Are you lonely? Let’s talk about it. And what we can do.

[@whiteysrides8204]

Jim for president of the United States of America.

[@TheESMAT07]

I would say Disunited States of America

[@brandontomlinson4301]

❤

[@JessicaKimball]

Amen. Jim for President.

[@Talal-hr8qt]

I couldn't agree more. We need a sigma male in control. Keep up the good work.

[@laurencewainwright]

Go to the Philippines as a poor white man and see how much success you get. It's a financial transaction, not love.

[@RebelLifeAfter50]

Wow. My third comment as I’m listening - the guilt - oh boy do I know that and am still feeling it today! I was born the oldest and in traditional Italian families that means you are an instant adult and anything ‘fun’ was considered optional. I feel your pain - I just turned 70 and I still have bouts of feeling gypped.

[@marcK599.]

What are you taking about? You no nothing about SE Asia

[@SingleFileCooks]

You speak the truth. It’s all transactional. Seems like American men will focus on the success stories. However, the men who get scammed, cheated, robbed, and lied to feel shame and never tell their tale. Occasionally some brave soul will speak up to save another man from the same fate. I’ve heard some of those stories and it is heartbreaking.

[@tylerdurden8939]

Not that I’m super successful with women but I guess I’m somewhere in the middle with them. Women will be sort of the same everywhere, they want a certain type of dude that won’t put up with shit but won’t be a dick. It’s just learning how to act and having confidence. I did live alone for 5 years after a 5 year relationship and both were good. Im 4 years into another one now. I would agree with Jim that you can get addicted yo being alone but can get addicted to a lady also. I don’t want to die alone tho

[@datther]

He’s not poor. Far from it. He’ll have unlimited opportunities in SE Asia. Unlike America where feminism and hypergamy have ruined dating

[@wandafisher7661]

No matter where you go in this world you take you with you!!!

[@ВиталийСлонов-ч4ъ]

❤

[@sergboorow5868]

Exactly, as they say "wherever you go, there you are". Everything is within you.

[@markjg2275]

I am 64 years old never married no kids only dated 2 times in my early 20s I found women more trouble than they are worth. And a waste of my time, I have not dated ever since and never will. I live in peace and quiet I have hobbies to keep me busy and gardening my yard and outdoors I feed the birds they bring me peace and joy. I own a cat which is a great pet for single men I owned a few dogs and cats in my lifetime all have died due to old age and illnesses. I hate large crowds and people and sports I prefer trout fishing in the mountains of Colorado my state and scenic drives. Women are a burden the nagging and control of their men they are a curse very few women are worth anything especially today. Find a hobby get a cat or dog or both read good books keep busy with things you enjoy. I do not need any older woman in my life I love my peace and freedom and quiet to do what I want dress how I want look how I want and more. You cannot do that with a woman in your life you will not have that freedom. Nothing wrong being alone and single I have no regrets.

[@jimb3093]

Thank you for sharing that. I agree, it is more peaceful and less stress being alone.

[@derekpotts7820]

Go ahead to the Philippines. You will have the entirely different situation once you are there. Women there will make themselves available to you guaranteed. However take your time as although you will be astounded by their beauty, some will want your hand earned usd. Still they will want you no doubt.

[@obySedgefieldgemofourgardenrou]

Sure one, lost my love 22dec readjusting takes time, but have the Guinea fowl, pigeons and the beach not far off I fish often at night, w cape south africa heaven

[@907nttf]

You need a mountain woman

[@flavius123456]

"I dated 2 women in my 20's and that's it" stop complaining, you're lazy that's why! You have to date over and over again before you find you're half!! That's what people do,I'm tired of lazy bums who just complain but don't want to do the hard work to upgrade they're selfs period.

[@davidbarringham7992]

You come across as a good man, Jim. I only recently stumbled on your channel, but love listening to your presentations. Love from the UK.

[@A.r-x3n]

Jim be proud and never say you regret for not cheating. You are a better man for not cheating. Cheating while you are with someone can be the most horrible thing you can do to someone else and your own morals. Be proud for doing the right thing, never look at it as lost opportunity.

[@Tradewind777]

I recommend learning a musical instrument. @ 45 now 64 I bought a guitar and it's my best friend.

[@mileswashington9078]

Hang in there, brother. You are a good man who is determined to do the right thing. Stay the course. Live your life on your terms.

