ASK JEN & BEN || Ep. 1 Soulmates

[@Ieticia848]

You work as a couple because you are both smart and logical about what a relationship is and needs. Not many people approach it this way, and it is so refreshing to see! And being so rational at 16? That's rare. ❤️ I've never really believed in soulmates, but y'all make me a believer.

[@emilychen1771]

This video made my heart so warm and fuzzy. I love seeing you guys together and how much you guys like each other.

[@Kayveman01]

When you're a single Pringle but still watching this... 😭

[@myNEWSfan]

tikanishewolf same 😅

[@musicalchieko7341]

Anyone else notice how the normally sweet and composed Jen gets SO giddy and giggly with her man? She’s head over heels for him! ❤️ Thanks, Jen and Ben, for the words of wisdom and inspiration for me and my husband!

[@liannamay]

I don't comment much since I always feel like it'll just get lost in the thousands of comments but I have been watching your channel since the apt(s) in KS and I'm so thrilled that Ben has a stage on the channel with you and that you guys are sharing some really important advice and perspective on relationships and longevity- you might feel like you don't have a license to 'give advice' but I've found everything in this episode to be logical, helpful, and thought provoking- esp helpful from a couple who has been through half of life together. Thank you. I teared a lot watching it because it forces me to take a hard look at my own life find a way to keep the love alive.

[@qtgrl113]

Thank you so much for posting this video, Jen (& Ben)! Your insight on the question about being in your 20s and not being in a relationship really hit home for me. The love that both of you have for each other was so inspiring to see, and all of your candid, thoughtful responses to the questions really helped me to think about what I want in a future relationship! Thanks so much!

[@VueN92]

hannahpandabear I agree with you also! It gives me an insight of things I should dig deeper for what I really want in a relationship, what I can do about it the next time I enter or start investing in a relationship.

[@jennkho8308]

Future video question: 1. what is the best part about being in a interracial relationship? 2. Has your differences in culture affect the way you raise Aria?

[@chempanda6388]

I melted watching this. How two people can be so goofy yet serious yet in tune with each other.

[@seikatakezawa9571]

I ❤️ that we get to see more Ben now >< LOVE this new series

[@T0103-x3j]

I’m obsessed with you guys!!! Such a logical and thoughtful couple! And yes to “acts of services!” My husband and I have been together for a total of 17 years...5 years of dating and almost 12 years of marriage. And I have to say, I know my husband loves me and the kids because he does so much for us! I so appreciative of him helping out with chores and the other big and small things. These days, free time is hard to come by, so it helps so much when both of us are in it together as a team! Kids are such a blessing. Congrats and hang in there when parenting gets hard! It’s so worth it!

[@HeartofaWarriorX]

PLEASE. DON'T. STOP. MAKING. THESE. SERIES. love it!!!!

[@JessicaTam]

I'm in awe of how self-aware you two are as a couple, especially when Ben remarked that your life language changed after having Aria! I'm super excited for this series.

[@arielleviojan]

this might probably get lost in all the comments but I just want to say this is by far the most genuine and unique segment I've seen in your channel. it's inspiring, personal, and made me love you even more after all the years of quietly watching/following your blog and channel. this is such a blessing and it made my day. the love in this is so contagious 💕💕 can't wait for the next episode. thank you so much for this, jen & ben 😊

[@AndreaRymoen]

Ben seems so calm and sweet

[@76qin]

Please keep doing the Ben and Jen series! You are honest and open to expose the pain and love in your family to followers. Thanks for the advices!

[@Cclaudia228]

ben you are so wise and so well yet soft spoken and i appreciate your comments so much

[@d3borahhx]

I love this series already! This editing was great too! Made the video really visually appealing! You guys have such great chemistry and advice😁. (I’m korean & my husband is Caucasian as well. We also met and started dating in high school! Really interested to see if you will discuss the obstacles/different situations you’ve had to overcome in an interracial relationship! Wonder if it’s similar to ours! 🤣)

[@penny4279]

I was blown away by how wise Ben is!! I love you both so much 🖤

[@CrystalKayann]

Do you have any old pics you could share with us from your highschool/college days together?! I think that would be so sweet/interesting to see!

[@sorrynotsorry1849]

Yesss!!!

[@bluehanabi]

You guys are adorable!! Random fact: I just realized that Jenn Im´s fiancee is also called Ben :o Another Ben + Jen couple! :D

[@kimfan5813]

Kathy CM Yes and they’re both Korean girls!

[@prashansasunuwar]

I want this Jen and Ben to do a Q&A with that Jenn and Ben

[@bluehanabi]

Prashansa Sunuwar OMG yes!! That would be awesome! ❤️

[@lilmzattitudex3]

I realized the same once she said jen & ben and i was like wait a minute! haha

[@cassieselement]

I personally think you guys are incredible role models for relationship advice. I love this new series! Were there ever dips in the relationship? If so, how did you overcome them?

