9 months pregnant & I decorated my baby shower alone 😵‍💫

[@DajiaStar]

Beautiful!!! Why didn’t anyone help????😢 I’m not as far along and I already started my planning, I barely have the energy or patients to confirm details. You’re so brave to take on all that work ❤

[@LEXYBOOCITY]

Absolutely stunning 🤎 I love the decor and the color scheme 🔥 ISSA VIBE 💁🏽‍♀️

[@MakeArtBae]

You looked absolutely gorgeous!

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Thank you so much 🫶🏾

[@shiyahickman820]

It’s so pretty!💗

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Thank you, this was by far my favorite babyshower I’ve had 🫶🏾

[@BixbyLBC]

I did my first baby shower by myself. I had so much fun. It turned out so nice. I made a scrap book for the memories. It was 18yrs ago and I still from time to time love to relive those precious moments. My last baby shower my husband did everything and he did an amazing job. Decorating, cooking, hosting the works. My last pregnancy I was treated to a shopping spree and dinner with my besties and closest family members. You did a beautiful job. And you looked absolutely gorgeous on your special day ❤ congrats on your precious baby ❤

[@mable90shaynne]

Girl you did amazing!

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Thank you so much!!!

[@ThisIsSumayahsWorld]

You did an AMAZING 🤩 job mama!!… Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈!!!

[@collegegrad2955]

You are so beautiful ❤!! You did a great job decorating!!

[@ShesNotKnown.]

Beautiful! You AND the decorations😂❤

[@bellaharrison6374]

so prettyyy

[@dr3am3r20]

good for you mama, it’s looks just as beautiful as you are!!❤

[@teebryant3296]

This Hurts My Feelings 😢 Anyhoo, YOU DID AN AMAZING JOB. 🎉

[@Lenauh]

girl you are gorgeous 🤍

[@PamelaH_HappyVibes]

Everything looks beautiful! And, you look stunning!!! ❤

[@kazukobanner5992]

Beautiful Colors ❤❤❤

[@Meralysp-cv6wr]

Dam girl!!! You organized well. I love the plates!!! so decent

[@Integrity-Speaks]

Very beautiful,you did an outstanding job. ❤🎉❤🎉

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Thank you! 🤗

[@Integrity-Speaks]

@@AshleyNoSwiper Your welcome 🥰

[@ashleyroberts6249]

Needed to see this, thank you and congratulations 🎊🎈

[@judelyne08]

You did amazing sweetie ❤

[@CocoaChanel-ef2kn]

It’s very beautiful

[@joannaainreallife335]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💕 sisss yessss !!! Youu are the BOMB ! ❤

[@jamieboomer1454]

Just beautiful Queen congrats

[@GODSCHILD8912]

I would absolutely do the same for my own lol so beautiful ❤️

[@misselle1430]

Aaawww I miss bring pregnant Not the last month at all coz it knocked me down but up till then I loved it especially the bump ❤❤❤ you look beautiful

[@almahair6847]

Mama you this all this you are so good adt.it❤🎉🥳 andt congratulations🥳🥳💗

[@Gamer_Mama_0611]

Omg you did so much. I just had mine today at 8 months & barely had enough energy to get ready

[@norabiyaki4021]

Gal everything is beautiful, just like you.

[@sandrapadilla6369]

Beautiful like you! 💗

[@candacewebb120]

Beautiful 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@kandisdoee3548]

This is going to be me 😂 because I know my vision and I feel like I'm the only one that's going to get it done right! 🎉 This is beautiful! 💛

[@FabiCheri]

What song is this? ❤ Got me in my 🇭🇹 vibes. Baby coming out grooving to a beautiful Mama! Yessssss

[@56sweetpea]

Girl with the tattoo or Break from Toronto

[@FabiCheri]

Yesssss that's it! THX U❤ had me on Shazam auto for like 4 days🤣

[@mahoganeexv]

i never ask for help when i decorate bc if i have a vision i want it to be JUST right! 😂

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Period because no one can execute your vision like you can!!! 😉

[@simplymo4]

Ur outfit is so cute. Where did u get it? U did such an amazing job . I might be decorating my gender reveal alone. ❤❤❤

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Thank you and I don’t regret decorating it myself i got the exact look i was going for. My dress is from Oh Polly

[@reneakirkwood]

So Beautiful 😍 💗💗💗🔥🔥🔥

[@envyminksbypandora2279]

Great job love 💕 🎉❤

[@tawandataylor7271]

Beautiful 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Thank you! 🤗

[@3suns1moon]

I never had a baby shower. I’m going to do one this time or at least go to dinner. I’m gonna celebrate myself and my baby this time ❤

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

Baby shower is to celebrate you Queen, It’s beautiful but when baby comes don’t do it by yourself. Be loving to you and use your village to ask for help. ❤

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

I wanted to do it by myself this is my 4th baby and i wanted to bring my vision to life. My village did what i wanted them to do which was to shower me with love once they arrived 🫶🏾

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

@@AshleyNoSwiper good to hear 👂 have a safe delivery love ❤️

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

@@AshleyNoSwiper I hear what your saying but I think your missing the point here. It’s not that your vision could not come to life but the point of the baby shower is for you as mom to be to relax and be showered. As black women we are superwomen but sometimes it’s ok to take off the cape. I also understand we like to nest when we are about to deliver but I stand on my comment that you should have been showered but I also understand your perspective. Whether it’s your fourth child or not be pampered as your ushering life into this world and be ok with sharing your vision with others so that you can focus on bringing in life. Difference of perspective but im happy for you! 😊

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

@@Hisintrovertedwifey and you are missing the point it has nothing to do with being black or a superwoman. I’m not a superwoman by any mean and never claimed to be. I’m a picky woman and this is my first babyshower out of 4 children and i wanted to do it myself and that is perfectly fine because it was my choice. I was pampered clearly as shown in the video and it plenty of white women on this app decorating and hosting their babyshower go to their comments and tell them as a white woman to not plan and decor their shower. As a black woman other black women always try to tell other black women what to do and how to do it with judgement. You missed my point and made this a race thing but think twice before telling another black woman what she should or shouldn’t do.