[@orkatlahalldorsdottir1121]

I'm a lonely woman in Norway, and I am from Iceland. 64 and divorced cince 1986. My chances for a husband are very slim . Guys want friends with benefits for a situationship, that's it. You are lucky who can try for love in Asia, I can't do that, that market is only for men. I totally agree with you in politics and no jab for me even if I was scrutinized ( I'm a dentist working for the state). Salute you 🎉

[@flavius123456]

You had enough time since 1986! Maybe if you have let you're guard down and try more,as a woman you surely refused a shit ton af man over the years. You're fault only!

[@wBacz]

ya have a husband. There is no something like divorced because ya promised that ya will never leave him and he promised it too.

[@househead67]

Let The LORD order your steps, because truth be told, He could possibly want you to spend time with Him instead of seeking folks who don't mean you any good. 💯

[@mylordandsaviorjesuschrist2323]

@househead67 Correct, people don't have purpose in life their just Existing waking up going to work, paying bills maybe traveling is OK but it's not purpose. The Lord saved me 11 years ago and that's when I received purpose from him, It's not about money or seeking things or people life is wonderful living and walking with Jesus. ❤🙏

[@hannahl.7202]

It is so true

[@STEVEinNC]

The world is full of lonely hurting people. Reach out to them with your friendship and you'll be a hero with as many friends as you want.

[@paulbrown2532]

Hi Jim, yes I am extremely lonely and isolated and depressed, I'm 51 year old bachelor, lived with my mother my whole life unfortunately she is not well in hospital, so it's a very lonely house, I have 2 close friends to support me, but other than that no other family members just a bad dysfunctional family, no support from them whatsoever, then recently I received a painful rejection from a woman I really liked, so life is cruel and tough going. Loneliness is my worst enemy especially when your craving love and affection from women that just totally ignore your feelings.

[@peeweedox]

You need a ton of female friends, I can't state this enough. Not just a few - you need to be making friends with lots of women. And not the kind with benefits. Just friends. After hanging out with tons of women platonically and enjoying their company you will be able to find one, a good match for you. Be wise.

[@BeautifulLife000H]

I appreciate your honesty.

[@spirot5250]

Jim, Just do it, time is running, stop overthinking ...

[@chiron6699]

Hi Jim 59 y.o watcher from Devon UK. Fellow introvert and live alone. Can relate to your story. I'm planning to go to s.e Asia this winter. Best wishes on your future plans fruition and rewarding travels.

[@jimb3093]

Thats wonderful! Safe travels.

[@zindukakids]

Jim I'm from Kenya Africa

[@PatDoran-n9n]

Jim you have the most soothing voice. I am loving hearing your stories. You will find love just be patient. It will happen. I will be praying for you.

[@bridgethunt7836]

What a kind decent man you are .❤🙏

[@laraparks7018]

I noticed that most relationships are about power, control and domination. People don't love, they assess , leverage and judge. We don't share similar interests or values. If you date down, you're used. If you date up, you're dominated. And I've never known an equally yoked relationship

[@jimb3093]

@@laraparks7018 that’s a very good point.

[@laraparks7018]

@@jimb3093 I've been having the same cognitive dissonance about Christianity because I am supposed to support Israel but I don't approve of what they're doing It really does seem as though the State of Israel, is simply, a tenticle of America. They seem to want to take over the middleeast much as Americans put natives of America in reservations. These Zionists are the synagogue of Satan and are a generation of vipers who killed Jesus Christ and while knowing that, we should continue to support them? Maybe their tribe was the tribe that were supposed to be killed, spoke of in 1 Samuel 15:3 (maybe they're the false Jews spoken of in Revelation. My faith has been heavily tested too while God has never been closer. ( Which causes more cognitive dissonance) I think you will know what I mean. It's very difficult to deal with.

[@savagebushranger7953]

​@@laraparks7018 1 John 2. Particularly 18 and on. Why would a follower of Jesus support that?

[@laraparks7018]

@@savagebushranger7953 because people talk the talk but rarely walk the walk.. everyone is a guru demi god aka self idol, looking to be worshipped as a false idol

[@HomeEF]

Yes, being alone is not healthy, I have been since 2017, I am doing just fine. Good subject Jim.

[@paulbrown2532]

Good luck Jim with your journey I hope you meet someone to connect with, also wish myself and all the other lonely people out there looking for love and connection, all the best Jim.

[@ajfeinman]

Great video. I am getting a lot of value from your videos. Thank you for sharing.

