Ep 19: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[@nydiraadams9343]

The “traveling dancer” is soooooo INSECURE. She instantly pops somebody’s balloon when she thinks they’re not gonna pick her. It’s so obvious she doesn’t think she’ll get picked.

[@vivianclarke246]

I agree, she was beautiful and seems kind but way too insecure. Maybe she experiences a lot of rejection because of her tattoos and profession because that’s what she seems to be insecure about.

[@CoreyTillman-xd9dh]

Yeah she needs therapy respectfully.

[@pravell-3556]

you spoke this shit right out my mouth😂 nah fr

[@stanleynyirenda101]

​@vivianclarke246 exactly my line of thinking. Think a lot of people in her life haven't been accepting of her because of her career and life choices.

[@tima.478]

Which begs the question..."Why are you even here???"

[@Teleolaa]

Popping before bro comes in frame is devious 😭

[@kosh169]

😂😂😂

[@TheeMrsChampion]

He’s trolling ahh was on Kendra doing the same mess 😂. He needs to find something better to do

[@DavidMorris90]

⚰️

[@vincentdlamini2959]

Fr!!😂😂😂

[@Myrimartygee]

I literally burst out laughing at that!!!!😂😂😂

[@punk.rock.hippie]

The PROJECTION is crazy! “So I dated a guy who did real estate and it didn’t go well” GIRL! WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH THIS MAN?! That’s why they’re single.

[@sleepyeyez01]

She's very insecure

[@MosheXX]

Because her job is her identity so she imposes that on people

[@ZTForever]

Every time she popped and spoke I couldn’t help thinking this. She’s very insecure and that’s so unfortunate, last dude was spot on with his response to her. She needs therapy and I hope she grows from that

[@Powermoves1080]

Why was she even there 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@96reggieable]

I was like boy…her exes did a number on her🤣🤣🤣

[@shaunaS322]

Homegirl in the white be her own worst enemy Shes adorable, shes gorgeous, FIND THAT SELF LOVE GIRL!!!

[@alexandriaobong6753]

When the second dude walked out I thought it was a Key & Peel skit for a second 😂😂😂😂😂

[@k.skyytherapper9866]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@C_In_Outlaw3817]

😂😂😂 I’m watching it rn and I’m dying. Crying laughing

[@Ashley_Brown85]

Dude have his own dating show with flags😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

[@maritawanazw]

😂I love him though!🎉🎉🎉

[@guhio34]

I was like Arlette doing comedy now😂

[@mandip2254]

Pointer has GOT to be an actor!!! He’s PRANKING!!! I’m not accepting any other excuses for him showing up like that!

[@shinewithoutapology]

Gotta be 😂😂😂

[@Ambientdreamgirl]

Exactly😂😂😂

[@dobia4486]

That man was scaring me

[@maryjaneedwards]

I swearr

[@marquesbowden0130]

You know...I gotta give it to him. He's a good sport and he's authentic.

[@taeynv_]

"she's a baddie she knows she's a 10, she's a baddie with her baddie friends" "She's thicker then a snicker" "It identifies as a part of me" "Lowkey still key but low" I LOVE THIS MAN 😂

[@PrecYsely]

He needs his own show 😂

[@malfoys938]

FR I nearly died when he said that comment about his toupee 😂 purple dress girl was the only one who noticed

[@crystalburton1559]

Lol😂

[@AHk7.]

I love him too

[@skye6066]

😂😂😂

[@idontgetpaidenoughforthis]

I CACKLED when he said he acts out scenarios in his head when he driving 😭🤣😭😭

[@oliviagilmore8125]

he spends a lot of time alone 😭😭

[@moefoe379]

Lol 😂

[@amazing4d889]

I got bros meaning when u spend a lot of time in the car it gets so weirddd😂😂😂😂

[@kaykayree1]

Uggggh but he’s such a wet sock. Like bro, have more ambition and energy. He’s sooooo chilllllll

[@joyli2632]

The lack of variety & ambition reminds me of my first bf 😩​@@kaykayree1

[@shayla8618]

These men on this episode were very self-aware, emotional intelligent and wanted to hear accountability from their future suitors!

[@kamariaspeaks]

yesssssssssss!!!!

[@aliannyjavier-kv5tu]

Literally I don’t understand why the girl in purple kept popping over the questions like

[@meitzasaintsurin1842]

@@aliannyjavier-kv5tubecause she was bad and doesn’t wanna embarrass herself

[@bkbk-rn6ny]

Some of the women were too insecure and couldn’t handle any sort of rejection.

[@monicamartey]

Yes I noticed that too. Everyone except pointer

[@indiabrowne7549]

“Is it a hair piece ?” “It identifies as a part of me .” And that is what took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@maybaby198806]

Females say the same all the time…. so the fact they all saw it as a costume is hilarious 😂

[@twinklestar620]

He was amazing 😂

[@vswayz490]

That was some sarcastic comedy...reverse physiology lol.

[@Kaydee45]

lmfaooo

[@prettysauteed7504]

Lol

[@nomsa9779]

Having your ballon unpopped, then when he pops it, you say he is not your type is diabolical.

[@samuelturner1092]

Crazy work 😂😂

[@luckymunwana6067]

Typical women 😂

[@alexchui3511]

They hate being rejected.

[@rooseveltcooper]

😂😂😂

[@GODDESSDelani]

How? Yall always say choose better. Now when she's trying to date outside her norm its a problem?

[@iriskeniafernandez5647]

I watch these at night to just watch and gently fall asleep, but POINTER made me laugh so hard I woke my kids up. I’m crying!! If he is being authentic, nothing wrong with that!

[@AM-ub1lb]

"Why was that a popping question?" Arlette is not letting these women get away easily! You go, girl! 🤣😆

[@iMAJESTiC_]

😂 no accountability he dodged some bullets

[@Xgil2Play]

Her tone asking it had me rolling. 😂 Arlette doesn't play

[@mareble412]

@@iMAJESTiC_ this is why I dislike this question. Men are looking for fault right off the bat.

