Manipulative Men & How to Spot One!

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Asha Christina

Asha Christina

Күн бұрын

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@penelopewiggins7198
@penelopewiggins7198 5 жыл бұрын
Manipulative men don’t just go for women with low self esteem, they get a kick out of seeing a happy confident young woman change into a former shell of herself
@lizaneva3065
@lizaneva3065 5 жыл бұрын
Yes............
@missminti
@missminti 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. Yes. I was a shadow of my former self within months
@afenismama
@afenismama 4 жыл бұрын
This.
@camilletejeda
@camilletejeda 4 жыл бұрын
tea!!!
@cajunnbeauty
@cajunnbeauty 4 жыл бұрын
@@lizaneva3065 Eliza babe!!!! You hit it on the head!!!!!
@KCelyce
@KCelyce 5 жыл бұрын
Things that have kept my life on track since my break up: 1. Asha’s videos 2. Wine 3. Focusing on Myself 4. Asha’s videos
@Indigobliss377
@Indigobliss377 5 жыл бұрын
Facts facts facts
@trudy_triad
@trudy_triad 5 жыл бұрын
💗
@Nic-zs9yf
@Nic-zs9yf 5 жыл бұрын
Girl all facts lol
@brendatrejo3935
@brendatrejo3935 4 жыл бұрын
Omgee Kiki I also watch your youtube videos! I love both of you girls😍💖💖
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 4 жыл бұрын
Hi I’m just seeing this THANK YOU BABEEEE ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@elliedee8829
@elliedee8829 5 жыл бұрын
You can't change a narcissist, just run. They are emotional abusers and toxic.
@artsyhyd
@artsyhyd 5 жыл бұрын
So he was truly a manipulator: he gave me the Silent treatment; he ghosted me, but guess what I ghosted him back and not even checking on his social media, and moving on, feels so good! Thanks next!
@tshaolin971
@tshaolin971 5 жыл бұрын
If he ghosted you it wasn't a treatment he just finished dealing with you. But what's sad is this ghosting culture nonsense, this won't make you a great human being at all @PartyForever21.
@Rania-err3
@Rania-err3 5 жыл бұрын
PartyForever this is not a manipulator this is just a not interested guy, gurl.
@lunateelizabethsoans4839
@lunateelizabethsoans4839 4 жыл бұрын
Yaaas queen 😘❤❤
@Patricia-cp2zg
@Patricia-cp2zg 4 жыл бұрын
Do not listen to this people. In psychology is known that ghosting and silent treatments are forms of manipulation. A healthy person will put into words if they don't want you in their lives.
@linahernandez6913
@linahernandez6913 4 жыл бұрын
There is a troll in here 😂
@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy
@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy 5 жыл бұрын
Omg this is spot on!!! Narcissistic men always try to flip situations around on you. But we as women always know the truth in our hearts. Btw the quality on this camera is amazing 🙌🏾
@Lishamisha22
@Lishamisha22 5 жыл бұрын
Wine and Wisdom this is true!!! They will use what you do, say and what THEY do and say against you!
@samia6888
@samia6888 4 жыл бұрын
Very true. My ex's last words to me were "you did this to yourself."
@mies626
@mies626 5 жыл бұрын
Sis being all professional and prettier than ever. Do we stan? We stan. Periodt. Point. Blank.
@trudy_triad
@trudy_triad 5 жыл бұрын
We have no choice, sis. 🙌
@lovelylinda8891
@lovelylinda8891 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 4 жыл бұрын
Awww thank you ☺️
@sheilaisaac1283
@sheilaisaac1283 4 жыл бұрын
@@trudy_triad q
@BRIDGETUHMYEAH
@BRIDGETUHMYEAH 4 жыл бұрын
My ex would dismiss all my concerns or feelings and chalked it up to the stereotype that women are insecure, jealous and over analyze things
@AliciaMully
@AliciaMully 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh! So annoying & dismissive
@girlcodebymartha
@girlcodebymartha 3 жыл бұрын
Def can relate to this
@AmberBrooklyn24
@AmberBrooklyn24 5 жыл бұрын
I’m in public watching this, trying not to tear up. My boyfriend is definitely manipulative. He gives me the silent treatment, he makes it seem like I’m crazy or overreacting when I get upset when I know that I’m not. Whenever I’m on the phone or texting someone and he asks who I’m talking to, I always let him know so that he doesn’t think that I’m talking to another guy. I was at his house yesterday, he went in the other room to talk on the phone and seemed a little secretive to me. When he got off the phone I asked who he was speaking to and he only said “my peoples” but wouldn’t tell me WHO. I got up and left because I’m just so fed up from other things. Now he’s acting like I’m wrong for feeling suspicious about it. Tired of him acting like my feelings are wrong 😤
@kittyearsheadbands8810
@kittyearsheadbands8810 5 жыл бұрын
Amber Brooklyn leave the dusties behind he’s never going to change
@javamama7
@javamama7 5 жыл бұрын
Amber Brooklyn Run, sis. Please run!