[@WildBillVT74]

Your channel will help alot of people,keep the videos coming Jim! 😊

[@woodsparker7902]

Jim, you are incredibly insightful. It seems your formative years had a huge impact on the person you are today. Although not the same story, it was tough during my formative years too. Because of the experience, I know consequences continue to linger today. You seem to know what you want and are laying out the groundwork to reach your goals. I am rooting for you!

[@jimb3093]

@@woodsparker7902 thank you.

[@josephludwig1126]

Better to be away, than with a person you can't stand. Love my solitude ❤

[@flavius123456]

Find one you can stand! Another lazy ass who just complains..

[@WHIVIX]

Never cheated ! You are awesome! 👍I respect you man🤝

[@SpicyLunarDust]

As a US Marine vet I really connected when you compared to the loneliness of that first night in your Barracks. I got out in 2016 and have steadily gone downhill. I’ve got PTSD and I’m on 100% disability with the VA, but I feel my life consistently spiraling and feel like something horrible is going to happen. I can’t take being around people anymore.

[@jimb3093]

@@SpicyLunarDust I am sorry to hear that. Have you sought help at the VA? Someone to talk to?

[@SpicyLunarDust]

@@jimb3093 Hey thanks for the response. But yeah man, i’ve been getting all the help they could give me for years now. Been to a few programs as well. Just nothing seems to help, I’m actually getting worse. I don’t expect you to have the answers though, just thought I would share my current struggle.

[@odingamubutu3187]

​@jimb3093 that's not what he is looking for. The name of the game is overseas

[@odingamubutu3187]

It's a flat plane

[@SingleFileCooks]

@@SpicyLunarDustfind Dr Berg on KZbin. His videos on BENFOTIAMINE …sound like you might have deficiency of Vit B 1 Benfotiamine is a fat soluble version of B 1. It helps with pdsT / anxiety/ depression/insomnia. Won’t hurt to look up your symptoms on Dr bergs channel and see what could help you….. he has helped thousands of people

[@Over60sowhat]

I really enjoy hearing someone so sensible talk while I'm working. Thank you so much for posting!

[@Vurti0]

Man you are so direct and honest. You're a great man. I almost forgot this side of youtube.

[@Albacore877]

Yes loneliness & isolation can be very difficult. People definitely have to do what makes them happy.

[@nmead33]

Sold everything and now travelling throughout Mexico, Central and South America. Same age, same thoughts, you are not alone. Just do it already.

[@reggie5495]

Go over to the Philippines for a few months and see how you like it before rushing into anything. I think you'd be better off finding a filipina naturally just out and about rather than online as all women who do the online dating thing are specifically looking for foreigner husbands (and that may or may not be a good thing depending on what you want).

[@paulbrown2532]

Same here I was always a one woman man

[@sunsetstormx]

Be very careful Jim because someone could try to take advantage of you because you're very very open especially about your economic status. I wish you the very best and would hate to see you hurt by some manipulative seductive type of woman overseas. In some of your videos you talked about how you want to be very careful not to have a woman use you and take your assets. But if you go overseas that's very very risky. I don't recommend that at all.

[@teresabarry9817]

I agree. I have known people that were taken advantage of. Be careful, Jim.

[@mateuszgogowski651]

Thank you Jim for sharing your authentic self. When the individual can't be themselves they will never feel connected. I know it from my own autopsy. It's like we try to connect with one other but presenting our fasets because west culture expect you to feel and act a certain way. I had been shy and nervous before women. I was getting out to the dancing clubs, analyzing women responses and my actions. I got to the point where I was doing pretty well. I got into a relationship. But I wasn't putting my authentic self out there and my resentment was building up in my relationship. Recently I found Dr. Gabor Mate. He has a lot of interviews on KZbin. We are all in the journey. The thing is if we are not authentic we have never connected with anyone. Best wishes for you brother! Keep recording.

[@timr31908]

The Filipino idea was better years ago.. if you go this route you must be very careful. You're taking a lot of risk at so many levels.. not saying there isn't somebody over there but it's not like it used to be.. the Filipino can play you for everything you got... But at least you can get a date a hell of a lot easier

[@JM-ev8wt]

Jim, you definitely are not alone. I’m a 51 year old lonely man like yourself, and I absolutely can relate to what you’re going through.

