doesn't have kids yet but is planning for the future!

[@yasminereda3605]

I really love these kind of honest (girls) chit chats of you!

[@antonellacabezas8282]

Literally like a big sis❤ Thanks you for being so real always!!

[@sarboiss5774]

I haaatte tiktok and youtube shorts, so glad you guys dont make them a lot and stick to youtube videos! Love watching your guys youtube videos, especially the longer ones!!

[@JessConte]

That means a lot 🥲

[@AnnabelleSibilang]

woah this is my earliest on a jess video! i always find your videos inspiring. sending lotsa 🫶🏼

[@racheleg1221]

Your videos are so calming, Jess

[@seyioba29]

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[@vaaanyy_]

I really love your videos. You are my comfort person and watching your videos always makes me happy! ♥ I need to say, that I really miss your old Jess & Gabe videos, where you were vlogging random stuff, because I love to watch that kind of videos (STILL haha) but I do understand that it`s more difficult with a baby especially when you don`t want to show her as much. Wish you a great day!

[@godfreymatechi2993]

I love the kindness and politeness in your voice ❤️.Love you

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[@osnapitzlyn]

i’m so excited for this video!!!! thank u for this chill hangout ❤️ playing this video to sleep

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[@carmellaking22]

I just did Sunday reset and now I relexad watching your upload! Love you guys.

[@shawnaprice41]

I loved this video Jess I have been kind of scared of motherhood im turning 24 this month and im not a mom yet but watching your videos have been helping me. I've watched you guys for years and i love how y'all have grown. Keep doing what you guys are doing! y'all are doing a amazing job. I love you guys

[@pinkelephantpanda]

I respect you both so much for keeping her private and thinking about not forcing the world of social media onto her!!

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[@aisel7]

I’ve been watching Jess and Gabe ever since their first vlogs and I always felt that Jess is someone I can open up to. We have a lot of things in common. I hope I can meet her someday ♥️

[@Karina-xt7vo]

I love the questions throughout the vlog, it was so fun

[@JessConte]

Thank you 🥲

[@rachelteo1236]

i clicked so fast as soon as i saw the notification! always looking forward to your video & J&G vlogs!

[@myaduro]

I truly love your channel. Keep doing the best work ❤️

[@sofiaiwaszewicz4251]

I personally love this type of videos more, vlogs were always my least fav genre. Thank you for being how you are and so caring ❤

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[@SaraGraceBauer]

Jess thank you for answering the hard questions. I’ve been watching you guys since you first met, I’m at a point when me and my boyfriend are talking about kids and these videos are so helpful and relatable ❤ love you!

[@tamaranr22]

I cannot express enough how much I admire you and love your content (and u obvs haha) just thank you for everything 🫶🏼🥰

[@emiliamodrusan]

I love these videos and Ioved how you took us around on your day too! ❤️

[@abbifox9781]

Your videos just make me so happy, I feel like you would just be such a good friend to have (:

[@xokelseyxo9238]

Happy Sunday, sweet Jess! You are truly so very beautiful from your heart. You are a lovely soul who radiates unconditional kindness and pure love. Your thankfulness for this precious gift of life from the Lord will forever be so inspiring. I am a super fan from Long Island. I am 30 years old. I have been following your journey since the very beginning. It is such an honor to watch you in this magical season of motherhood. You're an absolutely phenomenal mother. I look up to you in so many ways. Thank you for always sharing your life with us. Please always remember how special, worthy and deeply loved you are. 🌼💛

[@thecassandrashow1414]

I love your content! Family vlogs are cute and I consume them too 😂 but I’m happy that you guys are not rushing anything and raising your daughter away from cameras until you feel ready :)

[@brendachaves6375]

Hey Jess!! Happy Sunday to you and Gabe. I’m so happy to Savannah and Cole are moving to Tennessee🤍

[@JessConte]

Happy Sunday 🥰🥰

[@abbycorbett5159]

Watching your videos are some of my favorite things to do. I have a little girl about a month younger than your baby and it is so encouraging watching you guys. Like having a good friend I can connect with and learn with

[@seyioba29]

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[@Thelilmissbz]

I love these honest chats ❤

[@sujithavalliveti2391]

Omggg im always so excited when ever you post❤️❤️❤️

[@sujithavalliveti2391]

Love from indiaa JGM❤️

[@allie_alz]

So on the skin care... your body stops producing collagen, which is the main structural protein in your connective tissues so in layman's terms you're more prone to get wrinkles after 25, so make sure to take collagen. You may know this already, but it's found really at any pharmacy that carries supplements. Blessings ✌🏻🩷

[@cc26891]

Unfortunately large scale clinical trials have shown that collagen peptides cannot make it through the human digestive system well enough to get collagen to the dermis/skin. But can somewhat help a little with joint pain or arthritis.

