Are We Adopting Him? | Bio Sister Fit In?

[@that_hippie_nomad]

My advice for Alex, do your own independent research about joining the Air Force. Recruiters will tell you whatever you want to hear.

[@tammyfromtexas7503]

They absolutely do that. They lied so much to my 17 year old son. He joined at 17.

[@veronicalalalala]

Exactly and alex seems like such a happy guy i dont want to see him with no smile because the military is hard like mentally, i know a lot of people who served came back not the same

[@christinaf-i9l]

Exactly this! 7.5 years and currently still serving in the Air Force. I arrived at my recruiter apt with all of my research done on my end, questions ready, and I only signed my contract for the one and only job I wanted 🤗 I’m also an Air Force Reservist (serve part-time) which is different from those choosing Active duty (full-time) and little to no choice over the job, state and base you’ll be stationed at for the duration of your contract. There are numerous Pros and Cons to both part-time and full-time service. And yes, The Air Force has changed SO much in the matter of years. Basic training standards, head shaving, a lot of things don’t apply now that did when I graduated in 2018. In my opinion, it’s way easier now than ever before😅

[@heatherfahsbender6583]

Ya I just don’t see Alex in the military. I served in the Navy but I don’t think Alex would like the yelling and exacting discipline. Is he capable, absolutely, but I don’t know that he would enjoy anything about it. You are told what you are supposed to be doing and when. No freedom in that. Now if he wants consistency in a job then he would have that. Go through training and do the same thing over and over again. It could also give him focus and a direction I suppose. I agree though, best to do your own research cus those recruiters will tell you anything.

[@marcieaz1197]

I totally agree!

[@bridgetmcdaniel4004]

One question that I had about Tristan's situation.....where has he been since he was in foster care with you? He seems so personable and caring.....I am hoping he has had support and care from others along the way......! And it is easy to know why you were so anxious to find him again...he is a treasure!💗💗

[@juliajones2283]

Always had a soft spot for Alex, I remember when he was 18 and you lived in St Johns and I sent him a birthday card & gift and Alex thanked me on a video which was so nice. He just seems such a kind nice person. I hope he is always happy.

[@nonondriessen]

Thank you for answering some questions. I think that it is the best to let the kids decide if, and when they want to tell their story or where their boundaries of privacy are.

[@MsCrazymomof3]

Tristan, Arron and Lucas..."crazy foodies". So many awesome cooks!

[@TWR1988]

Crazy Cooking

[@sarahssunnysideofthemounta2154]

This is for Alex, I like your videos. I'm thinking of ideas for videos. Moto : tell a short story. 10 min 1. _____vs _________ 2. Learn a skill and show everyone the process 3. Anything on money saving and what to do and not to do. 4. Interview each family member with an activity. One for each vid.That would take a year right there! It gives your take on the friendships. 5. Always show holidays and vacations. 6 craft projects. Always good to have one. 7. Read and get inspired then pass it on to me! 8. Drive around and show us what ever seams boring to you. It may be interesting to someone on here. 9. Please don't repeat your lack of being online you own none of us the video. Don't apologize. 10. Play with the dogs! I'll watch that all day! There do what you love and show it don't tell it. Love this family!

[@stephanieburgess8217]

Good job Mark catching the private info on their address. I’m so impressed with how on top of things Mark is.

[@carldoughh]

I mean thats what an editor does isn't it? Congratulations on doing your job I guess.

[@susiesantino5625]

​@SAHAMH123yep me too

[@MissyDcherrydaisypie25]

Hold those memories close . Our youngest daughter married her childhood sweetheart today and I’m so happy we have video and lots of pictures.

[@Panda-oj9or]

I feel like you should just ask Tristen if he wants to be adopted. For you guys of course adoption isn't needed to love them as your child, but also Melinda deep down always wanted to be adopted even though you treated her like your child. Maybe he doesnt know its an option or feels awkward for asking but even if he says no im sure it would mean so much to him to even just know you guys want to legally make him your son as well. Plus like another commenter said you guys would have parental rights incase anything ever happened. Either way though I love seeing Tristen, it really feels like he was the missing piece. Anyways if she is open to it I would love an update on Halie's mental and physical health, I'm curious how she manages daily symptoms. I also struggle with mental health and POTS.

