Art of Effortless Attraction (5 Psychology Tricks to Attract Anyone)

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Before getting into attraction, I want to set a baseline. The first is about first impressions. In the first 3 seconds of somebody meeting you, they are forming opinions based on non-verbal communication that you're doing, which includes your style, hair, grooming, breath, handshake, and sent. If any of these are out of whack or inconsistent with how you want to be perceived, the rest of what I will discuss today will be less effective.
So here are a couple of tips to start with: Be overdressed for whatever occasion you're going to attend. Make sure you're grooming is straight. Pay attention to your nose, hair, eyebrows, nails, hands, and scent. Smelling good will really set you apart from everyone else. Versace Eros Flame is a fragrance I recently got with Scentbird, and it's freaking believable!
Okay, so many things Vanessa goes over we've heard before and are common sense, such as having open body language. But she discusses fronting, which is a good concept. When standing with someone you're speaking with, have your feet pointing to them so you're facing them and allowing them to see that you are ready to engage and available to speak.
The 5-and-15 Method is casually touching someone unexpectedly 5 times within 15 minutes. For example, when you first meet, touch her hand, and then a little bit later, sprinkle in some touches on her shoulder or arm. But you must be careful because it could signify you're trying to ramp up intimacy. But the bottom line is that dopamine is released when we get spontaneously touched, which can be powerfully attractive when done within 15 minutes.
Eye Gazing is a trick where you look somebody in the eye and feel closer and more connected because of the release of oxytocin, a love hormone. I recommend 60 to 70% eye contact, especially in a professional environment. Too much eye contact with a girl could make you look weird, crazy, and shifty. So the goal is to look them in the eye 60 to 70% of the time you talk to somebody. And when you're listening, you want to ramp it up. Active listening includes leaning in, making eye contact, nodding, saying 'yes,' and letting them know you're listening.
Wait-and-Smile is an incredible way to attract others. It shows you're friendly and inviting, but you only want to smile occasionally rather than overdo it. Those who smile too much often have less power and status, and it's terrible if you never smile. The trick is to wait and not smile before getting introduced. When you see somebody you want to talk to, you want to approach them, introduce yourself, and then smile. You want to wait until you introduce yourself or are introduced.
The next secret to being more likable is to make sure your hands can be seen and don't have a closed-hand position. You want to be open with an expressive, and you want your fingers to be loose and a bit spread.
You can instantly make somebody like you more by telling them a secret because you make them feel special. Divulge something private or personal about yourself to connect you quickly and allow them to see your flaws. Showing your flaws or insecurities will also connect you quickly. Further, another trick is being in a good mood, which is infectious. When you meet somebody and you're positive, happy, smiling, and engaging, you will make them want to be with you.
Be interested as well as interesting. A lot of times when we meet somebody, we talk about ourselves. But, if you flip it around and allow them to talk about themselves, they will view you as more attractive. People like to talk about themselves; however, if they never ask you about yourself, they're probably not somebody you want to be around because nobody likes someone who just brags, boasts, or is not interested in you.

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@alpham 11 ай бұрын

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

Im por alph man

@FoxHound-ch1yy 11 ай бұрын

Smelling nice is a HUGE one, 9 out of 10 men don't even wear fragrance so if you do wear a nice one and you know people can smell it, you're already ahead of like 90% of men out there.

@azhaanebrahim4887 11 ай бұрын

Thank you alpha m have amazing day😎💪🏽💯

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

Definitely thank you alpph man

@bigjohn5080 11 ай бұрын

Thank You Brother... Appreciate you 👍

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

Thank you alph man

@Yamayorya 10 ай бұрын

Finding a Connection to someone works also for friends; happened to find a really really close friend by opening up, telling our flaws and imperfections with time and understanding

@jericho2619 11 ай бұрын

The touching thing got me in trouble with HR. 😅

@rockstarmusic4531 11 ай бұрын

Taking ourselves seriously is not a bad thing unles we over do it here I am not talking about taking pictures but yeah respecting ourselves loving ourselves and taking seriously ourselves is not a bad thing 💯

@Aditya_shenoy 11 ай бұрын

Eye contact is true!

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

Yes eye contact is true!

@StudioTrainor 11 ай бұрын

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@badredinfaik2646 11 ай бұрын

Thank you

@vjmrtnz17 11 ай бұрын

Wow moving background . That editor deserves a raise 🎉

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

Yes we do .!

@dimuthupushpakumara7319 11 ай бұрын

I like it's good idea big brother

@myopiniongoodyouropinionbad 11 ай бұрын

Smile and wave boys, smile and wave.

@jetsdude8 11 ай бұрын

How you look(1 height 2 body fat %) and the status you provide is literally all that matters to women.

@MadInc. 11 ай бұрын

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh . . . . . ; no.

@Chehli 11 ай бұрын

I feel like if a girl is into you then she'll end up touching you a lot anyway (playful hitting ect.). And, at least in a work setting, in today's age, in may be better to let her do the touching. Happens all the times and it's a lot easier to just let the women initiate it. If they're into and find you attrative they'll definitely touch you

@jspiral360 11 ай бұрын

Thanks I might hit this off, met this girl and she likes talking to me for some reason but having trouble being available 😅 she think im playing

@kletts42 11 ай бұрын

"Get someone and look at them, they'll punch you in the nuts." You're probably not wrong. Granted, if someone did that to me, I'd probably want to punch them in the nuts. These are good tips!

