Are Boys And Girls Equal ? | Kya Ladka Ladki Barabar Hain

[@chiragchawla9650]

Ye hai asli mard ! You are very wise, give a balanced perspective, can think beyond the usual social conditioning, are a great observer, and are bringing about topics in discussion that most people would not even want to think about forget having the courage to talk about and take a stand for... I usually don't say this but, this is for you guruji - Charan sparsh...

[@avinashdevadiga9236]

You are blessing to humanity.. Honestly you are the true teacher we all need. Thing is elders should understand what you are teaching.

[@nishapillai891]

My sister always used to say that parents are most over rated and selfish people on the earth.... they give everything n do everything when we are child...but when it's comes to marriage they put all that long list in front of children and break them emotionally...,and take that most important decision in their hand...

[@Hetal28]

Many parents in our country are like that, but thankfully it’s changing

[@rounakmondal5839]

I don't know whether you're married or not but what conditions you faced when it comes to your marriage

[@himanshugurjar2492]

What decisions...? Zara explain kro

[@anirbanghosh1670]

When a girl marry her surname, her family culture all dies with it. Girls aren't baby producing machine. But I have seen there is no way that legacy of girl's family is carried on. Also in case of inter linguistic community, and in interfaith marriage, women's religion, native tongue nothing is passed on to next generation. That's why everyone is crazy to have boy child.

[@pulkitsain8928]

Hi Nisha,same thing was also told me

[@ashuk7670]

Mindblowing video sir... Finally someone has the courage to address these sensitive issues of society .. Hopefully this video may contribute to improve the condition of girls

[@arunimalamba8103]

I simply don't understand why Indian parents want to spend a fortune on the girls wedding instead of spending just on basics and giving her the reminder as security for a lifetime And yes the final aim is ALWAYS TO MARRY OFF THE GIRLS instead of making her self reliant

[@rohinidhanwade1874]

Awesome Sir.. I am that girl who does not want share in father's property as he doesn't have much.. also I have this feeling that he already gave us too much.. by giving us equal education with our brothers.. MAG..

[@madhupuri6575]

Very true

[@Lolhahahaqwrry]

It is for people whose parents actually have money and give only to sons.

[@priyankabeheraofficial]

As a girl I know our indian parants don't want to give anything to us. But always says we love you most and give everything to the brother saying Everything is for your brother.

[@ShyamS-sx7xt]

as per your assumption and experience, can i say u will do the same in the case of your daughter?

[@vandanapahuja4231]

हमारे साथ उल्टा हुआ है। जीवन भर सहा हमने, भुगता हमनें। सोना बेटियों ने समेट लिया सारा। भाई से मदद भी खूब लेती रहीं। जायदाद में हिस्सा से ज्यादा खर्च कर चुके। विश्वास करके मकान अपने नाम नहीँ कराया। अब पीछे से हिस्से के लिए कोर्ट केस करके बैठी हैं।

[@rahultriveditrivedi5451]

dont you get it from your sasural ? you want from both sides ? lol

[@Amanrathore23]

​@@rahultriveditrivedi5451sasural Wale kaun si property dete hai

[@AM-nx2iw]

​@@rahultriveditrivedi5451sasural ki property kitni Bahu ke nam hoti hain😂

[@alekhmittal6110]

with due respect, I have question sir. why everyone always talks about right of girls but never talks about their responsibilities? I have seen in my family when I was called by my bua's for making payment in hospitals for her own mother? why it is always responsibility of soon to look after parents? why just divide the rights equally not responsibilities ?

[@bhartivn8129]

Yes when rights are equal responsibilities should also be equal …people should talk about this ! And this relates to brothers as well as sisters

[@wowser2153]

Because parents give son some job oriented education or family business. Daughters are married off and don’t have income

[@PS-oy1el]

U r a fattu man. Better take Sanyas ,live alone n start making food for urself ,clean ur living place n wash ur own clothes. These will b much less responsibilities than women of a house as u will b doing these things just for urself n nobody else. N chill.

