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"What Man In Their Right Mind Wants Another Man's Kids," Anton Gets Realistic About Women's Demands

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Anton Daniels

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@AntonDaniels
@AntonDaniels 5 ай бұрын
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@PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah
@PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah 5 ай бұрын
Boyce Watkins is a fool 😂!!!!! Great job inspiring 👏🏿 the brothers Anton!!!!!!! Your inspiring videos encourage righteousness!!!!!!
@waynereid3433
@waynereid3433 5 ай бұрын
No woman with kids for me.
@Am71919
@Am71919 5 ай бұрын
I don't mind dating a woman with kids as long as her kids are grown and gone
@relaxing_white_noises_by_j1980
@relaxing_white_noises_by_j1980 5 ай бұрын
I grew up in a house where my mom and dad were married. My father gave my mother 49 married years and 52 years total before she passed away several years ago. Over the course of my life my father reminded me many times to never be a step dad. My older siblings always treated me and my youngest sister different because we were not from mom's first marriage. My older siblings don't have anything to do with my father after mom died regardless of him buying her a couple of houses and keeping her in jewelry. He's broken and hurt that they don't ever come check on him. I saw all this and definitely said that will NEVER be me!!!
@Candor49
@Candor49 5 ай бұрын
I feel you, peace to you and your father RIP🙏🏽✌🏽I was a stepdad at one time and I wasn’t appreciated either.
@Blackwing_Master89
@Blackwing_Master89 5 ай бұрын
Thats wild...blessing to yall
@kroenkeout708
@kroenkeout708 5 ай бұрын
This is very common with blended families. Speaking from experience. That's one of the reasons I will never voluntarily put myself in that situation again. I was born into it.
@denzelsnipes13
@denzelsnipes13 5 ай бұрын
Being a stepfather is like cleaning up after a party you were never invited to. And you gotta pay the DJ out of your own pocket.
@1slummzzs
@1slummzzs 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂. Iktr
@izzycrybaby1164
@izzycrybaby1164 5 ай бұрын
I don't think a single woman can adequately prepare a boy for the world men experience.
@Sheed96
@Sheed96 5 ай бұрын
that's a complete fact it's not a thought
@dred9174
@dred9174 5 ай бұрын
​@@Sheed96True but it's not our responsibility to raise kids that aren't ours. These women need to learn the hard way that chasing Pookie has consequences. That's why I hope they keep getting evicted to know that they should have went with that honest hardworking man over the drug dealers and scammers.
@Sheed96
@Sheed96 5 ай бұрын
@@dred9174 faacts
@318EE_Span
@318EE_Span 5 ай бұрын
How do boys prepare themselves when there’s a woman that doesn’t want to allow structure in the house or a man doesn’t have the patience to teach another man’s son?
@Sheed96
@Sheed96 5 ай бұрын
@@318EE_Span nothing you can do at that point
@tmac3549
@tmac3549 5 ай бұрын
Facts! I remember trying to build with a woman and her child. I remember her tryin to bait me into an argument I told her “ I’m not going to be in here arguing with you while your child’s father is probably out enjoying himself.”
@sunsoza8320
@sunsoza8320 5 ай бұрын
Lmao 😂😂
@Camille-sv9tg
@Camille-sv9tg 5 ай бұрын
I don’t date women with kids either it’s a bad deal😂
@cordallneal7381
@cordallneal7381 5 ай бұрын
Smart man @Camille-sv9tg
@Camille-sv9tg
@Camille-sv9tg 5 ай бұрын
@@cordallneal7381I’m a woman 😂😂😂but thanks
@Brutus34100
@Brutus34100 5 ай бұрын
Anton, is 100% correct. That little ninja will challenge you. When he gets old and says the magic word. You, not my father.
@rennell1
@rennell1 5 ай бұрын
very true
@kenudice9841
@kenudice9841 5 ай бұрын
The moment that ninja says that, I’m out.
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 5 ай бұрын
God forbid it gets physical and he beats your behind. Now you have a choice: leave the relationship or marriage with no dignity or respect, or put him in the hospital by any means necessary. Because there's no way he can stay in the house after that. And the mother will ALWAYS defend her son.
@Brutus34100
@Brutus34100 5 ай бұрын
Lol...
