Are Indian Mother In Laws destroying marriages in India ?

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Meri Sahelli

Meri Sahelli

Күн бұрын

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@richat8808
@richat8808 12 күн бұрын
Both my inlaws are doctors and excessively interfering and competitive with me. Success and education do not always guarantee wisdom.
@Dee-sr4lt
@Dee-sr4lt 12 күн бұрын
We have confused literacy with education. They are two completely different things.
@wowser2153
@wowser2153 12 күн бұрын
@@Dee-sr4lt at least she don’t have to pay their expenses. My father spends more than half of his income on his parents and brother and sister leaving our financial condition bad .
@sudhagupta6069
@sudhagupta6069 12 күн бұрын
@@richat8808 such fathers r a curse for family who don’t know their priorities. Parents take advantage of such sons
@richat8808
@richat8808 11 күн бұрын
​@wowser2153 I have seen my father and uncle do that too. Either way, all kinds of interference affect marriages the same. I believe the couple can focus on togetherness and finds a way to not compete with each other on who is causing the problem and what problem. Just work on the marriage and its boundaries. Many of us choose our partners and choose to get into a marriage, so it deserves a fair and sincere effort on behalf of both wife and husband. Not competing with each other is a boundary a couple should create to keep the marriage safe. Trust hi nhi hai to khush kaise rahenge.
@jiwantirana4842
@jiwantirana4842 11 күн бұрын
@@richat8808 it all happens due to Shravan Kumar mama's boys Pretty suffocating
@odiatastelifestyleinusa2353
@odiatastelifestyleinusa2353 10 күн бұрын
Not only mother in laws but also sister in law and father in law are responsible for family disturbance.
@5050sotf
@5050sotf Күн бұрын
Yes. In my case too my father in law destroyed our happiness for life. I will never forgive him for his harsh words for life.
@padmapriyaprasad6996
@padmapriyaprasad6996 10 күн бұрын
I still don't understand why they get their sons or daughters married off and then interfere and dominate. If you are so possessive about your children keep them with you.
@Gamer_Boyz_007
@Gamer_Boyz_007 8 күн бұрын
Right, you shouldn't get married
@anoopshukla9375
@anoopshukla9375 7 күн бұрын
Just to deal with Social pressure
@abcrtr2
@abcrtr2 7 күн бұрын
DONT GET MARRIED PADMA
@padmapriyaprasad6996
@padmapriyaprasad6996 6 күн бұрын
@@abcrtr2 right 👍
@rainuca
@rainuca 3 күн бұрын
Well said
@nickim270
@nickim270 11 күн бұрын
There is no concept of boundaries in Indian households. If the children have that sense of when to ask for their parent's involvement and when to ask for them to take a step back, then no one can interfere unnecessarily. There is a serious issue of children being programmed to follow their parents blindly and having no individuality of their own. Try and say no to any parent and be ready for emotional manipulation.
@jirasi5557
@jirasi5557 10 күн бұрын
Making boundaries is seen as arrogant , proud in india😅 unsocial depression patient schizophrenic..even psychiatrists give certificate on such
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
Well commented. Emotional manipulation = Carried you in my womb for 9 months like a good mother. Fact is you had S££ which you enjoyed which resulted in your Birth. We were fed all this BS and it continues today with Modi/gods on mothers girls women who must be respected.
@anon567
@anon567 11 күн бұрын
MIL on the boy's side is definitely a problem. Especially when he is the only kid in their family.
@jirasi5557
@jirasi5557 10 күн бұрын
I never forget this line decades ago... A 60yr old man asking every morning his 80yr old mother if he can go to office😢that's India and 14th February is celebrated as parents day for such and so is friendship day in August 😅
@mou6258
@mou6258 8 күн бұрын
Just dont say. So far my marriage is concerned my In laws since 2017 only called me to advice me how can I keep my husband happy and to know if I am taking care of him or not. Never and for a single day asked me about my career or well being.
@5050sotf
@5050sotf Күн бұрын
​@@mou6258my MIL called me when I was pregnant. First I thought she called me to enquire about my health but later realised that she was worried about her son that now he has to do household chores. She even told it openly to me not to make him do kitchen work because he's not used to it. By the way when my husband was a bachelor and living alone in a far away city and struggling for food , she didn't bother to come and stay with him and cook for him.🙄😏
@jiwantirana4842
@jiwantirana4842 12 күн бұрын
My in laws had made my life hell till they died Super dominating Spoilt many yrs of life
@tanisha99_z
@tanisha99_z 9 күн бұрын
How to manage
@MahishyaS
@MahishyaS 7 күн бұрын
How did you manage ?
