I am a 21-year old male who suffers from ARFID after a traumatic experience with cancer when I was 4 years old. When I was in the hospital, all I wanted was chicken nuggets and that became my comfort food. To this day, I have eaten chicken nuggets/tenders and french fries/tater tots every day of my life for the past 17 years. This lecture has really helped me understand the disorder and motivates me to change. Sarah is spot on with what people with ARFID think and feel in social enviornments and in isolated enviornments. I would love to have a conversation with her about my experiences to help me in my journey to change!
@fivefiveqt214 Жыл бұрын
I hope you’ve been able to get the therapy you needed and have been successful in your journey.
@MishaSkripach8 ай бұрын
A 4y old cannot choose food. Someone has been supplying you with nuggets all those 17 years, I guess it was the mother? It is hear disorder, she is the one who should have been treated 17 years ago! ARFID in kids is treated easily in 3 weeks and forever.
@campicritter4U3 жыл бұрын
Adults have or develop this too not just kids.
@sarahk.ravinph.d.33052 жыл бұрын
Yes, that is correct. ARFID most commonly develops in children, but it can develop in adolescents or adults as well.
@vildeaadnevik14462 жыл бұрын
@@sarahk.ravinph.d.3305 I developed it as a child, but never went away.
@MosDaft Жыл бұрын
@@sarahk.ravinph.d.3305 I'm 53 and struggling with it for the first time now, in response to trauma and stress.
@jannaanderson6545 Жыл бұрын
As a Mother of 2 on the Autism spectrum, I can say if the ROOT is ASD, ARFID, anxiety, OCD are secondary or even tertiary. To medicate secondary or tertiary symptoms without strong support, for the root seems to only propel vicious cycles. One can say a child struggles with anxiety when the invisible disability doesn’t allow them to even feel the effects of gravity. And yet it is invisible because they are so high functioning and intelligent and humorous, my daughter has had seizures inability to integrate sensory overloading stimuli. It’s neurology =In the hard drive. If lights are brighter and sounds, or louder, certainly oral tastes and textures can be experienced and filtered. This video is very helpful. Yeah, I hope professionals don’t just focus on the ripple effects of the root cause.
@dylanevans88299 ай бұрын
Your comment ignores the fact that ARFID is its own disorder and not always co-morbid with ASD
@Skarfp Жыл бұрын
My ARFID began when I was in my mid-fifties, after a brief illness. This was also abut a year after my Chemotherapy for cancer. My ARFID switches on and off like a switch. One day I'm loving my sandwiches but the next I gag at the smell of bread. This is frustrating to be sure. The Doctor was very clear and answered most of my questions.
@funfettirapunzel2 жыл бұрын
I feel SO seen! When I was younger, I had the same experience as the first little girl she talked about. I choked on a jolly rancher and stopped eating solid food. I saw a therapist and got back to eating, but I’ve been picky my whole life. My family has been understanding, but my partner and his family were not. My boyfriend has finally KIND OF started to understand, but not exactly. I’m just now realizing I have this disorder, and I’m finally starting to seek treatment. Thanks so much for this 💖💕
@peggyburnett63312 жыл бұрын
I’m 68 years old and a couple of months ago I developed an aversion to food. It started slowly with just not eating all of my food. I will put the rest in the fridge to go back and eat later but never would and then threw it away. Now I’m down to 112 pounds and I’m not interested in food at all. No food. I know this is really focused on children but this is happening to adults. I’m not able to get help anywhere! I cannot keep losing weight!
@janetslater129 Жыл бұрын
I'm wondering if I somewhat fall into this catergory as well. My dad passed away in 2020 from a massive heart attack, which I was directly involved with. He, and other members of my family, have history of heart issues (high BP, high cholesterol, etc), and so I decided to get tested. I got the wake up call when my cholesterol hit 350. I was terrified of having at heart attack, and so I started cutting out-or drastically reducing the amount cholesterol I was consuming. Even though I now have my cholesterol at a very healthy level (through the help of medication), I still get these fear of developing the high cholesterol, and it's really messed with my relationship with food. I'm working with an intuitive eating/HAES based dietician to help with this. This includes having a "diagnoses" (for insurance reasons), of having an eating disorder, but not otherweise specified.
