Ask a Grown Man Matthew Gray Gubler on Vimeo

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[@lovenoirrr]

matthew giving relationship advice while being 40 years old with no gf or wife is the funniest thing ever

[@katie-zj4rv]

IM CRYING THIS IS SO FUNNY

[@bernadettecaron446]

ITS SO SAD BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY PPL WHO WOULD DIEEE TO MARRY HIM

[@whitefingertapeedits7958]

Bernadette Caron FOR REAL😭

[@ameliapaxton949]

@@bernadettecaron446 I AM A GREAT EXAMPLE OF SOMEONE WHO WOULD DO THAT

[@clairemosford3767]

@@ameliapaxton949 ME TOOOO

[@courtneybasson9142]

Best decision I've ever made was choosing to watch this instead of doing homework

[@kaydaniels113]

Yup!

[@heatherzacher4408]

Courtney Basson. same I should be writing a paper but this is so much better.

[@awesomesauce3951]

chose this instead of sleeping :D

[@hannahfulcher7553]

I may be laughing too much @ this

[@evaroesell4815]

Same here

[@Kiwi-dl3sr]

“I’m most likely older than most of you” bruh if he only knewwww

[@wentztrisler6432]

When I'm 22 he'll be twice my age.

[@nadia_17]

@@wentztrisler6432 LMAOOOO

[@sherryhull8135]

I'm old enough to be his mother. My son is 3 years younger yhsn Matthew

[@wentztrisler6432]

@@sherryhull8135 its cool. Anyone can be a fan of this beautiful man.

[@rojinhrn8485]

Hes OLDER THAN MY MOTHER AND I'M LEGAL

[@valerieellison2483]

He should be a therapist. He'd have so many clients.

[@purrr238]

I will come there everyday

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

@@purrr238 i would go 2 times a day.

[@yasmeenhaddad7123]

@@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever at least

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

@@yasmeenhaddad7123 i would maybe try for three time's a day if i could, just think on the line of people he would have. LOL

[@moiral9417]

id go just to see his face and listen to his voice without actually listening then leave feeling completely accomplished and "healed". He'd be a real great therapist.

[@QuinferdSpeaks]

It hurts that he will never marry me first of all because he could be my father...I don't need to go on

[@tyesantos8704]

Same

[@makaylab2747]

meeeee

[@nickyherrera9657]

he could be your daddy what's the problem

[@ozioma]

+Daniela Herrera you've given me hope

[@reformando3035]

This is a true and sad reality 😭😭😭

[@user-mf5pu4rx9k]

whoever ends up with him is the luckiest girl in the world

[@diviner1782]

this is a fact

[@tyratackett6871]

I know

[@alexandraami]

or boy we dont know

[@isabellavance]

All very accurate statements

[@tfjghkfhjkghfjkghjlgjklhjkl]

@@alexandraami shut up bro not everyones gay

[@kaireese2518]

Wait was he drinking out of a Disney princess mug? I swear I love him more and more every second

[@Kj-2617]

Kai Reese samee like honestly he’s my dream guy lmao

[@bernadettecaron446]

Yes😌

[@RaspberryWafer]

Snow white at that 😔

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

i love disney princess's and i love matthew gray gubler, we are so good for each other.

[@AngelinniTortellini]

9:05

[@alexisdalton3560]

"I'm a romantic" can someone help me return from my liquid state now cause I'm a puddle😭😍♥️

[@tanyaochoa3090]

Same 💕💕💕

[@CAGECAM]

Have you evaporated yet?

[@avaduncan3591]

GOD I KNOW 🥰 MY HEART

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

i know when he said that i think i passed out for a moment, i dream every night about how wonderful life would be with him, and now he told me that he is a romantic i knew it, just think how great that would be. sigh.

[@wentztrisler6432]

I cracked into a thousand pieces and then I died and then my cracked pieces melted and now I'm just a puddle

[@Lincolnlogsoff]

I'm a straight dude(not that anyone gives a dang there's plenty of us) and my girlfriend loves the Gubs, and so do I. What an handsome, strange, beautiful man.

