Ep 29: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[@MeetMeOnTheMoon]

Maturity does not come with age and this show shows that.

[@justbeingoctavia]

Literally!!!! They all look great for their age though 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@enyce989]

Most people don't mature, they just get older.

[@theworldisimmense]

It does though, you just focus on exceptions

[@NicotineftCoffeeFlavoredWater]

The world shows you that everyday if you live in the real world

[@Thenoble1j]

Popping cause of someone’s shoes at 40+ is crazzyyyy work 😭

[@Cryonic7740]

The 37 year old cracked me up… what is your purpose and goal in life? “Well I do believe in world peace” … sis this is not Miss World

[@cayej]

😂😂😂

[@joshdeuceroy5267]

Exactly...... that was hilarious

[@shannon_not_so_bland]

Right, my exact thoughts

[@fabianmorrison4341]

This comment right here!!! Yeah, you "believe" in world peace and all... But the question was about your purpose and goals. smh

[@Theresabbg]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂girl she lost me

[@hadriankirkwood2900]

Popping based on shoes at 52yrs old is clinically insane 😂

[@sbongambongwa3059]

Broo 😮🤯 this is absurd!!

[@JoJo-op5xy]

On god 😂😂😂

[@kellyryan6651]

Lol I was thinkn the same. Like at a certain age you still worring about the things he can physically change.

[@daniellhead6357]

That’s what I was thinking, at some point the shoes shouldn’t matter. Maybe she’ll find the right one at 62, lol

[@JessAll4one]

Facts

[@Stroproducedit]

Guy number 2 had NO TIME for nonsense 😂😂😂😂. The way he seemed so aggravated.

[@LopezBrismayda]

Frrrrrr I thought I was the only one who noticed😂😂😂 and he said “oh lord” about telling her bout her teeth. I was cracking up until they brought out guy 3

[@diannathomasjohnson3751]

I think he was aggravated by the extremely superficial attitudes and answers.

[@okbutnamjoontho]

STOP COMING IF YOURE NOT OK WITH LONG DISTANCE!!! OMGGG

[@keishathompson5094]

THANK YOU!!!!!!

[@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty]

Right like that makes absolutely no sense

[@PeachCobbler-n2j]

That lady was just full of herself and didn’t want to give real reasoning. Conceitedness. An hour flight too much? Nah, you’d swing it for Denzel.

[@beatfacegabs7518]

THANK YOUUU

[@jadee.mariee]

literallyyyy like these ppl be coming to az frm all over the country !!

[@conrad2nr]

If you're married, go home tonight and hug your partner tight! This isn't it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bookmark this video for every time you and your spouse falls out.

[@QXQ1001]

Lls I’m not married but I completely agree with this comment😂😂😂

[@tenacity337]

😆 🤣 🤣🤣🤣 now that's a true comment, a gem of advise. Thanks for the laughter conrad2nr

[@rasheedakins2277]

Amen...amen...amen!!!!

[@naturalbelle77]

A WORD 😂😂😂

[@RonDonProductions]

😂my divorce will be final in 2 weeks, looks like I'm going to be single for quite some time lol

[@meatyyumsteve]

MENTAL NOTE: Never pop directly after someone says they want someone with good hygiene.

[@sierenagarraud8495]

😂😂😂 facts it’s giving dirty

[@jacqueliner.ashley3386]

Exactly, letting everyone know that this an issue you have🤣🤣🤣

[@MISAO_SAO]

LMFAO

[@dupreyalana]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@RechadTheArtist365]

Yes I really thought that was crazy.... It's like they was saying they are nasty....😒

[@sallyangel6702]

The 3rd man brought the positivity and loving Vibes. He deserves happiness! I am rooting for him to pick me and Im not even there!

[@CallieCatGaming]

Right?! I adored him.

[@chandlerc4606]

He was adorable. The girl in black needs to heal.

[@AishaBeNtMaryam-z9v]

استفزني جلست اسئل مالو سعيد كذا صوته فيه فرح😂

[@Pfondeena]

I would CAGE FIGHT over Darnell! Man is CUUUUUUU--OOOOT!!!!

[@LRamey]

😂😂❤❤

[@bkbk-rn6ny]

Man this episode made me appreciate my wife more…. If this is what’s out there, I’m even more blessed than I thought.

[@bkbk-rn6ny]

Although Janice and the other tall lady was cool to me

[@michelledarealist305]

It took this show for you to appreciate your wife more?? She deserves better …

[@rickyrants2482]

lol been married for 10 years and i kissed her after watching this. these are hood bitches with no culture. leftovers and they aint gna find a man

[@She_is_beauti]

My exact thoughts! I appreciate my husband 10x more

[@looksodamngoodphattygurl9939]

@@michelledarealist305lol

[@AnthonyBonner-t3j]

These old people choose partners like they are still in their teens

[@amirken5309]

That’s why they still single lol

[@MrSamPhoenix]

@@AnthonyBonner-t3j That’s our community in a nutshell

[@docteurgillesalewina5669]

well, there's a reason they're still single.

[@SourceLOOPS]

Precisely!

[@handsomeblack5234]

That's why they're still single

[@AmeaWilson]

Girl in the pink dress needs to come down off that pedestal asap. “I’ll eat you up” “I’m very intellectual” dude said nothing that insinuated a lack of intelligence. In fact I thought he was pretty solid.

[@buzzbabe1901]

She's delusional talking about not being on someone's level yet you are single at 40......

[@user-vj1rx8kn5f]

I haven't gotten to that part yet, but she is wearing what appears to be lingerie...Wrong place and time Ms. Ma'am.

[@coolgool1]

she's embarrassing herself

[@shakeraxdien]

She LOOKS like she ate the last guys up.

[@missmarie4352]

I think shorty was looking for a nigga who would beat her up or something 🤣

[@Monique-fz3mc]

Telling someone they not on your level without even knowing anything about them is crazy work 😂…I would’ve asked what makes you so great lol

[@FairXchange227]

I liked the tall girl and was even a little empathetic for her in the beginning but as the show went on I started to understand why she’s single 😂😂

[@tbutler0148]

Facts 😂😂

[@looksodamngoodphattygurl9939]

@@FairXchange227 me too facts

[@dominicksans7204]

Exactly she is 43 and want to have children yet popping on a guy because he is a model.