@skysimba8953
@skysimba8953 5 ай бұрын
​@@kenudice9841Don't ever put yourself in that position to start with.
@deeb6545
@deeb6545 5 ай бұрын
“I don’t like package deals. I only want what I paid for”. I like that quote, I’m definitely using that.
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 5 ай бұрын
The doors of the church are open.
@pemithmithsara7632
@pemithmithsara7632 5 ай бұрын
@@fudgematthew33the church and the paradise ain’t the same
@kingbizzle1357
@kingbizzle1357 5 ай бұрын
@@fudgematthew33Church checking in.
@airfrance4365
@airfrance4365 5 ай бұрын
It's only a package It's no deal
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 5 ай бұрын
@@airfrance4365 amen
@Marschand
@Marschand 5 ай бұрын
Anton I’m a Gen-Xer and in my generation it was thought as being noble to accept another man’s kids, and I commend you bro for educating young men not to accept this as they deserve better. Thank you
@nnodw7721
@nnodw7721 5 ай бұрын
Same here, same answer don't even think about. Plus I think that a woman can put a step dad on child support now even knowing the child isn't his. Absolutely not
@michaelmayojr.2730
@michaelmayojr.2730 5 ай бұрын
Yep me too it was noble back then now I wouldn’t advise it
@bigwalt3898
@bigwalt3898 5 ай бұрын
This is a lie! It was only Noble if the woman was married and the man died under tragic circumstances or he died serving his country. A dutiful widow makes it honorable not a baby momma!
@Marschand
@Marschand 5 ай бұрын
@@bigwalt3898 you’re right but I’m saying back when I was coming up, no one told “us” not to do it.
@nnodw7721
@nnodw7721 5 ай бұрын
​@Marschand I'm 50 and yes it was considered noble and allot of our generation fell for it.
@Rishawn26
@Rishawn26 5 ай бұрын
I want Women with no kids... I only want the Sandwich not the Combo Meal
@bradleyborno71
@bradleyborno71 5 ай бұрын
Unless she has a legal age Hot Daughter that comes with the Deal🤷🏾‍♂️
@Stanley_Fields
@Stanley_Fields 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Your_reagent
@Your_reagent 5 ай бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀
@Darealist5629
@Darealist5629 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@jdilla4life3871
@jdilla4life3871 4 ай бұрын
😂
@Yettobeprovedwrong
@Yettobeprovedwrong 5 ай бұрын
Agreed! Preach!!! I’m a woman with no kids and stopped dating guys with kids. I don’t indulge in drama or baggage! …
@Mr.Boring_Man
@Mr.Boring_Man 5 ай бұрын
We have some of the most strong, independent, educated/enrolled, permanent unaccountable victims in the world.
@roythousand13
@roythousand13 5 ай бұрын
Being a step-father is one of the most idiotic things a man can do! There is absolutely no upside of taking care of another man's child, period!
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 5 ай бұрын
No woman has been able to adequately explain the benefits of being a step-babydaddy.
@roythousand13
@roythousand13 5 ай бұрын
@@fudgematthew33 , facts!
@thelevelupcommunity
@thelevelupcommunity 5 ай бұрын
@@fudgematthew33never!! Yano it’s facts when you don’t have no women in the comments tryna prove anton wrong!!
@waterdrops2135
@waterdrops2135 5 ай бұрын
🎉
@AyyYaYYaY
@AyyYaYYaY 5 ай бұрын
@@thelevelupcommunity💯%
@smitht1988
@smitht1988 5 ай бұрын
Imagine needing to make six figures just to date a woman with multiple kids
@mackfar27
@mackfar27 5 ай бұрын
Woman with multiple kids that ain't yours. The audacity.
@DominantBlackMaleLeader
@DominantBlackMaleLeader 5 ай бұрын
That’s an accurate reflection of the amount it cost to raise these kids. Somebody gotta pay 😂😂
@Flymula
@Flymula 5 ай бұрын
Nasty work
@dylanhill1640
@dylanhill1640 5 ай бұрын
Not a good choice at all. A friend paid $120,000 for his step daughter to attend university only to get disrespected by her in the end.