[@lisbonlover]

Does Hallie have POTS?

[@Powell978]

​@@lisbonloveryes she has pots. They've mentioned it a few times in vlogs. The last time it was mentioned is when she nearly fainted on a family meal out and Aaron carries her to the car.

[@surferbob9419]

Yeah Crystal that is tough having to choose which funeral to go to. I love Bella’s reaction about being interested in her brothers. Your kids like the Crazy Middle kids all behave as if they are total siblings which is great. Love both of your families.

[@JessicaLynne-ei8nu]

Alex seems like the sweetest guy. 🥺 Just watched his 20th birthday and he started crying after he got his gifts.. I'm so glad he moved back in to save up money and it shows that he LOVES you guys so much.. it is the sweetest thing ever. He was blessed by being sent back to the system in a way because he found you guys. 🥺♥️

[@mackenzieb2218]

Crystal! You should film 5 questions a day throughout your days filming, then you can do a "weekly Q&A" as a video every week! Gives you guys an extra day break and is good content!

[@coolchick1977]

Great update video! It seems like Tristan fits in perfectly with the family! Thank you for adressing the Joe question, I was wondering how he was doing, miss seeing him in vlogs!

[@nataliesullivan9568]

I am so happy that you gave an update on Joe. Love him and how great he is with your family, miss seeing him in videos. ❤️🙏🏼

[@TommyAlanRaines]

It appears that Tristan has found his way home! 👊❤‍🔥

[@AmyMichele-mr9xj]

Definitely the people who adopted Alex's siblings but not alex sure missed out on a treasure of a son. He's the best pettit child followed by Luke

[@SparklyStoner360]

Ranking the children like that is honestly creepy and rude.

[@Robert.Tower.]

Giving bella the bubble wrap award for her finger taking it back then regiving her the award for smashing her finger in the fridg had me cracking up😂

[@melissarogersp863]

I’m clumsy too 😂😂😂😂. I trip over my own foot and end up hurting my ankles.

[@Lovesbykaykay]

Tristan was so adorable when crystal saw him playing with the kids and Tristan was happy to be in the vlogs❤🥰

[@fever4flavor]

It was funny how Grandma said, "Im ok. I'm ok. I'm ok."

[@valerieherrera8516]

Shelly wasn't even fazed😂😂..she was like really mom again 😂❤❤

[@preshesgem]

I love Bella's personality. She is so funny! Love the whole family. I watch Crazy Middles as well!

[@ednanelson1897]

You can always buy a external dvd player if your computer doesn't have one. I'm glad Joe is doing okay. He's been missed 😢 So glad Jared was there to keep your mom from falling.

[@littleleena]

Jared was on it!!

[@orlabuckley9641]

Crystal, you do so much for your family that no doubt you were there for both your mother in law and your uncle, that is what matters when they were alive you were there for them, don't be so hard on yourself, you truly are amazing ❤❤❤

[@beckyjones6956]

Miss Joe so much, please let him know we all think about him and wish him well. I think I missed what your vacation is and where are you all going?

[@katesproule-xo1ks]

Can you tell Joe that he is greatly missed' when he is ready I hope he will be on with you guys a lot.❤

[@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname]

Tossing wrenches everywhere 😂😂😂 what a troublemaker and not going to lie I can’t wait to see what he comes up with on the trip

[@hp8hp8]

I saw Noah Khan when he was in Toronto! He was great! The crowd, show, and his opener were all amazing! Bella will have such a fun time

[@BethanyWagler]

❤ how crystal puts it, Tristan in the family seems so natural😊 you can see he brings joy to every one around him, he does amazing with little Aurora and Scarlet😁

[@LauraAn124]

The bubble wrap award makes me miss Joe 😅. Hope to see him around again😊

[@Apprentice777JetSet]

Alex has a lot growing to do ... Good thing his parents are very understanding to help him figure out what direction to take.

[@krystalgarcia675]

I think Aaron and Triston should team up on Beyond Crazy... I think they would have a blast and do great... So sorry you had to choose between funerals... that's a horrible spot to be in... Alex just needs to know all he has to do is film... we watch and evey time he does more and more ideas will come

[@renanims3568]

He needs to just make a list of potential topics or ideas to film. It could be about ANYTHING! I get the impression he went into debt with his last relationship (ring, etc.) & trying to pay all that off. Valuable lessons were learned. 😢

[@glowsuds]

What a good idea!