@AmberBrooklyn24
@AmberBrooklyn24 5 жыл бұрын
javamama7 You’re so right girl 🤦🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️
@wendychanda8847
@wendychanda8847 5 жыл бұрын
exactly what am going through, sis let's run out of these situations early enough ... they try to make sure ur obsessed with them and fully under their control..and most of the guys that do this are those you've compromised ur life for ...he ain't worth it , let's move on even with tears in our eyes .. we'll be fine
@AmberBrooklyn24
@AmberBrooklyn24 5 жыл бұрын
she's here seeking knowledge You’re so right sis! It’s getting tiring. They only want to shape up when they see us ready to walk away and end it smh Because they know the ones they take for granted are the ones they need the most. Yes sis, we will definitely be fine.
@donellechirose6500
@donellechirose6500 5 жыл бұрын
Your videos turned me from a door mat😂 to a quality queen with class These guys are begging for second chances Keep being that amazing soul and thank you for the wonderful content 😍❤
@imsoy2k
@imsoy2k 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂💯
@Similo
@Similo 5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!!!!
@biggieshorty
@biggieshorty 5 жыл бұрын
They ALWAYS come back the more feminine and ladylike you are about getting rid of them. Make em pay.
@donellechirose6500
@donellechirose6500 5 жыл бұрын
True story 😂❤ but I'm grateful
@mishkah9893
@mishkah9893 5 жыл бұрын
Love your story!!!😍 yasss 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@misshouda1740
@misshouda1740 5 жыл бұрын
men respond to action mirroring him is the best answer I love it it's my favorite law from the 48 laws of power
@angeleyes3386
@angeleyes3386 5 жыл бұрын
Houda Bouraya I did that and it drove him crazy. He even said that he finally found someone whose demons were as big as his (another manipulative move on his part but I got his attention: I see you nigga)
@haitiangal1361
@haitiangal1361 5 жыл бұрын
I did that and he called me a demon, and said he hated me. I guess that proves he hates himself 😂
@purplekitty
@purplekitty 5 жыл бұрын
Houda Bouraya I just got that book to learn for business glad to know it’s helps with personal relationships too!
@AliciaMully
@AliciaMully 3 жыл бұрын
Mirroring always gets the point across fastest....don't complain, mirror & if they react the same you have a door to dialogue. The good ones see their errors, manipulators get angry.
@jockmaraisasmr5700
@jockmaraisasmr5700 5 жыл бұрын
“Having to check in about the date HE set for YOU. Manipulation”. Whew. This hits hard. It just happened to me. A man I was seeing had all these ideas and expressions about wanting to go on specific dates and seemed so genuine but guess who had to check in and initiate it into happening? Not him! And guess who ended up serving some bullshit excuse to bail last minute? Not me! And literally my intuition was telling me this would happen all along. I need to stop thinking my intuition is just me being anxious and paranoid. It’s always right.
@kristabistaify
@kristabistaify 2 жыл бұрын
This!!!!! I hear u!!!
@TheSomethingnew1
@TheSomethingnew1 5 жыл бұрын
Ok this is your best look yet! Hair lit, makeup lit, background lit, quality lit 😍😍😍😍😍 Also, the NUMBER 1 way to be manipulated is to have weak boundaries. Think of yourself as a gated community that certain people have access to. And they only have access because you granted them permission/allowed them to enter. Protect yourselves. Be stingy.
@ketinarenea8499
@ketinarenea8499 5 жыл бұрын
Love the gated community analogy.
@rickimcfarland2269
@rickimcfarland2269 5 жыл бұрын
Yes I'm loving the gated community analogy as well. Protect your psyche at all costs ladies.
