Are The Wrong People Promoting 'Self Love'? || Halfcast Podcast

[@Kufo-Oriji4632]

I think what so wrong with surgery today is that everyone is getting the EXACT same body. Everyone is wearing the EXACT make up routine, lace frontal, clothes. So their whole look is based on what society said is right. That’s not self love. That’s self hate

[@FashionRoadman]

kufo oriji let em know

[@FashionRoadman]

Introvert Outside can’t speak for all men but I don’t like a specific body type. I think a nice body can come in a huge variety of ways and once I know someone has had cosmetic surgery I feel like there are underlying insecurities there that need to be reckoned with.

[@TheRedstar212]

It’s just social engineering 101

[@sdotlondonkid]

@Introvert Outside 'tru, but mainly cos it seems like men all want the same body type in a woman' But I thought girls were doing these procedures for themselves, not for men?

[@xfmk9296]

aint that always how its been?

[@Salaciously]

A phat spliff and Chuckie's debates constitute a great Sunday at home

[@yhbtsurely]

Chris Thompson say it again cuz!

[@Moxhification]

i bet

[@MrJackWaters]

Everyone hates on poet but i like it when he's in the podcast love his energy 👍👍

[@malcolmmalema6659]

Dan's in his head is like, "Poet,theres bare space on your side of the couch bro"

[@reneedebeersaab5854]

😂🤣

[@Story_and_Her]

Malcolm Malema 😂😭😩😂👌🏾

[@Story_and_Her]

Can we please give Calum a mic too - what he even look like?

[@kayfay2535]

Chuckie doing the pout is a meme 😭

[@berxie25]

Just when I was about to wash some dishes, you come on! Perfect 👌🏾

[@jaylaav1166]

Bernadette A same girl 😂

[@XmacwayX]

Go wash your dishes man

[@anitakleeia8118]

We need more of a spotlight on self care and wellbeing in the mainstream media instead of so much focus on outer beauty. The issue is that young women are consistently being fed images of 'perfect' women, and think that achieving a certain look and getting a certain amount of attention will lead to happiness. Taking care of your outer beauty is great, but once you get to a place where you can say that you really love yourself and generate confidence from within, it's way more gratifying in so many ways. Also, for many, fixing what's wrong inside is more challenging than that quick outer fix, and usually comes with age as we find ourselves.

[@Jack-lw5kh]

Think Poet's point about the context of 'self-love' on the internet, a place full of vice and disingenuous thought/expression is really bang on, well said!

[@hannahd2230]

I love funny poet as opposed to angry poet

[@RJA696]

When Dan said “bare shoulders shrugs” I screamed LOOOOOOOOOOL.. if you know, you know 😭😭😭😭

[@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness]

So appreciate men talking about mental health 💕

[@Story_and_Her]

Janey Imaani - Emotional Awareness This

[@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness]

The Story and Her yep

[@zinataraaa]

"I don't even like breast implants, anyway" That was so random hahaha

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

Guess he was just throwing a disclaimer out there 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@ambern2842]

Dan's laugh though 😂😂

[@Muzi03]

Everytime Poet says something, he soound like my mum giving me a lecture. Calm down bro

[@epfizerdoolittleajl2165]

He sounds worse than that

[@ephascus8974]

Muzi Ncube never knew poet to be like this 😂

[@queenirmamay]

He's a parent now goes with trying to be a good one.

[@tbg6070]

These people are literally having mandem-type chat. Maybe you should watch another channel if someone speaking passionately rattles you this much.

[@xxghastlytonerxx]

Ma nigga speaking some mf FACTS tho, if he reminds you of your mom it’s because it’s not the shit you want, it’s the shit you need

[@rendondo214]

Self love and confidence is calm, but people can get cocky real quick

[@ReeceSmithHD]

Honestly, from 30 mins on it was one of the best episodes, doesn't feel like a podcast just a bunch of guys chatting, greatest thing

[@os668]

man said 'Filipo Inzaghi you was offside' LOOOOL savage dan is jokes

[@nadiyahshah6865]

I completely agree that the ‘Instagram era’ has contributed heavily to modern day beauty standards and has led to a rise in the number of people partaking in cosmetic surgery, in order to achieve the standard of ‘beauty’ perpetuated to them by their screens. In an ideal world, people would accept their natural state and be confident within themselves, all of which is a part of ones journey to self love. However, unfortunately we don’t live in an ideal world, and in the 21st century we have seen a rise in the number of image related mental health issues. Can we not argue that surgery fulfils it’s purpose as it meets the demands of an image obsessed population. If something about your appearance is affecting other aspects of your life, e.g. you guys mentioned how a mans sexual performance can be hindered by something such as hair loss, I correlated this to perhaps the man feeling less confident and insecure. Surely having the option to change what you are concerned about and in turn enhance other aspects of your life, is not entirely a bad thing. I appreciate that it’s not just as simple as ‘fixing’ something your insecure about, but if this is going to help someone on their journey to self love, should we be condemning surgery?