[@heatherfahsbender6583]

I agree. Just film life outside of his actual job. Alex himself is content. Nothing needs to be scripted.

[@claremonea872]

Miss you Joe 😔 Thinking of you.

[@lesleyblackburn3662]

Alex is an amazing young man so articulate and also so caring, you can see the other siblings look up to him. X

[@Thusday_1]

I had to obtain my original adoption records and birth certificate for some paperwork once. Maybe Alex can petition to unseal his original birth certificate? Only if he wants to of course. Love you all!

[@Jesuslovesyou-x9u]

I love that you allow the kids to wear a cross if they want to! ❤❤❤

[@nikkimclay5474]

They are LDS why wouldn’t they allow it ?

[@Jesuslovesyou-x9u]

@@nikkimclay5474 Not all the kids are LDS. So I appreciate that Crystal allows them to follow whatever religion they want to. ❤️

[@BetteDavis19]

I have so many questions about Josh & Jessica's parents. She didnt even KNOW they sent a bio brother of hers back into the system until a few years ago when they reunited and they were forced to explain it? And they don't even want to speak to alex or have any kind of relationship with him at all? Why are they so awful to him lol it's so weird. They last saw him as a traumatized TODDLER what is up with them seriously

[@littlebigkicker]

That is weird 😅

[@Dragonfly31133]

Jessica was very very young. So she wouldn’t remember. Alex had behavioral issues go figure with what they had been through 🤬🤯 I don’t think people should pick and choose siblings like that. That’s what I love about the Midlles🥰💞 They strive to keep them together!

[@michellemcmahon3918]

So, are Josh and Jessica’s parents the ones who adopted Alex and Hannah then put them back into foster care or different people?

[@anditgoeslikethis]

I agree. And even if people try to say that they didn't have the emotional capacity to be able to take care of him... why did they deny those kids the right to even be able to see each other?! Inexcusable. Alex... you definitely got the better end of the stick! You are an amazing person, and you better believe it! I plan on adopting through the foster care system, and I dream that I get a kid just like you! We are waiting for your video - tik tok! 😉

[@anditgoeslikethis]

@@michellemcmahon3918 they said in the last video that they never adopted Alex. Also, I wouldn't imagine CPS taking away Alex, Hannah (and I figured there were more kids in the home) but leaving some of the kids there. I would certainly hope CPS wouldn't do that. I don't think they are the same people.

[@MissSanderson]

Be sure to check with your attorney about adopting Tristan...I know here is SC if my husband were to pass away before me, at my passing his daughter is not my heir and my family would divide my belonging, no matter what my will says. So, if you don't adopt him, he is not your child and would not receive anything....that may not matter to you, and it may not be the same in AZ, just food for thought. ❤

[@deeh7105]

When traveling with all the children, do a buddy system where you pair up an older sibling with a younger one and they are responsible for that one. Hope you have a great safe trip!

[@monayhawthorne9420]

I am so early let's go yes, a. new video, let's go. I was waiting for this one I get so excited for when you guys post your family is so amazing and blessed been watching yall since the very beginning its so crazy

[@mrswi2kbug]

Alex should request file. Sense he is an adult. If he thinks it will be helpful to him.

[@lisathompson8550]

The look on Bella's face when you asked her that question was hilarious.

[@xaythozes2504]

Am I missing the joke? What’s funny? Her face was shocked and disgusted because why would her own mother ask about the possibility of having a real life Fosters situation? Out of pocket and weird. I literally couldn’t believe she asked it and then giggled while explaining the “hilarious joke”.

[@user-l6s2m]

@@xaythozes2504well you never know. she was literally just some random girl thrown into a house with a bunch of kids. who knows?