[@marquis2975]

@@mareble412 why is asking if your single automatically linked with fault if anything yall just guilty

[@victorlewis7635]

@@mareble412even arlette thought it was a reasonable question, she’s not upset at it so why are y’all?

[@sueharvey3933]

73 year old white grandma here who discovered your channel by accident and now I’m addicted!

[@AK__27]

Same here lol ❤

[@Englishroserebecca]

Me too 😂 boy things have changed since I dated a boy. We used to call it courting. 😂

[@johmsauce1878]

😂 god bless ya 🙏🏽

[@ARK2022]

What do you think about todays people's dating check list? 😂😂

[@eyobworku2042]

​@AK__27 you're not a 73 year old grandma 😭

[@QueenAshylee]

The darker skinned black girl in white was STUNNING.

[@tomtomtombossa]

And a stallion

[@billjohnson113]

​@@tomtomtombossaA stallion who i'd love to have

[@Rain_dear]

She has this angelical look to her! So pretty!

[@BrinaAquafina]

Absolutely stunning

[@naturalebbie12]

Gorgeous

[@hanadahmedvlogs3508]

Damn! That first who got a match not only she was gorgeous but also understanding ❤ lucky guy

[@HiHello-wz6bx]

Straight up "W" Got probably the baddest one. Total package.

[@peepleschamp3]

@@HiHello-wz6bx😮😮😮😮😮😮😅😅

[@RiverwoodSecurity]

He got a diamond in the rough.

[@kennielomutopa6677]

Arlette ain’t playing with y’all anymore, she said you can only ask a question if you’re getting your balloon back 🤣🤣🤣 glad they matched!

[@vivianclarke246]

Exactly, she was going to miss out on a good match.

[@Jeyani15]

They look cute together too

[@iriemo721]

I like them. I see potential. I look forward to that followup. Understanding and grace from both parties, and hearing to understand ones heart rather than to respond will be important for them. .

[@SarcasticaleeXP]

And how she told on the purple dress girl.

[@adams8830]

Good. I'm tired of people popping their balloon then asking 100 questions after.

[@a_83567]

The woman in the white dress needs a confidence boost. She keeps popping and saying it’s because she thinks they won’t like her and counting herself out instead of popping because SHE’S not interested.

[@davalyeemcgee9128]

I said the exact same thing-I literally SHOUTED at the screen, “GIRL, STOP COUNTING YOURSELF OUT, YOU’RE STUNNING!!!

[@serenamarie3936]

She’s literally one of the prettiest there. She looked kind of sad after the 3rd man didn’t like her occupation because he was definitely interested in her before that.

[@dalilrafi]

I will never understand why a girl pretty and calm girl like her will choose such a career path. That eliminates her from all the men with self-respect.

[@Mr.Oct___]

She's embarrassed of her job & how unconventional she is...Seems like she feels judged as well. (which makes sense)

[@lou8853]

She’s not delusional though she knows men don’t want to wife up sex workers. Shes way more grounded than most women.

[@Omilabu_]

I just want to say I truly appreciate how well Arlette dresses. She has class and it is absolutely refreshing in this day and age

[@PostControlla]

Absolutely refreshing! Just shows you don't have to walk half naked to look beautiful. I know I speak for a lot of men when I say it's actually more attractive when a lady dresses classy like she does.

[@Peacefullytimah]

I feel like some women that come on here should get tips from how she dresses. Cause some are a bit much

[@esskaykelly]

Agree 💯 ❤😊

[@dukeagainsttheodds3170]

I love me some Arlette, she is all of that & then some 🤗.

[@itzyb1593]

Straight FACTS!!!

[@JasonTangClothing]

Her : Is that a hair piece ? Him : It identifies as a part of me. 😂😅

[@akspov]

I can’t believe Arlette allowed that second guy to get on here with his gimmick! He was playing in everyone’s face 😂

[@liyah7901]

When he said he switches up his hair like we do every 2 days I HOLLERED!! 😂😂😂

[@marquesfuqua9967]

But it's true women be wearing that mess & thinking they beautiful in reality they look like zombies the double standard is real.

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

Definitely playing in everybody’s face!! 🗣️🗣️😂😂😂😂😂

[@seanou2837]

all women are wearing hair pieces but he can't?

[@dral22]

I can tell the girl in the white dress is dealing with depression. I pray that she finds light and peace so she can heal. God bless her.

[@Ralph_Kreutzberger-Blumenfeld]

Shouldn't be trying to find love while depressed....

[@x1_nos]

Yes she looks lost 😢

[@StarrySoakedSkiess]

She needs to quit stripping...it isn't good for depression nor her soul.

[@AbubakarBalogun-og3sc]

Honestly I feel like she has a low self esteem

[@meloran2571]

she could go get a regular job

[@WhoaNowbrother]

Even Arlette was getting tired of their stupid excuses 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsSuitzHospitality]

You seen that! Arlette is a class act.

[@WhoaNowbrother]

@@MsSuitzHospitality yes 🤣🤣🤣🤣… she was definitely done with ole girl with the white dress

[@SarcasticaleeXP]

@@WhoaNowbrother She was over the purple dress too 58:40 lol.

[@loveyonnns]

the last couple videos she's been looking like that 😂

[@WhoaNowbrother]

@@SarcasticaleeXP yo I peeped that 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@N1Nover]

That “why are you single” question was GENIUS. He filtered out the ones who couldn’t take accountability and walked out with the most mature women in that room 🔥

[@gavinrhughes4712]

Yea. Even Arlette was like “Why is that popping question?”

[@lkink45]

Yo you gotta see the update, 😂.

