ARE THESE GOOD OR BAD CASUAL DATING TIPS?

[@Thesism]

The microphone cameo: *iconic*

[@_StinkyAna_]

@David Yoon omg I was about to comment the exact same thing 😂👌

[@gwennield461]

7:46

[@chasbodaniels1744]

Boom operator’s arm intermittently cramped up?

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

So annoying and distracting.

[@sexyscientist]

@@ireallyreallyhategoogle Not annoying to me but definitely distracting.

[@mengwang5767]

"It's so cool that you're my girlfriend" "OK"

[@DillyBlue]

"When you kiss someone-" "I've never done it." STORYTIME: SHE HAS NEVER USED TONGUE (With Proof!!)

[@Dameyer]

Dude not gonna lie “come here” would work so well on me

[@Cemarimoney]

I’d be all confused like, “?????” as I move over and then just lips on my lips. So would work on me XD That’s such a bag, good start up.

[@bodbn]

Let's bang generally works depending on how drunk the chick is.

[@autdroid6078]

Lmao, same. I actually thought it was kinda hot when Gaby said it in the video.

[@BrittAnarVlogs]

David Meyer that always works

[@userjoao]

I cringed so hard at the "come here". I guess it's a 50/50. Maybe if the person was really attractive

[@lucalibanio3967]

Allison's a great listener honestly. How she pays attention to the story, interacts with it without interrupting (like nodding and going "oh yeah yeah") and then making a supportive comment when it's done. Looks like a great friend to talk to.

[@calamitywindpetal]

"Should I go on a date?" "No its terrible"

[@sugaCat363]

"I've been going on walks telling myself I need to learn to sit in the discomfort" dude same.

[@amy8144]

Dear anyone who minds the mic being in the shot: Remember the sound quality in the early days of JBU??? We've come so far don't you dare complain

[@recklessroges]

Maybe they like reminders or at least an excuse to go full diva on the crew?

[@mattk8440]

Now we just need to work on the lighting

[@pancakefoxp]

But usually they have good sound AND a stable unseen mic??? why now

[@amsaric]

I actually think it’s so cute the mic made a cameo. It’s like the guy holding it got tired or drowsy or just wanted to have his presence acknowledged.

[@bodbn]

The girls were skinnier back then. They thick now though kind of like it.

[@amyclark9726]

I've missed these couch conversations

[@Tina-ml7hd]

I love these conversations between them

[@jinalives3093]

"One guy was talking endlessly about his divorce and I was like imma fuck that guy." "Did ya?" "Yeah!" "Nice." I love the support lmao but also how can I be like Gaby lol

[@pokakaa]

You can’t. The point of her existence is to demonstrate an individual you will aspire to be but never reach.

[@jinalives3093]

@@pokakaa hahah damn. I was just talking about that 'if I want that person, I will get that person' attitude but yes, she is great in general. Your comment right there is probably the biggest compliment you could ever give anyone wow

[@pokakaa]

Jina Lives she’s just so strong. It’s hard not to. But I’m not gonna lie, Allison probably had the strongest move... I would cry tears of joy if someone asked me to meet their dog.

[@pokakaa]

@@bodbn I've seen you be an asshole in a few comments now, and you really just need to fuck off.

[@jinalives3093]

@@pokakaa omg yeahhh that is so true, I mean they have a dog AND they want me to meet it, that right there is reason enough to commit lol

[@sams4013]

“When you kiss someone...” “Never done it” ME TOO, me too

[@psf334]

so now gaby has a half-dead dog too. great.

[@monicav9151]

😂

[@greensteve9307]

Being a cat-person, I think they are the best kind of dog. Quiet and calm.

[@Ayeshoo1231]

a dog being super hyper usually means they're unhappy and don't get enough attention so, their dogs being calm is a healthy sign

[@nuhu004]

Wats Ur problem dude

[@MsMyrmaid]

Feel like Gaby's "let me drive you to your car" move is very LA specific.

[@ruthlynam7380]

true, most places you don't have to walk for 80 hours to get back to your spot lmao

[@MsMyrmaid]

@@ruthlynam7380 Yeah and in other cities with bad parking a lot of young people don't even own cars/would avoid driving in the downtown.

[@M0sshr00m97]

@@miipmiipmiip SAME

[@stephanieandsophia]

bio student here! There is some truth to the 'incompatabilty' thing (idk about the olive oil part). So when you kiss or get close to someone, those pheromones and the exchange of "saliva" when you kiss allows for you to get information about the other person's immune system. In nature it's best to have opposing immune systems so that any potential children have a broader immunity. So yeah! Incompatability of pheromones is a thing!

