Asian Man Dating Black Woman: What Do you Love About Black Women? 2/2 [ AMBW Interracial Couple BWAM

[@honeypott01]

I love her hair. Thick and lush.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you!

[@honeypott01]

@@dafansuetrytodoitall you're welcome🌻

[@cooky_2076]

And the gorgeous gray!

[@divulgewithchip1099]

Right

[@shazj1842]

This is why I watch youtube, to listening to stories and hear perspectives I might never come across otherwise. Thank you.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you for listening!

[@tesswonderful4194]

Its why I do KZbin as well. I learn so much.

[@thatshortcliplifeyoudontne9360]

I enjoy humans from different backgrounds connecting a loving eachother because they love eachother including their differences.

[@chazilee1111]

I love his awareness of the depths of black women's beauty 🖤

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Yessss!!

[@MrBartica]

Sue, love the answers your husband gave and how much he recognizes your worth in your relationship. Congratulations to you both

[@williamjones3945]

Good black women

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you! Yes, I appreciate him a lot!

[@bettysally237]

Dagan he's is such a loving and caring person I can see that you guys have something very special and real

[@bettysally237]

Sorry I spell his name wrong this is the right spelling dafan

[@LurBL.DafanZ]

@@bettysally237 Thank you! Don't worry about my name, there are people I knew for years who still continue to misspell it! I don't mind.

[@bettysally237]

@@LurBL.DafanZ ok thank you

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you and you’re right, he is a big softie ☺️

[@Eff-id7nh]

FRICKING ADORABLE! This is THE MOST ENCOURAGING thing I have seen on this KZbin yet! People are people....keep lovin each other guys!😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Awww thank you 😘

[@sandrahill5559]

Years ago I had some hedges removed on my property, was a fairly big job. I am a female single and I went downtown and found some young Latino men to do the job. Once the job was completed there was a young pretty black female approx. 20 years old walking down my street. I caught one of the young men checking her out. I think they were from like Guatemala or Honduras they were not Mexican or Columbian. So I asked the young man do you like black girls and he said yes I do but they don't like me. I then asked him if he liked white girls he said no their skin is too white and pale, he liked the skin color of black girls their skin is so pretty and it looks so soft. I was shocked because I did not know that these young Latinos like black girls.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Ha! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!

[@lindagilmore3694]

Dafan is hilarious and very aware of black women.

[@LurBL.DafanZ]

Yes so I think lol

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Yup he is!

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

I really like how you just let him express himself without talking over him. Watching you and your husband made me realize that I “help” people by trying to finish their words. I’m gonna do my best to not do that.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Awww that’s awesome that you chose to self-reflect and create some change. It’s not easy. Another thing that could help is re-stating someone’s sentence to see if you understood in the way the other person meant it. I’ve found that skill to be really useful!

[@LittleMissSunshine721]

@@dafansuetrytodoitall that’s great advice! Thank you both so much for just being gentle with each other and showing people that real love is still possible. Much appreciated! 😊🙏🏽

[@tracyglover7801]

That is such a noble thing to say. And like you, I noticed that characteristic that she has as well and watching this video, I have learned that about myself. The "help" of finishing others sentences.

[@lenorapeoples4543]

I like you two. You have a sense of candor that is appealing. I look forward to hearing other conversations. Thanks for sharing.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Awww thank you 😊 we’re glad you enjoyed!

[@chundak1913]

very nice break down!

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you!

[@fdoctor79]

Defan has an inspirational story. Going from homelessness to Ivy league graduate. Much respect! Tfs P.S. I loved watching Family Matters! 🤗

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

He does! I’m so proud of him 😊

[@marciajames1349]

This has got one of the best channels with the most informative conversations. I’ve learned a bit about Asian men. I have always been curious about them, since elementary school.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you! I hope watching has given you a little more comfort in allowing yourself to be open to new possibilities 😁

[@sandrawhitted3493]

He’s so adorable with his baby face ❤️!

[@t_hyphen1522]

I ❤ that Sue told you to cut your hair only to tell you to grow it back!!! 😅😂

[@LurBL.DafanZ]

We are ready to for your questions!

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

😂😂😂 we don’t know what we’ll like or dislike until we try it.....😂

[@t_hyphen1522]

@@dafansuetrytodoitall that's so true! 😊 let's schedule to meet up for those questions.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

T_ Hyphen yes!!

[@LurBL.DafanZ]

@@dafansuetrytodoitall Grass is always greener on the other side? you don't always want what you think you want haha

[@rachelkasumba1078]

What a cutie couple. You suit!

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you!

[@sandrahill5559]

You should post a pic of you hair in cornrows back in the day!! We would love to see it!

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Great suggestion! We’ll lost one soon.

[@khaya08]

Beautiful couple. Such an authentic interview. Love it

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you! 😊

[@TheChoiFamily]

Loved part 2 of this also! Thank you for your transparency and sharing your honest views! We need to see Sue being interviewed by you now 🙌

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Ha! Dafan will be super happy for that video 😂

[@LurBL.DafanZ]

Yes Sue's interview will be forthcoming. Hopefully it doesn't turn into a full on interrogation again!

[@carlethiastreet7596]

Came across you channel today. I find you very interesting and open about your feelings and experiences. I did subscribe.🥰

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you for subscribing! We’re glad that you enjoyed 😀

[@williamjones3945]

Asian guy good guy

[@jacquelinerobinson3853]

Amazing answers!

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you!

[@evettephillips6871]

I'm a new subbie, I just love u guys energy.💕💕💕💕best youtube couple I've seen on here.💕💕💕💕

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Awwww thank you so much Evette! 😊 We’ll be getting back to making new videos soon!