[@HeartofaWarriorX]

Everyone can agree that communication and trust are one of the biggest things in a relationship. Do you guys keep open passwords (meaning your spouse has access to all your accounts) on your phones, computer, social media accounts, etc.?

[@veryverylucky]

You guys are lovely!!! Aria and baby #2 are so blessed to have you as parents! Thank you for letting us in on your lives , you are such an inspiration to us to become good people ❤️

[@thuyanhtrinhova1936]

Thank you Jenn for sharing Ben with us :)) you guys are such a lovely couple!! Can’t wait for the next episode 🧡

[@ashleypratt7122]

Thank you so much for sharing this video! My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and there have been a lot of struggles we've faced. Hearing your insight has given me a renewed focus on our marriage. Love you guys!

[@imairsiha]

i really love this series. please please continue it. i think its amazing to see couples and how they really are together. since you guys have been together for so long its great to learn from you.

[@xochelle25]

Thank you for this video. It’s really hitting all the things that’s happening in my life at the moment. Especially with adjusting to being a first time mom. And in general just trying to find balance in this whole new chapter of mine and my husband’s life. I found myself nodding a lot at the advice you and Ben had to give. It’s great to see how so in love and compatible you both really are. ❤️ Thank you again!

[@Brightycoeur]

Loved this! You guys are so sweet with each other and I think your advices and thoughts on love are really something that I look up to and try to live by in order to have such a loving relationship. Can't wait for more episodes!

[@tiffylam3]

you guys are the cutest and it permeates through the way you guys talk to each other and light up around each other (: I love it! more please!

[@cloudy922]

Love how much you guys laugh together! So sweet! Question: Do you have any challenges being an interracial couple?

[@nozomix3]

I know this is my favorite series already!! You guys are sooo cute. And so wise too!

[@noucheesong]

I need someone to look at me like how Ben looks at Jen. You guys are so cute

[@Liliann31]

You both are very fortunate to have each other, not very many relationships are as compatible, compassionate or understanding and open as the one you two have, very lucky

[@xxJASMiNEE]

I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we started dating in high school as well. I’ve always been amazed at how long you’ve been together and it gives me hope that we can make it, too! ☺️ I totally agree with Jen that love is a choice.

[@zarahlimtan6319]

I love this new segment of your channel :) You gave really great and wise advice. More of Jen & Ben videos please. May God continue to bless your family!

[@henny9334]

I can tell how much they respect each other as a person, can't wait for more series (:

[@raissagorziza]

Aaaaw my favourite couple! 💖 you are the cutest.

[@phuigi]

Thank you Jen and Ben for this series. this is exactly what I need right now.

[@toria37]

Watching this made me think so much about my current relationship. Made me so happy and emotional

[@carmenkeung7667]

What is the weirdest habit you discovered in each other after being married? I'm not sure if the question makes sense but I still want to ask.

[@kt032]

i really enjoyed this first episode! you two work so well together i love the chemistry between y’all, and i hope i can use the advice for my own relationship! can’t wait for more episodes

[@kathle9215]

when Ben and Jen say Ye! and clap after she told him his favorite movie. I can see Aria in both of them, especially Jen.

[@mariannek6735]

You seem to have such a healthy relationship, that makes me so happy. Great advice and perspectives. I'm so gonna love this series!

[@emiemily11]

Love love love you guys! Such an inspiration. Thank you for being so open and honest with your answers and advice ❤️

[@kasey5253]

You guys are the best soulmates. You even laugh the same way (1:26 into the video).😆😆

[@structureoflight]

this was the cutest, purest, most inspirational video

[@_isabelpham]

*clicks like before video even starts

[@mariannek6735]

Same

[@helenzhang1635]

omg y'all are adorable! excited for this series!

[@stephaniegomez308]

This was great, I’m excited for this series!!

[@hoiyenlee5237]

I love the maturity and wisdom in your answers! Thanks for sharing your love with us :)

[@mehrnaz98]

You guys are absolutely perfect for each other!! Love this series 💗💗

[@mikayamada4919]

You both remind me of my boyfriend and I so much! We both watched this together as we cuddled in bed and couldn't agree more with many of the tips you both shared. We've been together for 10 years and it is SO true on how important it is to both WANT to do the same thing TOGETHER

[@isabellamunoz1099]

I love this so much. Thank you for posting this ❤️ it’s so helpful

[@ourwildflowerhaus]

I love this series already!! Keep em coming!

[@Cosmicjessiecat]

Your video gives me hope. I was in a 12 year relationship and my partner didn’t want to fight for us anymore. I’m broken because I thought we were soulmates, but it’s clearer to me now that we weren’t. Soul mates understand unconditional love, and I believe the puzzle piece effect. Here hoping for my soul mate to save the day!

[@rebeccaryman7336]

Couldn’t stop smiling watching this. You two are so adorbs!

[@carmenla4144]

so excited you guys will be doing this series!

[@leslie6485]

Great thoughts and advice! You guys are amazing and may God keep giving you with lots of blessings!