[@bernadettecaron446]

YESSS

[@graceb5015]

YESSSS

[@mirandaalice7305]

As u should!

[@carolinerogers3971]

What a supportive man to actually care about what your girlfriend likes :) respect dude

[@annae3099]

yup as u should

[@avaduncan3591]

DANG MATTHEW YOU SHOULDA KEPT IT UNBUTTONED 🤧

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

i thought just take it off matthew.

[@gracesamu1495]

Literally what I thought

[@ashley9459]

EXACTLY ONG

[@d33pseacreature]

I just want to sit down and have a conversation with him whilst have a cup of tea :(

[@d33pseacreature]

*having

[@sofiat8335]

same ;(

[@yazzjustheretocomment]

Is he actually that genuine. For god sake.

[@ericajoy8872]

"I just learned how to read…a little while ago." 😂

[@nana-vl7xy]

He talks very meaningfully and his voice is so relaxing god bless him.

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

i love his voice, it's so calming.

[@lonelylobsterr7870]

I just want to be his friend. I just want to talk and laugh with him. I'm feeling pretty lonely. Binging these videos honestly doesn't help.

[@LauSkarlov]

now I'm depressed

[@lonelylobsterr7870]

join the club my friend, join the club.

[@boo._.8137]

+Dylann Roof fucking me

[@LauSkarlov]

+Jessica Marion what

[@timberart286]

Lauren Watson Ann

[@rhondafarrell1220]

He's such a sweetheart and has wise words to say.

[@ayeeeeeitsrachel]

i'm so in love with him

[@carlycasselman870]

Dude. Same.

[@thehorrornerd9908]

Same. He is so cute and he is literally the sweetest guy in the world.

[@Jenny-ru4hf]

lol, you don't even know him irl

[@char2716]

@@Jenny-ru4hf no shit

[@karinachen6931]

I literally can’t. It’s 4 AM and I need to go to sleep, but instead I’m crying because I’m scared I’ll never find somebody as good as him.

[@emilyperrone6938]

LMAOWOOAAO

[@emilyperrone6938]

me too i’m crying

[@nadia_17]

pls i look for him in every guy

[@GhostnYouth]

If you can't find someone as good as him then become as good as him

[@SF3087]

@@GhostnYouththat’s great advice 😭😭

[@alainamiller5169]

his hands are perfect.

[@jessem4842]

He's just so perfect

[@bernadettecaron446]

RIGHTT

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

his whole body is perfect.

[@feliciaroyers1646]

When he started wiping his "shirt on his face" I was dying ;) Don't worry Matthew you'll always be funny

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

i laughed so much i missed a lot of what he said and had to watch it again, like that was a problem. lol, i could just sit and watch matthew gray gubler all day if i could.

[@oportunismopoetico5911]

I think I'm in love with him.

[@Jenny-ru4hf]

lol, you don't even know him irl

[@avaduncan3591]

Jenny well people who date like online and haven’t met each other irl can still be in love

[@kiraritter1551]

Anyone else notice his princess coffee cup?

[@reneemiller9458]

I want one.

[@Gothicbeautiful]

@@reneemiller9458 matthew or the cup?😂😂😂

[@Eaudeperfect]

@@Gothicbeautiful both😭

[@jalah7409]

My heart aches because of how big my crush is. Damn.

[@Prizzlesticks]

What an adorable, awkward marshmallow. I've never seen him outside of acting, and he's cute as a button.

[@kailakocsis8394]

“life is frickin radical and it’s only going to get better.” i’m in tears. he’s so incredibly perfect .

[@theblackthorne]

I feel the need to cry right now because he's such a great grown boy but I can't have him because he's my celebrity crush and he's like ten years older than me or maybe more.. 😢 you will always be in my heart. 😟 *dies*

[@LauSkarlov]

welcome to the club

[@chloeann6637]

I'm pretty sure Matthew has dated girls more than 10 years younger than him in the past, so everyone has a chance!