[@evettephillips6871]

Can't wait 😁

[@kiarashooks444]

Thank you 🙏🏾☺️💕 enjoy!!

[@designerclaudiabeleza5330]

Dafan, thanks for being so open in sharing your experience. It gives me joy to hear someone talk about how they see black women. You see us as valuable people who are worthy of your respect. 🙏🏾 Thank you!!!

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Yes! He reminds of this on an almost daily basis 🙏🏾🥰

[@designerclaudiabeleza5330]

@@dafansuetrytodoitall That makes me so happy to hear!

[@danielslee]

Your stories are so beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you for watching!

[@thejacquelinecarter]

I enjoyed both of you and your comments..

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you 😊

[@ms.ellaneous6406]

You both are AMAZING HUMANS :) i wish you were teaching at Tuskegee where my daughter goes. :)

[@minawilliams5552]

Very deep Sue you're a special lady your husband adores you girl stay true to each other

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you 😁💕

[@comealongwithceceadverture1544]

Speak it !

[@tishshaw4124]

Y’all r gorgeous beautiful couple!

[@reginadandridge4618]

It's beautiful to see you both love and encourage each other. 😊😇🥰🤪💞👍🏾

[@reginadandridge4618]

I use to visit my brother in Upper Darby Pa. Sadly, he died a few years ago. So I don't visit there anymore. Beautiful area.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

I’m so sorry for your loss Regina 🙏🏾

[@vivianthom4801]

I’m SE Asian with wavy hair which I hated so much. I couldn’t grow it out because of it. I have male pattern baldness since my forties, and constantly shaving as I don’t like horseshoe look.

[@LurBL.DafanZ]

That’s what I am afraid of too, getting thinner on the top. Maybe I’ll just shave and go bald when it comes!

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

I’m curious to see how it looks!

Black people are generally nice, helpful and caring. They do no harbor hate and is very forgiving. For people who garner so much hate based on their skin color they are very accepting and generous with love.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

You’re right! I agree.

[@kendrabrownpersistence2178]

Loved you two ..

[@reginadandridge4618]

Do y'all have any pictures of your wedding? I'd love to see some pictures of your wedding please.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

We didn’t have a wedding. We decided to just get married because trying to plan a wedding just was not working out well. We do plan to have a wedding/vow renewal in a few years.

[@tesswonderful4194]

@@dafansuetrytodoitall I like that. I find big weddings pointless.

[@Phillymall]

Haverford and Baldwin I'm guessing.

[@LurBL.DafanZ]

Of course!

[@berria488]

I love this video. A wonderful couple.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you 😊

[@erenesenters-muiruri5522]

Yes, many of us (BW) are out spoken and we sometime get into trouble. However, out spoken as we are we are great at making up. You guys are beautiful, funny, and loving. Thanks for sharing the truth. #59

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

😂😂 yes! Thank you 😊

[@socialwork63]

Cute couple, and though it was filmed over 3 years ago can't help to feel a bit of empathy/disappointment on behalf of the wife. it sounds like he actually fetishised black women and that it could have been any of them and that nothing much singled out wife except her openness to him.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

That’s an interesting thought. When we saw this comment, we talked about how we each understand what it means to have a fetish. I never saw him as a fetishizer. Before we got together I asked him all about his interest in black women because I didn’t have time to waste with any games. I knew he was serious when he explained his first marriage to a black woman and how he stuck up for her when his mother found it hard to accept. I believe that I respect myself enough to marry someone who loves me with all his heart and would give me the world. He has proven his love and commitment to me time and time again ♥️

[@mimaz7155]

You guys look like a lovely couple. A kiss at the end would have been great though :)

[@deionle9355]

great

[@Gacha12me12]

she is beautiful ,you found yourelf a queen my brother.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you ☺️

[@rosswalker1926]

I know this video is a year old and I just saw this , I have a question you may or may not want to answer this question. First question how do I break the ice to talk to the Asian women at work I notice that they only stay among themselves. I am a mail clerk for the Research Department for the top Hospital and University in Maryland they are so beautiful and I like to get to know them but how do I get them to trust me as a Black Trans Man that is almost sixty years old who is Classically Train in Piano and Percussion plus most of them speak very little English. I don't want anything from them but to love just one beautiful young lady, or is it against the Asian culture to date a trans man and plus I am a Dark Skinned I know many black women will not date me for two reason first being a trans man second is being dark skinned. thank you both if you can answer these. Ross

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Hi Ross! I would say it’s best to be yourself and allow opportunities to present themselves to you. Perhaps the work environment is not the best for breaking the ice….maybe waiting for a social work event is good. Be open to new opportunities while staying true to yourself.

[@korraisawsome]

Having a preference is fine, I believe when that preference is due to hating another race because of personal experience/societal/media baises that’s when it’s not healthy. But having a preference is okay, there’s many healthy and reasonable reasons why someone would have a preference and they shouldn’t be taken personally.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

I agree. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it shouldn’t be dictated by hate, fear or discrimination.

[@RayStockel-g3g]

How many kinds do you have ???

[@kateodenigbo2784]

Handsome man and beautiful nlack woman

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Thank you! 😁

[@jackieharris9552]

You guys are great.Do you guys have kids?

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

Awww thanks ☺️ yes we have 3 together and I have one from a previous relationship

[@designerclaudiabeleza5330]

Why is it wrong to have a preference?! There is a difference between discriminating against someone from having a human right and civil rights. I am not offended or feel left out if an individual say they don’t find black woman suitable for a romantic relationship. People have their preference. I mostly likely won’t find that person suitable either.

[@dafansuetrytodoitall]

I agree....I think it becomes muddled when preferences are based on unconscious bias and prejudice that we haven’t yet acknowledged.