[@chaconne221]

You guys are so sweet, I love it!! Good advice for dating too....it's scary to talk about big topics, but always best to be upfront and honest :)

[@viiiiiv]

This is so cute! So excited for this series :)

[@CN7997]

I love love this video. Seeing the both of you like this makes want to have a soulmate now. Thank you for this.

[@WhereThuEat]

I love this series already!

[@smiley7370]

"How did you find out that you liked each other???"

[@mariannek6735]

I've literally not watched more than a minute yet but I just have to say that GUYYYS your relationship is so sweet, I get so happy watching you guys together!

[@hconf]

Loveddd this. Thank you so much for this video and this series.

[@sweetchoco8]

Jen Its so cute how you smiled with joy when you said kids. baby #2 was a secret here. I am watching these vids backwards but yall are so cute together. I can see the love and joy. My husband and I are enjoying this series. we too have been together for what seems like forever. we have been together 20 yrs since the 5th grade and married a year.

[@halloweenkid95]

LOVING THIS!! i can't wait for more!

[@sonatak304]

I've been with my husband 12 years and I feel like you guys definitely have it more figured out than we do. I followed Jen since the beginning (pretty much... I think...) but lost touch a bit so now that I've watched this I think it's so great to see more of Ben. I have a question that I asked many people but never got a helpful answer to, how did you know you were ready/ really wanted a kid together?

[@michaelsaenz380]

I got excited when you said you wanted 7 kids because I'm one of 7 kids lol. I can understand why you wouldn't want that many though. My house is basically a 24/7 circus.

[@vvn_choy]

Hi Jen & Ben! I absolutely adore this series and am excited for more!

[@lizroh6574]

Yayyyy!! I'm already loving this series!!! Can't wait for more videos

[@angelaohh]

This video was so happy! I would love to learn more about what it was like for you two navigating an interracial relationship!

[@sarahkobayashi451]

Genuinely enjoyed this! Looking forward to more :)

[@Beeleeteecee]

I’m usually more into beauty videos but it’s always good to try something new, right? I really appreciated your videos about the difficulties you faced postpartum, and continue to respect your honesty here. I’d like to see an episode on your relationship and parenthood. You said your love for one another reached a new level after having Aria. Did that happen automatically or did you have to work out some things? (For many couples parenthood introduces new problems like different expectations for sharing baby duties, differences in parenting skills and styles, etc.)

[@mindofiris]

I would love to see an episode on taking your time to marriage. Or how a man should treat a woman.

[@thecodexclub4742]

you guys are so cute! love these

[@AnnaChung]

This was too cute!! Thank you for the video 😆

[@tamibeaulieu1865]

I really liked Ben's answer about fitting together, it reminded me of how we used to be

[@denaomi]

I loved this new series, Jen!! You guys are adorable couple!! And I'd like to know how you divide the home tasks rs. Kisses from Brazil.

[@Superduperreverb]

He outpunted the coverage for sure. Congrats to him.

[@jennychang6640]

That was so lovely. Thanks for being so honest!

[@DeliaX]

ben's fav movie is star wars and he's wearing a star wars shirt ahaha

[@donnapiraino3323]

You two are so cute.....Umm you guys don't need advice you got this 👏🏻

[@JannaCookie]

That was the sweetest video! You two are so perfect and sweet to each other!

[@issabelaroldan2963]

Thank you so much for posting this! My fiancé and I watched this together and we learned so much from you guys! Our questions are: What was one of the biggest obstacles you two had to face together? How did you solve it?

[@maingedang]

so cute! looking forward to this series :)

[@graceannapetty1350]

you guys are so cute. I've followed your channel for so many years and it's really exciting to see some of how you are together.

[@mikixo5046]

I heard about the 5 love languages when i was doing work experience with some psychologists and honestly think it would be amazing for you guys to do a video! I don't think enough people know about it! It's so simple but so interesting. i absolutely adore you two❤❤❤

[@carmel9t]

I love these thank you 💜

[@bethforeverafterr]

You guys have been together since I’ve been born... that’s a long time 😱

[@lachouapor]

I love how much you laugh with each other

[@nanakitano]

You're such a cute and wonderful couple!!! Loving this series ❤ being in a relationship that will burn you later.. that really hit me. It made me overthink my situation at the moment. Thanks for all the great advice 💕

[@misschubbun]

From someone who has been in a relationship for more than 10 years, do you have some days when you just hate each other? For example after a big fight or after a hard day when the other person is being very demanding. I have these. Is this normal?

[@ziyanliu6327]

OMG I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FOR SOOOO LONG!!!

[@msaelee916]

Love this series! ♥️

[@xxSkaterGurl4everxx]

You two have a beautiful relationship. Both of you have great values and are amazing! :)

[@Mallerlyn]

I love this type of videos you have started to make

[@rachaelbell1541]

I loved the editing in this!

[@jenachu8008]

You two are so cute! Please keep doing more videos like this!!!

[@judysito]

So nice of you to share your life with us