[@rubypamelagrace]

@@cc26891 Thank you for sharing that because I don't want to waste my money on stuff that has no scientific evidence it works!!

[@allie_alz]

@CC Fisher there's topical though right??

[@larissa1770]

Thanks for this info! For people who are iffy about supplements I assume home made bone broth works wonders for collagen...so I heard.

[@cc26891]

@@allie_alz topicals are less effective than supplements due to molecule size not being absorbed through the pores. But they are trying to work around it, just not there yet.

[@lisa.bresser]

Your videos are soooo calming I needed this today and thank u for being so honest and open ❤

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[@_karadanvers]

i love the fact that having a child doesnt change your purpose on making contents. you and gabe didnt start as a family vlogger and now you guys deliver makaiah as an important part of your lives without showing her off too much. thats something i rarely see on internet nowadays. seeing that you guys understand that kids are also human being that deserve privacy rather than showing her face off just because they dont understand anything yet is a really good principle. keep up the good work😉

[@annasaleeby4781]

A new Jess video 🤩🤩🤩 >>

[@savannabmiller02]

i love you guys so much!!!!!❤

[@abbywallner_]

Love you Jess!! I agree with the comment that you are a big sister to all of us on KZbin - I always feel so calm watching your videos & encouraged & peaceful! thank you ❤❤

[@Franny_Arrieta]

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I started using natural cycles when you mentioned in one of your previous videos and honestly it’s great! I’ve learnt so much about my body that I even know when I ovulate by what my body goes through, but when you start using it you have to be patient, use it consistently and use LH tests, the program needs at least 3-4 months of data to understand you properly but it’s totally worth it with how to understand your body more

[@faithsibanda403]

I agree, like I'm at the point where I can tell where I am in my cycle from the liquid, my temperature, appetite and digestion. It feels more natural tracking this way

[@miriam6184]

I've tried it as well but iit doesnt prevent pregnancies tho, it only tells you what days you are fertile. What do you use on those days then?

[@jbhalodia]

I think you definitely shine in front of the camera!❤ i always think you're a natural

[@foreverbtsxxx]

I really still look up to your vlogs so I'm all up for any vlog you do 🤍🤍. Love your videos soo much, please do us a video where you include how you take care of your hair, how you style it, the products you use... Through your videos, I feel like I'm listening to my older sister and it feels soo warm. Thank you 🤍🌸

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[@pratyushakoratala8781]

This weekend has been very low for me and i was feeling sad that Monday is already around the corner and daily life starts but seeing this video hearing you talk about stuff just randomly helped to calm me haha, it was nicee 💛

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[@viragkismarosi5181]

You do a great job, Jess!💫 Protecting your little princess is completely right.(there are too many mean and jealous people) Also, I like the balance between vlogs and sit down videos( freaking hilarious just saying💖)

[@tahlia4189]

Jess, you are such a delight 🤍 Praying for the abundance of God's favour and immense blessing upon you in this precious season of life 🥰 You are such an encouragement - I appreciate you more than you will ever know! X

[@freesianongpluh3377]

Clicked on it as soon as it popped in my notification 😁. This video was really nice, felt like I was catching up with a friend 🤗.

[@emilytuffnell3593]

You have the most soothing voice 💕 I'm sick and can feel myself resting as I watch this video 😊✝️💕

[@jessicaa.m.harper1727]

I love how you've maintained your daughter's privacy. ❤❤❤

[@madisonstrack6320]

It is so beautiful hearing you talk about aging and the reasons behind the "signs of aging"!! Babies and children are such a gift!

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[@bridgetwilley4122]

I personally very much respect that you don’t show Makaiah’s face. As a mom I’m sure you want to protect her as much as you can and as you know, social media/the internet can be a scary place!! You have a very healthy balance of showing the fun things you do as a family, without outwardly showing her face and everything about her. I enjoy watching it so much!! Hope this gives you some clarity if you happen to see it :) 💞

[@shaheerahelisya]

Would be so cool if you started a book club! 💛

[@shellienewago2945]

Loved this video! :) I appreciate you

[@kathausmann]

I love these kind of videos, being the eldest in my family, this feels like having a big sister❤ Hope you have a great day

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[@BriBradshaw]

Would love a tutorial on how you do your shaving routine! I struggle a bit with figuring out the best shaving routine, especially for my legs. And go back and forth on what other areas to consider shaving. Just curious how you do your routine!

[@audrey-kf8tu]

i see jess, i click ❤️

[@JessConte]

🥹

[@ms.soapii]

lovely way to start off a Sunday morning ☺️ love you jess!!

[@JessConte]

happy Sundaaaaayyy ☺️

[@akemi187]

Hi Jess! I just wanted to say I REALLY appreciate the longer-form content!! I know tiktok/reels/shorts are more "profitable", but it's really not my cup of tea. Thank you SO much for keeping up with your regular channel too!! 💕

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[@elena-oo3fc]

I really appreciate your effort!!! Love your channel!

