answering tmi GIRL TALK questions ur too scared to ask ur mom (first kiss, dating, confidence...)

let’s get personal & chat about feeling left behind in teenage experiences, getting ghosted, self confidence, dating apps, my first kiss story, and SO MUCH MORE! this is a long video so grab a snack & chill with me :)
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0:00 hello
0:54 dating & love
- how to deal with insecurities when u haven’t dated anyone in high school / feeling incapable of love
- should i chase love or should i wait for it?
- why do guys ghost you after asking to make things official
- advice on dating apps: trying to not get played a ton - so many ppl act like its a game
- i feel so happy and content w my bf but then ill look online and see these extravagant displays of love and i feel like thats what im supposed to want/expect
- thoughts/tips when ppl will text (flirty) but not acknowledge you in person
14:32 q&a w/ my boyfriend
- do u and martin ever get into bigger fights?
- what r ur ethnicities?
- how do u keep the spark alive after honeymoon phase
- me & my bf just broke up and it feel feels like we’re still together how do we END it END IT
20:24 self love & confidence
- i grew up ugly so i let myself be an option how can i gain more confidence about it
- how to deal with feeling behind on teenage experiences (first kiss, relationship, parties, etc)
25:14 TMI
- what to do when he doesn’t want to wear a condom
- is it normal for a tampon to hurt when u put it in and take it over even after 7 hrs
- i want to lose my virginity and just get over it tbh, but i want a real relationship - should i just hook up?
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[@uci1111]

i’m 18 and i never had a boyfriend and never kissed anyone. i always had tan skin and boys always picked the whiter skined girls and i felt so insecure and i literally i never went out from my room to stay whiter ❤ now i know it’s not my fault and i love myself

[@_joyce]

you're fine and i'm sure you're beautiful!! i'm almost 22 and also never kissed or dated anyone, i have lots of insecurities but i don't think that's the reason i never dated, it's just that the boys that i liked would never look at me and the boys that liked me i only saw them with friends eyes, now i don't really have opportunities to meet new boys and i feel like i'm gonna be single forever, which is kinda sad haha but i don't know, i guess i gotta accept that i have to wait for my moment to come

[@uci1111]

@@_joyce love you ❤ and i’m sure you’re beautiful too ✨

[@bambidollest]

Girly pop boys will be boys and you are gorgeous don’t let that stop you for being you my love ❤ it was never your fault that you never experienced it that just means someone good will eventually treat you like a total princess nothing more nothing less you will be someone’s number 1 priority

[@aurore_14]

Gurl don’t listen to them. Wether you’re tan or pale does NOT matter trust me. I’m hella pale and I get really insecure bc a lot of people point it out saying I look abnormal. Don’t sweat it girl

[@Kantonara]

@@aurore_14 this right here is hella relatable

[@dreamjhaniya1089]

i love these girl talk videos because i never had an older sister to talk about these things with 😭

[@aurore_14]

Righttt

[@liriosrosados]

frrr, jasmine’s older sister talk videos are so comforting to me

[@thegoofymatrix]

Same I'm the oldest so I don't know what it feels like

[@holzy222]

Yess fr!!

[@Yayaxoxo191]

Innit how am I supposed to talk abt this with to brothers 😭😭💀💀

[@Abhishekxsahu]

As a 18 yo boy who's gay i love these videos so much cause i can actually relate to them experiences of not getting attention, validation or love in my school. My highschool has almost ended to be honest, i have final board exams from day after tomorrow.

[@rwitabina]

fellow desi! good luck for boards

[@bunni9843]

Good luck I hope you do well on your exams 🥰🥰❤️

[@jkv5332]

same, and I haven't studied anything, whole book is left. and exam is tomorrow. its pre board not boards but I'm just fuccked up rn.

[@gxlden-kookiequit5111]

HELP??

[@gxlden-kookiequit5111]

it says girl talk not gay man talk

[@jungtwinkie6196]

AHHH I LOVE THESE TYPES OF VIDEOS. Also I think your voice is very calming to listen to. I like how much you talk too, because I'm talkative as well so it makes me happy seeing someone who talks as much as me.

[@miajaca]

yess she's literally like the older sister ive always wanted i live for these videos

[@beyzanurvlogs]

We highkeyy need a podcastt

[@giannakayira8133]

Bro we really do need a podcast!!! Like I’d actually PAY MONEY to listen to her 😭😭

[@Faceless_Cryptid]

This could not have come at a better time. I have to call my bf to talk about breaking up today, and it’s just been really difficult lately. I’m the older sister in my family, so I really appreciate people like you who offer this type of sisterly advice. Thanks so much.

