Are You Being Oppressed by a Verbally Abusive Wife

[@MrLalalufi]

Watching all your very relatable videos, while trying to gather strength to leave. We have 2 kids, 1 which is still a baby. Feeling crushed but i find some relief knowing im not the only one experiencing verbal abuse and that there is also a way out. Thank you from another continent.

[@roadwk12]

Stay strong brother. Make the leap. Similar boat with 3 kids going through divorce currently. It’s brutal but I see the light and I’m ok with the guilt and shame compared to the hell I’ve lived in.

[@ahappierman6540]

I stayed when my kids were small. The logistics are terrible when the kids are very young. There is a way out when the time is right for you.

[@mental_Focuzfitness]

Exactly how I feel, and when I try to explain this to her, she tells me my head is making all this up, and I am petty.. naturally, i am a very easy going person but due to me having countless arguments with her, I have developed some anger issues because that's my only way to protect myself. The truth I can hold my self accountable when I do wrong but when others don't see any fault in their behaviour and it always you, it real hard to live. Sometimes, I sit in silence and do what I need to do around the house with my kids because at the end of the day, that's all that really matters. I hope more women's can wake and see this. Thank you for the video 🙏🏾

[@ahappierman6540]

Thanks for watching and commenting and adding to this extremely difficult topic.

[@FreshGrey-pm4vw]

I am a counselor and I cant begin to tell you how often I hear men report they are being pushed around by their spouse/partner. I ask them why they tolerate this treatment? Many times they dont know. They are not sure how they got there. Yesterday I explained that the mans wife was pressuring him to meet all her unmet childhood needs- and this is impossible! Its also his wife's way of avoiding her own personal growth journey and blaming him. Thats crap. He said - "nobody ever said that to me before". I asked him if others in the family disliked her verbal abuse and he said yes, his daughter also complained that mom was always upset, angry, emotional. Women frequently shift their own dissatisfaction onto their husbands. Its not your job to make them happy 100% of the time.

[@ahappierman6540]

Thanks for watching and adding to this extremely difficult discussion.

[@FreshGrey-pm4vw]

@@ahappierman6540 You are very welcome. Women need to stop being so pushy and aggressive. Its done nothing for the mental health of the family. I think we should ask them to work on their own personal issues and quit expecting the world to cater to them.

[@fintanmcalister4173]

Thanks for your videos Hans, they help give me perspective after leaving my wife 7 months ago.

[@ahappierman6540]

Thanks Fintan. I hope things are going well for you. Stay strong.

[@marblewaves]

im by a wife oppressed verbally abusive being 😂