My sister makes her husband all his meals. One day he had the cajones to complain about his lunch and the next day he opened his lunch box and found a can of dog food, a sandwich bag full of kibbles and a chew toy for desert. 30 years later he has yet to complain about what he gets for lunch...
@tbraxton2985 Жыл бұрын
Your sister is boss! 😂
@jazzyjonas6646 Жыл бұрын
Lmao, 😂
@nicolesalmon4583 Жыл бұрын
I like your sister. She's my kind of people
@tricorvus2673 Жыл бұрын
Please pass these along to your sister, from all of us here ❤🏆🥇
@roslynnaude1933 Жыл бұрын
A friend of mine's husband love to bed on the horses but unfortunately he seldom won something He was moaning about what she put on his sandwiches She told hom she has not enough money to buy luxuries He said that it's not his fault The next morning he got the horses bettingtickets on his sandwiches He stopped betting and never moan again They were married for 40 years before she passed away
@66Lynnie Жыл бұрын
That was bloody awful! I couldn't even imagine living under such toxic conditions 😢
@absolutelyridiculous6743 Жыл бұрын
SAME. I'd go crazy
@tanithschneider30518 ай бұрын
I’d end up in jail for murder.
@sheelinshi71493 ай бұрын
I'd be out after week, now way I'd allow them to treat me like that and even crawl at their feet asking to explain me how I could do better... that's dumb.
@dymonddavis7847 Жыл бұрын
Anna’s arms are not broken and has two hands so she should be able to make her own lunch 🍱 for once. And George didn’t look so cool 😎 when he became an unemployed loser.
@loudelk99 Жыл бұрын
Eat it or starve. You don't like it, fix it yourself.
@debbyallen8325 Жыл бұрын
This family is nuts. Personally I would be scared out of my mind to have to deal with them everyday.
@briannamcdaniel266 Жыл бұрын
No Anna. She did block you. And it serves you right.
@lady2550 Жыл бұрын
But she didn't block Anna
@briannamcdaniel266 Жыл бұрын
@@lady2550 She should've though.
@lynnedunne6190 Жыл бұрын
One minute into this, my response would be "buy your own ingredients and make your own lunch or eat out!"
@YDV669 Жыл бұрын
I mean, bloody hell. So long as it's not lamb(which makes me gag), if you make me sandwiches, I won't care what kind of bread you used. The only people who should care about PRESENTATION, of all things, are high-end chefs and anime characters making bento boxes.
@moniquerobinson5206 Жыл бұрын
Exactly! 48 yrs ago, my husband was getting really fussy about his lunches, so I quit making them. Kind of hard ordering at ‘lunch’ at 3 am! Learnt his lesson. Never, ever went back & made them again. He’s retired now & still makes his breakfast & lunch! Suppers are another story!
@vickiethompson6595 Жыл бұрын
true. i don't understand why she is doing anything for them and not her husband
@yettabelfon19 күн бұрын
Exactly
@RoseKoneko Жыл бұрын
Oh god, this is one of those stories that you’re like “no but who acts like that” and then I come across the Reddit story this was based on and my faith in humanity takes a dip.
@lbeard7661 Жыл бұрын
It’s just depressing isn’t it. -_-
@kdeville87 Жыл бұрын
Remember if they cheat with you they will cheat on you
@K-popstanLuver7 ай бұрын
who cheated though?
@eldenlion5850 Жыл бұрын
Anna: You're just leeching off my brother. Also Anna: We would be in trouble if we didn't have Georges income. The lack of self awareness in these narcissists.
@thecornettmultiverse Жыл бұрын
I had thought to say if she were any younger than she was, you might be able to excuse the naivety, And I can’t say much about being 17 and still not having a license, I didn’t get mine until then either and my wife still doesn’t have hers (although in her case it’s a combination of vision issues and trauma from an accident), but the way Anna is acting, you’d swear she was more around 13.
@AcerNitroFive Жыл бұрын
Anna: "Talking to you tires me out!" Karma: "And yet you just keep on talking to her!!"
@carolroberts4614 Жыл бұрын
Some people just love the sound of their own voices!
@AcerNitroFive Жыл бұрын
@@carolroberts4614 I know, right..