[@Niniitherealist]

@@dominicksans7204Well the guy liked lightskins so she dodged a bullet anyway

[@donnelljunior4198]

Yeeeeeeah she is cray cray

[@REDEFINITION08]

I’ve been begging Arlette for some older contestants… only up end up with THIS. Lord, help us all.

[@ellodajam]

😂😂😂😂 chuss mi , this ain it !!!!! The selection irritated me

[@goddesslex3172]

LMFAOOAOAOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

[@c.herish]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chunzee2954]

I’m screaming 😂

[@moee4555]

One of the worst lineups 😂 over an hour in & no matches

[@Jannah-jg9rq]

That first girl started sweet and then randomly started acting like a sociopath 😭😭 I got scared when she was interrogating the librarian

[@JalisaMyles]

Omg she did. 😂😂😂😂

[@OfficialDeaishaMarie]

😂😂😂😂

[@QueenDiamond-tj2ms]

Fact 😂💯

[@mahagany97]

You i got scared too she started spewing out questions back to back

[@saundra9988]

Facts

[@shondadeloach6714]

I think Regina in the purple is high 😂😂 every time she talks I'm like "what is she talking bout, did she hear the question?" 😂😂🤣😂😂

[@trenesed5546]

😂😂

[@Trae-yrn]

I thought she was a dude

[@DionneClarrett]

Ole girl in purple was past high 😅 I smoke and still had no clue wtf she was talking about 😂😂😂

[@Fat_Vegan]

lol I think it was her nerves!

[@Brii_iiii]

😂😂😂😂 we need a 📣 to echo this

[@UnshackledMind33]

The girl in the white 2 piece who continually popped for fashion meanwhile, wearing biker shorts with pumps is diabolical…

[@sweetmelanin1216]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@3shardae]

😂😂😂😂

[@WhoSaidThatJOC]

IT IS!!!!!

[@awenipankasa3303]

😂😂😂

[@nelithamcwabeni6373]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 haven't laughed this hard.

[@Ohhitsjas]

Lord please don’t let me be like this in my 40s-50s 😂

[@averydifferentperson3765]

exactly this is scary 😂

[@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty]

Just do the work

[@jaselynputman]

😂😂😂😂

[@MaryMac04]

Listeeeen!! I'm like what is going on with all the generations at this point?!

[@iiamskyee_]

The lady in the black dress is a walking contradiction you want to move to the country side but you don’t want to travel

[@t.ms.personality1892]

I'm already shaking my head y'all to old for this level of immaturity. My God

[@kgoalemoleboe4854]

The first lady in a black dress she's crazy🙄 so immature

[@belizegal29]

😂😂😂😂

[@User_92020]

@t.ms.personality1892 Dude popped a balloon because of thier teeth 😆 btw, the teeth looked fine to me. The woman that popped because the dude was sporting a fluffy gucci shoes 😆 🤣 😂

[@looksodamngoodphattygurl9939]

@@kgoalemoleboe4854she a big kid

[@dagreat571]

And this who is so called the leaders of the black race

[@HeavenShekinah]

I love the way the lady in the silver slacks carries herself. She moves with such grace, patience, and seems very humble.❤

[@megmeg1686]

A lil stuck up too but I ain’t mad at it …I like it

[@HeavenShekinah]

@@megmeg1686really? I didn’t think so at all

[@RiverwoodSecurity]

Ain't nothing graceful about her

[@HeavenShekinah]

@@RiverwoodSecuritywhat exactly about her was stuck up? I think maybe you’re just intimidated

[@Bleeblaablooo]

@@HeavenShekinahagreeed!!! He must’ve not been paying attention correctly. She like a silver fox, very nice, polite, classy and gorgeous the opposite of stuck up. Confidence and energy can intimidate WEAK PEOPLE.

[@Bigg323]

This the auntie & unk edition 😂😂💯💯

[@selfcaresnobtv857]

my exact thoughts lol

[@rutendochekeche4490]

Hahahaha aunties need love too

[@astralyeti]

and what exactly do you think the men are?

[@hsplash8243]

I willing to give it to them and a baby if they want one

[@audreysteer8644]

@@astralyetiright like the men were in their forties. But it’s always an attack on women.

[@SolomonBbb]

A 46-year-old woman popped up saying, I am not feeling the shoes and pants, but love the career, love everything you said. Do they even hear themselves? It’s like the delusion levels just go up with age 😂

[@sabk1545]

😂 I honestly think they just not feeling them but they have to say something u know? So they gotta be superficial

[@linequeenpublishing]

Im 52, it doesnt go up with age, she was delusional, he change his shoes smh

[@buffon139]

We've seen enough, someone send the asteroids already

[@Tboogiewitdabun]

Funny cause her shoes was ass! Period! The nerve lmao

[@handsomeblack5234]

She thinks time is on her side

[@05trim]

I really don’t get why people pop their balloon over somebody’s shoes like are you even looking for love 😂

[@gina9684]

Nope, they looking for shoes..smh..too old for that foolishness.

[@FatalFarrow]

Of course they are not looking for love, especially the women. They are looking to have a boyfriend.

[@rutendochekeche4490]

​@@FatalFarrow lol, she doesn't know the pookies and ray rays are the best dressed.

[@TGSM19]

lookign for big cash and big d.. not love. here these woman are superfacial.

[@dennyreed1869]

At 52 the last thing u should be popping over is shoes

[@VeroniqueSt-Michel]

Being rejected and still stay polite is the best Life skill. Telling positive aspects about someone that is not your type too 👌👌👌. This shows top quality humans.

[@AishaandLife]

Can we take a minute to applaud Arlette’s looks on these episodes! Hair, makeup, clothes 👌🏾 She’s always looking 🔥

[@michaelolasubomibalogun]

Arlette na spec, normally na

[@Deenique16]

🥰

[@tantalize811]

She has lost weight too !! ☝🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💖

[@kobs_123]

If she wasn't married, I'd have risked everything I own.