[@BackBufferGaming]

The most important thing is to find what you like to do, and you never be lonely again. I have found myself, I know what I like, and I adore to be alone or lonely, I adore peace and silence…

[@coletteglennon3504]

Your right to go off and live your life and meet somebody nice there is nice people out there

[@Melissa-x1z7f]

Look at it this way God is protecting your heart thus far special people deserve the best

[@paulcooper5748]

I can relate jim i'm 24/7 alone.

[@derekpotts7820]

I'm in Australia and can relate to Jim's scenario.

[@paulcooper5748]

@@derekpotts7820 Me too.

[@comicbookmoney3286]

please just document your journey if you go overseas...routing for ya

[@Sweetclairebear]

Sending you a (( hug ))…….I know what you mean. I am single, no children, and 52. But I manage my solitude…..

[@johnyeager8667]

You're not the only one you make me feel like I'm not the only 1 either.Thank you

[@rkellycentral]

Absolutely agreed and David Goggins - I follow his channel too. Plus nothing weird about you Jim on sharing - its the weak ones who do a better in at pretending.

[@Moonlvr555]

I love your video. I was asleep listening to some other video, but you are an eloquent speaker and hearing you talking woke me up. Great perspective and you brought out great points. There is so much I want to respond, but the only thing I can say is be careful trying to get someone from another country. You will end up with a broken heart and a big hole in your wallet , as opposed to just a broken heart. Solitude is delicious, yes, it does get old too, but you can be by yourself and not be lonely. You will never feel lonely if you love who you are with. They do say that men suffer more loneliness than women, but please please be careful with foreigners.

[@theEscapee1625]

I like my time alone. I don't feel lonely right now, not saying that could change down the road. Was previously a degenerate that had many friends, women and plenty of good times and experiences. I got that all out of me and really enjoying the simple life. Maybe after I retire I'll want a woman around.

[@brianmeen2158]

Same here. I prefer solitude about 98% of the time . I like being in my own head

[@Brook-Leen]

Jim you are the kind of person that would make a great President. Unfortunately Americans are not ready for honesty and integrity. Anyway, thank you for your services. Have a great Veteran's Day 11/2024.

[@r083r73h]

Brother, hang in there 💪🏻

[@Melissa-x1z7f]

Hi I truly appreciate your honesty, I pray in Jesus Christ name that you meet a Godly beautiful wife that is there for you and true love happens. Your right society is scary when it comes to meeting the right person. God bless your honesty...truly inspires us single women Amen

[@BethGlenn-f9n]

I have seen a few of your videos, thank you for your courage and honesty, very refreshing! I believe you will find that special someone. Real love does exist, I know, I am widowed and was blessed to have had it. I hope to find it again and have his blessing to do so because he didn't want me to be alone. That is love, it is not selfish, but kind and thoughtful. Best wishes to you.

[@laurencewainwright]

I can really relate to what you said about feeling uncomfortable about having birthday parties and not feeling deserving of people's time and help. Why do you think we feel that way?

[@The_Travelling_Tradesman]

I think you’re on to something. Keep going.

[@timr31908]

I think the better human is a dog..😊

[@terrymeadows1827]

🙄

[@juanramos5539]

Just a dog, and its ok.

[@MichaelBerry-yr9ev]

I'm 49 and live alone and have no family members, I have two pet birds and they keep me company.

[@terrymeadows1827]

@@MichaelBerry-yr9ev I certainly did not mean to offend you. True, dogs are faithful, but I prefer human company. I like being around people. We can share experiences. Blessings! -Terry

[@MichaelBerry-yr9ev]

@@terrymeadows1827 you're good, you didn't offend me in any way.👍

[@ninaallchurch3101]

Sending free hugs to you across the oceans. You should use your channel to call for ladies to reach out to you for friendship. Loneliness needs friendship. You got nothing to lose. As long as the ladies know youre only up for friendship you wont have chancers wasting your time. Good luck Jim! You're a very earnest soul. video friendships are lo risk and a polite way of "filtering"...

[@quatchkopf3658]

I would never meet a woman overseas. They are just looking and hoping for that BX card. Then bringing their entire family to the states.

[@verarobinson6759]

Yes better USA women 😂

[@yosifdaatyosifpain]

Hello dear Jim. 🙋‍♂️. I'm very much enjoy watching some of the videos you post! There is a lot of wisdom and truth and depth in them! I myself left my homeland in similar ways and I lived for three years in Ukraine and now I have been living in Belarus for 4 years and I have friends who live in the Philippines! I would be happy if you would like to chat with me privately, maybe I will have some advice for you from my limited experience. Thank you and good luck ❤🙏🤗.