[@roseitious]

+Chloe Ann, true! When he was 25, he dated a 15 year old LOL

[@tarezgaddy6678]

breadsticks what?!!!

[@Kay-tw6sm]

breadsticks HE DID?!? no.... that’s pedophilia

[@uselessfan9282]

Internet support group Matthew Gray Gubler style XD

[@Private.Jetson]

omg the end!!! he's so awkward and cuteee!!! "I love you guys?...I don't know how to end this okay.. uh Bye!!!! *blows kiss*" can i put him in my pocket cuz i cant deallll!!!!!

[@savvysimmer2671]

"I spend my weekends reading and playing the sims." Okay. Literally me. I have the sims open in another window on my laptop. Except now instead of reading its watching Netflix.

[@tia1042]

I freaking love him so much. I just want to have a conversation with him and give him two pairs of socks so that he can mismatch them.

[@brookecroff7166]

Tia that was so sweet I love it😂

[@cora9293]

I love when he rambles I just stare at my screen at like 😮😍

[@alex_marie24]

MEEEE

[@monicaserna7607]

“Let’s have a fun Saturday and I’ll help you clean your room” MATTHEW PLEASE💀💀

[@vesper180]

0:42 "I just learned how to read a little while ago." lol xD Matthew's so adorkably sweet and funny.

[@anaise9433]

I love how he moves his hands im like legit in love with this boy

[@yoongi-loml]

He's so pure. It kills me.

[@helllocathy]

When Matthew is 21 years older than you... I can't believe he's 36. And does anyone know if he likes Beyoncé?

[@residentcryptid7601]

I can almost guarantee that he likes Beyoncé

[@kaylamabry136]

Literally probably 80% of people are in love with this guy and we’ve never met him. If I were to ever get one wish before dying would be meet him at least once

[@fallonleopold6733]

God I love Matt so much😭 when he was talking about being yourself in your teen years and not being someone your not it really got to me because I’m a young teen and lots of my friends just want to go to parties, drink, and do crazy stuff and that’s just not who I am. I constantly worry if it’s just me, and if I’m missing out on life but Matthew has thought me to express and love myself and my individuality and I just can’t thank him enough. I love this man with all my heart and would do anything to have deep conversations like this face to face with him. He really has no idea how many lives he’s impacted, he’s so genuine and pure. We really don’t deserve him, his perfect in every way. Whenever I’m having a bad day I just remember that I get to live On earth at the same time as Matthew and it keeps me grounded. I seriously can not thank this man enough, he has changed my life in ways I couldn’t have imagined and has made me an all around happier person.

[@TheFuschiaDragonfly]

Yes, he's amazing 💕💗 (But don't call him Matt, he hates it)

[@eliftheriver]

Hey MGG, you are an amazing human being and i love you.

[@sanjanaraman1082]

I love how he actually thinks about each question and takes it all seriously😭😭😭💜

[@katie-zj4rv]

HAHAHA i love how he rambles on and on and has to tell himself to make himself get on track

[@kaydaniels113]

I want him as a best friend.

[@emmaboswell5581]

OH MY LAWD HE CALLS IT COURTING IM GONNA DIE NOW

[@LilyKeene]

THIS IS THE EIGHTY SECOND TIME IVE WATCHED THIS. LORD PLEASE HELP ME.

[@sierrarunion9353]

Same!!😂😂😂

[@ayeyoluv]

Thank god I just turned legal. Matt I'm available. Please.

