Are You Ready For Marriage? || Asabiyyah Podcast

[@k_laouam]

It’s so nice to listen to a civilised balanced conversation about this topic, especially coming from brothers. The religion is easy, look after the boundaries of Allah and Allah will look after you. May Allah put barakah in your podcast!

[@Abdurahman6796]

Please make more podcast. This is very beneficial as a 18 year old.

[@shabanatasleem3532]

An interesting listen, mash’Allah. There are sisters out there that are yearning to get married, however, cannot seem to find marital suitors (bros) so it’s not one sided!

[@asmaaitfatim]

Salam alaikom ! I want you to thank brothers for discussing this topic lotta people think marriage is only about being stable financially have a house and a job but it’s more about your manners , maturity, respect and understanding these ones are the basis of strong long term relationship may allah guide all of us and may allah grant us the right spouses ameen

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

Ameen. May Allah bless you! Yeah that’s what we wanted to get across. Of course focus on improving financially but don’t let that be the only thing you work on prior to marriage. For example, your deen. Is that in a good place so that you can lead by example in your new household? It’s very important for us to think about these things. May Allah make it easy for us and grant us spouses that bring the best out of us all.

[@asmaaitfatim]

@@PursuitofIhsaan absolutely! Allahuma ameen may allah reward you for that 🤲🏼 looking forward to see the next episode in sha allah

[@Ameerah896]

As a teen girl❤ you got my subscription just found your channel. I want be a good person yeah b4 marriage. 🎉 Assalamu alaikum warahmatulah.

[@MariasaAliii]

Beautiful podcast and may allah reward you both ameen. I will also recommend everyone to watch Ali Hammuda marriage series. Marriage is beautiful but seeing divorce rate on social media and the backlash sometimes can put you down as a person. It is actually rare to find a righteous spouse . This is why we pray and make dua . You can meet someone through the mosque but still wouldn’t know them . The prophet Mohammed peace be upon said you wouldn’t know someone until you live with them , travel with them and do business with them . Since I started practicing I have learned to have tawakkul in everything . Focus on yourself and your relationship with Allah and whatever meant for you will reach you .

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

Subhanallah! You’re right at the end of the day Allah knows best and what he has decreed is always better for us as he is the best of planners. A lot of times we get caught up in the haste of wanting to get married, which is not bad, however it’s important to fortify your relationship with Allah and put all your trust in him. We appreciate the kind words. May Allah bless you!

[@robertdeniro4396]

My new favourite channel May Allah bless you brothers

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

Jazāk Allāhu Khayran! We appreciate the message! Welcome to the community brother! May Allah bless you and grant you Jannah!

[@besmela2462]

Allahuma barik really beneficial

[@Tree-ni1xp]

أحسن الله إليكم 💐

[@kadraabdoulkader8033]

jazakumallahu khair , enjoyed the episode. may Allah grant you jannah al firdious for your time and effort

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

wa ʾiyyāk! Thank you for the kind words. We really appreciate it InshaAllah we will continue to add value to Ummah! May Allah Bless you and grant you Jannah !

[@Selma846]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته May Allah bless you guys and help you continue this channel. The point of view of young Muslims in the west is such a huge gap in the Islamic educational content.I’m sure you will help a lot of lost youngsters in this Dunya in sha Allah. May Allah keep you two on the right path.

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته Jazāk Allāhu Khayran for the comment. We really do appreciate the kind words. InshaAllah we will try to add value to the Ummah with everything piece of content we publish. May Allah bless you and grant you the highest rank in Jannah!

[@salmalk7418]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله تعالى وبركاته Beautiful podcast jazakumallahu khair I enjoyed this episode

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته May Allah bless you. Thank you for the comment we appreciate it a lot. May Allah grant you Jannah!

[@Realtruthguy]

وفقكم الله

[@noor9115]

This is absolutely a fantastic episode subhannallah. I am truly blown away by the way both of you think and articulate yourself allahummabarik. I just listened to the whole episode in one setting and didn't skipping a single second because this was so insightful. The way you both speak is genuinely admirable. Hope you guys will have second episode on this topic. I loved the bit about social media and a future conversation abt this would be cool! Perhaps since you both are reverts you're better at actually understanding and valuing true islamic principles. Instead of mixing it with culture. I am sincerely in awe of this beautiful conversation. I have so much respect for reverts because you literally chose to give up all "everything" in this world for Allah swt. It would be interesting to listen to your story coming to islam:) I am grateful Alhamdulliah to stumble upon this channel and excited to follow your journey! May Allah bless you, with the right spouse, a happy life, and in the hereafter:)) Jazakhallah khair brothers. Love from Norway!

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

Alhamdulilah! Thank you for the kind words we appreciate your support. InShaaAllah we will record a follow-up video on the topic of marriage. Also, we will be taking a deeper dive into the topic of Social media. At some point soon, we will do a video fleshing out our journey from being non-muslims to practising Muslims InShaaAllah! May Allah bless you immensely and grant you Jannah!!

[@ouafikamal9625]

the voice is more lowest volume, please fix it for that upcoming episode, I really enjoy it with you guys. 😍😇

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

Salam brother! We fixed the audio on the most video episode 🤝 Please let us know if that episode still sounds low. May Allah bless you! We appreciate the support brother.

[@sos-hb2gv]

@Pursuit of Ihsaan what if someone is in university. Then he will get married very late since he will start working later. So then what can someone do.

[@minonasri3730]

U need to make the audio louder

[@tjc4085]

Just a thought, should sisters take seriously any guy who says both the husband and wife should work together with the finances, despite him being in a good place financially? Instead of answering or acknowledging that it’s a husband’s job to provide? I ask because I’m wondering if that’s a red flag of some sort, as in, maybe this brother is quite reluctant to actually provide for his wife financially in a basic sense.

[@PursuitofIhsaan]

Salam, I would say that it’s a red flag if a man demands everything should be 50/50 financially. A man should have the aspiration and desire to provide financially. It is an obligation given by Allah so if he’s absolving the sister of that right I would advise the sister to be cautious or not marry him until he understands his responsibilities or don’t marry him at all. However, I do understand that, especially, if you’re getting married young complete financial provision may be difficult. That being said the man should not force the woman to work it should be something she decides to do. Sometimes it’s important to consider the context of things as it’s not always black and white, rather it is gray. May Allah bless you!

[@tjc4085]

@@PursuitofIhsaan Wasalam and jzk for answering my question :) May Allah bless you brothers too for the amazing work, aameen.