[@yvonneblake1498]

Jim, have you heard of "inner child work" it's eye-opening... I am now at 40 discovering it and learning about it. Hugs to you! You are worth fussing over, great time to start is now. Greetings from Germany

[@capricetony]

I would not look to the way society conducts itself “not saying you are” to second guess your journey in life, mine is similar but 20/20 hindsight my unique journey kept me away from a-lot of bad crap in life.

[@benh1155]

Go for it brother. Don't think about it just make it happen asap. You still have the fire inside and you better act on it while you still can.

[@verarobinson6759]

I am sorry u seems like a nice guy I recently got dumped by my boyfriend I would do anything for him I loved him and everything no drama and that kind of shit just love he didn’t want me 😢I feel so lonely hard to find good people

[@successjesus9257]

I love and appreciate your video. I'm alone 59 with no child. For me it's the anxiety of thinking of the feature. I've desired strong lovely relationship to end into a marriage probably because I grew up with no brother and no father.

[@hayatwalker8877]

Hi Jim, I just came across your videos, I listened to the one from 5 months ago. I know the feeling of feeling lonely. It’s even harder for me as lost my husband in death, but I try my best to rely on God and enjoy one day at a time. Also find real friends helps.

[@ladybug7967]

Finding the right woman is a God given gift. Pray. God is real. Jesus is alive.

[@safiraazul9317]

❤

[@bridgethunt7836]

So true ❤❤

[@hannahl.7202]

Better pray for Lord’s will , not what you want for yourself - He knows better what you need - What will be for better or for worse

[@ВиталийСлонов-ч4ъ]

Been my dream since I was in my late teens. Ain't gonna happen, it looks like.

[@paulbrown2532]

Jim, forgot to mention I'm from Ireland and I am undervalued as a man here, my life is passing me bye, might have to evaluate my life and move abroad also to meet a good woman.

[@martybarnardmb71]

Same here Paul

[@ShineOnLove100]

I can validate your feelings...I too live alone in peace with love in my heart...I am thankful for the wonderful friends I have known...Friends is a hard one for me...Most people have the wrong idea of what friends are about...Do you have an animal? They are pure love...

[@rightchoice11]

Hello, Thank you for your vdeo, I can relate, I from Ohio too, but i have latina ancestry. Im also 45 yrs old woman never been married and no kids, I wish you well in the phillipines

[@stephaniefalzone7937]

Jim take a chance go you can go

[@sweetmorena]

I am excited to see you explore the world out there. Your journey is inspiring, and it's wonderful that you are open to new possibilities. Finding a meaningful connection can be challenging, but stepping out of your comfort zone can bring incredible experiences and opportunities. Keep your heart open, and I'm sure you'll find the relationship you're looking for, whether it's near or far. Wishing you all the best on this exciting adventure! 🌍❤😊

[@brandontomlinson4301]

Jim. You are an inspiration to me. You might ask why? Youre committed to growth and prosperity. You know what you like and dont like. Believe or not you seem really friendly and approachable. Plus you get mega bonus points for going from enlisted to officer. I can also attest that the military will chew you up and spit you out like nothing. When i finished basic training I was determined to make policy changes air force wide. Maybe one day i will

[@johnyeager8667]

This man has great morals

[@susanblanchard4349]

Hello Jim, I am alone as well but being married not for love for pity. But in other peoples situation no matter what you or me going through, is the most important thing to do is find that love inside of you, look in the mirror and say to yourself I love you. Tell yourself that you are love, laughter, a whole, amazingly powerful beautiful inside out. You can’t love others if you don’t love yourself. I am so proud of you expressing and being outspoken bravely. Thanks for being you. Be happy for being you. Be blessed 😇 Sue

[@Art.Barsegian]

You'd be surprised how much a dog cures the feeling of loneliness. Then, a good woman is still desirable, but certainly optional. Men need respect and a student above all, and a dog fulfills that role better than any human possibly can. As far as sexual and intimacy needs, yes, a woman is needed. However, man is among very few species who is able to relieve his sexual urges ny himself. And as far as a woman being able to satisfy a man's large appetite for intimacy, very few women can, or are willing to. We've heard many times how sex and intimacy dries up quickly after marriage. Women are only really in the mood once a month. The rest of the time feels like a chore to them.

