4 Helpful Rules for Discernment

When we are discerning God’s will in our lives, we often get overwhelmed by the anxiety of making the right choice and don’t permit ourselves to consider what we actually want. In this video, Fr. Mike Schmitz encourages us to weigh all the choices that are open to us, good for us, wise, and desired by us. The last of the four is often overlooked, so Fr. Mike explains why it is just as important to pay attention to our heart’s desires as it is to consider the other three factors when we are discerning a decision.
Fr. Mike is also a presenter in the following programs from Ascension:
Belonging: Baptism in the Family of God (bit.ly/2vQgGRx)
Chosen: This is Your Catholic Faith (bit.ly/2nCKKLK)
Altaration: The Mystery of the Mass Revealed (bit.ly/2vG9KX2)
YOU: Life, Love, and the Theology of the Body (bit.ly/2raspVB)

[@acolish]

Door #4 has been really important for me in my journey. For a large period of my life, I thought that God's desires were an entirely different thing from my own desires. Practically speaking, this meant that God's will for me was normally something that I didn't want or desire and would be painful for me, as if doing God's will meant to deny who I am and what I want. This couldn't be further from the truth. As I've grown in my relationship with God and in Christian maturity, I've discovered that God's will for me is already written on my heart. If I am honest, and I sit before the Lord in prayer and ask him about an important decision in my life, I normally discover in the deepest depths of my heart a desire already present for the the choice God is inviting me to make. Another way of saying it is that my deepest desires are themselves God's invitation to walk through the door. Great video as always Fr Mike! Thanks for the moment to stop and reflect on the Christian Life.

[@maritheresereyes]

Thank you, Deacon!

[@SAHMMNA]

Dcn Alex Colautti Your words we so incredibly powerful. Thank you for sharing.

[@jaimethissen7046]

God Bless you, Deacon! Be assured of our prayers!

[@luisforeal8676]

I always ask myself the question if I should join the seminary or not, and if it's the best decision for me. I pray to God. to help me find my main purpose in life.

[@Psychohippydude]

+Luis Foreal praying for you Luis to Our Blessed Mother Mary! Pray: "Holy Spirit, make me brave."

[@lisamarie5680]

1. Is this a good/neutral door? (God has not already spoken out against it) 2. Is this an open door? (The "door" has not already told me no and I could actually walk through it) 3. Is this a wise door? (Think now. Will this help me live the life and be the person God wants me to be) 4. Is this a door that I want? (Free will)

[@shaolban4777]

Thanks:) needed this

[@pammiesingkho1786]

In my early 20s I used to ask myself those questions n these questions too-- "is this the one or cud this be it for me or what's in it for me????"

[@josephcorrigan9160]

BUT? Lisa Marie? you are not in the will of GOD! as a lost roman catholic pagan!

[@josephcorrigan9160]

@@shaolban4777 oh no you didn't?

[@josephcorrigan9160]

so?@@pammiesingkho1786you were not seeking 1st the kingdom of GOD and HIS righteousness? in your 20's! so stop this ungodly bragging?

[@coldhank]

You're the first Father that I would actually say, "You're cool."

[@tau7260]

Great advice, Fr. Mike. I personally like to add going to confession and receiving the Eucharist before making a decision thereby leaving my whole heart open and being connected to God without any hindrance.

[@josephcorrigan9160]

BUT! I would just "...like to add..." ? THAT? as a lost roman catholic! pagan! even eating bread and drinking wine! will not connect you to JESUS!

[@josephtran-day6281]

@@josephcorrigan9160 idk what are you talking about i think that you need to open your heart to receive Jesus and thats when you will feel him. The Eucharist is the body of Christ that he left for us to worship and that is one of the direct form of communication to Jesus that he left for us whenever we adore the Eucharist

[@demystify2022]

…and prayer

[@LeslieHayman11]

That's great!!

[@hollyandstuff5139]

Good, open, wise, desired I like it

[@josephcorrigan9160]

BUT! that sounds just like EVE? in the garden! with Adam? Holly and Stuff?

