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ADHD Life Lesson I wish someone told me after getting diagnosed, number 47 of 50
If you have ADHD you will often say yes to everything only to end up sabotaging yourself. No matter what people ask, you often don’t take the time to reflect on your own feelings and prioritise the wants of others only to end up regretting it. Whether it’s going to a party you really don’t have the energy for or taking on more than you can handle at your job, you always end up completely drained but then repeat the same cycle.
This is when I had to learn about setting boundaries on things that drain my energy and the power of authenticity. I realised that, in order to not burn out in the short-term I need to know what my limits are and create certainty for myself by starting with the end in mind. For example, if I go to a party that I know will drain me because I need to mask, I now know when I will leave beforehand and communicate this openly. And it turns out that setting boundaries, actually leads to people respecting you more, since you’re respecting yourself.
Which ironically enough, allows me to actually enjoy myself.
Lesson 47: Start with the end in mind.
Disclaimer: All my content is based on my own experience and/or research/observations from licensed professionals. Just because you do these things, doesn’t necessarily mean you have ADHD. If you think you might have it, please look to get officially diagnosed by a professional.