[@BrunoBerryhoneybuns1370]

im 54. my gf is 35. She wants sex waaay more than me. but it's nice because my libido has slowed enough that im not letting the little head lead me around...I also have a dog and a cat and a newborn baby so we have other priorities than sex.

[@terrymeadows1827]

🤢☹

[@anitaelghandor7295]

I admire your strength,to come out like this,I believe you will find what your looking for,I think you are correct about being social early on.👍

[@Melissa-x1z7f]

I truly respect this very awsome

[@stefftravel]

Any woman would be lucky to have you Jim. Best of luck

[@reversemoustachecat8127]

I am not Lonely. I am Lonesome. Lonely is an emotion. It is a complaint. When we say "we're lonely", we're telling others that we want company. But lonesomeness is a personality attribute. It is a trait not a feeling. When I tell others "I'm lonesome", I'm telling them not to include me in their plans. The exact opposite outcome. I think many are not lonely, but are lonesome. I am at peace with being alone and I seek it

[@jesseforce9933]

Also, Jim I barely had interactions with other kids outside of school. I was popular, talked to everybody, played sports, and had plenty of haters, but looking back the reason I didn't talk to a lot of people was because I focused on working, wasn't a backstabber, and wasn't into partying whatsoever. I thought I'd missed out too. but in reality my IQ was just too high to deal with stupid crap that goes on in high school. the few people I did talk to in high school or hung out with I can hit them up on Facebook Messenger right now and have a response the same day or two days later at the latest. I even work next to one of them now

[@vayalananda7128]

Hello Jim, I wish I could talk to you about this topic a lot more in a personal conversation. I hear you and I understand. You said nobody needs you. I’m pretty sure you are more needed than you think. I am a woman, 48 from Germany and single for years, but I always been so much needed so I never had the time and energy to date and connect to a man… so there are expectations which are so out of reality. This kind of living is unhealthy in our society for us all. I am so exhausted by all the things I need to do. So I am tangled up in the doings and always wished for help but sorry to say men want a beautiful woman who is able to give them their full attention but life, kids, elderly parents, the job, everything is asking a lot. It’s not only romantic to live with kids and family it’s also a lot „work“ So there are issues in this society… women overloaded with raising their kids alone, because there are men who are not capable to do the work…women taking care of a lot of social services and as we all know that is one reason for being short on time and money, for women. So where are the man who jumps in to make the liability to the whole package and not only the sweet part? That’s my question. You seem to be one of them who at least seems to be a man of integrity and loyalty. But you also told in another video there were women who were into you but you didn’t into them. And also the other way around. But to stick with a decision is the hard part when it gets a little uncomfortable or even difficult we all can not take it anymore. That’s why men get more successful with women from other countries… women over there don’t ask for much. They making the deal. The more independent and individual we become as personalities we are not so good in making compromises and we are a species who is greedy… we want it all… but we always miss something… to be honestly agreed to what is… no matter how challenging or lonely or messed up… just to agree to the now…just as it is, being okay with what is…and maybe a feeling of peace arises… only for a second… and to progress in this is my way to find happiness and joy. Even Love. To generate love from the heart within myself. I do know that lonely feeling but I have the Supposition that a romantic relationship is maybe not the answer… a romantic feeling is a moment of a relationship, intimacy is a moment of a connection but there is a whole larger range of complexities in that relationship thing between man and woman. Broken hearts especially, hurt feelings and disappointments… I wish I could talk to only one man on this planet in peace about these topics without getting upset and angry with the opposite sex. Whatever… thank you for the beautiful honest sharing. I wish you a good journey for your progress in happiness and peace and love and joy. Wish you the best. 🙏🍂🍁🍁🍂

[@marknosworthy2681]

I can relate a lot with your videos were some what similar like your advice good job

[@MelissaCoup]

I'm sorry you are alone. I guess I would try to keep people around me as much as possible. The more you want a mate, the more it eludes. Personally, I've always wanted to host a weekly game night in winter. Invite anyone I can to show up, bring a friend, play games and provide food. Get a good group going then put a donation jar if anyone feels led to donate a dollar or two. I'd also volunteer on Tuesdays at the Organic Meal which is downtown. I don't see 2016 as that long, my friend is single and she is older too. There is just no one who is sane to date is her reasoning. She also says politics is such a divider so she avoids talking about her avoiding the shot and who she is voting for. Going abroad is not a bad idea. Good luck brother

[@jimb3093]

@@MelissaCoup thank you. I appreciate that.

