Why We Fall for Players (Watch OUT for These Signs )

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Asha Christina

Asha Christina

Күн бұрын

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@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy
@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy 5 жыл бұрын
Ladies a man is not going to leave something he wants on the market to be taken by someone else!! So if he hasn’t made it official already don’t even ask move on. You’re so right Asha !
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Wine and Wisdom but I don’t wanna just leave him, I wanna hurt him first and then leave him. If I cheat on him he won’t care so what can I do to hurt him before I leave?
@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy
@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy 5 жыл бұрын
daphnee paul you will only be giving him an excuse to justify his actions if you stoop to his level. The best revenge is to leave him boss up and find a better man. Nothing hurts like the one that got away(regret).
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Babe when I tell you I GET IT TRUST ME I DO!!!!! Listen when a guy doesn’t care he doesn’t care and he’s capable of being petty and still not caring !!! Or even worse ! He has no reaction to you getting back at him and then that is an all time new feeling of trying to hurt someone and they don’t even care that you even tried. Ugh it’s so hard I get it but I’m telling you, the actual beet revenge is ghosting !!!! Cutting ALL TIES AND COMMUNICATION ! Bc then they know for a fact you don’t care bc you have no reaction ! I know it’s easier said than done! Trust me but it works FORCE YOURSELF !!!!!
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Wine and Wisdom ok. Damn I at least wanted to steal his money or get him fired or something but ok then. 😢
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Trust and believe me life will screw him over way better than you ever can right now !!! Noooooo one on this earth gets away consequence free !!!! BELIEVE ME♥️
@madisoncontroversial7348
@madisoncontroversial7348 5 жыл бұрын
My experience with players. They are the most selfish people you will ever meet. They all have some sort of issues, a lot of players need therapy. They probably have Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD).
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
This is a whole entire full blown FACT !!!!!
@bossanovalvr9069
@bossanovalvr9069 5 жыл бұрын
Facts
@inesbenzina3444
@inesbenzina3444 5 жыл бұрын
Players are narcissits. Faaaacts.
@skyscout3
@skyscout3 5 жыл бұрын
@@inesbenzina3444 I'm a guy and player myself. I used to get emotional and fall into girls' traps and games and then I learned my lesson. That's why I became a player and that's probably why others did too
@medhab6001
@medhab6001 4 жыл бұрын
So truee
@lalili1358
@lalili1358 5 жыл бұрын
Mixed signals is a red flag!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
FACT !!!!
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
lali li if he was raised by a single mom that’s a red flag too. Cause he’s gonna make you a single mom too.
@lalili1358
@lalili1358 5 жыл бұрын
@@daphneepaul3737 There are exceptions, but for the most part you might be right.
@quay5664
@quay5664 5 жыл бұрын
Mixed signals is a good thing
@tracyelle558
@tracyelle558 5 жыл бұрын
daphnee paul not true... my partner died making me a single parent household.
@clearsoundmd
@clearsoundmd 5 жыл бұрын
Im a guy, you are 100% right. He will not want you to be confused!!! Great Topic
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuuuu!!!!!!!🤗
@clearsoundmd
@clearsoundmd 5 жыл бұрын
@@AshaChristinaFoster Always from a God fearing man that's filled with growth...
@SonnyWest87
@SonnyWest87 5 жыл бұрын
....or maybe he does. Muahahaha 😈
@Sara-vh6sq
@Sara-vh6sq 5 жыл бұрын
My friend always said "You are single, until you are married!"
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
Yaya B but it’s not just cause your friend says it. That’s actually the definition of single. When u fill out your income tax or any legal document it says single or married. There’s no “dating” or in between. Either you are married or you’re not. And if you’re not you’re single, so you can date and sleep with whoever you want. Even if you’re engaged because like the document said there’s no in between.
@Sara-vh6sq
@Sara-vh6sq 5 жыл бұрын
Yes your correct, I never saw it from that point of view till recently. I was always committed to one guy, never again!!! It's all about growth and awareness.
