Ask TSL: Questions Girls Always Wanted To Ask Guys

In this episode of Ask TSL, we got our MANLIEST MEN to answer questions we got from our females viewers. Let me just tell you, it got HECTIC!
Here are the questions that were answered:
0:00 - Introduction
0:40 - Do men feel intimidated when their girlfriends/ wives earn more than them?
1:43 - If a couple begins to live together, how should duties like household chores and child rearing be split?
2:48 - Are girls who are short and small more attractive?
4:05 - Where do guys go for relationship advice?
6:05 - Are attention-seeking girls irritating, or do guys actually find that cute?
7:03 - Do guys share about their sex lives with their bros?
8:15 - Why is marriage so terrifying for many guys?
9:58 - Why do some men have mostly female friends? Is that a red flag?
11:08 - Does a female’s attractiveness drop if she wishes to get intimate on the first date?
12:43 - Occasionally, some girls can get bitchy about how other girls look, is it the same for guys?
13:46 - What do you think about periods?
15:43 - What are some things that females have misconceptions of?
16:53 - Guys in Singapore are quite passive and shy when it comes to dating, but are intimidated when a girl asks them out. What’s going on?!
18:05 - What are your thoughts when girls say that ‘men are trash’?
20:26 - Outro & Thoughts
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[@TheSmartLocal]

The subs have been fixed! Thanks for pointing it out :)

[@faithkityee4436]

Bolin.. I'm 144cm!! And 24 years old.

[@3l0390]

hafeez be giving bf vibes throughout this video

[@Jun-si4db]

suddenly hafeez is so mature and attractive from this interview sia, im completely charmed by him even tho mandon is usually more my type lol. bolin ah bolin, too much piak piak this episode alr haha i feel like i only learnt things from hafeez and john

[@hyfrdeena]

These 4 combinations gives off chaotic good energy and im here for it.

[@TheSmartLocal]

Bolin: Chaotic The other 3: Good Energy

[@crazyunicorn527]

WHO EDITED THIS VIDEO?!?!??! MADE IT 100X MORE FUNNY! GIVE A PAY RAISE TO THE EDITOR

[@keykibum789]

Derek Lou

[@valunaristic]

Omg yas i agreee

[@tens1on37]

Ya man this video is lit

[@JR-ep4wr]

Ikr, go watch the girl version of this lmao its even more crackhead!

[@arisalim651]

john's maturity gives me hope for the rest of the male population

[@matildawormwood4181]

Quote of the century: She give you iPad you give her sanitary pad...

[@Jinnlongg]

Next episode make it Guys would always want to ask girls.

[@TheSmartLocal]

Are girls hard to understand? 🤔

[@yugiwinninglex]

@@TheSmartLocal are guys hard to understand? 🤔

[@shanice8705]

@@yugiwinninglex are both hard to understand ? 🤔

[@Rider_412xd]

@@TheSmartLocal the legendary question that has not been answered

[@leechong2291]

Shld hv Renae on d team as her answers r ALWAYS SO HILARIOUS & REAL, unless tsl hs to censor them n make her read fm their script 🤣🤣🤣

[@phoebeyulin]

Bolin is like that one friend who's an expert in relationships but is still single

[@Lucidityco]

Coaches don't play Lol

[@runawayroof]

If TSL gets a dollar every time Bolin says piak piak, they’ll prolly get enough to buy the team a meal lol Agree with the majority of the comments though, would love to hear more from Hafeez and Mandon. Generally more air time for the rest of them.

[@user-ft5hw9yi3m]

1. Chemistry 2. Character 3. Core Dude I can't agree more. Solid advice, Mandon!

[@mochi-ko]

Boly is one who can have a one hour conversation with himself.

[@genevieve2601]

yo hafeez is mad attractive in this video hahaha

[@jot23]

Very impressed with Hafeez' responses, esp the point about communicating with our partners first before approaching others. Would love to hear more from him tbh.