@East.Afrikan
@East.Afrikan 5 ай бұрын
Smh
@acarr00
@acarr00 5 ай бұрын
Ouch
@airfrance4365
@airfrance4365 5 ай бұрын
Oh well a fool and his money soon part ways 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️
@fudgematthew33
@fudgematthew33 4 ай бұрын
Know what his stepdaughter can say if he confronts her? "I didn't ask you to do that. You're not my father." Being a stepfather is a bad deal.
@laron.henderson
@laron.henderson 5 ай бұрын
I will never ever get with a single mother again! Worst decision I ever made
@Stanley_Fields
@Stanley_Fields 5 ай бұрын
I truly don’t think any man wants that, I think they find themselves in a situation where their either accept or settle for it!
@DanteFortson
@DanteFortson 5 ай бұрын
$60k and $70k a year are not average people unless you mean household. 😂 Its definitely above average.
@guap8391
@guap8391 5 ай бұрын
the truth a single person making 60-70k is cool
@Armyvet55
@Armyvet55 5 ай бұрын
60 70k a year is decent 👌 👏 money 💰
@theerealatm
@theerealatm 5 ай бұрын
That's damn good money where I'm from
@clockehvac1240
@clockehvac1240 5 ай бұрын
60k to 70k is DAMN good money
@GeorgiaMade404
@GeorgiaMade404 5 ай бұрын
If you’re single that’s decent I guess but $60-$70K a year with a family is barely surviving.
@RealJermaineHowlettTV
@RealJermaineHowlettTV 5 ай бұрын
I heard you speak of this years ago. I immediately apologized and thanked my stepdad.
@mrtommy8875
@mrtommy8875 5 ай бұрын
I never dated single moms. Now I have a real woman as my wife for 17 years now. I’m thankful I was wise enough to avoid all those problems. Not my kid not my responsibility!!
@colinscrypto3307
@colinscrypto3307 5 ай бұрын
A real woman would work it out with the child's father. 9 times out of 10 they broke up because she was being petty. Not abuse, he brought home STDs, or he was unwilling to work. It was that, she wasn't happy or she thought she could do better (and didn't).
@AyyeMelik97.
@AyyeMelik97. 5 ай бұрын
Or just stay single until them kids grown and out house but facts
@akilahbrooklyn8236
@akilahbrooklyn8236 5 ай бұрын
@Colins... Please don't speak for women, especially if you're not one. A woman will leave her child's (or children's father) for this obvious reason. "She's a seat-filler and she suddenly relaized that he had no intentions of marrying her." There are many women who still believe that a baby keeps a man. Women will lay up with dead-beat men all day, especially if he's 'feeding' her promises.
@zozozizi6688
@zozozizi6688 5 ай бұрын
​@@akilahbrooklyn8236so he is not a woman a'd can't talk about it? You are telling me, a man can't talk about a rachet and bad behavior of a woman because he ain't one?.. Does it make any sense?
@airfrance4365
@airfrance4365 5 ай бұрын
​@@akilahbrooklyn8236Women speak for men all the time on social media and they ain't men. So save it it's fair game.
@akilahbrooklyn8236
@akilahbrooklyn8236 5 ай бұрын
@@airfrance4365 Who told you that I advocated for women speaking on behalf of men? I don't agree with that either. For the record, I abhor feminism... And I abhor hasty generalizations.
@Blkcappuccino
@Blkcappuccino 5 ай бұрын
I did it at 23 and divorced less than 3 years later. I was quickly reminded that I wasn’t the daddy. I ran!!!! I hung the divorce decree on my wall. That’s how happy I was to be free!! Then she was on to the next step daddy. I think they are up to at least 4 step daddy’s now and all are adults. She tried to get me to adopt them too. Nope!
@johnpatton2794
@johnpatton2794 5 ай бұрын
I see a woman with kids I look her up and down once and keep it moving... I cant raise them like I do my kids they could be weak minded children and not accept my standards that I have in place for my kids so I can't do it
@318EE_Span
@318EE_Span 5 ай бұрын
What do they do? Become the problem that people will complain about when they’re adults?
@k.c.marshall921
@k.c.marshall921 5 ай бұрын
"Woman" not women.
@johnpatton2794
@johnpatton2794 5 ай бұрын
@@k.c.marshall921 thank you cheif editor
@meuniversity8681
@meuniversity8681 5 ай бұрын
​@@318EE_Spanif no structure is allowed ? Yes.
