Girl, I was with one for 20 years and I mean you couldn’t have been more on point with every word that came out of your mouth. I love you, Nina you keep them coming girl cause you be telling it like a TI is that’s what’s up.
@our_ohana9 ай бұрын
Nina, the universe knew I needed to hear this today. For the past 2 days I’ve been in my head a lot about a lot of things stemming from narcissistic abuse that I’ve experienced from my prior marriage and current familial issues. I’ve been doing a lot of research on narcissism and narcissitic abuse for a few years now and you really hit every single point!!!! Thank you for creating space for us to join in and hear wisdom ❤ 16:05
@TrishaOertwig9 ай бұрын
I was there .. I left and it took him 10 years to finish divorce when I wanted nothing not even child support .. that was his last line of control
@louniece16509 ай бұрын
He sounds like a classic narc. I'm so glad you got out.❤
@gabrielacuello74049 ай бұрын
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@nadezhdadimitrova44699 ай бұрын
Good for you girl👏👍
@Msivette199 ай бұрын
Thank you Nina I needed to hear this!!! I’m going through it now n needed to hear this! Feels like u talking to me with everything u said
@karis28269 ай бұрын
Yes Nina!!! Thank you for always keeping it real! ❤
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@alyssa41499 ай бұрын
Love these deep topics you really helped me build strength ❤
@nadezhdadimitrova44699 ай бұрын
Oh dear NINA you are LIFE, you are AIR, you are WATER, you are UNIQUE!!! Thank you for having you QUEEN👑
@stefanietrimiar95659 ай бұрын
Oh my God! Go ahead Nina💋 I don't even want to think about narcissistic personalities.. I don't like narcissistic people.. Point blank Period!
@jasminey28859 ай бұрын
Yesss Nina! I’ve been through it with narcs a few times and I always felt so crazy . But now I’m so blessed and living my best life without them ❤
@gwenrobinson35219 ай бұрын
That is why the healing process is so long. It took me years to be who I am today. Real talk Nina!! 🥚💕💕
@ErikaRuiz-sl7zb8 ай бұрын
I was in the same situation for many many years, once I let him go life truly became beautiful on so many levels. I’m glad you are where you are today 🥚
@kywhatsthevibes13869 ай бұрын
This was sooooo good! Just got over a break up! All he did was be narcissistic and it started draining the shiiiit out of me! He accused me of bs but was up my ass everyday it was so weird! I still don’t understand it but, yeah smh read the signs! Thanks for this
@ritalyn32969 ай бұрын
It gets ugly with these fools, but what has happened is that you have sold too much of yourself to them. You have to know who and what is a narcisist!
@jeanettepelletier14029 ай бұрын
My mother is a narcissist and they give fleas so being raised by one I had to work on the toxic behaviour when you know you know you can fix yourself and put up boundaries she hates that she has no control over me anymore. Thank god my grandmother raised me otherwise I’d probably be more messed up! Nina I love your videos ❤you tell it like it is. ❤💯🫶🏼💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋
@pableholloway82029 ай бұрын
That’s the REAL Kimchee with all that spice!!! 😂💗☺️
@deepikanayar58669 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my narc ex who called me a slut/whore to my family and friends because I gathered the courage to walk away.
@bowcay9 ай бұрын
Sweet Nina, you have no idea how much appreciate You and these types of videos of Yours💗 I am far from my friends and whenever I’m watching you and enjoying a meal together with you, I get to feel very comforted by it. I Thank You from all my heart and I wish you only the best!💗
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@butterflygirl95169 ай бұрын
That was a powerful message. Thank you 🥚💯
@eatpraylovetube21469 ай бұрын
It literally is excruciating and causes emotional pain to the max. Healing ain't no joke!!
@Jessicatalks2helpothers9 ай бұрын
(7:46-8:23) Unfortunately you are right Nina; we live in a world, where we are likely to be wounded/hurt by SOMEONE WE KNOW & by SOMEONE CLOSE-that’s just the sad reality. Before the enemy was using PEOPLE WE DIDN”T KNOW or STRANGERS TO CAUSE HARM, but since the enemy knows his day is coming/approaching, he has been more craftier or more slick about executing his evil plan of destruction by NOT USING SO MUCH THE STRANGERS anymore, now-in-days, he uses as instruments PEOPLE WE KNOW & PEOPLE WE ARE CLOSER TO -he uses people we love & trust (family, friends & etc)-this does NOT mean he won’t use a stranger. All his hard evil works shows /manifests how he does not want to go anywhere alone, he will take with him as much people he can.. He is moving fast & he is unmerciful & slick about, if we do not see things in God’s eyes, he will drag us too-the Lord rebuke him😘💋❤
@thaislila9749 ай бұрын
Your video is very informative about narcissism. Thank you Nina for posting a video about such an important topic.