@jchris4090
@jchris4090 4 жыл бұрын
Yea be stingy
@ShiaGirl18
@ShiaGirl18 4 жыл бұрын
I love this analogy. Thank you!!!!!!
@Shayynea0817
@Shayynea0817 5 жыл бұрын
Gaslighting can take on so much more forms than words. If you live with someone, some people will switch around your items to make you believe that you didn't place things where you once did and take things from you just so they will make you seem that you're unorganized and careless. It's a small, but powerful tactic to make people lose their sense of self. It is so important to look up narcissistic, manipulative tactics (especially from the dark triad) and gaslighting when dating to protect yourself from these people. Great Video, Asha!
@daniellausoro284
@daniellausoro284 5 жыл бұрын
Pls can i know some of these tactics. Thnks
@Lishamisha22
@Lishamisha22 5 жыл бұрын
Had this happen to me while I lived with family. My backpack, scarf, faux pearls , bus card etc.
@Shayynea0817
@Shayynea0817 5 жыл бұрын
@@Lishamisha22 I'm so sorry to hear about that. It's among the worst things when the ultimate manipulation comes from your closest family members. Just know that what they did had absolutely nothing to do with you, some people just do cruel things. I hope that your path to healing is successful and bright.
@jenniferthompson5146
@jenniferthompson5146 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lishamisha22 It is hard to believe that someone would go that far and stoop so low! That is crazy
@nanalightbright
@nanalightbright 5 жыл бұрын
Come through camera quality 😍
@tealifewithgiftedteju6794
@tealifewithgiftedteju6794 5 жыл бұрын
NanaLightBright 🤣😂😂
@Deenaroshell
@Deenaroshell 5 жыл бұрын
My ex-husband was so manipulative and a narcissist haha 😂 I’m so glad I got out of that terrible situation. These are red flags queens. Leave them.
@t.l1357
@t.l1357 5 жыл бұрын
You are on 100!!!!!! Ladies if you feel like your voice or emotions are suppressed....even on your own accord. Manipulation is most likely at play. Get counseling on how to express yourself. This is how you become a high-value woman. A man never betrays his own heart. This is how they are so brazen. Women need to learn this level of self-confidence and love as well without trying to manipulate a person. Stay true to yourself, always ladies. Because a man will always put himself first...no matter what.
@Niqua10023
@Niqua10023 4 жыл бұрын
Because they have no love and lost. So they try to take it from someone else
@shathegem
@shathegem 5 жыл бұрын
you made me come to my senses hun im about to just be single...less stress..done dealing with these type of men
@jadeorsini7748
@jadeorsini7748 5 жыл бұрын
Dated a guy for 7 years+, broke up about 6 months ago, and this really stirred up emotions. I was being manipulated hard. Ouch. Thank you for the advice you provide. This should help me help me heal and help me for my future relationships.
@nxox9519
@nxox9519 5 жыл бұрын
you literaly saved me from going through the same toxic cycle all over again with my manipulative, narcissistic ex. i have been watching all of ur vids and taking notes, and i just wanna say a huge thank you!!!
@wendychanda8847
@wendychanda8847 5 жыл бұрын
N XOX my ex too he made me feel like I don't deserve the love and respect. psssh!!
@christinaedmiston8790
@christinaedmiston8790 5 жыл бұрын
Same! 👏🏽I’ll never go back to him being a guys back up plan thank you, Next
@MissDemi
@MissDemi 5 жыл бұрын
Damn, my ex was literally ALL of these things. No wonder I snapped and left him lol
@barbarahenderson7611
@barbarahenderson7611 4 жыл бұрын
Before we beat one to death we be in jail and he in hell.
@lisa99chabrol93
@lisa99chabrol93 4 жыл бұрын
Lol you are right girl :)
@valenciaallen6646
@valenciaallen6646 5 жыл бұрын
You are 100% totally spot on! Literally, just today.....I stopped dealing with a dude I recently met that began to exhibit this behavior (and he is 48yo). Men do this at all ages and it never gets better. Ladies listen to Asha (and me), know your worth, and cut these dudes off immediately. This type of abusive behavior will take a heavy toll on your mental, emotional, and spiritual health...if you let it continue.