@shutit4024
@shutit4024 5 жыл бұрын
Yaya B true
@timtardashian1150
@timtardashian1150 5 жыл бұрын
Some married (wo)men are also single
@wizeguy1402
@wizeguy1402 5 жыл бұрын
Next comment "why are you even on this video?" Which would be a deflection because you know I'm making sense so try again😌
@natashaevans6379
@natashaevans6379 5 жыл бұрын
Them giving us words of affirmation and telling us what we want to hear is so true.. Words are cheap ladies! Look for consistency and remember that actions speak louder than words!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
It’s SO deceiving honestly !!!!!
@natashaevans6379
@natashaevans6379 5 жыл бұрын
Yup lol Thank you for spreading your wisdom Asha, you’re changing so many of our lives for the better ❤️
@skyscout3
@skyscout3 5 жыл бұрын
@@natashaevans6379 we call it "whispering sweet nothings" because our actions don't match our words. you know daddy been thinking about you, yeah but I haven't talked to you in 5 days lol that gets you girls attached so you're welcome
@mayusoma
@mayusoma 5 жыл бұрын
Go for the guy that makes his intentions clear. Being with a the good looking guy that every girl wants is good for your ego, but that means you’re in competition with other girls and he’s really not for you.
@asantewaaopoku465
@asantewaaopoku465 5 жыл бұрын
Mayeaux W. TRUE
@joegez7
@joegez7 4 жыл бұрын
And yet you’re gonna reject the nice guy and fall for that same player lol. Women’s psychology
@artsyhyd
@artsyhyd 5 жыл бұрын
"No man who wants you in his life going to leave you confuse!" "You are confuse for a reason" - These words! 100!
@fleepss2407
@fleepss2407 2 жыл бұрын
Na that's false. Dude could be on his mission just has other commitments other than you. Kobe Bryant was trying to win championship rings. If you as a woman were trying to get him to do something else, and he keeps saying no to you it's not cause he doesn't want you in his life You're just trying to pull him away from his. You're confusing yourself 😂😂
@artsyhyd
@artsyhyd 2 жыл бұрын
@@fleepss2407 U confuse urself honestly 🤣
@fleepss2407
@fleepss2407 2 жыл бұрын
@@artsyhyd 😂😂😂
@queenofthesouth4205
@queenofthesouth4205 5 жыл бұрын
Yessss players will keep a "friend" around for years. She will never be a girlfriend because she does not require it from him. She should walk away if she wants a relationship.
@artsyhyd
@artsyhyd 5 жыл бұрын
"You can have him! He is actually not yours, he is for everybody!" 😂👍 "I'm movin on with my life!" 👍
@EnvyJordyn
@EnvyJordyn 5 жыл бұрын
29:03 literally makes me want to cry because i was this person trying to convince someone of my worth
@artsyhyd
@artsyhyd 5 жыл бұрын
"Life will teach you the same lessons over and over again if you haven't learned your lessons!" Yup 100!
@neishah
@neishah 5 жыл бұрын
Was dealing with a player and left him 😊 best decision! Thanks for your amazing videos. Your gorgeous!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Goddess Neisha PROUD OF YOU BABE !!!!!! Best decision !!!!! And Awww thank you so much !!!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️
@skyscout3
@skyscout3 5 жыл бұрын
well us players just have another one waiting round the corner
@pure-pisces9470
@pure-pisces9470 4 жыл бұрын
Yeh i left. Went silent that was my "over" omg then he sends me a msg saying " he cant give me what i want & to find what i want, yet hes available for a free one if i want & he is back on the market" omfg really!! Ha
@weedneydesmornes1466
@weedneydesmornes1466 5 жыл бұрын
In order to avoid getting hurt or manipulated, you HAVE to be strategic. And I 💯 percent agree that you have to pay attention to action. Take words with a grain of salt.
@zaerosa
@zaerosa 5 жыл бұрын
When you watch the ADS because you want sis to get her coin 👏🏽💖
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
omg you are the sweetest!!!!!! 😘😘😘😘 true supporter !!!!!