[@LoveYourself-my9nz]

Kyunki ldkiyo ko ung responsibility layk bnaya hi nhi jata h parents k dwara. Pehle jb hak doge tbhi to smaaj mai change aayega or jb hak milega or vo phir responsibility k layk bhi bnegi. Aap ye umeed nhi kr skte ki Haan pehle responsibility phir hak kyunki ldko ko hak diya gya h unka tbhi responsibility bhi unke upr h. Or sirf pdhane se kuchh nhi hota mentally bhi ldkiyo ko bahut dependent, drpok bnaya jata h taki vo kbhi khud se koi decision le hi na ske or jb ye nhi hoga to bina hak k responsibility dena to misuse krna hota h. Or ldkiyo k upr responsibility totally hoti h except finical maximum responsibility ki umeede ldkiyo se hi hoti h. Ki vo apne future, career, psnd ko sacrifice krde or pehle maa baap bhai ki kre or baad mai in-laws ki. Aap thoda unbiased hokr socho. Ldkiya isliye help nhi kr pati h apne family ki kyunki unhe use husband or in-laws dwara control kiya jata h ki ab to tu heart nokrani h yhan kr. Aapko pehle kisi insaan ko independent bnana pdta h not just financially but also mentally, emotionally jo bahut sari ldkiyo ko nhi bnaya jata.

[@sangeetaagrawal8871]

​​​@@LoveYourself-my9nzv well said.. matlab ye ho gaya h, ki ldki ko bura bhala kehke, guilt me rakh ke("tu thodi inki sewa karegi", chahe fir wo khud ma baap se sara din ladta ho), kaise bhi karke ldki ko bhagao aur khud kundali maar ke baith jao.. ab lagta h desh ko aur 100 saal lagenge iss tarah ki social empowerment me jaha bina betiyo ke maange he uska haq milega aur nahi toh wo joote lagayengi aise bhaiyo ke..

[@suravibehera2246]

MAG!!!!! Maza aa gaya Sir.. Very true... Log ladka ladki barabar bolte jarur hai par barabar ka haq nahi dete.. Society is hypocritical for both genders.. Hope people will stop pretending to be an equalist ...

[@pritikagulati1160]

Thank you Sir. When we have these conversations within our families, we are termed 'too much', aggressive, 'churail' etc... Wise तो हम को कभी नहीं bola गया.... Thank you for validating our wisdom. By 'our' I mean so many of my friends and me who are now at a stage where property division has to happen....

[@CHANDNII1111]

Yeah, they always tell apne bhaiyo k bare M nhi sochti ldkiya Kya Kya nhi krti apne bhaiyo k liye . Thda sa bhi boldo ki aisa hona chaiye the moment we say this parents ko sanp sungh jata h.

[@ravindranmg9135]

Property sharing between children on 50-50 basis is an eye opener which needs to be followed by everyone, thank you the wonderful perspective 🙏🙏🙏 Amit Ji, I salute you for your videos which gives new perspectives for life. I can't understand Hindi, sorry for that. I am 60 years old and from south india, Bengaluru Karnataka. I only wish that your videos were in English which will reach for many people like me, thanks a lot 🙏🙏🙏

[@sanjaykumarsharma6811]

Only relevant creator on KZbin to whom I can relate my personal life with. Jai ho.

[@adityakhatwa8555]

Uncle is a natural Actor BTW. 🤣 "KON SEVA KAREGA"

[@Urja_754]

मैंने बिना दहेज के शादी की और पहली प्रॉपर्टी भी पत्नी के नाम खरीदी जो कहना है हम पहले खुद पर लागू करे

[@Gamer-z1e]

Ase devta purush konsi factory m bntey h ji Dharti pr🙏🏻

[@shreyapatil9827]

Hello respected sir🙏 In September, I lost my father due to COVID I am 20 year old female student and I have a 10 year old sister, my mother as well as I are under tremendous stress as we lost the only man of our family.. She is worried for debt of medical loans, her children society, her health, fear of loneliness in the old age, difficulties being faced by a wife without a husband's; support and all the future issues.. I, myself am very disturbed as to how should I independently handle this society and work without a father's shelter, how should I safeguard and build my younger sister's future... PLEASE make a guidance video on this situation... Many ladies face this dark phase of losing the man of the house and not having a son as well It's my humble request to shed light on this issue and express your valuable guidance THANKYOU 🙏🌼🌼

[@himanshugurjar2492]

You're on the track of struggle... Keep hustling, I know it's not gonna too easy as pretending, it'll definitely take some time but your hardwork will break all the barriers. Ye din bhi gujar jayenge... One day there'll be lustrine on your face, remembering this tough time 💙

[@dariovariodinx]

I am so sorry

[@vinayakpatil355]

This phase shall pass. Hold your head high and tread your trail. Success will be all yours.