[@Zainab-bg7yu]

As a med student can confirm this is science

[@mattiea871]

So it’s better if you don’t like the persons smell?

[@JustBetweenUs]

THANK YOU! -g

[@stephanieandsophia]

@@mattiea871 a person with an opposing immune system will smell good to you so it's better if they smell good

[@inkasaraswati7625]

For some reason I learned that in a documentary maybe more than a decade ago and that piece of information stuck with me. Glad to know it's really true (not some pseudoscience in some hack documentary)! Also, watching this make me feel glad I met my husband at high school, gosh I would've suck at "dating". And thankfully I love his smell so yay for our immune system!

[@roshnidahal1672]

Allison you've become a new and much happier person . As someone who has always admired you girls I'm happy for you..

[@bodbn]

They are both much plumper than they were a year ago.

[@quin04]

Ryan why does that matter?

[@pandaboy5o]

Doug is iconic

[@bindup7420]

Where is Alan?

[@lesmore10LA272]

i get all my relationship advice from this channel lol

[@bodbn]

You must be single then

[@bofhvp]

Ryan did you miss off “still” 😋

[@purelitenite]

How is that working out for you?

[@lesmore10LA272]

@@purelitenite well im still single, but is by choice. this channel helped me to get out of a toxic relationship. i also have severe anxiety and listening to Alison point of view has been really good to me. now I know how to work on certain things. like I used to be very jealous because I overthink everything, and I realized that it was part of my anxiety, although is not an excuse. now I feel like i have work on it, and I can be a better partner. I feel like Allison helped me a lot if that make sense

[@lesmore10LA272]

@@purelitenite I also relate so much to allison cause I dont get casual dating is the most stressful thing in this planet

[@truthfinderjohn]

Honestly I need "come here". Because I will not know to go for a kiss otherwise. Just tell me what to do and I'll do it till I get use to you. That way I know your "signals".

[@divyasasidharan2960]

John Shavers that’s actually a very good point

[@acchaladka]

Ladies, ladies, gentlemens, this, this right here.

[@greensteve9307]

I'm pretty sure "come here" was used by my current gf on our first date. It worked.

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

ADVICE TO ALL WOMEN DATING MEN "COME HERE" IS A GREAT SIGNAL!!!

[@recoil53]

Yes, please. No signals, just a big ole neon sign that tells me what to do. Make it a "Choose Your Own Adventure" please.

[@ccassidy9090]

I think people overestimate how bad they look. I got my first boyfriend because we both worked at the zoo so the uniform was cargo shorts and a fleece, I generally smelt not great and didn't bother with makeup, but he still asked me out. In particular straight guys care a lot less than you would think

[@JustBetweenUs]

YES.

[@missylarsson3517]

I think straight women are the harshest on other women’s appearance.

[@Rita-kx3yr]

Truth! I felt so self conscious when dating fem girls, but now that I'm dating a guy it's so weird 0.0 but nice. Like I'm so curious about the standards?

[@airwreckafern]

I just love how Sugar and Beans are sleeping.

[@susie6559]

i CANNOT wait for the podcast. every time i watch a jbu video i think about how i could listen to you talk all day about literally anything

[@bodbn]

You must have a pretty empty life.

[@ruthlynam7380]

@@bodbn dude do you get off on being rude to random people?? why you responding to every happy comment just to be shit?

[@Lelii321]

the “come here” thing is a thing. i’ve never used it but people always use it on me. major turn on

[@TheKarenSep]

I know I'm probably not the first to comment.. BUT I love you strong ladies for sharing your stories and reminding other female creatives out there that it's ok to be yourself and still be funny! Love your work!

[@bodbn]

Yeah cause that message doesn't get out in literally every aspect of our media. (Sarcasm).

[@Garg0leitor]

I too love role reversal when I'm dating men! It makes them pause and blink and you can see them struggling a bit and realising that their "gentlemany"moves won't work on me, their little panic and then accepting it and even enjoying it... and I live for that shit

[@madisoncorley5471]

I like the whole "come here" thing! It's forward but not uncomfortable and still communicative. Am I the only one?

[@jinalives3093]

Omfg the hand on the back reversal thing

[@Palomadeitz]

Allison that hair length looks good on you 👌

[@youmeandi100]

this needs to be three hours longer

[@ZoeMikelStites]

I love how comfortable and confident Allison has been talking about her body. "I always said I would show them off. And since I've gained weight now I have pretty big boobs. and I show them off constantly! It's great!" I feel you girl.

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

Worst move I tried on a girl : we were chewing ice from our cocktails at the bar and I whispered in her ear "this is fun but my mouth is freezing and I'm thinking of a way to warm it up..." I don't know if she didn't answer because the music was too loud and she didn't hear me or that she was too embarassed...

