dating apps, broke men, ozempic, right person wrong time?? | chit chat grwm | arnell armon

[@arnellarmon]

Hiii babesss

[@laqueencreole2913]

heyyy gurl!!!

[@chantrellsmith1986]

Heyyy

[@siweziii]

Hey boo♥️

[@marmalade_girl896]

Hey babes😊

[@WinifredJ]

Hi mama Noah

[@JemsAndDiamonds]

Dating a broke man truly is dangerous because THEY HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. We gotta be careful out here.

[@BEAUTIINBRAVERY]

I agree! Dating a man that is broke is dangerous🤣😂 THEY WILL MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY for not being in their shoes.💯💯💯

[@raeganraquel]

Video quality looks amazing!

[@arnellarmon]

Thank you!!! I switched lenses!

[@Briashammmm]

@@arnellarmonwhat lens is this? 👀 it’s SO good!

[@AmarachiMUA]

@@arnellarmon girrllll! Here I thought you were using a green screen!!!? please share the camera and lens deets!

[@angelfgo]

Dating the wrong partner can bankrupt you mentally, physically, emotionally and fiscally!

[@Watchingvids01]

Truly a waste of life

[@daizypetals]

Asking women about having kids is so insensitive. My daughter is 10 months old and ppl ask when I’m going to have another one. First, you don’t know my journey with trying to conceive or with my labor and delivery. I could’ve had multiple miscarriages or almost died giving birth. Second, my uterus is simply none of your business. Unless I bring it up first, do NOT ask me. Can’t believe ppl think those are appropriate questions to ask 🙄

[@mz_marmar89]

It’s extremely insensitive, as a 34 yo woman having complications conceiving most people can’t imagine how many times a day I am hurt by questions from strangers about if I have kids, if I want kids, why I waited so late as well as questions to other women around you. Hearing a woman say that they would never want to have kids in their 30’s and just projecting their opinions onto why others live their lives in the way they are is a constant battle daily. Simply put people need to stop being so nosey. Life is not a one size fits all.

[@mayaelesse]

20:21 honestly speaking i feel like it’s completely fair for a man or a woman with a kid to not want to date someone who has a child too! there’s so much involved with dating a person with a child and it can be overwhelming at times!! you are definitely not wrong

[@SakenaRedmond]

As someone with a kid I agree with this bc I’ve dated someone with a kid before and I realized it wasn’t for me and tho I wouldn’t close off the idea, I woukdnt wanna do it again

[@idontwantacupcake241]

Soo the person that they’re dating should have to deal with that but they shouldn’t? Doesn’t really make sense..

[@lavonnepruitt3905]

You’re an inspiration to all of us women! Self care, talking to a therapist, eating healthier, treating yourself better and putting yourself first.

[@nijasimone]

“Dating a man that’s broke…it’s dangerous!” lol omg nah fr!!

[@Bkeith]

❤❤❤❤

[@Sarah_slays92]

Loved this. I don't think we need a more in depth grwm. It holds our attention to watch the screen while you get ready but you know we just came to listen girl. No need to add extra work in filming. You gave us what we came for 😂

[@siweziii]

Noah's Mama🥺♥️

[@n1kaylaap]

The quality of this video and your makeup is *chefs kiss* 😮‍💨😮‍💨😍

[@Missy_fatou]

No FR 🤌🏼😍

[@almondiefrancis9451]

I always found it interesting when people with children say they wouldn't date someone else with children and it's usually for the same reason someone like me without children, wouldn't date a person with children lol.

[@edwardlovrr]

I’m childless and I wouldn’t mind a partner with a child if it’s over a certain age 😂😂😂 it depends but I completely understand why someone childless would set the same standards 😊😊

[@melloxox1]

Pouring into yourself is golden ⭐️

[@Emilybear24]

The realness in this video! Keep these girl chats coming please 🥰🥰

[@Gee_J]

Some people are only meant to be in your life for a season!

[@felishahill2017]

Love you Arnelll!! We need a video about men and realationships and dating 👏🏾😂

[@JessBSecret]

When you said you was going to do your make up at the beginning I’m like isn’t it already done… skin goals ❤❤❤❤

[@chi2om]

my favorite content. i can listen to you yap anything for hours. love the deep talks. i'm 25 and had my first kiss last year lol. i want a relationship but not the marriage and kids thing. it's hard out here when you don't like men too much lol

[@bethany08able]

DON’T marry a man with kids if you don’t have any! My husband has a 12 year old daughter and his BM pretended to be over him until the SECOND we got married. He never told me how obsessed she was bc he didn’t want to scare me away. It’s ruining the marriage… and nothing I did could’ve prevented this or prepared me. I’m one person having to consider the feelings of TWO people and the bm has made her baby feel as if she’s in trouble if she has a good day with me, so she just forces a bad one. Her mommy rewards her for causing problems over here. It’s an impossible situation fr….