@EmeboFavour
@EmeboFavour 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@sallykimaru953
@sallykimaru953 4 жыл бұрын
Correct. Now that’s love ❤️
@nishi931
@nishi931 5 жыл бұрын
I was with a player once and he told me that I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen and that he really could see marrying me...6 months later I got a whatsapp message from him that he is not good enough for me and that he does not want to chill with me anymore(yep these where his words) after two months of asking myself what I did wrong I saw him with his girlfriend I did not know of!!! I was 20 and did not listened to my mum who told me he is not worth it. But giiirl I learned the lesson lol
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart :/ I know how you feel babe:/ some men just lie :/ just always tell yourself WORDS ARE cheap !!!!!! action action action !!!!!!
@sugarmcdoodles8462
@sugarmcdoodles8462 5 жыл бұрын
nishi931 I had WhatsApp just to talk to a military guy that asked me to download it. Then he wasn’t reaching out. I found his Facebook (I don’t even have one) posting muscle pictures. I deleted the whole app with no explanation . I’m a priority not an an option.
@rolorobbins2933
@rolorobbins2933 5 жыл бұрын
A real “player” would never say that to you 😂🤦🏽‍♂️
@Dasobreadwinner
@Dasobreadwinner 4 жыл бұрын
@@rolorobbins2933 nigga was selling the dream😂
@secilperkins
@secilperkins Жыл бұрын
This video is sooooooo true. Never think your situation is special and you’re the exception cause our ego does it sometimes. Stop using the player as a coping mechanism and let it go.
@Jackywitha_y
@Jackywitha_y 5 жыл бұрын
I don't need your situation. 😭 Okay!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
FACT !!!!!!
@supermanfan1315
@supermanfan1315 5 жыл бұрын
“If the answer is not yes, the answer is no” Something I already knew, but to hear it- ugh. I love it. Spot on👌🏻
@ginalienn1112
@ginalienn1112 5 жыл бұрын
Both you and Paige coming with the solid “ player” advice this week! 💪🏼
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Gina the crazy thing is I created this video treatment on Tuesday night and then I was on the phone Paige, And then I don’t know how we started talking about our next video subject so I said oh I’m going to do this video and then she said a shit that’s crazy because I already did a video about that and it’s on unlisted and it literally is crazy that we literally both randomly came out with similar video topics in the same week and I was so excited and happy about it because were both talking about it from different angles !!!!
@oyinkeks
@oyinkeks 5 жыл бұрын
What’s her channel pls for the culture ??
@ginalienn1112
@ginalienn1112 5 жыл бұрын
Asha C. Lol awesome! Great minds think alike
@ginalienn1112
@ginalienn1112 5 жыл бұрын
Kae Li Her channel is Love Your Natural 🙃
@TB-xw3vo
@TB-xw3vo 5 жыл бұрын
Enjoy hearing game from a females perspective. Most info from this channel is solid
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
famous nick so everything she said is right? Y’all really don’t care about us? I knew it but guys always say it’s not true so I just want to see if you “a guy “ will tell the truth.
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
I think there are good men we just have to find them ! But many also don’t care it’s our job to be smarter ! 💋
@vershaylamorieemartinez327
@vershaylamorieemartinez327 5 жыл бұрын
Nick J I do the same thing when I watch alpha male strategies.
@valeriewalsh4900
@valeriewalsh4900 5 жыл бұрын
*likes the video before it even starts cause I already know it’s gonna be quality content 😍🥰❤️
@youtooDebz10
@youtooDebz10 5 жыл бұрын
Yep!!😉😀
@stepahead5944
@stepahead5944 5 жыл бұрын
Facts! "They want to blame you..." True, like we're somehow wrong for our hurt, our reactions, our demands for disability. They DO try to push it all on us! And too many sincere hearts get played because they don't see it coming. All they have are words with a blindness to the actual actions that are inconsistent. And you're also right, we ARE single until we're actually claimed! It is what it is.
