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[@unouni2548]

I love the contrast between all the listeners that have known about these people for years and Ashley, that has no idea who they are and always finds a way to reveal it to their face 😆

[@xoyouaremysunshinexo]

Yes 😂

[@ashgavs]

Lol yes! This whole world is still so so so new to me. But I will keep bringing you the best comedians you’ve never heard of if you keep pointing me to the best content creators 💕

[@sadgecat588]

It's nice bc I'm new to the queer creator scene so I'm new to them too!

[@telwingwong]

Ashley with Rose and Rosie would be so chaotic lol

[@V.Vv13]

Yes that would be a dream come true and they are already unhinged so, i don't know what we'll get to witness when Ashley joins them 😅.

[@darxhart1646]

Oh my gosh yes!

[@lancesanvers]

That would be awesome!!

[@mwernli2886]

Chaotic, but probably the best episode of all.

[@koujow]

Ashley literally almost murdered me. I was laughing so hard during her story that I had to pull over otherwise I would have crashed my car. I don’t think I have ever laughed so hard in my life.

[@sofimunoz1190]

I Will love to see Jessica Keelgren-fozard as a guest. She is a mother, stylish person and a advocate of Cronic Phatigue and disabilities. She and her wife are super sweet. 🥰

[@TheThirdRider]

I love Jessica, she's so sweet. It'd be amazing to see her interact with Ashley because they have such different vibes.

[@fatalvalencia]

Yes and Stevie Boebi👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@lita9209]

This! Please have her on

[@saggguy7]

@@TheThirdRider their vibes are totally different and yet i think they’d really get along lol

[@kalidard]

Would love to see Jessica! I think it would open up a really nice dialogue, and Ashley might be able to joke about how often she's called out Deaf people at her shows! 😂. Though, I wonder how Jessica would approach a podcast like this as a new mom and someone who's kept a somewhat low-key and tucked away personal/intimate life. I imagine it would go much like the EP with the Newscaster.

[@Nicola_Blackwood]

The pronoun conversation was really helpful. When I meet people who are they/she I interpret that as “they prefer they, and that little she in there is to be nice to me for the times that I will inevitably mess up” lol but I always wondered if that was true

[@ashgavs]

I really think since this is a pretty new thing the rules around pronouns aren’t firm and it’s just best to ask!

[@kflahart1997]

Ashley, you being tired is still way better than most on their best day. Much love from NC

[@janseb6750]

My favorite part of every episode is when Bre bullies Ashley.

[@simongarland5789]

Hello Bottom Nation !! Yes it's a Monday afternoon here in Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿, and it's time for WHGS. A new studio, peanut allergy and tiredness are all part of this great episode. Take an hour out for yourself and make your Monday even better.

[@whatever.a.d.h]

The podcast is beyond unhinged, but I think that's the reason I like it so much. 😂😂😂

[@a.morujo6073]

the pronoun thing also feels like they don't see you as a nuanced person, like they'll see she/they people as "a girl with more steps but essentially just a girl", for example

[@tmystery9505]

Because that's what it is lol

[@LaNoireDetruit]

Wow, the nuance 😘

[@spooky4069]

@@tmystery9505 it's not tho

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

what other way are we supposed to perceive them? in a gender deconstructed world, gender doesn’t even exist. how am i supposed to be perceive their ‘theyness’ and how does this differ from regular ‘girlness’. suddenly no one wants to answer.

[@lindseyjustine4489]

The way that I literally live alone and I’m just laying in my bed laughing out loud the entireeee episode 😂😂😭😭💀💀 You need to have Keara on every episode. I love all of your energy on this ♥️

[@1SophieDEF1]

I LOVE KEARA SO MUCH!! SO hyped for this. Your podcast is always such a gift Ashley, thank you to all three of you for being such wonderful humans. Finally, sign up for text alerts guys, you know you want to ;)))

[@187942]

Ashley you’re cracking me up with the healthy relationship insecure neurotic cat shitting everywhere thing 😂😂😂

[@caseymill459]

the whole peanut segment was hilarious, very special dynamic between these 3 and it made for a good video!