@sabrinadominguez61018 ай бұрын
Yup even if they dont have any one that new supply is jus enough to justify what they believe in their head.. mind set is everything dealing w a narcissist. Lol ibe learned a whole lot during and after the relationship. Its crazy. They hold on to anyone that will let them go back n forth. They turn you into a shell of the person you were . Im still finding out what i like and want.
@gooniejunie45826 ай бұрын
you are on point! you ARE describing my ex perfectly! he pokes and pokes and the flying monkeys on the narc side!
@Thready_Kruller9 ай бұрын
Good talk today. Women can be narcissists too and I know this firsthand. I was listening to all the similar things that I’ve experienced with my ex that you were explaining. Spit the truth, girl!
@melissaphillips39659 ай бұрын
I havent been able to catch up..Patric still with ya..I love your storys and the way you eat. Keep climbing beautiful ❤❤
@missmaam45159 ай бұрын
My goodness, spot-on. I've watched how narcissists move (blessed that it was from a safe enough distance), & everything you said is so true. I find myself being very reclusive because I just know I have a few more vulnerabilities than I'm comfortable with that the wrong person would see as a goldmine. I'm wishing everyone love, self-confidence, & self-awareness. Self-improvement takes time, but please take space if any of the characteristics Nina talked about sound familiar. Yes, loneliness sucks, but it can also be temporary & easy to remedy, the company of the wrong people however can QUICKLY, & even permanently negatively change your life. Being able to sit with yourself & enjoy your own company is a sign of healing, positivity, & growth🥚💛💋
@EM-ui6ql9 ай бұрын
Its weird how people allow ourselves to be with someone like that. For me i had it up to my head and left without looking back. It's nice to be at peace knowing were not walking on egg shells. We are worthy and deserve better . It actually makes us stronger and smarter as we go through things like this in life.
@elainewhite71769 ай бұрын
Everything you said is what my so had to go through with his wife we hadn't never heard or met a narcissist before but she is the true definition of a narcissist
@melissaphillips39659 ай бұрын
Lord Moma i needed to hear this today because i have been going thru it..
@vanessavidaca61469 ай бұрын
🥚 your mindset always blows my mind your so strong wise and just so powerful wow ❤
@luv_leena9 ай бұрын
yes spread the word because abuse is not always physical!
@SamiieSam9 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I have now turned into this from being taunted for months. It's so hard not to anymore. I need to mention this to my therapist.
@sandrasigala13789 ай бұрын
Thank you Nina i needed to hear this
@melissaveillette99229 ай бұрын
Happy you’re back girl 💋
@berinobiskanani9 ай бұрын
❤❤❤well said Nina…ur exactly right been der done dat…I thank GOD I’m free of all dat…now I’m wit a real one who’s not even close of being like da rest…love u Nina stay blessed always!!!
@elainewhite71769 ай бұрын
My son is married to a narcissist he had to be reprogrammed
@Mayra787719 ай бұрын
Soooooo freaking true you are reading my life story... like I said before surrounded but them type of people's...
@angelajean83599 ай бұрын
I love that you are doing these types of videos again❤❤❤
@reneerobinson55639 ай бұрын
EGGS!!! Very powerful and true message.
@Bespoke-z8g9 ай бұрын
I don’t think you need to waste anymore YT content or precious energy talking about this concept. Anyone that has followed you for years knows this is about your mother, Marlon and his wife. Clearly you have done the really hard work it takes to turn your life around and be successful. The past will never change and it will always be the past. Let it go. The day that you will be reunited with your son is in God’s hands and it is sooner than you know. ❤
@quyen80599 ай бұрын
🥚 You are more than enough Nina thank you for a wonderful video ❤❤
@elainewhite71769 ай бұрын
She tried to turn me against my son she is evil never got anything nice to say about him always putting him down had a stroke A few months ago and acted like she had changed, I told him a zebra never changes his stripes now back to the usual name calling and have did so much lowdown stuff to him and like you said never take the blame for anything always his fault
@tygemini87819 ай бұрын
i can’t believe it’s been 9 years. i’ve been watching you since i started high school. i’m glad you’re more self aware/in a better place 🩷
@Sandy-ri2qq9 ай бұрын
Wow this actually hit home for me thank you for this video honestly I thought it was just me going crazy!
