Years of being independent made me tough. For what?I kept attracting feminine, broke, men and I was the dad they never had. I am now reversing myself back to being feminine. I will keep you updated on my progress.
@TheFactsofLife2377 жыл бұрын
FitGirlism Thanks!
@juju1992ful6 жыл бұрын
How’s it going
@mikoliscious57566 жыл бұрын
Yeah how is it going?
@dustydarrius53186 жыл бұрын
Some of us were FORCED to become more masculine to pick up the slack for these lazy bummy ass dudes who are still taking money from these pickme chicks to save up for their transgender surgeries.
@Metaphysicalmindspace7776 жыл бұрын
The Money Girl your comment was a while ago. I pray that your progress is great. I can definitely relate. Let’s elevate.
@saywhich17 жыл бұрын
"She already found the man of her dreams...herself"😂😂😂 SheRa you are hilarious!
@brianamcguire69147 жыл бұрын
“She’s the man of her own dreams” 😂😂 omg that’s funny
@QueenJuliana894 жыл бұрын
I have a friend like that. Everyone thinks we’re a lesbian couple. She’s pretty too. 🤷♀️
@TheBlessedQueen2000 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😭💀
@Sheismarienicole7 жыл бұрын
I believe so. Most women have become detached from their feminine energy and power due to psychological traumas, no male figures, etc.
@Sheismarienicole7 жыл бұрын
Yesss - The key to this is to take self care days as needed, get into aromatherapy, buy pretty jewelry, etc... Those things will open up that feminine, divine energy. Women were made to be relaxed, happy, and gentle.
@Sheismarienicole7 жыл бұрын
Great tips! I know a ton of people look down on it, but counseling is also another tool for healing those past hurts and traumas which allows you to become your TRUE self.
@helenfan4706 жыл бұрын
marie nicole and I’m just gay
@iahest5 жыл бұрын
marie nicole EXACTLY
@vegewoman4 жыл бұрын
Living in America .
@LaBellezaMorena7 жыл бұрын
Everything you say is GOLD. I’ve improved myself by working on being more feminine and it made a huge difference.
@LaBellezaMorena6 жыл бұрын
Creole Belle well just a few things I changed. I used to swear like a truck driver. Stopped that. I never wear jeans on dates. Dresses, skirts and heels. I keep my nails and hair done at all times. I used to go out looking like a janitor. And I don’t try to compete with men intellectually or financially. They look at you very differently once you do. I follow as many of Ashera’a tips as I can.
@LaBellezaMorena6 жыл бұрын
Creole Belle ahahah trust me I was horrible! But I can promise you, changing your speech alone makes a huge difference!
@williamwharton75047 жыл бұрын
The older man will reject you faster than a younger one if you are not feminine, because it's generational. Women of the 50's, 60's, 70's were more feminine because they had to be to survive. So they are looking for the nurturing feminine traits they saw in their mothers, and other women in society at that time.
@beautylove59405 жыл бұрын
William Wharton Exactly.
@lilbabytears5 жыл бұрын
Truuuu
@anthonybacon87115 жыл бұрын
Women with a lot of feminine in them im talking about too much will not want too do anything at all they will not want too help u do anything.........Hell no they must get the hell on then........Thats some of the reason why they have became a lot more masculine becouse a lot of guys wont want them and i know damn well they must get from around me not wanting too do anything.
@anthonybacon87115 жыл бұрын
I dont give a damn if they act masculine they dont mind helping out and working then...........If they not helping out they cant be around me and other guys say the same thing.
@elenachiritescu26813 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@evelina30757 жыл бұрын
I’m completely fine with the length of your videos 😄 💯
@dreamycalm7 жыл бұрын
I know lol she started out the video saying Im not gonna be on here long and stayed almost 3 hours, hilarious
@divestedconservative266 жыл бұрын
Love it! I am so here for it! 😊
@TeaWitcher7 жыл бұрын
I even suggested we go to lunch one time just to test him & he tried to switch it to tea or something, i was like OMG!!!!!! Too broke for me
@tehronbertrand16277 жыл бұрын
You to hard on the brotha maybe you are the sister he never had
@anthonybacon87115 жыл бұрын
Good for him i give him a a+ for being smart dont dont give those women a dime
@anthonybacon87115 жыл бұрын
Glad i dont date and i have herd other guys say the same that they dont do dates hell no they can date they own self
@hereisayana82073 жыл бұрын
He should be suggesting things, not you...