[@Katch.22]

ur a simp 😂 she was definitely not the most mature

[@cattyhatty7574]

Naw Buddy in deep wit this one 😅 52:43

[@zOYAlove215]

Why I started watching this at work and my coworker immediately knew what I was watching from the theme music...now we watching on the monitor together lmaoooo

[@blackhands301]

Team unproductive at work lol

[@EvaElyse]

lmaoooo teamwork

[@zOYAlove215]

@@blackhands301 🤫 we on break 😉 😭💀

[@Mscavalli2]

@@zOYAlove215 , I was just going to say to make sure you don't lose that job! enjoy!

[@beastzeus]

I know yall cracking up watching pointer at work, probably got the whole office in there now

[@luigirackin]

“She a baddie with her baddie friends” Bro is so animated I love bro

[@smellmybush]

That was actually funny

[@Lfcmaslah]

Ngl that guy was a vibe

[@bijoulareine]

😂😂😂😂

[@MarvelousJP]

He had me dying the first few minutes bruh is hilarious 😂

[@Lfcmaslah]

@@MarvelousJP fr😂😂

[@lettabugable]

Omggg someone please hug that baby. The exotic dancer girl. I hope she grows to love herself more 🥺💗

[@ericwilson3211]

That's probably why she's dancing lol

[@quel3966]

I felt so bad for her, she seems to be really sweet but her self stem is so low. I hope she can change her life around or find someone that will love her with that profession without trying to change her.

[@user-eu6wp6ws7c]

Men ain't looking for that

[@youngrios]

I had a lowkey plot twist ..maybe she joined the show to get more exposure 💀💀💀💀 like why ru here if ur so insecure unless u just wanna boost ur followers etc

[@AntonioSimmons-mc2md]

I want her with erything in my soul

[@cameronjohnson7382]

Young black queen in the white . You were counting yourself out in a lot of these conversations. You are beautiful. Hesitancy and self doubt can block your blessings . Hope you can move forward knowing your worth

[@1of1NEE]

the second guy got me weak asffff 😭 talking about lowkey “still key but low” LMFAOOOOOOOO😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@kristamonae]

😂

[@RustyWerben]

B as in Bay-B LOL

[@meelahmanifestslove]

😂😂 I adored him he would keep me laughing has got to be a comedian

[@BobbyJohnson-z9d]

I swear 😂😂 I’m fuckin dead 💀 😂

[@autumnsky3032]

😂😂😂😂 Right!!

[@timwilliams2554]

Shout-out to my neighbor (the first guy). I've only known him for about a year. I'm proud that he had the courage to put himself out there. From what I observed, he's very bashful; however, he does have alot going for himself (own business, new homeowner) and desires to be married with children. Once he learns how to step outside of himself, he'll be fine. Great guy and I wish him well.

[@StrongnBeautiful]

😊 Awesome!

[@Misstonyah]

He was a class act.

[@EverythingSolves]

How nice of you😇

[@doeboyreese1]

Shout out to my fellow trucker

[@ChrissyGotTheCoils]

This was nice to share. I hope he finds his wife.

[@TLewis-jp7qz]

Greatest guests of all time: 1. It’s still key, but low 2. James gourmet pies

[@mamak4585]

😂😂😂

[@lynetteforte1996]

3.) Queen you not even qualified

[@bbbggg7392]

😂😂😂😂 aye s/o to my man James with James gourmet pies!

[@12savage68]

​@@lynetteforte1996😂😂😂

[@Lexx1192]

4) I’m from the ghetto 😂

[@katedemenok]

I really like the woman in a leopard dress. She seems genuine, beautiful and honest

[@darrenjones5533]

Stunned that she didn't get a match. Grown woman.

[@sixtythree246]

Don't know why people didn't like her. Pretty face, nice body, good answers, works in finance, wanted a family, she ticked all the boxes. Maybe it was her voice

[@agreatmannamedlieu]

And has one of the few actually useful business degrees. Sexy

[@datriontucker6474]

Constant response: “I was just trying to hear what he said but I wasn’t really attracted”. These are the women that don’t like rejection.

[@shadesofkayb4886]

‼️‼️‼️

[@paultcalinew19]

Literally

[@roseelachinitaa1563]

But if they pop right away they get shamed for only going off looks. There's no pleasing yall 😂

[@ShayLamere]

Agreed!!

[@brandenrobinson4881]

@@roseelachinitaa1563 that’s besides the point. Why wasn’t she paying attention ? She’s on a game show to find someone , the least she could do is atleast hear out what they said

[@doitTD]

The tall black queen in white has such a positive aura

[@Self-improving72]

Don't be fooled,by outer appearances surface level... you'd be surprised who some women truly are behind close doors, when you truly get to know them out of the public 👁️ eyes...

[@boneslikeurs]

​@Theabsolute94 man what 😭😭

[@Self-improving72]

@@boneslikeurs I'm serious..Yes looks alone are not enough coming from A handsome, Intelligent, wise Men..

[@masonvibez]

That tommy out there there tho she needs some milk 😂

[@ladygwenmediaproduction4170]

I totally agree

[@RareJewelMo]

Deja: “Is that a hairpiece?” Pointer: “It IDENTIFIES as a part of me.” Lol 😂🤣☠️ He was the highlight of this episode for me.

[@prettiilexii672]

He's so funny😂

[@tianashorter1383]

Hilarious 😂

[@polonrepy2599]

The highlight of clout chasing thats for sure !

[@sirenz2k663]

@@RareJewelMo 😅😂º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎🤣🤣

[@Bee-lieve623]

He seemed like a sweet guy

[@tatianabenjamin8086]

The self sabotaged from the traveling dancer was so hard to watch. She's so beautiful, but baby girl needs to go heal.

[@briannaparham7910]

Did you see the reunion? It was worse.

[@tatianabenjamin8086]

@@briannaparham7910yes girl 😩

[@BrownSugarBaby1992]

I get ran through! She needs to love herself! That’s what happens in that fast life.

[@tashimaburris596]

​@@briannaparham7910 where can I find it

[@Esther.ofisyel]

Is the reunion on this channel? 😢​@@briannaparham7910

[@ToonGodTV]

The fact that this is the only pop the balloon show that doesn’t NEED to be freaky at times to still be unique and relevant is amazing please continue to bless us with these!