[@Lonnngmoneydell]

@@kobs_123yo i swear 💯 she lost some weight figure bussin with that smile 😅💯

[@1CryptoJunkie]

The First Dude got popped on for insane reasons. You popped on Jesus! Crazy Work!😂 @Arlette & BM ..Bring this man Back!

[@W0keServant-vb1vd]

I totally agree! Yal need to bring back people who got popped on for dumb reasons!

[@BLKStarTunes]

Poppin on a handsome successful Christian brotha is beyond me…makes us look bad ladies!

[@deb1920]

She probably has had experience with people who require you to only follow God through Jesus and knew he wouldn't bend on that. She literally said she believes there are multiple ways to God.

[@gregb1216]

@@deb1920there aren’t multiples ways to God though…

[@BeLojikal]

If he want a woman to believe in Jesus and she doesn't, then popping on him is actually sensible. Everybody don't have to believe in that shit. But you already knew this

[@shae.the.gymini]

Anyone else love reading the comments after each episode??? 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭🤣🤣 HILARIOUS 💀

[@ritoulz]

I always have the comments open and watch at the same time 😂

[@victoreze629]

Literally what I'm doing right now...and laughing so much at them😂

[@kaceyrae8946]

Watching while reading comments. I don't care how many times I have to replay parts.

[@BrixxisCreations]

That is what im doing right now😂😂

[@darkglobe406]

of course . but this episode was probably one of the worst 3 episodes ever ... i mean 40+yo women popping based on shoes - i rolled my eyes and some of them "girls" should probably double check in the mirror b. t. ch you was probably not hot even when you were 20 , now you are 40 and way past having options to be picky like that ... emotionally damaged , ugly , immature (despite the age) and delusional line-up ...

[@munzirshaikhoun5113]

Comment section is pure GOLD!! 10x more entertaining than the show itself 😂

[@JaszsoAsstho]

Definitely 😂

[@TrishC5280]

That's what I'm here for 🤣🤣🤣

[@oformachineke8443]

Dude asking a Math question just wanted to quickly disqualify all the ladies on the lineup as quickly as possible. When he said "Critical Thinking," I died 😂😂

[@PBEs-wf4er]

He did not want to be there 😂

[@oformachineke8443]

​@PBEs-wf4er facts 😂😂

[@jazzphotos]

That was a clever way to do it😂

[@Celinambendana]

I was so curious to hear his reason behind that question until he said for critical thinking observation , was like Nah see your way out cause you clearly don't want to be here 😂😂

[@oformachineke8443]

​@jazzphotos Bro bad for real 😂

[@Redsand1984]

Not gonna lie, this show is my guilty pleasure .. I put all of my other shows on pause every Wednesday for this .. Arlette does a really good job

[@July-ola]

@@Redsand1984 don’t feel guilty, it’s sugar free

[@diamondz56]

yeah im with you

[@Ferhanibro]

Bot

[@danamckinney9270]

Me too. I'm hooked !

[@KC-iw6uf]

Same!

[@aderoag]

“You seem like a great guy-well-spoken, passionate about your work as a business owner, and with an overall polished appearance. HOWEVER, I find your shoes a bit too bulky for my taste, so I’m not interested.” It’s hard to believe these women are genuinely seeking a connection when the reasons for disinterest are so superficial.

[@DCBikerR1]

Exactly why men like myself remain childless and single. *sigh*😔

[@1rtr1]

Making long-term life changing decisions based on things that can be easily changed in less than an hour!

[@DEPARTUERS19]

thats why many successful ladies are lonely they want to much it seems ..dude was kinda looking like a teen though

[@lorraineay]

My exact thought!! What are we doing here 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@etherealbutterfly]

@@DCBikerR1That’s not really a bad thing. Enjoy your freedom!! With this pick of the litter, you’re dodging many bullets.

[@bridgettebetwells4544]

Arlette is always dressed elegantly, not busy outfits and nothing revealing ♥️

[@bentonanestal2087]

i mean she’s married so 😂 she def not gonna be dressing like these single ladies

[@shuaibsalim9816]

Arlette is a Gem she gat it going... Well figured out in matters of her clothe line plus she is smart upstairs.

[@Dontevenknowfam]

One of the many reasons why she’s married. She’s a WOMAN! Not a girl, cosplaying as a woman. 👍🏿👍🏿

[@HilaryoftheHood]

The veteran turned landscaper was so sweet and wholesome ! Such a breath of fresh air

[@skylaskyla3]

frrr

[@terra_tory]

Omg he’s like a big teddy bear ❤

[@SinaLaJuanaLewis]

True

[@angalenetaylor1532]

Yes Mr. Darnell I am here if you still need love. Laughol. Who wouldn't want to be around him.

[@tesha2087]

He was annoyingly long winded to me lol I was over it

[@kingshaun2x]

“I’m a business owner and entrepreneur” we gotta stop lying to look cool y’all 🤣

[@Interpole101]

😂😂😂😂

[@tomtomtombossa]

Founder and CEO he said

[@hndrxx30]

Lmfaooooo facts

[@kingshaun2x]

@@tomtomtombossa7:07

[@HoneyGold-o3r]

😂😂😂

[@michaelhoward1588]

Maybe a coincidence, but popping your balloon, as soon as he said bad hygiene was a deal breaker, took me out 😂😂

[@Yocyndie]

😂😂😂 like is there something you wanna share girl?

[@basicqweenheremsp5727]

Honestly I was like oooh 😮

[@FaithfullyH1S]

Omg 😆

[@kellybarnes8722]

I thought I was the only one who thought that bro!!!

[@msreen269]

I thought I was the only one that caught that😂😂😂

[@kimberlyc54]

The third guy was so animated but I enjoyed his energy and how he spoke . Loved it

[@vighneshramesh2569]

The second guy insulted everybody teeth and left 😂😂

[@carlotadanayharmon3868]

Lol sure did 😅😂

[@AO-qz8qy]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@lifeofjoy11]

😂😂😂😂

[@anisaantoinette6381]

LMAOOOOO

[@bootybees5144]

There's no way he was serious.