[@cynthianapoleon6313]

@@josephcorrigan9160 at 2:27 timeline of the video, he clearly says about this . Is this a good door? The answer to your eve question is -> if eve had asked is this a good door, meaning did God say very clearly do not eat this fruit of this tree? Yes God did say do not do that . Thereby making it not a good door , decision wise. And therefore making the choice against God’s will , in other words wrong choice. I hope I made sense and helped you. Please excuse my English., I am trying to be better at this..

[@jerusalem7557]

I was confused for so long about my vocation. I knew that I wouldn’t make a good mother but I was scared of the other options. Finally, God spoke to my heart and deep down I knew that I was called to be a religious. It took me a little while to used to the idea, but after a couple of days I felt an overwhelming sense of peace and joy!

[@Anniegrazie14]

Continue to pray, my dear one. Entering religious life has to have one motivation.... and that is a deep love for God. I am not saying that God cannot build His grace on a motivation apart from that, but if that basic thing.... that deep love for Jesus is not there, then eventually, when things get rough, and your expectations of religious life fall short, one may end up disatisfied. On the other hand, if it is anchored on that deep love for Jesus, then whatever may come, the reason why you'll stay no matter want is internal. I am not saying that you dont have a vocation. Jesus put that desire in your heart, and pray over it more that it will have deep roots ❤ hope to see you soon in the convent, Sister! Jesus loves you

[@neenutomi316]

Augustine defines evil as disordered love, and good as rightly ordered love: loving God with the love of adoration, our neighbors with charity, and the things of the world with moderation, to use them but not give our whole hearts to them. We are to use things and love persons, not use persons and love things. We are to adore God and use creatures, not adore creatures and try to use God. That's rightly ordered love.

[@josephjackson1956]

One thing I'd like to point out is that the seminary, even with a shortage of priests, isn't always the best door for everyone

[@sstritmatter2158]

A man should not go JUST because there is a shortage of priests. God ALWAYS provides. That said discernment (not just vocations but anything, especially major) done well is always good - former seminarian.

[@josephcorrigan9160]

but!!! IT IS never! the best door for anyone? male or female! as NO priests are needed!

[@seeweedmaps4665]

Just because there is a shortage of good housing.

[@asdfasdf3989]

@@josephcorrigan9160 Huh?

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

5:22 that's so sweet such a supportive and loving parent we have in God

[@ezraallainmendoza]

I love the last part. "Even if you make the wrong decision even after asking all those decisions, the Lord STILL will be with you. And He always provides a way to get back on track." This is so reassuring, especially for someone like me who always doubts themselves and their own decisions; who always rely on God's voice. But there are times in my life when I feel like I don't hear Him as much, or clearly; or maybe I did but I just didn't like His answer. So I seek out the answers for myself and try to see if what I want to believe is what God wants for me. Hearing this statement allowed me to not be scared, because knowing that even if I make mistakes, or make the wrong decision, I know my God will still love me, and will still accept me no matter what.

[@denakelley4363]

I know Fr. Mike directs his ministry at young adults, but I'm 47 and always get so much out of what he has to say. I'm in the process of trying to discern God's will for me in a volunteer role. This is helpful. Thank you.

[@childofjesusandmary1325]

You’ve just made a weight on my heart feel a little lighter Father!!! Thank you!! ✝️❤️‍🔥🌹

[@SrEngr]

My wife uses T.H.I.N.K (True, helpful, inspirational, necessary, kind) to tell my daughters how to discern what to say to others. It is interesting to see how there are some commonalities between what you are saying and this.

[@jeanie6279]

At 5:00 I almost began to cry. I feel suddenly so enlightened and relieved about decisions, not just current ones but past ones. Never knew really, or never appreciated, that my desire is an okay part of the equation (even though I've always told my kids who are young adults now, "Sometimes God's will and your own desires match; it's not like God's will is always going to be opposite of yours or necessarily hard.") (Seems like I can take my own advice, but I never realized that until I heard Fr. Mike say it just now!) And it is so liberating to know that between two choices, both can be good. Being "choices" doesn't necessarily mean they are diametrically opposed ipso facto, nor that if they are opposed one is 'bad' and the other 'good'. They can both be good even if in apparent opposition. (Ex: Go to college or start a business? Get married or become a religious?) Wow, I am so relieved. I could cry. I mean it. I have struggled wondering if I made wrong or even "bad" choices in my youth, like if I totally missed God's signals and graces and maybe overlooked a decision God was pointing me to. But now I think I can be at peace with decisions I've made, stop wondering "what if?" and know that one or the other decision was good and that God is with me here. What a gift of peace I have just received. I am thankful that the Holy Spirit gives Fr. Mike the right words said in the right way! Yeeha~!