[@mangoliys]

good luck with that! i know it must be hard choice but a stranger on the internet is proud of u for doing what’s best for you ❤️‍🩹.

[@mariafausti3128]

I’m sorry that situation is never easy :( how are you feeling?

[@Silcaa]

So sorry to hear, hope everything went okay :)

[@Faceless_Cryptid]

Thanks for reaching out ❤️ I'm doing alright, thanks for asking.

[@ilil99]

I'm 23 and with my first boyfriend for the last 2.5 years (met him on tinder too), I always felt unworthy of love because I also was the one who didn't get any attention from boys at school. It took me some time to gain confidence and trust in my relationship because I felt so unworthy, but I'm glad things turned out like they did, I found someone who gets me and is so kind, it feels like it was meant to be like this.

[@MsLaziesArse]

Aww good for you, i’m sure you deserve all the love ❤❤

[@katerineariela]

These girl talks are like being on FaceTime 🫶🏼

[@radickkwkwo]

UR SO PRETTY OMG

[@katerineariela]

@@radickkwkwo thank you omg 🥺🫶🏼

[@anniedrouet4169]

these videos make me feel literally sm better abt being 16 and having NO experience with guys, THANKYOU FOR MAKING THESE VIDEOS

[@jana-rr3xb]

Samee

[@Robynbugg]

Same I turn 18 this year and I haven’t even held hands with a boy lmao

[@fl0w3r17]

@@Robynbugg same 😭😭😭

[@dv4346]

@@Robynbugg girl that's completely normal! I'm 20 and got into my first relationship this past november. the thing is after that happens you'll have so many firsts- first holding hands with a boy, first kiss etc. If you had asked me even in july of this year if I thought that would happen for me I would say abolutely not. so don't worry about it, enjoy being single it's so fun

[@Robynbugg]

@@dv4346 thank you! I hope your relationship goes great!

[@juliet5413]

I recently turned 25, but I love watching your stuff. And we’re kinda close in age. I was also a late bloomer (I literally didn’t lose my virginity or start dating boys until I was 22. Didn’t kiss anyone until I was 17). But fast forward to now, a lot of girl who did get “all” the guys in high school are still dating around and dealing with the same drama and issues. I’m in a serious, committed relationship and getting engaged this year. I’ll be married before a lot of the “cool”/“pretty” girls in high school ✨

[@jkv5332]

this is what I'm saying too. dating too young and a lot can lead to toxic cycles repeating over and over. I've learnt this lesson from my friends and sisters around me. better safe than* sorry yknow. and I honestly don't see anything wrong with being single especially when we're super young. our expectations upon ourselves are quite concerning.

[@juliet5413]

@@jkv5332 i agree! It bothered me being single at times, especially from ages 14 to 17. But once i got to college, I was honestly more okay with it. I was more focused on school and stuff than a lot of my other friends. I did super well in school and now im really successful, I met someone when I graduated and hes successful too.

[@yasminflower5140]

Exactly....i will never understand people who break up and have a new gf/bf every month.

[@dreamjhaniya1089]

pov your cat having an intimate moment with the wall at 5:49 😭

[@pranjallpahuja]

ahhahahahahahahaha im crying😭

[@arianagrandeeeee]

thought i was the only one who saw that 😭😭

[@meilol1236]

There is nothing I love more than her girl talks they make me feel so calm

[@el-vm9cr]

For the whole ghosting thing it’s actually scientifically backed up. You can look up “the rubber band effect”. (This is for hetero couples) Basically men enjoy the persuit of the relationship and once you’re official/ once the girl shows she’s attached they start trying less and this stage normal makes or breaks the relationship

[@heybrendy]

as someone who’s lost a lot of her girl friends after high school now that i’m almost 22 with like 3 friends including my sister, these videos are so comfortable and dear to me

[@sugarcandy654]

Same, I now only have two friends and they’re my older sisters

[@littlecinnamon]

after being out all night and seeing people flirt with my friends and seeing them with their boyfriends after made me feel really shitty about “being left out” this video was a very warm hug

[@rodricksvan3009]

bro i had my first kiss recently and it was lowkey terrible but yk what i just laugh about it now because it’s okay! just a new experience 😭

[@hiyoriinx]

awww 😭

[@TiPaNiP696969]

I got really lucky bc when I graduated high school, I was a chubby depressed 17yo with severe anxiety and I graduated in 2019. So no bfs or gfs in high school or even college. (or even now bc I still have anxiety) Covid landed half way through my freshman year of college and I was able to use quarantine to learn to love my personality bc for some reason I started to double down on my mental health first. I am now 22 and I started to work out actually this year and I’m just really glad I got lucky with falling in love with/being confident in my personality before I was ever confident in my body, but I will not lie… my depression made that easy for me, but now that I’ve figured that out I can focus on what my body needs or wants better! I took up yoga, Pilates, and lots of cardio bc I was actually bored at first, but now I genuinely enjoy how strong my body has gotten!