[@KearaGraves]

THE TITLE😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@chelister27]

I love that Ashley is constantly roasting the fact that so many listeners love KZbinrs knowing that the guests she's gotten the closest to have all been KZbinrs 😂

[@TarynRMartin]

Ashley: You gotta know how nice it was [when we broke up.] *Keara’s eyes cartoonishly triple in size*

[@kessklouser3072]

R E S T A S H L E Y . Please you can take a day off we can all agree you are worth the wait.

[@sembry16190]

I'm so glad your channel has grown and that I got to see it grow. I'm so happy for you, Ashley. I love your podcast.

[@ashgavs]

This is so kind. Thank you. Made my day

[@streetst4610]

i laughed harder at this episode than i’ve laughed at anything in about a week

[@pranathi6307]

Love Bre and Keara! Excited for this episode :)

[@kiyabrown1360]

Ashley: Yells insults Also Ashley: I’m just tired 😂

[@sannevanbeers]

“Licking peanuts is not for everyone”😂😂😂

[@nicolegulino]

Take a shot every time they say ✨️pie energy✨️. I love that this is a new phrase for us.

[@xchrysantha]

Can confirm this podcast was TOTALLY UNHINGED which I love because I, too, am totally unhinged😁 Also as someone who is violently allergic to corn and pineapple but doesn't carry an epipen because I can't afford one right now, I HIGHLY commend your efforts to really take care of this girl lol but also completely empathize that it's a LOT to take care of one of us😅

[@abigailjupiter374]

Omg thank you for the belly laughs. Literally cried laughing and got sore abs. One of my fave episodes ever. The three of you hit the trifecta of chemistry including the tired delirium 🤌🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@raquel8780]

I loved the pronouns discussion. I prefer they/them but I don't get referred to as that as much as I'd like. I always wonder how much grace and understanding I need to give to my loved ones who struggle.

[@mizzmatrix]

I was wondering when you where gonna have Keara on the show 😃 Also, you have more subs than many YT gamers out there 😄 And yes, I watch/listen to the podcast because I'm a big ol' lesbian, because it's the only podcast I can f'ing relate to 😂

[@claytonia1586]

This was one of the funniest episodes ever. My eyes are streaming. I was trying to take some tablets but kept spitting them out! Thanks for the laughs ladies.

[@sarahschollmeyer7642]

The opening was giving lesbian Gandalf 😅

[@lizhyink5636]

Ah, Gandalf the Grey? Subtle wisdom was mixed in the discussion... on momentum, motivation, time, and the bones of experiences that are transformative . ( - Cue the Bowie-Mercury classic, "Under Pressure", and the potential of charcoal.- Another channel all about sustainable energy, " Undecided With Matt Ferrell" explaining hydrothermal carbonization, HTC, came to mind. The 1913 tech discovery is outlined by 6 minutes in, there.) Whether changing pronouns, or cultural/ personal perspectives, there is a rinse-&- repeat cyclical evolution, like the crucible of HTC, or some gender neutral BPE. - Big pie energy? Would that smell like apple-cinnamon? Could the pressurized coal product formed by HTC clear the air of BPE, if used as an activated charcoal after further steps were taken from an experience? ( Not that it's a necessity, just a sincere curiosity about the actual material potential, as well as if complexly layered stories can be filtered, and/ or distilled eventually to neutralize an evocative scent towards a lighter affect).

[@lizhyink5636]

@@nailinthefashion ( ^That is clear and concise. Thank you for the giggle : )

[@firefly24601]

Hooolyyyyy shit, Bre has some KILLER comedic instincts. Quick on her feet too, she must be a dream to improv with!

[@aries8910]

This pod is as unhinged as my week, thank you guys for matching the energy 10/10

[@kencoleman5007]

The more that I've been transitioning the more I get dysphoric about the gendering in dialogue. It's not even so much about pronouns, or asking them to use the prefix "Mx." (Which is like trying to explain quantum physics to an every day Jo.". But EVERY time that I get addressed as "Sir" or "Mister", or am told "You're the man.". it's grating on my nerves.