@cuttygang4life59
@cuttygang4life59 5 жыл бұрын
Who’s here before 1k views ? We loyal 🤪
@paigehousee2024
@paigehousee2024 5 жыл бұрын
cuttygang4 Life loyal loyal
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
your the bestttt
@cuttygang4life59
@cuttygang4life59 5 жыл бұрын
Asha C. Omg Thank you but ur honestly the best ur a whole queen and u have helped me a lot so thank you xx❤️
@desislavalazarova1729
@desislavalazarova1729 5 жыл бұрын
Girl we the best❤️❤️
@sierraclark3824
@sierraclark3824 5 жыл бұрын
“Are you well?” My new catchphrase
@KushGGDS
@KushGGDS 5 жыл бұрын
Guys always think I’m going to break their heart then they start acting manipulative towards me because they’re assuming I’m doing wrong
@je39981
@je39981 5 жыл бұрын
They just want to make you seem like the suspect while they play the victim so you can be lenient with them and that's when they start manipulating.
@KushGGDS
@KushGGDS 5 жыл бұрын
smh I see
@vinnie_s8328
@vinnie_s8328 5 жыл бұрын
what you say is low key making me feel angry cause everything is right and i had to deal with every single scenario with my ex.. i din know then .now i know. i wish i had the knowledge then , things would have been different.. for instance he would have lost one fingernail, may be few hair ..lol just kidding..instead i lost few of my brain cells ..never again
@keesha1232
@keesha1232 5 жыл бұрын
Girl he didn’t deserve you! And you’re better off with him out of the picture take care of yourself and be good to yourself.😊 If you see something you really like and it doesn’t put you debt or break the bank buy it for yourself and smile. 😊 you deserve to be happy! Have a great day!❤️
@CR-ce5lf
@CR-ce5lf 5 жыл бұрын
How I feel whenever I watch her videos!!!!! Wish I knew this information in the past Smdh. I know how to move now so that’s what’s most important
@folakebianca
@folakebianca 5 жыл бұрын
This literally gave me confirmation about a guy I ghosted. Thank you so much.
@beccabecca1686
@beccabecca1686 4 жыл бұрын
You’re pretty
@ayaalzubaidi4580
@ayaalzubaidi4580 5 жыл бұрын
I love how you approach the typical topics (that are pretty much introduced in the same way) in a logical and different way. This is what distinguishes you and makes you stand out 💖💖💗💗💕💕💋💋💞💞💓💓😍😍😘😘🎉🎉🎊🎊💜💜♥️♥️💖💖💖
@worshipwithdesta2423
@worshipwithdesta2423 5 жыл бұрын
Watching this after being a victim,😎 you be like😎 the next guy is in trouble cos am not settling for less in the name of being the cool girl or so call protecting the relationship👑👸🏽 team quality queens😉
@JanayDiamond
@JanayDiamond 5 жыл бұрын
I channeled your tips on feminine energy to get a job!!!! Aye! Thanks, girl! 💅🏾🙋🏾‍♀️
@tshaolin971
@tshaolin971 5 жыл бұрын
Nice but how did you do that ? It would be interesting to share your experience if you don't mind.
@Butterfly-cl6wb
@Butterfly-cl6wb 5 жыл бұрын
Wow... 27 people thumbed down. This is pretty sound advice. She couldn't have been more accurate. Must be the MANipulators. Lol
@barbarahenderson7611
@barbarahenderson7611 4 жыл бұрын
It had to be men's with the thumbs down.
@kandycoated6408
@kandycoated6408 3 жыл бұрын
I’m confused as to why they even on this video and in the comments
@AliciaMully
@AliciaMully 3 жыл бұрын
@@kandycoated6408 because they are sharpening their sword i would imagine....
@jassylaquay
@jassylaquay 5 жыл бұрын
I would tell this man no & he would get mad & ignore me. But I learned a lot from you Asha.
@CR-ce5lf
@CR-ce5lf 5 жыл бұрын
This
@wendychanda8847
@wendychanda8847 5 жыл бұрын
same here😭 they make u look crazy
@reynzelcasuga9139
@reynzelcasuga9139 4 жыл бұрын
same hshs.
@chidinmaorie7700
@chidinmaorie7700 2 жыл бұрын
@@wendychanda8847 don't listen to them..