@TeaWitcher7 жыл бұрын
I was so disgusted recently by this 'guy friend' hes like 38 and is always trying to get free advice from me, wants my time for free cause hes so broke ( going for coffee, cooking at home, free events). Then claims he wants to spend more time w me cause he likes me & maybe we dont even have to label it, he just wants my time for nothing!!!!!! I'm like dude gtf out of here. Im blocking him. too old to be that dumb
@anthonybacon87115 жыл бұрын
First of all who is going too pay too be around u who a damn fool
@jessicahitchens69268 ай бұрын
Your post is grammatically incorrect. It's actually embarrassing 🤡
@lc-il6wr5 ай бұрын
He's a dust mite..
@jeanjohnson17787 жыл бұрын
You are telling the truth, I learned the power of feminity my freshman year of college & everything you're saying is 100% the truth!
@Cora_la_flor7 жыл бұрын
Thats true about the part where you said some women do things just to able to tell ppl they did it all by themselves (that's the reward). Then after all is said and done you are left wondering why nobody offers to help you. YA TOO DAMN STRONG! Lol😄
@Lovejoi2227 жыл бұрын
Cora lmao so true u got me rolling ova here 😂
@TheFactsofLife2377 жыл бұрын
Cora I don't want to be 💪 like a man anymore!
@nwamama71017 жыл бұрын
All I know is I want to eat my cake and have it without perpetrating patriarchy.
@anthonybacon87115 жыл бұрын
Let them help them selves im not going too offer too help them anyway what are they doing for us men..........Im not the only man too say soo
@christin19485 жыл бұрын
@@anthonybacon8711before giving advice and acting like a victim: study spelling!
@user-nq8nl4wh9w7 жыл бұрын
Here's a few loop holes ladies. If you pay the property taxes on a home then you have Vested Interest in that house and are entitled to any proceeds. Another loop hole is if the man purchased a home prior to marriage but refinances the home after you too are married then it automatically turns into community property in which you are entitled to half of the proceeds. So don't worry just make moves accordingly lol
@SheRaSeven17 жыл бұрын
S. CROWE thanks
@myyoutubechannel29444 жыл бұрын
yes!!!!!!
@antoinettecollins80794 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@SlimmDrea6 жыл бұрын
Y’all listennnn to Shera!! She will change your life. My biggest problem was being too masculine trying to prove myself to a man that I’m independent.HAAAA men don’t care. They just see you as easier to manipulate. Stay feminine. Stop reaching for that damn bill. Stop trying to prove how smart you are. Stop competing. Just look pretty and tap into your submissive side. It works ladies.
@lgunt0046 жыл бұрын
"You're the Dad he never had" LOL
@grownwoman17807 жыл бұрын
I’m so guilty of being a young independent woman who did it all by myself. Doing totally for myself has made me more masculine. Thanks for this video love 🙂
@anthonybacon87115 жыл бұрын
Thats great you are suppose too do for yourself you get a thumbs up from me i like when a women independent and so do a lot of other guys keep up the good work.
@GoddessAries Жыл бұрын
The thumbnail alone took me out 😂❤
@MsAyoFashola7 жыл бұрын
it's funny...when I didn't have a car and was riding the bus, I had more attention from men. The minute I bought my car, those men 'felt' some type of way and they stopped talking to me. Problem was, when I didn't have a car, they picked me up and took me to their house trying to have sex with me. Catch 22. I make 6-figures now but I use my money to feed my feminine energy.
@jcitychic6 жыл бұрын
What do u do . I need to change fields with that kind of salary
@cosmiccrush226 жыл бұрын
Chocolate Divine boss bitch
@Melanie-le6mw5 жыл бұрын
Proud of you!!!!!
@katrina16945 жыл бұрын
That's so true! I noticed men fa e me a lot of attention when I was dusty on the bus lol versus being leveled up.
@elenachiritescu26813 жыл бұрын
Now you need a multimillionaire or billionaire! Level up! 😏🤭
@breannanouveaux51327 жыл бұрын
"Not gonna go on to long" 2.5 hours later Lmaooo. Same!!!