[@nkt.11]

She said “brother uhh”

[@emmaknaust]

To hear that Alex was separated from his bio siblings as a child is truly heartbreaking. I'll give the other adoptive family the benefit of doubt and say that maybe they are related to Alex's bio siblings on the paternal side. This is still no excuse to separate a sibling group. At the end of the day, fostering and adoption should be out of the best interest for the CHILDREN. I cannot imagine being separated from my "half" siblings growing up. They are my world. To know that his sister didn't even know about him, is crushing. All in all, I'm glad that Alex was joined into a family that does not treat him differently, despite any biological differences. Take care, Alex. Congratulations on being reunited with your bio siblings!

[@joemiller401]

Have you ever thought of using a travel agent to handle your vacations, especially with the entire family? They can figure out the details of food reservations and such if that's one of the things.

[@oliviapizana1022]

Aaron and Jared should due beyond crazy

[@Powell978]

Great Q&A. Regarding Alex's foster records they should be available for him to see. If I wanted too I could've seen mine after turning 18 and I believe they had to be kept available to 12 years. You can't take them home with you but you need to go to DFS and look at them there

[@RWorley3sl]

If your serious about air force: continue working out. Go in: in shape.

[@gingerschatshow]

@ Alex- The Air Force has vast array of programs that you can specialize in, also they can put you through College as well. Too bad you can't go AF Academy and be a commission officer. :D go for it ! guys glad that you are doing well. :D

[@SharlaNelson]

My boyfriend is in the Air Force. He’s retiring in 3 years. He’s a solid guy. He recommends if anyone needs a job, join up in the Air Force. He’s a sweetie. I make him smile. So not every Air Force guy is not so bad. My guy is such a gentleman. Alex you will go far. I absolutely agree with the vast array of programs. He first was a police officer for the Air Force. I’m so proud of him. Now he’s in a clerical position. Yes, you can go through college in the military.

[@katherinekilgore4498]

Umm, definitely look into getting his whole case file. I have mine. 😮

[@nancyconca9892]

Interesting vlog - thanks for answering so many questions🤩 I think that Tristan fits in perfectly and is a great addition to your welcoming family 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💙💙💙 I hope that Joe is feeling and doing well - miss seeing him in your vlogs 🥹

[@christymowrey7934]

Tbh , I love you guys and this is something I never would of asked but the way Luke and Bella act might of maybe that person act that question. But as I have watched closer to me it just seems they are very close as siblings and I am so happy for them and all the rest of the kids ❤️

[@12pradhanhimanshi76]

Bella has such a strong personality ❤ Like she does not want to do 23 and me test Having clarity and her own preferences without getting influenced She is her own person ❤ more power to you Bella❤ And Tristan is cute 😂yeahhh

[@Alissambarbarin]

Alex sending you encouragement! And hugs! I think joining the military would change your life . Pray about it.

[@LeahNicoleMusicToday]

Alex, I was an Air Force Medic. It was one of the best decisions of my life. Although, I was injured while on, they now pay me a settlement for the rest of my life. I also had my education MOSTLY paid for, and still get healthcare. Not going to lie... life SUCKSSSSSSS when you're lower ranking. But once you start making rank, it gets a little better. It would also SUCK being away from family if you're used to such a large family. They REALLY do have your best at mind, even if it doesn't feel like it. Also, I went to basic 10 years ago now. Shaving your head was still required for the boys in basic training, but the uniform regs have relaxed SOOOOOO much since 2020 and the uniform changes. Your hair would need to be shorter, but not by much

[@BeverlyThomas-lh5iy]

Alex, you will find what you like to do in your life. Like Military, mission or anything. You will find what you want to enjoy doing so much. Be honest I have a lot of my friends been military or anything just be happy whatever you like to do. Tristan, welcome back into the family anyway. You just blend into the family there. Aaron and Crystal, you have my condolences both side of the family. May the Lord be with all of you everyday and be strong for each other. I miss Joe on here and hope he is doing good. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@srudy1958]

Joe is missed. Wish the best for him…😊

[@Terlengold]

Alex has great EYES...Love that he is now wearing contacts.

[@jenniferpomeroy2222]

You guys are great!!! My mom and some of her siblings had a most colorful award. They usually would get together and tell what someone did last week. The actually would give a trophy back and forth. The deep the subject matter got worse was when they would argue how long they would get to have the trophy. Someone said thats it thats permanently yours and then now thats super glued on your nightstand!! Thanks for the laugh. The memories!!! Thank you for the laugh!