[@NoaMakhervax]

Vegans are like: yea, those are normal vegan poops. We call them ghost poops - you reach back to wipe, and there's hardly anything there lol. Those are gaslighting poops: "Did I imagine having the poop?"

[@caspers4022]

the way lost & found just smacked me in the face god bless

[@angiekoch5865]

OMG this episode is worth watching over and over...you all 3 have such good vibes. Job well done!

[@abigailjupiter374]

I second this!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@leokonge4624]

Wearing a bottom nation top as you top someone is just peak comedy

[@biscuitanne6770]

Not looking forward to the Bree episodes ending 😭😭

[@ashgavs]

Oh she’ll be back very frequently

[@biscuitanne6770]

@@ashgavs YAY💜

[@voidj.b781]

I wasn't expecting to be roasted as soon as I open the video it's just "hello we little bottom" lmao 🤣

[@DuskHawker]

We need WHGS pins! Would absolutely buy that merch!

[@delaneykeller1389]

You make me excited for Mondays

[@mushermusica]

Those banana poops are genuinely glorious.

[@confusedbecky77]

I would LOVE to have the pronouns convo as a clip to share with people at work. The “oh! I can just use she!” mentality is sooo real, and I have 2 new employees who deserve better!

[@rachaelme]

Kates laugh is sooooo infectious! I need to watch this full episode 😂

[@mwernli2886]

9:53 Everybody has hemorrhoids. The question is only whether you have problems with them or not. I had that exact problem because I did what Keara tells Ashley not to do. So yes: If you are constipated, don’t force it.

[@raha704]

I love you Ashley even when you're in a bad mood 🥲

[@kessklouser3072]

“I think i’m a cutie patootie!” “yeah?” “yeah!” I love this so much please and thank you

[@HypeerChick]

I’m sorry but somehow this is the funniest episode I’ve watched😂😂😂😂😂

[@ashmacleod2739]

We absolutely need "Real Tops Bottom" merch

[@lizzybarretto1997]

Love that this is my first podcast listening to of Ashley’s and it does not disappoint 😂 when they say queer people will listen to anything queer, facts!

[@kenziewenzieasmr9800]

On top of there being peanuts everywhere, I work at a wing place and we literally had someone ask us what kind of oil we use because they’re allergic to peanuts and we use peanut oil. A lot of places that sell fried foods in any capacity use peanut oil

[@nicole4589]

Keara and Bree have such a funny banter omg love that!!!

[@Bluesayshello1]

52:21, closed door, and then 52:45, door open.........shortly after, you can hear a meow

[@browncocoasugahpuff]

Ashley you look so pretty without a hat. Your hair is beautiful.

[@Nicole-IH]

OK I have thoughts: Do NOT watch this if you have covid (I do) I nearly coughed up a lung laughing, but didn't break any ribs 😅 😜. Also if keara has approachable pie lady energy (post sex glow, which she does) did Ash's peanut ex also always have post sex glow which Ash thinks is the pie lady energy?!

[@mariannetfinches]

I have covid right now & have no intention of following your advice. Thank you for trying to save me. Wish me luck

[@Nicole-IH]

@Marianne 🤣 good luck, don't say I didn't warn you though

[@ihatemickiegee]

i cant believe this episode happened to be released after i just injured my ribs too, i don't know if they're cracked or just bruised b/c i'm not paying a dime in emergency room bills when ik they cant do anything but yes, it fucking hurts and they cannot do anything for them lmfao anyways thank u so much for having keara on they were one of the first queer youtubers i ever watched and def a perfect guest for this since theyve always been open about sexuality (not just orientation but literal sex lol) now u need alexis g. zall and ava palazzolo

[@RaeLarz]

Maybe it's just the bottom in me, but I love when Ash calls me a little bottom

[@Maya-wi7cw]

Watching this right before having to go to church lol

[@jokershit7675]