@jiwantirana4842
@jiwantirana4842 6 күн бұрын
@@MahishyaS what manage Pretty suffocating Khoon ke aansoo
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
Hope you learn some lessons and do not repeat it on your children.
@5050sotf
@5050sotf Күн бұрын
Can definitely understand what u might have gone through. Even after suffering so much no body will come to support, even the girl's parents will give Gyan to the girl itself. That's the saddest part.😞
@Iamtina-3
@Iamtina-3 12 күн бұрын
I thought educated mother in law will be better when I saw my friend who had none noneducated mother in law but the conclusion is both are same 😅 both tried to break their son's home
@priyankapattanaik5414
@priyankapattanaik5414 11 күн бұрын
Educated and working wale hi sabse jayda jahilon wale kaam karte hai
@akilapranathi
@akilapranathi 10 күн бұрын
Our in-laws almost destroyed my husband's and my life. They are highly educated and speak only in English, but the things they do are even worse than small town crowd! I asked my husband for divorce he said im more important for him than his own parents, we moved out and figuring out how to live our life from search with my parents help! We both are now sick with the stress we endured over time but slowly we are trying to come out and heal out self! It's a long journey ahead for healing and my in-laws made sure we are messed up physically and mentally for life with trauma! 💔
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
Sad but please remember "Highly Educated" is not a badge of honour but humanity is. Obsessed with Education which only provides a route out of poverty. "Low Education" but an open mindset on Life and values are more valuable. On your deathbed NO one asks for your bank balance
@dipasikhanandi1822
@dipasikhanandi1822 12 күн бұрын
Today's mother in law's are less interfering than ours 😊 They also wants to live independently and gracefully without any pressure .😊
@jayatripaathi
@jayatripaathi 12 күн бұрын
Aisa kuchh nahi hai
@actualangel5133
@actualangel5133 12 күн бұрын
Nowadays ladki ki maa jyada interfere karti hai… damaad aur uske parents ka jeena haram karti hai.
@kiki40665
@kiki40665 12 күн бұрын
Nah
@Akansha-e1h
@Akansha-e1h 12 күн бұрын
​@@actualangel5133aur ladkee ki maa pura din ser par baithe rahati h ,bahu ka jeena mushkil kr dete h ...
@wowser2153
@wowser2153 12 күн бұрын
@@actualangel5133 damaad ki parents ki property par nazar rakhthe hain ladki wale
@sapnamelanta2381
@sapnamelanta2381 12 күн бұрын
For me it was opposite....my own mother tried to break my marriage... Yes it's unbelievable but true...I saw through the game and did everything possible to save my marriage...my husband is a gentleman...but kept to himself all throughout.. Now my mother is dead but those memories remain
@meaculpa5563
@meaculpa5563 8 күн бұрын
My mother also didn't let my relationship thrive. But I forgive her because I want to live with peace.
@ushak5536
@ushak5536 8 күн бұрын
@sapnamelanta2381 These are untold stories. Everybody exposes the true colour of MIL.....But not mothers.
@sapnamelanta2381
@sapnamelanta2381 8 күн бұрын
@@ushak5536 Yes u r right.. especially because their generation was different they did not get the educational standards freedom and other choices which we got that fuelled the resentment . She is long dead but broke my spirit I still can't forget the past .
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
@@sapnamelanta2381 Another comment on "Education vs low level Education". Education has zero to do with a Stone Age mindset. Ex CJI highly educated but invoking God to give Babri Masjid verdict. Shameless man without a spine and on the wrong side of the Constitution. I'd rather sell pakodas
@moubhattacharyay6891
@moubhattacharyay6891 12 күн бұрын
Her Opinion & Advices Are Exactly Accurate & Highly Matured Frm The Both Perspectives & Like Minded.. ❤
@nalinaxipujari6828
@nalinaxipujari6828 2 күн бұрын
In India marriage is done just because you have come to a marriageable age, not because you are now responsible to start a family.