[@JustJiaYi]

“alpha is an energy” “alpha is a state of mind” PREACH o m g finally someone called out fake alphas (sorry bolin)

[@VendyHalim]

Bring Hafeez and John to Zula for further conversations ~

[@leafleaf5320]

Whoever edited this video deserves to be PRAISED I literally can’t stop laughing-

[@tankailing1389]

The editor was high when editing this lmao. But the edits are awesome 🤣

[@Bubbleteafication]

without the editing some of the things said can be taken so negatively and wrongly, so props to editor! protects the talents

[@irondeadshot4926]

From this video, I've learnt that not all guys are the same. Just like these 4 personalities, each one of them have their own unique charms and experiences. To the girls who read these comment, Choose your men/ life partner wisely. :)

[@jielcm2726]

Waiting patiently

[@jimw8615]

This is how guys talk. One will dominate, he talks but don’t listen. Some no chance to talk, so become quiet. The rest say a bit here and there. But can’t have serious conversations with a group of guys. One or two for serious stuff will work. Definitely, not in a group.

[@irockmore1000]

I want to hear more of Mandon's comments and thoughts!! He should be featured in zula chick chats toooo

[@Love.RoslynnAria]

Haven't play the video but need a partner like Hafeez. Period.

[@keing6256]

Hafeez dresses well man, appreciate it bruh

[@blueluvly1927]

TSL edits getting better and better, this is the funniest vid I've ever watched 🤣🤣😂😂😂 Mandon sounds like a good friend to talk with 👏

[@mugetsurasengan5234]

This is really a good episode. I enjoyed it. Thank you.

[@giogelwee5077]

omg i love the editing on this video it’s so funny HAHAHAH

[@joshualee6765]

im perfectly ok with the female to be the breadwinner and im ok being a stay at home father!!!!! but u gotta make some kinda income to add to the table even if its less then the female... it evens out if u are doing both to make the female feel at ease that ur not freeloading or taking advantage... so maybe its a 2 way street on both genders if they feel intimidated or not?

[@joshualee6765]

@ssvegeto well im not in singapore so yea... cost of living is much lower in the usa then singapore... my cousins made 35k a year n his wife made 125k n they been married over close to 25 years so ya it works

[@the98liner]

Actually, between me and my boyfriend, I'd prefer for him to stay home if needed while I work. Just because he loves children more than me so I think he'll be better at taking care of our (future) kids. I don't think he really minds either, but given how singapore is, both of us will need to work to live a decently comfortable life. Anyway, I think mindsets among the younger generation are slowly changing, so there's probably more girls who are willing to have stay-home husbands now. It's also important to consider if men want to stay home instead of working. Some men may feel like they need to fulfill the traditional role of being the breadwinner, because that's how they were brought up to think. I feel the other comment is a little too exaggerated and one-sided.

[@haokai1872]

I got baby powder ad when they were talking about Piak Piak

[@TheSmartLocal]

👁👄👁

[@amandalin28]

This video was actually very insightful especially from John. But Bolin honestly made it very difficult to continue watching. The way he talk is so irritating and he talks way too much.

[@Transidify]

Bolin can consider starting a relationship podcast... I’d listen

[@TheSmartLocal]

Confirm rated✨ R21 ✨

[@Transidify]

@@TheSmartLocal “Confirm R21” - perfect podcast title LOL

[@pinkdino4475]

wah cannot halfway i got a headache from bolín talking. Producer shld give others more airtime.

[@melwu4839]

Yes I agree with you

[@sparkling1024]

lol Bolin "i make sure you and my hand have a relationship" HAHAHAH

[@hamburger_milkshake1585]

This was fun to watch but Bolin talk too much la, can say other thing other than piak piak or not haha

[@crsytaltan]

THIS EPISODE IS FREAKING FUNNY HAHAHAHA i feel like an awkward female friend listening to my male friends talk about relationships n them joking around LMAO

[@rxchxlhuxng]

omg love this episodes. Best combi and best editing omg

[@summerswift13]

Would love to see more of Hafeez and Mandon in videos like these where they share their insights and thoughts. I do appreciate and like John's advice as well but it gets a bit boring as I'd know what are his answers based on past videos where he has talked about similar topics.