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Ugh I love this !!!!! THIS IS SO TRUE ! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@cuddlepuddle7183
@cuddlepuddle7183 5 жыл бұрын
u really want a player (idk why you would) just play em right back & make them jealous. makes em way crazier than it made us.
@femininedivin3
@femininedivin3 5 жыл бұрын
I likeeee this strategy
@LinLin-te5yc
@LinLin-te5yc 5 жыл бұрын
It’s not worth the headache & heartache!!! Trust me just leave!!! Put ur energy into a guy who will reciprocate. Don’t become what hurt you 💕💕💕💕
@LarennPBel
@LarennPBel 2 жыл бұрын
TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
@LarennPBel
@LarennPBel 2 жыл бұрын
@@LinLin-te5yc BUT ur not putting in energy, just readjusting a new perspective n stradegy
@porschegrsintheclosetrawun7565
@porschegrsintheclosetrawun7565 5 жыл бұрын
Your bangs are totally bang’n, babe❣️
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
awwww thank Youuuu ♥️
@kylamaupin9668
@kylamaupin9668 5 жыл бұрын
I'm literally so shook right now. ALL OF THIS is describes my EXACT last situation with the guy i was dating. Dated for several months, always said the nicest things, seemed like the greatest guy talking about me being a "great wife" one day then. GHOST. I was hurt and sad and just straight up confused about what happened and how he could just detach and change so easily. It all makes sense now. Thank you for your channel. I'm ready to level up and DONE getting played.
@fleepss2407
@fleepss2407 2 жыл бұрын
How much effort did you put in really though? Let's be honest if dude is actually trying to find a relationship dude is probably talking to a couple of girls minimum. He's gonna pick his favorite at the end. He might be interested in you but if you never made an effort maybe he just got bored
@artsyhyd
@artsyhyd 5 жыл бұрын
"If something was meant to be it would flow it would be easy!" 👌
@wandag.2073
@wandag.2073 5 жыл бұрын
"If you are going home and you're taking inventory of his actions... The answer is no" 2:52 .... Why does it make soo much sense stated in this way!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
because I came to this conclusion on my own !!! With this one guy I was dealing with at one point. And I realized I was doing exactly that ! Taking inventory of what he said !!! Never ever again !!!!
@onikapinkk
@onikapinkk 5 жыл бұрын
our sis lookin like a whole meal😍 on fleek!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
☺️😘🥰 thank you babe !!!!!
@kinyeddahairston1398
@kinyeddahairston1398 5 жыл бұрын
If i could like this a 1000 times I would
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Awwww babe thank youuu
@lindaalice6137
@lindaalice6137 5 жыл бұрын
Please do a make up tutorial. I like your natural look. :)
@sunshine-td1hr
@sunshine-td1hr 5 жыл бұрын
but not good enough to be my girlfriend ... thanks girl this opened my eyes❤️
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
;)
@xmlax1
@xmlax1 5 жыл бұрын
Wasted 4 years but had a beautiful kid out of it and I'm in the best mindset I've been in a while
@amenataa
@amenataa 5 жыл бұрын
Same situation. Married to him for 4 yrs and had a beautiful son but I'm so happy his chapter in my life as "husband" is OVER.
@speadlove7194
@speadlove7194 5 жыл бұрын
Sisssss you are soo pretty and how are ur teeth soooo white ???😍 like I need some tips
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
spead love not only are they white they are straight and a straight line. They’re so beautiful I even thought they were dentures.
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Dentures 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m crying no I had Invisalign and I also had them bleached ♥️
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuu babe !!!! Bleach !!!! And I use a certain brand tooth powder called “ eco dent “
@amandlela9466
@amandlela9466 5 жыл бұрын
The key is to Set a goal! Date with a purpose. If he ain't ticking the boxes, cut him off!!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Period !
