Are Black Men Failing Black Women? - Cocktails with Queens

[@reggiesaidit513]

I will honestly tell you as a 46 year old black man . Until , I learned how to deal with my pain , abandonment issues and trauma . The only thing I could truly offer a sister was d:ck and dollars . Therapy changed my life and the very kind of black women that I avoided is the kind of woman I’m attracted to. Plus , since I knowi how to help a sister work through her stuff , I’m no longer repelled by it

[@cjohnson6634]

Reggie Said it Wooowww I applaud your honesty! You should share your stories on a platform for other black men. Way to go Reggie.

[@randombooze]

Hi Reggie. Congratulations on you owning you and supporting yourself and loving yourself, enough to put yourself in therapy. Whenever you’re ready, if you’d ever like to share your story, I’d love to interview you please and thank you? I’m a small KZbinr just starting. I want to use my platform to get the conversations going. I put myself in therapy when my daughter was 2 (2019) bc I really wanted to do things differently and knew I needed help in doing so. I understand that you don’t represent all men, but your journey is important. Thanks for you comment. [e-mail]

[@sharonda8485]

Reggie that's awesome I'm working on me as well.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

Only if more women were like you and could accept responsibility for the decisions they make

[@reggiesaidit513]

Channon Johnson ..... Thank you , I’m working on that.

[@MrLeonrobinson]

Maybe it is as simple as, what women claim they want isn't necessarily what they need.

[@tracyreadytv]

Hmm.... give an example...

[@londonpeach6223]

Yes please elaborate . We are listening.

[@rohall5060]

Hmm🤔🤔

[@MrLeonrobinson]

Women say they want a man that is very attractive, yet most women can't deal with the reality that those type of dudes all sought after by a significant portion of women. Women have unrealistic standards. You want a man desired by a lot of women, but you want him to only want you. Good luck with that. 2- You want a man that has a lot of money but you want him to only want you. The only thing better than old vagina is new vagina. You want a so-called bad boy until reality hits you, usually by children, weight gain, or age. Then you require more substantial things from decent dudes than from the dudes that got your most attractive years. Good luck on that.

[@ruffinc1783]

@@MrLeonrobinson dammm u said a month full.

[@JaimeLincolnSmith]

Whats even more wack, is that if black men turned around and had this same conversation, for public ingestion, just like this, we would be told “how dare us tear down black women?” Smfh

[@ChannelOfKool]

Oh we would be all types of misogynists and women bashers

[@marcomarr9385]

@Tasheri are you talking about Cardie B ,Meg the Stallion, Nicki ,

[@ChannelOfKool]

@@marcomarr9385 Lmao another excellent point made. "hot girl summer" rings a bell?

[@adrianpatterson2377]

@@marcomarr9385 Bro you definitely deserve an award for this comment! It was so right on time!😂😂😂😂🤣🥇🥈🥉🏅🏆

[@michellemcmichael4680]

Georgio Casper Look him up NAKERS

[@biggerthanhiphop7641]

I'm proud of these comments .. I see alot of black women in here that's not falling for that black men are the enemy game .. this gives me hope for our people

[@carmillastephens9497]

They aren't the enemy but they do need to step up... A lot of them are lacking.

[@DiverseLA]

@@carmillastephens9497 Black women need to step up too and take accountability instead of blaming everything on Black men.

[@carmillastephens9497]

@@DiverseLA and there it is... Black men are supposed to be the leaders of the community UNFORTUNATELY to many want the respect & title no responsibilities of being a leader.

[@therecapnetwork7893]

Still haven’t heard them say why they’re relationships failed!!

[@tahrielove4322]

ABCs Over Everything that’s easy!!! Just Blame the Black Man

[@stasia3029]

Syleena definitely said something bout that but ok smh

[@aivah07]

Their *

[@terrancebrooks2326]

Nobody ever talks about the mental and physical abuse that young black boys go through by their mothers in these single parent house holds. You can tell how a mother treated her son by the way he treats women.

[@washedgamer2947]

The mirror is the reason. UNFORTUNATELY, BWs would rather take their own eyes out with a spoon than admit fault! THEY BELONG TO THE STREETS!!!

[@beautylebox2191]

The wall is undefeated...every athlete has their wave....its funny how these group of ladies want to be submissive towards the end of their smv....lol

[@charlessmith8098]

There you go

[@TiffanyRayneOfficial]

But what's wrong with them wanting to let their guard down? Isn't that what's suppose to happen after these conversations? Learning how to help build a healthy relationship with each other.

[@aspen7887]

Tiffany Rayne nobody wants ran threw Thots in their 40s!

[@stasia3029]

@@aspen7887 wow smh

[@stasia3029]

@@TiffanyRayneOfficial i agree

[@beastmylife4928]

They cut it off when Vivica was giving wisdom... don’t fix or build a man, accept him for who he can’t be for you and move on.

[@thebotfather9508]

this sounds like gold-digger talk. love a man for who he is as a person & human being & not for money or what he does for you... thats how women end up like Lisa Raye.

[@thebotfather9508]

@Big Wig simp talk.

[@kingjames9875]

It seems like it’s ok for a black woman to receive all the fixing and building a man provides her and not the other way around ..you don’t see any other nation of female bashing their men yet these men have done nothing but enslave rape Murder and get away with it ..they just have power I speak of the white asian and Arab that currently run the world now if black men had the support of their women things might be different but we never have and it’s painfully obvious we don’t and never will it’s not about building a man it’s about building our community are black men perfect? Hell no but we’re not the only ones that can improve white men white women and black women take no responsibility or blame for anything it’s all on us

[@whatdoyoudo5488]

@human being what makes you say that, that's an interesting comment.

[@whatdoyoudo5488]

@@kingjames9875 black women have been supporting black men for decades, decades and you know it. We still get the short end of the stick. how many sisters have helped build a brother up and he left her for a white woman! How many?? so don't say that we're not supportive because we are. I know women who have taken in broke men broke in spirit broke in the wallet no education no driver's license, his non paying child support ass has nothing but the clothes on his back along with his 55 inch TV and his video games. Sad. I hang up the phone from listening to my girlfriend's woes and I listen to the peace within my house because I don't deal I drama. I've never let a man live with me I don't tolerate the bull that's why I live so well and I have everything that I have because I've never let a man bring me down. men see what I have and they want to try to get with me I'm not stupid my eyes are wide open not even shut wide open to the games. No baby, you won't be moving in this six bedroom house there's no room for you and I live alone!!! I'll be damned if you think you're going to drive my car's and get my babies towed. So yes black women have always got the black man's back always and they always get jacked up in the end.

[@darksideon]

I'm so sick of everything being blamed on black men.

[@justemeka]

Even the white women blame the white men for their issues. That's the way women are. They will never accept responsibility. Show me one woman who accepts responsibility and I have an ocean to sell to you.

[@har_monique]

🙄🙄🙄🙄 oh fucking well

[@justemeka]

@AMG BOYZ if you want my advice. Don't listen to women.

[@danekacampbell3524]

@@justemeka yea don't listen to ur mama

[@justemeka]

@@danekacampbell3524 my mom is late. When she was alive and spew some BS, I don't listen. As a man I have the discerning ability to filter trash.

[@ballou1777]

A lot of women will pick a Married Black Man over a good black man.

[@michellepreston9799]

Married men are attractive to single women because married men show the ability to commit. They are usually financially responsible and more than likely to stay with them. It’s the same reason that all the women come flocking around as soon as the man gets a girlfriend but while he is single all the women look past him.

[@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842]

Michelle Preston these women are stupid then

[@bobbyjones1830]

These women blame everyone but themselves for their downfall and bad choices..No accountability at all..smh

[@ivanidodge5164]

And what accountability do you have behind the keyboard 🤔🤔🤔 I'll wait because you sound like you haven't felt a woman's touch in awhile.

[@robertyeah7280]

@@ivanidodge5164 Stop it. Name one thing Black women are responsible for.

[@ivanidodge5164]

@@robertyeah7280 Name something black men are responsible for besides being on the DL in these relationships with women. Let's talk about that.