[@User25896]

Thank you for sharing your story. I think you’re a mature,strong and sensible girl already. Yes life is difficult at the moment for you. But this too shall pass and you will emerge stronger for it. Always remember your father is watching and guiding you and family. You have his blessings always. Study and work hard and also take time out to enjoy the little and big joys of life. Stay ever blessed ❤stay strong ❤keep smiling 😊

[@yogeshdevaraj639]

Dont handle society. Handle yourself, ur studies and ur career. Other things will handle on their own

[@alecvaibhhav7718]

Great perspective sir, no sugar coating just plain facts.

[@shrutishukla8190]

U r Really showing mirror to the society. Par log tab bhi nhi sudhren ge. Well said sir.

[@sanjay76384]

पहली बार कोई आप जैसा कोई मिला जिसके मेरे विचार हु ब हु मिलते है गुरु जी ,,,ऐसे ही लगे रहिये बहुत अच्छा सादर नमस्कार

[@anitadiwan7188]

I have started watching your videos recently.Aap bahut suljhe hue insaan hain.aapki baton se main relate kar paati hun .after my husband's death 2 years ago,I am living alone.neighbours say go and live with them(son).I want to live by myself.i visit them whenever I feel like.I want them to live their life.but relatives don't like this.they don't understand that I have wonderful equation with my daughter in law.I don't take money from them,but they bear all cost when we go on vacations.I am happy they are happy.in fact my daughter in law respects me a lot.she says mummiji toh bahut smart hain,she can manage on her own,unlike my mother who is dependent on my brother for every small things . I take extra care of my health.have kept my house and other assets.i am very open about my finance.apne bachchon se kya chhipana.you have to learn to trust your children.unlike earlier generation who did not trust anyone.

[@_13456]

I wish to have a mother in law like you😊

[@rajprsh]

I liked the parts where you advise everyone to treat son/ daughter(s) alike. I have daughters. And I feel they should live their life the way they want. We would always be there to support them come what may. I have two elder sisters too. Our eldest sister is not well to do and its painful to see that. we are ok for her to have lions share in what our parents have to offer. Quite hilarious but true that we should not expect kids for sewa. They already have too much in their life.

[@ashwinisiddhartha6171]

I am grateful to you for your excellent information ❤

[@urvashi2717]

Aapke sabhi videos ki jo bate h ..vo mere or mere husband ki soch s kafi milti h... Subscribe kr diya

[@adrijsharma8404]

Your words are blessings! Thank you for the wisdom!

[@MrRrbhardwaj]

Waah ji waah, Great thought, Absolutely need to follow this rule 👍

[@ashwinisiddhartha6171]

Again eye opening information ❤

[@vipulbhatia3562]

Your’s perspective matches alot to mine👍🏻

[@Urtravelcompanion]

Rona aa gaya ye video dekh ! India / World needs men like you in every home ! You are something else Sir!

[@saavimalik7209]

Yah baat Sahi hai chahe koi Mane ya Na Mane ladkiyon ka koi Ghar nahin hota vah Puri life insecure hi rahti hai agar ladki property bhi mang lena to Bhai bolenge baat nahi bana koi aapko bulaega nahin koi aapko puchega nahin kahane Ko sab Apne Hain per apna koi nahin individual life hi nahin padati hai always

[@ajaykumar-banker]

Extremely progressive and practical take on sons and daughter's. Can we as a society be more fair between them? When will we drop the ineqity of patriarcal mindset and give girls equal share in property, general treatment so that they can be more confident & secure. A societal reform long overdue.. Let's begin today.

[@rashmisingh5723]

My parents.... Unhone kaha hi nahi kiya aur mana bhi.. Meri shadi ke 7 years ho rahen... In every situation wo humesha sath rahte hain papa bolte hain mera sher hai😄equal respect, share sab kuch diya hai.... I m blessed enough...sari betiyon ko mere jaise ma-baap milen...