[@ozzietv3044]

this is actually pretty hot move, maybe she didn't hear you especially because you were whispering.

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

@@ozzietv3044 Na, I think it's because she wasn't into me as she admitted later on...

[@ozzietv3044]

@@mariottabuttalapasta oh snap I am sorry

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

@@ozzietv3044 Me too, even more since I had gathered the courage to tell her I was attracted to her after weeks of developping a crush but well, you can't always get what you want...

[@ozzietv3044]

Marion D. Definitely been there and done that, but hey we get over it and hopefully learn from that so that’s good ;)

[@HighVoltageCarnage]

:D The Microphone!

[@Luchingador]

i use the scorpio move, where i trow a chain attached to a hook and the end at them, and yell GET OVER HERE

[@dance4sugar16]

Dude, i had the same sour taste in the mouth while kissing in a dream thing. Wtf does that mean.

[@fiikahlo]

Couple times I've had a sour taste in a dream, it's been because I've slept with my mouth drying wide open, with a horrible taste in my mouth when I wake up 😂 never in a kissing dream tho.

[@mmtruooao8377]

@Wintersfrost technically the sensation of something being wet is a combination of pressure and temperature, so that may be complicated to replicate in a dream I also don't generally have senses other than visuals and sounds in dreams

[@brad_wilson]

Sour taste in your mouth could be from adrenaline or anxiety.

[@ritadeleon5279]

8:14 that is so true. MHC, major histocompatibility complex! I totally get what Gabby is saying, I didn't use to like the scent of my ex...even if he had just showered I still found it odd

[@Niehm]

My "move" for first kisses is "hey, I'd like to kiss you, ok?". Never failed!

[@keynastar]

Here for Allison's painting and Doug's attitude.

[@zombiejock]

I see suger has taught beans how to play a dead on camera

[@evercuriousmichelle]

I'm 28, asexual and never kissed anyone. I don't mind it. But I've also learned SO much from this conversation. No one thinks to talk about these kinds of things. Thank you!

[@HypnoLuna]

+

[@meganriehl3005]

I agree with Allison about hating the lead up to the first kiss, I feel like everytime I've been in that situation I always ruin the moment, cause they'll be like leaning in slowly and I just rush in because I can't handle the weird moment right before

[@CookieCreamCrumble]

"our scents don't match" PREACH huge deal breaker.

[@MissWonderific]

#letboommicin

[@caltheantirobot]

Kyra Hamel that boom mic had a great casual dating tip but was waiting to be invited in to the conversation

[@wickedly4]

my favorite move is if there's tension, like we're gonna kiss but they won't initiate is "are you gonna kiss me or what?"

[@JustBetweenUs]

love this -g

[@stormtroopette]

Just Between Us lol Gabi would love this

[@markor4263]

Gaby: should I, like, go on a date? Allison: yea! no, it's weird

[@tom4ivo]

1. For most of the 20th century, a date was defined as a pre-arranged going out for entertainment purposes; intent or goals weren't part of the definition. Then the 90s happened and people started hooking up before dating, and nobody knew what the hell they were doing. 2. I think Gabby doesn't have an agenda when she meets most people. When you have an agenda, you get nervous about how you are going to achieve that agenda. When you have an agenda, the other person senses that, and that makes them nervous, because they don't know what you want, or if they do, they might not want the same thing. 3. The thing about smell indicating compatibility has to do with the immunoglobulin complex. This is the genetically determined set of antibodies of a person's immune system. It is very beneficial for your offspring if the other parent of your offspring has a really different Ig complex, since this maximizes the strength of their immune system. Tests indicate that women are much more attracted to the smell of someone who's Ig complex is very different from their own. They have chemistry, literally.

[@joejellyfish]

I relate in so many levels to Allison, but the ''come here'' will melt me instantly.

[@beecy3893]

Smell is absolutely crucial to a relationship. I've been with someone whose scent was gorgeous and I loved snuggling into him but my last relationship... ugghh his scent was all wrong. We lasted a year together but the whole time he smelled of decay 😷 Kissing him was repulsive to me and after we ended I had to REPLACE my bed and sofa cos I couldn't get rid of the decaying smell. Lesson learned here only kiss people who smell of home 😍

[@PinkRose0910]

Beecy 74 Maybe he needed to see a doctor or dentist? Smells can change even with good hygiene to be bad if something is going on inside the body. Like if someone has certain health problems..

[@beecy3893]

@@PinkRose0910 I understand what you are saying. Believe me I tried to help him. No amount of bathing or toothpaste fixed it. We just weren't compatible on this level

[@ladyhayley4859]

I dunno how you lasted a year!