@denellf
@denellf 5 жыл бұрын
Asha C. and Breeny Lee are the best!!!!!!💗
@sariyahsworld_
@sariyahsworld_ 5 жыл бұрын
Around 28:00 I literally got so emotional because every word you were saying was like you were talking directly to me. As soon as I realized my self esteem was being lowered because of that person, I knew I had to let go, but that's crazy because that's exactly how I felt in that situation.
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
awww babe ❤️❤️❤️
@shardemichelcollins8071
@shardemichelcollins8071 5 жыл бұрын
YALL THIS IS NOTHING BUT PURE FACTS🗣
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Angel !!!!!♥️♥️♥️
@ntsebengmothoana6767
@ntsebengmothoana6767 5 жыл бұрын
I could listen to you the whole day Asha, your videos are bringing so much difference in my life. I love you
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Awww thank you so much babe !!!!!! I love you too !!!!!!
@alexzandra-fallonallen317
@alexzandra-fallonallen317 5 жыл бұрын
Very true believe patterns and study actions. Yeah, you only feel played when you don't have a Rooster.
@AboveRubiesTV
@AboveRubiesTV 5 жыл бұрын
Ok, so I thought I only wanted your pearly whites and your intellect, but I think I want your whole life lol You’re so wise, classy, and poised! Go, Asha!!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much babe !!!!! ♥️♥️♥️
@bc1248
@bc1248 4 жыл бұрын
Falling for players has to do with underdevelopment. It’s a sign of being undeveloped and the result helps us to get on the road to inner development. On the kaballah map, falling for players lies in the 4th circle of passive emotion. After the 4th circle is left, after getting played enough times, the next transition is to the 5th circle, the Hermit. Which is where we stay for awhile alone until we gain some perspective of reality as it really is and where we stand in it. And if and when we leave the hermit circle, we are ready to take on life in the proper way.
@ruthenajarroo
@ruthenajarroo 5 жыл бұрын
Wow ASHA ..... Asha the next SUPREME
@belledamebebe
@belledamebebe 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing these values. I was about to call this guy who has hurt me so much. I watched this video and it helped me snap back out that “spell”.
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
I’m so proud of you babe !!!!!!👸🏽
@keniasharpe1610
@keniasharpe1610 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I stumbled on your page a few years ago but I will definitely give this advice to my daughter
@faithagbarakwe3800
@faithagbarakwe3800 5 жыл бұрын
Asha be literally speaking to my soul! Love from Nigeria ❤
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
I am glad that shows through my videos ! Thank you babe ♥️
@emilyd871
@emilyd871 5 жыл бұрын
You really just exposed players out here sis, thank you.
@marianrising5557
@marianrising5557 5 жыл бұрын
I lost my virginity to a player. 😥 I'm never going to forgive myself for it no matter how much I level up. I used to feel like I failed as a female because I've never really had a boyfriend, but letting go of the idea of trying to get one has made my life easier. I just need money to keep me happy now.
@evelynodhiambo2818
@evelynodhiambo2818 5 жыл бұрын
If you love yourself you will forgive yourself and attract better
@serwaahakuamarva8683
@serwaahakuamarva8683 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@nishi931
@nishi931 5 жыл бұрын
I was played too but I learned from that and now I am happily married with so who loves me...so in the end it all doesn’t matter. Just love urself!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Awww babe you will recover you will forgive yourself ! We all go through things ! What matters is that we LEARN and don’t repeat our mistakes ! You need to forgive yourself to be FREE! Trust me I’m very hard on myself and I realize I need to be free I can’t keep holding on to things I feel I regret because it happened ! I am happy I’m healthy I am blessed I am loved and I am FREE and so are you ! You are not your past you are not your mistakes! You are an over comer ! You are forgiven ! And I forgive you ! So you forgive you today !!!! Chains are broken when you do this ! Ask God to give you peace and the ability to forgive yourself and to set you free ! ♥️
@jauimperfect1132
@jauimperfect1132 5 жыл бұрын
@@AshaChristinaFoster Thank you...it wasn't mine but l healed
@mariap6427
@mariap6427 5 жыл бұрын
Keeping it all the way REAL 👏
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
only and always babe!!!!😘❤️
@alexandra.belshe
@alexandra.belshe 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been binge watching you all day but the second you said “he will tell the good girl she will be a good wife some day” it clicked. Thank you!