[@muttonface9032]

WHO EVER EDITED THIS PLEASE PLEASE IDK WAT TO SAY BUT UR THE BEST , THESE 4 BLOKS + THIS EDITOR OOOOOMMMMGGG KEEP IT THIS WAY

[@zzsiyingzz]

This Bolin is like a unker full of rage LOL. Died at the reactions from the others 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cathsees]

HECTIC& HILARIOUS. Love their vibe! &When Bolin mentioned 白马王子 I had to look at Mandon Glimmeringly-白 😆❤️

[@jasmine4777]

Is majority of the men out there more like Bolin or more like John? Because if they are mostly Bolins, I -

[@planetplum]

The editing rlly elevated the humor

[@demonetization6596]

Editing is on point and hilarious

[@ThumbsUpUpAndAway]

Good editing Derek!

[@hom3r]

lol think need girls to control bolin, the guys are very gentleman to stop him from piaking

[@TheSmartLocal]

Sew would have punched him 🤜🏻 👦🏻

[@jamie-1011]

whether or not what bolin says makes sense, the passion when he talks is just 🤣🤣

[@poopsiedaisy530]

First time see Hafeez so serious and helpful hahahaha

[@daverugbyboy]

Kudos to the editors job well done👏

[@stupid5yo]

ugh i love bolin’s chaotic energy hahahahhahahaha

[@rarityandSElover]

i Love the editing style for this video!! good job editor

[@rarityandSElover]

this is one of my faaav episodes in a long while

[@xZeerah]

I can totally imagine bolin as a grab or uber driver 😂

[@ARose-td5fn]

To give Bolin benefit of doubt, he was trying to keep that image of being an ah Beng, so he talks about going to clubs and talks in a brash and crude manner. But I think that’s as much of an excuse I can think of. It’s sad for him that he can only gravitate toward the topic of sex, like that is all relationships can gift a person with. It’s something teenage boys can joke about among their friends, but him joking about it in his late twenties is not in good taste, especially if you’re looking at the population TSL reaches out to, which could be teens or primary school children. Inadvertently, as much as social media influencers try to escape this responsibility, their words & behaviour will impress upon the viewers. Also, is being of legal age a free pass to act immorally and to satisfy carnal passions? Young adults need to all the more temper their passions to live a virtuous life. Being an adult & dignified person is not all about having sex, to have this as your life goal, you’ll never be happy. Perhaps also it is of Bolin’s friendship circle that causes him to act this way. As he has mentioned in the video, his friends give him poor advice to “break up with the girl” if you’re not happy. Again, a falsity that you need to “feel” happy in a relationship perpetually. Law of diminishing returns means, e.g, having the same ice cream every day and you’ll naturally get bored of it. Relationships shouldn’t be viewed like that. It takes commitment and discernment. Don’t rush into a relationship if you’ve nothing to offer but go in with a greedy mindset. Don’t rush into a relationship if all you want is the sexual satisfaction you gain from your partner.

[@JohnSmith-oi5hh]

I agree with you in principle as I too share a more conservative moral compass. But consider this. If it were a female, your post would be labelled by modern liberal thinkers as 'slut-shaming' and her promiscuity would simply be regarded as being 'sexually confident'. Being promiscuous and sex-indulgent isn't against the law, but it's certainly not a moral or good behavior for anyone.

[@ProjectElf]

John is seriously damn mature. That's y i love him the most in tsl!