[@nitashashank3044]

Aweee the military is a great career. Read the contract. Make sure u get what your promised! The experience is great

[@Sturniolofann]

20:39 My mom used to make home videos even before the 2000s and I’m so thankful that she made those videos of my siblings and I and cousins and my whole family because I know not a lot of kids actually have those videos from their childhood and yeah they my have videos and photos from iPads but that’s different from actual home videos from tapes

[@joagate3259]

How tall is Logan getting, bless him. Hope everyone is doing well.

[@robinfoster3328]

So glad Tristan has been reunited with your family. He belongs with your family!!! ❤❤❤

[@Kevin-vt5my]

Tell Alex to get contacts eye drops they’re a life saver fr 😭💖

[@abbyray5947]

I haven’t watched in a long time I’ve missed your videos 🥰

[@sivonni]

Two of my uncles had funerals the same day in different cities and from each side of my family. It was a 3 hour drive but one was a morning and one evening and we managed both and I'm glad we did. It was horrible when we thought we were going to have to choose. My sister drove 3 hours to the morning one, then 3 hours to the evening one, then back home. Way harder for her, especially with 3 little ones at the time.

[@pollyweinmann5082]

My husband was in the Air Force for 20 years and I seriously whole heartedly advise against Alex joining the Air Force! It is a very difficult life for the military member as well as the family!!!

[@JeanetteMerkey]

So much 💜💖💖💋💜💜💜💜 love that Crystal and Aaron have for all of the kids

[@lisbonlover]

Where are you going on vacation? I can’t wait for that vlog!! Also love seeing Tristan in the vlogs

[@mahastianvaripour9832]

Good to see you all😊❤

[@garypeterson4483]

Air Force would be the smartest thing you could do at your age. They give you a crew cut. They have never shaved your head .

[@Gizmo72710]

My Dad served 25 years in the Air Force. He was a Boom Operator. It was also a cool way to travel the world while serving our Country.

[@Ash_aka_speedychic]

Much love from Phoenix Arizona

[@sweetunicornllamabee1142]

Love y’all , y’all are amazing, give everybody a hugs for me.

[@TinasheMachimbidza]

Always watching from the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 sobsorry about the delimmas about the funerals but that's family . Nice to know more about Tristan

[@HBSTACY]

Miss you Joe!

[@cherylbrunner9404]

Yes Aaron and Tristan for beyond crazy 2 great cooks

[@arielcangemi4671]

Alex… videos on you “figuring it out” would be great content and relatable.

[@trishallain6503]

OMG 😂 The bubble wrap award!! That's hilarious.

[@MiaLucifer]

I need to see Alex’s farmers tan that’s insane!

[@malinpeh]

Be careful with lenses. It can damage your eyes if you don’t use them properly or if they get damaged and you keep them in. Better to change it if it doesn’t look or feel right. Also, check out some other lenses if you feel get dry often. I have that problem myself and from the 10+ different ones I’ve tried there is only one that works for me, Johnssons Acuvue Oacys (both 2-week lenses and day lenses).

[@fizzashahid1919]

I can relate to bella for saying its still broken when someone asks her how's ur finger cause I also broke my arm and ppl asked me that question I answered the same way it's still broken

[@janellewatson1191]

Will Grandma get to get a rest and go on Holidays as well .she deserves it.

[@alaskafan21]

Love the family love the vids. Thank you for sharing your family.

[@kellystanley5892]

Tristan looks a lot like Rylan and Bella❤Alex is so sweet❤

[@waynetaumata]

I have been looking for a vhs converter for ages. Thanks so much for the Amazon link

[@alisonserrano8079]

Love your videos, I wanted to ask you guys a few questions: how’s Bonnie doing? Will grandma, max, Melinda and lacy go on speed dating? Will you be supporting the kids if they are the members of lgbt community? When will max be graduating? Who’s evie close with the most? And last two questions are: will Tristian live with you guys? Will Hannah and Savannah go collage together? Same question for max, Luke and Alex. Love you guys and I can’t wait to see lacy and Kari on both your videos and crazy middles together again

[@AlmaLee-h1f]

First off, It is my Birthday today as I watch this. Yesterday here was beautiful and sunny. Today is gloomy and raining. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family.