@florzinharebi2134
@florzinharebi2134 5 жыл бұрын
this woman is what I call a WOMAN.
@AliciaMully
@AliciaMully 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@LeticiaLynn_
@LeticiaLynn_ 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, so much truth in this video! I’ve always been so strong and independent. He tells me that I don’t need to be so independent that I act like I don’t need a man. That if I want a man I need to be more submissive. He actually uses spirituality to paint the picture of how a woman should be and that I need to be in my higher state of being to please him.
@MagickalMermaid
@MagickalMermaid 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you left him
@LLCoolJ_25
@LLCoolJ_25 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been talking to a therapist, and I always thought I was the only one being manipulative in the relationship, but when I explained my ex’s behavior, she said he was also emotionally abusive and gaslighting. I’m not gonna pretend I was a great person in the relationship. I gotta work on myself.
@MagickalMermaid
@MagickalMermaid 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! And even when you acknowledge your part, they pretend you never said that!
@Gasconcentrated
@Gasconcentrated 5 жыл бұрын
Gonna start saying no when I'm uncomfortable 👌
@Gasconcentrated
@Gasconcentrated 5 жыл бұрын
*more
@comodemiel
@comodemiel 5 жыл бұрын
I needed you 3 years ago, just ended that relationship last week. Wow, knew he was always manipulative and a narcissist Edit just to say that you’re my favorite KZbinr thank you! 😭💕
@jadebland8040
@jadebland8040 5 жыл бұрын
Can we talk about what a good man is like? Do they exist?? Lol
@tshaolin971
@tshaolin971 5 жыл бұрын
Lol you throw them under the bus everyday and don't even realize !
@mochamommyATX
@mochamommyATX 5 жыл бұрын
You know when you find them. They allow you to shine and take great care of you.
@lordgully5951
@lordgully5951 5 жыл бұрын
Jade Bland the law of attraction may make that a problem
@Xwaterwicca
@Xwaterwicca 4 жыл бұрын
Jade Bland no
@barbarahenderson7611
@barbarahenderson7611 4 жыл бұрын
Yes there are plenty always will be, they will find you.
@lianadeligiannidi5516
@lianadeligiannidi5516 5 жыл бұрын
U R SUCH A QUEEN PERIODT! You say everything i needed to hear when i was in a a toxic relationship in order to let it go
@sbrown804
@sbrown804 5 жыл бұрын
I really experienced the “liking a girls insta photo” scenario it went exactly like that🤧
@fatimacsouare
@fatimacsouare 5 жыл бұрын
Hair is perfect! Lighting is perfect! Makeup on point 👌🏾.
@Always.m.i.a
@Always.m.i.a 5 жыл бұрын
Welp too late for me, almost 3kids later. I'm definitely guilty of some of those titles in the beginning (pick me patty, no boundaries betty, ect.) Living and learning thanks sis.
@iloveplatano
@iloveplatano 4 жыл бұрын
Good thing is you have 3 and not 5 like my mother at 29. She kept dating shit men because she had 5 kids and thought no one would value her. She's in her 40s now still dating shit men and all her kids are grown and out of the house. Try to focus on the positive. I hope this helps.
@katarinakovrlija3372
@katarinakovrlija3372 5 жыл бұрын
Woooow!! What you said about how we subconsciously feel like we OWE something to someone that makes us feel seen and makes us feel like we ARE loveable for who we really are without the mask so somehow we have to insure that this person stays.... That really spoke to me. I love how analytical you are and how you're always spitting the cold hard facts! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Ps: could you do a video only about boundaries, what they should be and how to set them? I think it would benefit a lot of girls. Ly queen ❤️❤️❤️
@Sam-vm9kh
@Sam-vm9kh 5 жыл бұрын
Wow. Just broke up w my ex due to this. Narcissistic tendencies, manipulated me very well 😭💔 broke me for the next person. I'm sad
@wendychanda8847
@wendychanda8847 5 жыл бұрын
Sam 92 It hurts me too I found him broken and fixed him.. but he broke me for the next person too.. am scared I won't open up to anyone else in life but I think every new person needs to feel a pure fresh me coz it wasn't their fault my ex was toxic
@sahidalovesyou
@sahidalovesyou 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Asha I'm breaking up with my boyfriend, and getting baptized😊
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Awww congrats on your baptism babe 💕
@sahidalovesyou
@sahidalovesyou 5 жыл бұрын
❤️🙌🏽
@kenishahammond3935
@kenishahammond3935 5 жыл бұрын
Been there and done that. I ended up shutting him down. He showed his ass in 2 weeks. Pssshhh I kept it moving.