@anitaathawale7509
@anitaathawale7509 4 күн бұрын
In Banglore in our society 40 to 50 houses have joined family.But they are happy No need of baby seating.& Kids are very happy with their grand parents.
@sindhu16.7
@sindhu16.7 Күн бұрын
❤❤
@rajashreeswain5714
@rajashreeswain5714 8 күн бұрын
My mother in law is so toxic..she always made sure to initiate a fight between me and my husband..First few years of my marriage was really hell and it was also easy for her to manipulate my husband..Now I don't care and not even talking to her
@Darsh_Yadav__2025
@Darsh_Yadav__2025 2 күн бұрын
Aurat hi aurat ki dushman hai 😂😂😅
@5050sotf
@5050sotf Күн бұрын
In my case, my FIL took away my peace of mind for life. I have stopped talking to that idiot anymore.
@Akansha-e1h
@Akansha-e1h 12 күн бұрын
Ladke ki maa ki vajah se sbse jayada shadiyaa tutti h ... Mamas boys se kabhi shadi nhi krni chahiye😢
@jaisaljohn1500
@jaisaljohn1500 12 күн бұрын
Firr to Papa ki Pari se shadi karo!!!! Mummy ke pari se bhi shadi karlo!!!! Dude ka dhula koi bhi nahi hai.......Hypocrites
@wowser2153
@wowser2153 12 күн бұрын
@@jaisaljohn1500 women’s parents are interfering in marriages nowadays. Women’s parents are trying to grab man’s parents property
@Akansha-e1h
@Akansha-e1h 11 күн бұрын
@jaisaljohn1500 atleast papa and mummy apni beti ki shadi m interfare to nhi krtee roj ,,,jaise saas ser par baithe rahatii h 🤡🤣 Phir apne bete ko manipulate krti h becoz usse dhekha nhi jata uska mama's boy🤡bahu ki baat sun rha h 🤡
@Jasminennnnnng
@Jasminennnnnng 11 күн бұрын
Insta pr to santoor mummy apne bete ke sath hi nachti hai😂😂 Yesi saas Baap re baap😂
@Sunny-wp4fd
@Sunny-wp4fd 11 күн бұрын
Bahu apni maa se rat din baye karti hai to uska kya,
@padmaja7030
@padmaja7030 10 күн бұрын
My mother in law destroyed my marriage… she is pure evil no good intentions there for her acts … her only intention is to separate us out of jealousy and evil mindset , she stole my wedding jewelry, separated us and got him remarried to a woman of their caste
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
You need to question your husband and his values. Many of the comments were positive despite excessive control Educated (Not literacy) have survived esp. the comment that the husband told his wife I care for you more than my parents. Epic mindset
@padmaja7030
@padmaja7030 4 күн бұрын
Obviously he has no values either and his education is of no use. Infact he is the one pursued me in the name of love in college. I was a topper and earning more than him before we got married and he was always a struggler. He put me through domestic violence and didn’t want to divorce me either as he needed me. Used me to build his career and for my wealth and once he got well settled, He secretly planned a second wedding with the help of his mother.
@pramitachanda4232
@pramitachanda4232 9 күн бұрын
Mother in law and sister in law totally destroy life of bahu...and father in law remains helpless and always listens to daughter & wife...
@meaculpa5563
@meaculpa5563 8 күн бұрын
Father in laws are also breaking children relationship
@Gamer_Boyz_007
@Gamer_Boyz_007 8 күн бұрын
When you become a mother in law your bahu will say the same
@askurmama
@askurmama 7 күн бұрын
My friend had a liver issue , the doctors had asked her to go for a surgery with a suitable donor ; Her son was a suitable one , but her IN laws along with her husband objected to the idea of the son donating a part of his liver . Unfortunately she died in 2023 😢😭 that is how destructive IN LAWS CAN BE .
@athensmajnoo3661
@athensmajnoo3661 8 күн бұрын
My husband being the only son to his parents , and parents totally dependent financially on their son, we were forced to live with them. It was continuous stressful life for me for 37 years, living with a nosey, bossy mother in law😮😮
@supriyamehra4281
@supriyamehra4281 12 күн бұрын
I am 60 years old still whenever she visits us she brings too too too much Negativity 😮jab k mey living next door saath saath ghar hia humara ,kud father in law my husband ko plot ley k diya 😮we use to live in UAE mostly 30 years then we came back ,stayed with her she made my life hell those days. One day my father in law asked me do u want to start making your house i said daddy yes my mother start shouting at me ,tum ko bolna chahiye tha no daddy 😮hum yaha teek hia 😅arey kud humko plot diya ghar banane k liye 😮😮kud peeche pad gayi
@juhivarma7160
@juhivarma7160 11 күн бұрын
"Parents 24 ghanta aapki life nahi jee rahe hain,"-- tell that to my ex in-laws. Especially my father in law, all that man ever did when he visited us in the US was watch TV and lecture me.