[@sandyjay276]

Happy birthday 🎉

[@CrazyPieces]

Happy Birthday!!🎊🎈🎂🎁🎉

[@reneeahrens9208]

Going the Military route would open up a lot of opportunities for Alex. Definitely do your research, some recruiters will tell you anything in order to get you to sign, so if you feel there is an inconsistency, call them out and keep questioning them. Get everything in writing from them before signing anything.

[@AvalonLeeAuthor]

There was a girl here in Australia that climbed over the rail of a lookout to take a selfie and fell over the edge. She unfortunately died. But it shows some people will do anything for a “good selfie”. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@theelusive11]

Yes to the head being shaved. I helped my brothers mom find her bio family. We requested her adoption records. Each state is different on allowing records.

[@katesproule-xo1ks]

I was taking pictures at a ice skating competion. I was on the Ice and I slipped . Had my camera and someone elses, so I put my arms up high so they wouldn't get broken. lol

[@sandrairene2136]

Oh, the bond between you And Tristan is so apparent it just exudes the love shared it’s a beautiful thing to witness 🫶🙏 We love and miss you Joe 😘

[@rogers2039]

With so many young people in your family, statistically there has to be an increasing likelihood that at least one of them might be gay. For me it is important that everyone feels comfortable enough to express themselves in whatever way they feel fit and thankfully in todays society being gay does not have to be the big issue it once used to be. But I wonder how that might sit with your religious beliefs. You are such fantastic parents to all these siblings but would love to know your stance on being gay.

[@LeahFairfield]

They’ve already answered this question more than once. They don’t want to answer it again.

[@donnamitchell867]

Alex - contacts? How often do you change them? They shouldn’t feel like there is anything in your eye - or scratchy etc. I used to have contacts that I could wear a few days, but my doctor really discouraged that. Now I use the daily wear contacts that are supposed to be much safer. I suggest you check about the safest way to wear contacts, because you sure don’t want to risk getting any infections in your eye!!! My doctor read me the friendly “riot act” re only wearing contacts that were new and clean. Best wishes for sure about this Alex, cuz you are of course very handsome wearing contacts - but please be safe.

[@DelisaLouise]

A little info on the Air Force for Alex: My husband was enlisted in the Air Force for 8 years. They don't make you shave your head; the haircut is called a high and tight. Short on top and really close on the sides, but you are not required to just shave your head. Also, your wear a hat most of the time when in your uniform and not under cover (IE, outside) anyway. Edit: After talking to my husband, they do cut your hair in basic to be the same as everybody elses, which might be very short, but as a creeer Airman, you can wear your hair as a high and tight haircut in the style you want as long as it doesn't touch your ears or eyebrows, or exceed 2 inches in length.

[@stitch_crusher]

You guys name starts with “Crazy” for a reason, like for Vacations they are always CRAZY lol, LOVE YALLL❤❤❤❤

[@denisefishman3378]

I love Bella she always makes me smile

[@Dragonfly31133]

I have a lot of questions! 1. Vacation out of the country?? I haven’t heard where or when y’all are going. I changed my mind on the other question.

[@maryannmcmahon5707]

I’m so sorry for the loss of your Uncle and felt so bad that his life celebration is the same day as your mother in law. Wow life is so hard. All people need to remember this when they are going through this (I have) I went to my mother in law’s viewing the evening before and then her mass in the morning I missed the luncheon afterwards but I wanted to attend my grandson’s first birthday and also help my daughter. It was so hard to choose that and many people said mean things to me. I really wrestled w my decision and I based my decision on love. Just like you did. It’s so sad no one wants to choose but Aaron and you are married and really represent each other in everything

[@JulieKavanagh-x5o]

With the computer software can you separate videos? I have vhs tapes with both my kids stuff and would just like yo separate into a dvd of just their own videos.

[@palesaparli1353]

Ever thought of doing a family vacation with the crazy middles?

[@LeahNicoleMusicToday]

To add to my comment for Alex, if shaving of the head is still neccesary, here's why. The purpose of basic training is to tear you down, and then build you back up again (as a team). Hair being the same, uniforms being the same, etc all levels the playing field.

[@alexandrahall1886]

Crystal I transferred all my videos on to dvd using the cables u have and scart leads in each machine