@savepuertorico52777 жыл бұрын
I think a good way to learn more about etiquette is by becoming more cultured. Try exotic foods and go to museums with friends to get yourself accustomed to different things and different types of people. Get out of your comfort zone. Learn the difference between a dinner fork and a salad fork. Things like this matter when a man asks you to a five start restaurant. Learn how to use chopsticks also, you never know if a guy you’re interested in is gonna ask you to an expensive Asian restaurant, asking for a knife and fork in that environment isn’t gonna be a good look. Make a girls night (or day) out of it so you’ll feel more comfortable in the learning process. Do things like this with friends instead of going out to bars or clubs, it’s actually really fun too!
@UrbanAlchemystic7 жыл бұрын
wonderful advice !
@savepuertorico52777 жыл бұрын
Belizean Bad&Bruja thank you 😊
@dranamarie5 жыл бұрын
You are by far, the most empowering women in the feminine energy community I've seen on KZbin. Thank you!
@allenarust41527 жыл бұрын
I need to put all of these tips in my "Too pretty to pay bills " journal :) Actually I'm doing it now!
@godflint7 жыл бұрын
Uh ok but to have a 'too pretty to pay bills' journal, don't you have to be pretty first?
@yuifujita75297 жыл бұрын
You are probably my favourite youtuber.
@yuifujita75296 жыл бұрын
btw this is not my real name, I'm european.
@candice4466 жыл бұрын
I was never taught any of this. Thanks for sharing!
@queenlolo13847 жыл бұрын
Sort of. Though most of us have to be. Men nowadays are way too female identified. I actually talked about it a month ago with my dad and sister. My sister remarked that guys are actually feminine these days, though they get mad when you tell them that. My dad agreed and said that's *part* (notice I said part) of the reason for domestic violence rising in the black community. They aren't making money and providing, but they want to make decisions like a provider. I remarked that the men aren't even taking on the female role (shopping for the kids and house, cooking, cleaning, and participating or having an active role in the child's school/education. I remember in the short time my mom wasn't working, that she would always be around my brother and I. I remember a fond memory where I saw a toy at daycare (a fake bus that could fit me and my brother inside). My mom ended up surprising us with it). It's stuff like that and meeting with our teachers (though she got back into teaching later on). Men these days aren't even doing that, but they want to make the decisions in the household.
@queenlolo13847 жыл бұрын
+Spoken truth So true. My brother and dad had to change a tire for my cousin. Her useless ass boyfriend wouldn't do anything. Well no, he did do SOMETHING. It was at night, so he used his phone as a flashlight.
@jasminepearls10477 жыл бұрын
He didn't want to ruin his manicure. lol There was an older man who made a video about young adult males nowadays who have their gf's changing the oil or adding oil in a car while the men just sit by.
@kelsiebrubaker98926 жыл бұрын
Reality Check what is the video called?
@myishaj74366 жыл бұрын
Domestic violence has always been a problem with providers and non providers alike. Today. The non providers are boldly absent n the household as they bed hop bc they can even provide for themselves.. Not specifying any race or ethnicity.
@mailyroze43847 жыл бұрын
It’s difficult for me to find a guy I’d like b/c guys in my age group (20-30). Usually want to be taken care of. I’m considered anti feminist or modern b/c I think that if a guy asks u out, he should pay. If he wants to marry you, he should take care of the finances, etc. Am I crazy for thinking this? It’s my belief that a woman’s married life shouldn’t be the same as her single life. As a single woman I’m not raising any kids & I take care of myself. If I decide to marry/date, there should be change. I shouldn’t have to raise my man & he should take care of me.
@vlee72177 жыл бұрын
Mae Oliver you're not wrong hun. You will likely have to date older
@GnosticCushite7 жыл бұрын
Mae Oliver A marriage in America should be 50/50. Ain't nobody taking care of you 100 percent, lady. Smh, delusional af.
@MsSjchic6 жыл бұрын
Cushite Calisthenics Shut up dusty. You probably can’t even take care of yourself
@JD-gf5bk6 жыл бұрын
Cushite Calisthenics but you're Cushite right? Not American lol.