[@darleneglaspy6575]

Kara Reneè 76

[@TheFuschiaDragonfly]

What a mood 🥲 (Also he doesn't like being called Matt)

[@briana8153]

this man is so beautiful inside and out. i love him so much :’) help

[@RaspberryWafer]

I got attacked for being a fan because the person thinks he's a homophobe 😔

[@meadowhayes6551]

i love how he rubbed his nose on his shirt as she said she hates it LMAO I LOVE HIM

[@fallonleopold6733]

I need to do one of these but it be titled “I’m in love with a man who’s 26 years older than me”

[@AylaNoelleLee]

He makes an awesome role model

[@yogabbygabby2916]

And an awesome husband 😏

[@lifeofanmol57]

who is this guy man ... he's kinda unique

[@irisfreddiemercuryrocknrol9643]

Life Of Ammo and cuuuuute

[@jrraven3230]

Mathew Gray Gubler you are so attractive😏

[@katie.beattie]

the only man i love is matthew. and harry but matthew is first forever.

[@Anna-hx8qd]

Literally same

[@mrnbdn]

still waiting for them to be friends

[@melaniegonzalez8316]

Everyone: listening to his advice Me: watching his hands😌

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

can you tell why do we love his hands so much? because i love his hands to and i don't know why.

[@sophyt1997]

why cant we just get married

[@carlycasselman870]

Same dude

[@Jenny-ru4hf]

lol, you don't even know him irl

[@RaspberryWafer]

@@Jenny-ru4hf So? We can dream 😔✌

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

because i am married to him. LOL

[@jazminemcmahon5366]

I want him to be my therapisttttt

[@sirenj3172]

I hope to find someone nice and funny like him.

[@bitterbirdie]

His little smile at the end made me melt

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

anytime he smiles i melt, so i melt everyday but it's ok. LOL

[@mooseofallmeese7984]

I died when he tried to pronounce Melbourne 😂

[@LittleMissLatvia1]

His hair is so puffy wtf it's adorable cx

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

i like his hair i would love to play with his hair.

[@aelizabeth9460]

the disney princess mug just made this 100x better

[@MegaLalalolita]

he's the jay to my gloria

[@artsyfroglover]

i would just causally leave my phone in my bedroom bc i never leave my bedroom lol

[@leynavanaelst3113]

he's literally such an amazing person oh my god. he's so sweet i just want to know him in real life- like i wanna listen to him ramble about stuff and hug him and ughhhh

[@emmastinnett]

anyone here in 2024?.?

[@EliGutmann8]

I just want to hug him and never let go

[@EliGutmann8]

Is that to much to ask for? I think that is a pretty reasonable request.

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

@@EliGutmann8 it's a very reasonable request. LOL

[@karensumi1137]

the “is this funny i can’t tell” took me out

[@xy2700]

Omg he sounds exactly like me English teacher, maybe that’s why I love him sm. Like I just wanna be friends with him like mean something to him..... he’s just so important and valuable, I want to feel that about myself. Also what’s so special about him is that he’s so mature but not arrogant like some people in his age and also with great humor, that combo make me go like abxhdjxjjxjsjzjxjjx!!!!!! Like the way he’s talking is very amazing, he’s “normal” telling things in interesting way and then says something funny & connected to previous things? U know Ahhhh he calms my anxiety 🥺

[@mirandaalice7305]

Words of wisdom from Matthew Gray Gubler... this man is so inspiring

[@katie.beattie]

his wave kiss and smile at the very end MELTED my heart

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

me to.

[@kailakocsis8394]

every time i come on youtube there’s another adorable, quirky, heartfelt, or hilarious video from or of him. i LOVE IT🥺🥺🥺

[@nadia_17]

right🥺

[@ihartmichaeljackson1]

I have thoroughly enjoyed this 4 years later! Lol

[@Sky-su4tw]

HE HAS A DISNEY PRINCESS CUP OH MY GODDDDD *turns into puddle*

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

when i saw the disney princess mug i to melted in to a puddle. LOL

[@summerlover30]

"is this funny i cant tell" im screaming i love him

[@kellybuzzell1333]

Im so in love with him

[@lurategh]