[@archanaverma9976]

Very touching line,haath se chhodkar jane me jo sukh h,chhoot jane me nahi ,so true.Every video of yours gives a new perspective of life, awakening content.👍

[@deepshikhasingh5978]

Its been 1 month , i found ur channel, since then everyday ur videos elevating my thinking order. Really thankful to you sir. Again awesome video

[@satyasanatandharmkijai1387]

Sir pitaji ne mujhe sirf yahi bolke padhaya ki apna shadi ka karcha khud uthana hai.. aur maine kiya bhi.. Bhai padhne me achhe the nahi..papa ne jaha admission karaya waha drop kar diya.. maine shadi k baad khud se ghar kharida , sab kuch apne se joda.. uske baad bhi Bhai bolta hai ki hamari help nahi karti.. papa ne life long uske liye zameen ghar gadi commercial plots aur complex bhi bana ke Diya.. par mujhe di toh sirf education wo bhi condition pe.. mere saath itna bhed bhav kiya..phr bhi umeed mujhse rakhte hein ki mai paise du unko.. baht gussa aya hai kabhi kabhi.. sir property me hissa toh Qayamat waali baat ho jayegi..

[@roshanisingh6731]

Bhut dukh h ldkiyo ko😢

[@harsha737]

Very good perspective sir, would wish for a English video for a better reach in south India sir. Loved ur content

[@RadiantRavikant]

100% agree sir.मालवा में सम्मानस्वरूप महिलाओं को पुरुष वाचक सर्वनाम दिया जाता है जिसका मैंने हँसी में ही विरोध किया तो लोग offensive हो जाते हैं।

[@careermining8404]

He is absolutely right at 24:00 we are living a tougher life than previous generation. Previous generation had a very easy life.

[@unwilling1000]

Great thoughts, Saheb! Excellent work!

[@veenamishra5406]

North India m betiyon ko sirf pyar milta hai Chahe kitne bhi intelligent parents ho

[@thek2890]

Sach kahun to aajkal ulta hota hai Sir, agar beta acha kama raha ho aur beti housewife bani ho, to beti ko jyada share dete hain kyunki woh kamaati nahi aur jo ladka kabhi kabhaar kuch ghar ke kharch kliye de bhi de to bhi uski koi kimmat nahi hoti but beti ko hi jyada poojha jata hai

[@ravinderkumaryadav2205]

Very good and relevant issues discussed wisely.Reforms are required in Indian Society.

[@anishagupta329]

Maza aa gyaa sacchi 😄😄😃😃😄😄😄 thank you plzz aur bhi vidoe laoo inter cast marriage ke upar ke kya hum shaadi kar sakte hai

[@meetsingh4652]

Salute Sir.. this is the exact thoughts I have.. I don't understand why its difficult for the parents to understand this..

[@vidushigupta-w2o]

Bhaut accha video hai.Mai bilkul aap ki tarah chahti hu.Me ek Dr hu roj apke video dekhti hu.Apsebaat karne kia bhaut man hai.Thanku sir society ko clarity de rahe hai 👍👍

[@Volvorine7337]

Wonderful thoughts, fortunately we are practicing all these in our home. Hence no acrimonious feelings whatsoever, among our siblings.

[@sahilsrivastava17]

Bahut jbardst baat kia sir 💕💕mja aa gya

[@sanjuktadash6719]

Great 👍 perspective sir... New society ll evolve... Luv ur vdos....

[@sourabh3540]

पुरुष उत्‍पीड़न आयोग के बारे में बताएं सर 🙏 'पुरुष मंत्रालय'

[@theordinaryguyparvez3157]

No they are not same. Biologically, physically, mentally in every way. It's not about being equal but about embracing differences because that is how nature has made us, different and complementary to each other.

[@NehaSharma-mg9of]

Men and women are not same. But they are equal. Hope you understand

[@nirupamasharma4389]

​@@NehaSharma-mg9ofright!!

[@oreowithurea5018]

He literally just said that actually​@@NehaSharma-mg9of

[@gurinderjitdhillon7808]

MAG.very logical and straightforward. Noone dares to speak like this

[@kushathakur6838]

M.A.G ( Maza aa gaya) ...you are a treat to listen to, and every suggestion from you is gold.