@GnosticCushite6 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Davis Yes, a Cushite living in the land of the lost and spiritually dumb, aka, America 😳
@_keytruth82876 жыл бұрын
I’ve been obsessed with your channel. You talk about thoughts that go through my mind and make me feel crazy. You’re the big sister I wish I had!!!!!
@huntresseleven88257 жыл бұрын
Black girls are the only flowers expected to grow unwatered - Kola Boof.
@isabellasamantha32347 жыл бұрын
I clicked really quickly when I saw the thumbnail. It's so funny 😂😂
@Melanie-le6mw5 жыл бұрын
Isabella Samantha me to lol
@cherisecavali17676 жыл бұрын
We are forced to be that way by the entire establisihment. Men want their girlfriends to be the porn star in th bedroom, the wife in the kitchen, the man to pay their own bills but to spend hordes of their money on looking good for them, put lots of effort into it but be natural, all for them while they watch sports, play video games, stare at other women, flirt with other women, chase other women while they're with you even if you down grade to be with them so never do that. MGTOW wants you to be the MAN in the relationship, just not while having sexy or paying bills, save your money and don't level up for them and go buy a house (with them you'll end up bringing up your children alone anyway) or get a real man.
@MikaylasWorld6 жыл бұрын
Cherise Cavali true !
@olgachafeeva28284 жыл бұрын
you just described my sleazy ex to the T. :D always wanting to have his cake and eat it, too.
@lapas4 жыл бұрын
Wait till you 60 or 70. Alone and without kids. No one to take care of you. And not loved.
@lilac6222 Жыл бұрын
@@lapas Everyone is gonna die alone.
@MissChicala7 жыл бұрын
May universe bless you abundantly my sista ..❤❤😘
@melindaroop13467 жыл бұрын
Exactly! If you are all up in someone's space and jumping around and pounding your fist and so on, they are going to get defensive and ready to argue and fight because that's the vibe you are giving, but if you are politely disagreeing, they will be more likely to listen instead of fight with you.
@Melanie-le6mw5 жыл бұрын
Melinda Earl-Roop 💯💯💯
@crownjewel8327 жыл бұрын
Shera! Once again you knocked it out of the park with this video. So much knowledge about the power of the feminine and yet another legendary quote of yours that I'll keep close to the vest "don't compete AGAINST men who should be competing FOR you"! Keep these great shorter videos coming Goddess!
@CreditSolutionist6 жыл бұрын
This is golden. On the food front, millenial men act like they wanna see a girl pig out on a date. More than one man has told me this. It stems from them being accustomed to women acting masculine and stuffing their faces to be "one of the guys", also feminism, and young men have also fallen victim to the way their masculine single moms acted, and they apply this ridiculous behavior to all women lol. They say its acting down to earth, but its really just so they can do less for you in the long run. Believe me, he'll marry the prissy girl in the long run if he's worth his salt. What man wants a sweat pants wearing monster?
@SouthernBelle3237 жыл бұрын
My man tell me this ALL THE TIME. You are on point!
@breannasumner62076 жыл бұрын
I swear every line you speak is quotable 💗
@kgolden87686 жыл бұрын
I love listening to your videos at work, I’m in this cubicle and you are in my earphones speaking to me consciously and subconsciously when I’m actually working. #SheraMyShero
@kgolden87686 жыл бұрын
Yes a whole lot better
@nukeman4447 жыл бұрын
Go to 19:26 hilarious. She's the man of her own dreams, lol. If it dresses like a man, walks like a man, works like a man. *It's a man!*
@esmeraldaclaudette29337 жыл бұрын
she's saying dress and act like a lady
@imnotevensupposedtobeheretoday7 жыл бұрын
Bullshit! Dress however the fuck you want! There are different types of people who like different types of things. There are masculine men who like masculine women and there are feminine men who like feminine women. Everyone is different!
@clauaome25 Жыл бұрын
¡Gracias!
@MaryThiboudeax7 жыл бұрын
Dating pregnant ?!!! Ewwww....How ratchet can you be?
@khokoOO76 жыл бұрын
Heidi Klum did. Think she got married too, lol.
@angelasantiago74266 жыл бұрын
khokoOO7 well she's rich majority of men only want sex with a pregnant women because its the best sex her hormones are going wild but they think she's disgusting for doing it and think she'll do the same with his child so its a no no
@soybeans81395 жыл бұрын
khokoOO7 it’s still less than desirable, even if she is a celebrity.