@patriciaoaks4 Жыл бұрын
Why doesn't she hang up
@AcerNitroFive Жыл бұрын
@@patriciaoaks4 To make it more dramatic.. LOL!
@strogaa Жыл бұрын
"I'm really struggling to think of a single good quality of yours." Well, with the first part of this sentence she hit the nail.
@Tam1064 Жыл бұрын
Annas voice 😵💫 and all this parasite talk 🧐🤨
@noxiouschocolate9644 Жыл бұрын
So George saw that he could blackmail someone into a relationship and get away with it so he tried to switch his wife out for a newer model 😒
@jaclynsanture6643 Жыл бұрын
That is Marriage fruad
@robinmiracle9552 Жыл бұрын
Divorce him and take it all. Family of poop heads
@beasty909 Жыл бұрын
@@jaclynsanture6643 not just that, its also mental & emtional abuse!!! they need to get cops for that!! /:
@nutty77 Жыл бұрын
Why is OP even bothering to engage with her SIL? I wouldn't even bother getting into a text exchange with her... why debase yourself? OP doesn't need to explain herself to a whingy whiny brat!!
@KCohere33 Жыл бұрын
I sure as heck would have tapped out after the first few seconds of that high pitched whiny voice.
@conjumonblue6450 Жыл бұрын
It is because it is a make believe story. If it was real life, then the rational thing would be to block the SIL. It would be are pretty short story though, like ten seconds.
@darksaber7678 Жыл бұрын
OP should have blocked Anna ,who’s little more than a arrogant narcissistic snotty brat,sooner.
@MarcieArnold-e1r8 ай бұрын
I think this often, however if they did these texts would be boring
@EncyclopediaBrittanica Жыл бұрын
I swear, some families don't realize that once you get married, 90% of your duty is to your wife and kids (if you have any) They literally have no claim to his money at all.
@loudelk99 Жыл бұрын
Talking to Anna is like discussing physics with a chimp .
@Toonwalla20107 ай бұрын
that's just cruel. No chimp deserves such insults. 😆🙊
@RashBold Жыл бұрын
This is becoming too long. What happened to the days when a video like this lasts only 15 minutes or less?
@mattwho81 Жыл бұрын
I usually just skip to halfway through.
@rachelgarber1423 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the warning, I didn’t notice that it’s almost 45 minutes long. Think I’ll pass
@jonborchardt5548 Жыл бұрын
The moral of the movie, er, story, is: As respect goes, you only get as much as you give.
@KCohere33 Жыл бұрын
Since they started combining two stories into one.
@RedCeltay Жыл бұрын
Me to I prefer the shorter ones. These take to long, the whole story could be done in 10 min.
@youmadhuh6375 Жыл бұрын
I don't understand why she wasn't ecstatic about getting kicked out.. I would've been🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️.. listening to all the complaints and the crappy way they treated her... I would be frick'n dancing at being finally free of them..
@Mama_Bear_of_4 Жыл бұрын
If this was how my husband's family behaved towards me, I would have left a long time ago. I just love the way some of these ignorant people call others "Boomers" like it is an insult. I am probably much older (52) than the wife in this story, and I am Gen X. The youngest Baby Boomer is about 57 years old. The wife is most likely at the end of gen Millennials, or beginning of Gen Z.
@paden1865able Жыл бұрын
Gen X started in 1965, which puts me in there. I'll be 58 next month, so age 59 is the youngest Boomer. 😊
@chiefkickabitchoftheslapah9251 Жыл бұрын
@@paden1865able If my family treated my wife like that, it would be goodbye family. My wife has done more for me than almost all of them combined.
@babikatspelman2308 Жыл бұрын
Op was 27. She mentioned that she was only 10 years older than Anna who was all of 17.
@susanhansen1290 Жыл бұрын
@@babikatspelman2308thanks, I was wondering if it said how old the dingbat was. Missed it I guess.
@JustinAdamson270 Жыл бұрын
You're not gen x there's no such thing they literally started with z and only online idiots refer to themselves that way
@gregwessels7205 Жыл бұрын
Someone didn't think things out - if the ONLY person doing the cooking, cleaning, etc leaves, then who makes the lunches for the spoiled brat. In the end, kicking out that one crucial piece sure brought the whole house down.😂
@debbiep8260 Жыл бұрын
Anna: “I have some questions that I need you to answer!” OP: “But you said I’m not worth listening to, so why should I bother?”