Bre is so funny. She’s underrated. Just natural w it

[@randomripoff123]

i'm pausing to say that i get what ashley was saying abt peanut allergy girl: some ppl are REALLY friendly looking, so strangers feel more comfortable striking up a convo w them, as ppl are wont to do sometimes, to be friendly. and ppl who might want to flirt will feel more emboldened bc if someone looks friendly, maybe they're less likely to be mean in rejecting them. and more than that, if someone is cute and friendly looking, i think plenty of ppl may come off as flirting when they don't even mean to. lol AND i know ppl who always get ppl talking to them at grocery stores, but they're not ~classically attractive~ nor do they look like they work there. so some people just have A Look, and who knows what it is, but strangers are like "ah yes, YOU. i can talk to YOU." lol what's baffling to me is two canadians not getting it when every time i've been in canada, more random strangers have struck up conversations w me than anywhere in the US. lol

[@randomripoff123]

coming back to add that pie energy is the funniest possible way to phrase it and i'm here for it lol

[@ashgavs]

EXACTLY

[@mariannetfinches]

Yes! Every time my MIL visits she goes for a quick walk round the village & comes back knowing who just moved here, who was recently widowed & how many grandkids the lady with the pug has. She's like "I was just minding my own business. People keep talking to me" 🤣🤣

[@tris5602]

The they/she conversation was spot on. I don't mind 'she' because I'm female presenting, and 33 - she was the only option I had for the majority of my life. It's also only she/her that really bothers me. Wife, sister, and daughter are okay with me because I see them as connective words- they are not my identity. With all that, I don't feel like it's fair for me to be a stickler. I appreciate people who put in the effort and make mistakes. The occasional they/he helps to counterbalance all the ma'am, miss, she, her, etc. that people automatically default to.

[@sainttheresetaylor2054]

why do you dislike she/her being atrributed to your identity, compared to he/they? what about it?

[@charisselinnell-morton4137]

I have had major anaphylaxis as I am deathly allergic to Coconut. I carry two epipen.

[@bobhendricks4024]

Great show Ashely! Brieees back yay! I loved Keara Griffin's Afterglow Pie Energy! She is such a nice, genuine person! Kudos for following up the Peanut/Pie experience with a Better Help commercial! Seemed appropriate. Great product placement! Finally thanks for granting me Honorary Queer status! Does it come with a badge in case I run for Senate in Georgia?

[@a_boss_lilly]

I know i say this every time but Bre is fucking hilarious 36:12

[@abigailjupiter374]

Yassssss THISSSSSSS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️

[@theembersinside1420]

I can't believe I'm about to post this, but I actually have had sex in a movie theater! (Just not "gay sex" & it was in the front of the theater not the back.. lol) This brought back great memories, thx Keara & WHGS!😛💜

[@jacklandismusic]

The podcast *is* fully unhinged, and you *should* keep doing it

[@greyAMK]

✨I can confirm I listen to the pod because I'm gay ✋💅🕺✨

[@ROCKONplaceboforever]

Love this I needed this so badly going a horrible and stressful time my anxiety been kicking my ass thank u ❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@carleeb4477]

Loving all the poop talk this morning 😂

[@emmabunch-benson4795]

Ashley I relate to your paranoia! Even if I just masturbated I get paranoid people can tell afterwards. It’s so dumb😂

[@nicolebolanos9112]

i love hearing keara talk abt their thoughts on their pronouns bc i feel the exact same way when it comes to me and i completely agree with ashley i honestly do think i only keep she in there to please other people but it gets annoying

[@JennySieck]

I'm gonna push back against the idea that queers will listen to anything. Your podcast totally rocks that's why its so popular. It's inspiring and funny and spontaneous and irreverent and helpful. And you should have Cara Conners on. You guys have a similar vibe. You would have a blast! It would be such a great show!

[@lauraschickler147]

Ashley - I don’t have a peanut allergy, BUT I’m from the Midwest and curly headed and will laugh at your jokes… love me puhhhlease

[@Eliz952706]

I don’t think I have laughed this much on any podcast😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsAaannaaa]

I've been away for a while and now just catching up. Did Kate leave the podcast? 😢

[@Raddiebaddie]

Yeah they need time to work on their own stuff. Idk if they’re gone for good or just for a while? But Ashley has said the podcast was always meant to have a rotating co-host so not relying on the same person for too long… Kate was the best though- hopefully they will appear again!!