[@robertyeah7280]

@@ivanidodge5164 They are no more on the DL than Black women are. Lets talk about it. And they cant be that much on the DL since you cant keep your legs closed to them. Lets talk.

[@ivanidodge5164]

@@robertyeah7280 my legs are closed to those type of men. I know I struck a nerve so now you want to flip the script. Goodnight Roberta

[@whoodyGPonder-fj6hq]

Women don’t have accountability or integrity that’s A mans trait

[@Obi431]

I feel sorry for black women because they actually are amazing and truly mean well, the the concept of “accountability” just has never been introduced to them because of the lack of men in your lives. It’s the men that teach their children “linear reasoning.” And it’s the women that teach her children “emotionality." Black American women don’t hold themselves accountable but the reality is they don’t have the capacity to... it sounds harsh but I do love them regardless, their trying and they have weakness just like we do

[@megae859]

@@Obi431 problem is you're asking me to take accountability for actions that aren't mine. 🤷‍♀️

[@Kim-427]

@@Obi431 Many women raise children.You have to have accountability to be a parent therefore you could not be responsible for someone else.And you cant speak to all the women in the world not having fathers thst participated in their lives or what older male relatives were involved if a father wasnt present.You cant make that statement because you dont know that for sure.How do men know about accountability when they are some of the most selfish human beings I've come in contact with?Many of them take no responsibility for anything.Its all over these comments.I know you tried to chime in with your two cents but this conversation is out of your league.

[@sheercold26]

facts

[@Obi431]

Mega E Women hyper sexualizing themselves on public platforms is not women’s responsibility?!? Obesity rates, single motherhood, supporting reality television portrayal of black women, self esteem issues, selection of men, irresponsible sexual behavior.... really?!? So black women have no role in any of this?!? It’s OK to be flawed, we are just as fault but not acknowledging it is a dire problem

[@Mynamejack9]

The wall is undefeated!🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🧱🤣

[@billmwika7428]

A lot of these women in their 20's love acting up but this is how they will all eventually end up 😂😂😂.

[@villeda7534]

Women age like milk! 😅

[@bigbiz800]

@Tasheri Viagra works very well.

[@FREE_WILL_DEFENDER]

@Tasheri thats more of a white boy problem but it aint THAT common alot of old black men still slanging wood. And you know it

[@franknitti1190]

@Tasheri Who told you that goofy shit a person health is determined by that person....You are what you eat.

[@DJBomBay1996]

It's pretty much over for Black love. Too much masculine energy and stubbornness on both sides.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

@FRANK CASTLE nonsense. Feminism was started by white women talking that same nonsense to white men. Sit your ignorant ass down. Black women should have never jumped on that train. All they gotta do is make better decisions about who and when you make babies . This was a weak cop out discussion that makes bitter chicks feel good about their relationship failures by demonizing a whole race of men. Weak

[@DJBomBay1996]

@FLgirlinTX We had a very respectable community when men were in most homes. Many women chose govt assistance over a man. So not many men in our community and its pure chaos.

[@EH-ik6rd]

FRANK CASTLE well they have used the government to remove the men out of the community with the use of government assistance, child support, public acceptance at the largest percentage of any race. they have chosen power over cooperation. A report was written in 1965 that predicted this, Moynihan report was dismissed and ridiculed but was it accurate? Guess it’s based on interpretation, but no men raising boys, equal no men. These men are learning to be masculine from women, music, and TV. Some cities at a clip of 80 plus percent. Sometimes you should ask why your comment may or may not be accurate

[@sammiesmith6690]

So true about black love being over.

[@chocolate2476]

Dream Chasers that’s is complete Bs. No women is gonna kick out a man who is providing for government assistance. Like really you gonna blame the government for your failures to be a man, to protect and provide. Like I’m so done with y’all black men because you blame everybody else to the reason why you can’t succeed in life. If you are doing what your suppose to do as a MAN. We can rest in our femininity, but you told us to go out and work so if the government is gonna help because you lack the proper basics then yes us black women are gonna do that. Cause clearly you lack provide, and protect.

[@JORDAN23TV]

Love my Black women but pretty tired at this point hearing how Black men are F ups and Black women are better. We should be working together

[@bnwo]

simp.

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

@@bnwo Mutt

[@bnwo]

@@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979 simp.

[@kay.x-kay.x]

Don't want to keep hearing it, Then *STOP* being Fk ups❗❗Plain & Simple❗💯 Y'all been babied enough, time to step up & *MAN TF UP* period ❗

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

@@bnwo Pitbull

[@howtowithconnie]

Why continue to beat this topic in the ground? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ It is useless and nothing happens. It looks sad 😔 for a panel of 40+ black women complaining about black men when they had chances to get quality black man🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@kevinlee9929]

You might be the most honest lady in the comments. Salute.

[@olandofuller5588]

God bless you... you'll are our last defense. If black women see us as no good, so will the world

[@kevinlee9929]

@Tasheri Why are males not "pick mes" when they do it? ......

[@olandofuller5588]

@@kevinlee9929 she cant answer that. Most of the time people like that have nothing to talk about. They always create problems the more they talk.

[@kevinlee9929]

@@olandofuller5588 Because if this is what a pick me is then Derrick Jaxn is a pick me. Yet I've seen Tasheri comment on Derrick Jaxn's page yet never refer to him as a pick me. I wonder why? 🤔🙄🤣

[@tipsandtricks6071]

All ladies have to do is check the results and what they are doing is not working but they will never admit it

[@kevinlee9929]

Thats called taking accountability. Can't do that.

[@shonab36]

Because it’s always the females fault? Got it. Lesson learned........

[@tipsandtricks6071]

@@shonab36 you really don't get it, there are already more black women than men, you all are already from birth at a disadvantage, no count the gays, guys in prison, guys that don't date black women, ect. and only 25% of black women are married and the number keeps dropping. Yet, black men are telling you all how to fix it but black women are too hardheaded to listen. Good, enjoy the results.

[@jj47k.]

@@tipsandtricks6071 💯

[@stonedecatur6602]

@@tipsandtricks6071 there are always more boys born than girls. There are many gay females and females with multiple kids by different fathers.

[@coachlamont1083]

It's not all blackmen as whole responsibility to protect you from your bad decisions. The bad decisions that you ladies made is on you. Black men didn't failed you ,you failed yourselves through your decisions in the type of men you women have chosen. Eyes straight ahead (sysbm 4 life).!!

[@cherokeewhitemilner]

Lamont Ellis but they are choosing those men based on the type of father (Man) that raised them or didn’t. So yeah it starts with a man

[@mactherealestateman]

No, it's an equal thing. Chicken or the egg. Instead of placing blame, break the cycle. Remember one thing....you cant give what you dont possess.

[@carmillastephens9497]

@@cherokeewhitemilner THAT PART!

[@tru_kru_bahbee24]

I guess ALL races of women don't know how to choose right then, because everyone from every race is choosing the WRONG black man period. What does the right bm look like. How can one avoid the bad ones?

[@tiatalko2541]

Why is this so openly discussed? Do they talk about Latin men not loving Latin women on Univision or Telemundo? This is depressing 😩

[@DeAndreTJ]

Exactly. This is more like a closed family discussion. I'm catching second hand embarrassment just because I'm a black America. Depressing indeed...

[@tracyreadytv]

We can't be ashamed of our pain or the process by which we overcome it. Hopefully their public discussion will create private dialogue that changes things.

[@blaqpearl4403]

furthermore why is a mixed woman leadind a black female/male relations conversation??

[@submissiveproviderstboth9485]

Latin , white men dont DOG they women on a global scale like BM do!

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

@@submissiveproviderstboth9485 this is exactly the opposite I dont hear black men on national tv belittling black woman.

[@glokid6318]

As always they take nearly ZERO accountability which is exactly why thier plight will remain. No accountability no change 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@MrShandog72]

Thats how they are always blaming us I'll stick with becky

[@glowuplife]

@@MrShandog72 stick with becky if that makes you happy but i promote accountability on my channel. Check it b out, Omega Courtney

[@lklbanmis9414]

On point!