[@BethIsHer]

Omg this is completely horrendous and it’s unfair your husband didn’t give you the choice to decide whether or not this is something you want to take on. are you guys in marriage counseling. This is so unhealthy for you and the 12 yr old

[@inspiremebyfaith]

If you are a christian, I recommend that you go to God, because you made that covenant with him before God? Anybody coming against that has to answer to God

[@almondiefrancis9451]

This is why I stay far away from dating someone with children. I've done it once and it caused SO SO much stress in my life. I never want to feel that way again. He lied about the number of children he had. It went from 1 to 6. You couldn't pay me to date a man with a child 🙅‍♀️

[@jazzytheecreator]

7:57 i think about this a lot. when im having a bad day at work im like wow some of yal are going home to raise kids after this? s/o to all the parents fr ❤

[@Naiki29]

Dating men that’s broke, no car, kids, a mama’s boy, who doesn’t love Jesus is dangerous. I can go on and on. 😂😭

[@chinaleranda]

Omg yes especially if they don’t know Jesus!! They will drag you straight to hell lol

[@ambermai838]

Chileee , yeeen never lied 😂

[@LayingInAMeadow]

I'm over hook up culture too

[@cjw93]

The friends one. I don’t do large friend groups. Nope. Learned the hard way.

[@determineddiva5402]

You were speaking facts when it comes to broke men. Like you, I’ll never date another one because they do be angry and aggressive.

[@lovelifeforu]

A tree that a dog just peed on is so hilarious but also accurate 😂😂😂

[@raphaellouisjoseph2930]

Loving the visuals/quality in this video 😊 Looks soft and inviting 🥰

[@dlc09uva]

loved this video! will be tuning in for future videos. i swear, u get me on all the topics discussed thus far. 😊

[@_kaneyhoney]

Thanks for the video girl 💖 i love these sit-down and talk vids. One note on the whole Ozempic thing: I love how you are trying to do the work and eat better/workout to lose weight and I encourage you to continue and would advise against trying Ozempic for weight loss, if you can afford firstly bc it's crazy expensive, but also because it is causing shortages and diabetics that need it are struggling to obtain their medication due to celebrities making a trend of it. Love you!🥰

[@thatprettypinkish]

Every other question “we gotta do a whole other video about that” lmao Arnell please spill the beans lol

[@doseofdadaaa]

We need more videos like these ❤ I used to loveeeeeee your rants in your vlogs. So happy and proud of where you are today 🎉🥺

[@lanialove26]

THIS QUALITY🔥🔥

[@wawafaces]

I love your chit chat sit down vids. ☺️ I love all your videos! You are so smart n have great knowledge! 🌎🤍

[@TyVonNorth]

Her vibe is everything. Love it 💫

[@Theoreokiller23]

Literally rescheduled my therapy appointment after months after hearing you talk about therapy. Thank you arnell.

[@shar__]

I’d say ignore men with kids in general . Last man I was with cheated with his son’s mother and the boy was 15. So just no. Smh

[@Missy_fatou]

😮 so sorry that happened to you.. that’s terrible

[@shar__]

@@Missy_fatou yeah it sucked. 3 years that amounted to nothing. but a life lesson ill never have to learn again.

[@RoseGolden0]

Yup I would never date a man with a kid for that exact reason. The baby moms will always be in the background lurking

[@almondiefrancis9451]

​@shar__ Don't feel bad. It was 4 years wasted for me. Never again. The guy was hiding 5 other children and got mad at me for finding out.

[@None-gm4yk]

I was thinking about your videos yesterday, like where is she and Nana and then here comes your video this morning. 😊 good to see you both

[@bbken3]

The quality is crazy!!

[@chloejohnson3184]

I know the background is blurred but i love the color on your walls, it is perfect!

[@sierrawhite1293]

I loved this conversation and the outcome of the look 😍💚

[@tristamartinez5037]

I've really enjoy this video and few topics you've cover were needed to know ladies aren't alone😊 thank you for such a related chat.

