【Apple】Boyfriend cheats on me but has a change of heart when he hears my family has money

[@BIGBLOCK5022006]

Phillip and his dear mommy had dollar signs in their eyes but all they have is just an empty bank bag.

[@TheTequilaLeftenant]

Yh exactly... they are basicly like this: they want champagne but have beer money...

[@ire1398]

Anytime someone says “back in my day…” I answer “I know. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Isn’t it great that we don’t do that anymore!” Then I walk away if I’m standing, or turn my back on them if I’m not. It shuts up people marvelously well.

[@susanhopemason]

There were many things that were actually better, "back in my day". In some cases people who say that might be complaining, but I don't think that is the case most of the time. A LOT of things were better back then. We didn't have the advanced technology, of course, but advanced technology has its shortcomings, and isn't all sunshine and rainbows. I wouldn't have wanted to miss how things were back then for anything in the world. It wasn't perfect, but there were many awesome things. It gives us a much different perspective on things. We get to see the contrast between then and now. The perspective of younger people is much more limited. I definitely don't think that most older people are complaining about how things used to be. It is more of a nostalgic pride and gratitude that we were able to experience a much simpler world.

[@velvetdarksoul8741]

​@@susanhopemasonmaybe if your white

[@AquaMoonMaiden]

@@susanhopemasonno such thing as a simpler world. Every era is complex and messy. Anyone who thinks otherwise is willfully blind and needs to open a history book

[@AquaMoonMaiden]

@@susanhopemasonnostalgia is always rose tinted and never accurate, and pride for a time that was only good to WASPs is never something to be proud about

[@susanhopemason]

@@AquaMoonMaiden When I said simpler, I was NOT talking about world or national events or historical events. Of course, such macrocosmic events weren't any simpler. I lived through those years, and certain things that were common on a more micro cosmic level were indeed simpler. Like, we drank water from a water hose sometimes when we didn't want to go inside for it. We played outside more. We talked to each other in person more. We stayed and played outside more. We always had to come home before the street lights came on. We could ride our bikes without a helmet. We could ride in the back of a pickup truck because it wasn't illegal then. We didn't get a big fine for not wearing a seat belt. Prices were so much lower back then that it would probably shock younger people. We could walk lots of places without danger. It was even safer to hitch hike back then. I can remember getting milk delivered by a milk man. I can remember a man who came into our neighborhood selling vegetables from the back of a truck. The technology was even simpler. We had only 3 channels on TV and no cable. At around midnight the broadcast day would end, and the National Anthem would play...then it was just Grey fuzz that was called snow. Everyone knew that men can't be women, and women can't be men. Very few people got obese. It happened, but it was rare. Nobody sat at the dinner table and played on their phones instead of talking to each other. Most families all ate dinner together. Everyone considered things like measles and chicken pox normal, and nobody got freaked out about. Nobody even thought the flu was a big deal. It was believed that it was better to get things like measles and chicken pox while you were still a kid. Some people even had measles and chicken pox parties. Some people didn't even lock their doors at night. My parents didn't either, until one night a drunk man came in our house one night and passed out on the couch. He actually thought he was in his own house. Child abduction was extremely rare in those days. Also, there wasn't the kind of drug epidemics that we have today. They did exist to a certain extent, but it was nothing like it is now.

[@lorannamoody7011]

If your parents or you have money, never tell the person you’re dating. I had an easy time of not telling because my Mom would never have us move from the old house she bought with her War bonds in the 40’s

[@barbaralefave5926]

She's one smart woman

[@laraq07]

Don't know why she took him back in the first place. Guess he was right when he called her insecure. Desperate to have a boyfriend?

[@dymonddavis7847]

Lucy should have never dated this jerk from the start , he is not worth it and the second he founds out that Lucy has some money 💵 he comes back running 🏃‍♀️ to her pathetic.

[@Tzaddi15]

Granted, but she was stupid enough to take him back after he blantly cheated on her. She got her revenge, but it wouldn't have needed to happen if she didn't fold over an "I'm sorry."

[@whistlerwind7422]

There are not enough offensive words to describe Lucy's gullibility, and lack of spine. After she dumps Philip, she needs to dump Bella.

[@teddymanguerra]

Sandra's voice!!! I just can't!

[@donna7873]

It’s hilarious 😂🤣

[@TiffWaffles]

I just can't either. It's fucking horrible and offensive.

[@kelseygeorgia]

So the friend got no repercussions for running her mouth about OP's family's wealth?

[@marymulrooney1334]

OMG Lucy even annoys me. She is so needy and clingy. I have had relationships where the guy started acting like this and I just said fine and let them go. Never hear from them again. So, I just moved on. I don't want someone who doesn't want me anyway..

[@denisemcdougal6445]

Agreed very needy

[@einyv]

People are stupid if they take back a cheater

[@denisemcdougal6445]

Agreed

[@einyv]

Another don't tell people, even your friends your money situation, especially inheritance, you never know who they will tell like Bella.

[@helenwoodrum2383]

Boyfriend cheats on you, doesn't want to spend time with you, wants your family's money time to kick him to the curb.