[@gksatm1]

The show makes you realise why ppl are single.

[@rawcredentials]

Superficial.

[@JornHub]

🎯🎯

[@brandonclark8395]

Yep

[@MzChocolateGhana]

Every time

[@ericp.7550]

Tell me about it!!

[@dekendrajackson3772]

The librarian seems like a great guy. Very confident and kind. He didn’t allow anyone’s opinion to dictate or warrant a negative response from him. Very solid and secure guy! Love it ♥️

[@yessi2067]

He seemed nice but his outfit had me tripping a bit😂 but an outfit can always be changed❤

[@binyammahari1194]

he is so nice and confident but his outfit and haircut was killing me 😀

[@linpringle8979]

Purple dress need to STFU too. This guy is a whole vibe. I guess they wanted him to be disrespectful. He handled himself very well

[@Risha-Rene]

Yes, I hate she wasted his time

[@stevenallen1567]

yeah i love homie spirit wish more niggas was like that you can tell he loves peace over negative

[@dwalton93]

When Darnell asked that question about childhood upbringing, I started crying… And then, when the first woman started talking, explaining she’s from Detroit… I cried even more. I’m from Detroit, abandoned and was in foster care. This got real deep watching this episode.😢😢😢😢😢😢‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@John-cd9ji]

Sorry to hear that you went through that experience, it can be tough. Keep pushing!

[@iyaboobasanjo1033]

🫶🏽🤛🏽

[@AishaBeNtMaryam-z9v]

معلش لا تزعل بكره انت تسوي اسره متماسكه وتملتك محبه انا اسفه لك

[@mom2babygkaterad946]

So sorry... Hang in there.❤❤

[@LRamey]

❤🙏🏾

[@chicolinx11]

Second guy didn't wanna be there as soon as he came out 😂

[@kellyryan6651]

Foreal he was not impressed

[@eljefe1930]

he was just ready to go😂

[@jaykaizen5648]

He looked bored 😂

[@OharaRiley]

man was like damn.............. this 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@DanielleDoublette]

😂😂😂😂

[@quelleym4265]

These women proved maturity doesn’t come with age.

[@KristySantiago-vm1th]

Say it louder for the people in the back 😂

[@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty]

Then complain when men prefer younger women. Like they’re not offering anything of value

[@loverofhumanity]

@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty yeah....problem is thats how it is in dating past 30. it honestly is. i mean no disrespect but even though i was getting hundreds of matches after 30, it was all women with baggage, hung up on some ex, bitter about the past, no longer affectionate and cold. I genuinely think its the only reason men date younger women when they have a chance. I used to think its a beauty thing but tbh there are many beautiful women past 30-40-50. My friends mom is 62 and she is still stunning lol but genuinely awful to be arond. Insufferable is the word. Honestly, I dont agree men age better than women do. Most men lose their hair by 30 which has a huge affect on their appearance. It's just that most men tend to make money and become more stable so their relationship value technically doesnt decline much. If they become rich and look decent it even can go up. Whereas for women, even if they dont look worse, they simply become undatable. These women are actually not even close to being as bad as some of the matches I got.

[@lifeapplication792]

Some of these ladies are looking for a little self-esteem boost, that's why they are single and popping for foolish reasons

[@baldcheddar]

With the attention these women get Social media has these people thinking that they are young forever

[@ninagaston35]

Arlette.....this color is you. And your hair. You look absolutely STUNNING and if i was the ladies on the show I'd be taking serious notes!

[@tobesuretobesure7191]

Agree!

[@CrunchyGreenWater]

Arlette looks amazing in all her dresses and outfits, I am always in awe!!!! 😮🤩

[@ninagaston35]

@CrunchyGreenWater she always looks so classy and lady like! Always the best dressed 😍😍

[@Enkaybe]

The color really compliments her skin beautifully 🥺

[@pay_attn]

They need to copy her personality and demeanor more than anything.

[@RB_MWB]

People popping because they don’t want to answer childhood questions is wild. And then the sad story about the parents who died… this episode was an emotional rollercoaster!

[@ramblingmillennial1560]

How is that wild. They're on a public platform being viewed by millions. Most people wouldn't wanna talk about their trauma in front of strangers.

[@hannahgxogxo4772]

​@@ramblingmillennial1560exactly. I am curious as to what makes it wild. The fourth lady's response was suitable for that type of Q... for that setting.

[@UnusualToxicity]

It’s their personal choice not to answer that, that is very personal to people. Not wild at all, and he literally asked about their childhood and she explained her childhood and how she entered the foster care system and what led up to that. You seem immature

[@UnusualToxicity]

@@ramblingmillennial1560exactly!

[@AdoreKii]

They havent healed yet

[@bm.artist]

Happy Wednesday! I hope you are all enjoying the regular uploads. We have a new fashion show coming out on my channel this Sunday! Stay tuned.

[@Moniquelyshay]

You are doing amazing! Keep God first and you will continue to prosper! 🙏🏾

[@chichibesa6838]

We love it Looking forward

[@garymartinez1460]

Can’t wait fam, blessings 🙏🏽🌎🇪🇨

[@flowerss.7222]

I'm your 108 like 😊lol

[@SimplyPops]

Salute!

[@Mast3rMindTalks]

This episode showed me even older dating is a struggle 😂

[@Mast3rMindTalks]

Chick in the pink that was 40 was so immature

[@SrgFani11]

They too picky

[@Meyouletsgo]

I felt the standards are the same!

[@AlenaReed-by5sd]

Facts!😂😂😂😂

[@ladyghana5603]

@@SrgFani11BIG TIME!! these people are weird!!

[@foxfox4339]

That tall woman at the front is not healed.

[@FashionLinguist]

Thissssss!!!! Yup

[@dwaynefade]

at all …. she still act like a little girl

[@NoCapJustFaxts]

This. That chick doesn't need to be in a relationship. Idk why she even came on the show

[@nadrialvz]

I agree!!