[@allforone9531]

Exactly, the other ones are straight up ghetto 😂

[@FuturesDoubleCup]

thats because it be alot of grown adults on these shows and the ppl that be young always tend to stand out or have the viral moments on here

[@joshava8082]

Ladies don’t be quick to write off a truck driver. The first two years he has to take any route because insurance won’t take too much of a risk on a new driver. But, once he proves he can stay accident free and incident free, many local opportunities open up as the insurance will now accept him. Many of my trucker friends including myself own our own homes and are home everyday by 6pm. Also, We don’t come home with stress because we don’t work in a toxic office or workplace. We just get our paperwork, crank up the music, cruise and get our routes done 💪🏽🤠

[@SafariDushime]

I love this🙌🏾

[@eveningowl9443]

i agree, my dad has been doing to the same etc thats why i get like wtf when the ladies pop a ballon ​@@SafariDushime

[@QueensPalate]

@@joshava8082 I have a family full of truck drivers and they’re well off. You have to suffer alil and then you’re good. Same thing with me and the restaurant industry. I’m just convinced people don’t really know much about certain fields so they just assume instead of asking questions like “what does that field look like for you”. You can be OTR, local, Regional. They’re not all doing the same thing. Like any other field 🤷🏾‍♀️🫶🏽

[@youngjah2010]

The Aquarius ♒️ in me will definitely be keeping my 🎈 for Poindexter! 😂

[@gymboy2119]

Facts!!! 💯 I’m a local truck driver. Start at 6am usually done after 2. Back home before 4, off weekends 💪🏽

[@quenettabrooks2250]

Arlette's fashion is always on point. She is an exceptional host who skillfully keeps the show on track, even when things start to go off course. She does it all with ease and grace, keeping me engaged.

[@takurakajengo7184]

Does she have a dress or color that doesn't fit?! No!

[@zesuper]

I know right? I want to go thru her closet

[@thomastaylor1217]

She brings a lil drama/ratchet with the pressure questions, I LOVE it

[@tomtomtombossa]

She’s just too good

[@summerbaby88]

Her facial expressions are the best 😂

[@Selenadeetigris21]

I loooovee that second dude! Love me someone with a sense of humor and goofiness to his character! That’ll keep me laughing all day! 🤣😂😂

[@charlesdonawayiii3396]

"Traveling exotic dancer"....that's a professional way to say a stripper that gets flown out 😭😭😂💀

[@y_e_i8213]

She gets FLEWED OUT!! 😆😆

[@charlesdonawayiii3396]

@@y_e_i8213 Shi so crazy 💀

[@hipking23]

😂😂 Facts

[@jericaloving1288]

No they actually travel..sometimes they might headline a club as a guest (or just club hop).

[@OutsideTheRopes]

So basically she’s a potential trafficking case for a simp.

[@SNR_lx]

“I was asking to see if there was any accountability or self evaluation that you were willing to present” YEAHHHHHH 🔥🔥🔥🔥 asking the right questions

[@Diamond-b8t]

he really got her with that answer

[@iriemo721]

😂 easily excited. There was nothing 🔥 about his red pill question

[@thetumbleweedtraveler]

This is what I came for

[@iriemo721]

Modern blk men jizz whenever they hear the word accountability, all while being the race who most abandon their kids, most likely to underachieve and blame someone else for that (ie:being raised by black mothers, “the man”, racism, “don’t nobody wanna give a felon a chance these days”, etc etc.) One would think the group of people most obsessed with the word accountability would be progressing in life, because true accountability leads to growth and change. 🤔

[@krystynaa_]

Exactly!!!?

[@dianaacedo2148]

I love how Arlette always gets so excited when there’s a match. Love her

[@kilo3975]

We got a maaaaatchh 💃🏾

[@kathleenmoore9534]

​@@kilo3975❤Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.

[@Brijsian]

🫡

[@jessicad2282]

Arlette purple is so your color !!! You look stunning ❤

[@ariamason9324]

The first guy was so shy and sweet. He needs to get his conversation and confidence up. That lady is super cute.😍

[@sohype6827]

He got the best one too in my opinion 😂

[@nkilisudah8269]

I was thinking same thing

[@nkilisudah8269]

Guy 2 Pay top much!!!!🎉

[@latoyameighan2619]

Thought the same...

[@BreyaChristine]

Yea he seems nice just a little shy 😂

[@oking3952]

At the end of the day, this has to been one of the most successful if not the most successful "Pop the Balloon" with Arlette. Most participants knew exactly what they wanted. It was truly awesome.

[@namiebimba8542]

Yes!!! 🙌🏽 I thought so too! Best one yet and loved that people were getting matched!!! Hope it works out for them after the show

[@laquellemcfashion2391]

Yes I love it! ❤️❤️

[@lifewithshanicebelize]

Because everyone was in their 30’s !! It’s the golden era!

[@bigmoney7332]

​@@lifewithshanicebelize no one will tell you 😂😂😂 U have to tell Ur self

[@mayiopine]

@oking3952 I completely agree 👍🏻💯

[@VictorOwolabi_]

“Why are you single?” Is one of the most valid questions ever. The ones who popped made it easier.

[@AlmightyDerrickRose]

I don’t understand how they don’t see how of an important question that is

[@jericaloving1288]

@AlmightyDerrickRose it's actually not. 'What is your toxic trait' is the most valid. Why are you single is so subjective and basic....because I wanna be or haven't met the right person are the ultimate answers regardless of any further explanation.

[@FrenchyBelgian]

Why are you still single is another way to ask what's wrong with you? Especially if you just met a person or aren't close. Unless you had the chance to get to know the person a little more and they choose to open up and share why they think they're still single, this question is inappropriate imo.

[@claudeclaude9991]

Most of them are street girls.