[@josephcorrigan9160]

BUT Jeanie as a lost roman catholic you have never been enlightened about anything!

[@jeanie6279]

@@josephcorrigan9160 Oh, dear, my friend. It is you who are lost. I pray for you to come home to the only Church founded by Christ, the true, One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church. God bless you.

[@josephcorrigan9160]

BUT!@@jeanie6279I doubt that you mean that "...my friend..." AND? I AM NOT lost! but you are? as a roman catholic! OBTW! JESUS ***never used that word < c h u r c h*** >! and your denomination was NOT founded by JESUS who was/is The Christ! so it is? NOT true? but? full of lies! NOR! it is? one! but WITH! many competing? devotions! and catholic only means universal! so? BIG deal! NOR is it a fit home for anyone? even you?

[@jorgecampos5223]

I am not afraid to take decisions, but I only ask God never lose my inner peace. Since inner peace grants me the self conviction that what I am doing is not only "what I want", but God is not against that decision, and it is this that grants me the courage, strength and determination to persist even when I know I must overcome obstacles and hardships by taking such decisions.

[@donaldkeith139]

1. Is it good or evil? 2. Is it even available to you? 3. Is it wise, knowing yourself? 4. Is it what you want? This forth door: this last door can be many. But if you walked through the other doors, then you can choose anything and God will be waiting on the other side

[@plattyplatt]

Ah yes, yet another video that I need to hear. Totally not coincidental. Thanks for the video!

[@josephcorrigan9160]

but? it is nonsense! Timothy J? because it leaves out the need to be a christian and NOT a lost roman catholic pagan!

[@FarfourAliDawah]

@@josephcorrigan9160 Joseph, why do you hate the Catholic Church(not all Catholics are Roman Catholic)

[@josephcorrigan9160]

@@FarfourAliDawah and ***why do you tell lies about me*** ? FOR! I hate no one? as? JESUS does not allow that! and the roman catholic < denomination > is NOT a < c h u r c h > ? WHICH is a word JESUS never used? and ALL catholics are indeed ***roman*** ! BUT none are christian! but still pagans!

[@funnynickline]

"God Bless Us Father Mike"👴.

[@gabo1841997]

I really struggle with discernment with my business and relationship decisions. I want to do God’s will at all times. But I do struggle with choices and will.

Thank you father Mike!!! I was looking for something like this :) I was stressing out about making choices in my life and at the same time doing God’s will. Then it hit me that I was actually not wanting the responsibility of making a choice (indecisiveness) so I wanted to let God handle it. Now I know I have to work and pray harder to be responsible for what I want to pursue, being confident that my Lord will be on the other side of the door I choose to open. This just brought peace to my heart, and I feel happier about my future and enthusiastic about God’s plans for my family. “Oh Jesus, I surrender myself to you. Take care of everything”.

[@mabernadette921]

Thinking of all those things plus having a conversation with God will lead you to where you are meant to be in life

[@oliviarapavi1177]

Ahhh perfect timing. SUCH a good video. So much wisdom. My weekly bit of spiritual direction ❤

[@colettepimley3227]

Thanks Father. Wise words. Our Lady likes her priests to be dressed like priests. Great 👍

[@joyceempremiado6514]

Discernment/ prudence is also important in how we give our impression of others.

[@dr.demuertos5480]

Thank You Fr.Mike, I was born Catholic and you are teaching me things I didn't even know! it has opened so many doors to happiness, I can't think of any way to thank you except saying, I Love you Brother!