[@ixxieangel]

With the right lawyer Phillip could possibly make a case that Lucy promised to repay the $300,000 down payment because he has it in writing in the text messages. She never should have made that promise if she intended to screw him over because her own words could be used to charge her the fee.

[@candicabral3767]

She told him she needed anymore and he could use the money to pay it back. So he never put the down payment down.

[@youmadhuh6375]

She should listen to her mom.. sometime outsiders can see what we can't see in a relationship. They don't have on rose colored glasses like you do. Her mom saw him for the jerk that he is. He was not boyfriend material. She ignored the red flags.. like the way Phillip talks to her.. she has to practically beg him to take her out, meanwhile he's out here romancing other women.. he's running to his mother talking about her... no ma'am..I'm astonished she dated him for as long as she did.. she is a moron for taking him back!... she need some self esteem, self worth and some brain cells.. She came off very desperate and stupid.. one little text and she takes him back?.. what's wrong with her?.. had Bella not told her about him, she would've went ahead and married him. Despite what he's done and said and his mom talking to her crazy.. you can't be so desperate for a man/woman that you're willing to put up with anything just to keep them.

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Well said 👏 👌 👍

[@JasperCatProductions]

This woman is on my nerves too. He should have just ended it but my lord read the room lady.

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good Morning ☀️ Have a wonderful day everyone 👋🤗 From Louisiana 🐊

[@dianapickett1690]

Good morning from Texas 🙂.

[@_Lusus_Naturae_]

Good Morning... it's been awhile, great to see you here👋😃

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

@@dianapickett1690 Good Morning and have a lovely day 👋🤗

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

@@_Lusus_Naturae_ Good Morning 👋🤗

[@Tracie.....]

Never play the pick me dance

[@tumiemat]

Lucy babyghel....what are you doing??

[@kinasakuraba]

Wow, Lucy and Bella are both complete idiots. NEVER talk about someone else's finances! It's not your dang business! And of course he's going to go running back to her, and of course there's a chance she'll take him back! She admitted she loved him more than breathing- I've been there. You need to help people like that stay AWAY from that person and stew on all the crap they had to take so they fall out of love. If all Lucy has going for her is money then Bella is a terrible friend for seeing only that.

[@thomraine600]

Give him some space. All the way to never seeing you again !!

[@jesscharles1512]

Good morning everyone from the Appalachian mountains in Virginia. I hope everyone has a wonderful day. 😊😊❤

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good Morning from Louisiana 🐊 Have a great day 👋🤗

[@Trillock-hy1cf]

Is it cold and windy up in those mountains???......😁

[@randysmith9636]

Good morning from mid Tn. It's a beautiful 75° with plenty of sunshine.

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Good afternoon 😊 ❤

[@tumiemat]

I'm already annoyed with Phillip and Sandra...

[@baffledanderanged2101]

I hate it when one or the other in a marriage is not committed to making the marriage work. They're just there for the payday.

[@marysstilllearning5803]

And listen to your Mom. She's been around longer and can spot a low life when she sees it, 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@northstarsmith6798]

Hello from southeast Michigan. I love the dogwater remark!

[@66DoodleGal]

Guys like Phillip really ain’t shit. But Hazel is a A plus mom

[@teddymanguerra]

OP instantly went BRUTAL!!!!!!

[@lindahill7315]

Good morning, everyone

[@thatonedragonmyguy]

Good morning!

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good Morning 👋

[@noreansatchell77]

Good morning from Maryland 😊

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good Morning from Louisiana 🐊

[@skoch1954]

That was an interesting story, better than usual!

[@frenchgirl75000]

Lucy good job👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@jonborchardt5548]

🎵Greed / Phillip's heart was ruled by greed / that's why he'd cheat on Lucy / every day / tried to pass that off as a mistake / but cheatin' is a choice / and his was powered by greed / greed greed greed / and as soon as he learned about her family's dough / back to her side is where he'd go / but Lucy didn't buy it / 'cause the drivin' force was greed🎵 (to the tune of "All I Have To Do Is Dream" by The Everly Brothers)

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

👍 Have a wonderful day 👋🤗

[@lorannamoody7011]

❤

[@tswain92_]

Bravo 👏 👏 👏

[@aliciachristensen4418]

when someone loves you they want to see you. they make time for you. if they are distant then.....not so much.

[@LoveOnTheInsidex3]

Okay but I wanted to hear the aftermath on what happened with him and his mom.

[@leaminnaar9119]

Hello everyone from Hartebeespoort South Africa.

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Hello from Nebraska,USA 😊❤

[@daveswoape1657]

This story is a great one it kinda reminds me of myself when I was younger, but now I'm 52 n will be turning 53bin a couple of months. I found my partner over 11 years ago n it's been really good of course we had our disagreements but still going. We don't argue really we just agreed to disagree n it works our really well n I'm so glad. He is who he is and I am who I am n we really couldn't be better for it to God Bless

[@donnamarie7729]

Good morning Everyone, I hope all of you have a fantastic day🙂💜

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Have a wonderful day, too 😊 ❤

[@darkamora5123]

"Just remember, you're the one who decided they wanted to break up, not me." Seriously? LOL I am sorry, but when you are in a relationship with someone indicating you want to break up doesn't have to be done verbally. Little things, like dating someone else, behind your partners back, can be subtle nonverbal cues that you want the relationship over. 🙄

[@leannes1083]

Not answering texts, calls or voicemails, not meeting up with them for days, or weeks, at a time. Never staying over and having "adult" time. The 'non verbal clue' list goes on... But cheating is normally a pretty good indicator that the relationship is over! 🤭

[@violetnewell5076]

Good morning from the uk.