@keumaniroston6320
@keumaniroston6320 5 жыл бұрын
She sound like shes been in most of these scenarios she’s explaining
@elenapopovic6261
@elenapopovic6261 5 жыл бұрын
Almost every woman has been in at least one. Cause these behaviors are endemic in men
@londiwes.1598
@londiwes.1598 5 жыл бұрын
I love the new quality and background! Yes queen, or should I say “yes quality queen!” ? 😹
@akani398
@akani398 5 жыл бұрын
This was me, makes me cry I even found a girl he claimed was a friend, the girl was half naked
@akani398
@akani398 5 жыл бұрын
He never owned up to anything everything was my fault even the physical abuse was my fault. I didn't see it then and no one understands
@AliciaMully
@AliciaMully 3 жыл бұрын
@@akani398 i hope you got out of that situation ok.
@BeingDestinie
@BeingDestinie 5 жыл бұрын
YES YOU HAVE DELIVERED ONCE AGAIN! I have been patiently waiting for this, and you are killing the game sis
@eleonoremississo6922
@eleonoremississo6922 5 жыл бұрын
Literally what I was literally waiting for. WHAT ABOUT THATTT!! Am just saying.
@sashaross4149
@sashaross4149 5 жыл бұрын
First boyfriend and he's already doing that. Hello, you may be my first boyfriend but I love myself and will not let you play me 😊
@charniecearielle
@charniecearielle 5 жыл бұрын
After binge watching your videos, I have decided to start a “chapter” of Quality Queens in the Washington DC/ DMV area. It’s almost scary how we have the same views as far as spirituality and dating. I know I was divinely guided to your channel. I plan to alert members to your content as I assist in guiding them! Thank you for your work and inspiring me to start this movement 😘
@cheyc2270
@cheyc2270 5 жыл бұрын
You’re so dope!!! Thank you for this video! My ex totally manipulated me. All of these things occurred in my relationship. I always knew that something was off but I really cared about him so I put up with it. Never again!!!!
@wendychanda8847
@wendychanda8847 5 жыл бұрын
Love your vids but this one has lit a flame in me. thanks sis for sharing this content.. you're helping many people... you're gaining your blessings from God through helping us who are losing it in life..
@MollyMachete
@MollyMachete 5 жыл бұрын
Asha your impressions of the guys are SO ACCURATE. Bahahaahha girl I love you and awesome upgrade on the camera and background I love it!
@ellaantwan
@ellaantwan 5 жыл бұрын
girl you have helped me through so much❤️
@biggieshorty
@biggieshorty 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent. NEVER let these guys get the best of you with their mind games. You don't have to be unladylike at all because it hurts more when you're gracious and serve direct blows with your actions that show him you are not the one to play with. 💌🖤
@jadecroghan3708
@jadecroghan3708 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely obsessed with your videos! You inspire me so much ❤️
@fayadpalos2420
@fayadpalos2420 4 жыл бұрын
Thorough. Smart. Assertive. That tough and sincere love we needed to hear. Bravo mama!!🙏🏽💛👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@icyblue8
@icyblue8 5 жыл бұрын
So on point. Hair is uber amazing with perfect placement (ever so slightly behind or at the hairline 🔑 ). Literally, 🔥
@Kiahlaflame
@Kiahlaflame 5 жыл бұрын
Any videos on gaslighting specfically? New hair new backdrop, yes this is cute!
@kenyaonkoba9713
@kenyaonkoba9713 Жыл бұрын
omg i was in a relationship with a lawyer. / law student and winning arguments would be a struggle. i really didnt realize how much damage was being done until i broke up with him, but i second guessed my decisions, and that + low self worth + somehow i got a lawyer at a low point in life? it was a roller coaster for sure. you not only hit topics but you get extremly specific in a way thats truly amazing. i love u so much. you and ms bailey have raised me and helped me be a stronger woman. sending you endless love!!! thank you for all you do. sipping on some japense wine getting all this TEA!!!!!!