@MarieCarrasco1432 ай бұрын
Yeah! Make up your mind, Anna!! 🙄
@Solamnic31 Жыл бұрын
I always am amuzed they never pick up the calls from the desperate idiots. I used to put the phone into the dogbed next to the dog and awnser the phone whilst petting the dog. My ex never heard my voice again, but she got lots of huffing, sighs and moaning and eventually snoring. Come to think of it i might have placed the phone at the other end of the dog after he ate some nice fatty food (gives him gas). Calls soon ended after that. LOVE these vids, thanks for posting!
@blackjack4987 Жыл бұрын
Soooo glad there’s no annoying boring voices in this video!! 🤗🙌🤗🙌🤗🙌🤗🙌🤗🙌🤗
@janicevango5791 Жыл бұрын
Why did George’s wife continue to interact with Anna when she is clearly a complete a-hole? Anna was continually making contact first after all. It’s almost as if George’s wife is treated as the lowest rank in a pack of wolves.
@BelleDede01 Жыл бұрын
Why in the world is she continuing a conversation with Anna? Block her at the very first conversation and be done with her. Sheesh!
@K-popstanLuver7 ай бұрын
I believe they do it to make the story. I would have done the same as you.
@bridgetdebourgh5698 Жыл бұрын
Good Morning ☀️ Have a Wonderful Wednesday Everyone 👋🤗
@colleenosullivan857 Жыл бұрын
How she stayed with that abusive family is beyound my comprehension
@simsom4343 Жыл бұрын
The sister in law calling her useless when the mother in law doesn't actually do anything either and *is* leeching off the husband
@oldwoman5942 Жыл бұрын
A company forced her to marry? In what world?
@mccaffreybeverley450 Жыл бұрын
How many ways can a person say the same thing over and over to someone else??? Why do these women have to be threatened with homelessness to finally get it together. If these women stood up long before. It never would have gotten to this point
@dixiecyrus8136 Жыл бұрын
Oh baloney, a company can't make you marry someone. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@Jenifer_R_ Жыл бұрын
Was doormat sold into this marriage? Had doormat even met any of these people before getting married?
@KCohere33 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like she got stalked and harassed into dating and marrying him which is so much more disturbing
@Jenifer_R_ Жыл бұрын
@@KCohere33 Especially the part where her work forced her to marry him!! She's still a doormat for going along with it, but I'm thinking her boss is guilty of sex trafficking.
@Gah2Kylie Жыл бұрын
Be careful what you wish for!
@FallenKitty Жыл бұрын
I think I'd rather lose a job than be told I had to marry a person.
@ritabylsma4244 Жыл бұрын
Yes, but some people do not have family that can help them and those bosses at her company could also make sure no other company in the field would hire her. Sometimes people are just trapped. Only after the lawsuit, those bosses lost general credability. She seems to have been waiting for George’s next immoral action to get out of his trap.
@JustinAdamson270 Жыл бұрын
No they can't do that even sneaky
@IMChrysalis Жыл бұрын
I would have gone straight to a lawyer, myself.
@shonfromdachi Жыл бұрын
Ladies, THIS is why you maintain employment AND live in YOUR own place!! Because if this going on in marriages, then stay single! Like Mama used to say: I can do bad by myself! And as far as that brat of a sister, like some of them, a lot of talk, and little experience, makes for a young fool!!💯🔥🤡🤦🏽♀️
@shadowfoxx5317 Жыл бұрын
I am liking the new ways you are presenting the vally-girl and frat-boy laugh. Having the girls do a smug 'aw-hoh-hoh-aww' and the guys do a 'ahur-ha-hur' any meathead would do is _SO_ much better than that god-awful ear-torture of verbally pronounced 'lawhl, lawhl, lawhl, lawhl' Good job on the replacing of it, please keep it up! 🙏👍✨️
@AuntLoopy123 Жыл бұрын
I always know what to expect when I hear that squeaky voice.
@lindahill7315 Жыл бұрын
Good morning, everyone.