@quenlygalarosa8046
@quenlygalarosa8046 3 жыл бұрын
I just hope I found your channel sooner, cause right now, I'm really agreeing with you. You're on point.
@HeartandHomeofJess
@HeartandHomeofJess 4 жыл бұрын
The truth is simple, lies are complicated. If it feels difficult and complicated, it’s not the truth. The truth shall set you free! We gotta stop giving guys the benefit of the doubt bc if a guy wants you, he won’t need a benefit of the doubt. He will rise to the occasion. He’ll make sure you know he wants you. If not a hard yes, issa hard no!
@ceceliadelledera9912
@ceceliadelledera9912 5 жыл бұрын
I just started watching your videos and I gotta say the advice is solid, empowering, and I love how you phrase things! What she says makes so much sense for real
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Awwwww thank youuuuu♥️🤗
@wendychanda8847
@wendychanda8847 4 жыл бұрын
Why didn't I watch this video 2 weeks ago 😭😭😭😭😭he played me so hard wow!!!!
@pure-pisces9470
@pure-pisces9470 4 жыл бұрын
Spot on!! Manipulation, dismiss, confusion, deception, misleading, lying,🙄...."oh but we have a connection" "oh but we arent dating" Thanks for confirming!! I feel like crap for accepting & allowing 😪
@fundssum331
@fundssum331 5 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is that your intuition tells you all of this 😩😩😩but you still want to explore and stay and get your heart broken
@mercedeslong4178
@mercedeslong4178 5 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Musa yes gurl smh
@Taifelire
@Taifelire 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Asha ❤ this is EXACTLY what I needed right now. My dumb ex called me last night to talk about his problems with his new girl and his insecurities after he dumped me and told me he didn't want anything to do with me! and actually had the nerve to tell me "Oh I'm calling you but don't confuse things" What I decided is that I'm gonna ghost him and if he keeps calling I'm gonna tell him he's choosing the wrong person to play these type of games and finally end it, this is so stupid 😪😪😪 Great vid! Thank you again 💌💕
@advbiblicalfem
@advbiblicalfem 5 жыл бұрын
Asha ❤️, there’s still people that have the title and they get treated the exact same way.
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so sad and true :/
@not0rius218
@not0rius218 5 жыл бұрын
If only I would have watched this video 2 weeks ago I would have avoided so much heartache 😭 oh well it's never too late! Thanks for the vid girl 💜
@jessicajenkins1335
@jessicajenkins1335 5 жыл бұрын
You're super pretty!!💯
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you !!!!!
@_shesgolden_5744
@_shesgolden_5744 5 жыл бұрын
Crazy this past Valentine’s Day three days before Valentine’s Day this guy asked me ooh what are you doing for Valentine’s Day then ghosted me and on vday I wokeup to seeing on his ig a whole girlfriend that I never heard about crazy as fuxk... I wish this video was out before but you live and you learn . Thank you ❤️ much love A-Team
@_shesgolden_5744
@_shesgolden_5744 5 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you Cocoachica32 . It made me stronger and now that I know these things 2019 so on I won’t be so naive and more cautious. Whewww some of these men are ridiculous.
@Sara-vh6sq
@Sara-vh6sq 5 жыл бұрын
These men are disgusting! You are beautiful sis! Better you found out sooner than later.....just sit back and watch their actions and always keep your options open!
@_shesgolden_5744
@_shesgolden_5744 5 жыл бұрын
Yaya B thank you ❤️yes I know I told the girl as well cause she had no idea and she got mad at me and she accepted it and now they back together I’m like how can you be okay with someone cheating on you not the problem
@Sara-vh6sq
@Sara-vh6sq 5 жыл бұрын
She got no self love girl. U did the right thing. It's on her now!