@babyx_98 Жыл бұрын
My dad was not a perfect man by any means and unfortunately we don't have a relationship anymore; but he taught me valuable lessons about carrying myself a certain way to gain respect. I only see now at 25 how important it is. No it's not politically correct, but it's survival. And quite honestly being hyperfemenine is the only method to life I've received actual results from. It's a lot easier on my panic disorder too.
@DanielleStarr6 жыл бұрын
When you say something dead on to something i have done before.... I bust out laughing.... Cause the ish you saying so fu**king true it almost make me want to cry for being so stupid in the past...
@TheFactsofLife2377 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos yet.LOL. I'm not getting paid to fix his ife!
@geminilove78307 жыл бұрын
Girl...you are too truthful and funny!!!
@HampityHamp6 жыл бұрын
I'm less than 9 min into this video & it's helping me tremendously. I grew up in a family of men with only 1 aunt on maternal & paternal sides. Brothers but no sisters; so one can imagine.
@cyndylove48165 жыл бұрын
'"you are they daddy they never had'..may i never be daddy to any man please hahahahaha
@twatson25797 жыл бұрын
Your thumbnail has me dying!!! 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
@MsCeCe-lt1zg6 жыл бұрын
Your list of feminine traits in men on POINT!!!!😘
@lydiamorton39087 жыл бұрын
Girl you are right! But when you said getting tatoos on your face....lol
@Naimah09147 жыл бұрын
I have asked my husband for help with many things that eventually led him to treat me like im a child and can't do anything for myself. Things that are common senset..he doesn't think i can do it or he thinks he knows better. Im all for trying it out again...i just really hate someone treating me like im stupid. Love your videos by the way. Im learning sooo much 💕
@Akos916 жыл бұрын
debe wish4 How would your sister manipulate them to do things for her?
@myishaj74366 жыл бұрын
Well its one thing to be helpful. Another to be condescending..ughhh.. Thats a hard one.
@ambrosiafem65502 жыл бұрын
He's insecure and gets off on making others feel stupid.
@LaLa888-i4u7 жыл бұрын
This video is gold. Thank you. ✨🦋✨
@UrbanAlchemystic7 жыл бұрын
when you live in a certain environment you can't be dainty and leave yourself open for attack from the males that are around. I tend to balance both its mainly for survival until i get to a better area then I can relax. Black women have been forced to be independent and take on father and mother roles or have to do everything by themselves because they were forced too and the males in their vicinity are not men at all they became the feminine ones and its been a role reversal out of circumstance then it just becomes a habit and who you end up becoming later on. I am lowkey, freespirit I let ppl do their thing as long as it doesnt affect directly, i hate ppl who police others. I definitely get where you coming from which is why i started embracing my inner goddess developing my look and im proud of my progress. I have gotten into make ups and wigs and went shopping for new clothes and shoes to switch up my look. Its really fun! I have been getting noticed even more so thats cool. I still keep the tomboy in me on reserve just in case a situation calls for it, being where im at , its kind of unsafe in a way to be too feminine you get targeted by undesirables.
@mecca115able6 жыл бұрын
Belizean Bad&Bruja that's right balance. We all have to protect ourselves
@elenachiritescu26813 жыл бұрын
You just describe my life, but I am white and had a broke and disfunctional family. Than orphanage...so yeah. Now I think like a man and act like one only when needed ( being in physcal danger or something like that).
@CMally77 жыл бұрын
This is so on point!!!! I needed to hear this!!
@MissChicala7 жыл бұрын
Dropping jewels..💎💎💎
@mimiappiah577 жыл бұрын
SheRaSeven is my spirit animal 👌🏽
@taniahollingsworth24826 жыл бұрын
True..I'm working on being feminine but i was raised by masculine work and can be blunt at times. I have to turn it off..it's hard though ...being a single mother that raised 3 boys is hard..but when i was feminine around men i was getting hurt...so i used being masculine to start to protect myself...then i started attracting men who were emotional than i was and broke who couldn't figure out what they wanted...i just stopped dating and still working on me.
@risingaquarius74607 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail is so funny 😂💀
@kcnnanna7 жыл бұрын
sunrising aqua Yes too funny!!!