@tracygibson6901
@tracygibson6901 5 ай бұрын
Man I love that " fellas stop dumpster diving" love that saying !
@michaelh370
@michaelh370 5 ай бұрын
Sorry not paying for your babies
@tmac3549
@tmac3549 5 ай бұрын
Fellas get a women with no kids and great credit. If she doesn’t have great credit we won’t make it to the other stuff anyway.
@tonyjohnson7421
@tonyjohnson7421 5 ай бұрын
Say what you want! This dude really knows what's going on out here in these streets! I'll definitely be tuning in more on these topics!
@LADETROIT
@LADETROIT 5 ай бұрын
For a couple of years now I've been telling young men what the lead attorney advises about prenups. He's on point
@Vladdicted
@Vladdicted 5 ай бұрын
Oh, Anton! Awesome video. Subscribed. Thanks for the dose of truth.
@thisendthat
@thisendthat 5 ай бұрын
If I had the money, I would buy up billboards and post them in every major city with the message FOR MEN WITHOUT KIDS, SAVE YOURSELVES, DON'T BECOME A STEPDAD!
@Lyfeastrey
@Lyfeastrey 5 ай бұрын
Why buy the cow when the milk is free these days?
@intricatelytangled
@intricatelytangled 5 ай бұрын
We tell our 12 yo all the time - you have children with your wife Only.
@yomanyomandx5609
@yomanyomandx5609 5 ай бұрын
Good
@dixbowman3452
@dixbowman3452 5 ай бұрын
Good. Raise him right! We need more good mothers like yourself.
@AyyYaYYaY
@AyyYaYYaY 5 ай бұрын
❤🎉 🙏🏾 that’s right 💯%
@airfrance4365
@airfrance4365 5 ай бұрын
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@GMSYAKALBAH
@GMSYAKALBAH 5 ай бұрын
DNA test should be mandatory 100%. I knew this girl who has a 11 yr old son. She told me she will never tell him who his real father is because she wants all three of her kids to believe the one guy fathered all of them.
@tima.478
@tima.478 5 ай бұрын
Yeah, like some dudes in here already said...no kids for me! And I'll go further. I don't even deal with women who Tiktok, Insta, Snap, Facebook or any of that other "fake life" BS. Them shyt's is like Kryptonite to me. Consequently, I have a GF that is as solid as a woman can be. We go about 55/45 on every dime spent between us, the 55 being me. From the mortgage to dinner dates.
@dany6781
@dany6781 5 ай бұрын
You have a mortgage with a young lady who isn’t your wife? Ummm just be careful, no matter how decent we are and we can be. There’s a reason why there will be more of us in hellfire than men.
@tima.478
@tima.478 5 ай бұрын
It's my home, she moved in when her apt. lease was up. So It's all good, thanks though. 👍 @@dany6781
@clonedalot
@clonedalot 5 ай бұрын
“He might beat yo ass too” 😂😂😂😂😂 na u snapped
@johnniegordon1221
@johnniegordon1221 5 ай бұрын
That real man line is the funniest shish ever😂😂😂😂😂
@2pat2008
@2pat2008 5 ай бұрын
Get your passport and don't come back with her in the state.
@eii8794
@eii8794 5 ай бұрын
A fool is born everyday--simps serve a purpose in society believe it or not
@39mack23
@39mack23 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@meuniversity8681
@meuniversity8681 5 ай бұрын
​@@39mack23mmmmhm sho do
@meuniversity8681
@meuniversity8681 5 ай бұрын
Yuuuuup......
@rodbarnes9624
@rodbarnes9624 5 ай бұрын
" *Never swim where other men have drowned.* 🚫 -NO single moms- don't date them or create them." _-Some guy with standards_
@East.Afrikan
@East.Afrikan 5 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯
@Heybaja
@Heybaja 5 ай бұрын
Since when is it illegal to have a paternity test at birth someone please inform me
@Kyronetta
@Kyronetta 5 ай бұрын
It’s not. Some be too scared to ask their woman lol
@gammafrost
@gammafrost 5 ай бұрын
France implemented that law
@gammafrost
@gammafrost 5 ай бұрын
@@Kyronettaactually…
@dcg590
@dcg590 5 ай бұрын
@@gammafrostFrance implemented that the man had to ok it. Which is stupid
@Tre38843
@Tre38843 5 ай бұрын
@1:56 - Get your PASSPORTS. That’s the only logical thing to do.
