My heart's as heavy, As these nights are long, And I curse these spaces between my fingers Where for a time you belonged And you'll find somebody new who's worth your time, Someone who's words sound sweeter than mine All that I meant, Trying my best just to get by Can you tell me what hurts more, Is it remembering, or forgetting The best that once was ours Am I remembering, still remembering, or forgetting I've kept your portrait, framed within my mind It remains untouched of your paints and brushes that still changed over time When you left, not without warning or regrets Nothing would fill this hole in my chest, Bid your farewell, I wish you nothing but the best Can you tell me what hurts more, Is it remembering, or forgetting The best that once was ours Am I remembering, still remembering, or forgetting So my love, goodbye So my love, goodbye Tell me what hurts more, Is it remembering, or forgetting The best that once was ours Am I remembering, still remembering Can you tell me what hurts more,is it rememberig
@LolrusGaming7 жыл бұрын
Mark Cerdas It kinda sounds like "past that once was ours" to me but idk
@markcerdas82367 жыл бұрын
Lolrus yes it was my mistake thank you
@LolrusGaming7 жыл бұрын
Mark Cerdas Don't mention it, thanks for the lyrics :)
@mrsmore16217 жыл бұрын
Mark Cerdas Not all heroes wear capes :,)
@FlyingGreenTea8 жыл бұрын
Listening to Pop-Punk, Pop-Rock, Punk-Rock and Post Hardcore since high school and now I'm 26 years old and still listening! This song reminds me everything about her. I wish I could go back and change everything. Tons of memories! Great song!
@jakee204207 жыл бұрын
i know right hits me right in the feels
@DrPepperDave7 жыл бұрын
Man, I remember listening to this song when it dropped in January, and not really thinking much of it. It was really good, and kind of sad, but I wasn't feeling it at the time. Now fast forward, me and my girlfriend parted ways and I came back to the song, and it really touched me and hit me so hard. I swear everything Patty was saying is what I felt, and cried. She's moved on now, and I'm still remembering.
@Jaxsen-f3 жыл бұрын
69 likes
@juicyjuice3007 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my long term boyfriend two days prior to this song release. I bawled my eyes out the first time I heard this track, and it would be incredible to hear live! This band, and this song in particular mean so much to me :)
@PedrooFerroo7 жыл бұрын
Yea I had a Girlfriend from my 16 to 18 years old and this song means so much to..
@ahoybexster7 жыл бұрын
I'm always a sucker for the slow songs so there's no surprise in why this is one of my favorites off the album. As It Is never fail to create some of the catchiest songs, I've had the chorus stuck in my head for the past week already!!
@Sebztaman7 жыл бұрын
I wish I could've actually thanked Patty for everything his band has done for me when I met him, but all I did was stutter and ask him to sign my hat and album, so much love for As It Is ❤️
@p0rcel4in_jesus725 жыл бұрын
I met someone in 2015. I tried to look him up in facebook and since then, it has become my habit to stalk his profile almost everyday. We see each other often but he never knew me, not even my name. I never get the chance to talk to him... like ever. I started to like him when I saw him wearing a band shirt and realize how much we share the same music interests. We're like an asymptote, we get closer and closer but we never reach each other. I doubt he even cares about my existence. I never stopped liking him, I even got used to the feeling of watching him from a distance, always dreaming he'll one day notice me. Until just this year, he passed away. I looked up this song when I saw one screenshot he had in facebook where he wrote the part of this song where it says "And you'll find somebody new who's worth your time . Someone whose words sound sweeter than mine. I'll hope to mend, trying my best just to get by." Now as I listen to this, I'm not crying anymore but there's only one question in my mind: "What hurts more? Is it remembering or forgetting?" 'cause I really want to stop the pain, and by that it means forgetting him and moving on. On the other hand, it would kill me not to remember him enough. He was a really good person, I like remembering him even if it's killing me. I don't want his memories to totally fade away. Rest in peace __________________
@popmypunk7 жыл бұрын
The fact this band works well so good together blows me away! Wish there was more bands like As It Is!
@jasminfudge57993 жыл бұрын
Cant forget this song whenever i remember him
@alexnavarro75148 жыл бұрын
my favorite band💚
@memezxd53098 жыл бұрын
Alex Navarro same
@alexnavarro75148 жыл бұрын
shark lover lml
@madeleinep.8286 жыл бұрын
Okay, where are cool people like you guys? I know nobody who likes this band. ;-;
@SimoneDeLorenzi8 жыл бұрын
Still Remembering Sunday
@Tatapew017 жыл бұрын
atl
@adrixck7 жыл бұрын
Yass
@aliyavisuals_7 жыл бұрын
exactly what I thought ..yassss
@matthewg.62627 жыл бұрын
I applaud you
@madeleinep.8286 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@clairinebaharrizki92168 жыл бұрын
oh my God I love this so much♡♡♡
@selenaramirez68277 жыл бұрын
in love with this song! such a lovely song and album that I recommend to everyone!