[@AlmightyDerrickRose]

@@jericaloving1288 we not in high school tf is a toxic trait. Sounds childish

[@Gardeniaguev]

Please dont ever stop posting this is my lunch series 😂

[@James-t3p5e]

Dude in the green polo shirt came well prepared. He was very articulate and asked thorough questions.

[@Jazzmine-cv2uw]

And handsome!

[@WeInDaMaTrIxX]

The thicker light skin girl with the multi color dress was cappin the whole show. She can't take rejection at all lol

[@jeswazwadi7049]

yeah somali chick was fake " I just wanted to hear more" girl please she didn't expect to be rejected like that LOL

[@NadineNgocheu]

This is the comment i was looking for i thought i was the only one seeing that she definitely can't take rejection

[@bayek9869]

Facts I bought that 😂😂😂

[@RinetC]

​@jeswazwadi7049 yo I'm glad dude told Somalia that she looks older 😂 the whole show she kept roasting ppl about their hair and looks meanwhile she look like someone's nana

[@meneedmoney]

Ok she was looking right tho and had bawdy. A lot of ppl can’t take rejection well that’s no slight to her

[@moneygrowz]

The lady in the white dress needs a strong dose of confidence and self esteem. She popped because of what she thought someone else would think of her EVERY time.

[@BeAManPodkast]

That was her way of backing out. Trust me, this woman does not have self esteem issues at all.

[@kathleenmoore9534]

​@@BeAManPodkastJesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible.

[@BeAManPodkast]

@@kathleenmoore9534 Well tell him I said hello when you see him.

[@pearlpearl3806]

Yeah I think she was just giving made up excuses bc she didn't like the guy

[@Nestle245]

She's confident she just knows those guys wouldn't want a stripper and she's right.

[@musicoverllife2]

She’s a wonderful host. After seeing these videos all over, I had to find the channel and follow! Love these videos. Very entertaining for sure

[@akeemcampbell4257]

Nahhh the second guy just came on the show to troll😂😂😂

[@jeavoimorgan5430]

looool

[@Anna-o5u7h]

I choked on my damn burger😡

[@sereion]

Yes he was!!!😂😂😂

[@Zanaaa50]

Period.

[@bayek9869]

I went to his channel. He REALLY like that

[@ufomechanic11]

I feel like the first girl doesn’t realize how gentle and wholesome that truck driver’s dreams are. He might be too much of an old soul for her

[@chaichai012]

Yes I really liked him

[@passionderamus]

But later chose a trucker driver after all 😂

[@iriemo721]

Too many people want the wow me, intrigue me, tell me cocktail party facts about yourself. That’s not real life. All through the comments people are calling him boring and he didn’t have anything to say. Everybody doesn’t want to start a sustainable energy nonprofit and dance on their head naked. Some people just wanna have a lake house with their grandkids.

[@narutouchiha5464]

his passion is to own a lake house

[@daisysviews]

@@iriemo721 100%

[@Alkiel]

second dude was TROLLING HARD. Bro had SOCIAL EXPERIMENT written all over this performance

[@MrWarrenRB]

Yeah, he wasn't serious.

[@Alkiel]

@@MrWarrenRB actually I think he was dead serious about what he was trying to do. Brought up a lot of UNCOMFORTABLE THEMES and the women were not prepared to deal with them. But yea he wasn’t looking for no date

[@StraightFocusedPhotography]

Yeah, his social shows him in that character reel after reel. One big complaint from us men to women is “who are you really under all that” and bro was out there in character.

[@justs7605]

Definately a political statement against woman of today

[@kingfancy7317]

@@Alkielnope he was trolling them l. It was a test essentially

[@meeks_da_capricorn]

The second guy is my type. I love the goofy behavior and great sense of humor 😊

[@Elikixik]

I didn't know you could get rejected for being TOO FUNNY🤣🤣 you learn something new every day

[@summercoles8168]

Lol 😂 I would go on the date out of curiosity

[@dhenderson319]

Come on If you take the relationship for a joke ofc I’m going to leave you because you’re playing around too much That’s 100% a good reason

[@sigmasiren7]

*Too funny looking

[@yazzy_wazzy1]

Theres a difference between being goofy and looking goofy… respectfully

[@micahaelasamuels4272]

He disguised himself that's not genuine

[@vgreen1106]

"I can't make a decision." "Oh yes you can." Arlette is Queen!

[@semwen737]

The lady who chose to be matched with the truck driver was very intentional from the start. She kept it simple for the most part. Congratulation to her. She is a winner.

[@JuleneSings]

No she wasn’t honest with herself. She kept asking those last minute questions because she wanted to back out but was too uncomfortable to do it. What does God have to do with him owning a lake house???

[@tes-xj8uy]

she didn’t stay true to herself unfortunately but she tried

[@nope...........]

​@JuleneSings - Not necessarily. It seems she was trying to go below the surface to get him to elaborate on the purpose behind him wanting the lakehouse. Was it simply to generate revenue? To be a hot spot to live out his bachelor dreams? Just something to do with no reason? I think hearing him express that he wanted one for his future family (he's taking about his grandson and he doesn't even have kids!), let her know that his thought process was intentional, as was his desire to own a lakehouse.

[@Zanaaa50]

She looked normal and pretty too.

[@davidkezi6086]

she wanted a more in-depth or thought out answer and he failed to deliver one, idk but I feel their vibe is mismatched, fingers crossed for them tho

[@LwamiHlongwane]

It’s crazy how the funny dude was probably being himself more than anyone, but got rejected for “not being himself” 😂

[@Dmyster_92]

💀

[@prettikay9109]

Fr fr

[@hlengiweyourstruly]

Why did you keep your balloon unpopped? "I don't know, I just zoned out" 🙄🙄 She's a sore loser and she didn't have to come for the guys teeth. Glad he told her she looks older, it's true 😅

[@shadesofkayb4886]

💯‼️‼️‼️

[@adams8830]

She looks like someone's grandma. I'm surprised she's only 34.