[@thephilly4lyfe519]

I said the exact same thing.

[@DEPARTUERS19]

wow a lot of us have issues and this show hits deep thanks for allowing the ladies to share there stories of being in foster care and the healing they are going towards .thanks and youre a GREAT HOST !!!!!

[@livinginddworld1188]

Number 3 is simple and genuine he will treat his women like a queen. Bring him back.

[@melissa-kml]

Right !!!

[@heathermaldonado4049]

His positivity! And his personality! He seems like a sweetheart. Find him a match!

[@MirandaDanda1983]

💯💯💯

[@UnLisable]

Yeah Teddy bear seems so sweet 🧸

[@tiffanyfoxworth3491]

I like him for myself

[@Mixedmediaz]

That girl in black asked all those questions knowing she didn’t want to be with him. Not only that, she wasn’t even listening. He led with the fact that he works at a library in Las Vegas

[@Meyouletsgo]

Yeah felt she wanted to find an answer to pop the balloon ! 😅

[@lava_wrld]

She wanted camera time 😂

[@uu99ful]

She time waster and wanted camera time to

[@uu99ful]

​@@lava_wrldexactly

[@looksodamngoodphattygurl9939]

Same thing I thought

[@Dr3ams2rea1ity]

Miss lady in the pink dress telling the librarian “he’s not on my level” while wearing a 30$ dress and high school prom heels is WILD😭 also being in your 40s telling grown men you would “eat them up” 💀

[@sophietamale1903]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lifeoftee8493]

She so f*n annoying! 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Iam.Antoinette]

Girl, that rainbow dress

[@CreativeChristianContent]

She’s a big 🤡

[@CallMeStedman]

She was certainly immature with that comment.

[@renee1489]

Aw he’ll naw, this group of ladies gone be single forever!! 😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@chyrellegraham5788]

Definitely eating my words right now. I commented previously that if the cast were older we wouldn’t have to sit through the pettiness of the younger when it comes to dating. 🙄 Chile

[@aneveaux]

I agree. I’ve learned over the years, some ppl hit a certain age mentally and never advance past that age mentally, no matter how physically old they are

[@vswayz490]

​@@aneveauxI have come to this realization.

[@mstrshalt]

@@chyrellegraham5788 I've tried to tell people this forever.. Age don't mean shit. Older women are just as picky than their younger counterparts. Remember that quirky guy she had on a few eps back? Tall guy with the toupee? @TheLastTalkShow? Yeah he did his own version of Pop The Balloon with legit senior citizens (women lineup) and they. Were. No. Different.

[@MikeJ-zf5ip]

She needs to add diversity.

[@lollypop2310]

As they say age ain’t nothing but a number but as someone said I like it because it adds diversity it’s different

[@hakeemmuhammad2978]

“I have a Doberman, he’s a dog”. Idk why but this has me crying 😂

[@skovhugger.husqvarna2483]

Yeeeaah.

[@Livin4menow]

You'd be surprised the ppl who don't know that 😂

[@tdpjtdpj8833]

@@Livin4menowme actually 😭 I don’t like or care for pets so this helped

[@kristengeorge6289]

My husband and I had to hit pause so we could finish laughing.

[@kabiba79]

Yea...hahaha..but he is kinda cute😂😂😂very positive energy.

[@terrili964]

I like the third guy- he's so bubbly. A big, teddy bear!

[@mrbrave29]

The 2nd guy was built like earthworm Jim.

[@SheHxteQuayy.]

@@mrbrave29😂

[@mofenyimalatsi5654]

@mrbrave29😂😂

[@waddellcarissa]

My fav!!!!

[@JupiterForest819]

Lol confused teddy bear

[@bluehurts5714]

Thank you!!! Finally this show had a panel of people over 40!! I love the show in general BUT this episode is what I've been waiting to see!!

[@amaragrace94]

Darnell would be such a "golden retriever" bf/husband. That's the energy of someone who cherishes every blessing, even the little things in life. Whoever he ends up with will be blessed.

[@digthewarmth]

He's super cute. Great energy!

[@Fallinginlovewithhopek]

Fr if I was 40 I would’ve chose him 😂 he so positive

[@graws7009]

.. More like, annoyed

[@Joonwebb89]

😂​@@graws7009

[@cupcakes4444]

He would be a great dad… but why exactly is he single

[@ImClaytonThomas]

I just knew when I heard 40s & 50s there were gonna be some PREMIUM, MATURE, QUEENS WITH DEPTH… and whew.. couldn’t be more wrong

[@Curvyelitestyles]

Agreed

[@groundedbutterfly8737]

I assumed this as well. We were wrong.

[@MyOwnBossPR]

Lol😂

[@topgirlpaulette]

🤣

[@mikeprice8307]

These the kind that keep young 20 yo on speed dial for midnight

[@mikejames4910]

Military vet, he got too much joy for some of them. Bro is completely at peace

[@whitneyturner9620]

Yes , that’s amazing

[@VibeF.M]

I want what he has, it’s hard to be actually literally happy.

[@trilingualrunnergworl]

@@VibeF.Mright!! Also remember happiness is a choice, but it also comes in waves. Can’t be happy all the time but majority of the time you can!

[@ghostlee9489]

nah there is something forced about his constant happiness... he seems like he's a little unhinged.

[@mikejames4910]

@ghostlee9489 idk.... I think it's just unnatural to see a black man that happy, when he came out my instinct was to judge him, but I'm a more serious person. On further inspection it's just a joy, even if he's choosing it, it's still commendable

[@gloryschannel1]

You guys, there is just one thing I love so much about this show and that is the host and her sense of dressing ❤🎉👌

[@koenatjiane1253]

2nd dude busy talking about teeth and maths while he got his shirt collars up like he in a 2009 music video

[@shynebayarea510]

Terrible joke

[@AllAboutPurple]

😂😂

[@koenatjiane1253]

@@shynebayarea510 you the one who said it’s a joke smarty pants

[@racquelbutcher5479]

right??? looked like he didnt want to be there either

[@orange_stick2847]

He seemed unfriendly and never said thank you when they gave him compliments he didn't deserve it. He looked at every with disgust and seemed so apathetic whenever he was face to face with the women. He kept making fun of their teeth and I thought they had lovely smiles. They should of said let's see your teeth because he never once cracked a smile. He seemed so bitter. Also he asked the math question 9+9x9 which is 90 because you have to use the order of operations multiplication comes first then addition. 9x9=81 81+9=90. Why did he not explain the answer he did not care if they knew the answer it's as if he wanted them to look dumb and acted as a snob as if he knew it all. He thinks women don't know math but this one sure does know her math!