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 5 жыл бұрын
_Shes Golden_ this guy I was dating made me drive 5 hours to go meet him on Xmas and when I got there he was a no show. He stood me up in Xmas. He ghosted me and changed his number.
@Rah-v9n
@Rah-v9n 5 жыл бұрын
Best big sis advice 💚‼️
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
That’s right babe ! ♥️
@cantrellbarney6313
@cantrellbarney6313 3 жыл бұрын
I are so on point with these players Everything u are saying exactly true
@tavi5841
@tavi5841 5 жыл бұрын
Your videos open my eyes to a lot of things
@yajairacruz-guardo1255
@yajairacruz-guardo1255 4 жыл бұрын
Words are on point. Job well done in explaining with amazing detail!!
@LarennPBel
@LarennPBel 2 жыл бұрын
yup urt right
@kathryneileen3378
@kathryneileen3378 4 жыл бұрын
You are a God sent! Thank you for sharing your perspective
@redcorridor566
@redcorridor566 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a good look on you, u can really pull off those bangs! Also this video like your other videos is the advice every girl NEEDS TO HEAR. u got a gift! Love your content!
@jkllfdsa
@jkllfdsa 5 жыл бұрын
Bravo! Where were you & KZbin & the Internet when I needed this info? I'm 59 & just within the past few years do I *finally* get & say AMEN to everything you say. You go girl! You need to be giving talks to h.s. & college age girls everywhere! It took me *25* years of marriage to finally understand all this & up & leave him. Life so much better & far less stress.
@XoXoJessicaSantiago
@XoXoJessicaSantiago 5 жыл бұрын
Hello my darling loving the look. Yes to the makeup.
@nalus5192
@nalus5192 5 жыл бұрын
Whoa were we dealing with the same guy? I'm so glad I've finally moved on 🙌🏾
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Babe ME TOOOOO!!!!!!
@graceg4996
@graceg4996 5 жыл бұрын
Players mind games are mental aerobics, way too much work for an overgrown toddler 😂
@nubianQueen009
@nubianQueen009 5 жыл бұрын
You're hitting on things girl. God bless you. I feel this vid was made for me
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Angel ♥️
@sonsch
@sonsch 5 жыл бұрын
girl, you're my saviour! thank you so much for sharing your experiences and your advice! much love
@SmarttraderFX
@SmarttraderFX 5 жыл бұрын
Asha your showing me your so much more evolved, its my first time on your youtube page and you got a follower, cause your so much more than I expected... Thank you for touching my heart, I am on a 3rd party situation and I just learned and I think she's my soul mate but now I'm going to walk away cause u showed me she is chasing a player and she just told me she is one of the 3 girls she found out she was being played on, and she is still not coming clean emotionally so I'm walking away
@breescurry5246
@breescurry5246 5 жыл бұрын
Yes sis and another one!!!
@Xoxobabes09991
@Xoxobabes09991 5 жыл бұрын
Your smile is contagious ❤️😃
@lesliewade3854
@lesliewade3854 5 жыл бұрын
Wowwww!!! This entire video just hit me so hard in my face!!!! I love your content. This is sooo uplifting and inspiring. We as women allow ourselves to get caught up in a man!s bs that we completely lose ourselves in HIS world! Never again!!! Thank you so much for this info!
@lovewins699
@lovewins699 4 жыл бұрын
I just started following you a couple of days ago, and you're so on point!! I love your content. So many women especially, needs to here all of your videos....keep up the good work!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you babe ☺️
@boundlessfaith6598
@boundlessfaith6598 5 жыл бұрын
this is so trueeeee!!!!! everything! this is why I ghosted him and I am so proud of myself that I have!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you too 👸🏽👸🏽👸🏽♥️
@lovethyself3989
@lovethyself3989 4 жыл бұрын
The hair💖 gorgeous
@robertandrocky5004
@robertandrocky5004 4 жыл бұрын
Keeping someone anxient and confused are the signs of narsasism
@bjewel3751
@bjewel3751 5 жыл бұрын
You’re soooo beautiful and intelligent, thanks for empowering women around the world! 💖
@mariaimdrunk__
@mariaimdrunk__ 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 19 and been in that situation where he tried to have a hold on me but wouldn’t make me his gf. I just thought he wanted me cause he wouldn’t leave me alone. I’m trying to get over him and it’s hard but I know I have my whole life ahead of me.