@kenyaonkoba9713
@kenyaonkoba9713 Жыл бұрын
i just got out the situationship with him and i found myself being okay with shit i wasnt okay with to delay letting him go, and yeah not worth it but worth the wisdom. but lawyers aint the best liars to me, since im a woman and idk something about intuition and those dreams trumps their earthy “knowledge” LMAOOO 😭😭😭
@Sam-vm9kh
@Sam-vm9kh 5 жыл бұрын
Asha! You are way too smart I swear. Everything u say got me feeling like yes girl I relate, I just broke up w my ex because he is a veeeery manipulative person. I love and miss him but I need to move on.
@WaffleHouseYellow
@WaffleHouseYellow 5 жыл бұрын
This whole video describes the virgo man😭😩. Tell me I'm lying🥴
@rinnemichelle946
@rinnemichelle946 5 жыл бұрын
S M. What u know about Virgo men? 😂😭U right tho. facts!
@jennyk4428
@jennyk4428 5 жыл бұрын
Gemini??
@frombehindtheveil7295
@frombehindtheveil7295 5 жыл бұрын
U ain't lyin
@jasminebree8740
@jasminebree8740 5 жыл бұрын
OMG ❗❗
@nijahsade
@nijahsade 5 жыл бұрын
S M. Leo too
@sunimills9793
@sunimills9793 5 жыл бұрын
Feeling like you owe them something for them letting you be you...girl!! You hit the nail on the head with that one
@ten25.
@ten25. 5 жыл бұрын
My ex did EVERYTHING on this list. Wow.
@Kassiex5
@Kassiex5 3 жыл бұрын
I struggle with this with guys of interest, peers, and family, especially parents smh.. and I believe the inability to stand up for yourself and be confident in how you feel stems from your relationship with your parents or parent- figures. So if you struggle with that with them, then you’re likely to struggle with it with anyone else in your life... but how do you overcome and not let how you’ve been raised be a hindrance for you? That’s the big question that needs an answer, too.. but I guess it’s the same as what Asha said: get comfortable with saying what you’re not comfortable with; with saying no.... stand up and believe in your intuition and how you feel . Thanks Asha 🤗
@MissssTai
@MissssTai 4 жыл бұрын
What you said about sticking around because the person let’s you be you really HIT me. I put up with a lot of BS because a guy accepted some really hard truths about me. I thought no one would ever accept these things about me so pandered after him. I didn’t know it was being used as leverage. Our situationship consisted of me having to prove my love for him while he did minimal. Doing what he asked just made him devalue me more and more even though I was trying to make him happy. It was hard to let him go but I had too. His low self- esteem and constant mind games were draining.
@alisebaidekalne8195
@alisebaidekalne8195 5 жыл бұрын
Watched a video and thought "ive been with all types of manipulative men." So the next thing i thought was "what is a healthy man like..." 😂😂
@calmate9417
@calmate9417 5 жыл бұрын
Wow i'm realizing so much. I watch your video not for avoiding being played but to unlearn toxic behavior.
@Ndrl888
@Ndrl888 5 жыл бұрын
Asha literally changed me for better woman like. Cant imagine my life without knowing important things
@selflovedais
@selflovedais 4 жыл бұрын
Asha is really my girl you are hilarious and serious and you get it,you understand so well how men work.
@brittanytiera3299
@brittanytiera3299 5 жыл бұрын
Hair is bomb 😍😍😍😍😍
@afenismama
@afenismama 4 жыл бұрын
Omg YAS!
@urbanfxshion
@urbanfxshion 5 жыл бұрын
100k is right around the corner woop woop🥳🥳❤️
@missmayajessica
@missmayajessica 3 жыл бұрын
Gurrrll! I was having a Hallelujah moment! All sooo true!
@Aariyan096
@Aariyan096 5 жыл бұрын
When you mentioned the other girl in his house, I was like that’s when you do the whole Monica act: kick down your doors act🤣
@akhualollhipop4147
@akhualollhipop4147 5 жыл бұрын
Tnks sis u hit the nail right on it head,I can relate to this
@ferociouscherub9819
@ferociouscherub9819 5 жыл бұрын
Love the new look, set up, camera quality, etc… Keep up the good work!! 👍🏾
@SeeShells79
@SeeShells79 5 жыл бұрын
Makeup, hair, outfit, background and info all on point!!! Yesssss 🙌🏽
@dominique4473
@dominique4473 2 жыл бұрын
You’re awesome!! I said goodbye to my ex because he was so manipulative! I decided months ago to take control of my life and set boundaries with those toxic people!! My ex thought it was okay to like half naked woman and comment on Instagram. He told me I was insecure! Ugh…no…it’s called RESPECT!