[@gabbyosifo7914]

i love the video quality because it’s stunning as always, but maybe i would suggest a tighter frame? it just kinda seems like a lot of empty space ❤

[@arnellarmon]

Thank you! I keep it this zoomed out so I’m able to zoom in videos for TikTok without being too close if that makes sense

[@gabbyosifo7914]

@@arnellarmon Oh that makes so much sense. Smart to repurpose content like that, i didn’t even consider that!

[@451erica]

I don’t know what you did to your camera but this quality is fye 🔥

[@moniqueheggs3620]

Whew, just the topics got me in shambles 😭 I know this video is gonna be GOODT

[@adebukolaajayi]

Video quality is insaneee

[@muffymariah2889]

I’ve been on hinge for the past few months. From my experience it’s men and women that don’t put effort into their profits or ppl that aren’t honest about their expectations 😫

[@Truth_111]

I love a good chit chat grwm

[@natashamarkham1891]

Help us Sis!!! I’m 44!! This is growth and I love it!!! Keep glowing and growing 💕

[@Naymichelle76]

I hope you know what a blessing you are Arnell!!🥰🙏🏾

[@silindilephahla83]

I need more of these q and a grwm

[@sneyleithamasengo1338]

Been loving your outfits too- definitely a potential fashion influencerrr

[@kaylam1252]

Girl i love me a lil staycation and yes i agree young 20s is perfect for being single its so different

[@TeamBREEEZYjs]

I really needed to watch this video today! Love u Arnell!!🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@myworl15]

It’s the depth of field for me❤

[@alyssamendoza7708]

you are such a positive light✨sending you love💓

[@angelbarnes6794]

we definitely want a more in depth grwm with more topics 😊 thanks love youuuu

[@missmia222]

I really enjoyed this video! As someone who is not over their child's father, kudos to you for choosing yourself and moving on 🥳 it's extremely hard, but one day, I too will be over that hill lol. Noah is adorable btw 🥰

[@kyl0m0m]

I agree w you on the it’s the men who maintain “feelings” after having children w their partner. I’d expend it further and say insecure men. My parents separated in 2008 and my mom still lives in my dad’s head rent free. It’s disturbing

[@Lovelynene899]

When she said I have thoughts I was weakkkkkkkkk. Love you Arnell

[@varinaanderson7436]

Hey Arnell totally get your fear of dating men with kids. When I met my husband he already had our son from previous relationship and BM was pregnant for another guy so I would assume she had moved on. WRONG!!! Long story short she’s the BM from hell however I wouldn’t change a thing because he showed me early on his capabilities of being an amazing father and now an amazing husband. ❤

[@delissacharity1838]

This is so good! Thank you for always being so relatable!! This lens looks so amazing!! Are you using canon 24-70?

[@bajanbreezy]

I think the person saying the right person wrong time is you meet the right guy but because of your trauma you might treat them dirty. For example, I met a guy who was everything I asked God for but because I was still healing from trauma of my ex situationship I didn’t pursue it.. plus I didn’t want them to experience my baggage or trauma and be toxic to them because they didn’t deserve it.

[@CARLYMCALLISTER]

camera quality is going crazzyyyyy 🔥 love your content 🫶🏾

[@cc_isgreat671]

Haven’t watched you in a while, but I’m glad I’m back and I’m glad you’re doing well 😊

[@jazzytheecreator]

20:03 girl mine too im like sir yal havent been together in 20 years literally

[@Allofalexis_]

These were good topics! Im so scary with taking meds too 😫 The Ozempic is really working for ppl but I just cant lol😂

[@jazzytheecreator]

6:41 at this point i wanna see the damn video too lol! i loves yals friendship ❤

[@toyac649]

Girllllllll, why are you and your dad like me and mine?! Like, sir! That lady had consistently hated you for at least 35 years since she left you! Stop bringing her up, I'm tired! 😩😩 I be wanting to yell "give it up Delishis!" Ifykyk 😅😂

[@tristamartinez5037]

Why does your background look so angelic like heavenly 😍 ✨️ 💖

[@jalynhyder1996]

Can we get the details on these dual sided makeup brushes? I’m ready to open my WALLET 🤭

[@bluerose_darielle]

Hey babes!! I can already tell I’m going to like this video. Please do more I love hearing your thoughts

[@CaramelCrown04]

Just wanted to say I had a guy acquaintance that revealed to me that he and his buddies would lie on their dating profiles about their credentials because it got them better quality girls on the apps. On his profile he was a scientist and owned 3 houses. The last time we spoke he was living in his car. Also revealed to me that every man is going to cheat but he would be respectful about it. Just be mindful of these dudes ladies ❤

[@sugarplumtiramisu]

You’re so sweet arnell💗

[@kelise444eva]

girl what is that double ended brush you’re using in the beginning PLEASE been searching the web for hours !!