@ELVER_GALARGA__ 11 ай бұрын

I DID THE 5 and 15 "method" AND NOW POSTING FROM JAIL 😂 ALPHA, YOU CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS BROTHER

@save325 11 ай бұрын

You taught me so much, but what about you telling us with more of your personal experience with advice?? I think more people gonna love it that way Alpha!

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

Yes we do alpha man

@iamkamsai 11 ай бұрын

Man his mannerisms, sounds and looks like Greg Doucette 😂

@dragosalexandru5828 11 ай бұрын

I tried most of the things. I’m just NOT the guy that girls want. I take care of myself, I dress nice, I am confident and I know how to talk. I’m not attracting anyone. I am the guy that all girls avoid.

@LonelyHearts.Co24 11 ай бұрын

Don't give up bud🫂

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

I dress nice sometimes

@KB82424 11 ай бұрын

It’s cuz your intimidating brotha!!! Keep doing what your doing!!! Remember when she gives you that eye contact gotta take that down!!!

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

@@KB82424 i will try that

@suuuperjamaru 10 ай бұрын

Go to gym. And do 80% lifting. Resistance training. Also do some form of light cardio in morning (20min MAX). DO NOT tell me that “you have”, or that you are in amazing shape already. We wouldn’t be having this convo rn if you were. Let’s get to it! I believe in you 🖤⚡️

@Citizen-by9vw 11 ай бұрын

Be more available? In the few years worth of watching tons of Manosphere/men's help videos (including tons of yours) I've never heard someone tell you to he more available; you're always told to be less available. I suppose I'm being a little negative here, but I've always been told to be less available, and that by doing do, you look more attractive, like you're busy, etc.... I kept waiting for the punchline or for you to say you were joking. Maybe she has a point, but from an attraction perspective, I'll likely go with the teaching about being less available. Thanks, as always, for the video, Alpha.

@adithya444 11 ай бұрын

You should be less available. It is also a law in 48 laws of power

@zooasnunch_sith22 11 ай бұрын

damn scentbird does not ship to australia sigh I was looking for to smelling good to the beautiful ladies

@davidvilla7038 11 ай бұрын

I need you to breathe from your nose deeply hold then release slowly. Use a little eucalyptus oil on the upper lip. Keep repeating. Glad your back Alpha.

@YatesNYC 11 ай бұрын

You're back, not your back.

@stop.russian.aggression 9 ай бұрын

And what it does?

@geno5169 11 ай бұрын

My wife says I smell good all the time.I trim my five of clock every two day’s

@shawnjbray 11 ай бұрын

Ya I live in the country. Women out here, are a little unattached to guys with soft hands. Ya not ate up hands or anything, they like guys that have tough hands, that we get from manual labor

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@gamalielcenteno4801 11 ай бұрын

👍👍👍👍

@TravisAndrews-lb1kk 11 ай бұрын

What are the psychological to attacked a woman ?

@0V3CHKiN 11 ай бұрын

What happened to all the "summary guys?"

@ironcladnomad5639 11 ай бұрын

An addendum to your last point: pay attention to anyone who habitually asks about you and immediately pivots the subject back to them. "Hey, how's it going?" "A little worn out, to be honest." "Oh, man, same. Last week, I had all this work scheduled and...." Yeah, no.

@vanlife369 11 ай бұрын

Versace- joke juice

@Pault3788 11 ай бұрын

I purposely look unavailable

@unitgamex2972 11 ай бұрын

Me too. It’s actually over powered

@Dodifayed21 11 ай бұрын

Fast forward to 4:50 for actual video

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@michaelleewagaman301 11 ай бұрын

Where's the video on how to get rid of under eye bags and which product is the best?

@kristijanarsovski1735 11 ай бұрын

First❤

@perrycoffey5410 11 ай бұрын

Havent had friends in well forever cant take it anymore

@hassanbaba6668 11 ай бұрын

you are a Legend. yeah i am talking to you who came to check comment section 😂😂

@VforVolunteer 11 ай бұрын

Yeah yeah and by applying simply this we all end up in paradise getting everything we want. Sure sure. You still leave milk and cookies out for santa to, Alpha? How about attracting yourself first for the rest of your life by taking up the responsibility of taking really, and I mean really good care of yourself and your life. That last one in every aspect you can think of. Day and day out, week in, week out, month in, month out and year in, year out. Talking about a lot of work to man. Seriously. But it's for a very very very good cause! And when you hit a low along the way, you identify it, you work on it and you don't admit defeat but you keep going. Then, when you really shine at everything they will come to you. That's the only way how it works. Alpha talks in this video like the promised land is so easy to reach by applying a few lame ass tricks but I say it's first about taking up alot of responsibilities and some really really hard work. The promised land is miles away and you even have to take up the toughest responsibilities including figuring out by yourself of how to get there. So in order apply these tips and tricks Alpha babbels so easy about you'd better start at the very beginning. Otherwise it's just cheating, it always fails and people will figure that out very quick and very easy. But when you start at the beginning, you soon will level up, which will give you alot of motivation to keep going and you will even get to taste the sweet and satisfying flavour of success. So take that to consideration when Alpha babbels in this video about rainbows and sunshine.