@nataliesuki4 жыл бұрын
"Why you attracting these dudes? Because you they daddy they never had " 🙈 🤣 🤣 💀
@shareesepm14846 жыл бұрын
Saving my life right now!!! I thought I had an issue, but spoke to an ex who is super masculine and he said "No, you're feminine and submissive" you are attracting lower tier guys...level up"
@coolcat4kitty7 жыл бұрын
Literally coming thru with the tea!!
@BlaccBoii6 жыл бұрын
i wish more women understood this concept because man oh man.. no pun intended 😂😂
@queenbeaute9967 Жыл бұрын
Masculine women are more stressed out to with high stress levels leads to bad health overall ..its hard trying to be feminine in a area full of masculinity
@kelsiebrubaker98926 жыл бұрын
I have different folders for my KZbin videos.. One for music.. One for documentaries.. One for videos i just like and then a folder for Shera's videos...lol That's how you know shes droppin knowledge to us girls and ladies
@rcollier5517 жыл бұрын
I look forward to hearing your topics.....you are so accurate about relationships and I appreciate it! Thank you SheRaSeven1!
@MrMichflint1006 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. Your words were perfect and it’s crazy how you hit everything on the nail. I really appreciate this and I was just starting to think its me, but you described everything to perfect. I wish you the best and I’ll definitely be following
@kcnnanna7 жыл бұрын
Lol to the ASPCA commercial music, looool!!
@foxygirl6467 жыл бұрын
Chi Nnanna I died laughing at that part.
@DerraD127 жыл бұрын
Omg🤣
@limongem6 жыл бұрын
“.....it’s a man ! “ 😂😂🤣
@haydeegil6687 жыл бұрын
Ok. So I did have a potty mouth as a sailor. And you are very right! It took me a year to change my vocabulary after I got out of the service. It really made a difference.
@elenachiritescu26813 жыл бұрын
I am here after 3 yeara away from posting this video. I had a strong masculine energy between 13 years old until 28 years old. In school and highschool I used to get into fights with boys( next year I will have a jose surgery due to this), talk down to people, be assertive, being bossy in romantic relationhips ( I always has feminine energy guys in my relationships). I still have to this day masculine energy ( I am 32 now) but now I do not act upon it. I just think like a men sometimes, but I am not abnoxious anymore. I control my impulses, I got more in touch with my feminity...and guess what? Now I date a masculine great men. Ladies, the more you act like a man, the more he will act like a woman and vice vera.
@DarkAries767 жыл бұрын
A video on how Ms. Independant can level up when she's use to dating dustys or not at all?
@IamKarryanne7 жыл бұрын
😂😂.. This topic has been on my mind for so long!!
@shanicelondon68006 жыл бұрын
Your skin is flawless
@katrina16945 жыл бұрын
Lol I told a man o wanted to have money of my own before we went out so he didn't have to pay, and I never heard from him again.🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂😂where I'm from the men like women to pay or go half..I thought that was normal. Lol NEVER AGAIN.
@f30427 жыл бұрын
I'm sick and totally fell asleep too early. Can't believe I missed this!
@Youtubeuser-a12345 Жыл бұрын
thank you Shera for helping me rediscover my femininity ❤
@olgachafeeva28284 жыл бұрын
If I have to be the man in the relationship - I don't need a man. I'm not a homosexual. :D
@VintageAfro916 жыл бұрын
I love your channel so much. I love the advice about eating slowly. I already do that naturally and always get made fun of, but it's good to know that eating slowly and taking your time is a feminine trait.
@tamla20117 жыл бұрын
Good morning SheRa7. So much truth.
@cammiosis6 жыл бұрын
I know so many women with scars, missing teeth permanent lumps upside their heads it ain’t funny. A mean girl will always go further than a tough broad
@myriamwilliams5 жыл бұрын
You are so right about those missing teeth
@utubewatcher17 жыл бұрын
This is why I believe more black men are dating white women and other nationalities. Little feminine qualities in the black community
@patriceanderson82397 жыл бұрын
Quanda Emerson the black community is messed up. Masculine women and feminine men.