[@CerebralTheReal1]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/qn2wg2iJqdOafZI

[@glokid6318]

lovemeloveyou011 ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾 As you can see... she dropped her link under this comment I made on this video

[@AGElite87]

Why do black women constantly talk bad about black men for the world to hear all the time bro it's very messed up.

[@areyounotentertained2482]

You must be new to the internet? i see this a hell of a lot more from black men. Hell some ppl have literally build careers from it.

[@M0chaJ0J0]

go away very new

[@mikewaves5282]

@lovey dovey how come black women don't have children by their husbands? Women of ALL races, when they're worth a fuck,they don't just have children. They have children by an established husband. Examples: beyonce, Janet Jackson, jada pinkett, Michelle Obama etc. And by established i don't necessarily mean a man of power or wealth,but just a man. Y'all fuck a nigga you know ain't about shit or literally don't know at all and expect him to be a good father. Y'all really need to stop living in these weird delusions.

[@tazyboy28]

Meh, they have a right to do what they want. But passing the buck is the real issue. "Its not our fault, its someone elses fault that we act pike this". Smh

[@chocolate2476]

Mike Waves we do and we know you guys are repulsive liars. See how you deflect and put the blame on us but never the man because it’s so easy to blame the women for everything that’s it’s getting really tiring at this point. I never dated a thug, and yes I’m from the hood but I’m not ghetto or ratchet either. There are no good black men at all, you guys are all the same. You abuse us and you wonder why we hate you.

[@m.i.c.5101]

I didn't hear one shred of accountability for their own actions. I heard, his fault, slavery fault, mama's fault

[@m.i.c.5101]

@human being I wish could be. My whole reason for coming here was to give them the benefit of the doubt that accountability for personal actions would develop somewhere in the conversation, but 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842]

It’s black Women what do you Expect ? 😂

[@m.i.c.5101]

@11STARFIRE Not necessarily. I've seen many content creators and even semi-mainstream shows that ask this question in reverse. Quite often there is at least one man on the panel that focuses the accountability back on to us. I was hoping for that to occur here, but like I stated in an earlier reply 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@WholisticBlackBeauty]

Accountable for what.? Maybe you should start a talk about your grievances like these ladies instead of finding fault. Are you acknowledging your accountability on what they said. This is how nothing ever gets resolved NOONE does.

[@chevon1920]

But she said the women are not raising the boys but just loving them. Did you hear that part and just want to bitch or no???

[@justemeka]

"This is not a Man Bashing session" - How disingenuous.

[@justemeka]

@MsZoomification that's not telling the truth. If you want to know the truth and you are patient enough. I will educate you. That's women ranting and making no sense.

[@justemeka]

@MsZoomification first let's start with the stats. Black women are the least desired in the sexual market place. This is a concern black women need to address. Before they blame anyone else, black women need an introspection of themselves.

[@justemeka]

@MsZoomification your reaction is not shocking or surprising. You could have easily refuted my claims with empirical evidence. However, you choose to expose your ignorance for an answer just seconds away via google or any open-source research. Please don't believe your hype because I'm well educated than you. I know this based on the number of degrees I have, my exposure and research, and your inability to hold a rational discussion.

[@justemeka]

@MsZoomification I started my comment with how disingenuous those women are and how black women in America need to look at themselves to understand why they are the least desired in the sexual market place. You pivoted to talk about how black men end up in jail/prison and to you that's staying on topic or very relevant to the discussion. I wonder what kind of education you had. You saw my name and felt it's in your place to let this African know and want to label me as uneducated and when I called you out on how ignorance, stupid and poorly educated you are, your view changed. Guess that's a paradigm shift for you. Typical ignorant black american woman.

[@justemeka]

@MsZoomification Do you mind reading your comment again. First, I'm a black man. I know many black Americans of slave decent think they are the only black people on earth else you would not refer to demographics. Second, you probably have no clue of where I reside - again you see why I refer to you as being ignorant and I'm not trying to be disrespectful. I believe, but I maybe wrong, only one lady in that group has a man (second husband) and when they and you speak of lack of leadership or maturity on the part of black men, I really don't know the kind of black men you and those ladies are referring to. The black men I know exemplify leadership traits, maintain their family structure, are highly educated, hardworking and owners of businesses. Again, conduct a proper introspection on yourself so you can ascertain why you are attracting immature black men into your life.

[@dhorubabinwahad3218]

No one put a gun to women’s head and told to “utilize their assets “ smh 🤦🏽‍♂️ that’s a scapegoat lol take accountability and stop playing victim

[@rcd954]

Bobby Brown I said the same thing. A man probably couldn’t get these woman to make a sammich. Lol

[@Trillville43]

I don't think one thing has to do with the other but instead of looking at is as us vs them hear what is being said and ask questions.

[@charlessmith8098]

There you go brother

[@dhorubabinwahad3218]

True story bro lol

[@LiterallyTho]

Yoshiyahu Yisrael Successful women you mean. You don’t know there personal life.

[@lets_play_a_game268]

7:18 oh really?🤔🤣🤣 could've fooled me. All I heard was bashing, and how "black men" failing "black women"

[@shaunoffrange8122]

They all want the same guy !!! That is the story they are not telling. When they speak on Black men as a whole, they are really talking about one specific group. Take a wild guess which one that is...

[@nyikomaswanganyi5983]

Lol even in South Africa it's the same thing.

[@TiffanyRayneOfficial]

No we don't all want the same guy, every man is not you or thinks like you. Because we're all different as individuals in the first place. And we have different standards and examples of what relationships should be for us. Just like all black women aren't the same women you've experienced or encountered. But men never take the time to figure that out because of their ego, examples and past experiences. Just like a woman can resort to her sexuality, because that's all she's ever known. That's all men did to her anyway, and that's all they pay attention to anyway.

[@deseanwatson5619]

@FLgirlinTX it's not BM fault for your assumptions, in almost every situation involving a BM speaking on something he dislikes regarding BW he specifys what type of BW he's talking about

[@royaltykonceptz]

Plot twist....all of these women in this video and the majority of the women only go for the top 20% of what they call "quality men" : The men with all the power and money, 6 pack abs, morris chestnut, 12 inch penis , drug dealer, pimp, rapper, womanizer etc. But then blame the other 80% of men that have nothing to do with their problem in the first place

[@tom11zz884]

THUGS AND PLAYERS?

[@chrislacy1990]

‪Stay single until someone complements your life in such a way that it moves you closer to Jesus Christ. How strong is your relationship with Jesus? If you don’t know, look at how much time it takes you to obey what He tells you to do. There’s your answer.‬

[@seanin1990]

Jesus Christ? 😂 A woman loving a man who loves a myth of a man who lived 2000 years ago more than he loves her is a relationship doomed.

[@mudfoot3000]

TRUTH!

[@chrislacy1990]

Sean Ace I felt the same way for many years. I wondered why should I believe in a “mythical” God who kept turning women away from me? But I learned that when I got tired of losing at life, there was a winning formula that I could follow: the Bible. The more I spent time with God, the more confident I felt about myself as a man. That’s when women started to notice what I brought to the table. I respect your decision if you choose not to follow God. But I hope that helps you better understand my original comment.‬

[@babyzorilla]

Jesus always gets in the way of a good relationship.

[@user-vu7us9sw9i]

Jesus doesn't exist, brotha. That white man is Cesare Borgia. It's an idol. A damn demon. The letter J didn't exist at that time. The first slave ship was called Jesus. In 1492, Jesus was used put us in perpetual servitude (Dum Diversa sp.???). It's the main reason TMH destroyed us and gave these heathens our land and our blessings. Yes, we are the aboriginals of this land and still in servitude. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i5-kl3mZYq99oMk

[@naodancehall1779]

I am 34, I have been married almost 14 years. Successful relationships consist of couples submitting to each other. He submits to me and I to him, and we both submit to the will of God FIRST! When people get that, relationships will be successful.

[@startoler]

Nao Dance Hall ALL OF THIS!!! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@DeAndreTJ]

Let's be honest. You married a beta man and that's cool. Saying "he submits" is an oxymoron and emasculating as hell.