@mangalaaswal2202
@mangalaaswal2202 10 күн бұрын
Pata nhi buddhon ka dimag kaha chala jata hai, bhai chup chaap baithe raho, lete raho, tv dekhte raho, sair pe jao, apni budhiya ya budhe k saath mach, mach karo, bahu ko kyu pester karte ho. Ye attitude rkho ki mai kitna ache se acha behave karu taki meri bahu mujhe sar aankho pe bitha k rakhe, of course bahu ko bhi samajhdaar hona chahiye, ki saas, sasur ka dil kaise jeeten.
@gamingwithprinceayub3872
@gamingwithprinceayub3872 10 күн бұрын
Oh my goodness 😢 May I ask you the reason for divorce?
@Darsh_Yadav__2025
@Darsh_Yadav__2025 2 күн бұрын
​@@mangalaaswal2202 Kasam se bohot hasa hu tumhare comment padh ke 😂😂😅
@mangalaaswal2202
@mangalaaswal2202 2 күн бұрын
@@Darsh_Yadav__2025 Isme hasne wali kya baat hai bhai, logic baat to boli hai.
@Darsh_Yadav__2025
@Darsh_Yadav__2025 2 күн бұрын
@@mangalaaswal2202 tumne jaise bola hai uspe hass raha hu
@vinodselot8926
@vinodselot8926 2 күн бұрын
Now a days this has become other ways. Mothers are elder and they just make sacrifies for peace for themselves and for children. I am doing that living all alone. I have left them for peace. So all are happy.
@mangalaaswal2202
@mangalaaswal2202 10 күн бұрын
Both the sides inlaws must not interfere in a married child,s business, everyone knows their boundaries.
@onenation9436
@onenation9436 7 күн бұрын
All credit goes to the selfish Sons..who in name of Mother or wife destroy their home 🏡
@veenashrivastava3959
@veenashrivastava3959 9 күн бұрын
I fail to understand does men feel that women's parents don't miss them.
@Darsh_Yadav__2025
@Darsh_Yadav__2025 2 күн бұрын
Wo apni bahu ko pareshan karne me busy honge😂😅💀💀
@letsbeantihate.9821
@letsbeantihate.9821 10 күн бұрын
In my case, my husband and his brother weirdly blindly worship their father, who has always dominated and manipulated them. Both brothers have married their wives for the sole purpose of 24/7 365 days a year service of him. At the cost of our freedom . I cannot attend a function without being criticised or abused by them. I am not free to take care of my sick parents who have no sons.
@EnthusiasticVizsla-ty9dl
@EnthusiasticVizsla-ty9dl 8 күн бұрын
My in laws are super controlling and interfering. I can't go with my hubby to shop. My mil always comes with me to shop. For every little things I had to take there permission. I am filling like trapped 😢
@meaculpa5563
@meaculpa5563 8 күн бұрын
One neighbour's mother always complains about her working DIL and verbally tortured her to the extent she left for her mother's house in another state. She tried to restart living with her husband with the condition that they will live separately near his parents house. Man denied, then divorce happen and she remarried while.man is jobless, alone and living on mother's pension. Similarly one niece's mom calls her and talks for 5 hours daily and stays in her house for 11 out of 12 months yearly for 8 years. Finally her fed up husband leave her and now the niece and her two daughters are staying with her mother. Mother and sister in laws are big trouble maker
@madhulikasaran7022
@madhulikasaran7022 Күн бұрын
The correct and logical description is 'mothers in law' not 'mother in laws'.
@PriyankaPandey-hv4jv
@PriyankaPandey-hv4jv 7 күн бұрын
Mil plus dominating sil combination are most dangerous. We can only survive if husband is gem. Like mine.