[@tiffanyjacobs8722]

Im 45 and embarrassed watching this episode....😕.... The 2nd guy seemed disappointed with the selection! LOL!!

[@stretchwithke]

lol right start staring at their teeth 😂😂

[@melaninmonroeeee]

Lol , he was upset after the only one he was attracted to popped her balloon. He got real sassy after that 😂

[@kingmbenzi5057]

The women line isn't it wasn't there better ladies

[@itsmetheinterrupter]

He was HELLA MAAAAAD 😅

[@Dotheerighting]

I just said this. I’m 41 and this is crazy. I just want people to know that all women aren’t like this at this age

[@irGuilty]

Bro asked a maths question and all the girls said Nahh 🤣

[@gina9684]

Yeeesss😂😂😂

[@j.o3014]

@@SuffuseStudios it's 90 my love

[@vicakwe]

​@@SuffuseStudioswrong.....Bodmas.....you'll have to multiply before adding...so it will be 9×9=81+9=90

[@user-fb7tp7lv3k]

feel like he took a look at the lineup and asked that because he didn’t want any of them

[@JessAll4one]

His personality was a little dry 😆

[@DaUrbanCowboyPastor]

So if the dude is shy, they have a problem, if you’re outgoing there’s a problem. If they wear Jordan’s there’s a problem, but if the dude dress in gucci there’s also a problem. Folks need to understand beauty isn’t skin deep. I don’t believe folks are truly looking for love on the show.

[@indietee]

Had hope because it’s a more mature line up but less than 5 mins in and we’re popping over shoes 😅 whew chile, let me continue watching.

[@July-ola]

I thought so too… but then when he walked off stage, my mom walked by and said “what’s up with that man’s shoes?” Lmao 😂

[@gina9684]

Yeeesss that's what I said...too old for that immature ish.

[@VinBrown2583]

My sentiments exactly 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lastnamefirstname2390]

I usually agree that popping over fashion is dumb. But if you put ZERO effort in your appearance, it reflects poorly on you. Some of these guys aren't even trying.

[@zakinorse3059]

Mind you barely any of them are cute

[@MsKB7]

If they don’t stop being so picky, they’re all going to be on the senior edition of pop the balloon🎈

[@Mpirefilms]

Better than being on Divorce Court.

[@mabeltiriwepisanyamahwe5124]

Imagine just for the shoes.Loaded people may probably never wear those gucci shoes again and you block your blessings for just shoes.

[@Tee-z9i]

I thought that's what this was😅

[@MoniqueAmoii]

I think the question about childhood triggered the first lady in the black. She started off sweet and then went savage after that 😂😂

[@cindyhope9036]

That appeared to be her true self, he asked an excellent question.

[@thetumbleweedtraveler]

Got dark real quick. Sad story

[@Qbanhoneydip]

I thought it was just me then she started talking like a teenager

[@justinhowze7735]

@@Qbanhoneydipexactly, that was strange.

[@sinkarine]

Bruh I can’t with this comment & the responses😹😹😹

[@LoveAlways1002]

I 100% agree with the 40yr old dad of 2...I'm open minded and really don't have a type...a connection with someone can happen in various forms....I love his mindset regarding that ❤❤

[@sweetecheri]

I appreciate the fourth guy. He responded to the criticism really well and remained hisself, he's teaching/promoting kids to read. He sounds like a good role model!

[@ludens1526]

We know women hate that 😂

[@sweetecheri]

Well I'm a woman and I loved it so that sure of what you're referring to

[@alexchui3511]

As a man nothing butcrespect for him. But the women never listened to he was saying but got hang up with his appearance.

[@slicksweet1]

​@alexchui3511 because you have to be attractive... otherwise, he's just respected and friend zoned

[@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149]

​@@slicksweet1This. Sexual attraction determines if things even begin. All the other factors determine if things continue

[@Theblackbeltfarmer]

Second guy was ready to go soon as he saw the lineup 😂

[@christyspeed4995]

I don’t blame him 😂😂😂😂

[@MerlotBaby]

These are the types of women he's most likely to get, so it is what it is.

[@tjthedome]

😂😂😂😂

[@KristySantiago-vm1th]

😂😂😂

[@StaceyMaluu]

Nah fr😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mts4611]

Wow sis in the champagne color top & black pants who said she's 52 looks GREAT for her age. I wouldn't have guessed that.

[@ThePeople-z9o]

And we still look right pass her. 52 is too old. Men date younger not older.

[@dellex12]

yeah I thought she was late 30s

[@July-ola]

@@ThePeople-z9ofalse. You think all men are younger than her?

[@BaldmanFPV]

I would have.

[@ChrisDaAce27]

She definitely looks 40+ 😂. Wtf you talking about

[@TREZZ2]

These ladies acting and moving like their 20s. This is crazy work

[@YourFavAccountant]

Which is why they’re still single. 🥴

[@eltonlocklear7659]

They got them believing 40 is the new 20 and they look up to rappers and entertainers that are 20 years old lol

[@Ifyouknowyaknow]

They are mid

[@NimrodBabylon]

@@YourFavAccountant exactly ✌🏿

[@shortyduwhop319]

Like the men were on here being mature? Let’s stop

[@DominiqueBolden]

She said "I believe in world peace" Is this a pageant? LOLLLL

[@toriastarr9242]

LISTENNNNNNN LOL!!! I thought it was just me…cause what in the world lady! 😂

[@jordanmcclendon3049]

😂😂

[@colew680]

lol she probably was nervous

[@gkusuo4921]

Ì ran straight to the comments lmfao

[@dierraheyward2690]

I had to skip 😂 I said huh? 🤔 😵‍💫

[@imdatlyndachick]

Bring the 3rd guy back for another episode! What a dope personality and breath of fresh air! Especially when compared to the dull energy given by guy number 2.