[@issy785]

big facts

[@charlishajett7841]

😂😂 right she just doesn’t like rejection

[@istillluvchrisbrown]

Way too much makeup

[@olumidelonge]

Why are you single is a question that is so versatile. You pick how you want to answer it wisely and the world is yours.

[@angelinanotangie4172]

It’s a real good question. It’s only triggering if you know you’re the problem.

[@npsloopy6758]

Absolutely nothing wrong with that question.

[@elizabethkiya.9226]

He was asking the best questions the rest ask dumb things !!! Like “why are you single “

[@iriemo721]

You pick how you answer but there’s only one “right” answer.

[@olumidelonge]

@@iriemo721 which is?

[@Dr3ams2rea1ity]

Every time Miriam open her mouth she shows why she’s single 😭 she was mad af when he said she look older than 34💀

[@Talking_With_Gabrielle]

I feel like her and the other lighter skinned woman in the cheetah print dress was a bit arrogant in their facial expressions towards the other women & men and they kept getting shut down.

[@blag925]

Exactly! Lightskin with a big behind got humbled on this week’s show

[@jasminenicolec]

Her face when he said that was so funny 😂😂😂😂

[@empanada10]

She’s so salty

[@Deen_32145]

⁠@@Talking_With_GabrielleI disagree, Maryam was low key in the competition with the leopard lady while the was just being herself and doing her thing

[@JerseyJimmy-g2y]

Nahhh, the last guy was so mature man. Real G

[@oliviagilmore8125]

and handsome! glad he got a match

[@Loveyourselffirst4]

"You should let me love you, let me be the one to give you everything you want and need" Now i can't stop listening to this old classic. Anyone else? 😂💀

[@flirtco010]

Baby I went from blues to 90's -20's classic r&b jams 😂😂😂❤

[@kathleenmoore9534]

Jesus is coming back. . Please Get right with the Lord and read the Bible. ❤😊​@@flirtco010

[@deb1920]

"Based on your personality, what are some intangibles that you bring to the relationship?" This man figured out an elevated, less problematic way to ask what you bring to the table. 🤣 The intangible piece is what makes it elevated and a bit better. 💯

[@thechosenmalfoy1805]

He def chewed with that question 😭

[@shaynah_fitness]

Mhhh i was thinking the same thing 🎯 the word was a mind f**k for them

[@jasmineporch6032]

Def reworded it but still asked it 😂😂

[@BigCore-]

I caught that. I was like "My man!" 🤣

[@digthewarmth]

I prefer that to "What do you bring to the table?" too because some women want to answer that with career success and money. I like that he's showing he doesn't care about that and wants to focus on the woman's personality.

[@MegaApril2012]

Last guy was my fave. His outfit and how he articulated himself. Very thoughtful responses:)

[@ubongudomah]

Same here! I love the last guy. I wish he came out earlier

[@ericalashay0209]

Yes and I loved that he remembered what they said and popped their ballon because of words the women said. Not because he didn’t like a wig or dress lol

[@charkitahood2532]

I agree, he seemed to be the best of the bunch for sure. He had a lot of emotional intelligence, asked thoughtful questions and was well spoken. I’m glad he got a match

[@joannac8459]

@@ubongudomah I had the same thought. He should of have been one of the first ones.

[@TishikaMiller]

Mines too ! I would’ve definitely picked him 💯🙌🏾🤗

[@kathybrown2160]

A new comer to the channel, so far this is the best episode....Arlette saved the last guy and girl to match; asking the right question to rebuild the bridge for her to walk back, that was intuitive. Well done !!

[@themoisturehut]

Finally, a tall woman that didnt complain about a guys height. Refreshing to see.

[@makeupbywarner5546]

The classiest show like this out there. No other like it. The editing, the consistency and presentation.. the host deserves recognition and an even larger platform. She can handle it.

[@brittnireyes5434]

I agree 100%

[@ladybug3073]

Absolutely

[@DaFamilyReunion]

Her voice melts in my ears is crazy

[@SC2point0]

I wish I could bottle Arlette's intelligence, her classy vibe, her fun/friendly energy, and her warm personality. I think she's amazing.

[@RexBanner_]

0:50

[@ladybug3073]

💯

[@DaFamilyReunion]

Her voice is very creamy I love it I wish I had a nice talking voice I sound like DMX and I'ma woman a str8 woman 😢

[@artiium21]

@@DaFamilyReunion LOL I tried not to laugh

[@ceceliadiaz8989]

She is a good soul❤

[@truckerdavidjr]

Pointer is the guy that will put a smile on your face w/o you even knowing its there! Real cool guy! Definitely rooting for him to find the love of his life!

[@kiyanania]

Arlette little squeals when it’s a match is so cute lol you can tell she loves love, and the potential for it lol. 🥹

[@johnnguyen6469]

Kinda lost it there when you said Arlette squeals

[@Rinee-ty6ik]

I've said this before, and I will say this again. Arlette is for the Nation

[@thatboiithando7054]

She gets excited cuz she know she gon get that follow up video

[@Nestle245]

I think she does it for the show she knows ain't shit coming out of it.

[@realAfrican]

​@@Nestle245nah you can tell she's genuinely invested in the show and excited when there's matches

[@KNOXX707]

These women showed why they're single, without having to answer the question. The fact that someone is your type and you claim you're looking for love, but you would dismiss the opportunity to get to know them because they asked a question that maybe was misinterpreted or misunderstood, is wild. If you can't move past being rubbed the wrong way about a question, you are not built for marriage. Showed their hand way too easily.

[@Channnelname]

You cannot tell someone to choose better then get mad when they become choosey. If these grown “men” can’t communicate without being misinterpreted or rubbing people the wrong way then they are the problem. Clearly it’s a reason the men are on the show too! These women don’t owe them anything, the same way the men didn’t feel like they owed anyone anything when they popped their balloons. It works both way, misogynist.