@natturner9997
@natturner9997 5 ай бұрын
Got my passport ..sad to say they are all baby mommas over there too
@OGCheerio
@OGCheerio 5 ай бұрын
PassPort for what?? U gotta go to the other side of the fkn 🌎 to get sm 🍑?? Or u jus hvn a hard time taming these American b*tches?😂 Grow sm nuts and u wont hv these problems sir
@Angel4ever4678
@Angel4ever4678 5 ай бұрын
Black men get stupider by the day .. women with kids are all over the world .. maybe ever more 😂😂😂
@Tre38843
@Tre38843 5 ай бұрын
@@natturner9997 Would you rather a delusional, entitled, masculine, fat baby mamma or a feminine, cooperative, super fine baby mamma?
@dany6781
@dany6781 5 ай бұрын
@@natturner9997nahhhh ain’t no way. I advocate for way too many men to leave here, and you’re telling me foreign women are the same? Nahhh nope! Really?
@DIXIFREELY
@DIXIFREELY 5 ай бұрын
Another thing people don't get is a prenup only protects your assets that were acquired prior to marriage. You would need a postnup to protect your assets acquired during the marriage.
@nnodw7721
@nnodw7721 5 ай бұрын
I tell my dudes all the time that you have to be careful. I almost left my wife and kids back in the day for a beautiful younger recently divorced mother of three kids and she was all for it. I couldn't do it because I couldn't get over leaving my wife and kids to take care of someone else's. She kept trying for a few years and one day when I seriously thought that I was going to get divorced I reached out to her and she immediately shut me down. Why? Because her kids were almost grown. Never forgot that. She flirted off and on for years until her kids were seniors in high school.
@Camille-sv9tg
@Camille-sv9tg 5 ай бұрын
I can’t get over the fact you was going to leave your wife and children for a single mother 😂😂😂 wtf!
@terrellwilliams3163
@terrellwilliams3163 5 ай бұрын
​@@Camille-sv9tg😂😂😂😂 me too
@kevbarre6188
@kevbarre6188 5 ай бұрын
​@Camille-sv9t well he did say she was young and beautiful. Not saying he would have been right but I understand
@Bootyeater999
@Bootyeater999 5 ай бұрын
@@kevbarre6188he’s still a simp 😂
@nnodw7721
@nnodw7721 5 ай бұрын
​@kevbarre6188 naw, she was fine as hell but it's was a simp move to say the least. We worked together and everytime she needed to talk to me she would brush her chest up against me, lol. Single mom or not the temptation was no joke. But it just didn't make sense But that was back in the day
@TopJazzCat
@TopJazzCat 5 ай бұрын
I’m still trying to figure out how a woman can claim to have signed a prenup under duress as if she was under any obligation to marry him. She could’ve said no to signing it or no to the marriage altogether.
@tonyjohnson7421
@tonyjohnson7421 5 ай бұрын
Sometimes you gotta separate yourself! It's alot of foo foo shit! Going on out here kid! Yah hear me! FACTS!
@KwameFadhiliWilliams
@KwameFadhiliWilliams 5 ай бұрын
Much love to you Anton, love your videos. Your videos have helped me in many ways, our birthdays is coming up too,April 13..
@PatrickSFobbs
@PatrickSFobbs 5 ай бұрын
So a man isn't a man if he doesn't take care of another man's child but a man is a man if he leaves her with a child? Make it make sense
@adim00lah
@adim00lah 5 ай бұрын
Prenups 100% work IF they are done right. The problem is most of the time they aren't done right. I think Jeannie signed her prenup the day before the marriage. Jeezy not that smart. You should also have her sign it not just 6 months in advance, but before y'all send out wedding invitations, book the venue, caterer all that. Because once family / friends book plane flights, hotels, and all the money was spent on booking the venue and catering which was traditionally paid for by the bride's father, she can turn and use that as an excuse saying she felt financially obligated to to get married after all that money was spent possibly by her family.