[@acidification]

Decay! LMAO

[@madeleine656]

My dad makes every space that he spends a significant amount of time in (particularly his car) smell of mildew, which is probably the same thing that you're smelling. I don't think that would be due to pheromones, since it's so lasting. My mom thinks it might have something to do with my dad's cancer, because it developed within the last 5 years.

[@katfunk9538]

Sugar is so cute with the lion

[@anna-xz9yj]

GABY omg I totally have the pheromones not matching up/"smell" thing too, and I talk to all my friends about this constantly but none of them really know what I mean lol. It's so true though! It's honestly the worst to go out with someone who you think is really great but then have that happen when the two of you kiss, because it's a total dealbreaker :( For me it's more like a nondescript "sharp" smell, one that kinda hits the back of your sinuses the way, like, raw onion sometimes does? But I've also had it be more cloying/oily so I think I know what you mean by smelling like olive oil too. Thanks for making me feel less crazy! hahaha

[@sophiea1270]

The onion smell is the worst!!! Blegh

[@M1rela]

I like how Allison's artplate in the beginning matches Gaby's outfit

[@Tina-ml7hd]

I love how you guys talk so openly and the closeness between you two.

[@fridabystrom6689]

Finding this channel has been super interesting since I properly try to process the content, most of the times I watch a new video three times in a row to fully understand the concepts and schemes of the topic. I’ve never fully done this before, the content of your sit down videos are some of the most unique, profound, and nuanced videos I’ve ever watched. Every single sit down video brings me something new and embed it into my personal experiences and life, I seriously consider your content as life changing for me. The structure of my mind feels completely different since starting watching your channel. Thank you.

[@fbthebear]

new series Comediens in cars hooking up

[@videosofmikey]

FB The Bear hahahhahaa

[@bodbn]

You will need actual comedian not just lame KZbin stars.

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

At this point, I'll take any dating tips

[@user-lg9ln6pf1z]

I'm pretty sure I see you on nearly every video I watch xD

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

@@user-lg9ln6pf1z It means you're watching good videos then !

[@shahyali3569]

@@mariottabuttalapasta same here girl, I'd do almost anything to get out of this deep pit I'm in

[@recklessroges]

Spend less time on KZbin and more networking. (How is The M.D. of lesbian KZbin not swimming in her own polycule at this point? I'm sure lots of girls see your comments and dream of dating you.)

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

@@recklessroges You're probably right... But I'm trying to get back out there now ! (Most girls that see my comments aren't living in my area most certainly...)

[@SonicBubbleBlaster]

Is no one going to say anything about Allison admitting that her and Gaby should be dating

[@nischalprajapati6157]

Every time I look at the description and every time I get disappointed that it says "Shot by Doug" and not "Shot by Doug"

[@flowerc]

Sugar with the lion? doll!!! 😍

[@KiSeaKatikka]

My new favorite JbU video

[@andrewbarna5303]

I’ve been subbed forever and I don’t know why but KZbin just stopped showing me your videos. So now I have MONTHS of content to catch up on. I’m so glad I found you again and I hit the bell so I’m notified this time around!!

[@shadyminion]

These are my favorite of their videos. Love the consistency

[@larissadelgado1969]

The boom casually peeping into the shot lol.

[@nofskiepatofskie]

i get so anxious just picturing myself trying to do Gaby's moves. she's an absolute legend.

[@MoviesMaria]

I just love watching you guys chat. Makes me feel like we are hanging out

[@lucybrown8472]

Allison I so relate... like I will genuinely avoid hooking up with people from the fear of having to sit in that uncomfortable limbo of "do we keep talking about nothing or start making out" ugh the worst

[@sammygoodz4984]

You guys should actually do an episode high

[@Ttoby89]

ummmmm I think that ship has sailed round the world a few times

[@rachelllerena5391]

I rly like this format. Reminds me of the original content that hooked me cuz it was relatable and gave me so much to think about about my own self and how I related to things.

[@WaltzTheOji]

Great video! I love listening to the two of you simply interact, its fantastic

[@boilingpigsty]

i don't know if it's specifically olive oil, but i get that smell thing but i've never heard someone talk about so now i'm kinda having an existential crisis bc i definitely thought it was all in my head????

[@sheenabeena2838]

this is literally the most relatable video I've ever seen

[@dutchguywillem]

Oh! Allison, good alternative. you can buy some like 1/8 inch thick veneer wood. it's super easy to cut and so much fun to paint on.