[@Kim-427]

@@DeAndreTJ But,When you get married thats what you do.And I think people react to the word submit.It doesnt mean you cant speak or have your own views about things.You talking about being emasculated dng thats heavy!No one has that kind of power over you.

[@qarreeayantumekonnen1205]

@DeAndre Submit can be the wrong word to use the message tho is spot on.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

You will never get a man that makes decent money to submit to you. You gotta know what you want. Stop blaming men for all your problems.

[@kazzd58]

Gonna be alot more single women 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@rohall5060]

Touche🤔

[@briggie28]

There will be anyway....women outnumber men significantly, and not all of us are willing to share.

[@Zlics]

good hopefully single mothers too with bastard children

[@areyounotentertained2482]

Thats why black women need to stop dating black men. Every woman in this video has only been with "brothers" now theyre bitter.... Ladies stop wasting your glow on NIGGAS.

[@bigbiz800]

@@areyounotentertained2482 If other races were choosing black women they would be over there already. They're not choosing black women.

[@rellenomics101]

*Dr. Frances Cress Welsing* and *Dr. Sharazard Ali* would have a totally different opinion....

[@rellenomics101]

@Jerry Williams Yes indeed

[@rellenomics101]

@Ernest Ward Whoever said that deleted that comment.

[@rellenomics101]

@Ernest Ward 💯

[@blaqpearl4403]

yup she should have Dr Shaharazad in this discussion

[@rellenomics101]

@@blaqpearl4403 That would've been too deep for Fox! I love the ladies on this panel, but it's still ran by *FOX*

[@themanimal1925]

I couldn't even watch this whole vlog. It's such BS. Start with the person mirror ladies....smh

[@nweeezy]

The Manimal - That will go over many of their heads. The first thought that they may have is "why dont you look in the mirror" because that's how rife feminism is unconsciously in our society and it has brainwashed most females that being contrarian and vain is good enough if you look good enough, and developing character is not important, which of course is a fantasy. This plutocratic/%1 based system NEEDS that fantasy to thrive; cant have the court systems redistributing wealth or keep up with Jones' with a bunch of grounded/high character females running around, that shit dont sell. Until that is, the shit goes out of hand on a global scale and they make the decision that its too many participants in this whole game and we need to thin the herd because this charade cant propagate itself much longer. _Which is where we are now_ The Stephen Jackson situation is a sign of the times, and further proof that both sexes have adjustments to make. Men are beginning to prefer peace over the other P, especially in THIS social/economical reality: now is definitely not a time to have weak, vapid connections around you.

[@newuser5822]

@lovey dovey Your attitude, personality, and learn how to submit.

[@josephwyatt4661]

So discussing how black women is being treated is null and voided for you? So tell me exactly what do you see because something has to change because I am pretty sure you came from a woman and probably have sisters and aunts too.

[@robinmahan101]

@Tasheri exactly! Why do BM have a hard time accepting responsibility.

[@dannieannie]

@lovey dovey precisely!

[@sammiesmith6690]

I hear no accountability from these sisters.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

@Eileen you sound like a white racist clown

[@e84fresh]

Gerard Stevenson They have all that bullshit going on and think they’re a prize 🙄 Women with all that baggage do nothing but bring down good men.

[@bridgetbarnett6423]

Omg! Totally agree. "Mother's raise their daughters, and LOVE their sons."

[@Robert-qn6zr]

That’s the stupidest Shit i ever heard

[@EH-ik6rd]

Bridget Barnett then they maybe failing at both. Both sons and daughters are as frustrated as ever, could single parent homes be the issue instead? I mean just a thought

[@Therealnicoletayan]

It’s truth. Not stupid. My mother has three sons and I have never seen the love my mother gives to her sons her boys like unto me. It’s a systematic mental spiritual emotional war. And I would always say that in my heart as a little girl when I would watch my mother.

[@EH-ik6rd]

The Book of Psalms Music By: NICOLE - TAYAN unfortunately parents sometimes parent children different, your brothers may view things different from you. Mother could have been jealous, or has less expectations for them. All I’m saying is all this love boys are getting is apparently not making them good mates, or decrease incarceration rates, having them earn degrees at a higher rate than girls, make them loving, or faithful according to BW whenever they get a microphone in front of them. So do we blame the boys or the mom.

[@Therealnicoletayan]

EH8 everything you stated is valid. It’s no ones blame love. When you become aware you can do things differently you know. That’s all 🙏🙏🙏

[@Josco31]

I'm not going to engage watching this BS. I know for certain three of the four chicks talking this ish has been ran through like a truck stop in Hollywood, so I know this is just Bitter Ball Fest of bad decision. Ladies, I know this will fall on deaf ears, but if you want good quality black men you have to make good quality choices out the gate. Don't roll in the filth 10, 20, 30yrs + and then point the finger. Remember, three will always point back at you!

[@rareflower72]

WHY?! Are you hearing what they are saying?! It's not bashing men.

[@sheercold26]

"Nothing is ever black womens fault" - The Show

[@sheercold26]

@human being agreed

[@sheercold26]

@@RAT-Soup ikr. all hail the black goddesses. (heavy sarcasm)

[@DebraBrandon]

Lmaooooooooooooooo

[@sheercold26]

@@DebraBrandon Ew. A single Mom

[@justonetime6179]

They blamed mothers on being soft on their sons. Mothers are women.

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

How in tf did we as black men create the whole idea of black women using their assets to get ahead in life??? Wtf??? Black women have been getting objectified since the days of slavery and so have we so.....with that being said it's not our fault for your actions. 💯

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

@SouthEast Dusty Exactly well said 💯

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

@TurquoisePurpleSky Sky Lmfao wrong think before you speak how in tf were black males the first enslavers when they were slaves themselves you imbecile 🤦🏾‍♂️👌🏾😂 stick to what you know beast.

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

@TurquoisePurpleSky Sky Says the books, that were probably written by white men?? Just like that made up white jesus, and these pagan holidays???? And i can tell you don't read shit, lmfao. You didn't mention the Europeans?? Who had a big hand in the slave trade...what about the Roman empire??? They had black slaves as well. So please spare me your bs, because you aren't as, smart as you're lead on to believe. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

@Ricky Yeah, that's all fine and dandy but i never said it was the old days. Black women should take accountability for their own fuck ups and stop blaming black men.

[@sirlesterthetrollslayer6979]

@Ricky No i was talking about blk women and men getting objectified since the days of slavery. I didn't go into detail and honestly i could care less about your opinions so tread lightly when replying to me homie because we aren't friends or family and i said what i said and i meant it.

[@drsinister4274]

LMAO. One question. Who raised these men you speak off? FOH!

[@billmwika7428]

Exactly!

[@40III]

Exactly. Discussion over 😂

[@tazyboy28]

Single mothers. The black men who arent shyt usually come from single mothers. The black men who try their best but turn their back on BW come from a duo household but just give up because it isnt worth it.

[@benthomas8084]

Dr Sinister omg now im lmao Facts who raised yall capital FOH

[@user-vu7us9sw9i]

@@benthomas8084 Use punctuation... damn.

[@kaymarie.]

7:20 they claim they aren't bashing.. so when bm talk about bw they should understand this same.

[@Dwane383]

There is nothing better for a black man than a black women.

[@east00]

tell Lebron that and he'll bring up his black mother whos like the avg black chick that literally caused him money snd his career to be tainted.

[@DaBigHomie79]

THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE...WHEN BEING A SINGLE MOTHER GOES WRONG.. 4 BLACK WOMAN..AND AS USUAL...THEY ARE NEVER ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ROLE IN FAILED RELATIONSHIPS... LIL GIRLS # BLAME OTHERS FOR THEIR CHAOTIC LIVES... GROWN WOMEN #CLAIM THE DRAMA THEY'VE CAUSED IN THEIR LIVES YOU choose the dusty dude to have kids wit...YOU chose to follow your FEELINGS versus following your INSTINCTS... YOU choose to let the way yo MOMMA RAISED YOU ..affect your current relationships.. FYI ..CANT GET A #REAL MAN..WHEN ALL YALL LOOKIN FAKE...CANT LEAVE THE HOUSE WITHOUT YA COSTUME( MAKE UP) ON

[@LiterallyTho]

Smith Joe First of all women wear make up. Get over it. Most men don’t turn a women down because she has on make up, so that comment was weird. Second men CHOOSE the women they sleep with as well and then complain about actually having to pay for the child (child support). Save it.

