ASMR Close Whisper: The Blight of Procrastination (Ramble)

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2 ай бұрын

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@nitedai333 2 ай бұрын

I've always felt like I've been cursed with a spell of procrastination. It's been my biggest enemy for life 😭

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

It gets to the best of us! 😭🧡

@theokchannel2081 2 ай бұрын

Please continue to vent to us. I really appreciate it. It is nice to be leaned on. Also, you're helping keeping me accountable with my journaling and I really need to do that to stay out of my funk

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

I’m glad that my videos can help you in the same way that you guys are wonderful support to me as well, thank you for your kindness. 🧡

@MasterTainment 2 ай бұрын

I love your ASMR. You're so wise and insightful. You seem like a fantastic friend.

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

I really appreciate this so much, thank you 🥹🧡

@Zack-fk4iw 2 ай бұрын

I have been fighting similar habits all my life. I'm sure its well documented somewhere but I feel a bizarre sense of anxiety and apprehension when it comes to completing small tasks. Making phone calls, sending e-mails, running small errands. Things like that. It is a very self sabotaging behavior and I don't know why I do it.

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

Yesss exactly! It can be the simplest task, but it feels so overwhelming and scary in the moment. Why our brains do this, I truly do not know. 🥹🧡

@HolyCannoli97 2 ай бұрын

I appreciate the all these uploads!

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you like them! 🧡

@Deltorane 2 ай бұрын

Your makeup just looks so pretty 🥰

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! 🥹🧡

@FlyingPurplePizzas Ай бұрын

Procrastination is awesome. If it can't be procrastinated, then it's not worth doing. And avoiding human interaction, I am the master of that. Being cynical is so satisfying too. It feels like I being being realistic, though I suspect that is just an excuse for not wanting to put in the work of seeing things in a more positive way. Your message is very relatable.

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

Procrastination is inevitable for me, but I don’t always like that I put myself in the position of it! 😂🧡

@T0FFII Ай бұрын

I said I would only procrastinate for a few days & then 27 years passed by. Anw still in love with the hair n look! ❤

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

Hahaha that’s how it goes, thank you! 🧡

@audi80fan34 2 ай бұрын

Your voice is very beautiful and I feel relaxed and sleepy. P.S: Thank you for the wonderful video. Love greetings Oliver

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

Thank you so much, as always. 🧡

@Frenchy4 Ай бұрын

I’ve been wanting to join the membership for the emojis of course! Although It’s been tough to find how to do so. Also a biscuit appearance would be cool in the future 😻

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

I think I may leave it in my description from now on as I’ve noticed that sometimes the join button just isn’t present, so here is the link if you did want to still, otherwise I appreciate you always being here regardless! 🧡 kzbin.info/door/SEZiP03f6nMkxrcT8h-IcQjoin

@kaylapinkerman4617 Ай бұрын

Coincidentally I’ve been trying to be more conscious of/get rid of my “I’ll do it later” mindset. So I relate to this so much. For I’ll see something on the counter that needs to be thrown away or cleaned and I’ll just tell myself “I’ll take care of it later” then leave the room. I do this multiple times and then it never gets done till maybe days later. Having the job I do has definitely been helping bc I can’t just walk past a dogs kennel, see they’ve had an accident or something, and just leave it.

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

I am sooo experiencing that right now with the simplest of tasks like picking up my room!! It’s good to have those duties that do force you into a “I have no choice but to do it” position though. Thank you for your comment! 🧡

@kunalchand6347 2 ай бұрын

Excellent content. Thank you.

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching! 🧡

@jono3175 2 ай бұрын

Another banger of a video 🔥💪🏾

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 🧡🧡

@itsoceanaaa7586 2 ай бұрын

The goat posted once again😮‍💨

@calciferASMR 2 ай бұрын

😩💪🏻🧡

@BAGGAGE123 2 ай бұрын

❤

@rakel.m6 Ай бұрын

are you in my head? :0 this is so annoying to deal with. thank you for your ranting videos, they are so comforting!

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

Great minds think (or struggle 😂) alike hahaha, thank you so much for your kindness. 🧡

@Toykotony 2 ай бұрын

You look beautiful and I love every single one of your videos. I love everything about this channel and I’m so happy for you.