[@josephcorrigan9160]

BUT? you need to be a christian? Dr De Muertos? and NO one is born a lost roman catholic! and whatever he has told you is r c lies!

[@chinjujoseph4712]

Wow....I just can't believe.. bang on right time!!!!!

[@HappyEndings8]

Pray for me friends, I am going to call a friend I had a disagreement with, to humble myself and accept my mistakes, to apologise for them, and to tell him that I love him and I am here to support him. It took a lot of discernment because I kept getting advice from people that sounded like “No! You didn’t do anything wrong! You deserve better!” … But I think Jesus would prefer humility over pride… 🙏

[@vanillafoodie]

Thank you for this new information, it has help me in my 3 year long journey of constantly thinking what I should do in life, I'm 25 this year and I have been sitting around wondering what to do as my vocation and waiting for God to answer me because so many people tell me to just ask God if you're not sure, but many times I hear nothing back plus I'm still working on my listening skills with God. I was starting to worry for myself that maybe I am just not too sensitive to God's voice yet so it's harder for me to hear back from Him faster like the others. Anyways, your video helped me to realize that I can now do things as I want to do or had the thought to do, I put those decisions in life on pause because I just kept wanting to hear back from God first then only I'll make a move and decision, so thank you for reminding me that God had already told us He will be with me and all of us wherever we go in life, and He will let no harm fall on us but also highlighting the importance that free will is in my hands as well, whatever decisions I make it's all freewill, so I better make the best decision that I see fit and if there are things and paths where He doesn't want me to go, He will stop in me in His own ways but at least I won't be wondering around if any of those jobs fit me because I never bother to try and see it to the end, I'm going to stop my waiting season now and just move forward, wishing all those out there who are discerning and figuring out what they want to do in life, may God bless us all~ May we also learn to trust in Him to guide us and be there for us wherever we choose to go in life.

[@might4light]

After spending hours on watching videos on YT how to find purpose in life, there is one of two videos that will stay with me for rest of my life. Thank you and Sole Deo Gloria

[@mariapropst7935]

ACCIDENTALLY FOUND THIS VIDEO IN A TIME I REALLY NEEDED IT, THANKS SO MUCH , PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE A BLESSING TO ALL THOSE WHOSE HEART YOU TOUCH,, THE DOOR CONCEPT IS REALLY GOOD TO RELATE TO , HENCE UNDERSTOOD IT SO I CAN DECIDE.... THANK YOU FATHER MIKE!!!

[@isabelatorquato797]

I’m Brazilian, and I love your Chanel! God bless u a lot and Virgem Mary ❤️

[@ishouldbesleeping1354]

When I have an important decision to make or help, I fast. Evening to evening I ask for guidance. Usually within a few days it is clear to my spirit something. If I feel I need more info I set ahead a day to fast AGAIN, maybe asking, “Lord how do I DO this?” Thirdly you can put a fleece before him to confirm what you think you understood, but don’t test or try the Lord. It never fails. Sometimes he shows me I have sin in the way, like priorities or attitude or I’ve offended someone, etc. so remove the obstacles to have his ear and hear. I always learn something. Lean in.

[@ryanregi]

Here are some ideas for a 9-year-old's birthday party: Scavenger Hunt: Organize a scavenger hunt around the neighborhood or park with clues leading to the birthday gift or party location. Movie Night: Rent a projector and have a movie night in the backyard or living room. Craft Party: Have a craft party where the children can make and take home their own creations, such as tie-dye shirts, beaded jewelry, or personalized picture frames. Sports Day: Organize a sports day with games like capture the flag, dodgeball, and relay races. Cooking Class: Have a cooking class where the children can learn how to make a new dish or bake their own birthday cake. Pool Party: Rent a pool or go to a local water park for a day of swimming and fun in the sun. Board Game Party: Have a board game party with a selection of board games and snacks. Science Experiment Party: Have a science experiment party where the children can participate in hands-on experiments and learn about science. Remember to take into account the interests and preferences of the birthday child when choosing the party theme.

[@phdstudio102]

Great video!. So comforting to know that even in mistakes and wrong decisions, God makes a way and is always with us. Thank you Fr. Mike.