[@jayluv34]

Amen brother

[@josephwyatt4661]

@@jayluv34, Black women always coming to Black men rescue. However, you never ever come to black women rescue. It's ashame this is why things will never change in the black community because black men have an long standing outlook that Black women is a commodity and can be dispose of at any given time. It is all about your self center ass. So done with you.

[@jayreal86]

Smith Joe exactly, couldn't have said it better bro!

[@TanyaMarie22]

I don’t 100% agree with what they’re saying. And I say this because it’s not to say black men aren’t enough, it’s because of the obstacles they face on a daily basis that we as women don’t always understand. If a man can’t provide, lead, or etc we automatically give up on them not knowing if they have potential. I’m in no way giving men a pass to bring less to the table, I’m saying we need to look at this full circle. By us not giving men a chance, it in turn makes women feel we have to go to a different race or become super independent never allowing men to be who they can potentially be. You never apply for a job being the best employee, time and consistent work makes you a better employee. So what’s the difference in men? Again, I’m not saying date a bum. I’m saying we all have to start some where and lowering our standards sometimes isn’t a bad thing because we may not be the woman a man is looking for as well. That’s all

[@JezzyChristakathrilla]

Tanya Rogers thank you for explaining and seeing both points of the spectrum!!💯💯💯

[@natajean10]

Tanya Rogers I can agree...However, when you give the brothers you are referring to a chance and they never rise to the occasion then bm will say you should have chosen better...

[@TanyaMarie22]

AllthingsNataJean and I agree, which is the reason why I said don’t settle for a bum but at least try to see the potential, that’s all 😊

[@guguemichaels]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 God bless you sister. If more black women thinks like you, we will build an unbreakable foundation for black families and black communities.

[@kikibrown9548]

Agreed, however you need to be very discerning when looking for that potential. I find that a lot of black women say this and end up with a man who refuses to have any goals beyond working at McDonalds. Then we end up having to work AND take care of the kids or other household needs. I’ve seen it over and over again in so many relationships. We need to choose a man that has goals, a realistic and reasonable plan to achieve those goals, a back up plan, and values that indicate family and commitment is important to him. At the same time, we as women need the qualities that a man like that is looking for.

[@rapper4orty2]

I have had a black women choose a drug dealer over me. Now she a single mother 🤦🏾‍♂️🤣✌🏾. I dodged that bullet. Ladies until ya'll pick the right men from the beginning ,this cycle will continue. You give birth to these men and the generation after this will be even worse.

[@TLJones-bq7wk]

Based on your comment, you admit there are alot of blk men that have criminal records, no professional careers, don't marry mothers of their children/deadbeat fathers. How are black women the blame for high % blk men doing poorly (esp compared to other races of men)??

[@mssan2016]

Well you didnt do a good job of selecting the right women. You missed all the red flags. You just saw a nice ass lm sure!

[@kay2633]

Yoshiyahu Yisrael do you have to be with a lame woman though? Stop asking women to settle for a man who has no personality qualities besides being “nice and available”. We want to be respected and cared for you a man who we personally are attracted to and respect. Just as men have that option with a plethora of dynamic, smart, beautiful to choose from.

[@rapper4orty2]

@@kay2633 No I think it's a culture difference. I'm Ghanaian where we have structure and blk Americans tends Not to. I know not all. I travel and was suppose to be in Germany before the Corona virus. Blk american women 🤔 I feel like is something seriously wrong with y'all. The self destruction is what y'all call love 😂🤣. I'm good ✌🏾

[@rapper4orty2]

@@mssan2016 I cant stop somebody doing what they going to do. I learned and dont date blk women from America ever again. I actually prefer women not from America no matter the race. They tend to not have wife qualities at all.

[@producer4real]

Wall hitters in the house.

[@jayluv34]

@human being There all pass the wall! Lately I've been looking at Lisaraye and trying to find her attractive and I can't. She aged like an old white lady. Pass the wall!

[@justonetime6179]

@@jayluv34 lol if they had praised black men, they’d be “queens” 😅

[@derrickmason7457]

The black community as a whole has to come together we’re so busy stepping on each other to make it. We downgrade each other don’t see this in other communities.. but I will say women dictate which man they let in we can only pursue can’t just blame a bad man for your relationship. He can only have 2 or 3 baby mammas if you let him

[@Carameldamour]

Preach brother Derrick!

[@ravendove6944]

Exactly!

[@Cahluvca]

Won't happen in big numbers because the culture is about individualism. One-sided conversation arent about solutions...thats by either gender

[@skinfanjay]

BINGO

[@Jerrel28]

Black community is gone man, I can only worry about myself not the collective. When you try to give our people facts on how to change their situation, they just get angry and shun you. Too much a hive-mindset.

[@bosslee9176]

Black women Love drug dealers and famous dudes then get ran through by them and talk down on blue collar Black Men that would of treated y’all right.😂😂

[@nakitapalmer656]

Boss Lee I remember me telling a couple of my homegirls that a blue collar MAN turned me on. They looked at me like I was a damn fool!! 😄😄 It just stemmed from where I always saw my daddy fixing things around the house. He didn't pay nobody to do shit for him. He just went out bought something new if needed. It's nothing better than a man knowing how to do everything from fixing plumbing, car and most of all U!!! 😄😄😄

[@bestreal4037]

Sounds like the storyline from a Tyler Perry film.

[@bosslee9176]

Best Real 😂🤣

[@ryanstrickland6304]

I agree with this... They base their opinion off bad relationships with men who were not ready.

[@dannybishop68]

Just reaffirms the least married group of women on earth

[@sammiesmith6690]

So true about them about being the least married group on the planet.

[@mudfoot3000]

Why ? Because most are not all are looking for a good GOD fearing man who wants to be a good role model for there children and people in there community they want a rich playboy. So you got what you was looking for! 🤐

[@chocolate2476]

Dan bish really so all you got is the least desired. But you black men got stats on ya selves all day. Never want to take accountability for anything, so it’s much easier to blame us and the government on why you can’t succeed in life and the so called black community that you tryna Change. News flash the black community has never been a black community because it’s mainly black men like you who screw it up because of pride and greediness. So I rather be the least desired than be the number one killer in America 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️. We black Women can change that stat by idk about you black men cause that’s all you know how to do unfortunately

[@dannybishop68]

@@chocolate2476 If it don't apply let it fly. Obviously you are one of those black women. Not all black women would take offense to that comment . I go by stats. Stats show you are the least married group. It shows in your attitude . I don't need to defend other black men because I know there are good black men and POS black men .

[@chocolate2476]

Dan bish there are no good black men. If there was you would speak out and not hide like a cowards. Call me what you want I’ve heard it all before. You ain’t the first and will not be he last. I just hope and pray that your daughters don’t have ptsd when they deal with black men!!

[@fallingup2018]

i wish we could see the entire exchange at once. these vlad tv snippets suck lol

[@claudiajordanreal]

GO TO WWW.FOXSOUL.TV FOR THE WHOLE CONVO!

[@authentic76]

It’s always someone else’s fault. There’s no personal responsibility or accountability for your actions as an adult. Foh

[@doublepromo8240]

Not ONCE did any of these women accept accountability for their actions. They justify everything they do and still blame black men for everything.

[@richardhorton4664]

My first reaction is, why would ANY man want to be involved with a woman that wants to talk and dominate the conversation as much as Syleena. Secondly, bw need to be accountable for their failures. I’m really tired of the “rescue me” mentality of so many of you.

[@CoachWhite1975]

That’s a beta man reaction ! My queen is strong minded that speak up/ her mind but know when step down/ fall back when it’s time. Trust me if SJ man is doing what he supposed to do in their relationship she will fall back.