@Darsh_Yadav__2025
@Darsh_Yadav__2025 2 күн бұрын
Tum ladkiya aisa karti kyun ho , kya milta hai dusri ladki ko pareshan kar ke
@tropicalflowergardening8198
@tropicalflowergardening8198 7 күн бұрын
Shouldn’t it say mothers in law, instead of mother in laws?
@jirasi5557
@jirasi5557 10 күн бұрын
Even international calls thru watsapp, whole day..mom talking and advising gals so husband n in laws r forced to change according to daighter in laws mom...worse when in same city...gals keep going to moma house to avoid chores of in laws home
@jijiani677
@jijiani677 9 күн бұрын
Chores of home? She is not your maid
@jirasi5557
@jirasi5557 9 күн бұрын
@jijiani677 exactly...in india cleaning own mess is called maid servant work while same go to Western countries and do everything with job then still western nri is best
@jirasi5557
@jirasi5557 9 күн бұрын
@jijiani677 maid is inhuman...she should do her chores and clean your mess too ..did Britishers teach this? Reason Western world is rich is civilization..they clean own mess..not like beasts where lion eats then scavengers enter..as in poor and non western rich nations..all want west riches but none wanna clean own mess like them or obey laws or be civilised and honour other as brethren...though poor n non west claim to b spiritually richest ..ahh
@will-o-the-wisp3977
@will-o-the-wisp3977 11 сағат бұрын
Why don't you do your chore? Are you a man baby?😂😂😂
@user.DeepBrar
@user.DeepBrar 3 күн бұрын
100% बात सही है 70% सास लोग शादी तुड़वाने में जिमेवार हैं
@sapnamelanta2381
@sapnamelanta2381 8 күн бұрын
Is the situation so worse ??.…I think I am out of sync with the times...
@radhikaghorai5503
@radhikaghorai5503 11 күн бұрын
Ma'm you gave the right advice on handling mother-in-law issues between a son and daughter-in-law. Thank you for your kind words and support.😊❤
@aleyammarenjiv7978
@aleyammarenjiv7978 11 күн бұрын
Even son in law's face problems due to mother in law. After the mobile phone came , they kept calling daughters and giving advice
@priyankapattanaik5414
@priyankapattanaik5414 11 күн бұрын
​@@aleyammarenjiv7978satyanash kar diya hai.. Phone ne.. Har choti badi khabar in a sec pahunch jati hai
@ashanikte951
@ashanikte951 12 күн бұрын
If mother in law gives enough time to adjust her in the family and if Din law groomed her mother in law both will be complimentary to each other usually it’s son who makes create bad impression of his mother or wife to each other so All mother in law and Daughter in law have unity it’s enjoyable relationship and help to each other
@S-mn7du
@S-mn7du 10 күн бұрын
Educated upper class professional working mother in laws are also no different. They want to marry their sons it seems.
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
Pls stop this Educated upper class BS. Education and upper class does not buy you an open mindset on how to respect humanity no matter your Education and upper class status. Scam arranged marriages are based on "Good Families" who have Western passports with zero human values.
@Lazy-bliss
@Lazy-bliss 12 күн бұрын
3:48 parents lie. They manipulate
@moubhattacharyay6891
@moubhattacharyay6891 12 күн бұрын
Yess.. They Feel Insecurities & Jealous Of Their Dils.. That's Why They Misconduct With Their Dils & Try To Manipulates Their Own Sons That Leads To Destroy Their Own Children's Personal Lyf.... 90% Of The Parents Jst Lies Abt The Opponent Parties..
@Darsh_Yadav__2025
@Darsh_Yadav__2025 2 күн бұрын
​@@moubhattacharyay6891Tum ladkiya aisa karti kyun ho , kya milta hai dusri ladki ko pareshan kar ke
@ajey301
@ajey301 2 күн бұрын
I have seen , on the contrary , that Mothers in law are like mothers and Daughters in Law are taking care of her parents in law like her own.....its all about values of life
@satya4810
@satya4810 10 күн бұрын
What about father in law's?
@Gaumukh
@Gaumukh 10 күн бұрын
It’s a phenomena where women were subjected to follow a dominating mil, so when they become a mil, rather than treating the daughter in law differently, they end up becoming their worst versions of themselves.
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
So very true. Society can only change if individuals introspected and challenged this regressive mindset.