@Icyangel10 Жыл бұрын
Irony that Anna is always being smug & talking about all the complaints her family has involving OP but then OP finally gets to tell her a complaint Anna's own mom has about her(Anna). I'm guessing the family is now struggling with money after the lawsuits, I want to imagine despite everything George's parents forced him to help pay them back for helping. I kinda also want to imagine Anna starts complaining about George cause his actions led to his ex-wife ruining their lives. Also kinda want to imagine they're all having issues with chores since OP was forced into doing shit. I was hoping OP & the woman she helped sued their companies for forcing them to do this but given OP mentioned all the corrupted people got kicked out thanks to the lawsuit against George I'm guessing the woman getting harassed's company is also dealing with kicking out the corrupt people as well. I feel like they both deserve compensation money from their jobs but at least they can get back to working without issues with the toxic people anymore.
@nemeinshirwell9981 Жыл бұрын
All I can think of when hearing Anna is “what a donkey.” Then the braying laughter
@diamondmx3076 Жыл бұрын
Whoever writes these needs an emergency course in getting to the point. Holy shit do they drag on. You could tell the same story in a quarter of the time while losing little.
@warrirornunluv801 Жыл бұрын
So it's all about forced marriage? Considering that it's the second attempt for George...he seemed to be going to have a habit of forcing women to marry him, cheat, divorce, Rinse and repeat
@kdeville87 Жыл бұрын
If they want to a full time housewife get a remote job
@mleighqs Жыл бұрын
This story went on a bit too long for me, plus listening to Anna made my head hurt lol.
@susanhopemason Жыл бұрын
Evil people VERY OFTEN hate good or decent people.
@marjan6008 Жыл бұрын
I would have just made a lunch suitable for a toddler. And stop making lunch after that
@carolroberts4614 Жыл бұрын
Mr Men yoghurt and jam( jelly) sandwiches?
@marjan6008 Жыл бұрын
@@carolroberts4614 yes withj a Hello Kitty cookie cutter
@carolroberts4614 Жыл бұрын
Good idea!
@evelynberrios8164 Жыл бұрын
42 minutes of a one sided verbal abuse by the SIL????? Please, the “story “ is nonsense.
@cindybreweramanda188 Жыл бұрын
Happy Wednesday Everyone from Tacoma Washington!( Stay Safe)
@timothywilliams7264 Жыл бұрын
Id have made her pack her own lunch first time she complained. Idk how people put up with this nonsense. Grown adults acting like their 5.
@frankie2394 Жыл бұрын
Too much talking/texting, not enough blocking
@bernedettekuteyi3843 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, it seems like Op is desperate to stay married to this horrible disgusting family.
@amythehuntress Жыл бұрын
Rule of thumb, never believe the ramblings of nitwits. Some of the people in these stories are something else.
@carolroberts4614 Жыл бұрын
I have been reading Regency novels, and someone was described as having ' more hair than wit!' I like that!
@shirleyoneil5220 Жыл бұрын
If they can’t afford a place why in heck is she not working? All that abuse to live in there home, i rather live in shelter
@TheFlowerchild712 Жыл бұрын
Anna is in for a rude awakening. Anna, welcome to real life.
@KCohere33 Жыл бұрын
Okay, Anna is just her SIL and not her daughter? Why is she making her lunches in the first place?! And it’s clear that they are the ones leeching, not the OP. It’s pretty funny that the force her to do everything and still call her useless and try to kick her out.
@joancampbell1377 Жыл бұрын
Stop putting yourselves down op believe in your self and leave these toxic people they do not appreciate all that you do❤
@jessicagreer4828 Жыл бұрын
This story doesn't make any sense. First she doesn't want to leave George, then she loves him and he loves her, then she's suing because he sexually harassed her into a relationship. Wth
@nerdygeekgamer5528 Жыл бұрын
WOW I never knew that forced employee marriage was a thing if I was in George's wifes shoes I would say " well I gues your gonna have to FIRE ME CAUSE I'M NOT MARRIYING THAT SCUMBAG"
@patricialessard8651 Жыл бұрын
The best revenge is living a much better life than the person that tried to force on you.
@silverhammer7779 Жыл бұрын
The beginning and end of this story are too far apart. It's a short story, not a novel. Some of these videos are far too long to hold the viewer's (listener's) interest.
@anthonystevens6346 Жыл бұрын
Anna sounds like she's having a stroke when she laughs.