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[@maggieruggiero883]

You deserve to keep whatever aspects of your life private that you want. You could always make a private account for family/close friends if you don’t have already so that you can make “normal” posts like you want ❤

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[@valerietan1691]

Jesssss why you gotta upload this while I'm about to sleep 😂 still gonna watch it first tho haha 💛

[@JessConte]

Oh noooo haha I’m sorry! 🙈

[@h4li251]

there are a lot of people in the world who sadly have bad intentions for children growing up on the internet so never feel pressured to show Makaiah on camera. plus at the end of day, she's your child not ours ! much love jess !

[@jasgem76]

This! So much this. I hate that some people seem to feel entitled to have access to children they don't know on the internet.

[@BlaqRabbit95]

I'm EARLY!!💃🏻 Love you Jess🥰

[@gabyydiazm]

This has nothing to do with the video but Jess your hair looks so luscious and gorgeous in this video!! You're glowing!! Sending love xx

[@justagirl4117]

I love that you are protecting Makaiah's privacy online. Not showing her face can definitely be part of that although I think that you won't be able to recognize her later in life just from having seen her face as a baby. What I personally find most important is not to share to much information on children such as what they like or dislike, private moments and embarrassing situations, etc. In my opinion, every child should have the opportunity to grow up without having strangers know them or talk a lot about them. Children live in such small worlds that I would never ever want to confront my child with being known outside of their friend group and school. It is already overwhelming for adults to have so many reactions to whatever they do that I'm convinced, it can be very harmful on children.

[@anna-xv3qf]

waxing is great! the first time will hurt a lot...but after a couple of appointments youll realize that its so worth it and the feeling afterwards is amazing. everything will be softer and and youll say goodbye to the itching and the pain and the in-grown hair. DO IT

[@bigblueoceanocean3071]

girl, ive been watching you for so longgg, I loveeeee your vids, please don't let the hate comments get to you!! and no you don't come across as ungrateful!! every job has its downsides.

[@amelieshbr4041]

I can fully understand your thoughts about wether or not to show your daughters face on KZbin etc. I think it’s a decision you really have to be intentional with and think a lot about and I want to encourage you to continue to listen to your instincts, gut feeling however you want to name it. I can understand people who’d love to see more family content. But I think it’s your decision and everyone should respect that and also the way it changes the content from the Jess and Gabriel channel. 💛 I’m watching your videos for years now and I really enjoy your content and even though I loved the vlogs back over at the other channel I can fully understand why you are doing things differently right now! I don’t even know if you’ll read this comment. 🙈 But if so, I want to encourage you both not to listen to anyone who’s telling you to do differently than you would feel comfortable with. Love you both! 👋🏻💛🇩🇪

[@bernadettemary2135]

protect your baby girl for sure. she deserves privacy ! hugs jess, love your q&as

[@joycenaluyinda9743]

Wow. I appreciate this video. Thank you for all the information.

[@shannonraab3214]

It was so great meeting you at church today! Sorry if it was super awkward 😬

[@madelynlego1892]

You are the best mama for her and you don't have to know what to show right now! Take it slow and even though there is pressure on you to show her face and such doesn't mean that you need to consider it. Come to it when you are ready ❤ you are doing so well keep up the good work

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[@drbreth]

I loved the little “page flip” sound when her book recommendations came on the screen 🫶🏼💛

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[@Sofia-gr1jk]

Also I read somewhere that your wrinkles show how happy you are because you smile! So don’t worry about them!!!

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[@sarahkhan22]

I get so excited when I see the notifications for your vids 🥰 also you should try laser hair removal instead of shaving/ waxing!

[@JessConte]

It’s so crazy - I tried laser a few years ago on my legs and it was the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced 😂

[@ErinKathleen]

I do like tiktok, but I LOVE a long VLOG/video

[@katelynpaige2559]

Girl I totally don’t blame you for not posting pictures of your babe. Literally I only post pictures of my daughter on my personal Instagram and Facebook where I’m only friends with family and some friends who I feel I can trust. But social media is so scary. I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve went down rabbit holes of sick people who do awful things with images of babies and the way they’re exploited and sexualized and it’s terrifying. All to say do what you feel is best for your baby, don’t feel pressured to do things you don’t want to just appease your followers. At the end of the day your baby’s safety and security is most important, even over your job and I’m glad you’re sticking to that conviction.

[@amybaimbridge2521]

Hey Jess!❤ I’m really loving your personal vids and your Jess and gabe new concept idea videos! I totally get not wanting to post too much of makaiah! You’re not crazy for it! Your baby can’t give consent to be on camera either! :))) I love the way your channel is going🥰

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