@vinnieb5619
@vinnieb5619 5 ай бұрын
Used food 😂😂😂😂
@JittFrom305
@JittFrom305 5 ай бұрын
YOU STAY ON STEP DADDIES NECKS, GOOD SHIT FAM LMAO!
@ladellmimms
@ladellmimms 5 ай бұрын
Its some men out here going through it, getting talked to crazy, and they've put their time and $$$$ into someone else's children , I've realized it couldn't be me
@Alteringrealitystudios
@Alteringrealitystudios 5 ай бұрын
They want to have fun with Dick but want Tom or Harry to pay the the tab.
@cakesaregood5176
@cakesaregood5176 5 ай бұрын
Don’t date anyone with kids, male or female. You will always be second choice.
@Bootyeater999
@Bootyeater999 5 ай бұрын
Facts men or women
@cleantheplatejames3648
@cleantheplatejames3648 5 ай бұрын
This makes no sense. What if they have kids together??? they still will be second choice to one another? Its different for men with kids. Men taking on women with kids is more of a financial burden and takes away resources for your future offspring. And men are more of the disciplinary in the home he can't discipline the kids if they are not his the way he needs to.
@cakesaregood5176
@cakesaregood5176 5 ай бұрын
@@cleantheplatejames3648 it’s not different.
@cleantheplatejames3648
@cleantheplatejames3648 5 ай бұрын
@@cakesaregood5176 I just told you how it's different and how your reason makes no sense. You talking to someone that's played both sides of the field.
@DominantBlackMaleLeader
@DominantBlackMaleLeader 5 ай бұрын
@@cakesaregood5176 It is different because the man don’t need you to provide for his kids. It’s funny. The amount of single black men with kids is small but BW all have stories about dating them. 😂😂😂
@antonib765
@antonib765 5 ай бұрын
Let them independent women take care of their own kids , don’t be a sucker , the kids will always tell u “ur not my real daddy “ ur a step simp”If u need a prenup don’t get married , nothing is 💯, if they can’t get u in criminal court they will get you in civil court
@skysimba8953
@skysimba8953 5 ай бұрын
Where's Anton to close the comments section. Well stated. Nothing more to add. 💯.
@thomasburton728
@thomasburton728 5 ай бұрын
Raising another man’s kid is like serving time for another man’s crime
@Mikediszel
@Mikediszel 5 ай бұрын
I don't get pre-built. I go to microcenter and get my parts a put it together myself. 😂
@Mikediszel
@Mikediszel 5 ай бұрын
Oh snap coogie back! Im break that joint out the plastic. I knew if I waited long enough I could rock it.
@moesv-ms8693
@moesv-ms8693 5 ай бұрын
That kids DNA will challenge you all the time 😂😂😂
@halakelbensinai4743
@halakelbensinai4743 5 ай бұрын
Single moms are a horrible economic investment, especially with kids under 18. You don't even have to adopt them in some states. If there is no father on birth certificate and you have acted in a father's role, you are a legal guardian, and child support is in your future.
@user-lb5fs3sb2r
@user-lb5fs3sb2r 5 ай бұрын
Not worth spending my money on her child.
@318EE_Span
@318EE_Span 5 ай бұрын
How do these kids grow up to not be the problem that was “raised by a single mother” if institutional learning won’t help them in becoming the solution?
@theunrestrictedfreeagent5250
@theunrestrictedfreeagent5250 5 ай бұрын
Women must choose better. Marry before you carry. Work things out with the baby's father (you gave him the highest honor and you will never do better than him). No man should ever sign up for being a step-father it's a bad choice. It's absolutely NOT another man's responsibility to raise those kids!!!!
@JimmyShongwe-fj5ct
@JimmyShongwe-fj5ct 4 ай бұрын
People think that marriage is a love contract,nah it's a business contract
@wrcinc
@wrcinc 5 ай бұрын
I charge a fee to play stepfather 😂
@PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah
@PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah 5 ай бұрын
Boyce Watkins is a fool 😂!!!!! Great job inspiring 👏🏿 the brothers Anton!!!!!!! Your inspiring videos encourage righteousness!!!!!!!!!
@matthewjohnsondotton-sz5uo
@matthewjohnsondotton-sz5uo 5 ай бұрын
Speak the truth 💯...thanks and keep up the good content 👍
@earljames9210
@earljames9210 5 ай бұрын
For some reason I'm in the mood for some Jello Pudding Pops.