@KylieSt.Pierre7 ай бұрын
I hope your doing well ARFID as well as other eating disorders have NO REAL TREATMENT, you can get treatment plans but really it is a mental obstacle you have to overcome yourself, especially arfid and as an adult sometimes you do just have to slowly force yourself to scarf food down, even if it’s just a small meal you have to have many small meals throughout the day
@beverchakus444121 күн бұрын
I'm 34 and in the same boat. I'm at the point now where i wont even remember to eat dinner without being reminded/ forced. Breakfast and lunch have been long gone for me. Super underweight and can't get help. Drs just brush it off. I'm at a loss. I used to love food and now i hate it. I love coffee but that's about it.
@beverchakus444121 күн бұрын
I'm 34 and in the same boat. I'm at the point now where i wont even remember to eat dinner without being reminded/ forced. Breakfast and lunch have been long gone for me. Super underweight and can't get help. Drs just brush it off. I'm at a loss. I used to love food and now i hate it. I love coffee but that's about it.
@kara.animecinematic Жыл бұрын
I was left with Undiagnosed ARFID for 17 years and just got diagnosed recently, thank you for posting this so my family and I can have better insight on what treatments to look for!
@greeneileen3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. (Please consider leading with the article references in future talks.) I really struggle with meeting the nutrient needs of my 10yo who has an ASD diagnosis. M is strongly sensory avoidant, but never underweight because other adults in my family provide hypercaloric foods or unbalanced quantities of food from his preferred set on a regular basis. I was never able to get my pediatrician to take it seriously because M's consistently in the 85-95% growth rate on the chart. We live in Spain but I contribute Northern European genetics via America so the doctor always always shakes his head and says how 'enormous' my kids are (compared to Catalan and Spanish kids) when I express concern. I also once had a pediatrician say (unhelpfully in front of M) that it was fine that he didn't eat vegetables as long as he was eating fruit (which might be true re: fiber, but not nutrition generally as I understand it.) They did allergy test him but none were revealed. I tried to be guided by Ellyn Satter's method but it hasn't really worked for us, the exposure doesn't lead him to eat more nutritious foods very often. When I put out a buffet of reasonable choices his twin blows through like a tornado leaving a little of what he knows his brother will actually eat. I appreciate the 'don't be a snob' part of Satter's advice because we're still rotating through the one variety of breaded fish, one type of sausages, etc little kid type protein meals that's the difference between some or none for him. Family meals are just hard. My husband has diabetes and is celiac, so he's modeling restricted eating to avoid making himself ill. I have some of my own ED issues, which can be triggered by trying to help my kids eat well. Twin brother would happily eat to the point of vomiting, especially at his grandmother's table (ADHD may be a contributing factor.) I am frequently undermined by my husband and my in-laws who do things like serviing potato chips before a meal or preparing a completely different meal for M without offering what the family is eating. They often ask, "But what will M eat!?" in front of him as they plan, undermining the idea that he's perfectly capable of joining us for what we're eating. It's culturally normal to see inlaws most weekends, so this is no small influence. I swear the whole calendar is saint's days and holidays 'requiring' special desserts. M rejects food based on its smell and appearance on a regular basis and when it does pass his lips it's rejected for texture or taste nearly all of the time. Our school doesn't allow brown bag lunch and afternoons were so traumatic for my kid that he was eating his fingernails instead and developing nervous tics. He once went an entire school year without sampling the hot lunch. (I have one note from kindergarten that says he ate a vanilla pudding and napped 30 minutes, like that was a great accomplishment for an entire school year.) M comes home for lunch at our house now, which is not so uncommon in Spain, but it's socially limiting for him. He does not like traditional Catalan/Spanish food (imagine an ARFID/ASD eater stting down to paella!) and the