[@nadiyahshah6865]

Agreed! If an individual feels that having cosmetic surgery will genuinely have a positive impact on other aspects of their life e.g. self confidence and the decision is not based wholly on image or other peoples perception of them, then I can appreciate their reasoning. However, simply getting work done in an attempt to ‘keep up with the Joneses’, will only lead to temporary self security as trends that formulate modern day standards and definitions of beauty are constantly evolving. Which means that striving for the so called socially constructed version of ‘perfection’ is effectively a game that can’t be won.

[@motivation-wz7qi]

Poet is an absolute must for this Pod. Very insightful and reflective. Just needs to manage his airtime to also absorb wisdom. Another gr8 one!

[@7MLF]

One Of The Funniest Episodes... LOL! Callum Those Editing Skills! HAHAHAHAHA!!!

[@jasminem4853]

Poet speaking that realnessssss for the first half of this episode you know!!! & pls no more Angry Poet, Funny Poet is lit!

[@MehluliMoyo477]

I love these guys. They give the real talk

[@naomie427]

Chuckie's Pout!!!

[@kolpoiy1183]

Why is everyone hating on poet I love his input and everything he says he makes points.

[@abstrack03]

Poet is spot on at the start! This is exactly how I feel about these profiles

[@DylanN44]

Big up man like Poet shouting out my home country in the video. Shout out Zimbabwe

[@hlomlahenna3329]

One of the best podcasts so far With Poet continually dropping knowledge gems throughout...

[@preeukmusicscene820]

Poet was ridiculously on point this episode.

[@Dwayne_Prestiged]

These close ups are jokes keep doing them please.

[@DeeDee-ny1yb]

🤣🤣🤣🤣... I fell oooout when chuckie did the Instagram pose face.. it’s facts💯 39:46 chuckie morphed into soldier boy..”THIIIRD NUUT”...🤣🤣

[@KeyforChange]

51.38: the mind is the most important thing you own!!! WORD

[@tadutwum]

Man said I'm not going turkey for a hairline😂 legend

[@missadam9250]

He aint lying thou. I know few guys who got their hairline done in Turkey. Its not just women who get shit done anymore LMAO. 😂🤣

[@chaneltaylor7902]

Just in time for my Lazy Sunday🙅🏾‍♀️

[@Levidinho]

Love these podcasts, 💪💯 Chuckie keep doing your thing bro , keep the fire up and everyone that on the podcast 💯💪

[@manuelagomes3910]

Lads ye are so enlightened, We just enjoy your content, please keep that up 💖

[@jiggasworld2071]

That mcd's comparison to the text message 😂😂too real una

[@tylonkosi861]

The explore page does tell you who you are !!!🤣🤣🤣🤞🏾

[@loz241]

Poet was too much man 🤦‍♀️ intercepting every conversation back to himself or repeating some next rant. Make your point and keep it moving pls

[@skreetzofldn8965]

Loz Z that's how he is. You can tell he's arrogant and loves his own way

[@Seven-c6q]

Is he a Gemini or Taurus I need to know loool

[@skreetzofldn8965]

Lool what u tryna say I'm a Gemini. But I doubt he is one and if he is on the behalf of all geminis we don't claim him

[@Seven-c6q]

#M2tooBolo Jr hahaha all the ones I know are argumentative defensive or stubborn in discussions 🤷🏽‍♀️ all the ones I KNOW hahaha

[@loz241]

7 11 😂😂😂😂

[@hannah60000]

It’s great to see Savage Dan back, he’s always jokes, unlike you know who...

[@peterpryor7527]

Instagram is a curse on society I swear. You know when you're hanging out with someone but they just want to show you someone's Insta posts instead of actually doing anything worthwhile? The get pushed out of the circle quickly

[@Xoxoxoxoxc]

I don’t think any girl is crying over Poet unfollowing them on insta 🤷🏾‍♀️ and Poet mate you’re well into your 30s stop lying.

[@kaichi213]

Alright he was just saying hes not the demographic

[@ayshajohn2439]

Isn't Poet 33/34? I remember a previous video he stated he was 33. This is why I do not feel bad for him getting fired over those tweets. He was a big man that should have known better.

[@winstonchirpsehill1503]

@@ayshajohn2439 he's 36

[@louisjames3853]

Chuckie ...The Mcdonald's shout is bang on!