@dianaaldama84878 жыл бұрын
such sweet song it is
@charliesobessions5 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely amazing but it's so freaking sad
@King-zm3qg8 жыл бұрын
My noaftion went off and I was like screw it I'll watch my fav youtubers video, then this came up and wow, this is a very good album and an awesome band.
@laurenenoah46408 жыл бұрын
Iamawesome Graham wow, i have been exactly in the same case
@rebekahgeryk21237 жыл бұрын
I'm crying....
@madeleinep.8286 жыл бұрын
Ah... this song is absolutely wonderful.
@JVScooter135 жыл бұрын
This song gets even sadder when you find out that the song was written when AS IT IS were close to breaking up.
@deathwish35778 жыл бұрын
Best song in the album great jobbbbbb kickass album
@magda66906 жыл бұрын
this hitted me 100000x more today
@estherana97882 жыл бұрын
Every time I listen to this song I just remember all the times I cried while listening to it. This song is really hitting hard
@purplefezzz7 жыл бұрын
i love the bridge on this song. such a great tune!!
@littlevinny00037 жыл бұрын
One of my favourites off this album! Any one else???
@iissunarko8 жыл бұрын
i love this song 😚
@IdaBagusGirindaPrabawa8 жыл бұрын
Yay another acoustic :D
@acdcmania2077 жыл бұрын
This song is beautiful
@sabrinaavelazquez42227 жыл бұрын
For sure one of my faves off this album!
@firdausrandy7 жыл бұрын
feels like listen"my ocean are lake"
@learoy83227 жыл бұрын
So emo. This got me into tears from the first notes. I love it, it's slower, and it feels so good in your ears, such a peaceful voice I'm 😍😍
@xikhaleesiix8 жыл бұрын
I love this song out of them all 🖤
@Itzzmefen5 жыл бұрын
Ah I love this song so much.. They performed this at The Great Depression Tour and it was perfect. ❤
@utopianpassenger Жыл бұрын
I was about 20 minutes trying to remember the lyrics of this song to find It. Well It worth! I used to listening to It when I was still learning english...
@sorrymacy14997 жыл бұрын
great song
@CrimsinHavik5 жыл бұрын
It's already been 10 months apart, and I still pine for you on the daily. Even now, I'm not sure what feels worse, when I remember us, or when I realize I'm slowly, one moment at a time, starting to forget all the beautiful things we shared.
@breemckay32558 жыл бұрын
thank you as it is for being such an amazing band I love you all 😘
@adelzi9997 жыл бұрын
this is so amazing omg, this is my second favourite song on this album after Hey Rachel 💚 brilliant job 💓
@normarivas54007 жыл бұрын
This song is great. I've been recommending this album to mostly everyone 🖤
@iyahcheers7 жыл бұрын
This song is so sweet and painful at the same time, definitely my fave off the album! Suits me and my life perfectly...
@giageegio8 жыл бұрын
favorite song! thank you for making such an amazing album❤
@doublechewmusic8 жыл бұрын
Nice song
@evelineshriver38738 жыл бұрын
I love this so much ❤ ive been waiting for it
@sheilagraceabrasado83307 жыл бұрын
this song is too painful but also a beautiful one.
@opperautist52117 жыл бұрын
It's amazing. I'm so happy with this! Keep going bro 💚
@PS-lp3rj6 жыл бұрын
This lyrics in Combination with this Sound is so great And beautiful... you guys are really awsome!
@emilywinchester98737 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@kyokanana8794 Жыл бұрын
This song is making me down so bad. I couldn't stop crying. All I can think its him. We already broke up last year, but ah it's complicated. I don't know if I forget abt him or I was remember it. I even not attracted to love somebody after we broke up. We lost connection, I don't know if he still love me or already move on from me. He's prefect for me, even if out there, there's who is more perfect than him. Deep down, if i have another chance to eachother, I really want to fix our relationship.
@fredzzded928 жыл бұрын
I will get these tabs!
@Ann-ig3yi5 жыл бұрын
My best guy friend and I have had several fights, and several times he's walked away. This time, I won't allow him to come back, and this song just makes me cry so much. He was my best friend, 5 years... Gone all for a stupid reason....
@JurajUhrinec7 жыл бұрын
Can't get enough of this song, even when reminds me of my ex girlfriend, which makes me sad, but after all, I'm in love with it.