@66DoodleGal Жыл бұрын
Anna’s air headed goggles makes me gag
@venusbleu5764 Жыл бұрын
i hadnto skip through so much of this, sil had me ready to fight lol who just puts up with this
@joandondero1736 Жыл бұрын
I’m only 1/4 through with this post, & I’m absolutely shocked at the story. For a woman who does EVERYTHING in a house with a bunch of adults…. she should be treated like a Queen!👑 Wonderful woman is living with a toxic family of scumbags! 💩💩💩🤮 Leave while you still have your sanity!
@Batmanapplejax Жыл бұрын
So she married him so she wouldn’t lose her job and then immediately became a housewife? Totally realistic like always. 😂
@nancyoleksy Жыл бұрын
As soon as they start complaining about making lunches ect. I would be like then make it yourself. Where does Anna get off saying all this to the sister in law? As for the husband why doesn't he say anything. If they keep saying you are that useless then see ya. Also if they replace her what says that this new person will be there maid too. Anna is a real "B".
@anthonyhaylock6655 Жыл бұрын
Anna needs to make her own for a change
@lynngrant533 Жыл бұрын
I'm two minutes in and all I can think is "Anna, make your own damn lunch!" And one video, 42 minutes long? I fast-forwarded through most of it so I could find the second video but there wasn't one. Please, Apple. This really could've been done in 15-20 minutes. Conversations do get redundant when they're repeated.
@lindasavelle1731 Жыл бұрын
What he was already stalking her and she didn't have the guts to tell him to go pound sand (lots of unbelievable excuses though) so she dated then MARRIED him ? What a stupid story. NO company can force you into MARRAIGE. LOL.
@barbaracarpenter1260 Жыл бұрын
I had a sister in law just like this
@moniquerobinson5206 Жыл бұрын
Wow! I’d of thrown her out or leave myself & differently made their lives miserable!
@sharongreen4407 Жыл бұрын
This girl is trying too hard ,to stay with her in-laws, I would have been gone the first weak,the treat yo good, when you're just engaged,but after marriage,all hell breaks lose😂🤣
@RedneckSith Жыл бұрын
34:27 Okay, the Department of Labor would LOVE to hear from her. As would several workers rights advocates. And of course, an attorney. 39:39 Ugh, I used to be just like this when I was her age. We think we know everything when we're teens, don't we?
@susanhansen1290 Жыл бұрын
I had a problem with my supervisor at work but nobody believed me until he sat at my desk and asked me to go out with him and a coworker overheard and he went to the manager. We got a new supervisor and the bothersome one was reassigned and transferred. He was married and besides bothering me he was "seeing" clients on the side. Don't know her age but looked like a young teen. Once I was with my mom and ran into him so I introduced them.. Then he told me the girl was a client and he was giving her a ride. They were at MacDonalds on a Saturday and he was buying her lunch. His own kids were still in elementary school.
@JessyDupre Жыл бұрын
Why is she calling it "brown bread" did you mean Wheat Bread? Pumpernickel? Rye? Calling it Brown Bread makes them sound uneducated.
@momcat5213able Жыл бұрын
Brown bread is any bread with mostly whole grain flour. Sometimes, it has molasses. In the USA, brown bread is called whole grain or whole wheat bread.
@tammycosby4495 Жыл бұрын
I do wish they would stop using the VA who played Anna. She sounds like an extremely whiny 80’s era Valley Girl. It’s like nails on a chalkboard. If the story is really interesting, I end up reading the transcript but most times I just skip the whole dang video. Sometimes I don’t even start it if I see it’s an iText.
@sinan2.71 Жыл бұрын
The wife is leeching off of George because his mother are sister are the main leeches and she is infringing on their "territory"? Is George even a person to them?
@dustysimpson7864 Жыл бұрын
If someone treats you like crap. Why stick around. No one is worth it.
@helenwoodrum2383 Жыл бұрын
Anna, you have two hands and can make your own lunch.
@leisachapman6975 Жыл бұрын
I have to say I’d be so petty about things, like mixing a laxative into the food I cook for these people!
@follaschwartz4739 Жыл бұрын
George ,George DROP him & get out of that TOXIC family !!!
@jameytechsan7622 Жыл бұрын
Isn’t the family “leeching” off George’s income too?!
@sherrygrobaski7615 Жыл бұрын
Here's a thought... Make your OWN dang lunch.