[@shauryakavishorts]

Ya allah!! I can see ..even bahu is the first person who is not letting go property to sis in law

[@ssapnajhaver]

Thank u sir for all ur expertise knowledge, experience n advices....it's very very useful for better n peaceful future...today's topic I'm a bit confused....i believe in equality but if any child disrespects u n does not take decent care n responsibility of parents when required...i personally feel they shd be fined proportional n thebone who irrespective of other sibling is taking care n giving time shd be rewarded accordingly .....please throw some light on my view🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@mahimayadav2496]

Sir bahan bhai ka rista kaise manage ho video banao please

[@mannatsantoshi6603]

Very nice video, this is what is happening in our society, thanks sir🌹

[@chitrabalakrishnan2725]

Thank you for such sensible videos Bhai! 😊😊 Can you please add English subtitles to your previous videos - for us people from South India?

[@morphin1]

hahahaha this is a great one. Ladki ko Sukha pyaar. So true

[@kalyanichatterjee1711]

MAG sir you r absolutely right. My father was thinking like you and wanted to do also but my brother was a real bully and he had to succumb to him lot because he loved his son . Can you imagine he had to write his house in his son's name only ,and said as long as he is getting His Railway Pension his son will not throw him out 😭 . He got a good pension not a poor one . Because of society he could not decide to stay with his daughter in his last year's. .🙏 Keep going sir for society.👍

[@albertishu9066]

Love your perspective...it was surely fresh❤️

[@indukhurana1738]

You are in actual touching the hearts of people. It was a mixture of good content and humour. It is a real dose in improving relationship.

[@manishaj6512]

What if in laws where taking monthly money for 17yrs only from elder son,additionally made him pay bills nearly 7-8 lac Rs for hospitalization. Now when it comes property rights their daughter and other son they are giving maximum share. How to handle this?

[@Hetal28]

Yes This is such a common scenario One who does all the work , is always taken for granted. Others who don’t care and do no duty get lot of favors

[@thankcode]

I am that elder son who is giving money every month to my parents since 10 years continuously without even a single failure. Still I don't get my due respect. 🥺

[@vipinkumarasthana6345]

Content is good and relevant to middle class and higher middle class. It is good that one should be objective enough to decide the division of his assets during his life time but actual passing of major assets must take effect after his death. Eventually the assets of parents are not so precious for लायक children and they are not very much careful for that. पूत सपूत तो का धन संचय, पूत कपूत तो का धन संचय। लेकिन यह बात सही है कि लड़के और लड़की के बीच बराबर से ही प्रापर्टी दी जानी चाहिए।

[@goldyguglani6464]

bahut bhadiya sir very good topic.appreciable

[@subratamodak895]

Sir please make a video on Farmers reality.Your knowledge in agriculture and annadata must came out.Lot of pranam Guruji.

[@mikitiwari]

True... Actually ye video ab suggestions mein show hua otherwise... Maine bete beti k difference par comment paranting k dusre video mein kara hai.

[@sunilmore7761]

Recently started viewing your videos on KZbin.In general they are highly interesting,superb,analytical, practical, thought provoking, and offer various views and perspective on career,friendship family etc. Also they are casually having humour without losing sight of the main subject of video.They cater to various age groups which is added plus point. Really your words are very valueable in today's world.

[@babymahiscorner]

MAG sirji✅kuch points samaaj mei hum openly nahi keh sakte woh aap batate hein😊

[@happylife7616]

Mag bahut hi acha gyan guru ji🙏🏻🙌🤗

[@saritabajaj9539]

So so relavant n much needed sir

[@nageshmittal2201]

Parents shall move to senior citizens home ( vaan prasth )once their children are independent..

[@shailendrasingh-xr7qw]

Keep working on sir, great work going on.

[@devajanimishra2814]

Sir, 🙏,I have a son and a daughter,both are married,my daughter,s sasuralwale had no demand at the time of marriage,so We didn't give her any cash or household appliances,but now after 8 months of marriage those people are not behaving well ,At the time of marriage we have gifted her a lots of jewelry, according to our rituals,then what can we do now sir?we are middle class family we have not so much property ,how can it be possible to devide equally,we both are Diabetic patients,my husband is retired person , please guide us sir 🙏

[@anand100101]

Ye hai sahi wala video on Indian society: their problems and way forward. Hats off to you sir. 🙏

[@MrShagiFpv]

Bohot bohot mag. Thankyou🙏🏽❤

[@zrahattk]

You are right . I keep my daughter as a daughter .