@charliesobessions5 жыл бұрын
The 25 people who disliked this don't know real music
@ruse_didichannel7 жыл бұрын
Drowning in doubt = still remembering, cry again.... T.T
@JaEz99999 Жыл бұрын
Lagu yang membantu saya untuk benar-benar move on!
@thexunknownxmusician45948 жыл бұрын
Wish I can sing like him!
@aidanamphlett7 жыл бұрын
James Wesley *could
@droidstory78316 жыл бұрын
You probably could, But better be yourself i mean, Be what everybody wants
@droidstory78316 жыл бұрын
Deserve more views :')
@F3n1x3377 жыл бұрын
just lost my sister this year on jan 17th and idk why this song makes me sad. ty for making amazing music. keep it up.
@ahmayzingella22877 жыл бұрын
So my love goodbye! 🎶
@royalmoon6888 жыл бұрын
Its amazing!💖
@Mysterious4love8 жыл бұрын
Is this a physical album or digital cuz I need this ASAP
@cookiereyes18 жыл бұрын
I think there's both
@bethzufall30444 жыл бұрын
Still Miss You...❤️
@vriliemarbella48057 жыл бұрын
best to the best.. i just can't.. ugh
@TheLonelyMoon4 жыл бұрын
havent listened to this song in a while, rediscovered this song from my old spotify playlist, this song hits differently than how it hit me before
@kengradyy4 жыл бұрын
This song is a fucking bop you can't not like it
@Jerelmanuel7 жыл бұрын
How the hell does this have only 79k views?
@lourdesricafort75627 жыл бұрын
Love this song!
@alaijakakoa3 жыл бұрын
verse 1 C G F My heart's as heavy, C G F As these nights are long, C G And I curse these spaces C G between my fingers F Where for a time you belonged C G C And you'll find somebody new G F who's worth your time, C Someone who's words sound G C sweeter than mine G F All that I meant, C G F Trying my best just to get by C G Can you tell me what hurts F more, C G Is it remembering, or F forgetting C G F The best that once was ours C G Am I remembering, still F G remembering, or forgetting Instrumental (x2) C G F verse 2 C G F I've kept your portrait, C G F framed within my mind C G It remains untouched of your C G paints and brushes F that still changed over time C G When you left, not without C G F warning or regrets C G Nothing would fill this hole C in my chest, G F Bid your farewell, C G F I wish you nothing but the best C G Can you tell me what hurts F more, C G Is it remembering, or F forgetting C G F The best that once was ours C G Am I remembering, still F G remembering, or forgetting Instrumental (x2) C G C G F Bridge C G C G F So my love, goodbye C G C G F So my love, goodbye C G F Tell me what hurts more, C G Is it remembering, or F forgetting C G F The best that once was ours C G Am I remembering, still F remembering C G Can you tell me what hurts F more, C G Is it remembering, or F forgetting C G F The best that once was ours C G Am I remembering, still F remembering C G Am I remembering, still F remembering Or C G F forgetting
@oni.saurus8 жыл бұрын
My mom said she liked this song. I'm surprised because she hates everything lmao
@charliesobessions5 жыл бұрын
I love your username
@budhemukini2255 жыл бұрын
Still waiting the music video
@justinevera90945 жыл бұрын
Welp.. 2017 is the year for me..
@walawala17877 жыл бұрын
sometimes u need to listen to relaxing songs like this too
@chilliam007 жыл бұрын
This song kinds of remind me of the legend of Olgeird Von Everec. :'(
@Jutharius3 жыл бұрын
Heard this song for the first time today. Wife and I separated this year. This song hits me hard!
@alaijakakoa3 жыл бұрын
LIRIK UNTUK LAGU INI My heart's as heavy As these nights are long And I curse these spaces between my fingers Where for a time you belonged And you'll find somebody new who's worth your time Someone whose words sound sweeter than mine I'll hope to mend, trying my best just to get by Can you tell me what hurts more Is it remembering or forgetting? The past that once was ours Am I remembering, still remembering or forgetting? I've kept your portrait framed within my mind It remains untouched Of new paints and brushes, yet Still it changed over time When you left, not without warning or regret Nothing would fill this hole in my chest Here's your farewell I wish you nothing but the best Can you tell me what hurts more Is it remembering or forgetting? The past that once was ours Am I…
@SerlyMnc7 жыл бұрын
wow
@toby50904 жыл бұрын
2020 anyone?
@johnconraddelmundo49735 жыл бұрын
Learn to live alone and listen to As It Is songs.
@epicnate987 жыл бұрын
This opening riff sounds eerily similar to the acoustic version of "River" by Lights. Anyone else hear it?
