Ask Nick - BF Doesn’t Know My Real Age | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

[@brittanypowers7354]

first caller... 100% he got back with his ex wife

[@soussoub7704]

Exactly my guess too

[@jessicaholt7292]

That’s what I think! Or it wasn’t an ex wife at all , it was his current wife….

[@lolamar6064]

If he was even divorced, but I totally agree he was in a relationship already with someone else.

[@lauramoor7730]

Ohh yes

[@Itzummlizzie]

I thought the same

[@ningyding]

Ghosting is clear communication that the person is a selfish, untrustworthy coward. That’s ALL you need to know.

[@dr_power.]

Yes…agree. And he doesn’t care about you! That’s all you need to know.

[@goldeng6rl]

I really liked the advice Nick gave to the first caller! “focus on the WHAT” I needed to hear that

[@monikablue5068]

Her lying about her age is a big deal. Especially if he wants children. The therapy is not working for her if she has not came clean already.

[@Christine19x]

Therapy only works if you want to work on it… she’s probably only just realizing the impact of her lying and she might not be ready to work on it

[@dr_power.]

Love the discussion @ the beginning of this w Nick & Justin. Thanks Nick for calling out these f’d up social trends & expressing your critical opinions. Ask Nick is sooo much better than the pop culture, gossipy episodes.

[@blakeclancy7741]

That second caller is about to be single...

[@karenschell9822]

With the first caller, why did he live in a different state than his children? That is a reason I wouldn’t want to date him at all, and only recently divorced, it’s all red flags. And long distance relationship too.

[@amberzable5608]

Caller #1 I am sorry this happened to you and Nick did such a good job with this. Loved his advice with you. You will get through this ❤

[@Christine19x]

Second caller… am I the only one who would be out in a heart beat after a lie like that?! maybe you can rebuild trust but I can’t 😂

[@nk47100]

If she had said it early on it could be different but yeah, 9 mos is a long time

[@lolamar6064]

Caller 1- the dude 100% had another woman in his life he is committed too, it's his ex or someone new. Caller 2 - the guy is not going to care about the age, it's the lying that is going to be a big issue.

[@karinaeckert1806]

So why are we allowing this ghosting thing? If I was dating someone for 6 months, with a clearly defined relationship and they stopped responding to me I would show up at their house. If you want to break up, you need to say it to me. Not just stop talking to me. I wouldn’t allow it. Force the conversation.

[@lauramoor7730]

Oh my God that’s what I was thinking same I would totally go back and knock on his door and be like what the actual why are you acting this way? What happened? Where are you? How are you? What is going on? I would never be able to just sit in my room and have all these questions in my head after six months never I wouldn’t even be able to do it after three months

[@lauramoor7730]

I would even contact his parents honestly, I would not be OK with this I would probably even contact his ex on Instagram or something. Honestly honestly I would get so mad.

[@jenmcclelland23]

nick: people are always diluting the meaning of words! also nick: being ghosted must have been really traumatic.

[@laurab5849]

Triggering! He gaslit you!

[@ms_trial]

First caller starts at 13:40 🤠

[@FosterJen91]

First Caller - when you are in situations that you start ruminating on all the WHY questions, instead think why am I going to give this another second of my mental energy when he couldnt even send a text. Leave it at that. Dont allow yourself down that road.

[@acd1168]

It’s her ego. Her ego is bruised. I agree that she shouldn’t entertain those thoughts.

[@soapyfankatie]

ghosting is so shitty. Blessings it didn't work out

[@StefaniAndino-e8k]

Nick, why don't you do an update episode? Where you call the people back and get updates on their situations?

[@ebstudio9525]

He does follow ups but its on patreon his paid podcast.

[@laurab5849]

Caller #1: he’s not gonna randomly pop up. Sorry Nick. Guys that do that are ones who you went out with twice or chatted with on the app and they disappeared only to pop back up half a year later. This man will not. Caller #2: I have been lied to about 4 times about age by men. Two times it was guys saying they were older than they were. Each time I found out on my own when I looked up their last name in the judicial system website. Each time they acted shocked that I looked them up. Each time I ended it cuz that’s stupid shit and dumb ass thing to lie about. I have no sympathy for someone who lies about something that can easily be disproved and cannot be changed…like why lie about something that someone can find out about you if they did a google search?

[@lauriefarmer2821]

Im older...when did ghosting become a thing? As God awful some of my ex boyfriends were, they broke up with me . They probably would have done it via text if that was around. Ghosting is absolutely the cruelest thing a person can do

[@haven7791]

Maybe it was just nerves and how she ia used to coping, but it felt like she almost felt it was funny. I don't think he will feel she is sincere in being truely sorry for doing it but more being sorry she has to come clean. Did anyone else get that feeling?

[@joanne8084]

wtf Nick I wanted to hear the wedding girls final text to her aunt before u cut her off!!!

[@ebstudio9525]

AI is like Y2K- a nothing burger. I don’t think Google on a necklace is going to be the end of art and civilization.

[@lauramoor7730]

The second caller I feel so bad for her because I have been in the situation myself, but it did end. OK we’re still together. He did question me about many things afterwards for the next one two years he was kinda insecure about my words and things that I said if I was lying or not, but we built up a really good foundation of trust and it ended up being OK. He’s also much older than I am anyway so it’s not like it was a big deal. This is a little bit different because she is much older than you, but I think she’s not gonna end up single if he really loves her he will get mad. I hope you get mad because if he doesn’t then he really doesn’t care about anything really and then he will get over it because he loves her.

[@claudiapawlak6894]

This is all happening . Some girls look for a Daddy figure , love & financial security. Boys look for a Mother figure. When one is giving 100% & the other is looking for a fantacy. Dream Boy & Dream Girl is ultimately an ultra relationship. But sexual attraction is a couple.

[@jannettemorris7540]

Nick holding the liar 🤥 feet to the fire 🔥 in a good way ❤

[@seven92023]

First caller should see the red flags better. It's a long distance, he's divorced with toxic ex, custody battle and his kids need him. She is 33, not 13, she can move on and not dwell on it. Second caller who lied about her age is example that women lie and can't communicate either. Yet they complain about men. He should breakup with her if she reveals the lie or he discovers it.

[@0104blackpearl]

First of all why would you date a man that just got divorced. C’mon. Let’s be realistic. Save the tears & be glad he ghosted you.

[@LaaLaa901]

Where is Sedan?

[@Queenb1148]

The age thing isn’t that serious!!!

[@Queenb1148]

The lie is horrible but with it being just about age it wouldn’t be that hard to fix

[@hannahadams1207]

Linkedin isn’t always accurate with the “likes” and when they’re shown. That man could be not alive especially with the health insurance question

[@Tatiana-rz6nk]

Lmao he’s alive, she said he changed his job position…

[@LysetteOne]

Disagree

[@Easyservice-x8q]

I saw your KZbin video has many subscribers but few viewers, if you want to get more viewers in each video.