[@Naymichelle76]

Life became so much easier for me when I understood that people come into our lives for a reason, season, or lifetime.

[@shellisepickett4372]

Your skin looks amaaaaaaazing ❤

[@Karinawithgems]

Love how you stick to the topics and don’t get to deep into it! Great way to not expose yourself 🫶🏽😌 save it for another video. You give us enough information on your life never feel obligated to tell us anything

[@Colipopkola]

20:21 that "I'm scared.... This is a tough one for Elmo!" Had me so weak but I also felt that in my soul 😂😂😭🙃💯 But yes more longer grwms please! I enjoy your ted talks and perspectives! 😊🩵

[@Rani-lm3jf]

Absolutely loveee your chit chat content🫶🏾

[@SupernaturalLove100]

I think school pursuits, work or immaturity/young age etc can definitely make for a “right person wrong time” situation.

[@monicasteenkamp3288]

Me throughout this whole video: "Mhhmhhmmm"😌✨ Love this kind of videos, girl❤

[@SupernaturalLove100]

White is everyone’s go to nail color bc of Rihanna! I been saying this for years lol. I don’t remember women being obsessed w getting that color for a pedicure until Rihanna really became a style icon and everyone started paying attention to her nails. I really think she the blueprint when it comes to that.

[@itsahhmora]

What brush did you use to blend out your concealer?

[@juelclyne7392]

Arnell, I really do enjoy your chit chats. You’re always so raw and real which I can relate to. ❤❤❤

[@akuatachie7773]

loved this smm, where did you get your mirror?!

[@TheSReaction]

Listen, I believe my ex got me pregnant just so he could always have me in his life. I think he could tell that if I wasn’t pregnant by him, I’d have completely been done with him. He left me when I was 8 months pregnant then came back when it was time for me to have our son like nothing happened smh. That whole thing traumatized me so bad, I didn’t want to even look at another man. I have moved on, been moved on, but I’m still too scared to try and meet anyone now that our son is 2. Safer to move at a snail’s pace as a mother honestly. My oldest is 13 and his father and I have a great relationship but he knows we’re just coparenting, there’s no rekindling anything and I even encouraged him to meet someone and be free.

[@charlseyhawkins7370]

Hello! Enjoyed the vlog. Conversation was well needed for some people.

[@kaylyn.mitchell]

I love your chit chats so much!

[@marquishajackson9062]

LA is so expensive! I’ve been here 3 years and I’m a nurse, so same taste, same mindset but having my baby taught me responsibility and it’s time to go get our monies worth lol

[@nataliac896]

hii Arnell!!🩷 thank you for this long video 🥹 love hearing your advice

[@sharnicaxd5321]

Definitely want more in depth videos girl I love you

[@QueenMarc]

You been that gurll sincee forevaa, i love u ❤❤

[@AyannaSabrina]

There’s no such thing as biological clock. That idea was to rush women into having children young. If you suppose to have kids, it’ll happen. If not, it won’t. And before anyone says, older women have risky pregnancy. EVERY woman is sacrificing their life to give birth no matter what age. I’ve seen very young women experience traumatic pregnancies and births. And I’ve seen older women have great experiences with birth. It’s all about your health and what you want. Don’t let the world pressure you into having babies just because everyone else is doing it.

[@nickimalae]

definitely here for another chit chat soon 💕

[@vanessaatikaa]

I love the vibes and set up of this video ❤

[@missshachis]

Ahhh this is just what I needed as I’m getting ready! 💕

[@makeupqueenroo]

My bd literally got me pregnant on purpose because I was ready to leave the relationship and he wanted to tie me down. I never wanted kids. Took all necessary precautions not to have kids and he later explained how he sabotaged me on purpose, he didn’t know if it would work because I was on bc and still made him wear condoms but clearly it’s very possible to be pregnant on bc. Anyway he wanted to still have control and access to me for life. I just didn’t have a clue that some men can be that controlling because I was so naive, I was 22 and no one had ever told me this.

[@annholl1603]

Love you, Arnell❤

[@maaranda692j9]

Glowing ✨

[@jroach3296]

Can you plz share brow products you’re using in the video?