[@briannamcdaniel266]

How's the weather over there? Also good morning from North Carolina!

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good Morning from Louisiana 🐊

[@mlmc58]

Lucy should have been embarrassed to tell this story. Her "payback" doesn't do much to negate her gullibility.

[@vegasrenie]

Except for the man, all the voices are one VA. She's great!

[@joeydemitro8976]

PHILIP LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO FRUITCAKE AND KNOW YOUR PLACE TOO PHILIP THE FRUITCAKE WHAT A MOMMY BOY TOO

[@jonborchardt5548]

🎵Here he comes / he's his mama's clown🎵 (Everly Brothers reference)

[@joeydemitro8976]

@@jonborchardt5548 THAT IS VERY TRUE TOO MY FRIEND

[@lorannamoody7011]

Good to see you back.❤

[@joeydemitro8976]

@@lorannamoody7011 THANK YOU VERY MUCH TOO

[@crazycatladym3027]

Lucy is pretty whiny.

[@wilmahunt]

Drop Phillip like a rotten potato

[@baffledanderanged2101]

I hope everyone has a wonderful day.😊❤

[@mlva6784]

Five mins in and this OP is rather needy and completely ignoring the red flags and good advice from her mum 😮

[@randysmith9636]

I love home made pizza. I have gotten pretty decent at it in the BGE. Although i still love a old recipe i came up with making a pan style pizza in the oven. Having said that, the Mellow Mushroom makes a really good pizza.

[@ihartyoutubification]

Okay I get what OP did but Im not sure of the legality of it. Even an agreement in text is a contract. She said that if she took out the loan(s) she'd pay him back. He did so with her promise so I think legally she does have to pay him back if he takes her to court

[@gluttonouswolf980]

Lucy was an idiot and for just trusting him so much. She went too far when she pretty much scammed him. Her friend Bella is the reason that he came back to her. It would have been easy and fine to just get his mom’s restaurant failed. Her friend is actually the main problem. She told him everything he shouldn’t have been told.

[@denisemcdougal6445]

Lucy don’t believe the lies!!!!

[@annettealexander3673]

Hello ooh from northern newfoundland Canada

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Hey from Louisiana 🐊

[@nancyjay790]

Yikes. Philip's ID photo looks too much like Ted Cancun Cruz.

[@annecohen8927]

Phillip has some issues with decision making.

[@thecornettmultiverse]

Okay, that ending was WAY rushed. I wanted to see Sandra’s reaction to the fact that her restaurant was about to go the way of the dodo.

[@wilmahunt]

Phillip and sandra-- cheating 101

[@Icyangel10]

I don't know is OP was naive/stupid enough to take him back then something made her trick Phillip into his current situation before dumping him for good or if she planned this after her mom helped her stop drinking. Would have been funny if after OP told him what was going to happen & saying goodbye for the final time he freaks out & begs for forgiveness & help. I hope OP is able to find someone trustworthy & faithful who doesn't want to use her for anything she has cause she needs someone faithful & I don't fully trust her with people at the moment. At least she's learned from this & her mom is probably giving her advice. I want to imagine Phillip is struggling with paying for the house he was tricked into getting, he probably has trouble selling the place or has to pay a fee to get the person he bought it from to take it off his hands. Phillip is also shunned by his & OP's friends for not only cheating on & using OP but also for yelling at one of the friends for showing OP the proof. Meanwhile his mom is panicking due to losing her restaurant as she not only owes a back pay of rent & whatever other fees but given her behavior/personality she's probably having trouble finding a job. At some point Phillip & his mom likely fight, the mom blames him cause she thinks him pissing off OP & her family led to her life being ruined while Phillip blames her cause this all started with her convincing him to try to cheat on OP with some girl the mom thought was better.

[@rolfsinkgraven]

It is nice too have good friends eh bye bye Phillip

[@stonerbaby895]

My god this one is even weaker then the rest and I didn't think that was even possible NO ONE ENJOYS WEAK CHARACTERS!!

[@TiffWaffles]

There's been many people who like weak characters as long as they grow stronger. I love those types of characters where they grow and get stronger.

[@TheSobieskiukas]

​@@TiffWafflesbut did she? A 30 year old woman gets sooo lovestruck with a boyfriend that she act's like a teenager she will do it again and again and again until she actually burns the she will think with her brain

[@marymulrooney1334]

His voice is loud enough barely, but I always have trouble hearing her and other women. Everything turned up on my end. Always just with this channel iText Pro.

[@TriskaScott]

Sandra voice reminds me of Andorha from bewitch.