[@shakilachhabra8284]

Great thought!🙏

[@KiranDevi-yp8el]

sahi bat boli h ji aapne

[@vandanapahuja4231]

बहुत बढ़िया है सर। बेटा बहू को संपत्ति भी आधी दो। सेवा लेने की इंसिक्युरिटी के चलते उनके जीवन को कंट्रोल करने का नरक भी आधा हो जाएगा।

[@chh1047]

You are right my mom was belong to very rich farmer family but she gave her share to my mama 's ji..This not fair my mama ji won't give us any money never .

[@KiranDevi-yp8el]

bahut mja aaya ji🎉🎉😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@rajendrabhatia1320]

This video be watched by all parents and followed to remove discrimination and to avoid family disputes and to change mind set of parents to think and act to empower daughters.

[@ashishjha4253]

Sir Aap jaise koi nahi .. kya sach bolte ho aap 😮

[@preetikulkarni5722]

Wonderful Amitji👌👌

[@prashantwasnik9857]

Divorce ke baad poora system ladki ke favour main hota hai aur ladkiya iska fayda uthati hai, ispe bhi toh baat karo tau

[@govindskitchens302]

Nahi baneyege inki main viewer female hi hai​@jayantdiwakar2434

[@charupahwa3225]

Sir astrology sikha dijiye want to learn

[@artibhatt9048]

Love you Amit sir for making this superb video...

[@kailashkhanduri4496]

Great information ❤️ Muje esi hi direction chahiye thi 🙏

[@sourabh3540]

MAG (Mazaa Aaa Gayaa)...Infinite MAG always sir G..🙏😇

[@shwetaantil111]

Bdhiaa sirrr .. veryy thoughtful

[@utopiancity8138]

My parents have two daughters only but when they talk about property everyone says ki hmari property mere chachu k bete ko Jani chahiye. But i fought back ki cousin ko kyu du me apne papa ki property? Abhi Jake papa bhi mane ki chal thik hai tum dono ko denge or cousin ko nhi. Kyu ki cousin ko to uske papa se milega na .

[@nadeemsmarty]

Mashallah people like you can change our country. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Itsmagicallyme]

My papa calls me beti'❤️🧿

[@AshwaniKumarIndian]

Family name is also a dimension. 50-50 abhi toh theek lag rha hai par aage ye yhi dowry ka new legally style ho jayega and people will say ladki ka hissa kitna hai g? My theory Jo karega vo lega. Best hai raise your children but not expect from them and told them to not expect from parents also.

[@drromisingla]

The things you say promote disharmony between siblings esp brother and sister. Very wrong to say daughter-in-law opportunist/investing in in-laws property. She is the one who gives her physical mental and emotional energies and the priceless children to the husbands house. Don't forget she also adds good luck and fortunes to the husband's household. She's a giver, not taker. Whatever in-laws give, it their son inherits it, not the daughter-in-law.

[@vinaypras6747]

Mast topic hai sir Appnay toh secret hi khol diya...

[@icecreams214]

Yes i used to correct my father to call be Beti insteadof Beta, then both of my parents call me Beti with lovingly ❤❤❤❤

[@dheerajiam]

Maja aa gya sangwan sir !!! 🙏🏼 from charkhi dadri

[@sunilnayakblogs6277]

Duty and right are parts of life. I'd daughter have equal right, definitely they have equal responsibility .

[@2903kiran]

Not only in property , this ladka ladki discrimination happen in every part of life , be it is education and finding the right partner for girls , food , love etc. Family me to mother ki hi chati he aur mother ke liye beta is priority.

[@kamaljeetminhas8787]

Kash log ap jaise thinking vale ho jaye seriously it will chng so mch ..in a +ve way 😊

[@laxmanbhamboriya]

Kaha se laate ho ye sab topics sir..... seriously bahut alag aur sahi prospective de diya hai zindgi ko samjhne ka.... Hamesha lagta hai isse zaada kya aayega but Hats off..... Thank you so much....

[@nishumishra1587]

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[@sk72254]

How to divide my two properties equally between beta and beti if both properties are not of equal value? Please give some clarity on this