[@CHOPSCLASSIFIED]

BEST COMMENT

[@jarellgreer7733]

Was looking for this comment. Perfectly stated​@@CHOPSCLASSIFIED

[@mikiminach-i2j]

yeah but thats the premise of the show. thats what the prompts are there for. in the real dating world you wouldnt walk around with a balloon and pop it when someone says something you dont like. its the shows format and what they are encouraged to do

[@taylorsanford-hg1it]

Best comment I have seen on pop the balloon 😂

[@AFran-yq6vh]

Zola is such a beautiful soul. I don't think she sees that in herself. I pray she gets the healing she needs so she can be blessed with the love she deserves.

[@j.riffney7939]

When Arlette does that little giggle or even her whole laugh makes me crack up everytime😂😂

[@jasmunaskew3523]

I must compliment this set of women in that they were able to express their reasons for disinterest WITHOUT being insulting to the men or making sly jokes about them trying to be funny. The age difference makes a difference; the groups in their 30s and 40s have been more mature in how they speak to each other on the show. I hope the next set or lineup of men are just as respectful as these ladies were and many men on here have been respectful. I just hope it remains consistent for all men and women. Great job Arlette!

[@shimdoobercrayons8197]

Thats not true, miriam (the muslim woman) would always pretend she wasnt interested in a dude when they popped her balloon… they know the rules of the game pop it if you’re uninterested and yet everytime she’d keep it there and get popped she would say idk why i kept it unpopped they arent my type

[@jasmunaskew3523]

@@shimdoobercrayons8197 I’m referencing the specific telling of jokes and insults others, both men and women, would say while they were explaining why they were not interested in the person. Just in the past two episodes there was a man and a woman making sly comments about why they popped and were trying to be funny when what they said wasn’t funny at all. I’m saying overall in general this group was respectful…you’re pointing out one single outlier which isn’t relevant to the specific behavior I gave as examples in my initial comment just to be contrary when 60 people liked my comment Lol. This is my observation so it’s true to me. So you should just say you disagree rather than “that’s not true.”😂

[@ericfigueroa8102]

I agree this was the best episode in which had a lot of matches😊

[@tejo7796]

"Why are you single?" is such a valid question imo. And his reason for asking is spot on. Accountability and self awareness are key.

[@TrevWILL79]

He narrowed that group REALLY FAST!!💨💨💨

[@ihthgn3853]

Would have loved to know why he himself is single 😅

[@tejo7796]

@@ihthgn3853 and that's valid too! Goes both ways.

[@shesojaded3625]

Even Arlette was annoyed when they popped on “why are you single” 😭 That was ridiculous!

[@kaheaisaac1]

😂

[@iamyakiira]

!!!!!

[@jaydawson2727]

Only 2 women can articulate why they single, they all got offended

[@phinnytatmon6823]

Exactly. They were triggered because they know they were the problem but just were too embarrassed to face the truth😂😂

[@dreadreya]

You can see which ladies know game and which ones do not. The ones who answered gave all kinds of ammunition for a man to use against them. Ladies never tell a man your whole life story as it pertains to your exes. They will use it against you or do the same thing your ex did. Plus any man talking about accountability is programmed by toxic podcasts even if he doesn’t realize it. Most women don’t have a problem with accountability. Men are just brainwashed into believing that.

[@ginicholas4322]

Accountability is so important for self growth. I'm glad the last three guys basically asked "Why are you single?" That's a very important question. The answer isn't nearly as important as to how it's answered. Completely avoiding, using the blame game; basically anything that is not about accountability is what this question answers. One can say "I've been completely terrible" or "scared to start a new relationship" or "focused on other priorities, like career or children" and all those would be somewhat valid. The point is does the person have the capacity for self-reflection and self-improvement. If they don't even have that then the relationship can only last so long. This goes for both men and women.

[@princenesantos6500]

The lady in white is ridiculous

[@Feelgoodvibesonly]

One thing this show has taught me is you never know who might be feeling you! Fellas shoot your shot!!

[@lamontjunior1907]

I've learned so much even as simple as we won't be everybody's cup of tea!

[@spalmer2849]

I really like the truck driver because he seem so simple and chill. I wish them the best

[@darrianamiyah]

Thank you so much, he is a true catch!❤️

[@melaniemarche9379]

​@darrianamiyah they should have you guys back so we can here how it went. You guys were one of my fave couples.

[@angalenetaylor1532]

​@@darrianamiyah, Oh wow. You are the beautiful woman that matched with him. That is awesome. Come back with an update. He was really nice. And so were you.

[@lataviamusic]

The last guy was my favourite!! Amazing questions, well spoken, well dressed. This was one of the best episodes!

[@Truelady_martha7]

I second u all them boty

[@Truelady_martha7]

I second you on both these comments i mean ignore my above comment typing error on the boty i meant to write both *

[@dannidell]

And he was FIONNEEEEEE

[@EvelynSeffa]

Agree with you!!

[@ChristineIdokogi]

He is husband material for sure

[@moodababy8946]

This was actually a good episode! And the matches all seem to fit with eachother!

[@DJTosReturns]

"You're 34...I didn't see that" is a crazy roast lmaooo

[@emmanuelwatuwa3703]

😂she looked older though

[@albrat1563]

He ain't lyin tho

[@mstrshalt]

Yeah she looked about 39

[@StrongnBeautiful]

A lot of the women looked older than their age to me.

[@Ky-xn8ud]

Time stamp

[@ajawest5793]

The last guy was attractive, asked great questions, listened, and knows what he is looking for! Great guy, honestly! And Im really glad he matched with the young lady he did match with. I feel like she was intentional with her questions and her answers the entire show. This was a Great Episode Cousin Arlette. See ya next week❤

[@osamafaith9335]

I like him too 😅❤❤

[@gretanilssen]

I love how excited Arlette gets when there is a match 🥹🥹😭

[@leilaBRL]

21:14 pointer came own to show all the women what the man’s perspective is. Women say - too short Pointer says - Taller the better Women say - no bald men / This is my real hair (lashes, wigs, extensions) Pointer says - this is my hair Women say - Not dressed well Pointer - HERES A SUIT Women say - I like to laugh, you seem to serious Pointer - here’s a reaaal funny guy for you, always putting on a show!