[@ammal9841]

Chuckie we like a variety of opinions...Can you please reign Poet in so we can actually hear everyone lol

[@esho2279]

😂😂

[@painfree1349]

Nobody: Skits: “I’m Rinsing Her Body!” Poet: 👀

[@jasminem4853]

Pain Free LOOOOOOOOOL

[@temin7152]

Really respect Poet, feel like people just love saying negative things about him 🙄

[@sour3000]

11:58 poet finished me😂😂😂😂💀😭

[@madaxwayne]

Kinda feel sorry for these insta girls who've got nothing to offer except their bodies When they get into their 30s and 40s their looks are gonna decline rapidly and so will the validation they receive Cant escape the wall

[@benja303]

Its just like sports.. Average athlete hits their prime 18-30 and then declines.

[@madaxwayne]

@@benja303 exactly

[@1Gee2008]

benja303 the difference is that athletes achieve something to be proud of, it doesn’t compare

[@simonh7025]

26:32 underrated statement.

[@Dwayne3007]

Good start to the week... A Chuckie podcast 💯

[@KeyforChange]

30.55: Vulnerability given, but if not reciprocated. We take it back

[@michaelgig3740]

I won’t lie poet was coming nice on this one facts

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

Self love is complex. It is not just about looks. It is the mindset that in some cases yes reflects their appearance but why it is complex is because in some cases some may not have knowledge of certain things. Also self love is what your parents should be promoting not no alleged Social Media "Influencer"

[@yoomr8503]

Here we go again poet is always doing the most

[@user-vm5yy2vy8n]

I really wish poet would sit these out he really ruins the podcast for me. Constantly bringing the conversation back to himself, the guy is a narcissist man it's exhausting to listen to!

[@Prime-o8f]

I'm confused why Poet is talking with bare energy? If you don't like seeing that unfollow and move on. Other people presumably do like to see it that's why they do it. Making such a big deal about YOU not liking it as if your opinion is relevant?

[@epfizerdoolittleajl2165]

I think he has delusions of grandure

[@taljsingh]

5:26 KILLED IT!!!!!!!! 😂 😂 😆 🤣 😜

[@Joeonline26]

@25:02 Nah that close up had me creasing loool

[@movingon675]

Calums' been going IN with the zoom-ins 😂

[@StarLight-tu6ub]

His speaks volumes!!! Nuff respect 🤗🤗🤗

[@Honey-od4lc]

Poet is the truth !

[@876LND]

LOOOOL Dan’s face at 39:50

[@1995platinum]

Really good convo you guys are doing bits

[@DailyDoseOfRuth]

I didnt even realize this was from today! Lol I like this cast. Its dope.

[@hannah60000]

@00:55 “I’m in my late 20s, early 30s”. What utter bull! Who says that? You are damn near your mid-30s still rolling around with a juvenile mind. After you got called out last episode for falsely pretending you were bare young in 2012, 2017 and 2018! Of course, you don’t want your real age being confirmed smh.

[@DapzRenegade]

hannah60000 shut up you irrelevant hater

[@M-84]

😂😂🤣

[@winstonchirpsehill1503]

he's 36

[@madaxwayne]

@@winstonchirpsehill1503 rahtid dont lie?

[@anomalymadeit1670]

poet was chatting fax fax

[@ayeshaseidbirru8633]

Self love has the term SELF in it for a reason. Self is not only what we were born with. It is what you have built over the years you have been alive. A natural can promote self love, and people who want to love their natural will stan her. And if a modified wants to promote self love, she can too, and the person she has built herself into will inspire another. What I do not understand is, you men, as men, are sitting around here trying to tell women what to do and what to not, how you like it and how you don't, what you find attractive and what you don't, but honest to God, this is a genuine question, did we ever ask?

[@ayeshaseidbirru8633]

@@RM_BURNER I agree with your take to a certain extent, but the very core of self love is to love oneself first, no? The core idea is to feel comfortable in your own skin. And if you don't feel beautiful in what you already have, and you have the choice of becoming what you want, then you are most likely to take that chance and become it. The very men who speak about not liking plastic surgery and societal depictions of "beautiful" tend to be the same men who chase after them. The hypocrisy is that these men also put their own bodies through extreme diets and gym to look buff and more attractive to women, but since that is "natural", there is no need calling it out as an insecurity.

[@CarringDevil]

JUST A BEAUTIFUL EPISODE!!

[@bebesm5893]

Why is everyone hating on Poet? He spoke the truth and was funny the whole episode. You guys just hate cause you see someone else doing it. Have your opinions

[@epfizerdoolittleajl2165]

Do you honestly think that's the case? Dan and Chuckie also express their opinions..

[@Porsha-Laurell]

All intelligent guys in the podcast.. got some good points 👏🏼

[@sayrah4me_710]

Dans face is soooo mischievous 😂🤣

[@Kkayy020]

Lol I was waiting on this visual!!