@Joe-sn8lr
@Joe-sn8lr 5 ай бұрын
In my experience, it's not a good idea to settle with a woman with children. The dynamics are not level. It starts out fun, but let time run its course, and you will see. Remember, men, you are the outsider and also remember your money is also their money. When the real daddy sees that, the less he does for his children, and it never fails
@TheMrfamous7
@TheMrfamous7 5 ай бұрын
The colors on that sweater hard af bra
@thecrownprince6870
@thecrownprince6870 5 ай бұрын
I agree Anton. Women are upset that these days it’s more difficult for them to sell that ultimately thankless job of being a step Father..Some of us have seen this movie all the way through in generations past. Our Fathers, Uncles and Grandfathers lost with ungrateful nonbiologicals, in the long run. No kids ever love you like your blood ones..
@garyheiny2820
@garyheiny2820 5 ай бұрын
Toilet paper has more value than a prenup. Avoid the marriage license altogether, look into marriage contract and check your state for its laws. Always paternity test no matter what.
@RaySmith79
@RaySmith79 5 ай бұрын
You were just saying Draya should not be dragged through the dirty for her past. Now that a girl isn't famous, it is okay to diss her on her past decision. How do 2 and 2 make 4. When you are saying 2 and 2, make 2. Everyone should be able to be painted by the same brush regardless of their celebrity.
@kwamedindavis9840
@kwamedindavis9840 5 ай бұрын
Excellent advice. And by the way, nice shirt!!
@user-ry7xl6fb4x
@user-ry7xl6fb4x 5 ай бұрын
That's like going to play all and team already picked😂😂😂
@codyaugustin3019
@codyaugustin3019 5 ай бұрын
Even animal’s KNOW not to raise another offspring…y’all watch animal planet 🔥🔥🔥
@brandonmathews4102
@brandonmathews4102 5 ай бұрын
😂😂
@arinekandem
@arinekandem 5 ай бұрын
Some of us mature enough to want to do it. Helping raising a child knowing they'll be much better off than his/her mama doing it alone, that is a win-win for the family and the community.
@horusallegory
@horusallegory 5 ай бұрын
Maturity has nothing to do with a man making a decision to build his own legacy/lineage. If you're not wired like that it's just not in your bloodline to invest with no return ⚖️⚖️⚖️
@duncanmugambi6213
@duncanmugambi6213 5 ай бұрын
Framing it as a maturity issue is you trying to make yourself better than other men. Petty virtue signalling. 'Look at me, i am a mature man. I care about the family and community. I am much better than those men who want to raise their own children' How about its just your preference and choice to do it?
@komo2nen
@komo2nen 5 ай бұрын
For who? For what?
@sbonzama7013
@sbonzama7013 5 ай бұрын
Can you put the "peternity test" clause on a prenup?
@nothingbutfacts1676
@nothingbutfacts1676 5 ай бұрын
There are men watching this which were raised by a stepfather. This man played a positive role in their life and today they refer to him as dad. Therefore it’s not always negative.
@basemanawakens6089
@basemanawakens6089 4 ай бұрын
How does raising someone else's children benefit a man?
@jussdoughjustin3893
@jussdoughjustin3893 5 ай бұрын
😂😂 Anton said the 2 for 1 special lol
@patriotj5426
@patriotj5426 5 ай бұрын
Why would lawyers reduce the need for lawyers by reforming family courts.
@ericcrawford4217
@ericcrawford4217 5 ай бұрын
Tennessee about to pass a law that requires dna a birth
@Cratossama
@Cratossama 5 ай бұрын
If it cost all that you might as well avoid marriage altogether legally n marry here outside of the state on a beach in another country n never claim her as your wife with no photos
@1000questionz
@1000questionz 5 ай бұрын
Preach bro Preach 🙌
@thelevelupcommunity
@thelevelupcommunity 5 ай бұрын
Yano it’s facts when you don’t have no women in the comments tryna prove anton wrong!!
@Passportmelanated
@Passportmelanated 5 ай бұрын
💯A.D.
@valeries5722
@valeries5722 5 ай бұрын
The short answer is NOBODY. Single moms are a dime a dozen. Hold out for something special. Find a woman who didn't START BUILDING before you even got there. Keep steppin guys.