[@ВиталийСлонов-ч4ъ]

Been on my own for thirteen years now, and there's nothing more terrifying than [the thought of] dying alone. Getting on a bit but hope to find a calm feminine peaceful and innocent bird. I don't think it's gonna happen, though. God bless. Dig your vids.

[@waterbug1135]

Moving to SE Asia next year hopefully. Planning to find a good woman and have kids. I'm 67. Would never have kids in the US because it never looked like I had any rights as a male. A lot of benefits to waiting to 60+ to have kids in another country. Kids get dual citizenship, dual language. If I pass before my kids are 18 they get a SS survivor benefit which for my kids if I have 2-3 would be about $6800/mo. That's an extremely high amount in SE Asia. Cost to raise a kid in the US is about $250k. Instead of spending that in my 20's I invested it in real estate. But if a 20 year-old invested $13k/yr into a S&P 500 index fund until they were 38 they'd have almost $5 million at age 60. You could provide a pretty great life to a wife and kids on that dough. I didn't do that well in real estate but enough so my wife will be financial well taken care of for life and our kids thru college plus a little to get established in the US.

[@jimb3093]

@@waterbug1135 that’s wonderful! I didn’t consider some of those benefits. That’s great to know. I plan to travel next year to SE Asia and start reconning places I like. Thailand, Vietnam and Malaysia are on my list. I hear good and bad with the Philippines. Thailand, Philippines and Malaysia have a retirement visa which is nice.

[@angeebb3080]

40 years too late don't you think? I can understand finding that partner because never too late for that but to have children at your age is just selfish.

[@zindukakids]

Kindly allow me to ask why do you like Africa Kenya?

[@bigghouse101]

You're the perfect candidate to go overseas, financially stable with military pension. Sounds like you have a good idea about it. Try before you buy. Find a place with a culture you feel comfortable in. Get street smart, find those videos of all the mistakes ppl make in those particular countries. Check out the Philippiana Pea, Big Trouble in Thailand, Scam City, Top 10 reasons foreigners get killed in Phillipines, etc Sense of urgency, you should be on a plane already. Go traveling and check out the spots. I think the chance that you can find a nice girl in the places you mentioned is 99.9%, but measure twice cut once! Where ever you pick to land, you'll find expats, you could volunteer or start a charity, teach English (get TESL cert) but definitely find something to do other than hang around.

[@LeticiaContreras-ym1lf]

You don’t have to go the Philippines or anywhere as far as Asia. In Mexico a man like you wouldn’t be alone or lonely.

[@AllenHarris-u5o]

@@LeticiaContreras-ym1lf Hispanic culture is more familiar than SE Asian to most Americans, too.

[@LeticiaContreras-ym1lf]

@@AllenHarris-u5o you know…I have never understood why American men are flooding to the Philippines for women. Latin countries have beautiful and family oriented good women. Really would like to know the masculine point of view about this Asia boom 😀

[@waterbug1135]

@@LeticiaContreras-ym1lf For me Asia is more of an adventure. I live in Phoenix so Central America isn't very different. I seriously researched many countries. SE Asia came up best. Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam great medical at a low cost. US has great medical when you can get an appointment. US insurance is great, but the coverage for preventive isn't very good. I have the money to handle major issues about 25 times over in SE Asia. I can get an appointment to see even a specialist in less than 3 days. I can get very deep health exam, full body MRIs. A full body MRI in Thailand is $350-2000 USD. That's less/same as an American will pay with insurance IF the scan is authorized. Not covered just as a health screening so we're into $10-30k range. PH specifically is desired for the Filipinas. Everything else is better in other SE Asia countries. Many speak English. PH is a little weird in being a very American type country. The two people respect each other a lot. In Mexico Americans are thought well of, we're gringos. American women like Mexico a lot, few go to SE Asia. Filipinas have a longer history of relationships with Western men. I hear a lot of "My Aunt married an American and she was very happy." Within Filipinas and their families the word has spread. That's made for less judging the Filipinas being with a man 40-50 years older. So today Filipinas come hard at Western men. We have many more choices than in Central America. However, that also means many of the men going to PH are pretty lazy guys. They get online and are totally in love in less than a day. Probably a single mom, he get's picked up by her at the airport and driven to her village and there he stays. Most seem perfectly happy so nothing wrong there.