@ReginaSanchez-yc7wz9 ай бұрын
I love u Nina I love your advices I'm in a toxic relationship preach to me girl
@katelyns15509 ай бұрын
Oh my word this made my day! I’ve missed you so much ❤
@eatpraylovetube21469 ай бұрын
Unhealed individuals that aren't healed. It's basically they are filled with fear, insecurity. It's spiritual conditions with oppression. Certain people put oppression over the weak and inexperienced. Healing is possible. It's painful inner work. Prayers to anyone who's been through this. I've been betrayed, manipulated by my own family big-time. Matthew 10:36 New International Version (NIV) a man's enemies will be the members of his own household. ' Love You!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
@Nikkialdridge23179 ай бұрын
Wow this truly brings back memories about how your son’s dad always tried to bring you down. I’m so proud of you and how far you’ve come! Then I dealt with the same shit! My ex lived with me and got a coworker pregnant. I was always to blame!
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
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@SharonGoewert9 ай бұрын
Nina this is so true!
@yessizam359 ай бұрын
Thank you for the self love motivational speech and for describing in perfect detail what a narc. is!! People need to be aware and be able to identify who they are surrounding themselves with. 💋 🥚 💋
@ReginaRoberts84189 ай бұрын
🥚 You are amazing, now that's what I call saving good people time and energy. Kisses she nailed it! Believe every word!
@Raiderette749 ай бұрын
Damn I love all your advice and chats you are a real one Nina ❤❤
@6933Kimberly9 ай бұрын
I’m going through that now and I had to learn to and ignore it❤
@819laurae9 ай бұрын
🥚you really did touch me . I did cry today. Blessings
@x.X.China.X.x9 ай бұрын
Gurl, you describe my ex husband to a tee!!! Omg, I stayed with him for 25 agonizing years and he almost did make me kill myself! He broke me down so bad that I would tell him, you have no right to destroy someone's spirit like you did to me! I finally had the courage to leave and it was the best decision I ever made! He never thought I would leave and you know what, I've forgiven him for all he did to me because of what he taught me what to look for. Never again! Now, I'm married to a woman!!!! She's 1000% better than the POS man I was married to! Thank you for your words of wisdom. I love you! ❤
@Ramos6969 ай бұрын
Being poked from childhood is also part of it.
@margaritaluz679 ай бұрын
Omg so deep and true!!! Wow 😨 thanks for sharing!!! I’m getting ready to pack up and leave!!!! ;)🥚
@margaritaluz679 ай бұрын
Im getting ready to watch this again!! Your best advice yet and you have many good ones but this one touched home!! Dam… that why you were so missed when you stopped post for a minute. I’m glad your back!! Here is more 🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚🥚💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋 Because I always watch to the end!!!!
@blanca.weigel9 ай бұрын
Wow Nina, you just described my ex husband, he takes no accountability for anything and his a deadbeat even to his own child. He hates that I wouldn’t back up,his lying.
@delboyk9 ай бұрын
Thank you universe for miss Nina 💋
@carleendatuin44459 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 Nina !! Preach 😂 . .. so happy to see you prospering ❤ and over coming everything. Ive had similar experience and have worked on my self a lot too . Thanks you for your sharing with us ❤❤❤❤❤
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@jojodawson9 ай бұрын
Hello sis thx for always keeping it 💯much 💕💕💋💋
@gwendolynreynolds62839 ай бұрын
I’ve been there since the beginning yes I’m a loyal fan. Yes, I’ve been there and I’m so proud of you and your progress and I can relate. I did the same thing I’m so proud of you or should I say us and our strength God bless Baby.
@6933Kimberly9 ай бұрын
Everything u said is 100% facts❤
@MariaDix-o7q9 ай бұрын
Im new to the channel but I love I already ❤ speak it sister everything u saying it's the truth im going thru it now an i did everything u said an now everyone looking dumb when they see me yea its me itches😂😂❤❤
@kirstenstarina44159 ай бұрын
Flying monkeys it's called its sick there crazy I married one and after 13years I bailed best thing I ever did I'm so glad your addressing this topic there are so many of them it's insane ..😊
@laylomaazimi75609 ай бұрын
Love peace Nina queen Souper star NK 👑💪👠🤍🪜💐👍🌎🙌💯💚🤲🎬👗🪁💝🙋 everything that you say is All correct 💯 love you that you say all the truth now I know what they are using our kindness our love peace and happiness our beautiful life I hate their crazy life I'm following you from long time keep going stronger 💪👠 then ever before God love's us all always right now amen thank you for your hard beautiful amazing incredible awesome 💯 show ☺️ beautiful you are amazing NK 👑💯💚🌎🙌🥀💯🪜👍💐
@susanpickett52399 ай бұрын
Good Evening Nina 💋 💋 💋 😘 Enjoying this video have a wonderful day ❤
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@asmrasianjenjen38069 ай бұрын
Preach it Nina! Love you, beautiful!