@DominantBlackMaleLeader
@DominantBlackMaleLeader 5 ай бұрын
If 27% of BW are single and childless, and the marriage rate is 17%, then that means we’re left with about 5% of BW that might be marriageable. Just saying 😅
@brotherjohnsmusic9491
@brotherjohnsmusic9491 3 ай бұрын
real talk
@diogok9459
@diogok9459 5 ай бұрын
in the end, the best option is to not get married, the bad side is that makes hard to built a family, nowadays marriage hardly last long because everyday there is influencers telling the wives that they will be happier if they get a divorce to live their life without any husband imposing limits to the girls only night out in clubs.
@marcuse423
@marcuse423 5 ай бұрын
Not it!😂
@keturaequalizer
@keturaequalizer 5 ай бұрын
And the same should apply to women. No one should raise or help raise somebody else`s child. 🤷🏽‍♂
@marcelousneal4641
@marcelousneal4641 5 ай бұрын
Stop Deflecting. People like you need to come to the realization that Men aren’t women & women aren’t men, we aren’t built the same & because of that we don’t follow the same rules..
@marcelousneal4641
@marcelousneal4641 5 ай бұрын
Maybe if women kept their legs closed & stop having kids outside of marriage we wouldn’t have this problem.
@Sheed96
@Sheed96 5 ай бұрын
duh...
@keturaequalizer
@keturaequalizer 5 ай бұрын
@@Sheed96 Mmmm Hmmm! 😏🙄
@Kyronetta
@Kyronetta 5 ай бұрын
Of course. Both ways.
@RavDLC
@RavDLC 5 ай бұрын
Forreal this all true, it's all unreasonable & ain't worth the risk. You better off pursuing women who don't have kids
@DameSmiff
@DameSmiff 5 ай бұрын
Damn…you right, Jeezy been quiet since Versuz
@GeorgiaMade404
@GeorgiaMade404 5 ай бұрын
Not at all. Jeezy been turning up ever since. He’s been doing a lot of shows and posting a lot too.
@DameSmiff
@DameSmiff 5 ай бұрын
@@GeorgiaMade404 that’s like clocking into the office for a musician….
@dyshaunierandall5185
@dyshaunierandall5185 5 ай бұрын
Men always leave women that they have kids with to go be with another woman and her kids I always thought that was weird
@kishaquiller505
@kishaquiller505 5 ай бұрын
I don’t know why these women don’t give the men custody Or don’t have them period. The solution ladies stay childfree
@cleantheplatejames3648
@cleantheplatejames3648 5 ай бұрын
Not taking on women with kids is fixing the community more than taking on a woman with kids. Start choosing more wisely and we wont have a single parent epidemic.
@ballen0360
@ballen0360 5 ай бұрын
Spot on.
@DominantBlackMaleLeader
@DominantBlackMaleLeader 5 ай бұрын
The people that shouldn’t reproduce, are reproducing the most 😂 so yea I agree. Decline the Stepdaddy proposal
@mrdacusthenavigator4989
@mrdacusthenavigator4989 5 ай бұрын
The first half of this video begs the question on whether it's worth marrying someone under these current laws in the first place, single mom or not.
@tbreeze79
@tbreeze79 5 ай бұрын
It's againist my religion to date or marry a single mother.
@Dyicefulbeauty
@Dyicefulbeauty 5 ай бұрын
When women were dating men based on potential because she saw something great in him and felt that he just needed a understanding women who showed compassion, patience and not look at his money, men called women stupid when she ended up struggling because she knew he didnt have money from the jump yet still got with him. And the potential she saw in him was turned to her trying to change him to be what she wanted him to be. Men encouraged women to walk away from those relationships and find an established man. Women listened to man. They dont get with man untill they have reached full potential on their own, and they look at your money. Now man say look at potential not money. Yall men have to make up your minds because this is why women only want established men with 6 figures
@kdub2229
@kdub2229 5 ай бұрын
Thanks Anton , this was a well needed stream/podcast. Baby Mommas make the MOST/Highest demands in life !? Hmmm..? Go Figure .
@AZBound3
@AZBound3 5 ай бұрын
And if you are over the age of 30 and above, they tell you...well get use to it, that's all you're going to run into at this point. Single mothers
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