[@ryanregi]

gid lives u 💝💝

[@timwilson7873]

Amen. 🙏

[@ojiverdeconfleco]

Thank you for the door analogy! I do love our God because of these choices; one time a priest friend told me that what God wants for us is what it is already our deepest desire, and that I could recognize being in the right track towards it because of the peace and love and joy it would bring. And over the years I've found that to be true.

[@katherinebellendir1681]

Perfect timing again lol. I'm headed to a discernment retreat this weekend

[@misfit3879]

thank you so much for this, this really helped me i’ve been so confused on discerning this certain thing in my life and this helped a lot thank you

[@jnccg]

as someone who is discerning a big decision...this is a big help, a great relief and a point of reflection

[@chewygoodness0]

As much as I miss the beard already, the message is just what I needed. Thanks Father Mike ☺

[@georggm358]

I liked and subscribed to this channel before, I don’t know why I wasn’t subscribed, I had to subscribe again.

[@Smoothbluehero]

This advice resonates with me since I made the mistake of majoring in Chemistry and spent the last 4 years of college in total misery and socially isolated because I was also inept at making friends. I'll be graduating May, now I need to figure out how to get back on track.

[@donaldkeith139]

Similar here. I have learned to never give up searching. I went from chemistry to physics to psychology to computer science.. Now I'm thinking about teaching 😂

[@nikw3683]

This is awesome. Thank you! I'm a non-denominational Christian as opposed to Catholic Christian, and I attend a Pentecostal church. I hate hearing Christians bashing other denominations of the same faith, that is in the Holy Bible and Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. Love your videos!

[@bethq1703]

Lovely comment straight from the heart. God bless. ❤

[@clarekavanaugh4558]

Oh my goodness. He's done it again. THANK YOU FR. MIKE!!!!! This video was much needed.

[@DeShawn_Boone]

I remember reading a book in a book I read a book once ctfu forgive that just made me feel like I gotta stop drinking coffee 777 but I am grateful for the advice

[@harleylopez9597]

This past weekend, my life was changed. I went to a retreat and opened my heart to The Lord and I invited the Holy Spirit into my life and heart and I prayed to receive my gifts. And then a miracle happened. I surrendered my brain, my thoughts, my heart, my mouth, and my words to The Lord and then He gave me the gifts of preaching, joy, and wisdom. I am called to bring my family to the Catholic Church. And I gave the Lord my life and invited Him to use me for the greater good. God is so very real and once the Holy Spirit starts the fire in your heart, NO ONE, not even ourselves, can stop it. Don’t give up on the Lord. Don’t seek happiness. Seek Joy and seek Him. Amen.

[@DontKillAnts]

I have a lot of discerning that I will be facing soon in my life. I am applying to Doctorate programs in psychology (I actually interview with a school tomorrow) and I am going to be in a lot of debt and not be able to have an income for 4 years while in the program. I need to discern whether or not it is in God's will for me to enter into the military in order to pay off my tuition and when I should get married so that I can provide for my wife and possibly new-born child while still in school. I am very scared but I know that God will take care of me. Sorry I know that was ranty and an un-asked for load of personal matters but I needed to say (write) it.

[@MouthwashTyphoon]

DontKillAnts If you haven’t done this already, I suggest drawing up a list of pros and cons.

[@kristinmatranga-bettencour3566]

Just a question, why would you not be able to have a job while working on a Doctorate? Plenty of people work full time while getting one. Plus, with a new baby on the way? Military is an excellent profession, very hard workers.

[@user00578___]

How is it now ? Blessings, hope it is good !

[@jenniferlyn2875]

Rififi I am also curious too!

[@dahliamama4999]

Fellow PhD here. Is it possible to find a fully funded program? Also, academic jobs are hard to come by. Following a career path that will pay off? Don't count on academia. If you are willing to move anywhere in the world, you have a better chance. Good luck. Pursuing a PhD is a wonderful opportunity but debt is real, and a fully funded program is a better way to go. I wish you all the best.

[@meganneale2074]

This was so helpful and something that I have been struggling with while at a cross-road in my life. Good, Open, Wise, Want ... prayer really does work!. Blessings.