[@eyedentv]

Important topics being spoken about 👊🏻🤞

[@johnfilson9001]

@ 22:18-20 you can tell that came from Chuckie's heart LOL

[@habibtitingzz8899]

25:04 ‘Fresh?!’💀😭😂😂😂

[@SinisterAnimationS]

chuckies bathroom story had me dyiiiiiin

[@5thweston787]

Great episode guys x p.s. what has Zimbabwe ever done to Poet lol

[@bobmartins5128]

Put Skits on more i beg. Fucking love that guy - would like to see him more

[@PJ-po7fu]

Psychosomatic is the word you're looking for chucks @ 51mins

[@bintadiallo2754]

I'm sorry but poet talks way to much, like I want to hear chuckie and Dan too

[@PJ-po7fu]

Facts. Even Dan is falling asleep beside the foghorn called poet

[@orthors]

13:40 Poet Kills me man 😂 "I can smell the coffee brewing in China" What the fuck man 🤣

[@SireSireSire]

Please tell me someone heard Dan say “you’re more of a Filippo Inzaghi whereas I play on the shoulder”😂😂😂😂

[@billyhiron6546]

sElF lOvE iS tHe BeSt LoVe Them ppl that say that are more time crying out for help, nuff said

[@kingsweattv2465]

True Self love can be found in the constructive critiques, commitment to self improvement/self mastery and the positive reinforcements we give oneself!! Not in the delusion that manifests today... You are not promoting self love by prancing about in your undies online, with half ya ass out talm' bout some stretch marks we did not even notice!! Self love is about empowerment, and social media plays no role in this EVER!! Your mirror is where the work is done, in your mind is where its at!! Another example; If you are obese, out of shape or simply have excess fat, self love is not deluding yourself that society is the problem and that people need to stop "Fat shaming" which is not a thing but rather educating ( empowering ) yourself on basic laws of human biology, some of which are as follows.... Eating in a Caloric deficit ( gym or no gym ) = weight loss, Eating in a caloric surplus + a sedentary lifestyle = Obesity, period!! Not making excuses, Taking learned information and applying it, setting goals and attaining them, Taking responsibility is self love.... Those who use Social Media ( Myself included, albeit not for an entire year now ) Are ALL by default seeking validation of some sort, this is directly counter-intuitive to the ideals of self love.

[@alexdixon7741]

Poets taking risks today 😂😂😂

[@Mo.sesirving]

Big up Chuckie

[@Debbi.O]

Self Love is following Jesus Christ

[@mubi2296]

Dan's laugh Lmaoooooooooooo

[@davispaul82]

Self love is about doing you, especially when it comes to women

[@PJ-po7fu]

Funny how poet says he can't be bothered to discuss or advise his lil brother on issues but he stay lecturing everyone on every single podcast. Really Bruv? 🤔

[@livinlifeblind3570]

Fam,just want y'all to know I be 🤣🤣🤣 at y'all combo all the way in 🇨🇦 y'all the best. Where can I follow poet!!!!!!!

[@jakefabian]

40:12 Poets Face lmaooooooooo

[@JessicaJones-rw4hz]

Poet needs to learn how to communicate with others in discussions. When he’s expressing his opinion, it feels overwhelming because he’s too enthusiastic(which is always). Conversations with him, make the other members of the pod cast have to fight to also add their opinion. Learn from Dan poet!

[@redroyce575]

He said "You was pippo inzaghi, you was offside" LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

[@domgreen1859]

I think the first thing women think is is he not attracted to me? am I ugly? all the insecurities begin to come out which more times is not even the case it just happens sometimes

[@marshallcampbell6498]

Maybe us as men should stop gassing up these girls. I followed some pornstar who was stunning, absolutely nasty attitude, cussing out guys argumentative, conceited just an ugly person, she began to look really ugly in the physical to me, yet guys still telling her she looks beautiful, good morning beautiful and all sorts of ear service to gas her, one time she got rude to me I shut her down. Need to stop gassing these insta chicks, were respecting women based on how good they look

[@BIGRED-rd5ob]

Unnuh man smashed this video to pieces especially Poet!! Man is a Fuckin G!! 👊👊🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 #LoveYourselves!#Doit4thelovenuhdoit4theLikes

[@ade_abraham]

Fam! My explore page lmao! Hello gyal ya na! 🤣🤣

[@TheSamthaman24]

poet is the physical manifestation of the "loud black girl" stereotype

[@boomboxz321]

What hoodie is savage dan wearing ?

[@Joeonline26]

@38:43 "Stage fright...stage fright....STAGE FRIGHT!" looool

[@MrMNSalmon]

Real talk guys 100

[@lilbrolee2702]

Does anyone know who the guy with the glasses is? Idk who he is first time coming to this podcast

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

His name is Poet.