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Angel very important thing to note that you said was he would hold on to you and you thought it was bc he wanted you but he wouldn’t make it official, that is A VALUABLE lesson to learn ! Now you know better ! Don’t fall into the into the position of being a long time situation ship! It’s more common than you can imagine ! Trust me ! You’re still young infact perfect age! To do better ! ♥️☺️♥️
@mariaimdrunk__
@mariaimdrunk__ 5 жыл бұрын
Update he has a gf now FEELINGS HURT.
@chichi3963
@chichi3963 5 жыл бұрын
Mikayla K. Hope you’re doing okay :/
@danijasthestylist1991
@danijasthestylist1991 5 жыл бұрын
Everything you've said is beyond true and I'm just so thankful that somebody else is shedding light on it cause for a while I thought I was going crazy but you hit everything on the nose🙌🏽🙌🏽 I'm happy to be a new Subie and p.s your so gorgeous 💋
@verigabs
@verigabs 5 жыл бұрын
Looooved the video. I love your conviction 💁🏻🌷
@fakhrazarin6986
@fakhrazarin6986 5 жыл бұрын
Every single word of this video is true n I personally experience all of it thnx asha for this video means alot keep up the good work
@bd3966
@bd3966 5 жыл бұрын
"If something is meant to be it will flow, easy. It wont be this inexplicable tug of war between you and this person you desire" Yaaasss this hit home, I have made so many excuses for this guy!! I feel so liberated! You're such a blessing to us.
@chisuwochabu250
@chisuwochabu250 5 жыл бұрын
Am here for all of this, yaaaaasssss sis!!!😍🤩
@kranikent9518
@kranikent9518 5 жыл бұрын
Players on both sides...Quality stuff👍
@ShiaGirl18
@ShiaGirl18 4 жыл бұрын
I know of a male who constantly says "Let's see where it goes." This statement is also said outside of the parameters of an intimate relationship. That has always been a red flag for me.
@emiiheaven
@emiiheaven 5 жыл бұрын
You’re so stunning
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Awwww thank you so much !!!!!!
@karmicperspective
@karmicperspective 5 жыл бұрын
Bihhh why was the man I need to cut off name is Tony. Lmfaooo my heart is about to explode this video was too reallll
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
I was in the spirit !!!!!!! You were meant to see this babe !!!! 😂
@Qshleyk
@Qshleyk 5 жыл бұрын
love ittt♥️
@ItsJbbysLife
@ItsJbbysLife 5 жыл бұрын
Definitely gained a new subscriber ❤️
@shaqj.8197
@shaqj.8197 5 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!! THIS WAS GREAT!!
@mimi-ps1yo
@mimi-ps1yo 5 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on dressing classy?
@ntombitsotetsi4080
@ntombitsotetsi4080 5 жыл бұрын
Sis, your content is GOLD 😭🔥. The facts? Wow 💯
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you babe !!!!!!♥️
@Lekebia
@Lekebia 4 жыл бұрын
Lingering Bed Bug😂😭😭. Tooooo funny!
@Lifeofalishaa
@Lifeofalishaa 5 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on single women dating men with kids and them still being involved with the child’s mother..
@Sara-vh6sq
@Sara-vh6sq 5 жыл бұрын
Good suggestion!
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh babe :/ that’s a no go 🙅 easier said than done but he will always go back and forth with you two ! :/ especially bc they have a kid !
@saidichahinez1484
@saidichahinez1484 4 жыл бұрын
Girlll U helped me ❤
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