@ginalienn1112
@ginalienn1112 5 жыл бұрын
Okay first of the all, the hair is poppin. 🙌🏼💁🏽‍♀️ Also, could you please do a topic on how to be content while being single
@AshaChristinaFoster
@AshaChristinaFoster 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Gina !!!! ♥️♥️♥️ ahh I think this is a good topic to address !
@amoranaja
@amoranaja 5 жыл бұрын
WOWWWWW THE QUALITY. I am GAGGING! 💞
@nicolebotelho3959
@nicolebotelho3959 5 жыл бұрын
I felt this in a deeper level cuz been there seen that
@exceLLagiOOne
@exceLLagiOOne 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your advice. If you are bothered and something feels wrong, than it is wrong, no matter what he says
@janna701
@janna701 5 жыл бұрын
The quality of your content PLUS video quality 👌you’re the best !
@stephe.8818
@stephe.8818 5 жыл бұрын
I just love you! You're teaching is helping a lot of women to know their worth😍
@linahernandez6913
@linahernandez6913 4 жыл бұрын
Wow she left me speechless that’s practically people I have dated
@tiarawells5327
@tiarawells5327 5 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite videos of yours, Asha!!!!! Thank you! 🌺
@Lucecita-x5r
@Lucecita-x5r 5 жыл бұрын
I’m literally in tears watching this because my ex of three years that I broke up with in March did literally everything you said in this video, he checked all the boxes... I could never communicate with him because he would shut me out, ignore me, until I apologized to him for what he did to me. That hurt the most.
@catherinepatton8699
@catherinepatton8699 5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you had to learn the lesson the hard way. You now its not you never was. You never have to repeate it. Live your life in knowledge giving strength and courage to other young women. You will become stronger & loving. YOU NOW KNOW 😊 Grandma
@Love.Protagonist
@Love.Protagonist Жыл бұрын
When my ex did all of these things, but always had a nice facade and pretended that he was extra mature and I was the crazy one. I‘m glad I dumped him because I listened to my intuition and asked friends for an objective opinion even without watching this video. But now I feel fully validated.
@rubystone849
@rubystone849 5 жыл бұрын
The remarks vs sense of humor 🔥🔥🔥🔥take NOTES oh u fake fake that's how u really feel about me ohhhhhwwwoo okayyy
@soluvlyxoxo
@soluvlyxoxo 5 жыл бұрын
Love the background and the hair definitely looks alot better. 👍🏻
@darkrosesubliminals
@darkrosesubliminals 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. Most likely an undeveloped, karmic man that has some growing up to do and has to work on himself 1st.
@Kennedy-xw4so
@Kennedy-xw4so 4 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize how manipulative my ex was until I watched this video. He did every single one of those things. This is helpful! Love your content💕
@wendychanda8847
@wendychanda8847 5 жыл бұрын
new subscriber💖 wow!! this happened to me 10hrs ago ... he's so mapulative made me feel like the crazy chick.. well he dropped myself esteem am so broken, I've decided to stop contacting him coz he still hasn't acknowledged that he hurt me he just called me petty .. let's not settle for these they rarely change💕
@jiyanajeeb1620
@jiyanajeeb1620 5 жыл бұрын
You are doing great job teaching women self worth ! ❤️❤️
@christinaedmiston8790
@christinaedmiston8790 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos you’ve saved me from lots of toxic people thank you! Also I couldn’t stop staring at your hair,lips, and teeth 😂you’re slaying sis!😍
@brookerenee73
@brookerenee73 5 жыл бұрын
I remember when u only had 3k 😭 now ur almost at 100k!!!!!!! Congrats Asha ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💖💖💖💖
@user-rz7vk8sk7g
@user-rz7vk8sk7g 5 жыл бұрын
You really did a fabulous job dissecting this topic and these bums! It helps to have the confirmation-THANKS! 💁🏻‍♀️
@MoreOfSiren
@MoreOfSiren 5 жыл бұрын
Your hair looks fantastic omg
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