[@c4chu]

some extra info for the question at 26:40 !! if you have pain related to tampons (amongst other things), you may want to consider going to the doctor to see if you have vulvodynia, a chronic pain condition of the vulva which you can get help for it through physical therapy :)

[@amcntd]

Yes! Vaginismus could be a possible cause as well (I have this), so people should definitely visit a doctor for it!

[@myaguerrero22]

this woman makes my day and night and has never failed once

[@livi_long]

i’ll never get tired of this series .. love your input and opinions

[@desthecreator_]

suki gave us a 10/10 loaf at 1:44 :)

[@kyrasproul3486]

I’m 16 and these videos are really comforting. She’s so funny and gives good advice.

[@trucourt333]

I’m so thankful for these videos from you bc I just lost my mom back in September while I just started University and turned 18 as well. I was only ever comfortable asking my mom things like this even though I do have two older sisters but was only close with one and didn’t feel comfortable enough to talk to her about it. Thank you so much for being the source outside my family with the advice

[@kwigg25]

i'm high and i'm 22 and i just wanna say i appreciate this type of video so so much... it's so inspiring and makes me feel so much less alone as a 22 yr old teenage girl

[@d33zNuutz]

omg, I relate sm to what u said in the beginning 😭 in high school anytime me and my friends would go out they would always get guys attention, and I would usually get ignored. and it made me feel really insecure, and I wanted to be validated by men so bad. I don't think like that anymore (I'm a freshman in college now) but I still get treated the same by guys though😭 it doesn't bother me as much anymore, bc I'm learning how to prioritize myself and love myself and have validation from myself. Instead of getting that from guys. I'm rly glad that u made/make these girl talk videos. I feel less alone, since most of my friends haven't really experienced what I mentioned above. So hearing it from u makes me feel less alone. thank you❤️

[@noadehaan5295]

19 year old nearly-uni grad here and omfg I love this. As an only child I felt like I missed out on having an older sister who could help me w this stuff. Thank you sm for this vid

[@katlarisa]

no seriously it's like we've grown up together😭i've been subscribed since 2020 and i've loved watching how far you and your channel have come!! love you so so much and thank you for the girl power and positivity you spread❤

[@madisonbroussard8790]

22:45 the feeling of missing out and time running out is so real!

[@nanasisilala]

even though were around the same age, I've been watching these videos since I graduated high school and they bring me a lot of comfort in my age and femininity. I feel like we've had enough similar unique experiences that it makes me really feel understood and less alone when it comes to feeling my worries and concerns. I love this series and i'm so excited for your TedTalk

[@niniee7626]

the fact that i was already here when the first girl talk vid came out is actually crazy like we really are growing together omg

[@elizabethweiss6515]

for my senior project i’m working on making a magazine called tiger lily and was wondering if I could ask you a few questions for a short interview!

[@elizabethweiss6515]

i’ve been a fan of yours forever and it would be such an honor!

[@emmersynl9591]

@@elizabethweiss6515 you should email her business email!! (if u haven't gotten a response yet)

[@jaypop_dance]

I liked the pimple metaphor for relationships 🤣Its actually clever! Also I love these big sis girl chats, even though we are the same age haha! It feels like I'm hanging out with my bestie 💗

[@lizie_lee]

Please Jasmine never stop these girl talks videos

[@LindaThao]

Girl talk videos are my absolute favorite!! 💞💜☺️

[@luunni_]

talking about dating apps, i am so ashamed of falling in love with someone i met on tinder or smth. but now that you told us how you met your bf, it kinda relax me and made me realize that is more common than i though it was. thank u sm for this lovely big sister talks

[@thaliacz]

As a 16 years old girl this is awesome, I'm the big sister so I'm the one who "should" give advices but I need some so thank youu

[@lili_mtl]

You deserve 1M girl , you are a such good inspiration for me like a real big sister ily

[@JJ-du1jp]

these videos have the ability to turn a shit day into a great one, I swear I think I've watched a lot of these by now, but they're really comforting every time ❤️ makes me feel less insecure about certain things so thank you ❤️

[@SionaL1U2]

Couldn’t concentrate for the first minute cause Jasmine was glowing so much, shes so gorgeous!