[@thebookofshashu]

Right. I like Darnell, I'll date'm lol his personality is dope!

[@mrsuniqueyez]

Right ❤

[@LadyVA0422]

I’ll definitely date the third guy

[@khajjahkmedia6367]

If I was single I would actually call the show to try for Darnell! Awesome dude great energy

[@CarlynneSkinner]

the second guy boring

[@antmac4284]

Arlette’s 👀 when the pink dress said buddy wasn’t close to her level! 😂😂😂😂

[@D0ntW0rryAb0utIt]

The 1st lady was doing great up until that bubbly guy asked her about her childhood and upbringing, I think that might have triggered her and sparked something up within her because from that point forward when they asked her a question, her way of answering was very childlike. She has a lot of things to work on in my opinion.

[@vidz06]

I dead azz caught that. Shorty is broken. All jokes aside very broken.

[@DEnnis-uq7ll]

yes she has some issues to work on

[@tya4662]

💯

[@TheHermitTeller]

I caught this too! Recalling difficult childhood memories can definitely re-traumatise someone, and then considering what the next lady said about how 'amazing' her upbringing was. I felt so bad for her. It was quite a deep question for the show, maybe something that should have been reserved between two people in private. Then again she didn't have to answer the question to such depth but I'm sure she wanted to be authentic and honest in her answer. She was put in a hard spot, bless her.

[@RicoSoprano_]

No she just got comfortable and you started to see her actual personality and the reason she on this show now

[@weisslr22]

The 3rd guy was so upbeat and sweet and confident. I hope he finds his match!! He's such a joy

[@miranda120202]

They need to bring him back for another chance to find love.

[@kristalm3888]

The 4th girl saying n her childhood/upbringing was amazing after the 1st girls tragic story was crazy 😭😭🤣🤣🤣.

[@XavierAlexander-d8i]

That was wild lol 😂

[@jorrdiiii]

Was looking for this comment cause she was doing too much after the first girls story 😭

[@kennethblackkb8765]

That's crazy😂😂😂

[@ghostaccount9728]

Yea she know she was wrong for that. And that’s why she got popped on

[@SB-fv6yz]

IT WAS GIVING PICKMESHA FOR HER TO GO THAT HARD.... AND STILL NOT GET PICKED.. 2 PARENT HOUSEHOLDS DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUATE MORALS AND VALUES! sorry for yelling lol

[@alonnakyle]

The backwards walk always got me 😂 love the show!

[@cooldonnyd8647]

Can we give Arlette props for knowing the order of operation for the math question!!

[@shadesofkayb4886]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@alesiasinspiration]

I'm horrible at math and knew that. It's like 6th grade math. 😂

[@sabenathomas1141]

@@cooldonnyd8647 why wouldn’t she ? lol

[@sabenathomas1141]

@@alesiasinspiration right…..

[@sarahrisee]

She hit us w the PEMDAS

[@Wonderfullymade1212]

The lady in the pink dress looks like she has on her 16 yr old daughter’s dress

[@BxCaramelburst7605]

Exactly she’s giving just nasty

[@pulengmokapela3639]

its a no for me too

[@carenbutler5376]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Millywatson21]

It’s a Tik Tok.

[@uniqueduffie2783]

😅😂😂

[@2.T00T]

I told my wife I love her after this episode.

[@nanalingling840]

Tell her again for me 😂 because I pray to God I will not grow up to be these women

[@mauricej9740]

Forreal. I tell my wife I'm happy we got together back when we did

[@kenneyp.9456]

This episode made me start taking dating serious

[@nailahdawkins]

Tell her on the daily!

[@RuthyJGTX]

Darnell is cute! I like his smile and positivity.

[@michellem8055]

“I’m an intellectual” said no intellectual ever! And she is inarticulate 😂😂

[@AnomalyBelleza]

💀💀💀 right! 😂

[@nigeriansilk]

🤣🤣🤣

[@KINGDEE2]

Lady in pink thinks she is Albert Einstein but she popped over 9+8×9😂. That's definition of women with overinflated ego😂😂. They always think they are better than what they actually deserve. And it looked like she is looking for a thuggish version of Albert Einstein 😂.

[@nanalingling840]

Fr😂😂😂

[@carissaingram5618]

She was awful

[@Naturescanner1276]

As soon as he said Im 47 and no one popped I knew this was an uncle aunty edition😂

[@zoniapatreece1324]

We single out here at all ages

[@siphomthi602]

😂😂

[@megmeg1686]

Wow…like y’all just gonna stay forever young…grow up

[@istillbetalkin]

STHU 😂😂😂

[@Lil_Vern]

Dude came out with all that good energy and brought all the trauma out.

[@RiohnPhantom]

i’m in tears 😂😂😂

[@ob2be1]

You rightttt 🤣🤣🤣

[@mrsasporter]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mrsasporter]

To dang on zealous 😅

[@Fitsoulciety]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@schleastudios]

i like watching this host maneuver the questions! She's great!

[@b.michelle2393]

The first lady in black was holding it together until that childhood question. She actually started acting like a child after that; that trauma is deep!! I can’t believe none of them had 1 good memory from childhood very sad

[@bry_almighty]

Its insane, its like she had a mental shift. Her tone became pouty, her mannerism, etc.

[@Aprilleju]

I noticed the same tge one in tge black and brown actually had a beautiful child hood but see that's one out of 8

[@Cherryotaku95]

She was annoying honestly. Go heal boo

[@lisahernandez5799]

I was so hopeful for her with her first response about why she was studying mental health. Then he asked that childhood question and it was apparent that that trauma is deep!!!