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your support. 🧡

@retired55. 2 ай бұрын

Awesome asmr no fluff🎉

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 🧡

@Joe-xp9mb 2 ай бұрын

W video love love it great channel 💛💛💛💛

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

Thank you so much! 🧡🧡

@pasttense69 2 ай бұрын

I’ll be editing the comment if I have anything to add. I think it’s fairly common especially for people who are in their early twenties to procrastinate like this. It’s funny that there’s still that child in us that’s like oh yeah my mom/dad can do this for me. That probably doesn’t go away, but it’s a very loud voice when we’re getting into our adult lives. I laughed when you mentioned being 12 because you can’t clean your room. There’s a lot of factors that can lead to that behavior. Maybe it’s the ADHD in me, or the mountain that is life. Sometimes it’s just comfortable to sit in something that feels familiar even if it’s a messy room. Of course clean it up eventually, but there’s that word. eventually lmao I resonate heavily with your sentiment about reaching out to family. It’s sometimes exhausting to even tell people thank you and have that conversation with them. That may sound stuck up to some people, but everyone’s life is different. We all have our reasons for feeling that way. One thing i want to add on is that we shouldn’t be too hard on ourselves about leaving things for later. That’s not to say you should accept it and become lazy. Sometimes you just don’t want to, or can’t muster up the energy to do so. Does it make sense almost ever? Absolutely not, and I couldn’t explain it to you even if wanted to. (You just went over this right after i commented… oops) Two things. There’s absolutely no reason to get mad at someone for being pessimistic. It can certainly be frustrating for yourself and people around you, but that doesn’t warrant getting upset at them. Support them and talk them through their feelings on whatever the pessimism is about. Second this is that there is absolutely no reason to apologize for “whining”. I don’t see it as whining at all. You’re speaking on issues that you experience in your life. Whining would suggest that the issues you’re describing are pointless and get over it. That’s not a healthy way to approach someone who is confiding in you about their experiences

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

I absolutely appreciate how thoughtful you are with your comments, and how you’re processing these thoughts with me as the video progresses! 🥹 I will say, I probably knock myself down quite often when it comes to saying certain things in these videos because I assume people will pull out “there’s bigger problems” card, and so I feel as though I want to establish that I ‘know’ there’s more going on outside of me, but it’s also good for me to know that I don’t *have* to do that because talking through the little things is good! I’ll get there hahaha. But thank you, again. I’ve loved reading through this. 🧡

@LowriderMikeTreBirdsong Ай бұрын

This is My Fourth Time Leaving a Comment on one of your videos Haley And Overall, This is my One Hundredth Tenth ASMR Video I'm leaving a comment on! But, Procrastination is The Worst Nightmare to go through in Life Especially in My Scenarios I got to wait Every Monday to get something finished Because, It's The Start Something New Day when I can get some stuff finished on any day of The Week! It don't got to be on Mondays to start something new to me though Haley and that's get annoying for me on my part and that's a Mission Failed! But, I would Procrastinate a lot when it something that I want to do at The Perfect Time And That's Where The Annoying Perfectionism Parts Comes into play is where Examples would be, I want My House to be peace and quiet Because, I do live with a Disability I do live with Autism and I do get sensitive to loud noises from times and it's hard to focus at times when some of them distractions get the best of me and when some people come over and when The House gets loud that's where I stop Getting Some Stuff Finished, And, That's when I start procrastinating where I think to Myself, I'm get My Lyrics Finished On Monday or Make a Video on a day where My Mom is not playing Any Copyrighted Music ETC... Amongs other Excuses that puts My Black Ass Behind on Things LMAO!😆😆😆 But, All I'm saying is, Procrastination is a Total Nightmare and it's a Mission Failed to deal with Haley! And, It is The Worst! I know I you want to be Successful and I want to be too as well I want to be successful for My Music Career, My Social Media Influencer Career, And My Professional Wrestling Career, And, Going After for My Dream Vehicle is The 2016 Alfa Romeo Gulia Quadrifoglio when it comes to Manifestation and to so for me is, To Not Procrastinate in life and get some stuff finished and for you Haley, It's Frustrating to go through that infamous hot mess to go through. But, Don't Let That Procrastination Get The Best of you and I don't want that to get The Best of Me Either! But, Avoid All of The Distractions that get the best of you and don't let that bother you for you to go out your way and Procrastinate Haley But, You got this girl Mission Complete and I got Faith in you that you are going to Complete your Missions in life to not Procrastinate! But, Great Video, And, This Comment is Finished!🙂😎🖤🖤

@stone_fruit Ай бұрын

Girl have you had testing for ADHD by chance? Because I’m currently going through the process of receiving a late (adult) diagnosis and everything you’re saying is like right on the nose - what you’re describing is straight up executive disfunction and I even heard some rejection anxiety. It’s so hard to deal with and just being aware of it and paying attention to it is so important. You’re doing an amazing job and you’re not alone ❤

@calciferASMR Ай бұрын

I have not had the testing done, I’ve thought about it, but I sometimes worry that people would judge me if I brought up the idea of it or they would bring up “everyone else deals with that, it’s not (xyz mental situation)” But, at the end of the day, it’s absolutely for my well being to ignore such comments. Thank you! 🥹🧡

@stone_fruit Ай бұрын

@@calciferASMR I understand, people treat it really nonchalantly and it’s become the butt if a lot of jokes. The truth is though that it can be debilitating and cause difficulties in so many areas of your life; those struggles are real, and ADHD is no lesser than any other mental health disorder. I recently found out that depression and anxiety can actually be a SYMPTOM of untreated ADHD which blew my mind. You’re so valid and your struggles are not less than. I highly, highly encourage you to look into it; a proper diagnosis can open up a lot of treatment options and provide you with a lot of information and explanation on how and why your brain works the way it does. I wish you so much luck one way or the other 🥰