@unaddan7 жыл бұрын
no offens but,, brah i think you should check you ears :'D
@AllstarGleek8 жыл бұрын
I know no one wants to hear someone's sob story but I need to just get it out. My boyfriend broke it off with me yesterday and I can't remember or forget without my heart breaking.. I hate love
@adam77678 жыл бұрын
TheGirlWithTheLovingHeart I'm really sorry that happened
@zimzalabop85856 жыл бұрын
aw are you okay now bby
@LolrusGaming7 жыл бұрын
I think I'd like to hear a bit more of this kind of stuff from them. Kinda reminds me of some of Ed Sheeran's stuff, This Wild Life and (I think IIRC) some of Artist Vs Poet's stuff.
@nva_694 жыл бұрын
Tell me what hurts more, is it remembering or forgetting?
@grescya.a38063 жыл бұрын
el if you read this, i never thought tht i will brokw your heart. i do love you but as friend
@forestmystery23783 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@squishtrovert4 жыл бұрын
i feel like we’re all here for the same reason :(
@oldaccount74955 жыл бұрын
who came here from noah finnce
@S0ul_destr0yer015 жыл бұрын
Meeeee
@fallenfenix21383 жыл бұрын
I just found this after I got dumped. .... It hurts but hey I'll get on like she did..
@kaloy90015 жыл бұрын
Why do we need love, if its only temporary?
@khylapomasin94617 жыл бұрын
I'm so not okay
@stonereilly79722 жыл бұрын
Jane...
@itsjustparis8 жыл бұрын
loml
@alexgaskarthseyebrows29785 жыл бұрын
Mi corazón es tan pesado como estas noches son largas Y maldigo estos espacios entre mis dedos donde durante un tiempo prenteneciste Y encontrarás a algiuen nuevo que vale tu tiempo Alguien cuyas palabras suenan más dulces que las mías Espero arreglar Haciendo mi mejor esfuerzo para sobrevivir Puedes decirme qué duele más; ¿es recordar u olvidar el pasado que una vez fue nuestro? ¿Estoy recordando, recordando todavía, o el olvido? Ha mantenido enmarca el retrato dentro de mi mente Permanece intacto de nuevas pinturas y pinceles y aún así se cambió con el tiempo Cuando te fuiste, sin previously aviso o remordimientos Nada podría llenar este agujero en mi pecho Aquí está su despedida Le deseo todo lo mejor Por lo tanto, mi amor, adiós, por lo tanto, mi amor, adiós Dimelo que duele más; ¿es recordar u olvidar el pasado que una vez fue nuestro? ¿Estoy recordando, recordando todavía? Me puede decirlo que duele más; ¿es recordar u olvidar el pasado que una vez fue la nuestra? ¿Estoy recordando, recordando todavía, estoy recordando, recordando todavía, o el olvido?
@yurikerachma12327 жыл бұрын
Hurts
@rosienovelli7 жыл бұрын
this is my favourite song from okay
@calebrafus74937 жыл бұрын
rosie ellen i dont see the cover
@payipzpayipoy4047 жыл бұрын
nice
@skeletonizer95297 жыл бұрын
I like Never Happy Ever After better.
@angierose10764 жыл бұрын
Id still answer if you called.
@johnowen55086 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of my ex that got raped 💔
@havoren6 жыл бұрын
To be quite honest here, I think that “Okay” is a good album. I just don’t think it tops Never Happy, Ever After. It’s MUCH like Architects with “All Our Gods Have Abandoned Us”, a few fantastic tracks but the rest of them are either just fine or mediocre as shit. Nothing bad though, I like more songs off this record than off Architects’ 2016 release. Too bad they both put out COMPLETELY mediocre duds THIS year!
@havoren6 жыл бұрын
Eli Mason What you said didn’t really make much sense....like at all!
@havoren6 жыл бұрын
Eli Mason I don’t see how The Great Depression is a concept album. It’s as much of a concept album as Emmure’s Look At Yourself....which it isn’t at all. From what I heard, it’s an emocore album with traces of pop punk every now and again. If the lyrics are what makes it a concept, then I don’t really care. As far as I’m concerned, it’s the MUSIC that makes an album good not the lyrics. Not to mention that if it WAS supposed to be a concept album, it failed miserably due to the fact that many people GREATLY dislike the album. As far as Okay is concerned, I listened to “Hey Rachel” and every other track on the album. It’s just another song about relationships (whether it be friendships or something more is irrelevant) so bringing it up is pointless and doesn’t make much sense. And I like the song, that’s how I know for a fact that I’m right.
@havoren6 жыл бұрын
Eli Mason Using the word “pal” in both your sentences makes you look like you’re trying too hard lol.