@Gaumukh
@Gaumukh 5 күн бұрын
@ yes 💯. I remember my aunty who became a mil told me,” it’s my time now, why shouldn’t I expect same things from my daughter in law?” I was telling her to give space to her daughter in law and above was her response. She said since she followed everything her mil commanded, then her daughter in law should do the same. I told my aunty that what she went through was not right and she could correct her behavior. But nope! She carried on the tradition of what we see in TV.
@Darsh_Yadav__2025
@Darsh_Yadav__2025 2 күн бұрын
​@@Gaumukh maine kuch din pahle news me dekha tha ki college me senior bhi yahi bol ke ragging karte hai ki" hamare time pe bhi hamare sath aisa hi hua tha" , aur yahi tumse bhi sun Raha
@Gaumukh
@Gaumukh Күн бұрын
@ yes! It’s a human brain. Very few have self reflection and can break the cycle. One thing that was puzzling to me to see many women getting to their late 40s and 50s and falling sick. I wonder if mental health issues that come with a dominating mil, destroys a person’s from inside. They become selfish, self absorbed, self centered, and it shows on their bodies. Men on the other hand stay healthy compared to women. There is no other explanation that women make life living hell for other women. There are exceptions but not in great numbers to make impact.
@Elixir569
@Elixir569 Күн бұрын
My in-laws came to stay with us for 3 months and in this short time itself there were so many issues between me and my husband. We stopped talking to each other.
@mehersutaria9287
@mehersutaria9287 7 күн бұрын
Very few really lucky couples face no interference from either side of the family. They allow their children to make their own decisions in life and give advice only when asked for. By the way, mother - in - laws is not the correct term. Grammatically it should be mothers- in - law. 😅😅
@sonalidutta5933
@sonalidutta5933 8 күн бұрын
Absolutely. To what extent a daughter in law can take. Double face can be dangerous
@jas0204
@jas0204 9 күн бұрын
High time addressing mothers also who are no less than mother in laws with their daughters or sons.. highly manipulative and toxic narcs.
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
One of my cousins had two brothers and her mother openly was jealous of her success vs the brothers. Mother would spy on her daughter and phone the brothers on her every move.
@farahdeebasiddiqui9809
@farahdeebasiddiqui9809 2 күн бұрын
This a very good topic.
@sb37154
@sb37154 12 күн бұрын
Mothers of both side should not interfere too much. Girl's mother interfere a lot too.
@sudhagupta6069
@sudhagupta6069 12 күн бұрын
It has nothing to do with mothers in law, maturity of boy& girl in marriage decides the relationships of all others. They both need to balance their extended families with equal respect 😊
@Poornima.jJayram-qg1rm
@Poornima.jJayram-qg1rm 12 күн бұрын
Ur right when men or women both don't know how to balance definitely marriages will break
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
Commenting on Utopian ideals far removed from Reality.
@sampurnasworld0608
@sampurnasworld0608 9 күн бұрын
Mothers in Law not Mother in Laws
@ushak5536
@ushak5536 12 күн бұрын
Many a time it is girls mother too who interfere too much !
@meaculpa5563
@meaculpa5563 8 күн бұрын
Yes that's what she said
@arifaali3090
@arifaali3090 10 күн бұрын
Not just India bro everywhere! Not mother in law its monster in law these days.
@agnescraig2912
@agnescraig2912 5 күн бұрын
True but with India's population of 1.4bln = a massive number. Goes for all developing countries in Africa Pakistan Bangladesh Middle East Far East China Turkey purely because they see their children as commodities to be bought/sold to the highest economic bidder. Another reason why the World bank puts India 1st for Remittances in the World. Parents sit home breed like flies and expect 1 with a Western passport to foot the bill. Wake up!!!
@prasadrao6235
@prasadrao6235 3 күн бұрын
Mothers in-law through out the human world appears to be playing the role of destructor of their children marriage by either being over possessive or being jealous. Only Indian mother in law can't be separated for this honour.
@krishnakumari6361
@krishnakumari6361 10 күн бұрын
It should be mothers in law pls
@unicornsaanvi
@unicornsaanvi 3 күн бұрын
Mother of sons.. dont feel remorse if they break their own son's marriage. Sons are in pressure "acha beta"
@thejaswinishankar6352
@thejaswinishankar6352 6 күн бұрын
Pretty simple ppl who have financial independence must take charge of the family and husband and wife must have glass wall between them..