closest we come to the Mediterranean diet is a few chick peas in a ramekin and tolerance for olive oil on the waffle iron. Even plain pasta is a struggle. When I do feel 'empowered' to put a little more pressure on M to eat very small quantities of non-preferred foods I'm alarmed by his tendancy to literally gag on food. He was slow to adapt to solid foods (relative to his twin brother at least) and had ear infections/pain swallowing for much of this adaptation period. If he doesn't like something he doesn't always chew it long enough. It's hard not to send mixed messages on food because I feel like without some guidelines around portion he'd eat no variety. So for example I say not more than one banana, one Greek yogurt or one cream cheese on bread per day. I focus on getting him to choose a protein and vegetable (almost always low-salt deli turkey and a small piece of red pepper, which isn't even really a vegetable) for every lunch and dinner that doesn't have a different already-preferred protein. Spanish advice would eliminate drinking milk once kids can walk, but I was raised on milk with every meal and think it's good for him. He's 5'4" at age 10 and I'm sure dairy is part of that. Some advice says he'd be hungrier without milk and might eat more/differently without it, but we rely a lot on peanut butter and I personally can't get that down without milk. Sometimes I wish there were a target food list we could master so I could dial down my own anxiety getting food right for him. I don't mean to be 'orthorexic' about it but I definitely get the impression that everyone thinks I'm doing it wrong. (I have ASD, too and want to solve problems with research and logic. My mother 'gave up' on changing my restricted eating and I ate the same meals every day growing up until working in a restaurant helped normalize other foods.) We get vitamin A from mangos and some B vitamins from seaweed, the nori wrapped around plain sushi. He does eat a range of fruit, which helps with vitamins and minerals. I'm pretty sure it will be like this for most of his life. I would sleep better if I knew I wasn't 'neglecting' him because the 'family' approaches sure make me feel like this rests with me. M loves to read and isn't especially active or motivated to be with other kids. I was the same and it doesn't concern me much if school is his only social life, but teachers and the school counselor seem to think this should be a bigger part of his intervention. What do people do who can't afford a team of specialists, or whose specialists don't prioritize ARFID as an aspect of ASD? (This is internet overshare, but I don't get to speak about it in my native language where I live, so here I am. Thanks.)
@fivefiveqt214 Жыл бұрын
Never knew I had an eating disorder basically my whole life. I now know I had aversive AFRID that later changed to other eating disorders?? I don’t know if there is a name for it or if it’s even an eating disorder, but I struggle sometimes with swallowing. I don’t know why or what triggers it, but it makes eating a chore and unenjoyable. I sometimes avoid social situations centered around eating and when I can’t, I will get extreme anxiety.
@ML-pe7ed3 жыл бұрын
God bless you for sharing this! We never understood why our daughter was so small! now we know... this was not a choice and since there's a year waiting list for the local children's center for treatment, I feel we can at least begin to try and help her!
@DPachimari3 жыл бұрын
Well you can also be overweight because i have a small select amount of safe foods that are only junk food and had no food with any sort of nutritional value from all of my years through elementary to highschool and gained weight at highest 300 pounds and i had a terrible vomiting reaction to any new foods and then resisted all bribery and anything i have every symptom but the commonly spread false symptom that you must be underweight when you can also be overweight
@sarahk.ravinph.d.33052 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right! Thank you for pointing this out. People can suffer from ARFID across the weight spectrum. In some cases, ARFID results in weight loss and an underweight state, but many people with ARFID are in average sized bodies or larger bodies. If I were to do this talk again, I would make this point clear. I don't want people to resist getting help, or professionals to dismiss potentially severe cases of ARFID or other Eating Disorders, because the patient is in a larger body.