[@jefffresh1745]

Father, You are a fountain following of of the Holy Spirit. In todays christian struggles you answer our deepest concerns. Also thank you for being so human. JMJ Bless you . . . Jeff

[@CristianaCatólica]

GOD BLESS HIS ONE AND ONLY CATHOLIC CHURCH

[@mikeymike3760]

Thank you for your guidance and dedication to faith. Life is such a gift, and a miracle in itself.

[@ryanregi]

eren

[@mogo6642]

I Like YoUr message Brother I really really like they way explain to some who may not know and are reluctant to Chose GOD and His will. 1; I AM thy GOD, thou shall have No other GODS before Me.

[@Papisexy5555]

Just what i needed to hear. Thank you Father. I struggle to sleep at night from anxiety.

[@Shaun1977]

Take care love

[@jessnutpeanut8842]

JC same here. In my experience, God is the only thing that brings me peace :)

[@jesusismysavior2004]

Maybe praying a rosary would help. God bless

[@ryanregi]

may godprotect u dears

[@LeslieHayman11]

I'm discerning a big life decision at 40, thank you Father Mike!!

[@cbentler4528]

So helpful! Sometimes I feel like we think that we're going to mess up God's plan for us if we do the things we want to do. This video reminded me of the truth. So, thank you!

[@ryanregi]

Here are some ideas for a 9-year-old's birthday party: Scavenger Hunt: Organize a scavenger hunt around the neighborhood or park with clues leading to the birthday gift or party location. Movie Night: Rent a projector and have a movie night in the backyard or living room. Craft Party: Have a craft party where the children can make and take home their own creations, such as tie-dye shirts, beaded jewelry, or personalized picture frames. Sports Day: Organize a sports day with games like capture the flag, dodgeball, and relay races. Cooking Class: Have a cooking class where the children can learn how to make a new dish or bake their own birthday cake. Pool Party: Rent a pool or go to a local water park for a day of swimming and fun in the sun. Board Game Party: Have a board game party with a selection of board games and snacks. Science Experiment Party: Have a science experiment party where the children can participate in hands-on experiments and learn about science. Remember to take into account the interests and preferences of the birthday child when choosing the party theme.

[@karenwestcoat4205]

Absolutely Amazing Priest and Spiritual Leader! Thank you So Much Fr Mike For All Your Love and Help in this Troubled World.:)

[@veehope2702]

Thank you.

[@simonhughes7859]

Thank you! This was amazing, from Waterloo, Ontario :)

[@raneyboy9937]

Thank you for this advice! I have been trying to figure out where God wants me to be, but you helped me realize that I need to start taking more responsibility. You got yourself a new subscriber. God Bless!

[@alicehamilton2741]

needed to hear this, thank you! I could drive myself crazy with looking for "signs" while God is right next to me. Like a parent to thier growing child, encouraging them to do things for themself.

[@bethdulnuan9746]

PRECIOUS WISE RETREAT WHERE WE REALLY WANT TO BE...THANK YOU FR. MIKE...🙏❤️✛❤️🙏

[@thomascrownrg]

I needed that. Thank You GOD and thank you... New subscriber

[@sstritmatter2158]

Geez Fr Mike, you're such a great priest. Thank you and God.

[@kristynoble8848]

I'm 53. I've been needing to hear this for YEARS! Thank you!!!

[@cecilecoonrod4146]

Thanks!

[@PeterPot]

Thank you

[@LeveeJohn777]

Very timely advice that I needed to hear right now, thank you.

[@mahoganyjones5663]

AMEN ☦️ 🙏🏽 THANK YOU FOR YOUR DEVINE WORDS OF WISDOM ✝️ 🙏🏽 🕊 🌿 🪽 🫶🏽

[@shawnsmith3335]

You have NO idea how much this helped me in a decision I was struggling with. Thank you!

[@amenamen5204]

Life saving, for i was so stressed about this for long time .. Thank you father

[@gracefinnerty2114]

I can tell that Father is very excited about this topic!

[@gracefinnerty2114]

God is on the other side of several doors, God will always be there - reminds me of Babette's Feast.