[@tsunaide]

Bolin was so confusing xD need Bolin translation

[@TheSmartLocal]

Producer, editor and subtitler all confused 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@TheFarhahcute]

Is it just me but John is more attractive now than before? Especially in this video like wth he's such a bf material, all his advice is damn mature and useful

[@nk9501]

Yoooo i love this episodeee. 4 diff perspective! There are somethings bois are really clueless about man. 🤣🤣 john seems mature in his advice, bolinnnn is funnny. Walauu. And hafeez just gives mad good boy vibes man

[@Venus0728]

John is such a SNAG...love.. and I love how Mandon and Hafeez tried to be the middle ground between Bolin who’s a guy that all gals shd shun ...and John who’s sensitive...bolin, can don’t keep “piak piak”, gals hate a guy who only has sex in their mind ..cmon , we are not some sex object ..some more we are in an equal status in this society ..and in the earlier part of the conversation, we were talking about a female partner with a higher income and still be look upon like your sex slave , it’s damn pathetic

[@SKSk-be9kj]

good episode!

[@leechong2291]

Hahaha, our tsl ah beng CANNOT contain himself anymore bcos he's been so QUIET in d past few clips tgt with his NEW carpark lot 😂🤣😂🤣

[@awkwardsmile]

I agree 😂😂

[@lonerslqnd_]

Oof periods have weird smells because it's like toxins in the blood (something like that) that exits a female body plus it comes out from the private part so of course it doesn't smell nice. girls feel like it's disgusting is because they can insecure about it like they are the first people to have it among their friends and like let's be honest. Who wouldn't be disgusted with blood coming out of your body? Because when wearing a pad especially, it's collecting the blood and it's coming out every second. It just feels very heavy, sweaty and just dirty down there also it feels like you're peeing yourself- so yeah. That's what i can say from experience i guess?? And for the girl not telling Bolin when she was having her period, i think i understand. It's because it's weird and awkward to tell a stranger that you have your period and some more it's a guy y'know?

[@valeriietan]

Mandon is so attractive pls 🥺 but also CUTE VIDEO i love the energy from all the guys here 💕💕

[@mokumokuro7929]

Omg this editing is golden sia HAHA

[@myrnflaw9382]

Yall got new editor ah??? Damn funny sia the editing HAHAHA

[@tigerbeer1231]

love the chaotic

[@beckychocobox]

Lolz loved this video and all the interactions 😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@xueying2210]

hearts are breaking when Mandon says "165cm, minimum" U STILL CUTE THO! ♥

[@nisrinaf6463]

Part 2 plsss

[@namelessjr3760]

mandon very 帅 🥺

[@theodorekoh4963]

Girl panel for next vid: Sew, renae, jes, adria

[@TheSmartLocal]

actually, you got half correct - it's sew, renae, brenda and leah :D

[@theodorekoh4963]

@@TheSmartLocal nubbad, at least i passed

[@chocolatesprout]

John is the kind of guy friend every girl needs~

[@pinkbroccolli]

when mandon rolled his eyes HAHAH

[@kaneandtaker100]

Dude, Bolin talk until damn cringe throughout this whole episode. Calm down bro.

[@parrygoh8369]

To Derek ( the editor) wah.... you damn what sia 🤣🤣🤣 you edit to this.... I speechless sia😅😅😅

[@derekkklou]

HAHA! :)

[@parrygoh8369]

@@derekkklou don't mind my horrible English 😅😅😅

[@ericalow4230]

Omg my tummy hurts from laughing too much. This is one of the best combinations 👍🏻

[@zhenjie5574]

why no one mentioned about the part where Bolin is saying the alpha in the analogy of animal kingdom when lion meets an elephant - 3:48. funny sia! how true is that for those NAT GEO (narrated by Sir David Attenborough) fans out there would be very interested if there are chances with topics touching on "when mentality meets reality" Editor needs a pay raise! good one!

[@yawenkoh2871]

14:20 omg we need more guys like this 🙆

[@SJuly-mg1xf]

Wow, Bolin’s ah beng level 😂😂

[@julia04]

bolin most relatable lmao even tho im a female i appreciate the brutal honesty lmao

[@wn776]

14:02 John's nice save. almost say wrong thing, go back home kneel on durian shells.