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
😍
@Taurusmommy9 ай бұрын
🥚great message 💕
@TheBulletzgottishow209 ай бұрын
Hey Nina how are you love
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
Amazing
@sbrightpink9 ай бұрын
WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOO PREACHHHHHHHH❤❤❤❤❤
@lexifer1239 ай бұрын
🥚Nina what does self love look like to you? I don't know where to begin
@joannaazar73969 ай бұрын
Great topic! Do you devein your shrimp?
@fafalise20239 ай бұрын
Love the shade of your lipstick here Nina xx
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
Oh thank you!💋
@fafalise20239 ай бұрын
@@NINAUNRATEDEATS you're welcome xxx
@billsfam53679 ай бұрын
Reactive abuse thank you Ninaunrated
@Mayra787719 ай бұрын
Oh damn I know a hella lot of those freaking people 😠😠😠😠 I know you're right...
@MomsBusiness749 ай бұрын
I appreciate you 🙏🏾🤗✌🏽☝🏽❤️💚💛⚫️🌿🖤🤎🌿thank you narcissist are always not to be in positive crowds, family gatherings, and yessss always asking you questions but reverse, and you ask they avoid yes, and they never apologize
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!!!
@mizueeats54159 ай бұрын
Delicious noodles shrimps and eggs 😋 enjoy Nina
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
Thanks
@Beautifuly_Made9 ай бұрын
Powerful🦋🦋🦋🥚
@AuLily19 ай бұрын
I'm not a fan of sauerkraut, but love kimchi, but not too spicy hot, either. I like enough spice to be interesting, but not brutal.
@ariafrancis93159 ай бұрын
Call your girl Nicole of course and tell her to watch this video
@eatpraylovetube21469 ай бұрын
True!!!😢😢😢😢😢😢
@AdmiringTractor-lu7xd9 ай бұрын
That happened to me. God reminds me everyday.❤❤❤❤❤ Without God, I would of been that worthless imagine of self perception they projected. I hate acting . I'm very private, n I no longer try to over extend. I don't. It seems rude but noone nice anyway. ❤
@Mayra787719 ай бұрын
Omg sounds like a pair in my well I won't call them family members never that..
@dianmadrid23049 ай бұрын
Hi Nina,thanks for sharing,your food looks delicious and always makes me hungry,I enjoy watching your vedios.🇧🇿
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
My pleasure!!! ❤️💋
@lindabruce94839 ай бұрын
You can send the Kimchi this way. I will eat it no problem. 😅
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
😂
@MzDee-vg3xr9 ай бұрын
Hey ❤️well said Nina bless you 🥚 see ya next video 💥💥
@borcherdingsweightlossjour4469 ай бұрын
Real talk ❤
@raycruz14529 ай бұрын
Your amazingly jaw dropping beautiful for 45. Im 42 myself. And I have a past as well so yeah I understand. But enjoy your meal ❤. No need to worry about being taken for granted. Im not going to😘
@NINAUNRATEDEATS9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@raycruz14529 ай бұрын
@@NINAUNRATEDEATS your very , very welcome mi Amor ❤️😘
@raycruz14529 ай бұрын
@@NINAUNRATEDEATS Good morning love. Hope your day treats you great like the beautiful woman that you are ❤️😘
@brooklynzoo28109 ай бұрын
Yup Narcissistic people are Energy Vampires.
@tristabarwick3949 ай бұрын
Ohhh that is my sister she thinks just like that
@tristabarwick3949 ай бұрын
My sister hates me for me being myself
@qwisty659 ай бұрын
🥚 loved this ❤️
@beecosmo68879 ай бұрын
Your A Great Visionary❤️🔥 , Motivator❤️🔥, Nina . Your Mastering your Future ❤, Real recognize real ❤️🔥,the truth hurts ❤️🔥, Learn ❤️🔥, Grow❤️🔥, Independence❤️🔥..(love from the bronx ).🥰🤍🤗🤍😘🤍💋💯 Virgo +🥚🌹🙏👍
@blanca.weigel9 ай бұрын
My ex sill talks shit about me, I don’t have the energy to bother with his shit.
@JoJo-gr1rp9 ай бұрын
Are you a vampire? You never age!!! Youre gorgeous Nina