[@thesavoyard]

Thank you Father Mike, now can you address over thinking?

[@dorcas4035]

Great sharing, a thing i Would like to strain on is , have a close relationship with God & invoke Holy Spirit for inspirations & guidance in your decision making otherwise your decisions wont be fruitful! Out of experience! We all have wonderful dreams, desires & opportunities plus thinking we are good planers!😂 search God first before climbing that Dream ladder, he will make rough roads Sounds smoother🙏

[@magdaeugenia1125]

Father Mike, you're really hit on the point. I often say to God, 'Your will be done, it's up to You God. " Because i don't want to take the responsibility of my choices. Thank you father Mike, this is what God want me to know.

[@claudiafallin2056]

thank you so much, this will definitely help me in making my decision for college. it was very helpful in splitting up the steps of making a decision. it was very insightful.

[@greypilgrim9967]

Thank you and God bless you Father Mike. I am currently in a difficult period in my life. In a very vulnerable and uncertain point and have been for half a year now. I have been praying a lot asking God to tell me what His will is. And I haven't been able to hear him, till I believe now. Your words truly helped a lot. And in fact make things much simpler than I thought. I will reflect on your words some more to confirm what door to walk through. Thank you once again

[@auntyyunike]

Great advice. Thank you!

[@amyj.4992]

Responsibility for one self, is why I've been so decisive throughout my life 💕. I wish more people realized this

[@guilhermeschitzamaral8627]

⥊ Discernment: 32 100: Liberation 99: Revolution 1: Ethics 2: Problem-Solution 3: Consent 4: 20

[@Livelearnapply]

Thanks .. I needed this today

[@JosepHolt10]

Very helpful, thanks!

[@snowjoker1104]

Thank you for sharing this video. It means a lot to me. I think this is the answer that God wants me to hear. I've been wondering about what should I do with my life and often ask god "Just tell me what to do and I will do it" but its not leading me anywhere. With this I realised that maybe God wants me to choose by myself and He will accompany me along the way. Thank you so much

[@iridescentlve7279]

💜 Give thx 🙌🏽

[@xgoodson]

Thank you so much! I want to enter the convent, but it felt so presumptuous for me to want that, because I am so unworthy of it--and I've had the feeling that if I want it too much, that I am trying to push God to let me do it--that it's not His Will but MY will. This has clarified my thinking a lot.

[@joemunoz1476]

I wouldn't be susprised if Father Mike makes it to become a Saint some day!

[@ashyboo24ify]

Wow this helped me so much thank you so much for your video 🌻

[@hopeisgood631]

You have no idea how much this helped me. I pray God bless you. Thank you

[@juneclaire9113]

Oooh this is so so good….thank you! Very much like a dichotomous key!! “I will be there on the other side”.

[@dennisjacob1081]

It is better to follow God's will

[@nicholastracy4915]

Was about to open a BAD door from my past from boredom in my new, but very good life that has been tough to build. Thank you.

[@imommtube]

So true, sometimes we just want God to take our responsibilities, golden video.

[@oambitiousone7100]

Fr Mike is a boon for young/new Catholics: such energy, so wholesome.

[@arturomorelli8150]

This is exactly what I needed in this moment. Thank you.

[@cuzinofie6]

This 🙌 is 🙌 awesome 🙌 spot on

[@LaCroixCreative]

Exactly what I needed to hear. #3 has been especially difficult in some of my decisions.

[@jonahethan4643]

Fr moke Schmitz love you thank you so much

[@oscarjeong9438]

Thank you Fr. Mike, hope God rebuild my family.

[@birddogduke1251]

The last line, about God always providing a way to get back on track; I needed that.

[@MrVollom]

In another life Father Mike could be an auctioneer. He has the rare ability to speak clearly at an extremely high rate of speed.

[@EvinNazya]

Helpful. Thank you.

[@johnsantony4697]

Let The Holy Fire of Gospel spread across the Globe .

[@M.M.30809]

God's will in my life and choosing, take responsibillity for my life!! God and wise doors! Yeah!! Perfect!! Thanks so much Father Mike!!!!