[@richardhorton4664]

@@CoachWhite1975 Respectfully, lol, no one wants to silence the voices of women. The issue is that they don't get to drone on and on forever about how they feel as opposed to facts and reality. I'm not going to name call, but I completely disagree with your position.

[@CoachWhite1975]

Richard Horton she’s expressing her opinion on this topic. If you’re doing a podcast and somebody asked you a question about a topic are going to talk about that subject or something else. If you talk about a something else you won’t have a show. Be fair ! I appreciate the respect tho king 👑✊🏾✊🏾

[@richardhorton4664]

@@CoachWhite1975 She talked too much and did not let the others in - in the same way that bw communicate when they are talking with their men. That's my issue with her.

[@jruger5601]

So according to them the only mistake they make is lowering their expectations wow. Gentlemen this is going to get a lot worse before gets better

[@vwood5118]

As a black woman we need to really look inside what a black man is going through he went from lynching to Jim Crow to mass incarceration and now being shot down in the street by cops I believe all our brothers need hugs kisses and just being there for them. we need love too, however I think if we love them right they will come back to us. We just need to understand each other's struggles.

[@pelicanfanNea]

Black women went through the same thing rape from black men killed from black men and more no need to keep babysitting them they don't give af about black women

[@therealboi3454]

@@pelicanfanNea yes we do, we need to help our people both are going through shit

[@timhoward5]

*Isn't black women grown adults who are supposed to take responsibility for their own self? When is that ever going to happen?*

[@timhoward5]

@11STARFIRE They suppose to take all responsibility, which involves them, for themselves. That's the other way around, sweetie. Black American Men issues are Black American Women. Ask all the Black American Women who were married or involved with rich celebrity Black Men how their wealth increase because of Black American Men. Almost all the time a Black American Men pockets are emptied out for Black American Women. Black American Women receive protection from Black America Men leaving them jailed, killed, and wounded.

[@NBnNC]

U can’t be lead by ANY man who has No Direction😳

[@postmodernprophet9285]

A man can only lead if you allow him to

[@kennetthmitchell6226]

How do you know he has no direction if you refuse to follow ?

[@EH-ik6rd]

NB in DC a man can only lead if he learns it through being given an example or by trial and error, currently one option has been taken away from them by over 80% so ironically they are being taught how to be a man by the same people that are complaining about it

[@NBnNC]

kennetth mitchell ......well, if he is taking himself in the right direction to right places among the right people - I will fall in line

[@Execution88]

40-50 year old women here helping to keep women single like they are. Smh

[@anonymousmusician1368]

I feel like just because of the certain way you were raised you can NOT determine... All this just from your personal experience...everyone was raised differently... When your a single mother you have to do things differently..it's not fair to blame the mother solely or the black guys solely...we ALL play apart....we just need to differentiate the good from the bad...the love from the lust the real from the fake... All the other can not be justified WE need to OWN UP ...I, Me..not always U,Them

[@ajsuave688]

it ain’t a woman’s job to raise a man

[@imasaywhatneedtobesaid3715]

i can damn near taste the bitterness...ew

[@unapologeticallyme2060]

The only one bitter here is you

[@lesriley2062]

maybe change your diet...

[@FlexNFly]

Man I'm loving hearing from these Queens!

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

These ain't queens. They weak. Just blaming men for their mistakes

[@sharondabutler3143]

Syleena is speaking truth! Myself and my sisters were raised to be strong and at times it's a gift and other times a curse

[@basedshogun_8048]

When speaking on what black men think, you should have a black man up there for perspective. Women make up a lot of narratives and ion like dat

[@ironkong26]

these chicks how old and still failing and blaming men?...at which point is it you?

[@rohall5060]

Hmm🤔

[@keishanance5960]

Yes...popular narrative...talk about their age to deflect.

[@biblethumper8088]

So when she said bw wouldn't be up in the screen degrading themselves if bm weren't encouraging it @ 6:00, that wasn't true? So men don't lead the behavior of their women?

[@keishanance5960]

@Walter Brown how do you know she wasnt submitting ? Could her marrying him have been a business move🤔

[@keishanance5960]

@Walter Brown dude i was engaged to an Arab but circumstances changed and it did not come to pass. Things happen and sometimes people just don't work out.

[@sincerre4real541]

I'm just here because of Corey Holcomb and he wasn't lying. 50+ and still saying Ni66@# ain't sh!t smh. That chick Syleena has a new man and still bashing men smh. Wow.

[@newjustice1]

That's some simp she settle with.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

Just dont have babies out of wedlock. Thats a woman issue

[@vickiharmon7388]

It takes 2 sets of DNA to make a baby therefore, its the responsibility of the man too. Unless she went to the sperm bank or used a turkey baster, that woman did not get herself pregnant.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

@@vickiharmon7388 last time I checked women have 100% control of who they want to give birth to. There's 24 hr pill, 48 hr pill, abortion, adoption, etc. Blaming men for out of wedlock pregnancies is weak.

[@KevonnieElaine]

@@PCSPITTER4NY so men have no responsibilities when it comes to unprotected sex? Why is it all on the woman?

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

@@sacredplace2526 the whole point of this video was defelection. Victimhood and blaming others for your own personal choices. Nobody in america can force a women to give birth or have an abortion. Her body, her choice, but everybodies responsibility is what I'm getting. Grow up.

[@mindyourbusiness4369]

Us Black Men are not failing our beautiful, smart, confident Black Women. Black women need to stop absorbing negative advice about black men from other hurt, wounded, bitter, frustrated single black women. Also, some black women need to take full sexually and spiritual accountability with the men they choose to have sex with.. Stop being the victim, instead start having the victory..

[@mindyourbusiness4369]

Red Sunshine Heal from your pain. Learn from your experiences and move forward. Every body has a sad story...

[@har_monique]

👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾

[@Alwaysbelieve619]

It goes both ways if we’re keeping it real. A lot of black men knowingly get Women pregnant and end up bailing when it gets difficult. We need to call both sides out.

[@androssteague]

I can't believe I made it through this whole video without developing an aneurysm. When they in their 20s and 30s it's "I don't need a man I can do bad all by myself." 40s and 50s now men need to step up and do better and be their protectors. Sorry ladies you can't push us away and then expect us to be what you need when the time suits you. We didn't fail you. You pushed us away and weren't willing to relinquish your guard.

[@chrisj8662]

Exactly. Hell I remember Claudia saying specifically on a podcast "she WANTS a man but she doesn't NEED a man". It was on the unstable'd podcast like two years ago. Smh.

[@islamwayy]

Exactly

[@Shay1147]

Stop generalizing black men. What kind of men are these women around?

[@robertroberts9782]

Close your legs..end of discussion .

[@derrickmason7457]

robert roberts very true I always tell these sistas you control what man gets in and your standards we can only pursue them

[@LiterallyTho]

robert roberts Keep it in your pants

[@LiterallyTho]

Derrick Mason You choose the women you pursue. Stop it.

[@malcolmxparis7158]

Is that a question these Black women should be asking Black Men or asking their Black Male Sons who they are Raising to be "Failures". If Black women want better Black Men and claim to know What KIND of Things Make Black Man a "Success" - Why aint No Black Women raising any of the KINDS Black Men They Claim TO Want? The answer is obvious Black Women raise SONS who act JUST LIKE THEM."Failures" who blame all their problems in life on somebody else.

[@thunderhamilton1]

These are the type of women that thing they don't need a man to help raise a son

[@thunderhamilton1]

@B Kandy please explain what excessive responsibility is. You still choose to keep the child or not.

[@thunderhamilton1]

@B Kandy most women are insecure can't take responsibility for any action they take and are entitled to everything alsomisandrist and use men for capital gain via exploitation of their own body and blaming men for them doing it ...not all women of course.

[@thunderhamilton1]

@B Kandy I didn't say men didn't have a choice I was simply pointing out women side of not making sure the guy they are fucking has protection on, taking birth control and etc women fought for control over their bodies what's point of fighting for that yet you don't want to be held responsible for it along with your actions in making the baby?Do you legit think taking responsibility for creating a child "excessive". I'm getting onto you because you thought it was cool to had such a dumbass generalization that was unnecessary to your point so it made sense to respond the same.