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

@@AshleyNoSwiper Queen In the past I would have went back and forth with you but I’m not in that space anymore. You presented the video to the world and I politely posted my thoughts. It’s ok to agree to disagree and with you giving birth soon being in this energy is not healthy. As I previously stated have a safe delivery love ✌️❤️

[@winacosby8847]

Beautiful

[@merttolgatopuz]

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@karashaw7606]

Love it

[@tiawilliams2274]

Beautiful job

[@tanikaewell9986]

Beautiful I'm 5 n thinking bout doing my own

[@tylandamcknight4170]

Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@ijustchangedmyname7794]

You should of had help, at the very least. You did a dope job, though!

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

I’m such a control freak, they wanted to help but i refused. A decision i regret 🫠

[@ijustchangedmyname7794]

@@AshleyNoSwiper 😂Go easy on the nesting portion coming your way and have a safe delivery!

[@DajiaStar]

@@AshleyNoSwiper I get it 😅

[@cheveciastone4478]

Where did you buy that white dress please

[@jameahadley6568]

Congratulations God bless me with a second health baby and I always want me and my fiance to be health as well

[@AvTheGoddess98]

What were some of the games y’all played at your shower I need some ideas lol

[@monicalawal5236]

You did a great job, nobody could help you though my girl?

[@giannaj7067]

Omg I know this is useless info but there was 4.9 before I liked the video and then I pressed like and there was 5k! SOOO SATISFYING!!

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Same!!! This how i feel when it’s 99 on likes and I’m the one who gives it an upgrade

[@TechSavvyDaughter]

It's giving a virtues woman proverbs 31 woman things girl🎉🙌🙌👏👏👏

[@justmebeingquirky]

Beautiful! Most people have a shower early not near the end of pregnancy. Do what ya gotta do and somebody should have helped!

[@TheeRobynAlexis]

That guest list would be VERY short, cause why can nobody help but they can all attend??

[@Mea_DS]

She didn't want the help from what one of her comments said. They offered. She did a beautiful job 👏🏽 😍

[@charissejohnson2068]

That's possible!!!!! The question is who cleaned up?

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

If you watched my vlogged you’ll know i didn’t 😊 my beautiful guests did

[@charissejohnson2068]

@@AshleyNoSwiper I did watch your vlog. Have a great life.

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

@@charissejohnson2068 you couldn’t have watched it if i said my guest cleaned for me. I was saying this in a joke manner didn’t realize i would offend you

[@charissejohnson2068]

@AshleyNoSwiper you didn't offend me. I watched your short vlog. I commented after watching everything you did and wondered if anyone was going to help you clean. In my mind I was going to start with the pouring the beverages out of the glasses first. 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂.

[@kaleahcollins4567]

I did too

[@missjones8123]

Whenever i see these food spreads i cant help but think how the food will be cold and breakfast food isnt good when its microwaved

[@DiamondLife7711]

Ok. Now HOW !?

[@theresanelson2305]

Hair style...

[@UnofficialAnti-Ignorance]

Where is the father????

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

My husband left the house with the other kids but I’m confused what this question had to do with the video

[@moonbeam_hillgoth]

It’s stunning but this shouldn’t happen… should’ve been thrown for you smh

[@af.9803]

Arent baby showers supposed to be done by someone else and not the expectant parents?

[@Miriamchino-po7mk]

That sucks there’s no surprise in that

[@JessicaCabralMuchow]

POV you have no friends ? So odd

[@lorindamiller5479]

Maybe you should look into that professionally

[@heydinavarro3067]

Beautiful 😊

[@wazz1234]

Nice decorations but girl that outfit!! Seriously the opposite of classy and elegant.

[@milliemitchell9864]

So your so-called family and friends showed up and nobody could help you that doesn’t even make sense. Did you not ask? Is this Clickbait for reviews & sympathy? what?

[@mammymountain2057]

That's sad but congrats

[@itsCapria]

She wanted to do it herself. It's not sad. Nothing wrong with it. That's a backhanded way to say anything

[@ervabayaztas1720]

😡

[@JaydenBowles-c2c]

The baby needs to be a girl

[@tammycornejo9155]

Aren't you super woman. Don't trust any of your friends to help you no no no superwoman does it herself. Bet you treat your baby same way and refuse to let Dad help. I feel very sorry for you

[@AshleyNoSwiper]

Huh?!? What does my husband have to do with me wanting to decorate my babyshower alone? I feel sorry for you to be so judgmental

[@JaydenBowles-c2c]

I hope it's a girl

[@rachelbryantlundy-bridecon2989]

Beautiful