[@soccerbopper124]

so happy you guys care about your content again

[@weatherby551]

I have a very strong sense of smell and I'll notice changes in how the person I'm dating smells to me from hour to hour and day to day. I do find that when they smell really good I feel more attracted to them. I think the olive oil smell for me is more like fritos haha.

[@megatfaris3777]

This is why i subscribed!!!

[@eveaubermann5936]

Dang! Go Gaby!! This video was so much fun to watch. :D

[@heyitssho]

SO MUCH YES to Gaby saying she puts her hand on the small of guys' backs 🤣🙌🏼🙌🏼 That brought me such jOY

[@nerdfightercommenter6969]

I know this is late but yesss about the smell thing. I could always tell just from a makeout that the smell is not compatible, mostly for me it smells like milk or honestly weirdly olive oil too now that I have a name for it.

[@izzyfarmer1813]

Love a good role reversal. My fave is offering my grandma cardigans and trying to pay :)

[@chloesmith9203]

Great impression of Jake Peralta at 0:24

[@deetdat4life578]

Boom mic is hilarious! And dude at the end...wtf! Keep it up ladies...love this channel!

[@ruledbyvenusss]

gaby and allison are like the chill, relatable girl defined

[@amrutamahajan9627]

I loved the previous Pastel-ish theme than this current faded one! Love your channel, this was just a feedback ☺

[@andreaorbzy31]

I GET THE OLIVE OIL THING! It’s like that and also just like this weirdness to their smell, like it’s not warm and sweet, it’s “off”

[@alexandra_pink]

This was my fave jbu episode in a while so glad that couch time and questions are back!!

[@treestein8]

Allison I think you’d like those acrylic paint cup dumping type paintings hahaha you know the ones

[@shuzennn]

I really love Gaby's look in this video

[@outoftheklosset]

I can't get over that small dog in the middle reacting to Allison's reactions! 😂🤣😂

[@kendrabrecka279]

Gaby! I have that. Sometimes people just taste a certain way when they kiss you. Mine isn't olive oil, it's probably actually various tastes that I just have now associated with different people, and some people taste similar. If they have a certain taste, I know it's gonna be a regrettable one night stand. If they taste another way, it tastes like inexperience. And these are similar between all the people I've kissed, there's just patterns. And then sometimes there is no taste, that's the best. But then I wonder if I taste like something to people and I guess I'll never learn what that is. I hope it's mint toothpaste.

[@JennyAngel93]

This was such a good episode, I really enjoyed it! It felt so relaxed, positive and encouraging. Love you both, you look smashing ❤

[@bestintentions4249]

I miss these couch conversations. You have a special dynamic when you're in the same room.

[@jasminem812]

oh my GOD the mic or whatever peaking into frame at the top of the screen at 7:52 scared the shit out of me

[@WickedMondays]

I just stared at Alison's right eyelashes the whole time. I mean...look at it dude. It's on a Disney princess level

[@WhatIsItToBurn]

A: "How do you date?" G: "I meet someone..." Well, that's me screwed. That explains everything! =P

[@isa0ber]

my venus is in virgo so when the kiss isn't compatible i stop it to give some feedback on what needs to change in order to work. if after the feedback it continues to not work then i give up. i haven't noticed a pattern flavor or smell of incompatibility cause i'm always thinking pragmatically, "what can we do to make this better?" but i'm gonna pay attention to that in the future cause it's so interesting

[@yesmelodystrange]

i love allison so much i wanna wrap her up in a hug

[@anafdez2112]

GABY!!! THAT HAPPENS TO ME TOO!!!! I know if I'm compatible with someone depending on if I like their personal scent or not. And I'm not talking about perfume or cologne or things like that. But for example, my best friend, I love her sooo much, but from the way they smell I know we wouldn't be good in a relationship It is weird I had though about the pheromones thing, I just knew it had to do with the way they smelled.

[@DennyJacobsen]

The boom mic is my favorite character in this video

[@Ooodledoodle]

thank you for posting this morning it made everything better

[@StudySoundsAndRelaxingAudio]

GABY I GET YOU ON THAT SMELL THING I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE I HIGHKEY ONLY ROLL BASED ON SMELLLLLSSSS

[@moonlighter6]

Clearly, Gaby is a relaxed super-professional dater. Allison looks like Cleopatra with the awesome hair, the ABSOLUTE WINNER!

[@stellao.7365]

I love how the boom mic came into frame 3 separate times

[@NeneeArt]

oh my god, people who smell like play-doh to me feel so safe and secure as romantic partners??? so like the opposite of olive oil for gaby

[@JustBetweenUs]

INTERESTING! -g

[@bodbn]

Children normally smell like play doh you are an adult. So I'm not sure what to make of that.