@kdeville87 Жыл бұрын
Karma loves these kind of people to visit
@joshuadavis92164 ай бұрын
😂 personally I love the phrase not going to allow that. Because every time someone says to me I start laughing and just like what are you going to do about it. 😂
@kimmie4744 Жыл бұрын
Stop trying to explain yourself. The family is toxic😟
@susanhansen1290 Жыл бұрын
Too bad she couldnt have recorded that divorce announcement scene. Something to show a lawyer or judge. At a meal she cooked in a house she cleans.
@gandalftheantlion Жыл бұрын
She is a sucker for punishment... Seriously she went BACK to the corrupt company.
@denisemartin37988 ай бұрын
Wow, the in laws are obnoxious to say the least. All I can say is, they reap what they sow!
@Jenifer_R_ Жыл бұрын
So, the sex traffickers were fired... instead of imprisoned.
@noydb-17 ай бұрын
In Text Channel Land, criminals are rarely prosecuted for their crimes. The biggest punishment handed out is for the perpetrator to work day and night in a "part time" job in a sketchy factory in the countryside.
@Jenifer_R_7 ай бұрын
@@noydb-1 Or being forced to live in a one room apartment with their overbearing mother.
@noydb-17 ай бұрын
@@Jenifer_R_ You mean WHILE being forced to live in a one room apartment with their overbearing mother.
@Jenifer_R_7 ай бұрын
@@noydb-1 Yes. The ultimate punishment.
@tammyhoffman998 Жыл бұрын
When u try to please everybody u end up pleasing nobody. So please yourself and leave the situation. Especially if he is cheating.
@elizabethfrancina4606 Жыл бұрын
Worse the person, more horrible the voice case in point to Anna.
@melissakerber8287 Жыл бұрын
This particular voice actress has a knack for antagonist roles. I feel like stabbing myself in the eardrum with an ice pick when she does the cringe.
@elizabethfrancina4606 Жыл бұрын
@@melissakerber8287 😄😄😄😄😄
@susanhopemason Жыл бұрын
I have often wondered if the voice actress playing Anna, really talks like that all the time, in real life. I seriously hope not. I would not be able to tolerate being around her if she does...even for 5 minutes, and even if she is a perfectly nice person in real life...I could not tolerate that voice.
@elizabethfrancina4606 Жыл бұрын
@@susanhopemason damm i wonder the same. Bless the people who tolerate her then
@JustinAdamson270 Жыл бұрын
@@susanhopemasonthey're ai voices not real people
@susanhansen1290 Жыл бұрын
Oh dear, Anna might actually have to (gasp) get a ......job?
@joybernard7359 Жыл бұрын
What sort of food critics does this guy work with that notice his lunch and “presentation”. Really and which husband is embarrassed of such things.
@dhaniariadi8832 Жыл бұрын
.....its so strange story....idk about other country but ....no company will push they employed to married like political married....to risk
@lynnharris3189 Жыл бұрын
I take it that Anna is the sil and George is the husband.
@steveroe6771 Жыл бұрын
Looks like our friend and hero, Kapitan Karma is about to go to town. The back of the woodshed might not be big enough for his justice.
@barbaraunderwood1762 Жыл бұрын
Anna needs to b taken down a peg r 2. Anna is the one that’s lecturing. No child of mine would talk to her sister n law like that. My mother would have slapped my mouth. She’s just 17 & a sassy mouth. U don’t talk to an adult like she’s talking. She’s not better than her sister n law. Moms house so mom should b doing most of the housework & Anna can make her own lunches. Glad she got away from that family & a newly married couple shouldn’t have to live with in laws.
@karenlommler6473 Жыл бұрын
They need to make their own lunches and pay for them too.
@follaschwartz4739 Жыл бұрын
Would be the best plan move out that ridiculous family ,go ,go out !!!!
@tammyminder833 Жыл бұрын
This sister in law is annoying and arrogant
@jolenebauser408 Жыл бұрын
Anna is the type of person that makes you just wanna slap her upside the head! Geez!
@marvimgreene4377 Жыл бұрын
Attitude!!! In that house !!LOL they are the ones to talk!! Leeches!!!! I hope they get what they deserve!!!! Big hugs to the poor wife!!! From Belinda Greene