[@TheSmartLocal]

👁💧👄💧👁

[@Bookerer]

Should have a serious version and joke version of this video, bolin isnt really giving good advice. Rather, it seems like hes there to get advice lmao

[@alonecozydot195]

john thx for ur wise words

[@soapy2587]

THE EDITOR IS SERIOUS THE BEST!! PAYRAISE NOW🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nursyazwani5598]

Died at 12:56 when John did a reenactment of one of From Faris & Syak's skit hahahahaha SHELALU SHELALU SHELALU

[@dawnho7744]

Interesting, this topic and the surprising answers that were given.. My conclusion: John, Hafeez and Mandon are more mature with handling girls. *Disclaimer: The above is just my thought. Bolin's answers fit his character.

[@reinardusaditya5497]

Yea i have to agree on airtime with the rest of the commenters, and things are kept being repeated. I know maybe this is just a casual talk shoot, maybe that's why? Maybe having a moderator would be better on more 'heavier' talks like this?

[@lanaitgirl]

Agreed, could have taken zula’s format

[@OMGLoCodoCo]

Wah the chaotic energy

[@adhiantos]

I think we need a Mandon x Bolin combo in one video hahaha

[@Qoonutz]

4 guys on a 3 seater sofa. 😨

[@TheSmartLocal]

Actually it’s ok but Bolin is XL size

[@SUNNY-kj7vv]

EH HOW DID JOHN ENDED UP SINGING HARUDANG HARUDANG 😭😂😂 I SWEAR THAT'S THE FUNNIEST BIT IN THIS VIDEO WITH THE FIREEEEE 🔥

[@shooekt8851]

bolin was a little too overbearing this episode... wish he would talk alittle less

[@bellel8853]

that’s his personality trait leave him alone HAHAHAHAHA

[@ARose-td5fn]

@@bellel8853 but his responses were not in good taste. It’s sad that all he talks about leads to sex, it’s disrespectful to women to be seen only as objects to relieve his tendencies

[@bellel8853]

@@ARose-td5fn that’s true and sad

[@viedinh9072]

Hi I am Vietmese girl ( Sorry if my English is not good ). I want to know more about SG people. My boyfriend is Singaporen and he suggested me this channel and this is also my first video , I feel excited with your questions which related to the couple and yes everyone has own opinions. But for my opinion, all your standard will be broken if you really like someone. You will change yourself or find ways to build the relationship with her so even she are taller than u/ shorter than u..no problem. About the frist question if your wife earn more than u, it's up to personality of both of you and this is a hard problem in life. But you cant require 1. She must be beautiful ( Always look good, smell good, neatly ) 2. Cook well 3. Fashionale 4. Rearing baby well 5. Smart 6. Earn many money => You can find this type of girl but as long as you are rich.

[@ericachoi6867]

LMAO HAFEEZ AT 1:41 AND 11:41

[@gummyypeach]

This ep I cant finish without cringing la. Keep mentioning piak piak to the point its disturbing. Bolin maybe if he cant control his hormones he should go relieve himself first. I also wanna hear the other guys give their sensible input

[@fireboykhai]

Tbh, I fast forwarded some of Bolin's part. Because the other guys gives more concrete advice.

[@joshualee6765]

derek the editor i praise u for adding the why is he talking again edits in when bolin talks... no offense to bolin but its like he loves to be the center of attention and he loves to hear himself talk... its a tad bit overbearing to be honest idk if he is trying to be funny but the others had more legit things to say then bolin.. he feels the need to chime in it seems! sew or brenda needs to be a median to control bolin 🤣🤣🤣🤣 put a electric dog collar on him ahahahahahaha

[@awkwardsmile]

NoooOoOoOooOoooO

[@soapy2587]

I dont think he does it on purpose to overshadow the rest, i know these type of people its just their nature

[@boombutton3452]

i love their chemistry and vibes

[@DilaZulfi]

Hafeez suddenly so charming bf material here

[@cherrygurlxoxo]

I Love this its hilarious man HAHA

[@chitraneman1620]

Bolin is hilarious... 😂😂😂

[@howtolift5945]

what are the background music used in this vid?

[@zzopL]

the guy wearing black jacket is quite funny LOL also I like how he (the guy wearing black top) fraise it *guide to love*