@cinnow
@cinnow 12 күн бұрын
Mothers in law not mother in laws
@veenahegde7441
@veenahegde7441 12 күн бұрын
Yes I was about to say the same
@AC-jg2dg
@AC-jg2dg 12 күн бұрын
U mean monster in laws
@sapnamelanta2381
@sapnamelanta2381 12 күн бұрын
​@@AC-jg2dg😂😂
@cinnow
@cinnow 11 күн бұрын
@@AC-jg2dg well, the same actually! MiLs have lots of power in joint families and the husband does not support his wife most of the time. Why? Because she's a newcomer and he's known his parents all his life. Well the worm can turn and does with a vengeance some years down the line just when MiL is getting older and becomes sick and weak and needs the DiL she mistreated. The DiL now gets her chance to be mean. Not a healthy dynamic at all for kids to grow up in.
@suneetade7834
@suneetade7834 10 күн бұрын
🫡
@bhavanisd6885
@bhavanisd6885 6 күн бұрын
I am 60Till now my mother in law is dominating me
@jirasi5557
@jirasi5557 10 күн бұрын
Cheap internet data n call rates...ending families
@anitaathawale7509
@anitaathawale7509 4 күн бұрын
बिचारी सासू असते कुठे मुलांच्या संसारात तेच हम दो हमारां एक राहतात.पूर्वी काहकाही ठिकाणी होते असे पण आता असे जवळ जवळ नाहीच.
@MD-fh4lb
@MD-fh4lb 10 күн бұрын
Yes right they destroys
@Roe-hj2lx
@Roe-hj2lx 4 күн бұрын
In my case, my family is worse than his. His mother is a single mother and loves me and respects me cause she had it worse with her ex-husband.
@mahalakshmich4557
@mahalakshmich4557 10 күн бұрын
Accusing mother in law, what about others
@AmitMagnet
@AmitMagnet 5 күн бұрын
The husband and wife are always responsible for the tragedy in their life. They conviniently take shelter or point towards the in laws. If you guys are not matured enough to draw the line and are dependent on parents and relatives dont marry. Its simple parents will always be sensitive to there own kid its natural law of survival the kids should decide what to share or not share with their parents😊😊😊
@stankssmile5865
@stankssmile5865 5 күн бұрын
The real Crux is the son seeing his mother get silenced in a corner and disrespected, he becomes the main Earner and wants to treat her as a queen undermining the fact his mom is being an overlord to his wife again, i understand the son telling his wife to get silenced for the sake of his mom completely, but not as the definition of a "man" because a man's responsibility also is as multi faceted role like a woman, he is supposed to not "just be an earner" (what people on Instagram tell me, a role women already are doing) , he's supposed to be a peace keeper outside and inside the house as well.
@ushamagotra9434
@ushamagotra9434 12 күн бұрын
Yes true
@anshumansahu1087
@anshumansahu1087 3 күн бұрын
The woman's mother and the man's mother. The common factor is a mother.😂😂😂
@shagird6317
@shagird6317 9 күн бұрын
Aisa kro shadi Karo sirf orphan logo se....jinke parents hain unse shadi hi n kro....bss problem solved.
@Your-Paulami
@Your-Paulami 4 күн бұрын
Ladko ko fir shaadi se dur hi rehna chahiye 😂
@Teapot88
@Teapot88 5 күн бұрын
Kaiyo ke yaha father in laws bhi hain jo sabere se shaam tak bahu ki salary ,dressing pe comment karte rehte hain ..aur yaha tak bhi bol dete hain ki dusri shadi kara dete hain so that dusri bahu seva kare ..what a sick mentality . Btw yeh sare woh in laws hain jinke khud ke maa baap gaon pe rehte the aur yeh log alag .
@supratiksarkar1195
@supratiksarkar1195 11 күн бұрын
So my conclusion that matri devo bhava is incorrect, is correct . It really doesn't hold any significance in today's life.
@Aquariumitems
@Aquariumitems 9 күн бұрын
What does MIL means?? Only girls MIL or Boys MIL also.?? Mine destroyed by my MIL and her brother.