@TheAdventuresOfJimiJaden Жыл бұрын
You are not the only one, I went through the same thing you went through. I would only be able to eat junk food, I would gag and throw up for any food that had nutritional value. I don’t really have it as much anymore because I’m trying new foods like ribs, corn, apples, and I’m also eating less. I’m gaining more muscle than fat now that I’m exercising.
@brylaw8 ай бұрын
100% this! I grew up both overweight and malnourished because I only liked bread, cakes, cookies, pizza, fries, nuggets, and cereal.
@rachael94882 жыл бұрын
Wow. This is such a valuable resouce. Thank you for sharing this.
@TheAjmos2 ай бұрын
Wow this explains a lot. My ex girlfriend had this but we dint know what it was caused. She had a lot of problems and honestly I have some trauma from my experience with her.
@AtypicalPaul2 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling with arfid. Underweight, celiac and few allergies but only have Medicare so super hard to find help. I'm trying to get help from therapists.
@IanFitty2 жыл бұрын
You can do it! The hardest part is the barrier to new foods. It’s financially beneficial to prepare them yourself but with a history of a limited pallet its not like cooking is a very developed skill, or even being able to find something new that isn’t too intimidating in the first place. The fear of food waste is another one, especially when eating out as it’s much more costly, so home prepared just makes more sense. There are online support groups comprised of people going through it that share their safe foods with each other and suggest ones that may help expand your comfort zone. I’ve had it since I was a child and at 31 I’m tired of it and am hoping medicating my general anxiety with mild medications will help. You got this.
@AllieOak Жыл бұрын
We just found out that my eleven year old grandson has this. He is an anxious child, has panic attacks. Is extremely thin and has limited stamina. I had never heard of it before and am very glad there is now an awareness. He now is having therapy specifically for ARFID as well as therapy for anxiety. As a toddler he ate a much more normal diet. I don't know of a traumatic incident related to food when this started. I think it was more gradual, though his parents separated when he was about six. He was always a child who didn't want to cuddle with anyone except his parents and sisters. Even now he doesn't often want a hug from me, even though we are close in other ways.
@AtypicalPaul2 жыл бұрын
I'd like to see a study on indica strains of medical marijuana and arfid as it can increase your appetite and help reduce anxiety.
@kyasmrtist2 жыл бұрын
same
@MsJevious2 жыл бұрын
This has been well documented and marijuana used chronically can actually be an appetite suppressant. You can find many studies on it.
@veraarena15832 жыл бұрын
Excellent!!👏👏👏👏👏
@anhuman1533 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing! very interesting and concise
@ire13982 жыл бұрын
The average age of diagnosis would have been great for me in the ‘80s.
@kara.animecinematic Жыл бұрын
ARFID wasn't recognized until 2013 believe it or not.
@hadassahgrace5 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know if you’ll see this or not, but can a mental health therapist work with this successfully or is it only a doctoral level?
@webby31092 жыл бұрын
Am I able to have anorexia and ARFID at the same time? Cause I have symptoms of ARFID, but also the fear of weight gain and body dysmorphia that comes with anorexia. Maybe I just have anorexia
@sarahk.ravinph.d.33052 жыл бұрын
Many people have symptoms of multiple eating disorders at once. It is also common for people to vacillate between different eating disorder diagnoses. If you have a fear of weight gain and body dysmorphia, then these symptoms actually "rule out" a diagnosis of ARFID, so the correct diagnosis would most likely be Anorexia Nervosa. I would strongly encourage you to consult with a physician, psychologist, or other healthcare provider who specializes in eating disorders for an assessment, diagnosis, and treatment.
@campicritter4U3 жыл бұрын
Love this video thank you!
@bro.kingfish8029 Жыл бұрын
What if you try new foods and just dislike many of them?
@asterkiros32362 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot it helps
@denilla8034 Жыл бұрын
Omg, with all respect, can you get it together before you start? Or edit out the unpreparedness? So unprofessional.