@moniquecarter41607 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!!! THIS REPLY/COMMENT SHOULD BE PINNED AT THE TOP OF THIS PAGE, BECAUSE I HAVE NOTICED THAT ALOT OF PEOPLE GET INTELLECTUALLY DISHONEST WHEN IT COMES TO THIS TOPIC ESPECIALLY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY WHERE THERE IS NEXT TO/NO DEFENSE OR PROTECTION FOR THE FEMININE.
@DarkAries767 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. But I've noticed that white women turn masculine when they date a black man/men for too long if he's not already masculine.
@UrbanAlchemystic7 жыл бұрын
bingo!!!!other races of women were able to maintain their feminine ways we couldn't because they never allowed us too or fostered that growth. We always had to pick up the slack. Of course its gonna rub off of you.
@MsSjchic6 жыл бұрын
Black women aren’t allowed to be feminine because they’re doing everything themselves with no help from feminine men.
@Proudmary77 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you say for the most part. I wish I saw your videos in my younger years. My only add on is that I do think things change after you have been married for a while. You do have to play a little games but not as much.
@latoyabattle3256 жыл бұрын
LMAO!!!!!! She had me rolling when she did that stuff with her hands!!!! lmao
@lionsimba7235 жыл бұрын
Which stuff?
@ghostlycouture88213 жыл бұрын
What not to do on a date , watch the movie 'white chicks' lol
@TheBlessedQueen2000 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂the scene with the ribs 😭the toenail in the glass omg
@daniellewilliams3275 жыл бұрын
🤣💖Some of it is so funny... but so true!...I was raised without a mom so I really struggled with being feminine my younger years...I can definitely take notes on improvements
@lindseywells93917 жыл бұрын
Topic Ideas: Point in Marriage Where Man Decides to Leave for Another Women, Female Friendships, Work Affairs, Ignoring Today's Media That Wants to Get Rid of Gender Roles, When a Relationship Gets Stale, What To Do When You Get Cheated On
@laundrybasket26894 жыл бұрын
I love how you said you won’t be on very long and the video still ends up being almost 3 hours, 😂❤️.
@carrieduvall4579 Жыл бұрын
There are a lot of men who want a submissive provider who cook and clean. He thinks he should be in control.
@MaraMarieBeauty7 жыл бұрын
Always hit exactly what I’m thinking about! Love love love you! Still laughing at More Bread 😊
@renoderdaniel33676 жыл бұрын
I have changed things around in a month in my house thank you soooooo much
@BearryHungry7 жыл бұрын
haha apparently I'm too manly since I did one or two of the things you said but I'm feminine around the man I like. Although I had felt that other women around me looked down at me as if being feminine is some appalling thing.
@elenachiritescu26813 жыл бұрын
Pfff. I used to look down to feminine women in my teans and early 20's. The truth is that I had a hard childhood and had to act though, be strong, show my dominance. Back then, feminine women were to weak for me. Strange way to view things based upon our experiences. Now I like feminine women, but there are not too mang unfortunately. :(
@Carltonway13 жыл бұрын
My spouse is masculine but dresses very feminine. Sometimes I feel like we're competing with eachother it almost feels like I'm in a relationship with another dude. SMH There can only be one man in my house.
@elenachiritescu26813 жыл бұрын
:( Ohh! I used to be like this. Looking feminine, but competing with my boyfriend in sports, school, work, anything :(. Ver, very poor behaviour.
@yasminx166 жыл бұрын
You’re full of so much wisdom! I’m going into quite a masculine profession so I need to make sure I keep my femininity in check! Thanks for this :)
@relanaallen55134 жыл бұрын
" Two weeks lateeer." 😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😆😆😆 these are true and funny!!!
@spacexghost8887 жыл бұрын
Exactly,preach.
@chococandy1 Жыл бұрын
Sooo I’m saving up money for a full lace wig and to get my eyebrows and nails done. And hopefully I’ll eventually eat better.
@laurenlocd31806 жыл бұрын
I bought a journal and I haven’t wrote in it yet I think I’m going to literally take notes
@lionsimba7235 жыл бұрын
When she went like “Two weeks later “ in a Sponge Bob (French accent), I died
@lalopez73945 жыл бұрын
Best thought process Ive ever heard out loud
@InSearchOfCrystalsAndCryptids2 жыл бұрын
Yes, they are! They are aggressive (about people and things), and it's actually creepy. In the city I live in, they walk around like men and acting like them🙄