[@ashgavs]

Yes, sad for us but good for kate to focus on their own work. I’m sure they’ll come back a guest when they want to promote some of their new projects!

[@Lee-yay-yippe]

The end of this episode’s description XD so casual

[@deaththreatsandrainbows4337]

as someone with an allergy: i may be wrong but if medicine works then she didn't need an epi pen. like i was told you only use an epi pen for anaphylactic shock, so basically the epi pen wouldnt have done shit if the medicine worked. idk if im wrong but they tell u at the hospital to carry medicine and an epi pen bc and epi pen won't do shit for anything that isnt anaphylaxis and the medicone won't do anything for anaphylaxis.

[@ashgavs]

She would take an ass ton Benadryl. Like an ABSURD this isn’t okay amount. It definitely was not advised be a doctor. The doctor prescribed her an epi pen for anaphylaxis. I’m not saying your doctors aren’t right, but this isn’t like advised to do by doctors either

[@kessklouser3072]

I do appreciate the “coded” WHGS merch 🙏🏼 the closet is new to me but we’re here now

[@Summer-jy1my]

Sorry you're feeling under the weather. I love your podcast, any chance you're coming to the Netherlands anytime soon..? I would never heckle you but I really just can't promise anything for other people

[@sergbastian5]

@35:13 YES as a listener, I completely think you should keep doing this!!! lmao p.s. Pie energy is real and it should be a bit

[@nathanmoranx2105]

With these podcasts, you are enriching our lives! 👌And I hope you are well rested again. So you can make more podcasts

[@emjaysankofa]

Totally unhinged, but I was dying laughing almost the whole time. 😂🤣😂💀

[@rileylowe529]

Wait I just realized that I am around non lesbians all the time but I use this as a way to be apart of it lowkey

[@Samsarare]

10/10 I laughed the hole time 😂🥧🍦

[@kaitlinhohl2895]

Would love to see the band MUNA on your podcast; they are a phenomenal group of queers and also had a gay podcast. Would be iconic.

[@JuMixBoox]

I looked it up and the star of that upcoming 50s show who is presumably gay is Matt Bomer and, man, I'm excited.

[@cheriespooks]

Finally keara is here.❤️❤️❤️

[@achillesinlove8518]

It would be cool to see the queer kiwi or Noah fince(I can’t spell cause dyslexia) cause I think it would be really funny to see the mixes of energy with y’all

[@liasnclr]

Honestly I feel almost exactly the same about my they/she pronouns and it’s so nice to hear someone else talk about it 💖

[@Sara.a.v.Dahlberg]

The first 23 seconds 😂😂😂😂 aaaaah 😂

[@Queerbbby]

Please get DODIE Clark on 🥺🥺 they are a bisexual singer/ former KZbinr and just the SWEETEST 🥹🥺

[@shredsilastv]

To your unhinged question: yes and yes

[@watsonandbscuriousdays]

the opening….!! 😂❤

[@rush_amanda]

WHAT IS THIS TUBE THEY SPEAK OF. I'm so confused lol

[@sunnydays9144]

I thought it was a sex thing and Bree was talking about some kind of sex party with three people on a tube 🤣after some googling I think it's like a weird water-skiing floaty thing

[@_shannons]

When binary people only using the "she" part of "they/she" to me it feels like nonbinary erasure. Edited to clarify.

[@crystalciera49]

The nature valley peanut butter chocolate wafer bars are bomb af

[@lizmaralexandra3780]

I've been waiting for this one!!! OMG!!

[@Feya297]

Awesome episode! I love Bree on the podcast. You should totally ask Julie and Camilla on the podcast. They are a gay couple trying for a baby rn!

[@hmmcms1]

Me being validated about no shit when I wipe😂

[@oopskye]

PLEASE BRING MADELINE ARGY ON