Amazing video, and I’m sorry for what you’re going through. This video kind of reminded me of a thought that has been crossing my mind a lot recently. My struggles aren’t unique. There are thousands of people that have similar issues to me and I see that all the time online, but people in person all make themselves out to be perfect when I know they can’t be. What I’m trying to get at is that I wish people were able to be weak publicly, if that makes sense. I want to be there for someone just as much as I need someone to be there for me, but life just doesn’t seem to want that. Instead of making “real”, healthy relationships, we’re all parasocializing around each other. I want this to change. I started to be a bit more open with how I’m doing, telling people how it is, not hiding my scars, expressing who I am, but I think the most important thing is telling the few people who do care for me how much I care for them back. It’s kind of a “I’m doing this because I want to be treated like this”, but someone needs to start the chain of kindness, and so I did. That the whole point of this ramble, really. I want whoever is reading this to start their own chain of kindness. Maybe there’s a friend who got you through a tough time, an acquaintance who included you on something, a cashier with a nice smile, or an ASMR artist who said some kind words. I want you to tell them how they made your day better, and maybe, just maybe, we’ll all be a little happier. Thank you for reading this if you got this far.
@EtherealFemboy10 күн бұрын
I read it all.
@centy477310 күн бұрын
@@EtherealFemboy I realize a lot of what I said went based off of people doing good things, and it’s largely because I’ve had a good couple of days for once. I just want to try and pass it along to people who need it, so truly, from the bottom of my heart, I hope things turn back up for you and for all of us for that matter. I deserve it, you deserve it, we all deserve to be happy, no matter what. I believe in you.
@StrawberryKix48712 күн бұрын
Thank you very much for the video! Holidays are always tough, more so now that I'm away from my family, even though it was always... complicated. I hope you find some comfort, too!
@EtherealFemboy12 күн бұрын
You're very welcome! I hope I can make a few people feel a little better, the same way this growing community does for me!
@Nele-nc2vn10 күн бұрын
Thank you for making such a beautiful video. I've been really struggling with loneliness and depression. It sucks. ❤
@EtherealFemboy10 күн бұрын
I’m so happy this could help you. I understand how you feel.
@meden892412 күн бұрын
Omg, i wanna hug you. You seem like such a sweet person. Hearing these emotions in your voice made me tear up a bit and it makes me sad to know that these were genuine emotions, i wish i could help you the way you help all of us
@EtherealFemboy12 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@meden892412 күн бұрын
@EtherealFemboy :) I also wanted to say that we care about you
@GuyThatLikesFrogs11 күн бұрын
Im not from a country that celebrates thanksgiving but this will probably be me during Christmas so ill safe this for than lol
@snqsh202812 күн бұрын
lowkey scared to comment, cant let gang now i fw this :/ but i love the content