[@thunderhamilton1]

@B Kandy you just admitted that there such a thing as shitty women but you had to add the "but" to it as if anyone is saying men aren't infallible or men don't know they can get a woman pregnant but you had you to put this argument out whenever men dare criticize women because it's just a scapegoat for you not hold women fully accountable for there actions. "Men need to stop complaining and be men" You legit just gonna say that without any justification of wtf you mean by this? Are men not allowed to express how they feel about the fuck shit women do ? Are women only group allowed to go on national TV and talk shit on men?

[@DJBomBay1996]

The whole " Independent, I dont need a man for shit, Black men aint shit" has taught Black Women not to value, trust or even learn how to coincide with their Black Men. And it has subconsciously made Black resent, not trust nor value Black Women in return. It's over for black love.

[@babsjob8729]

@Mensoweak 1 I guess you didn't really learn history well.

[@Rando-hg7uu]

@Mensoweak 1 “sub human”😂

[@gocpng4699]

Corey Holcomb Talked About This On His 5150 Show.

[@nweeezy]

and he and Zo(especially) were spot on

[@bobbyv2042]

What’s the headline i can’t find it .. he keeps it all the way 100

[@gocpng4699]

@@nweeezy Oh You Peeped It Ha

[@gocpng4699]

@@bobbyv2042 Oh..It's About 3 5150s Back On KZbin I Think April 21st Or So

[@badddd]

@@gocpng4699 is Trina there??

[@biggerthanhiphop7641]

Funny how all these women had successful black men in there life that took care of them and protected them at one point .. seem they forgot

[@tykeriawoods3501]

Rw sports online debate and how would you know that you are on the outside looking in and by taking care of them you mean money ?? money doesnt feed your soul or does it make feel any better about your self grow up

[@austingraphics]

A panel about black men with no input from black men. typical

[@Blackdove0421]

Every race traffic their women don't just put it on Black men!

[@ahraya2713]

Men have expectations as well and they have a right to choose what the like. If you haven't been chosen you probably are not what high value men are looking for anymore.

[@cjzanders5430]

I can’t relate to any of these women. They don’t amount to type of women and femininity I’m accustomed to. Just their voice alone I couldn’t live with.

[@RH-wr7nd]

I feel your pain.

[@teebone2157]

they are women so its expected you cant relate lol thats the problem with many of us. The majority dont even try to udnerstand them because of ego.

[@cjzanders5430]

teebone 21 - i can relate to feminine women of other races. Has nothing to do with gender.

[@RH-wr7nd]

@@teebone2157 Amen Amen, Say it again! Try to understand WHY they feel a certain way instead of just judging. Kudos to you.

[@cjzanders5430]

R H - I didn’t judge anyone. I don’t have to care about why they feel that way. They don’t care about how I feel.

[@shelbyvan]

Meanwhile vivica had her body done and her face can barely move.

[@shelbyvan]

Miss Monet what are you talking about?

[@shelbyvan]

Miss Monet I’d you think i have had work done you couldn’t be more wrong. No wig, no weave, nails or surgery. The point is Vivica can’t talk shyt about the kardashians. She had her body and face done.

[@lakeview3838]

shelby

[@Princetonlove34]

@@shelbyvan she talking about how goofy their body shapes look and she can cause her body doesn't look like theirs

[@jayluv34]

😂😅Her face is tight! And too much makeup! Who she think she fooling? Damn near 60!

[@littlearkansas]

I don't understand bc at the end of the day, you got to love yourself. Can't no man do that for you!!!!

[@kingjames9875]

And men have to learn that a woman can’t do that either and we really can do without them

[@KOOLCOMEDY]

All these Women are 43-55yrs old. Every Woman 30+ has encountered multiple good Men. They either capitalized or dropped the ball. They will see change when they become accountable.

[@keithkelson726]

But if you tell women to capitalize on their youth and beauty and get a husband when they're YOUNG--you'll be called a misogynist a backwards caveman and all kinds of names. You don't close the barn door AFTER the horses have run off and you don't start "looking for a husband" after your SMV is heading in the wrong direction. It's like a man waiting until he's in his 50's to play professional basketball. How long would he last on the court against players in their physical prime? Not long

[@deseanthemonkey4584]

Corey holcomb brought me here enough said

[@antwanyoumans3412]

Can you send me the link to his video please??? I wanna hear his take on this bs😂😂😂😂

[@antwanyoumans3412]

@Big Wig thanks bro

[@sturmbreakers7817]

Why are black women confusing black men with white man. Last I check we were on the plantation 🌱 together and men are still on the plantation.

[@Carameldamour]

Lol we are all still on it judging by these comments ugh

[@bobbybrown2873]

Syleena has man-fobic problem!

[@ravendove6944]

Exactly!

[@sauceman7092]

They dont view it that way most of them like getting help from the govvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvment❗❗❗

[@wm8673]

Right!!!!

[@donrich3927]

0 accountability. Said they weren't bashing and done nothing but bashed.

[@ChannelOfKool]

Lmao it's Our fault. Everything is our fault. You made the choice to show your bodies. You're showing your bodies now. Ain't nobody place y'all in no predicament. Y'all followed Feminism ideologies and now we have to take accountability for y'all's failures? 1 of y'all had the PRINCE OF ZAMUNDA and that relationship failed. Vivica dated a rapping thug...Now we are to pick up the pieces? Let's not start on Claudia. This is our fault? Please if y'all don't get y'all's life...

[@prizmgeo]

Channel Of Kool 🤣🤣🤣

[@neeuqamilam1170]

@Channel if Kool 😁🤣😂 That part!

[@tazyboy28]

Exactly. Its everyone's fault but their own. Never take accountability for their actions. And their are black men who cater to this mindset and will back them like "you're right queen". This is very dangerous. You dont see men saying because its easy to get thots its not our fault that we became players. Hell no the only rhetoric black men say is they went from being the nice guy to being the player because when they treated women with respect and love and admiration they were played way too many times to count so they had to change their behavior to the player role just to get a woman to look his way or even be intimate with him.

[@ChannelOfKool]

@@tazyboy28 exactly, no real man is falling for that ish. Pump N Dump and roll out is all their good for. If you want to take that risk

[@itsallgoodz1]

Black women can find babydaddies but can't find husbands

[@menaretheprize2673]

That’s all they’re good for like literally

[@rang3r34]

Why should we uplift women who only uplift BM with criminal records????

[@massagemodality366]

And black men making more than lack woman. Don't leave that out. Do your research..

[@har_monique]

massage modality 😱😱😱 wow

[@LarryBonson]

These women lack self awareness, lack critical thinking, most importantly lack accountability. So when they try to be philosophical it comes off as a parody.

[@wrightbrostxbbq1]

Zero accountability from the ladies

[@lindajones4080]

All my exes was very good men but just wasn't wasn't for me. Now my husband found me. Let me repeat this. My husband found me. I am so independent but I had to realize it's cool to allow a man to be a man. It's ok to let my man to take responsibility and for me to still be independent. That was so hard to learn.

[@jparker19822009]

LINDA JONES You have to be a good woman first to find a good man

[@keiranmorrisart]

Why was it hard to learn? And why did you have to realize it's cool to allow a man to be a man? What was going through your mind

[@jparker19822009]

LINDA JONES that’s great most people never get the lessons in life even with people telling them what it is

[@watchitanyway7889]

People treat you a certain way because you allow it.

[@aplusdiva7006]

So, are you telling me a child is mistreated because they allowed it? Come on, where's the sense in your statement?

[@watchitanyway7889]

@@aplusdiva7006 i was talking about grown women mam not kids

[@aplusdiva7006]

@Big Wig Not true, you as a person cannot control how people treat you. What you can do is leave people alone or educate them. Children have no say in the way people treat them. The elderly sometimes are scared to speak up especially if it's their children mistreating them. The disabled which is 55 million Americans barely have a say in their treatment. Sometimes you have to think deeper.