[@lunchablecheese5931]

I watched these when I was like 16 and now watching them after I HAVE done all the things (😭) I’m so glad I watched you, your vids were so helpful, esp your personal experience on insecurity and dating cause I always felt so isolated when I was insecure in high school

[@samness9304]

im fresh out of a breakup and struggling with self love a lot. we were together on and off for over a year. it wasnt very healthy and he put in minimal effort and i was constantly left feeling unloved and unwanted so i ended things. trying to cope with this massive hole left behind is something ive never had to do before and everyday feels like im stuck in a wave pool of emotions. learning to love myself without the validation from a s/o or even a person i like is so hard. i know that the breakup was the right decision but now that i am without the minimum love he showed it feels like i have nothing and will never have it again.

[@averyfindsen3948]

you making that decision shows that you have love for yourself. even though it hurts, you should feel proud of yourself for that! it's okay to feel all the emotions of the moment, and you can also keep in mind that time will heal. wishing you luck

[@dominiqueee_868]

these videos r js so comforting- it makes me not feel weird for an experience or feeling i've had, so ty for posting this

[@Lily.2rizzy]

I love the videos u make smmmm!! My sister left the house abt 8 months ago and like doesn't talk to me as much. So u have helped me so much w the big sister talks. im going into middle school this year and i feel like u have helped me through so much like i literally die when u post. but anyway i jst wanted to thank you sm for helping me out and many others. we love u smmm! (off topic but u have really nice hands)

[@nathalielaplante]

I’ve been dealing with these issues a lot lately! Im 16 and haven’t experienced anything, I guess im still pretty stressed with it BUT im coming more to terms with it :) thanks jasmine

[@Kistune_Playz]

As an older sister, and a 14yo girl, this was something I really needed this and MY GOD this answered a lot of stuff that I have questioned. Because being in high school, lots of stuff happening, this is actually really comforting of having this “older sister” style talk so I thank you a lot💕💕💕💕

[@ILuvthe_Moon]

OMG!!! I have the same experience as you! I'm so happy someone went through the same thing as me. Everything you talked about in the beginning!!

[@bri13n]

i love these so much im always rewatching

[@mailynnjeffries.soccer2026]

These are literally my favorite kinds of videos-ur my comfort creator in every aspect and i love your work, keep it up jasmine!!

[@TheDreamer1618]

re: tampons do NOT leave the same one in for more than 4 hours max and DONT (like jasmine said) use a super absorbent one if your flow isn't equal to it. make sure you're matching the absorbency to the heaviness of your flow, if you're not sure and worried about leaks, use a liner in your underwear with the tampon or just use a pad (which is perfectly sanitary and should not make u feel ashamed or anything). stay safe!

[@saram8908]

this video coming out just made my day

[@ntyanast5148]

this is really helpful for every girl! thank you for making videos like this. it's important to share some sensitive and intimate topics. nice to know that we are not alone with some insecurities, doubts in relationship, self-confidence and stuff like that. love you!!❤️

[@someone.fromsomewhere.]

As the oldest, I’m glad I have someone to tell me about this stuff ❤️

[@aimee692]

I honestly needed to hear so much of this advice especially the advice on self confidence and feeling behind so thank you!

[@KL-ef6sy]

I used to watch this like 2 years ago ig im correct this showed up on my recomended again and its like reliving old memories

[@YourGirlShaylah]

This is very useful especially for the high school girlies

[@tsukishima-i-guess]

16:49 i think it's so cool that she's viet and he's filo bc my dad's filo and my mum's viet andd my name's jasmineee idk i felt like thats rlly cool

[@milenemariaprado4034]

i feel so happy when you post! i was feeling so lonely tonight and you've just made my dayy! love uu

[@eternallycontemplating]

Ngl im skipping my mass in class rn because I feel like I’m gonna puke and have horrible horrible diarrhea so this video is rlly helps with distracting myself!! Thanks for another big sister talk Jasmine😩😩

[@yasmin8747]

LMAO

[@ricaran9070]

Tysm jasmine 💓 and I love these sister talks because I don't have an older sister 💗 and having u as my big sister is just the best

[@amcntd]

Amazing vid as ALWAYS

[@Ducktective-]

Ugh, As the oldest sister, I never have that resource so I’m glad you’re here to save the day and teach me these things

[@orangentage]

5:45 not your cat licking the wall hahah

[@bifreesoul]

the definition of comfort

[@miajaca]

i love these videos jasmine please never stop 🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@Urstrulycatwoman]