I'm so glad for his last answer 'cause I think it's really important, and since it seems like a lot of his fans here are gen z, I'd like to it, too. DON'T think you're inadequate or that there's something wrong with you if you're not living the "typical" teenage/young adult life. Life is not all about "sex, drugs, and rock 'n' roll." I know some people make it out to be, but there is nothing wrong with being lowkey, being a homebody, having few friends, etc if that's your thing, if that's what suits your personality and that's what you want! Of course having new experiences is important and it IS vital to get out there sometimes, but please don't do it just bc you think you have to or bc of peer pressure. Everyone experiences life differently and goes through life at their own pace. Your journey is YOURS, not what you think it should be based on society's expectations.

[@madimurray1441]

ugh he makes me wanna....UGH! I love you Gube.

[@kailakocsis8394]

his adorable little rambles and mannerisms🥺 and the muggggg ahhhhh. god why can’t i just have a nice cup of coffee and conversation with this man. i swear (i know many others are with me on this) that he’s the absolute most genuine perfect person i have, and ever have seen or will meet.

[@alexisdalton3560]

He's distracted but his unnaturally immense attractiveness😍🔥♥️

[@sativa3745]

im so in love with this man, but sadly, he's old enough to be my dad 💔

[@sativa3745]

BUT THAT AIN'T GONNA STOP ME 😁

[@miles2419]

"exclamation mark" buddy, i

[@lilac.mascara]

1:18 NOOOOOO!!!!

[@tanyaochoa3090]

😂😂😂 same

[@islagell7]

not to be dramatic but i would die for him.

[@reign8428]

...he's the only American that gets a pass saying "Melbourne" incorrectly. The. Only. American.

[@judyfavela8491]

my baby he is so cute

[@veronicam4745]

he’s so sincere with his advice it’s so cute ❤️❤️❤️. Also why is he always comparing himself to famous people’s corpses lmao

[@britneyjeff3759]

why is he 18 years older than me!!! fml

[@hannahkim548]

britney jeff uh hes 21 years older than me. Fck MY life

[@sakshisahay1737]

britney jeff he is 24 years older than me

[@chloeann6637]

Don't worry, he only dates girls way younger than him anyway ;)

[@irisfreddiemercuryrocknrol9643]

Sakshi Sahay same

[@Simone-dy4dx]

@@chloeann6637 really?

[@luisabustamante4606]

I love when he is just thinking 💭

[@mrsmatthewgraygubler-4-ever]

me to.

[@daniluv8593]

I’m so mad that I can’t be his gf or wife because, well, he’s 40. It stops there

[@kaelyn5198]

crying my eyes out 😁

[@belenlen18]

cant believe i have a 22 year age gap with him, shocked & upset

[@yantography]

I act this exact same way in front of a camera where I just go on a tangent and I veer away from the topic so this is very entertaining seeing as I’m not the only one who does this.

[@nourayye]

LOVE OF MY LIFE

[@piagarcia636]

He is my favorite human being wow

[@JC-fq9km]

Great advice! i found myself feeling comforted with the last answer :)) he's so wholesome and inspiring

[@jesseguthrie5953]

He just said COURTING, as in dating, but old folk lingo. I love it.

[@user-tm9me5qr2q]

6:08 plsss😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀

[@valerieellison2483]

He should be a therapist. He'd have so many clients.

[@appleheadjackson5758]

Well I like the way his room looks. It is a oldschool thing and this chair, I love this style very much myself. I think we could perfectly live together, if I would live in the US...:D No really, he is a sweetheart and I love him and also his role as Reid. I cant decide whom I like most. He is funny, clever and everything. So sad I will never ever meet him and say 'Hi' to him :(

[@irisfreddiemercuryrocknrol9643]

Applehead MJ Jackson do you watch Ashley Ann??

[@nohrianscum9922]

He's no grown man he will always be a good boy

[@clarissagafoor5222]

He makes being asexual very attractive. He comes across as a thoroughly good-hearted person, and I am so pleased he promotes books and reading.