[@aplusdiva7006]

@Big Wig ok, maybe you just want to be heard. Just as I replied to the original post it's impossible in various circumstances. Do you work? When your boss/ superior ask you to do something but you think it's wrong what do you do?

[@garymorris9780]

I can't lie we as black men need to do better for our black woman it's hard for a B.M to be a B.M in today's time some how B.M an B.W just came apart

[@jj47k.]

Feminism

[@higherheights3105]

@Jay mice 😂😂

[@carmillastephens9497]

@@jj47k. feminism isn't to blame... You need to accept the fact you don't like Black Women and feel that women should be servents to men. No opinions, no values just shut and do as you're told 🙄 FOH with that bs

[@user-jo4qc8ky3u]

C'mon women let's take responsibility...I try to watch us women talk shows...but the distraction is always ALL WOMEN trying to show off portions of their bodies...please always look in the mirror first...I have noticed that as Black Women it's as if we don't know how to be a lady, soft, sexy, wife, girlfriend, mother, sister or daughter without coming off argumentive, too sassy...let's just be ladies...and wives!...mothers teach your daughters to be soft ladies...

[@tazyboy28]

You can't say this because women are trying to overcome that soft timid nature they are known for so they won't be seen as pushovers and in the same sense them being affirmative is seen as hard to work with and difficult. Its a conundrum. Women want equality and you dont get that just by simply lying down and being calm and cool.

[@DJBorellis]

So the mixed girl speaks for blk women.. Ok cool.

[@b3dynamics90]

"We demand their greatness". I've always like Syleena Johnson but I LOVE this woman now. Extremely well said.

[@b3dynamics90]

@human being I dont disagree with your statement (in a vacuum, anyway). But the black women in MY life have been great. My wife, mother, sister, grandmother, my daughter, some of my best friends, ( PHd's, Corporate execs, teachers, activists, family women/wives, a lawyer, one survived adversity that this generation cant imagine etc. etc.). And they love[d] me/"us" to death. And they have every right to demand my greatness and I am much obliged to stepping up to honor them and those that came before me as well as those who will come after. So the comment resonates with me personally based on MY experiences with black women and perspective.

[@pauljohnson936]

The question they need to ask Are Black Women failing themselves through their delusions of grandeur?

[@Kinthenarcslayer]

You play the game in finding the mate with the most resources and lose... Now playing victim cause you lost in the games you were playing... Thats not black men's fault. That sound like a you problem and the lack of good decision making.

[@mystapaul]

the issue now a days wives are competing with the husbands...no man want to compete with anything he see as delicate. Dont care how any woman thinks that we over exaggerating the fact that we as black men have it way harder than any other man on this earth then come home after fighting with life then get home to fight over dominance with our woman.

[@SimplyGetPaid]

- AS A PERSON WHO GREW UP IN THE 80’s, I REMEMBER A TIME WHEN BIG BOOTIES WERE MOSTLY ONLY ADORED BY BLK MEN AND JUST A ‘FEW’ OTHER ETHNIC GROUPS. IN EARLY RAP LYRICS (80’s), THERE WERE ALWAYS REFERENCES TO ‘FULLER SHAPED’ BEHINDS. - OUR SOCIETY HOWEVER, NEVER WANTS BLACKS TO BE THE IMAGE OR THE ‘PRIMARY EXAMPLE’ OF HOW YOU ASSOCIATE BEAUTY... - SO, THEY’VE WAITED FOR FIGURES LIKE J-Lo (who was with P-Soddy at the time, 2003?) AND KIM (who was with Ray-J at the time, 2007?) TO FINALLY ACCEPT THIS IMAGE SO THAT SOCIETY IS UNDER THE IMPRESSION THAT THESE FEATURES ARE ASSOCIATED WITH ‘WHT’ WOMEN... ...see the connection now??

[@ClowneryAtItsFinest]

Syleena didn't lie when she said our mothers and Grandmas stayed too long and took too much! They should have been popped shit off. I still see this in 2020.

[@olandofuller5588]

@Big Wig well put. I always said black women will be the destruction of us. If they have 1 up give that to God and ask him to restore your man or men in general. But for you to take that 1 up and bash him when you know white society wants him dead you just sided with the oppressor.

[@Commune-n-tea]

@Big Wig no black woman will ride for you. If a black woman rides with a KANG she must be crazy.

[@Commune-n-tea]

@Big Wig lol you'll see.

[@Commune-n-tea]

@Big Wig And? Where are they now??? *EXACTLY* LMAO Go to sleep!

[@TheOlmonroe1]

4:50 You want us to bring back the adoration of black women? Give us something to adore. 5:45 A better job of nurturing you? Then be nurturers yourselves. Dont expect BM to do all if this and all you give him is a pile of 💩 to deal with.

[@carmillastephens9497]

Damn you sound bitter... There's plenty to adore BUT with the lack of respect that a lot of y'all have towards black women that somehow got instilled in you, you automatically don't think black women deserves to be adored. Nurturing is natural to B. W

[@TheOlmonroe1]

@@carmillastephens9497 Bitter? Nah not me. This is not towards all black women. There are some who are rude, disrespectful, condescending, etc. Those are the ones I'm referring to. I respect those who are worthy of respect. I'm sure you feel the same way about some men.

[@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor]

Did black men tell women to choose the gov't as their husbands and dad's? black men were told we aren't needed and weren't allowed in the home. our boys are told to be the man of the house at 7 when mom chose the wrong one. black men are told to get a job or join the military, women are encouraged to get a degree and a career. Our absence or lack of support has nothing to do with women using their body to get ahead.

[@ScaryToRemarry]

Cornelius Small preach brother!

[@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor]

Red Sunshine nothing close to Soto, I love black women, happily married to a black woman for almost 16 yrs been building 20. and if something were to happen to her it will only be a black Queen I would seek. There are different levels of Govt assistance and some of those men were in the home illegally. I grew up around the system. I have aunts cousins in the system I’m a realtor and landlord with homes on Govt housing where tenants are kicked out if they find out a man has moved in. Most of my clients are women. I believe in self accountability. I have corporate clients who are well educated, career driven but the crap they choose to date or father their kids can’t even hold an adult conversation. I’ve had clients switch guys during the buying process around their kids and making decisions. I’ve had tenants hide men and others excuse they’re fiancé not working. I know women who make most of the money and deal with financial abuse and choose to stay. I had a client making 90k her spouse and baby daddy couldn’t put their salaries together to make half hers. My mom has 10 sisters and 4 are happily married and 2 later in life. I’ve seen the evil that men do and the 💩 women take. I could write a book but most would hate and lump me in with the sotos of the world because truth hurts.

[@Alwaysbelieve619]

Bro there’s never an excuse to be absent to your family. Stop with the excuse and lead. If you can handle it to, don’t be with a woman. Simple as that.

[@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor]

Richard Ingram I’m not sure if this was directed at me. I never gave excuses for anyone to be absent. There is systemic motivation on one side but blame on both sides. Like men not doing everything they need to do to be a better version of themselves for their families. I also see women not protecting themselves when they know he is no good and still let him in and destroy their lives and left holding the bag. I’m a family man. I’m supportive of my black spouses career, we’re a team, I’m at pta meetings, career day, field day. I cut grass and clean house, the teachers call me about assignments and sickness. I volunteer at a summer camp and feed the homeless youth. I can’t stand men that don’t show up when they can. I’m the cousin who bought school clothes and x-mas when the dad was locked up. I’m the uncle that shows up to plays awards day when deadbeats are out of sight out of mind. I’m a member of BrothersUnitedATL our mission is brotherhood and challenging black men to be there for their families and community. I’m at daddy daughter dance, we do couples nights, donate, time, toys, clothes and school supplies for the youth, school mentoring and partnering with big brother big sister of ATL, My favorite charities support women like loveyuna.org and reach4yourdreamz.org Please go donate to these amazing women’s organizations. I will never leave my sisters but I will give love, honest perspective and guidance when emotional or what feels good now decisions don’t make sense.