[@AllenHarris-u5o]

@@LeticiaContreras-ym1lf I think a lot of men are a bit immature even when they are old and think a "demure " Asian woman will be what they think of as a "traditional " wife but it's a gamble, I notice Hispanic women are a bit headstrong in some cases and that scares away some men, but look up videos where Filipino women cause problems

[@LeticiaContreras-ym1lf]

@@AllenHarris-u5othank you very much for sharing this

[@DianneSmith-fv1vi]

Been alone for 28yrs but life a full life with friends and family i do feel alone on my birthday miss a cuddle but family make up for it. Fm south africa

[@julial1450]

Lost my husband of 17 years I am 52 years old Being a widow is hard I am new to your channel glad I found it dating sound scary today like your videos thanks for doing videos

[@julial1450]

I live in WA can we get together for coffee? before you decide to leave the USA please?

[@irakaris7425]

Helo Jim. remember me? we talked 😂. Lonely people are lonely because God is not their priority in their life. We started texting on a dating site a while back. You were very judgmental and critical of my situation. So yes, on your part it was wrong, but it's okay because I have joy in my heart that comes from the Lord I know someday I will meet the man that puts God first and his wife 2nd. Also, I've listened to a lot of your KZbin videos. I'm glad you're out here and expressing your loneliness being honest because honesty to me is an expensive gift. (Sorry, you lost your father...) I agree with you about women in America. They are just simply not happy with themselves. And can't decide what hair color to have next week. Just don't enjoy their natural beauty that God has given them. So yes , it's not too late for you to start a family like you said , you need a woman that can bear children and a real good woman deserves a husband that will provide and protect as God calls you to be. And that woman will appreciate you as it is written in proverbs 31. Remember Intimacy is meant for marriage not outside marriage. I understand you are lonely, but trust me.Saving yourself is far more rewarding than just having a one night stand or. Having sex having sex with no commitment. You are tying souls with the person you sleep with.So why not find that one and only till death do you part.

[@stephaniefalzone7937]

You’re a well educated rounded, intelligent man and grounded 😊 40:37

[@omitimehernandez2010]

Elder orphans are on the rise.

[@derekfletcher918]

As a man, it seems that I'm just too inadequate regardless of what I do or who I am. I know many men share the same sentiments.

[@timr31908]

I'm feeling all alone like a dog without a bone.. these days are impossible.. I was not made for these times.. just think if you're a young man and you join the army you're going to have a big lesbian shouting out orders to you.. I just can't get behind these times at all. .. Trump 2024

[@zenfan1098]

🎶🎵 I wish they all could be California girls🎶🎵 well that didn't hold up well , did it ? 😅😂🎉

[@keithmontgomery4629]

Get a dog , when you come home he will be glad to see you!

[@keithmontgomery4629]

Take the leap leave the USA!

[@keithmontgomery4629]

Dude you are still very young! Don’t waste time go to another country where woman still have values.

[@joshfrench6426]

There are many factors at play to explain what you're talking about. Everything about our society is dissolving.

[@BrothersUnitedroundtable]

I know you was talking about travelling abroad mister jim I had a girl from the Philippines. I was with her for a year. She left me because another man had more money than me and she told me she did what she had to do to take care of her family.

[@HomeEF]

I am lonely with myself , and I am just okay. ♥️

[@jesseforce9933]

a few days ago I turned 38 and people at work said happy birthday to me. a co-worker joke that what was I 2526? I told him 38 and I'm glad cuz I have my house paid off, three cars paid off, no debt, and about a year's salary in savings. then came the 30 year old chubby chick who wears sweatshirts to work and is a dog mom and not married said, "I hope I have more than that saved up when I am 38. " She added just kidding, " When I looked back at her." I was tired and barely heard her, so it was whatever. And this is a girl, I saw checking me out when she first saw me and she also heavily tried to validate herself to me when she started... SERIOUSLY. IT IS NEVER GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM.

[@tcoom76]

Im 36 and gave nothing so touché but you probably came off as a tool in some way. Don’t talk about those things like their define you. It’s lame.

[@Jk5-67]

Great video!

[@donnussel6263]

im 62 and in the same boat but dont feel alone im peaceful

[@samwalters9406]

Hello Jim. I feel how you feel. I would love to show you around in Phillpinnes. The girls there would love you. It's time for you to go be happy in Asia. You would love it. Woman would love you. Flipina are great loving people. ❤️.

[@rkellycentral]

Looking forward to see your yout be videos on your foreign travels