Jasmine le giving slay advice: The cat: 05:51 nice wall

[@KARYOUHOME]

I clicked so fassssst! Love this series so so much, absolutely relate to your past so much, being a late bloomer and not being seen by boys in the past. Love you, so happy every time you post because I love your view on the world and your personality, I‘m also a Leo girlie! We have so many things in common❤️

[@monikaho5775]

The best series ever IS BACK yey 🥰

[@marielle8655]

the cat >>>🥺

[@ptsdtwerktwerk]

The fan on her wall making her look like she wearing like a little cute crown....so cute

[@klarakragh1544]

Your skin is literally perfect can u pls show your skincare routine?❤️❤️

[@jodieturnerx]

I love these videos and congrats on being able to do a ted talk - that's amazing!!

[@NK-zk2zv]

Can’t wait for the TED TALK!!

[@lexii69]

yesss, i love these so much.

[@loltaleya43]

Omg love your girl talk and I’m still scared to use tampons. I just fine using pads cause I’m don’t want feel that pain gurl tbh 😭

[@tv.g_505.]

I love your personality when ever I watch your videos I feel like I'm actually talking to you! Your amazing!!!! ❤💗❤

[@keelyruckle4832]

My problem with the fact that I’ve never been with anyone is that I feel lonely.I wanna know that there’s someone with me who will love me and be with me whenever I need

[@mofipop4641]

Ugh, I love these girl talk videos! I'm slightly older than you, but you drop so many gems 🥰

[@jungtwinkie6196]

HELP NOT YOUR CAT LICKING THE WALL. 5:52

[@yourfavefangirl2839]

Please continue this series it’s so good!

[@soapyketchup9929]

this gives major best-dressed video vibes!!

[@ashleyb3902]

The skin care analogy is actually spot on haha

[@ellenster]

Girl I loooove your content!! Keep going❤

[@gorettin8220]

ahhhh i love ur tmi talks!! i'm not even done watching LMAO but ur talk on seeking validation from boys (esp ur comment on like a dude looking at me for like half a second and then i fall in love with him and plan our life together got me lmao) was def me :,) honestly i feel like i can comment on everything you say bcs it's like you're reading the story of my life lol tysm for this talks, ily

[@milliehancock]

I honestly love these videos so so so much like I just feel like me and jasmine are best friends chatting which is so wholesome on yt

[@whyistherehandlesnow]

The ginger hair still looking firee!

[@karmabbyzh1961]

jasmine im so sorry but with that kinda of a fan in the back on the wall and you sit perfectly that it surroundes your head right reminds me of kuzco from the emperor's new groove but the video was so cute and i loved !! :D

[@kayzzzzzzzzz]

I REALLY NEEDED THIS RN THANK YOU JASMINE T-T

[@palomas.3105]

Lmao I loved the pimple reference because it is completely true ❤😂

[@MsLaziesArse]

Love all the girl talk episodes, very soothing to the ear and very relatable 😊😊❤❤

[@hildalundgren7633]

I just have to say that I loooove your channel😭😭🫶 These videos are so comforting and it’s really nice for a teenager to hear you talk about these things from your perspective💗 I love the vibes and aesthetic in ur videos and just everything aaaahhhh💕💕

[@jana-rr3xb]

11:44 -> whenever I see couple videos I imagine myself in this position with someone I like, and it always feels weird and unnatural and I wonder if something wrong with me bc I feel like that, so thanks for the insight that stuff like that is cute but doesn’t have to be the norm ^^

[@life-is-here]

This video offers an interesting perspective on dating and love, providing practical advice on how to deal with insecurities.

[@piko555]

jasmin just knows when to upload

[@newjeaniezz]

thanks for the half an hour long video jasmine

[@CupcakeChan2611]

I feel like a lot of the time i feel like even in my 20s time is running out and maybe its alwaysba feeling everyone feels regardless of age 🥺

[@ameya7505]

i also did a ted talk two weeks ago!! it is such a fun experience, don't forget to take the moment in and appreciate the experience!

[@nehasraff]

Yesss been waiting for this for so long absolutely love them💕💕

[@emolysto.4340]

omg this is perfect i was literally just rewatching all your old girl talks!!!

[@RocioPerez-il5ec]

Totally get it, my first kiss was a couple of days ago and I m still feeling weird because it was in a ¨boliche¨ kind of thing like a party for the seniors at my school. It was with a random guy we didn't even asked our names. Hope I can get a good second kiss tho

[@flowerCLOUD007]

This video was so comforting!

[@karoliii159]

i can’t even describe how much i love watching your videos, they are so relatable and comforting i love you❤️