[@terrelbrown9904]

Is that a hair piece? “It identifies as a part of me” 😂😂😂😂

[@nigeriansista]

😂😂😂😂 I couldn’t with that part either

[@Teresa_Blue]

He was the same way on Kendra g like 2-3 weeks ago😂

[@mimis.201]

🤣

[@avenger_fan_girl9892]

Wooo, I have not laughed that hard in a good long while. He was the pick for me. The ladies lost this time. I’d have to leave with him. He’d hear my, “you make me feel secure about my insecurities” laugh on the first date. He’s my twin, for sure! Love his energy. Lord, you know this is what I’m wanting. Direct his steps.

[@Teresa_Blue]

@@avenger_fan_girl9892 Search “Kendra g pointer talk show host” and you can find out how to reach him. Good luck!👍🏾

[@doresrules28]

Man they paid that 2nd dude..no way that was real 😂 Buddy looked like a Anchorman movie reject

[@BeAManPodkast]

He was actually trying to make a point about the hypocrisy of these modern women. They popped because he looked like he was in costume but he pointed out how he was just doing what they do every single day.

[@thagrandpubah]

@@BeAManPodkastfax!

[@JK-vp5eb]

😂😂😂

[@AngelaStarr]

@@BeAManPodkastFACTS! 💯 👏🏽 If I can like your comment more than once, I would!

[@brandyfiorentino6989]

​@kendrickjg so he went on a dating show to make a point? Wrong audience 🫠 I get his point though

[@Anda_360]

The “ exotic dancer” lady seems to think that everyone can see through her dress and what she does, she is embarrassed and probably feels worthless 🥲 I wish I could give her a very tight and long hug 🫂 May God heal and comfort her🙏🏾

[@tf8187]

Same. I had a soft spot for her. She’s so much more than what she does for work.

[@radonspace2098]

She needs to be judged. She needs to leave that world for real.

[@mainstream2765]

🙏🏾

[@bryanzoom97]

She needs lazer tattoo removal and a new career

[@gioproductionsm]

She knew what she was doing on the show why even get on the show if she knew all that would be a problem

[@Nynytheovareader]

Ive seen these pop the balloons, 20 v 1's, based off bodies ect. I really love that this Channel has more mature established people in it. Thats cool af. Im subscribing. ❤

[@itsmebambi16]

Love when she does the 30+ crew. They are more serious about finding love. Love that everyone, aside from the new show host 🫠, found a match 🥳

[@dimmyinthecity]

The first guy was wonderful! I hope he finds a nice lady that will love the life he wants to provide. I teared uo when he was talking about having grandkids come over. Good luck to him.

[@indiva702]

He definitely has a very sweet old soul.

[@08girlwonder08]

I felt the same! Genuine, beautiful spirit - Man of few words, old soul like he’s been here before 🫶🏾 kudos to whomever raised that young man

[@ToriUptown]

yea he’s a winner for sure. he just needs to find some hobbies lol

[@omphiledirero5622]

I liked him too😂

[@reirei9446]

​@@ToriUptownhis hobbies is gaming and trucking

[@AminaAli-c9g]

The second dude got the perfect energy for a Scooby-Doo film

[@goodhopemola1044]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

😂😂

[@summerbaby88]

😂😂

[@talicialee]

😂😂😂

[@TheLadyj8402]

😂😂😂

[@Icannotlose]

Every couple was actually good together.

[@kennielomutopa6677]

When the second guy started singing 😭😭😂😂 Arlette’s face 💀 he’s funny tho I like him

[@conceited2.0]

Dude is a literal character 😂

[@mofenyimalatsi5654]

We he said "it's my hair though" 🤣

[@esskaykelly]

Yes 😂 I was kinda secretly hoping he would get a date 😂

[@erickanew]

He's pretty popular on KZbin

[@SlimeNews]

As much as a character he is, he is actually real. Check out the leg tat girls face when he says " my baddies have wigs and weave too".

[@Cup1dswrld]

Bro white dress could’ve matched with 5 people she’s so gorgeous but where is her confidence at like WHATTTT every time they complimented her she be a acting so shocked for no reason like girl look at uuuuuuuu

[@lawrencehull9859]

Smh she is for the concrete

[@JoiDior]

An exotic dancer with no confidence is wild to me.

[@iMsOiNsO]

I think she’s afraid if rejection but also doesn’t want a good guy to have to deal with dealing with a woman in her work of business. She is insecure probably because how the world and men have stated they don’t really like women like her. Especially with the face tattoo I can see how she’s insecure but it’s sad cuz a lot of the men were willing to try with ger

[@calebwright9974]

@@JoiDiorit’s different types of confidence. Easy to be confident for men who don’t actually care about you and just how your body looks. Harder when actually trying to find someone to date.

[@SidewaysInTraffic]

@@JoiDior Confident to get money or materialistic things, but not confident that someone will love her. I know a few street walkers.

[@brandenrobinson4881]

Red Flag Fellas🚩 : if a woman has an issue with you questioning her about anything that pertains to her past , simply go around her, she not the one .

[@shawnyoung2963]

Exactly when last guy asked the same thing an nun popped 😂🤦‍♂️

[@bry_almighty]

The problem was in their interpretation. Its a rough time out here when asking a question gets that kind of reaction lol

[@shawnyoung2963]

@@bry_almighty I thought the exact same thing she was automatically the problem in her past relationship she just didn't wanna say something an the whole world look at her crazy but to be honest the quietest expression is spoken the loudest

[@adams8830]

Yeah that's a definite red flag for a woman to have.

[@kenneyp.9456]

@@brandenrobinson4881 definitely a 🚩

[@doug.o]

I'm hooked on these videos 🤣