@jirasi5557
@jirasi5557 10 күн бұрын
Divorce no more tabboo and job has given women arrogance so even after 3 4 marriages..same cycle goes on...mom interfering anf gals dependent emotionally on mother n same with men and job is seen as spouse search easy place ..no matter divorce number of times or age or caste or faith
@kayala1689
@kayala1689 11 күн бұрын
Correction: mothers- in- law
@archanakumar7427
@archanakumar7427 6 күн бұрын
Mothers - in -law.
@Dailydoseofeverything-uc5hi
@Dailydoseofeverything-uc5hi Күн бұрын
My mother in law is no more.she tortured me like any thing
@sapnamelanta2381
@sapnamelanta2381 12 күн бұрын
Its mothers in law...not mother in laws .😊,... grammatical error 😊
@kmrvinayak
@kmrvinayak 10 күн бұрын
Isn't it mothers in law and not mother in law?
@padmavathysathish8323
@padmavathysathish8323 9 күн бұрын
Allow people to live
@riteshsingh-kh4kb
@riteshsingh-kh4kb 8 күн бұрын
Aaj kal ke ladki hi ghatiya h ..woh agar sirf husband ke saath bhi rahe toh bhi ladti h.mene bahut si shadiya dekhi h jaha couple akele rehte h aur fir bhi riste toot jaate h...
@Your-Paulami
@Your-Paulami 4 күн бұрын
Kyuki husband ka bahar kisi aur se chakar chal rha hota hai😂
@sushama2011
@sushama2011 Күн бұрын
Sorry but plural of mother-in-law is MotherS-in - law not mother-in-law
@Nishkala-bs9sx
@Nishkala-bs9sx 11 күн бұрын
Good points but it is mothers in law *
@hemalathaprabhakar
@hemalathaprabhakar 11 күн бұрын
Too much interference of mother in law ladki ki mummy
@sapnamelanta2381
@sapnamelanta2381 8 күн бұрын
No mobile s in olden days that was better.. mobile s make talking easier.. talking excessively is what today s people do ...
@englishcakewalk8332
@englishcakewalk8332 2 күн бұрын
You mean mothers - in- law ?
@NirvanaMarketing-do8uv
@NirvanaMarketing-do8uv 5 күн бұрын
I don't know why i fear seeing woman who look like her
@creativemasti3677
@creativemasti3677 Күн бұрын
Bt some daughter in low, are nt gud, alway think gud about mayka fmly, bt not think gud about in lows fmly, always think to destroy in lows famly,
@NEETUSINGH-sn6lc
@NEETUSINGH-sn6lc Күн бұрын
😮😮😊😊😊
@R.PreethiSagar
@R.PreethiSagar 6 күн бұрын
No motherinlaw can create disturbances in mans responsibility or womans responsibility....taking advantage of a motherinlaw no man or woman should taje a decision...stop circulating this bull shit
@krishi.0
@krishi.0 3 күн бұрын
Educated or not . MIL or in-laws must stop interfering in others marriage amd stop the manipulation shit .
@sayasargam
@sayasargam 12 күн бұрын
Ladke ke side sevsab kharab, bas devi ji sabse achi, kab tak ye narrative chalega fully forgetting, life spins and this women too fall in that category and will be seen as devil women, instead of poor victim today
@lakshmikrithika2521
@lakshmikrithika2521 10 күн бұрын
Did you even watch the video beyond 30seconds?😂 Ya muh uthaake same comment har jagah karte ho😂
@kaleidoscopemagic99
@kaleidoscopemagic99 11 күн бұрын
Hindu ladkiyon ko jayada freedom diya gaya hai isliye Aisa hota hai muslim ladkion ko kV suna saas k bare me kuch kehte
@maipardhan
@maipardhan 11 күн бұрын
Hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Cinnamoroll-u7v
@Cinnamoroll-u7v 11 күн бұрын
Abe jab dekho ladkiyon ki freedom se itni kyu chul machi h Tu apni life bindas jee na Dusre gender se itni nafrat hai toh kabhi shadi mat kario Ooh par shadi karke biwi ki freedom bhi toh cheen lene hai 😂😂 Carry on bro
@mahalak4383
@mahalak4383 10 күн бұрын
Marriage is a scam in India. Hopefully more women realise that.
@tanisha99_z
@tanisha99_z 9 күн бұрын
Tughe ku pasene aea rhe
@ruhi_chopra4516
@ruhi_chopra4516 7 күн бұрын
It is mothers-in-law, not mother-in-laws. Learn English, please.
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