[@321Venia]

The dark skin girl with leather pants had a great childhood

[@rhiannamarie4216]

I NEED a man like Darnell!!!🖤🖤🖤 He is not that big at all and so well put together and loves just being with things that bring him joy so peaceful!

[@AlwaysLisaLisa]

Like him too❤. Perspective and initiative, not lazy❤

[@idriskobe7028]

That brotha definitely a little autistic but he seem like a good dude lol

[@Crystal-bz7op]

Me too. His energy was refreshing.

[@Kumara00i]

His wide leg stance is sending me but he seems lovely!

[@leahomoruyi]

He was so adorable! ❤

[@baxna]

Fumbling the librarian was CRAZY. Kind-hearted, capable, passionate, intelligent, experienced. His outfit was unique and not just some gaudy, flashy luxury brand. Every day on this show the women completely fumble well-developed men with real personalities, careers and values -- and keep their balloons unpopped for shallow, mean man-children w/ zero personality. Make it make sense!!!

[@kayladavis2966]

EXACTLY!!! I liked the fit, especially the shirt .

[@3kingvisions]

💪🏾💪🏾

[@FreedomNurse]

He was for a particular person and that person was not on this show.

[@shebarbie7995]

They wasn’t attracted to him physically and that’s okay. Would you want someone that didn’t think you was attractive dating you??

[@estherjessicamoiwo1048]

I like the way people dig on God and believes in him like 100% 💯 on this show. I love seeing that. Y’all really choosing the right path out there

[@gracelong3975]

YES 🙌🏾

[@rainbowglazednights]

I appreciate that this episode is for older couples! This change up is great!!!

[@THE-BASEMENT]

This is Chicken Head Wednesdays.

[@July-ola]

@@rainbowglazednights me too!

[@yusufmustafa8048]

@jackdaniels5134 🤣

[@GetOffMyy]

Shit was boring af

[@playcousin5497]

@jackdaniels5134 men truly hate women these days smh

[@krueltality]

Before you sign the divorce papers, you need to watch a few episodes of this show.

[@Kimmica20]

Facts!

[@perfectlyflawed5330]

😂😂😂😂 it will having you reevaluate your whooooole life...

[@rogerblewett5595]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@thesupervisor3270]

❗️❗️❗️

[@josephbloosyn1559]

😂😂😂

[@jazzyj48]

Awww the third guy in the denim shirt was such a sweetheart! Such bubbly and kind vibes 🥹🫶🏼

[@carolinemayende7917]

Yeah he must a darling

[@dazzypeters6793]

They don't want us teddy bears

[@tshifhiwamuthelo4913]

Yes, i liked him a lot ❤

[@adebayocsilla582]

So far he was my fav man.He was a cute teddy bear with a good sense of humor+ known to listen .His personality was everything👍🏻Maybe he will find his match soon😊

[@Sarahgorman0510]

I was disappointed they didn’t match at the end I liked them together!!

[@Mcfly-k8b]

Homie with the black hat and plaid blazer sounded like he had enough alcohol in his system to calm every nerve in his body. My boy slurring.😂

[@shawanamrhodes]

#3 Finally a guy who can fully articulate his likes and what he wants. He had great energy and a wonderful personality. I truly hope he finds his queen.

[@Essays4College]

Why is he ok with weed? People need to leave that stuff alone too!

[@chubbahubba1167]

We need him back

[@Essays4College]

@@chubbahubba1167 No way! He's promoting weed.

[@visaormastercard]

You leave it alone ​@@Essays4College

[@Iam_Telesha]

This has to be the MOST PAINFUL episode I have seen.

[@shannonjackson814]

Lol

[@NiceGuySimmons]

Second that. I thought the one in October was. But Arlette better NEVER do this old stuff again or at least warn us. The women be HORRRIBLE nearly every episode. It shows how shallow women are and how much social media has destroyed the thinking

[@lava_wrld]

No fr 😂

[@busymike]

People say that about almost every episode with a lineup of women. At some point people have to admit American BW are the problem. It’s not about specific people picked for the show, or their ages, or whatever excuse. It’s just how BW are. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@tbad83]

Facts.

[@briaunahinds6092]

I like big dudes. I dont feel like they get enough love. Im rooting for the 3rd guy! I hope he finds someone just as bubbly and full of life as he is 🥰💯

[@whoooswag]

As a big dude, we do get plenty of love. These women were just too picky.

[@5thElement0560]

That's WHY I hate when women lie about big dudes getting lots of girls. Very few girls give big dudes a chance. Don't lie and say YOU FEEL LIKE BIG DUDES ARE OUT HERE, the percentage is low. The two main goals for guys is to make money, then get fit. There's a reason for that. Personality, facial, it all goes out the window, I've seen it. Money amd fitness, or she lying. 🤥

[@5thElement0560]

​@@whoooswagMaybe you do, on avg big men get shit on. Plenty of statistics that show big men aren't preferred. Good for you though, just don't live in your bubble. I'm not even big, I have big friends, and I see what they go through.

[@whoooswag]

@5thElement0560 yeah, im married now. But even still, women approach me. But I present myself well as well. So, that plays a part. My confidence, swag, smell, and I have hazel eyes. So, I guess I'm just blessed.

[@ericag6353]

Same!! I can’t believe they passed on him he’s my type of guy. The IG they posted for him don’t exist otherwise i woulda went and found him 😩🤷🏾‍♀️

[@miss_vicxo]

Awhh! Billy was on the new season of Queer Eye! He's soo sweet!

[@overlex]

100% The 3rd guy faced DEATH during his service for him to be so positive and joyous!

[@TTK007-n3r]

Sadly some of the most positive people have experience life onna different level

[@baileypadgett8953]

he was too sweet for these women, i truly do think him and the 4th girl would’ve been cute but he knows what he wants

[@TheAgentofLuv]

It’s obviously he has a type the beautiful chocolate sister that matched with everything he liked he was not physically attracted to her. So it was on him. The ladies he liked thought he was too big and the one who like him he didn’t like! lol! Sounds like dating 101 today

[@clivia6880]

Something was off about the third guy. I can’t put my finger on it

[@gracelong3975]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